Bill and Melinda Gates Divorce | What is "Gray Divorce?"

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  • This video answers the questions: Can I analyze the report that Bill and Melinda Gates are planning to divorce? What is “Gray Divorce?”
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    Lin, I.-F., Brown, S. L., Wright, M. R., & Hammersmith, A. M. (2016). Antecedents of Gray Divorce: A Life Course Perspective. The Journals of Gerontology Series B: Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences, gbw164. doi:10.1093/geronb/gbw164
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  • @Imagynuity
    @Imagynuity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2482

    I wonder if they tried to turn their marriage off, unplug it and plug it back in before they called the repairman.

    • @wonderforadventseason8128
      @wonderforadventseason8128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      A low joke but how could it not be told 😜😂

    • @Bayoubebe
      @Bayoubebe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      🤣🤣

    • @jaimeduncan6167
      @jaimeduncan6167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      the recycle man, I guess you mean.

    • @emilyhollis4231
      @emilyhollis4231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      It's clear they didn't HOLD ctrl-alt-del properly. 🤣

    • @drakedrones
      @drakedrones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      You mean “tech support “ 😂😂😂

  • @garchamp9844
    @garchamp9844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1750

    Bill Gates asking for privacy is the most ironic joke I have ever heard.

    • @chrisgould101
      @chrisgould101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Please check your Windows 95 privacy options

    • @robinhensley6228
      @robinhensley6228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      They mean don’t ask why

    • @dianasimplifies
      @dianasimplifies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Exactly. They sure don't intend for YOU to have any privacy!!!

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ikr lol

    • @zmieniamyinternet3172
      @zmieniamyinternet3172 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      And spying people with Windows
      Check this
      "United States v. Microsoft: Deposition by Bill Gates, part 1."
      I use Linux

  • @pinkelephant4591
    @pinkelephant4591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +490

    I love how he tells jokes in a totally deadpan way

    • @rashadpenny826
      @rashadpenny826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too he’s so peculiar

    • @jomama5186
      @jomama5186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes, me too. And they are always very funny!

    • @andrewmacdonald8076
      @andrewmacdonald8076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, the jokes aren't always funny but the way he tells them is.

    • @Alfakkin
      @Alfakkin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He is sly 🔪

    • @luvwaltdisney1
      @luvwaltdisney1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too, it’s hilarious! 🤣🤣

  • @MegaMesozoic
    @MegaMesozoic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I read of a couple who wanted a divorce at the ages of 86 (him) and 78 (her). When asked 'why bother?' by the lawyer, the answer was 'Enough is enough!'

  • @paulfaber6227
    @paulfaber6227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +596

    One of my neighbours have been married 50 years and when they first met each other one had 10 dollars and the other had 15 dollars and even today they jokingly accuse each other of marrying them for there money!

    • @hollywood2499
      @hollywood2499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      lmao that's hilarious hahahaha

    • @juliacamacho7749
      @juliacamacho7749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hahaha! So fun story :)

    • @madambutterfly7513
      @madambutterfly7513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It's THEIR ( belong to), THERE is over there, a direction, THEY'RE is they are - so there's your English lesson today 😊😊😊 I can't believe how many people mess these words up!

    • @paulfaber6227
      @paulfaber6227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@madambutterfly7513 I was wondering when somebody was going to pull me up for that. Thank you Madam Butterfly. In future if I get stuck with the English Language I'll give you a call.

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@paulfaber6227 Oh no! The grammar police are here! The spelling b's can't be far behind! Honestly, though, sometimes they really are just trying to help. ❤

  • @carolwelch1229
    @carolwelch1229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +673

    Them: All we ask is for space and privacy. Us: Sure, just as soon as you take the spyware out of Windows.

    • @leslieallen5704
      @leslieallen5704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      🤣😂🤣😂..ok!!

    • @srvntlilly
      @srvntlilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Goood! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @renaarmstrong2838
      @renaarmstrong2838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      WE WILL GIVE YOU SPACE AND PRIVACY when you get the hell out of our lives. Freaking dictator elite unelected 🤬. I’ll leave it at that.

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@renaarmstrong2838 I honestly hate this dude. Not Dr Grande. Gates.

    • @tahoe7779
      @tahoe7779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@helixmoore7636 Monster in geek's attire.

  • @melissastewart9842
    @melissastewart9842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "Lawyers are the only guaranteed winners in a divorce." One of Dr. Grande 's most profound and insightful statements/observations. I wonder why more people aren't aware of this.

    • @strattonskier7229
      @strattonskier7229 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Attorneys win, we poor slobs pay with stress and cash.😊

  • @dvdmorehead
    @dvdmorehead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    There seems to be plenty of support in our culture for exiting a bad relationship but not for how to get through rough patches together.

    • @candycfrrodgers7278
      @candycfrrodgers7278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sadly!

    • @tomz1daful
      @tomz1daful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Cures for relationship problems don't generate money like a divorce can. Divorce Is a multi billion dollar industry, and that industry won't budge for change...

    • @dvdmorehead
      @dvdmorehead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@tomz1daful Once again human suffering becomes a cash crop.

    • @makut4154
      @makut4154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Life's too short to waste it with Ms. Wrinklеs

    • @grannygotcha9809
      @grannygotcha9809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You know...your right. But by the time devorce is inevitable who wants to fix it ?

  • @meagles1333
    @meagles1333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +736

    "lawyers are the only guaranteed winners in a divorce" 😂😂😂 truth

    • @antonydrossos5719
      @antonydrossos5719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Absolute fact

    • @LamLawIndy
      @LamLawIndy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      True. The family law bar is the only winner in a divorce, though -- since the Gates' kids are all over 18 -- at least the painful issues of custody & parenting time are not going to be litigated. I tried my hand at family law when I first entered private practice: Even telling a client that s/he will likely spend a decade in prison is preferable to explaining to a client that his/her time with the children will be limited.

