Ya, I'm usually camping or boating, so I'm not exactly all dolled up. I don't wear anything that's beat down, tho. Always nice running shoes and well-fitting clothes in colors that look good on me. I'm pretty picky.
What standards do u hold yourself to? I know what your insinuating. But thats disrespectful to all the work men put in to be in a relationship with you. I think the least you could do is keep yourself up
take heed to that saying I'm a firefighter and an EMT and I can't tell you how many people I have encountered who have either never heard that saying or didn't pay attention to it
1:18, "women should.not have to dress for the people around them." You don't have to. You can dress however you like. With as little or as much effort as you prefer. But no one else is obligated to like how you look.
But that's the sticking point right there. If everyone doesn't find her interesting, hilarious, and attractive they're "judging" her, which allows her to feel superior to them. Just another demonstration of the profoundly delusional sense of entitlement this generation has been spoon fed by people who only wish to sell them useless products. "You should never have to compete, that's too hard, the world owes you something simply because you were born average." Sad.
@@kfen8794 You can lol. But, you don't know that. And Besides I always pictured meeting my future husband sweaty and stinky from either work or a workout. I could never imagine meeting my future hubby all dressed up in a suit and tie. I will find him, however we meet, irresistible and delectable. But that's just me. I like the sweaty stinky coming from work or the gym aroma and look. It's extremely attractive to me. It signifies to me that he's STRONG and PROTECTIVE. Wanted to Add: other women have their own personal perspectives and ideas of what they find strong and protective in their men. It's just biological and I have always looked at it on a BIOLOGICAL level.
@@SpecialKRNB no high value man is going to approach a women that he doesn't find attractive.everyone has their own taste, but quality men want quality women simple as that
Veronica Blum That’s because she’s really insecure 😟 nobody asked her how long they were together nor did they asked who makes the money in the so call relationship, she doesn’t look confident she looks desperate.
She comes across butch. Had a friend like that. She didn't give a damn. Everyone laugh she was straight thought otherwise had a man. He actually preferred her and her attitude. There r those out thete
Well she said she was the one who hunted her Boyfriend down. That explains it. Can't stand her. Annoying. I agree with Steve. You don't have to look beat down, at least do something.
Rachel P No one says you have to look good. No one is saying you have to do anything. We are merely suggesting that you shouldn’t go out looking homeless. But if that’s what you want, if you want to go out looking like you just woke up, without even taking a shower, fine. But even as a guy, I never go out without trying to look at least a little presentable. This doesn’t only apply to women. It applies to everyone. But of course women make it about themselves and how oppressed they are.
I think they're talkin' bout false eye lashes, spanx, high heels, tons of time spent on nails and makeup hairpieces , just way too much,.....keep yerself in good shape, do what makes you happy and confident, and there's nothing wrong with the nat'l look. Just be clean reasonably well groomed. Supermodel, Lauren Hutton, pulled it off superbly in the '70's.
@ Stacey Kersting: most men don't require any of that. many men like it, but they don't require it. much of the beauty standard pressure that women get, are from society & other women. men don't care. as long as you have a vagina, men don't care about the rest as much as you think.
No….women will legit be treated differently based on their appearance. Men don’t experience that to the same degree because people care more about a man’s mind than their appearance.
Until there's a house fire then she'll twist those little brown hairs into pigtails and scream "oh I'm just a girl" there are no feminists in a house fire. Women and children first. $1/he surcharge- Bill Burr But for real those are FACTS!
She should be voted as a Feminism movement Leader. Since I watch several question and chapter of the show, she always against everyone(Man & Women) in the room
She is a millennial for sure. Her thoughts and opinions are what matters and her experiences are the facts of life. And obviously just has sex with whoever wants to give it to her.
+falconfan1990 She sounds like the type who would put down other women and accuse them of having low self esteem just because they always try to look good.
Confidence isn't fake hair and makeup. Confidence is all about a mindset. I agree with her on that. Some of these women dressed to the hilt and have no personality. Not to mention narcissistic.
Confidence = knowing you have assets to put on the table. If you are ugly AF and you are confident, you better be rich or you're fake and women will think you're a creep.
that line when he said "You know when you look your best..." you go after them, the shade...he probably saying she looked her best in her sweats when she went after her 'boyfriend'.
