Worrying ALOT about the outcome of a relationship (if he's leaving or his feelings are changing) to the point where you feel anxious and nervous most of the time is usually a sign of an 'Anxious Attachment Style'. If you want to find out your style and how you can manage this to feel more at ease and calm in a relationship then take the questionairre -> bit.ly/love_bonding_quiz
I love how Abraham Hicks calls him out. It’s not about changing the other person to be another person…but to change something within!!! Changing your Vortex=changing yourself
Who is this voice??? Who is this guy??? It’s not the first time I hear it!!! What a great voice and energy!!! Who ever you are, you’re gorgeous! Such a beautiful soul!
It's Abraham, they are higher dimensional beings channeled through the lady Ester hicks. I would suggest looking further into it. It's rather incredible.
Our inner-been is where thee Holy Spirit is within each of those who belong to our God and remain in the true knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. The vortex is what she is referring to as the one who never leaves us as it is always teaching us how to be as one with Him. The spirit within us is flat just like a muscle that has never been used, but the more we develop it, the more it will respond to us to what we ask. But I think that those who follow Abraham aren't really following the teachings of Jesus Yet she has taught me how l must stay true to my inner-been more than anyone or anything else. My inner-been is where the spirit of our Lord God Almighty is, and that is l believe I am guided by Jesus 24/7 and it is good all the time Amen
I have a question. So you should Not have Standards in a realationship??? IT is true what she is saying, but IT IS also Dangerous to let your Partner whatever. The other Person has to make an effort. If He does or Not should Not effect your Mood, but your decisition to stay with the Partner or Not.
She does make sense slowly. I’ve been listening to her for years. Very simply put she is saying our only job is to tend to our vibration and ignore the circumstances totally. Ignore the other person etc. if you really think about this this is what the ancient sages also say but the fact is it is goddamn difficult. And if the other person has no effect on me whatsoever why on earth will I be in a relationship with him
This is soo soo good !! So how do i not have believes about how it should go and even without him making contact stay in alignment, have good thoughts/ feel good
There is a question here. If I am the one who creates what I feel then the other person is in a way irrelevant. I can be happy with just anybody and simply live my own reality no matter whothey are or what they do? Or is it that my manifestations will surely bring the right person and that's that?
I replayed this video maybe 4-5 times to understand, she is speaking so fast, but I think I finaly get the point 🤔 or maybe I should replay a few more times 😁😁😁🤣🤣🤣
Oh my! N here I adjuat playback speed to go faster so it's easier to get. It's reallly just the OLD Commion understanding from about any woman's magazine or just what she notices about guys in general. They seem to stll have expectations of women who "owe" them to live up to some unspoken notion in his head that are more like a job descriotion you "should know" about but dont because it's also a "secret" that he'll "change" you to agree with later when you seem hooked enough and "think you can't" unhook from. A LOT of ASSumed "forced to agree later" type thinking about what he Wants but doesnt say so and then feels "cheated of by you" not living up to his "understiod" but secret expectations and "right " to mind reading from you. His "right" to NOT Speak and NOT Listen to you vs the boys causes his unexpected disappointment in You being unable to provide that like he "deserves." A bit more extreme I believe than the man speaking here but the same idea in having to be informed that it's Him ridiculously expecting something "owed" him that was mere fantasy notion of such superhuman "requirements" of the other person and thus blaming the diaappointment caused by something "lacking" in the human partner, so replace that one with the "right" one who "can" be ALL the things you need and want ALL the time who alao Wants to so Nothing BUT you 24/7/365 AND more ovwr time. This craziness is SO common these days that it's head shaker to people of earlier generations. Those who dont ever consider that "maybe" it's "partly" some warpes thing in him just go off to claim "belonging" to MGTOW to sulk about all the women that told them to take a hike with the other nutcases wanting a fantasy vs a real himan woman. I say this bwcause this problem is Still growing worse. To the beat of my underatanding and experience, this is due to increasing numbers with "personality disorders" with high degree of narcissistic traits marked by "unreasonable ezpectations of others" and "great instabilitu in relationships." ... but cant imagine why?? LoL. THIS guy does NOT sound like anywhere nearly so unreasonable....... not Yet anyway. But then HOW in the world does this Self Evident truth even need to be said?! Hey, he's "juat" a man, but he's trying! LoL
Make a list of things that make you happy. Such as, walking outside and listening to nature, dancing to fun music, petting my cat/dog/etc. Do the things on your list everyday. Do meditation (I prefer to do it in the morning and evening) and listen to affirmations. Write some affirmations and say them into the mirror to yourself-look yourself in the eyes!