    • @hgostos
      @hgostos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true

    • @pulynanyalikibitz1301
      @pulynanyalikibitz1301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@LamLawIndy My father worked as a court appointed mediator in family court mediation and often suggested that certain divorce attorneys that frequently came through his offices would purposely undermine mediation because it resulted in more billable hours.
      He would take me to work when I didn't have school sometimes, and I remember he was talking about one lawyer to another person in his department, when a judge who had overheard the conversation stuck his head in the door and said he thought another attorney whom he was known to clash with in court was really working with him so they both could bill more hours.
      Could they be disbarred over ethics for that? I know it'd be hard to prove, they'd just say they were representing their clients best interests. Would the The Bar even care?

    • @pulynanyalikibitz1301
      @pulynanyalikibitz1301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@LamLawIndy also, not that it really matters, but two of his kids live at home. The youngest is only 17, technically there would be some talk of custody, but that would only be subject to a few months of enforcement.
      The middle child is about to get married. She's probably moving out anyway.

  • @simonmessenger7217
    @simonmessenger7217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    Their marriage reached the blue screen of death!

    • @momoftwobunnies
      @momoftwobunnies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @laurafabianmarrero8614
      @laurafabianmarrero8614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂😂😂Stop

    • @JaneDoe-ip5yl
      @JaneDoe-ip5yl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Good one😁

    • @CapitalCCapitalC
      @CapitalCCapitalC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣

    • @roathripper
      @roathripper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      something old (their marriage) something new (her divorce money in her checking account) something borrowed (ms-dos) something blue (windows screen of death).

  • @annedenton4623
    @annedenton4623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    How she EVER agreed to “one week per year on an island with his former girlfriend” is BEYOND ME. Hello, RED FLAG!

  • @KameoKitten6963
    @KameoKitten6963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    The best dead pan comedy on TH-cam bar none. Love the content in all it's aspects, thanks Dr.Grande!

  • @davidhayden6481
    @davidhayden6481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    4:55 "... probably running on Windows, which means they're offline every other day for updates" That got an audible laugh, rather than just a nose exhale.

  • @nolaheart
    @nolaheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I had to rewind the "long weekend with old girlfriend" thing a few times, but turns out I heard it correctly the 1st time.

  • @kkheflin3
    @kkheflin3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Oh Dr. G! "The autonomous killer robots that undoubtedly patrol Xanadu 2.0..." Priceless. I just love your dry wit, deadpan face, and hidden sarcasm. You make me laugh almost every day and we all need a bit of levity in this day and age!

    • @liamroberts9047
      @liamroberts9047 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello, How are you doing?

    • @sydneyfairbairn3773
      @sydneyfairbairn3773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Xanadu was much more glamorous that that overgrown ski cabin. Why not give the home a name like Bill's Chalet?

  • @intelcore4434
    @intelcore4434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I truly love dr. Grande's sarcasm and dark humor in this video! Hahahaha

    • @bjduke2271
      @bjduke2271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr 🤣😂🤣

  • @sadeatthewhip1846
    @sadeatthewhip1846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    Wow, you don't even look old enough to have been married for 27 years. That's awesome!

    • @donnaroberts4513
      @donnaroberts4513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I can’t believe Bill leave his beautiful wife for that ugly ex girlfriend.

    • @mariebernier3076
      @mariebernier3076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dude must color that unruly mop of spirited hair on top of his head.❤

    • @Pants69
      @Pants69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He was 17 years old 32 years ago I think he said :)

    • @grumpyoldlady_rants
      @grumpyoldlady_rants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@donnaroberts4513 - You don’t know that that is the reason and his ex is not ugly.

    • @oliviagreen7423
      @oliviagreen7423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Dr G definitely looks too young to have been married 27 yrs!😮 I didn't even know he was partnered until I saw his Hello Fresh ad where he was clearly preparing food for more than himself lol. Congratulations Dr G, very impressive and makes me happy👏👍💜

  • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
    @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    "...But what they want is actually beyond of capabilities of money " Great analysis Dr.Grande!Thank you!

    • @pointsbeingmade7996
      @pointsbeingmade7996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah its a means not end goal. Really stupid to think it makes for happiness.

    • @tomruth9487
      @tomruth9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rennata, Sometimes the small challenges of life make it interesting. You take away all those challenges and if you don't have a true personal passion, something you love to do that drives you, life can be boring. And all that money won't help you.

    • @asimtahir7859
      @asimtahir7859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Have you ever felt boredom? How do you handle it.

    • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
      @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@asimtahir7859 no I am never bored

    • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
      @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tomruth9487 yes I understood very good the whole analysis

  • @bellabear653
    @bellabear653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Grey divorce is when you have raised kids and after they leave the nest you look at each other and are completely different people. Well this is my take on it.

    • @bellabear653
      @bellabear653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@johnadams5489 No I wouldn't say it's rare, you can't raise kids with someone and not care, I think most relationships of that age either turn into good friendships or drift apart but this delusion that love is having a spark and sex life like you did in the first 3 months of dating is B.S and it really cunfuses woman because they have been told that's what to expect older woman know better.

    • @Griffindor1955
      @Griffindor1955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Or, when your kids get old enough for you to have the time to figure out what your marriage is really about.

    • @snu3877
      @snu3877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bellabear653 Really? I would say that men are the ones who expect that.

    • @marielouisesuzannedanielle4443
      @marielouisesuzannedanielle4443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When you look at each other and ask: When did you become so gray??

    • @joywebster2678
      @joywebster2678 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He says that's been disproven

  • @KimEClem
    @KimEClem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +284

    Money can’t buy character, class, integrity, honesty or fidelity. Clearly, Mr Gates is the shining example of this.

    • @KimEClem
      @KimEClem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Mr Gates may be a billionaire, but he is “ bankrupt” in character.