My mother taught me to be decent no matter what you have on and where you're going. Yes, a woman can look beautiful whether she's dressed up or dressed down but should be decent at ALL times. Meaning, if you're running to WalMart or to the laundry mat, doesn't mean you go out in pajamas and slippers(throwing on sneakers is still not ok), hair in curlers with an ugly, dingy scarf on your head, looking like you haven't cleaned yourself or brushed your teeth. That's tacky and disgusting.
Exactly sometimes if I leave the house with no makeup I make sure my skin is clean and my hair is on fleek and smell freshz even if I’m wearing just a t shirt and leggings. Although I don’t agree with the sneakers part cause I always wear nice looking sneakers most the time lol
So the woman in purple don't get dressed to impress her husband but got dressed up to a live studio audience and millions of viewers that she don't know! Make it make sense!
"The woman should dress for herself" Aha, then she can also stay with herself:-) When I go fishing I don't place a cold beer at the hook but a worm, because the bait does not have to attract me but the fish. Yes, men value the looks of a woman...its just the way it is. The same is true with what women look for in a man. There is simply no point in bashing each other for how we are and what we desire. Also what about talking about gender gap? Men and women are different and they always will be. A woman is always going to look for different things in a man then a man is looking for in a woman.
As a girl I like to dress up for myself and feel good about myself. As for partner wise , I don't expect them to go full out fashionista but I do appreciate if the guy wears something appealing. I also do like to dress up for the guy not because i'm forced to but because I want him to see that I put effort in and I want him to think like "damn that's my girl"
Steve's facial expressions are everything...that chic in the navy needs to have several seats because she's not exactly winning in the great looks department AND what about having pride in your appearance. I very rarely go out in jeans and a hoodie or go to the store in my gym clothes after the gym...my attire reflects who I am to the people around me. We like to say don't judge a book by it's cover but if you seen me in a moo moo, hair in a bun on top of my head with no make up because im "comfortable" and "confident" and came to you for a job or pick my kid up from school, you would judge me
Thank you Joe! Yes, first impressions matter. Others might not want to hear it but it does not changes the fact that you get the job/the girl/the opportunity when you look more put together because it gives the impression that you have your life in order.
Women are judged by their appearance; men are judged by their wallets (clothes, car, house). Judging by Steve's dress alone, every husband-seeking woman KNOWS he has a bigger wallet and more spending power -- and therefore more desirability -- than the four men on his panel.
Katherine is crazy. I'm 21 and a big girl too and when other big girls say things like this, it really gets on my nerves. People are going to judge your based on your appearance and while everyone wishes that wasn't the case, it is what it is. The solution isn't to keep stubbornly living in this ideal world in the hope that people are going to accommodate you. There's a balance between staying true to yourself and knowing that if you want to win you've gotta play the game. It's not like you have to lose weight and stay dressed to the nines but, you have to acknowledge that every choice has a cost and it up to you figure out what your budget is.
You can lie to yourself if you want ladies but a man likes something pretty to look at. Doesn’t mean you have to have a full face of makeup and salon hair every day, but stay pulled together, live a healthy lifestyle, and on some kind of regular basis get dressed up and remind him of what “date night” you looks like.
I think the majority of men do like a woman dressed nicely, but not ALL men, as this man on here demonstrated. My hubby doesnt want me in torn up sweats and tshirts three sizes too big, but hes just as happy if im in a pair of jeans and tshirt as he is a nice dress. And he doesnt like makeup at all. But he is also very low-maintenance, tshirt and jeans kind of guy. Theres all kinds, you just have to find your match. :)
I don't have that problem because I like to look good everywhere I go, even just half decent when going to Walmart. I'm the type of woman who likes to dress up and wear heels. It's a part of my personality ever since I lost 106 lbs.