Destiny R There are many videos on meditation on TH-cam. You can never get it wrong, just start somewhere and find what you like. I use mediations on TH-cam and I also listen to mediation music. ❤️
I found it that they are perfect for us. For us who are to empathetic about others and not enough about ourselves. They help us build ego structure and stronger boundaries. And when YOU change, you will see they are not bad, they are just like that because we let them. When you change you will change the way you respond. Also educate yourself on this topic. And maybe you need to take some time for yourself to reset and to adjust. You got this. This is how I approached it. 🙌🏻
@@viktorijajanosi7424 True❤ I Felt this deeply! Narcissists are in a way hidden blessings to show us how deeply you need to work on you.. They wave the path ahead for our transformation!! 💜😊
No. NPDs are severely functionally disturbed, truly less abeled! what you hear here is an avoident attachment pattern - which is basically the norm for men nowadays And even more fundamental and old is the need men have to hear that they've done good qork It would be useful to put them both on the same spectrum, especially for education,
Worrying ALOT about the outcome of a relationship (if he's leaving or his feelings are changing) to the point where you feel anxious and nervous most of the time is usually a sign of an 'Anxious Attachment Style'. If you want to find out your style and how you can manage this to feel more at ease and calm in a relationship then take the questionairre -> bit.ly/love_bonding_quiz
The Love Sanctuary with Peta April pppp
I love how Abraham Hicks calls him out. It’s not about changing the other person to be another person…but to change something within!!! Changing your Vortex=changing yourself
I love this because I depend on my wholeness, my feeling good emotions, being me! ❤
Who is this voice??? Who is this guy??? It’s not the first time I hear it!!! What a great voice and energy!!! Who ever you are, you’re gorgeous! Such a beautiful soul!
It's Abraham, they are higher dimensional beings channeled through the lady Ester hicks. I would suggest looking further into it. It's rather incredible.
Absolutely beautiful!.. my only regret is that I did not find this a lot sooner in life;)
This is what I want and this is my goal
This message hit something deep inside me. I just realized my inner being
Our inner-been is where thee Holy Spirit is within each of those who belong to our God and remain in the true knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
The vortex is what she is referring to as the one who never leaves us as it is always teaching us how to be as one with Him.
The spirit within us is flat just like a muscle that has never been used, but the more we develop it, the more it will respond to us to what we ask.
But I think that those who follow Abraham aren't really following the teachings of Jesus
Yet she has taught me how l must stay true to my inner-been more than anyone or anything else.
My inner-been is where the spirit of our Lord God Almighty is, and that is l believe I am guided by Jesus 24/7 and it is good all the time Amen
I love you abraham. You are now my new bestfriend:)
I have a question. So you should Not have Standards in a realationship??? IT is true what she is saying, but IT IS also Dangerous to let your Partner whatever. The other Person has to make an effort. If He does or Not should Not effect your Mood, but your decisition to stay with the Partner or Not.
Sarah haag yea true people get really complacent and treat you very shabbily because you are taking everything upon yourself
I love that they are on the motorcycle 🏍️🩵
To be free
This is really how it goes
I so want to achieve this level of ease in my relationship. I keep going back to what he is doing? Does love me 😔😣😣😣😣😣
Yep I feel you and it’s all a reflection of our own wounds
Yes. It's a reflection of you. Read john Gray's book "beyond mars and venus". He explains a lot about male and female energies/behaviors.
@@garbagekid09 Gimme the Link plz
How many people really understand this???
I sure as hell got lost somewhere in the vortex or my frequency.
The more you listen to her teaching, she starts to make a lot of sense. Don't give up
She does make sense slowly. I’ve been listening to her for years. Very simply put she is saying our only job is to tend to our vibration and ignore the circumstances totally. Ignore the other person etc. if you really think about this this is what the ancient sages also say but the fact is it is goddamn difficult. And if the other person has no effect on me whatsoever why on earth will I be in a relationship with him
Once you become in alignment with oneself, it all makes sense. It flows freely, spirituality.
It's especially hard when listening with pain in your heart. It's hard to comprehend. But worth the time to listen again. Love and peace to all ♥
Be free
I want to feel good and that is MY job x
This is soo soo good !! So how do i not have believes about how it should go and even without him making contact stay in alignment, have good thoughts/ feel good
Meditate? Focus on what’s going on within and make that a priority.
There is a question here. If I am the one who creates what I feel then the other person is in a way irrelevant. I can be happy with just anybody and simply live my own reality no matter whothey are or what they do?