    • @nzd_tv
      @nzd_tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KimEClem nah

    • @susanyang4167
      @susanyang4167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Kim E. Clem
      Or they can be around a big crowd and still feel lonely and hollow inside

    • @hithere3897
      @hithere3897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Your an idiot. Hes one of the msost generious billionaires. Hes part of buffets 50% commitment of giving up wealth after passing away. He doesnt work at mcrosoft and has dedicated his time to the foundation. Compare that to bezos or donald trump.

    • @susanyang4167
      @susanyang4167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But if u know yourself you can change within the character and be happy every moment and that is liberation

  • @SakuraAsranArt
    @SakuraAsranArt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1204

    Only Dr Grande can throw mega shade at an alien-lizard man in the middle of a divorce.

    • @DameVonBonDaisy
      @DameVonBonDaisy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Lol

    • @ChiDraconis
      @ChiDraconis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Criminal 159T: What is the wealth of SOI / Perp?
      Is perp an experience lizard trainer?
      Dose perp ASC prevent acquisition of Craftsman Architecture ~ in other words can perp see what the wife is buying with his bankroll?
      Have I watched the video?
      No; I just read the comments;
      Low pitched roof lines, gabled or hipped roofs and deeply overhanging eaves with exposed rafters. Tapered, square columns supporting the roof. These columns are typically short and rest on massive stone or brick piers that extend to ground level just like the house on Oliver Street in Dallas circa the Kennedy hit · If Dr Grande has mentioned Lizards he is on my turf now and I can turn the tables!!!!!!!

      Hannibal Lector was a whimper !!!!

    • @daughterofyah9217
      @daughterofyah9217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I don’t believe anything the MSM say anymore..

    • @ravazera
      @ravazera 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      LMAO

    • @SandraLovesRoses
      @SandraLovesRoses 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      "that's one of (his) favorite topics" LOL

  • @thatpointinlife
    @thatpointinlife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    The "autonomous robots running on Windows" line was too good, Dr. Grande!

    • @aJxxw
      @aJxxw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It was perfection 😂😂😊

    • @TheFrostyDiamond
      @TheFrostyDiamond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed

    • @ladymopar2024
      @ladymopar2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Brilliant!

    • @Ali-kb8gr
      @Ali-kb8gr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Haha yeah! 😂

    • @lybri5490
      @lybri5490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Grade A knee slapper on that one, Dr. Grande!

  • @JohnGalt916
    @JohnGalt916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    So Billy wants privacy. The same man who has been invading mine my whole life.

    • @azhari7968
      @azhari7968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't take it personally

    • @wendellbabin6457
      @wendellbabin6457 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@azhari7968 What should REALLY keep you up at night is whom our privacy is being invaded FOR? As always, follow the money. But I can gaurantees you whatever system THOSE payments are on has waaaaaaay better security than ANY version of Windows has ever had? Bill's reptoid clone that takes over for Bill 1.0 will sell us the FIX and make even more billions with which his Master Plan will finally be executed.

  • @transitionsnc
    @transitionsnc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Phoebe, Bill and Melinda's youngest child turned 18 in September 2020. My guess is at that time Melinda went to Bill and started working out the contract for their divorce. Once Phoebe turned 18, there were no custody issues so it made sense to wait until that time. After the specifics of their divorce were worked out (which would take a number of months or even a year because of their immense assets plus no pre-nup) they officially filed for divorce. Realistically speaking, I'm sure the marriage has been over for a long time. This is all conjecture on my part, but it makes sense. These situations are all about negotiation. The uber rich live different lives than the average person.

    • @debrashepard6770
      @debrashepard6770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Money doesn’t buy happiness❗️I believe it was him spending too much time with Epstein❗️

    • @wendellbabin6457
      @wendellbabin6457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@debrashepard6770 Money doesn't buy happiness, but it sure is handy to get, or do things that DO make you, or the folks in your life, happy. Or hire people to do the things that make you UN-happy.
      Most of us cannot even conceive of what this level of wealth can do. I would settle for my Actual Representatives, to read my Actual letters. HA!

    • @debrashepard6770
      @debrashepard6770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@wendellbabin6457 I wouldn’t know Wendell. We’ve never put money as an idol in our lives. We are givers. We never have never been
      takers & God has blessed us exceedingly abundantly. God comes first in our lives & we are very faithful in our giving to God. It’s not about us, it’s all about God. God first. he supplies all our needs🙋‍♀️❤️ I know people that have it all & never happy ☹️

  • @tnijoo5109
    @tnijoo5109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +513

    LOL. At 5:13 Dr.Grande compares himself to Bill Gates, “he drives a Porsche 959; I once saw a picture of one. He invented Windows; I use Windows on my computer. Some think he’s an alien lizard humanoid; that’s one of my favorite topics.” 😂😂😂
    This wasn’t exactly a direct quote, but close enough.

    • @dodiekoehler5256
      @dodiekoehler5256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yes, this was my favorite part! Lol

    • @nancydisney1274
      @nancydisney1274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes, Dr. Todd always cracks me up; I and my friends quote him to each other. Great laughs. So cute.

    • @nancydisney1274
      @nancydisney1274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      We have generated interesting dialogue ~~> as promised!

    • @johnayala2540
      @johnayala2540 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Dr. Grande has a good dry sense of humor without even trying. He cracks me up😂

    • @louisecolombi6630
      @louisecolombi6630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rockinbobokkin7831
    @rockinbobokkin7831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    "I once saw a picture of one".....dude, you kill me. I would go back to college just for your lectures.

    • @dortesandal4303
      @dortesandal4303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂❤️😂

    • @ArtU4All
      @ArtU4All 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I aways said that college or class is only as good as the person TEACHING it.
      Dr. Grande is GRAND....✨♥️👏

  • @2935441
    @2935441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    After the announcement of their divorce, what really struck me were the years and years of pictures with saccharine smiles of them together.

  • @ravelanone9462
    @ravelanone9462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    🤣🤣🤣 “BG has a $2M Porsche; I once saw a picture of one.” Dr. Todd is very funny, and with a perfectly straight face.