Steve, I spent a lot of time in my formative years with my father's parents. My grandmother was the real life Donna Reed. She cooked and cleaned in skirts (with petticoats), pumps, velour or cashmere tops and apron. I never saw her in anything else unless it was a formal occasion. Every dinner was full table settings with 3 forks, 2 spoons and knives (plus proper table edicate and protocol). Every day at exactly 5:30 she would stop what she was doing and go to the bedroom and sit in front of the vanity and "doll herself" up, before my grandpa came home. She always said that a good wife "always" made herself presentable to her husband when he comes home from work. He's worked hard and "we" (I guess she was talking about the both of us) have no idea if grandpa had a good or bad day and it was her job to ensure he didn't have and problems (stress) when he comes home. She was obviously an anomaly, because in my many years of searching, I have not met one woman that even comes close to her. In fact, it's been kind of fun when girls try to compare me to other men (I say, "don't play that game with me...") and I roll out the "battleship" that was my grandmother. They didn't even have a chance. Keep up the laughter.
Why does that woman act like women wouldn’t prefer they men to be well groomed and take care of the way they smell and dress? She acts like we expect them to look like a 10 while we gain weight sitting around in front of the TV watching sports with pizza stains on our wifebeaters... Most men nowadays actually take care of themselves way more than in the past and ladies LOVE IT... Deny it, I dare you
My mother, who is a very shrewed businesswoman, told me to always look my best. Never to gain approval, but to use it in my arsenal in getting my goals. People will always be visual creatures and the image what you portray is what they will believe. Others can argue about it for hours but it does not make it any less real.
Yeah, and she says she wants people to love her for her mind, not her appearance. That is because she is too lazy to work on her appearance. And her mind isn't worth much either, given that she is self important and delusional.
Men are visual I understand but if you want your lady to look good all the time it's A fantasy because I bet your not living up to her standards all the time a man want a beautiful woman on his arm a lady wants her man to be faithful, respect,ful honest ,a great provider, if you can't live up to my standards then don't expect me to live up to yours.
The comments here are disgusting especially when it comes to the white girl with the bold personality . Everyone is different and has an opinion, and just because she voices hers doesn't make her weird or a freak. dont judge people on a 5min segment .
It's funny that the most unattractive woman there is the one who is the most vocal about how your looks doesn't matter. 🤣 She actually said that when she met her boyfriend she said "hey you wanna make out?" If she took more pride in her appearance, she wouldn't have had to ask.
I love being well dressed HOWEVER the woman in the purple dress has a right to dress how she wants. These comments and the folks on this video are a trip. People need to stop being so worried about what the next person is doing and worry about themselves.
I'm sorry but as a woman, I don't wear makeup, or straighten, dye my hair, infact I don't eveb own a hair dyer. BUT I always have home cooked meals, use steel or glass as storage, we even make our own mayo, go for walks, relax, dance, and drink lotts of filtered water! This is more expensive and hard, but it shines through and natural beauty cannot ever be compared to plastic, thats like saying you prefer fake gem stones. My opinion, feel free to criticise.
IKR? Seems there's a new "tyrrany of geauty" on the loose These young girls on YT have "makeup rooms". I'm not against a little make up, but, really....too much is hookerish, clownish, doesn't let the real you shine thru!
That woman's advice is terrible same with the guy in green. I expect my woman to look good all the time because I expect that from myself all the time. Don't be looking like a slob, it's not ok.
Of course women are still judged for their appearance, this is one thing I don't think is ever going to change. But what I like seeing, is how women are starting to judge men's appearance a lot more than before. Good looking guys gets just as much if not more likes on Instagram and facebook than girls, attractive male actors having a solid female fanbase and that skyrockets their career, and of course when a man looks good and chats up a girl, it's definitely easier for you to get her number or a smile. Men are starting to realise that being attractive brings them benefits the same way as attractive females get benefits from men.
+TenjoZakito to be fair, women have been judging men's appearance for a long time. But this is one of those situations where there's more nuances compared to what's being talked about in this video.
Brian .Word Personally I feel that men doesn't get judged by appearance as much, or at least it doesn't affect their day to day lives when they aren't attractive. But then again I am not a men so I won't know
It happens more than most people probably think. Like I've been told by female family members, female friends, and random females i do't know that I'm handsome. But right now I'm dealing with a skin condition that does take away from any attractiveness females believe I have, and because my current condition is out in the open for everyone to see, most people are likely judging me as i interact with them, they just happen to have the good graces to not say it to me so as not to accidentally insult me. The women in this video on the other, it's not even that their judged on attractiveness but on presentation, which everyone is judged for. As a black man, if I posted pictures on social media with pants sagging, gold grill on my teeth and obscene tattoos, I'd definitely be looked at in a negative light, even if people who know me well enough will call me the nicest guy on the planet. These girls may be the nicest girls on the planet, but if they're posting those kinds of pictures, it sends a message to men and women in general. But this video had a specific focus.