Or is it that my manifestations will surely bring the right person and that's that?
I replayed this video maybe 4-5 times to understand, she is speaking so fast, but I think I finaly get the point 🤔 or maybe I should replay a few more times 😁😁😁🤣🤣🤣
Oh my! N here I adjuat playback speed to go faster so it's easier to get.
It's reallly just the OLD Commion understanding from about any woman's magazine or just what she notices about guys in general. They seem to stll have expectations of women who "owe" them to live up to some unspoken
notion in his head that are more like a job descriotion you "should know" about but dont because it's also a "secret" that he'll "change" you to agree with later when you seem hooked enough and "think you can't" unhook from.
A LOT of ASSumed "forced to agree later" type thinking about what he Wants but doesnt say so and then feels "cheated of by you" not living up to his "understiod" but secret expectations and "right " to mind reading from you.
His "right" to NOT Speak and NOT Listen to you vs the boys causes his unexpected disappointment in You being unable to provide that like he "deserves."
A bit more extreme I believe than the man speaking here but the same idea in having to be informed that it's Him ridiculously expecting something "owed" him that was mere fantasy notion of such superhuman "requirements" of the other person and thus blaming the diaappointment caused by something "lacking" in the human partner, so replace that one with the "right" one who "can" be ALL the things you need and want ALL the time who alao Wants to so Nothing BUT you 24/7/365 AND more ovwr time. This craziness is SO common these days that it's head shaker to people of earlier generations. Those who dont ever consider that "maybe" it's "partly" some warpes thing in him just go off to claim "belonging" to MGTOW to sulk about all the women that told them to take a hike with the other nutcases wanting a fantasy vs a real himan woman. I say this bwcause this problem is Still growing worse. To the beat of my underatanding and experience, this is due to increasing numbers with "personality disorders" with high degree of narcissistic traits marked by "unreasonable ezpectations of others" and "great instabilitu in relationships." ... but cant imagine why?? LoL. THIS guy does NOT sound like anywhere nearly so unreasonable....... not Yet anyway. But then HOW in the world does this Self Evident truth even need to be said?! Hey, he's "juat" a man, but he's trying! LoL
Great advice and I absolutely love his laugh!
Beautiful
Wow🤩thank you!
Powerful stuff. Thank you!
How do I feel good without another person or circumstance. It’s alright to to say feel good without anyone or anything but how do I do it ?
Make a list of things that make you happy. Such as, walking outside and listening to nature, dancing to fun music, petting my cat/dog/etc. Do the things on your list everyday. Do meditation (I prefer to do it in the morning and evening) and listen to affirmations. Write some affirmations and say them into the mirror to yourself-look yourself in the eyes!
rosieos how do you meditate?
Destiny R There are many videos on meditation on TH-cam. You can never get it wrong, just start somewhere and find what you like. I use mediations on TH-cam and I also listen to mediation music. ❤️
Thank you
I need my GPS to be able to follow this. I'm on the right route at the beginning then she keeps talking and I'm lost.
Just Me I feel you haha
Fantastic speech 😊
This is really good ❤️
So smart woman! 👌🏻
This is so good! 😂
Can someone leave the vortex for a minute and tune to my frequency so I can be found cuz I'm lost.
I thought it was just me! 😅
Lol
I agree with Asya below ♥️🌛🌚🌜
Je t'aime Alex
Marzena
Ladies and gentleman. How to speak to a narcissist.
Just DON'T.❤🙏🏼
I found it that they are perfect for us. For us who are to empathetic about others and not enough about ourselves. They help us build ego structure and stronger boundaries. And when YOU change, you will see they are not bad, they are just like that because we let them. When you change you will change the way you respond. Also educate yourself on this topic. And maybe you need to take some time for yourself to reset and to adjust. You got this. This is how I approached it. 🙌🏻
@@viktorijajanosi7424 True❤
I Felt this deeply! Narcissists are in a way hidden blessings to show us how deeply you need to work on you..
They wave the path ahead for our transformation!!
💜😊
When u will love your self more hé will dispear because u will not accept him anymore in your life
No. NPDs are severely functionally disturbed, truly less abeled! what you hear here is an avoident attachment pattern - which is basically the norm for men nowadays And even more fundamental and old is the need men have to hear that they've done good qork
It would be useful to put them both on the same spectrum, especially for education,
He interrupts her so muchh.... Ehhhh.... Annoying 😡
Yep it’s always his fault a woman’s never wrong I’ll be just fucking insane for a woman to say she’s wrong