  • @carmenramirez1832
    @carmenramirez1832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    I thought that Bill’s refusal to listen to Melinda’s concerns about Jeffrey Epstein would have been problematic.

    • @herertolearn3418
      @herertolearn3418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I get the impression from their interviews he doesn’t love or like Melinda . She talks and he looks bored.

    • @lelanalela7932
      @lelanalela7932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I believe Epstein is least reason for divorce, if any.
      He just comes handy to add fuel on fire bc in this
      Moment of time he is guilty whenever bird poops
      On someone's car.

    • @JohnGalt916
      @JohnGalt916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Oh like you wouldn't wanna be buddies with a shady guy who owns an island.

    • @JohnGalt916
      @JohnGalt916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@mnikcd123 you think milenda didn't know or cared? You're acting like they hyper rich have the same morality you do. Pedophiles aren't exactly new or frowned upon in that world. It was an open secret for decades. But you think milenda is suddenly like "oh no bill not children". After he has killed millions of children in India and Africa.

    • @lelanalela7932
      @lelanalela7932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mnikcd123 Epsteins " customers" 14, and up +
      Young of age pros. That's not pedophilia. Btw.
      defense found out that many presented pictures
      Of younger than actual age at the time.

  • @mimishkaz
    @mimishkaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    “Lawyers are the only guaranteed winners in divorces.” Oof.

    • @HeavenEarthFloral9
      @HeavenEarthFloral9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He's the land LORD and we're the peasants. Nothing new there.

    • @velvetpaws999
      @velvetpaws999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mimi Kazan: Well, yeah, you betcha... they get paid no matter what happens to the divorcees, and whether they have any estate left after the lawyer has been paid.

    • @CatalinaFOIA
      @CatalinaFOIA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @linak7155
      @linak7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear lawyers are now adding “COVID clauses” to divorce proceedings. In the Gates' situation, I don't think they're too worried about economic uncertainty...

    • @elpatriotamexicano
      @elpatriotamexicano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And wives too.

  • @eddenoy321
    @eddenoy321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A long term marriage can be mutually assured survival or at worst, mutually assured destruction. Forget love and romance, it never really lasts, but respect and caring can. It's a harsh world to pass through alone.

  • @debrakimbrough142
    @debrakimbrough142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    "It is easier to go thru the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to go to Heaven".

    • @brucegwynn8509
      @brucegwynn8509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You said that all wrong but I get the idea , check it out in the king James version, no I'm not a Christian or hateful

    • @conniewaterman1673
      @conniewaterman1673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Doubly hard for a rich, EVIL man to get into heaven!

    • @susanyang4167
      @susanyang4167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are such a genius

    • @jerotoro2021
      @jerotoro2021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The context being, a rich man's greatest fear is losing his wealth, and being worthy of heaven requires selfless sacrifice.

    • @yasminenazarine1629
      @yasminenazarine1629 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Church people are begger no matter how much they get it
      Joel Osteen" church $600 thousand behind the wall 🧐🧐🤨
      Poor poverty always complaint

  • @bumbling_bee
    @bumbling_bee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +538

    I heard that in their divorce, Melinda got the house, but Bill kept the Windows...
    😆

  • @kimbere4632
    @kimbere4632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Love your wit. You left out their youngest turned 18. A lot of people will hold on until their children are grown.

    • @kelly2fly
      @kelly2fly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@therealdeal3672 the kids would be OK with a divorce unless they are oblivious to their parents' unhappy marriage.

    • @rokyericksonroks
      @rokyericksonroks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, because holding on is what, the secret to happiness?

  • @savinaking8637
    @savinaking8637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    If they are both happier being seperate and no one is getting hurt, they have both reached a happier place to enjoy the future.
    If they were n't both rich nobody would bat an eye lid.

  • @Evanthebat15
    @Evanthebat15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love your humor, was also nice to learn a bit about you. I lost it when you said "He's got a rare car...I've seen pictures of it! Most people think he's a humanoid lizard...that's my favorite topic!"
    Congrats on the 1M subscribers, here's to 1.5M next.

  • @calebduke2832
    @calebduke2832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +546

    “...Went to NC and spent time with his previous girlfriend...” Well, that would do it.

    • @Bayoubebe
      @Bayoubebe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Right, things just went on as normal...these psychopaths are wild😅

    • @wandaburns8075
      @wandaburns8075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      A long weekend once a year is not that much time. Melinda probably used to get some 'me' time of her own.

    • @virtue_signal_
      @virtue_signal_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      That's a small price to pay. Sounds like she agreed on the arrangement.

    • @rollerbaybee4230
      @rollerbaybee4230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Yeah I had to replay that😲

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Old girlfriend could be the side chick and Melinda got fed up.

  • @pamelastones4802
    @pamelastones4802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +378

    I got divorced after 32 years. Our children had left home. We got tired of each other, and he spent all his time on the computer.

    • @kesmarn
      @kesmarn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Some spouses are so addicted, you almost have to wonder how long it takes them to notice you don't live there anymore.

    • @svalentina3075
      @svalentina3075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      ARE YOU MELINDA GATES IN DISGUISE????

    • @donnaq7626
      @donnaq7626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      lol

    • @jennymacallan9071
      @jennymacallan9071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Good for you!

    • @bjm7524
      @bjm7524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Good for you stay with yourself or find someone who recognizes you are royalty ❤️

  • @bettybanaszak5748
    @bettybanaszak5748 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband and i are still on our first marriage. 59 years. 7 children 13 grandchildren later. We now live alone and are healthy and active at 81 and 84. When our nest emptied out we lived like honeymooners in our cozy little home of 40 years. Love is stronger than ever because we can give each other more attention and value each other more each day as we approach our mortality.

  • @breakablehandlewithcare
    @breakablehandlewithcare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Listening to Your calm , well thought through analysis was quite refreshing and personally very helpful. Thank you.