Haitian Wood Yeah because I bet you think women can't earn their own money, that male strippers and escorts don't exist, and every women out there is going to throw themselves at you after they find out you have money, or shun you after they find out you don't. Either you surround yourself with a very small and toxic group of people, or you just haven't personally got to know enough women to form a unbiased opinion on them.
Both men and women care about looks just as much. The reason a woman wants to go up to a guy like steve showed is because he's attractive. No woman would go up to a guy or do anything like that to an ugly or average looking guy
Steve dresses like a million bucks, but it's not right for me. I wouldn't date a guy that dresses like him alot. It's just not my thing. Different types.
I don't like dressing up all the time but I do believe in looking decent all the time. Taking time for either your hair or doing your eyebrows and putting on chapstick and mascara isn't going to kill you. It's great that you can have confidence without dressing to the nines all the time but don't get upset when men or women do not show you the respect you know you want. If you leave your house with a dingy scarf and a stained shirt you put out energy that tells people that you don't take care of yourself. Everyone had 24 hours and can spend 5 minutes getting something together. You never know who is watching you when you leave your house.
on the street if we are to approach a girl ALL WE CAN GO OFF IS LOOKS THATS ALL WE CAN JUDGE! Jesus we can't read minds, of coarse we're gonna judge your appearance.
+Daniel Prime You're going to see the way we're dressed the moment you meet us... Making a judgement on that very moment is kind of superficial, just admit it ^^. We're definitely more than looks even if they matter for a first impression... But I'm personally approached dressed up and in sweat pants / hoodie with zero make up... Turns out charisma or confidence, or smile or whatever are better weapons than just clothes... (And tip for you guys : pick a person who is ok looking when natural... When dressed up, you'll be amazed (: !)
+Blu being judged by "charisma and confidence" is still part of your outside looks it's not until they get to know you that they'll really see whats inside. to us your nothing but a good looking person on the streets when we make the first approach, a smile helps but that still your looks.
+Daniel Prime The video said women are expected to look / dress nice to be noticed or please men or whatever, but it is not what I've experienced... You can attract people without make up or fancy clothes... That's my point (: ... I do suppose something on the global appearance caught the eye of the approacher, but to me it's less depressing to see that looking perfect is not the only thing people notice (:
GIRL, SWEATS IS NOT SEXY AT ALL...NO, SWEATPANTS EQUALS BEING ALONE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, LIFE, LIFE, LIFE AND LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I like how everyone is like I dress nice for myself and my confidence. LOL ok. You gain your confidence because people around you sill start giving you looks and checking you out even if it’s subtle. Your subconscious is still aware of it.
Nope, don't buy that. I saw a comment that made a lot of sense to me. They said that if you would be the last person on earth, would you still wear your stilletos everyday and nice dresses and makeup, etc?
Then the woman will be alone or the men will find interest in another women who is attractive. If a woman wants to keep his man interested; then she better be dressing for herself and her man. Yes the man needs you to dress to keep him interested, else he will look and go the other way. Independent women who just do for her self, will end up being alone or going through multiple men in her life. This is the truth. When women say they do not need a man, guess what? Quality men are looking for quality women, not pretenders.🤔
Everyone on here is full of it. What if I bought a 800 dollar outfit and people think it looks like a homeless outfit. I think people should be judged on their actions because let's face it the ones that judge you are either ugly old or poor.
When a guy dresses up, especially for me I can't help but appreciate him and I find it attractive. Workout Clothes can be attractive too, but that extra effort is even better. Vice versa with my appearance as well. Changing levels of formality every now and then is healthy.
Steve face when she said this is the nicest I looked in a year.😂😂😂💀💀
I laughed sooooo loud
Steve lost his diplomacy with her. If he would live with her he would wear earplugs....Its not fair that some women got such voice.
