The Dark Side of Marrying a South African Man: What You Need to Know
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 เม.ย. 2023
- Are you considering marrying a South African man? While there are many wonderful things about South African culture and people, there are also some potential disadvantages to be aware of. In this video, we'll explore some of the challenges that women may face when marrying a South African man, including cultural differences, communication barriers, and legal issues. By the end of this video, you'll have a better understanding of what to expect if you decide to pursue a relationship with a South African man.
I liked a girl from Malawi and decided to approach her, she told me she was told that south African men are no good. I didn't know what to say to her after that. She was really beautiful, but I had to walk away, and I realised there's love for us out there.
I am from Nigeria and my fiancé is from South Africa 🇿🇦 Xhosa ❤❤ we’ve been together for 6years and the relationship is so gooooood ❤️❤️😩
Yesssssss to amazing relationships ❤️ I am here for it and enjoy love
@@thethemakhele8450 thank you so much mama ❤️🤗😊
My beautiful inlaw, thank you for telling your truth instead of this exegerating and generalizing sister fron God knows where❤❤❤
@@wondermqedlana5615 ❤☺you're loved.
Ok? I had a crush on one Ghanaian lady but could not master the gut to tell her how I felt cause I was told that ladies from the African continent just don't consider South African men good enough in everything... now the love of my life is taken!
You did not have the confidence to tell her how you feel?wow.. confidence is why women like Nigerians because we're not shy..My brother the worst a woman will tell you is am married or I have a boyfriend but if you don't ask her you don't get them.. most girls Nigerians talk to say ah you Nigerian guys are these and that but as a man you keep convincing her until she fall for you.. Bro my advice is always be confident with women, learn to convince them that's how you get the best girl...
From Nigeria 👍🏿
Love your content, a very different perspective to the usual content out on these YT streets.
Yhooooo! Angisakuthandi wena! You truly do have our genes. Your gestures, the lingo youre 🌶❤❤
Well said my sister. Haters are gon' hate, you know mos...don't let them work you up ❤️
I have been getting so many of these messages that I had to let them know that I see your message and please know that I am happy with the person I am with
Watching all the way from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪.... Good job dear.. Keep on keeping on dear 😊
Thank you love and hope you join the family
Well said my sis 😊 you telling the way it is
Enjoy your marriage babe ...God has blessed your Union keep those love and marriage contents coming❤❤❤❤
Thank you love ❤️ I will definitely do that
It's the first time watching you. I like your content already ❤❤❤
Thank you so much
Iyo Africans we have a problem .is amazing how this jealous about South Africans is like cancer .Why are South African dont talk ill of other Africans it shows how great our SOuth African are they are the best in the whole of Africa .they are a threath is shame .is funny how they are minding their business but people cant stop putting them down this are our Kings we love them to bits i dont c myself with any other men expect our own South African men the true they are amazing
You tell them wena girl 💅💅I am with you on this
Most African ladies from African countries not all but majority, they don't want us South African men because of what their people they r telling them..I remember in varsity, it was a problem whenever u start talking about love to a lady from other African country because their families, friends and people from where they r from tell them SA men r abusive and u will not be happy.
Yeah you're right I've seen it happen a lot. My friends were so surprised when I told them I was in a relationship with a South African guy saying they are abusive. I think it's a bad generalization that the rest of us Africans have of South African men .
I get asked in a monthly basis if he hit me, cheated or doesn’t treat me right. It was sad 😞 I feel like some people deprive themselves of love because of what will people say
Let them have it babe. As long as you are happy don’t worry about the rest
It is mainly their foreign guys who instill fears in these women about za men. Fortunately for us, our women are too beautiful, for us to look elsewhere. Ons het mooi dols , ek se. Nca cherries, bo ngwana, bo lala, hey jong.
@@thethemakhele8450 you are open minded, a smart woman, your husband is lucky to have you, and you to have him, good luck and continue loving each, God Bless the both of you and your family.