  • @lilyscheekychannel3012
    @lilyscheekychannel3012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    They didn't "give away" any money. They invested it under the guise of philanthropy.

    • @grannygotcha9809
      @grannygotcha9809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So smart.

    • @helendang8017
      @helendang8017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah and I’m sure you’ve given parts of your fortune for philanthropy.

    • @forsalebymb
      @forsalebymb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isn't that the truth!!!!!?????

    • @rubyparchment5523
      @rubyparchment5523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      An African woman told me of Melinda's efforts to distribute/"educate" about birth control there. Sounds nice, huh? Well the women saw it as an effort at control, even eugenics. I now see her as being sinister.

    • @EM-qx3hx
      @EM-qx3hx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@rubyparchment5523 Was this an educated African woman, or one who believes that she is her husband’s property and that genital mutilation is ok? Africa is a very large continent, so “African” is not particularly descriptive… just saying.

  • @lindsayantwine1097
    @lindsayantwine1097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    This is the first time I've heard Dr. Grande mention anything about his family. 😮 It's nice learning a little bit about the man behind our favorite dry-humored doctor. 😁

    • @chrisgould101
      @chrisgould101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Guys should I tell my wife about my (our ) side chick ?

    • @adopt-a-pet1968
      @adopt-a-pet1968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chrisgould101 are you on Forbes list? 😉

  • @TheChadWork2001
    @TheChadWork2001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Melinda played the long game: marry the simp and take half his money in the end. And being evil, Bill deserved it.

  • @FrancisColon
    @FrancisColon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Dr.Grande opted for shade in this video because boy he kept them coming, talking about Microsoft robots and needing updates every two days!...Good one Dr!

  • @bjm7524
    @bjm7524 3 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    I’m on my second marriage 13 years this year and my advice to you if you’re not happy find someone who treats you like the special human you really are. Life is too short to stay in an unhappy marriage. It’s called a mistake.

    • @rokyericksonroks
      @rokyericksonroks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I’ve come full circle on this and you are right. Try your best to make it work but don’t force the issue. Find what you want.

    • @Blonde111
      @Blonde111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Finding what you want in this day and age is easier said than done... women don’t tolerate bs at middle age and men at middle age are set in their ways. It won’t be a problem for either of the Gates, money and status always provides....

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Married 40 years...on my first & only marriage. Happiness is a feeling & love is a feeling. Feelings change. Marriage is having the same values & goals...not about a passing feeling which denotes immaturity.

    • @catwomanvillain6576
      @catwomanvillain6576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If already been into a relationship then ended coz of many valid reasons, is it really NEEDED, to still keep on continuing To find a Partner/Men To make a Divorcee Happy🤔 Is it Impossible to be all single 🙅😏🤔

    • @daminh26
      @daminh26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Life is to short to get married stay single and explore yourself and the world. Asking another person to spend a lifetime with you is insane. So silly.

  • @Kari.F.
    @Kari.F. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    "I once saw a picture of one." That made me spray coffee all over myself! 😂 If you keep looking at pictures of rare and expensive cars, maybe you should consider looking for pictures of multi car garages, too? 🤓

    • @francesbernard2445
      @francesbernard2445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea me when looking at non-stop pictures of people too. That's one reason why I had to give up drinking tea while watching T.V. sitcoms.

    • @oliviagreen7423
      @oliviagreen7423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jay Leno's garages!😍 I'm a nice, non-violent person, but in a battle over Leno's garages it's no holds barred😄

  • @valritz3100
    @valritz3100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video !!! Really enjoy how you go into such great detail..

  • @lindasesker3895
    @lindasesker3895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love your humor! Wish I could be as logical as you are. Thank you for your analogies 💕

  • @johnc7385
    @johnc7385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Jeff Bezos obviously been whispering in Bill's ear.
    "Come on Bill! We'll tear it up! Just you, me, our billions and all the seltzer you can handle"

    • @callalilly1988
      @callalilly1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      All the viagra you can handle...

    • @CapitalCCapitalC
      @CapitalCCapitalC 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😆😆

    • @DameVonBonDaisy
      @DameVonBonDaisy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @yasuke9317
      @yasuke9317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@callalilly1988 You know they both have Microchip "enhancements" Intel inside😄

    • @grumpyoldlady_rants
      @grumpyoldlady_rants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bezos is already in a new relationship.

  • @therealmrsruttle
    @therealmrsruttle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Dr Grande states he’s married and breaks hearts all over the world 🌎☺️

  • @jasperetale6916
    @jasperetale6916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Let your heart be where your treasure is. As a man thinketh in his heart so is he.

  • @jonathanvenegas7543
    @jonathanvenegas7543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Use that bass roll off switch on your 7B, will sound clearer. Had to fix my EQ to make it listenable.
    Thanks for the great content!

  • @junepagan8715
    @junepagan8715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    When the respect goes, it’s hard to move on.

  • @dianataylor8685
    @dianataylor8685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the way you present. Very intelligent and reasoned! I appreciate your analysis.

  • @nancygibsongordon
    @nancygibsongordon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I admire you even more now that your sense of humor has surfaced. Love it.

    • @liamroberts9047
      @liamroberts9047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello, How are you doing?

    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nancy Gordon,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷,hope you are with a good man!!

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I don’t see Dr Grande losing his sense of purpose. He is too focused on keeping us cognizant that mental health matters 😘

    • @405OKCShiningOn
      @405OKCShiningOn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes yes, its mental health awareness month. and this week is national educators week. the exhaustion of it all. thank u dr grande. congrats on youtube success.

    • @mlovmo
      @mlovmo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep.

    • @huitzilopochtli_tenochtitl496
      @huitzilopochtli_tenochtitl496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Be Rational What family of alien lizards is this

  • @TheAllianceEnt
    @TheAllianceEnt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    When Bill was talking about depopulation, who knew he meant his own relationship.