😂😂😂
He was like girlll oh hell no
Right and Juanita’s face too 😂😂
I feel people should dress appropriately for the occasion. lol
Ya, I'm usually camping or boating, so I'm not exactly all dolled up. I don't wear anything that's beat down, tho. Always nice running shoes and well-fitting clothes in colors that look good on me. I'm pretty picky.
I 100% agree. To me if a woman is overdressed it is just as big of a turn off as being underdressed
I agree. Sweatpants for important occasions and boxers for funerals
if you expect your partner to be hot, u better look the part yourself.
If you expect 7 figure salary, you better reciprocate with at least mid six figure salary .
Vengeance Fray why
Exactly.
What standards do u hold yourself to? I know what your insinuating. But thats disrespectful to all the work men put in to be in a relationship with you. I think the least you could do is keep yourself up
And u better pay half the bill
Steve face when she said this is the nicest I looked in a year.😂😂😂💀💀
Alaysia Carter, her nicest is my daily style when i go to buy groceries. Yikes.
Yesss I died
I died
Steve was cringing hard lol
She needs to try again next year that ain’t it
Keep clean underwear on in case you have to go to the hospital 😂
+Booda Davis Omg , mom always told me to always match my bras and panties in case i have to go to the hospital Hahah I can relate there
lol that's an old one😁
+Dreams ahlam Chile, some days, I grab what I see..,lol. yellow bra, black and white podka dot panties...lol
+Booda Davis my mum told me this and i've never forgotten it, my poor kids will get this lecture too.
take heed to that saying I'm a firefighter and an EMT and I can't tell you how many people I have encountered who have either never heard that saying or didn't pay attention to it
1:18, "women should.not have to dress for the people around them."
You don't have to. You can dress however you like. With as little or as much effort as you prefer.
But no one else is obligated to like how you look.
But that's the sticking point right there. If everyone doesn't find her interesting, hilarious, and attractive they're "judging" her, which allows her to feel superior to them. Just another demonstration of the profoundly delusional sense of entitlement this generation has been spoon fed by people who only wish to sell them useless products. "You should never have to compete, that's too hard, the world owes you something simply because you were born average." Sad.
@@harleyjameson1939 Girl don't entertain him. A woman could look a hot disgusting mess and men STILL feel comfortable enough to approach. Facts.
@@SpecialKRNB ya bums but not high value men who have options lol
@@kfen8794 You can lol. But, you don't know that. And Besides I always pictured meeting my future husband sweaty and stinky from either work or a workout. I could never imagine meeting my future hubby all dressed up in a suit and tie. I will find him, however we meet, irresistible and delectable. But that's just me. I like the sweaty stinky coming from work or the gym aroma and look. It's extremely attractive to me. It signifies to me that he's STRONG and PROTECTIVE.
Wanted to Add: other women have their own personal perspectives and ideas of what they find strong and protective in their men. It's just biological and I have always looked at it on a BIOLOGICAL level.
@@SpecialKRNB no high value man is going to approach a women that he doesn't find attractive.everyone has their own taste, but quality men want quality women simple as that
Every time that white chick speaks I'm like.... 😒
+Joinee Jones why she made a lot of sense, like it or not
Annoying Af.
+Joinee Jones It was like she was trying to out do Steve.
Yes...yes...yes
+Joinee Jones Stop being racist
God that woman in purple has the most irritating voice and personality!
Veronica Blum That’s because she’s really insecure 😟 nobody asked her how long they were together nor did they asked who makes the money in the so call relationship, she doesn’t look confident she looks desperate.
She comes across butch. Had a friend like that. She didn't give a damn. Everyone laugh she was straight thought otherwise had a man. He actually preferred her and her attitude. There r those out thete
Seriously, like girl bye🤣she aggy
Her voice may be annoying but she’s speaking facts🤷🏾♀️...
Well she said she was the one who hunted her Boyfriend down. That explains it.
Can't stand her. Annoying. I agree with Steve. You don't have to look beat down, at least do something.
