Fear and feelings of unworthiness in love often stem from unmet childhood needs (most commonly if our father was emotionally unavailable) which can impact our bonding and attachment style. To find out your style you can take the quiz -> bit.ly/love_bonding_quiz
Maybe, but as much as that may be the truth it doesnt really help anyone solve this issue. Feeling unworthy is simply a perspective that someone (subconsciously) has adopted. And the only way to change it is to ignore any rules you set for yourself and to change it in one go with the intent to change it. Self reflection on the 'why' is also very important to followup with proving yourself wrong. Also to pay extra attention to the things you love about yourself. It can be made a very black/white choice. Even if you believe something is true, are you truly going to walk around with that feeling the rest of your life, or would you (even naively) try anything to change it? One thing is for sure; if you keep indulging the idea it will never change.
I have discovered that I have the fear "he wont like me" its deep, intense fear and while I have this fear. The universe brings me people I'm connected to, to not only show me that fear but aspects of myself that I adore. So the soul mates I attract are all aspects of me that I adore. What I see in them I fall deeply and madly in love with. I then discover within days that the aspects iv fallen in love with are in actual fact me. So even though I have that fear, the universe helps me see aspects within myself through soul mates to eliminate that sub conscious thought of not being good enough or those men wont like me, when they do!!. They are crazy about me it's my own fear that keeps me out of alignment. So, even though you have these fear ful thoughts that keep you out of alignment. Trusting that you will deal with your stuff in one way or another will help in letting the universe help you turn the fear into love.
@@haizzzz7486 That is a great post and way to see things. Another thing could be: 'So what if they do not like you?' - if you can make peace with that your fear will be gone. If there are guys that like you there will be many many more. So what is there to worry about?
You have a point Bas. I'm in no way caring if they dont once the feeling has subsided. It was more referring to the last reply of my dad being emotionally unavailable in which I became emotionally unavailable which shows itself in all men I connect to.
@@haizzzz7486 Oh I'm sorry I thought TH-cam showed it to me as a reply to my post. Yet still, it doesn't serve you to see it that way. You are your own beautiful person. But I think you realize that.
Theres only one way to shift your situation from undesired to desired, and thats a direct/immediate change of attitude. The wonderful thing about the LOA is that you literally create the rules of your reality, so you can play God and make yourself deserving. If you believe you can change it, it will happen. Plus, you know that beating the drum of the old vibration doesnt work, so you may just as well try a different approach. Another thing she could do is ask herself why she thinks she's undeserving and then look really close at those beliefs. In a reality where the LOA is the governing force theres no such thing as 'undeserving'. Deserving or undeserving has nothing to do with it. Gravity keeps doing its thing wether you're deserving or undeserving of it, and the same goes for the LOA. Anf like I said before, why not naively try something else if the current approach is already sure to make you fail. Though if her voice is any indication she'll find someone! She has a very attractive voice. 😁
My fave abe videos are the relationship ones... been wanting to make a channel myself of a collections of these nuggets. Thank u for putting them together in a beautiful, compelling package for my perusal.💗
You're welcome lovely. Yes, they're soo good aren't they! I literally just curated these into playlists for my love coaching clients and I'm so glad that they've been helpful for so many of you x
I finally found what i was looking for. Thanking God for this amazing video. This is the answer to a big question i asked myself yesterday. Thanks abraham, you did it again!!
I have many improvements in my life I have an emotional available, loving, loyal, nice, attentive, interesting, driven, bold, an amazing lover, healthy, successful passionate man who loves me
9:22 I have this connection to my dog. This unexplained conversation through our eyes. I can’t explain it in words (she just passed away a few days ago, I’m slowly recovering from the pain of her death) I met this guy at work a couple of months ago, attraction on first meeting, not his looks, his energy, his essence. He or both of us looked at each other for a few minutes and I had the same experience I had with my dog. It’s like we became one in that moment. I’m not sure if anything will come of our meeting. I dream of him a lot and we do have these instances of telepathy and synchronicity. I’m just happy because I miss my dog so much that I could have this same connection with a loving counterpart. Maybe my dog was training me to connect to my own essence, he was already in my radar, I just never saw it because I never connected to it myself.
I’ve never heard anything made so difficult In my life.... blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.. she says I just need not to be afraid.. all she gotta do is let go of what she wants so badly be patient and be appreciative for what she has now.. What she truly wants will come..
CoverGirl1111 Robinson sometimes people don’t know how to just let go. They have to be shown how to thru a series of steps. It’s probably simple for you, but not as simple for someone else... You’re probably like “Get to the point!” Lol :)
Fear and feelings of unworthiness in love often stem from unmet childhood needs (most commonly if our father was emotionally unavailable) which can impact our bonding and attachment style. To find out your style you can take the quiz -> bit.ly/love_bonding_quiz
Maybe, but as much as that may be the truth it doesnt really help anyone solve this issue. Feeling unworthy is simply a perspective that someone (subconsciously) has adopted. And the only way to change it is to ignore any rules you set for yourself and to change it in one go with the intent to change it. Self reflection on the 'why' is also very important to followup with proving yourself wrong. Also to pay extra attention to the things you love about yourself.