    • @nmc1859
      @nmc1859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So scary...

    • @joego7924
      @joego7924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Also known as Doctor Evil!

    • @catdog605
      @catdog605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fake news.

    • @happytrails3
      @happytrails3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@catdog605 If you can find videos on YT with him talking about population control, it must be a deep fake then, put out by credible sources.

    • @catdog605
      @catdog605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@happytrails3 oh brother, it’s fake. Stop embarrassing yourself.

  • @pgcayalo
    @pgcayalo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing analysis! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this

  • @user-xc1wu7kq2e
    @user-xc1wu7kq2e 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Simply, the best analysis. Thank you for this, Dr Grande.

  • @jenniferocious480
    @jenniferocious480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    You forgot that you and Bill Gates both wear glasses 😂

    • @ChiDraconis
      @ChiDraconis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah but Bill Gates are G-5 resonance blocking !
      On the accuracy of position of the linear secular resonance g − g5 in the proper elements’ space Zoran Knežević
      Dr Grande you need to get a Bobble Head Image to promote your work!

    • @CesarClouds
      @CesarClouds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ChiDraconis LMAO

    • @jenniferocious480
      @jenniferocious480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My bad

    • @ChiDraconis
      @ChiDraconis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jenniferocious480
      No I am the one that is bad;
      Edging in on my reputation?

    • @yahyaesadozdemir4558
      @yahyaesadozdemir4558 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This came to my mind when he started to talk about similarities with Bill and himself :)

  • @knittnpretty
    @knittnpretty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    The long week-end, once a year with the ex-girlfriend is curious!

    • @cladalmar8510
      @cladalmar8510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I mean, like yeah. What?

    • @StachMan
      @StachMan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      LMFAO everyone miss it.

    • @ruthpearsall2618
      @ruthpearsall2618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Bill obviously saw 'Same time, Next year', a film starring Alan Alda

    • @willman9567
      @willman9567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Rich people.

    • @valnsky
      @valnsky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      People with money get away with just about anything

  • @lindamarietorres1355
    @lindamarietorres1355 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another GREAT ONE! Dr. Grande

  • @krishnaghosh583
    @krishnaghosh583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Money can buy luxury, comfort but not happiness and love.

  • @justinaacorn5721
    @justinaacorn5721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    The one dislike is Bill Gates...I however enjoyed the analysis.
    Thank you Dr Grande!

  • @louannelewis7264
    @louannelewis7264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    She saw him shapeshift for the first time and it scared the crap out of her.

    • @briechilli4496
      @briechilli4496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂

    • @organics4you
      @organics4you 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She is just as evil. Dont kid yourself

    • @serafinagracias1367
      @serafinagracias1367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love that one. :-)

    • @frazellbryant9336
      @frazellbryant9336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I’ve seen that happen before and it’s not pretty. Gone now are decades of mental and psychological abuse and lack of empathy at the hands of a sociopath

    • @reallythere
      @reallythere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly 😂

  • @kirstyriver7689
    @kirstyriver7689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always interesting. Thank you

  • @rhondamoses9084
    @rhondamoses9084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Remember the old :
    "Money can't buy you love"
    Thanks for sharing

  • @lucid118
    @lucid118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    My husband also passed away -it was the second marriage for both of us and both of our first marriages were longer than six years. We had 36 joyous years together so don’t give up.

    • @IanDmitriyevitch
      @IanDmitriyevitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WTF? Bill Gates didn't pass away

    • @dingfeldersmurfalot4560
      @dingfeldersmurfalot4560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Second marriage for my dad, second serious relationship for my mom -- 45 years. It can happen.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Long-term relationships are hard. Married 40 years...

    • @mercedesb2299
      @mercedesb2299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@seriouslyjoking2 That is the problem. Nobody wants to put in the work and now there is a whole trending idea being pushed that says monogamy is not natural and it is impossible to achieve. They are encouraging people to ignore their marriage vows (and other people's) because "it is not possible". They cite the high divorce rate as their proof so they have got a handy little self-fulfilling prophesy going now. Encourage people to cheat on their partners and then cite the rising divorce rate as proof that they were justified in cheating and getting divorced. Brilliant. Lets encourage everyone to worry about nothing and no one except themselves that should make for a really happy society right? I'm sorry, but the self-absorbed, short-sighted immaturity of what passes for adults in this country is starting to wear on me.

  • @ezekiel3791
    @ezekiel3791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "Bill owns a Porsche 959, I once saw a picture of one" 🤣
    If I learned to use such comparisons, I would be the happiest man in the world 😆

  • @Carlitosmalo
    @Carlitosmalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Outstanding sense of humor!! Love it man!!!

  • @myfuturepuglife
    @myfuturepuglife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good take on the situation.

  • @mindyw782
    @mindyw782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    He didn't drop his girlfriend when he married like he should have. Sounds like another Prince Charles/Camilla/Diana love triangle and she had enough.

    • @eamonnmorris5331
      @eamonnmorris5331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Bill & Charles probably get hit on ALL the time ... you gotta cut them some slack!

    • @jimhenry3992
      @jimhenry3992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Only took 30 years

    • @cherrymetha3185
      @cherrymetha3185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Diana didn’t know about Camilla . When she found out she was told it was too late to stop the wedding as her ‘face was on the tea-towels ‘ And she was told by the Queen Mum not to worry as it was just a fling and Charles was going to dump Camilla once he married. Diana was young and naive . The woman who married Gates knew before she married him that he was going to keep seeing his girlfriend . She obviously married him for his money imo. Why didn’t he marry his girlfriend ? You’re right maybe the wife had enough ! Maybe they had an open relationship and she met someone else she wanted to be with ?