+Shah Dee LOOLLLL i totally agree with you
+Lee K Glad we're on e same page
It's not about wearing sweatpants you can wear sweatpants and still look good im just saying this is more than just sweatpants
Rachel P No one says you have to look good. No one is saying you have to do anything. We are merely suggesting that you shouldn’t go out looking homeless. But if that’s what you want, if you want to go out looking like you just woke up, without even taking a shower, fine. But even as a guy, I never go out without trying to look at least a little presentable. This doesn’t only apply to women. It applies to everyone. But of course women make it about themselves and how oppressed they are.
Well damn she ain't hurting nobody. I see what you saying tho
the girl in the purple is 24? she looks older than me and i'm 27.
She’s 27 now lmao
I think that’s because she is fat
Fats look older
@@mohammadyousuf1516 I agree
she looks older than me & i'm 39...
She looks 40
how is that woman 24?
Who??
Phy Phy she looks 44
Thelondonbadger oh ma gawd i ded😂
She's white
I don't believe it! She looks 38!
"What the hell is wrong with you?" My thoughts exactly Steve
"she's awesome" Steve killed me 😂
When I leave my house I am representing myself, my husband and my faith. I refuse to look "beat to hell". lol
LOL love your comment. one must look good at ALL times. :) stay classy
carmay3600 you're on point girl
carmay3600 ok!
I’m a guy and believe even we should be expected to dress nice.
Exactly. I'm divorced but I refuse to look beat to hell because Boaz might be at the store.
I honestly think there's no real double standards, there's actually a demand to look good for both parties.
I think they're talkin' bout false eye lashes, spanx, high heels, tons of time spent on nails and makeup hairpieces , just way too much,.....keep yerself in good shape, do what makes you happy and confident, and there's nothing wrong with the nat'l look. Just be clean reasonably well groomed. Supermodel, Lauren Hutton, pulled it off superbly in the '70's.
I agree with that. Women expect you to look nice when you go somewhere with them.
@ Stacey Kersting: most men don't require any of that. many men like it, but they don't require it. much of the beauty standard pressure that women get, are from society & other women. men don't care. as long as you have a vagina, men don't care about the rest as much as you think.
Looking good is just different for the sexes. If I see a man dressed up by woman standards I’m gonna be turned off (think makeup)
No….women will legit be treated differently based on their appearance. Men don’t experience that to the same degree because people care more about a man’s mind than their appearance.
the woman in purple screams to me: FEMINIST EXTREMIST lol
Jina S or just a fat Girl! LMAO
SJW and also part of the Fat Acceptance movement.
Until there's a house fire then she'll twist those little brown hairs into pigtails and scream "oh I'm just a girl" there are no feminists in a house fire. Women and children first. $1/he surcharge- Bill Burr But for real those are FACTS!
@@crazyhass84 What's wrong with her weight
@@sersomeone9704 yall like making fun of these SJWs but continue to bully and belittle them
Just look presentable for crying out loud... you don’t have to over do it but just look good because first impressions matter
girl in the purple lies too much
She should be voted as a Feminism movement Leader. Since I watch several question and chapter of the show, she always against everyone(Man & Women) in the room
I want to see her boyfriend face when she says that she had sex more than 20 man.
She has a BF?
Nope.
No way.
I thought she was in her 40s. Sadly it says she’s 24.
She is a millennial for sure. Her thoughts and opinions are what matters and her experiences are the facts of life. And obviously just has sex with whoever wants to give it to her.
The lady in purple makes my ears ache 🤣🤣🤣
The white girl sounds like she is has low self esteem
She's your typical modern day white liberal feminist.
+falconfan1990 She sounds like the type who would put down other women and accuse them of having low self esteem just because they always try to look good.
+falconfan1990 Don't see how. She did say she doesn't really care for appearances. That would kind of imply she holds herself to some esteem.
Don't we all =|
+Michelle Talley LMAO!!!! You are hilarious!!!
Confidence isn't fake hair and makeup. Confidence is all about a mindset. I agree with her on that. Some of these women dressed to the hilt and have no personality. Not to mention narcissistic.
AGREED. Snobs.
Confidence = knowing you have assets to put on the table.
If you are ugly AF and you are confident, you better be rich or you're fake and women will think you're a creep.