I love tht bro he is really representing us well S/O to you Makoti
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Welcome home 🙏🏿😂
You have said a mouthful. My advice is to you and hubby: Keep on posting fulfilling content of the two of you and Monet Makhele doing wholesome family activities.
They thought your last relationship was the beginning of a new disaster. Little did they know.
I am sure the person who wrote that DM is a dusty with an ignorant mindset. Shame on them! 💕
Thank you bro sometimes you need to tell people. I am a living testimony 💜
You're so funny thethe 😂😂
Thank you 😂😂
Y south africa is in every Africans mouth I mean everyone who's coming here yyy and we don't do that never
Me subscribing after this☝️
Thank you so much
😂😂😂 the ending of the video, is hilarious.
😂😂😂😂🤣I hope you enjoyed the video
@@thethemakhele8450 extremely you have a funny way of telling stories 🤣🤣🤣
@@sandilegcina8910 😂😂😂I should do more story times neh
@@thethemakhele8450definitely yes 😊😊
You are experiencing what South African women go through when they also date men from other African countries. The common denominator is men and it reminds me of white men who don't want their white daughter to bring home a black man, lol. There is always harrassment, invasive questions, stereotypes and misconceptions. It's actually something that happens in any society when the woman falls in love with someone outside of their own culture because of the phenomenon of mate guarding. It's ridiculous and annoying because women have agency and you can do what you want.
People also have perceptions due to the impressions they get. SA society have developed a stereotype against men from other African countries in which they are regarded to be opportunistic scammers who use women of South Africa as placeholders or a means to an end. That's the dominant narrative. On the flipside, South African men are also perceived as abusive, irresponsible and less masculine from what I have learnt. It's unfortunate and the ignorance doesn't help. In both cases these are just unfair generalizations.
I am sorry for your experience but you have a good head on your shoulders.
Do not pay attention to the haters and enjoy your union ❤
I love you already 😂😂😂❤❤
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Sister's im happy for ur open mind im happy from stereotype thing God bless u n ur marriage
Thank you and people are just jealous because they see that the stereotype is not true
Dankie mama for defending us sa man we are monsters in Africa
You made me laugh 😂
Love it here new subbbie
aibooo what's wrong with people???!! live your life mama
Hey my beautiful queen ❤
Hey hun. Did you enjoy the video
Ay, so sorry sis that you read such comments.
People kodwa shem ay
Jealous people bore me Mcim
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The united states of Africa that everyone is speaking so fondly of is at least a 1000 years in the making. I want to tell my fellow South Africans that people who speak ill at South Africans don't do so out of hatred for South Africans. They do so out of extreme intolerance towards those who are different to them, they do the same thing towards their fellow country men of different tribes or clan. The so called civil wars in many parts of Africa are more of tribal wars and inter-community wars than civil wars. What makes South Africans perceive the negative attitude of some Africans towards South Africans as hatred is because South Africans are very tolerant towards those who are different to them. As much as South Africans are adept to their heritage, they embrace each other and give utmost respect to those different to them. In South Africa it is not a "taboo" to marry outside one's own tribe whether one is a man or a woman. It is very common to find people with a first name of tribe different to one's surname, e.g. a Zulu name with a Sesotho, Pedi, Venda or Tsonga surname. Having said all that, there will be a time when South Africans will get tired of all the negative judgement and hostility directed at them. Once that time comes, South Africans will develop a deep dislike and intolerance towards fellow Africans because the attacks are now becoming unbearable.
Thank you for this and I hope South African don’t get there
True we are close to reaching that point
That's not true, S.A man are much better
Yeah but most African countries don’t think that
@@thethemakhele8450 IS bcos they r jealousy of them nd SAcn men normally don't love african ladies earther
😂 wena
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I know I am not okay in my head 😂🤣🤣🤣
@@thethemakhele8450 people are crazy xem
@@peacemathebula3597 they must keep it to themselves
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Our own Makoti watching from South Africa
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I’m sorry, I meant to say Bahai
@@eddyeddy4286 very much