    • @cherrymetha3185
      @cherrymetha3185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @Taiwo Omotosho I’d rather be rich and unhappy than poor and unhappy.! Lol! Seriously though , Poverty and lack of money doesn’t buy happiness either. People throughout the world are d.ying because they have no money to buy food and fresh , clean water . Many people are miserable without money too and many people have money worries .
      We’re all told that money doesn’t buy happiness but I don’t see the rich giving away their money to be happy! In fact they just look for opportunities just to make more money. Money gives you the freedom to live your life as you want . Eg If you want to be an artist , you can , you don’t have to worry about the bills . If you want to travel you can. Money buys power and respect . People don’t respect the homeless guy begging for money in the street . Money isn’t everything in life but it’s darn important and great to have imo .

    • @SuperPhunThyme9
      @SuperPhunThyme9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Taiwo Omotosho yeh I feel you there. This is all just emotionally...gross

  • @camillarich
    @camillarich 3 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    It's just an excuse to break up their assets without suspicion. They have enough houses to live separate lives and never see each other already.

    • @jojomarie7446
      @jojomarie7446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Very good point. She had to have known the Gates Foundation doesn't really help anyone. It just goes to organizations that funnel the money back to the foundation.

    • @caraliecash246
      @caraliecash246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Gates Divorce= judge ordered sell of stocks before planned crash takes place. The only way for them to stay out of jail.

    • @organics4you
      @organics4you 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly

    • @37tara
      @37tara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @Stronggrl
      @Stronggrl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      There are many reports & evidence she sought a lawyers advice a while back after hearing he had Epstein ties so I dont blame her. That alone would give me creepy vibes. Guys like him have alot of skeletons in his closet & plenty of places to hide them.

  • @1rage17
    @1rage17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this is your funniest video yet 😭 im literally dead with your crass humor

  • @marysisak2359
    @marysisak2359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My parents had a very turbulent marriage. The only time I remember them having a stable marriage was when my mother volunteered to go back to work. Their mutual goal was to pay off the house so her entire paycheck was sent as additional house payment. I even remember my father clearing her car of snow in the morning despite the fact that he left for work at 6:30 am and my mother did not have to leave until 9:30 am. After they achieved their goal it went back to business as usual.

    • @wendellbabin6457
      @wendellbabin6457 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I could see this if the house was her Barbie Dream House that had to be remodeled every time a new season came out on HGTV. Replacing all the kitchen appliances because, like shoes, they were so "Last Season". A guy I worked with put it like this, "The only thing my wife knows about a stove is it is the wrong color!" And to keep it fair, damned few of us guys know what a Circular saw should be used for. Other than ending up in the Emergency Room. But it was on sale at Lowe's all weekend.

  • @Bayoubebe
    @Bayoubebe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    It seems like the years you’d want to be there for the one you loved all of your life, getting older and possibly sick, there for your loved one and someone there for you. As a nurse, I see widows and widowers all of the time, and it’s such a lonely life to be older and alone. Maybe not through sickness and health after all.

    • @cosmicjourney1111
      @cosmicjourney1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      People divorce and remarry at all stages of life. I met a fellow several months back who found new love again at age 90 and couldn’t be happier. I would think it would be a lonelier existence continuing life with a partner one has grown apart from, perhaps married for the wrong reasons or any number of scenarios. I think the pandemic woke a lot of people up to the fact that life is too short to feel bound to the wrong person for them, across all age groups and income levels. People have been shaken out of complacency and are looking at their lives with new eyes and new mindsets, and as a result a huge shift is happening. We will see many more of these announcements in the coming months, whether it’s celebrities or the nice couple down the street in your neighborhood that no one would ever imagine would split up. My opinion only. 💞

    • @Bayoubebe
      @Bayoubebe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cosmicjourney1111 yes, this is true also...good point

    • @vfree4579
      @vfree4579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@cosmicjourney1111 I agree that's why I'm making this comment on TH-cam. The pandemic open my eyes to every person that was in my life was not my friends. So closer to 60 years old I've made a decision to distance myself and not waste my time 2020 was one of the best year of my life

    • @mjohnson1741
      @mjohnson1741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cosmicjourney1111 You nailed it! This is the Aquarian age. More people just want to be happy and want to pursue that by doing whatever works for them as individuals. Dying alone scare tactic? There's many who are alone in nursing homes who are married and have children who live close by?

  • @SirBurnsicus
    @SirBurnsicus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    *lowkey drops windows shade* "... now back to my analysis" lollll

  • @belitamascarenhas3527
    @belitamascarenhas3527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent review.

  • @beatazegarowski5924
    @beatazegarowski5924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome summary 👍

  • @batrobbins1890
    @batrobbins1890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    98 y/o couple is in divorce court, saying they've been unhappy together for 79 years. Judge asks why they waited so long to go through with a divorce. Their answer: We wanted to wait till all our kids are dead.

  • @youtubeuser5735
    @youtubeuser5735 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    What is the divorce rate of billionaires shortly after the president announces a marriage tax on billionaires? Think tax avoidance... think like a billionaire.....let me know when they dissolve their foundation. That will be real. This divorce is simply tax avoidance

  • @HisLovesBest
    @HisLovesBest 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very well rounded talk! 👍

  • @richardanderson9957
    @richardanderson9957 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr. Grande is a great storyteller

  • @anothercleverusername992
    @anothercleverusername992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I get a _"Grey Divorce"..._
    If you're not happy, or need a change of life, you still have 30+ years left.... That's the entirety of my existence at this point. If you're not happy... Do it. Be happy.

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I agree. 💯 No matter what age you are. People deserve to be happy.

    • @gomonkeyfly
      @gomonkeyfly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      or its the side chic lol

    • @jmh814
      @jmh814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Divorce is a gift from God so you can covenant with Him. I have never had it better.