It can be made a very black/white choice. Even if you believe something is true, are you truly going to walk around with that feeling the rest of your life, or would you (even naively) try anything to change it? One thing is for sure; if you keep indulging the idea it will never change.
I have discovered that I have the fear "he wont like me" its deep, intense fear and while I have this fear. The universe brings me people I'm connected to, to not only show me that fear but aspects of myself that I adore. So the soul mates I attract are all aspects of me that I adore. What I see in them I fall deeply and madly in love with. I then discover within days that the aspects iv fallen in love with are in actual fact me. So even though I have that fear, the universe helps me see aspects within myself through soul mates to eliminate that sub conscious thought of not being good enough or those men wont like me, when they do!!. They are crazy about me it's my own fear that keeps me out of alignment.
So, even though you have these fear ful thoughts that keep you out of alignment. Trusting that you will deal with your stuff in one way or another will help in letting the universe help you turn the fear into love.
@@haizzzz7486 That is a great post and way to see things.
Another thing could be: 'So what if they do not like you?' - if you can make peace with that your fear will be gone. If there are guys that like you there will be many many more. So what is there to worry about?
You have a point Bas. I'm in no way caring if they dont once the feeling has subsided. It was more referring to the last reply of my dad being emotionally unavailable in which I became emotionally unavailable which shows itself in all men I connect to.
@@haizzzz7486 Oh I'm sorry I thought TH-cam showed it to me as a reply to my post.
Yet still, it doesn't serve you to see it that way. You are your own beautiful person. But I think you realize that.
Theres only one way to shift your situation from undesired to desired, and thats a direct/immediate change of attitude. The wonderful thing about the LOA is that you literally create the rules of your reality, so you can play God and make yourself deserving. If you believe you can change it, it will happen. Plus, you know that beating the drum of the old vibration doesnt work, so you may just as well try a different approach.
Another thing she could do is ask herself why she thinks she's undeserving and then look really close at those beliefs. In a reality where the LOA is the governing force theres no such thing as 'undeserving'. Deserving or undeserving has nothing to do with it. Gravity keeps doing its thing wether you're deserving or undeserving of it, and the same goes for the LOA. Anf like I said before, why not naively try something else if the current approach is already sure to make you fail.
Though if her voice is any indication she'll find someone! She has a very attractive voice. 😁
My fave abe videos are the relationship ones... been wanting to make a channel myself of a collections of these nuggets. Thank u for putting them together in a beautiful, compelling package for my perusal.💗
You're welcome lovely. Yes, they're soo good aren't they! I literally just curated these into playlists for my love coaching clients and I'm so glad that they've been helpful for so many of you x
I finally found what i was looking for. Thanking God for this amazing video. This is the answer to a big question i asked myself yesterday. Thanks abraham, you did it again!!
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I love your laugh! Thank you for the uploads, many blessings!
She is poking fun, but this is something i have been struggling for years, this exact same thing.
That lady is so relatable hahahaha
I have many improvements in my life
I have an emotional available, loving, loyal, nice, attentive, interesting, driven, bold, an amazing lover, healthy, successful passionate man who loves me
Don’t use fear against your self
Don’t be afraid to change
9:22
I have this connection to my dog. This unexplained conversation through our eyes. I can’t explain it in words (she just passed away a few days ago, I’m slowly recovering from the pain of her death)
I met this guy at work a couple of months ago, attraction on first meeting, not his looks, his energy, his essence.
He or both of us looked at each other for a few minutes and I had the same experience I had with my dog. It’s like we became one in that moment.
I’m not sure if anything will come of our meeting. I dream of him a lot and we do have these instances of telepathy and synchronicity.
I’m just happy because I miss my dog so much that I could have this same connection with a loving counterpart.
Maybe my dog was training me to connect to my own essence, he was already in my radar, I just never saw it because I never connected to it myself.
Wow.. I've been doing this all wrong....not any more!
I’ve never heard anything made so difficult In my life.... blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.. she says I just need not to be afraid.. all she gotta do is let go of what she wants so badly be patient and be appreciative for what she has now.. What she truly wants will come..
CoverGirl1111 Robinson thank you!! Im sitting here and was confused by all the riddle speak!!!!
I really struggle with these
CoverGirl1111 Robinson sometimes people don’t know how to just let go. They have to be shown how to thru a series of steps. It’s probably simple for you, but not as simple for someone else... You’re probably like “Get to the point!” Lol :)
Omg!!! I love you. Relief, ease and right into my vortex 🙏🏼😍🥰 delicious, joyful, and just pure deliciousness mmmmm. Thank you 🙏🏼 ♥️♥️♥️
Someone Available 😂 someone breathing 😂
love u abe😍🤩🥰
Yeah caz I don't look like her hahaha
this woman is stubborn.
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? Not at all she was really sweet & open & collaborative with Abe I wish her well
She is just on her way to better thinking patterns. We all have to learn at some point.