    • @chrisgould101
      @chrisgould101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Got a new side chick haven't told my wife yet😅😅

    • @healthyandrew5294
      @healthyandrew5294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jmh814 that's a lie. You sound sad

  • @carag2567
    @carag2567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Damn it, Grande, the SHAAAAADE! That Windows crapping out every other day line was pure savage 😂

  • @ErynRenee
    @ErynRenee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    My grandparents finalized their divorce just before my parents got married. Their marriage was awful, and they cheated on each other. My grandma ran off with my grandpa's (still married) best friend, leaving my dad and his brothers to be raised by my grandpa. She returned, asked for a divorce and tried to buy back her sons' affection. Now, I didn't know any of this growing up. In fact, they were best friends once their divorce was done...to the point that I didn't know they were ever married or divorced when I was growing up. They didn't act like they had ever been married, and they certainly didn't act like they had gotten divorced. They never put up walls or made us compartmentalize our relationship as a family. They spent holidays together with us. They visited each other. And my grandma cared for my grandpa following his stroke until he died (even though he had remarried, but that b*tch disappeared.) I just always thought they'd been friends.

    • @dionclark6581
      @dionclark6581 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Keep the history, keep the friendship.

  • @korro5870
    @korro5870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Let’s just Hope that Melinda will not disappear or founds dead somewhere. She seems to know TOO MUCH about BG & that can be too risky for Him to let her Go Away like that so easy

    • @nataliamach7248
      @nataliamach7248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They both have enough on each other to have confidence neither will slip up.

    • @michelled1475
      @michelled1475 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Complicit

    • @tamzenkarma
      @tamzenkarma 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's pray🙏🙏🙏

  • @sandydee8003
    @sandydee8003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I don’t understand being married and having an ongoing relationship with other people? I think this mutual agreement is unbelievably ridiculous. Why Marry with this in mind?

    • @hamlet557
      @hamlet557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Because your views about marriage are different than theirs.

    • @annfeeney1662
      @annfeeney1662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Did Bill explain why he didn’t marry the first girlfriend with whom he spends one weekend per year?

    • @lelanalela7932
      @lelanalela7932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I bet because he was rising star.

    • @balddate3142
      @balddate3142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ..To be able to join night pool parties and other perks and benefits....at some "high status" neighborhood near by.... :P :/

    • @007nadineL
      @007nadineL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Because narc want their cake and to eat it too.
      .

  • @carolinecardwell2163
    @carolinecardwell2163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    I can't help but wonder how that conversation went when Bill was like "Melissa, I love you and want you to be my wife forever, but do you mind if I plan an annual weekend trip with my ex? It'll just be the two of us, but I promise it's strictly platonic. No hanky panky.".

    • @svalentina3075
      @svalentina3075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@crochunter35 For the amount of money she made, I too would have turned a blind eye, to be completely honest.

    • @bbblll9846
      @bbblll9846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for the honesty

    • @Pursuepeace0715
      @Pursuepeace0715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@svalentina3075 I agree and who knows if Melinda didn't have someone at the side. The wife is in a position of power over the side chics and as long as he taking care of me, kids and our home and he not bringing diseases or any bastards. We good!

    • @JustBeingAwesome
      @JustBeingAwesome 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm a 39-year old woman and I have plenty of pure platonic friendships with men. I would never think of making that physical. We often have very stimulating conversations. I have a very high IQ so for me that's kind of "essential" to be happy in life. So I would understand that arrangement.
      And before you ask: I'm called "very beautiful" by plenty of people so it's not for a lack of interrest.

    • @lynnemarkgraf8689
      @lynnemarkgraf8689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This is incredibly odd.

  • @alexgmail6218
    @alexgmail6218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice..
    Inspiring review

  • @myleemae7858
    @myleemae7858 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your channel, especially your humor!

  • @BigZebraCom
    @BigZebraCom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Just a reminder, I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; just speculating what could be the meaning of five plants lined up diagonally across a small nightstand like this.

    • @DameVonBonDaisy
      @DameVonBonDaisy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol ❤

    • @nancydisney1274
      @nancydisney1274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes ! 💟 ❗️ 🤣 Your got it! So cute!

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DameVonBonDaisy hey thanks for the emote!
      :)

    • @BigZebraCom
      @BigZebraCom 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nancydisney1274 wow thanks for the emotes!

  • @bascal133
    @bascal133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Dr. Grande spares NO ONE, literally spends the second half of the video flaming himself. What an icon✨

  • @harrycook111
    @harrycook111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5 minutes into your monologue I hit subscribe. Hope to hear more from you. Add edit: I think your last theory is right on the money.

  • @BradyMayCry
    @BradyMayCry 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your sense of humour so much, Dr. Grande!

  • @norse_cat
    @norse_cat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I like the list of "comparisons." Too funny!

  • @ltraina3353
    @ltraina3353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Wow, you certainly don’t look old enough to be married 27 years. That’s awesome. As always, your dry sense of humor is priceless!

  • @tehirahbwalatum3754
    @tehirahbwalatum3754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your deadpan humour is priceless 🤣👌...Dr Grande

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn’t listen to this when Grande uploaded it. I can’t remember why, but I had a reason. This Gates report is another very interesting story and analysis from Grande. I’m rolling! I’ve never even heard of that vehicle, never mind seen one, ridden in, or owned one.

  • @deerhart
    @deerhart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    The worlds wealthiest women is the owner of L'Oreal, I didn't know that. I guess its because she's worth it.

    • @carolbradley4845
      @carolbradley4845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Genius comment....lol

    • @siaitsme6800
      @siaitsme6800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haha... Good one!! 👍👍👏
      But of course we don't know "if she really is worth it.."

    • @lucymarion2945
      @lucymarion2945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hahaha...Anyways, I thought oprah was the wealthiest woman...but I guess wealthiest black woman?!?!?

    • @25johis
      @25johis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤑🤑🤑

    • @yvonneplant9434
      @yvonneplant9434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lucymarion2945 Actually Oprah may not the weathliest black woman. It could be one of the Johnsons who owned Johnson publication(Ebony Magazine) then BET which they sold to CBS/Viacom. The latter probably made them a bundle!