Exactly
With low self esteem. Hiding behind clothes and makeup. What you see is what you get. I'm not getting doll up to go get groceries.
Ha!! Steve Harvey face though at her ''This is the nicest I've looked all year..''!!! lmao!!
+NellyBelle Yasss, he was thinking "there's worse?!" haha
TheBrooklynchik1987 right! Lol
that line when he said "You know when you look your best..." you go after them, the shade...he probably saying she looked her best in her sweats when she went after her 'boyfriend'.
😂😂
When she said she wants to bless her husband, some in the audience didn't know whether to applaud or not
Because the way she said sounded so condescending
So what's the argument, to have the right to look awful and smell bad but still attract people? Grooming is just basic health and well being.
Preach!!!!
The guy with the glasses though who said "You should always dress to impress" 😍👌 he fine!
Yes 😍
Hey he single
@@mariselahernandez1731 but he true on words. Always dress to impress
My mother taught me to be decent no matter what you have on and where you're going. Yes, a woman can look beautiful whether she's dressed up or dressed down but should be decent at ALL times. Meaning, if you're running to WalMart or to the laundry mat, doesn't mean you go out in pajamas and slippers(throwing on sneakers is still not ok), hair in curlers with an ugly, dingy scarf on your head, looking like you haven't cleaned yourself or brushed your teeth. That's tacky and disgusting.
+Laneen “Cherokee” M Your mother is a smart woman
+Tara Cherokee Marsh I totally agree.The same should apply to men though.
Exactly sometimes if I leave the house with no makeup I make sure my skin is clean and my hair is on fleek and smell freshz even if I’m wearing just a t shirt and leggings. Although I don’t agree with the sneakers part cause I always wear nice looking sneakers most the time lol
So the woman in purple don't get dressed to impress her husband but got dressed up to a live studio audience and millions of viewers that she don't know! Make it make sense!
Loool the white people have the mindset of every tumblr user in 2015
+Ashley Florez ahahahah PREACH
lol
so you should only dress good for a man?
***** you need to re-read my comment boo
lmaooo it's crazy ppl actually think like that.
NO .. we Like good looking men. They need to look fly too
Lmfaooo at Steve "we can't ever know you". 😂😂😂
#TooFunny 😂😂
@Thelondonbadger not true
"The woman should dress for herself" Aha, then she can also stay with herself:-)
When I go fishing I don't place a cold beer at the hook but a worm, because the bait does not have to attract me but the fish.
Yes, men value the looks of a woman...its just the way it is. The same is true with what women look for in a man.
There is simply no point in bashing each other for how we are and what we desire.
Also what about talking about gender gap? Men and women are different and they always will be. A woman is always going to look for different things in a man then a man is looking for in a woman.
That's a great metaphor.
That girl on the right......omg....I can't see how a man can even talk to her, or anyone for that matter. I don't believe she's had sex 20 times lol.
There's someone for everyone
+vipersnake94 yes those 20 guys were probably desperate virgins or the same size as her.
+sam poo ..... HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAAH!!!!!
If she said 20 times it’s probably not 20 guys. It’s probably the count with her current bf. I’m just saying 🤷🏻♀️
She’s for the beta males not the alpha males
As a girl I like to dress up for myself and feel good about myself. As for partner wise , I don't expect them to go full out fashionista but I do appreciate if the guy wears something appealing. I also do like to dress up for the guy not because i'm forced to but because I want him to see that I put effort in and I want him to think like "damn that's my girl"
Well said and you want to look your best with your man and I want my gal to best
Steve's facial expressions are everything...that chic in the navy needs to have several seats because she's not exactly winning in the great looks department AND what about having pride in your appearance. I very rarely go out in jeans and a hoodie or go to the store in my gym clothes after the gym...my attire reflects who I am to the people around me. We like to say don't judge a book by it's cover but if you seen me in a moo moo, hair in a bun on top of my head with no make up because im "comfortable" and "confident" and came to you for a job or pick my kid up from school, you would judge me
+Natas Nico-
I go out in a hoodie and jeans all of the time because I don't like the attention. So I hide.
The days I'm "bummy" and want no one to bother me seem to be the days I get most attention. Make it make sense.
Uh this 24 year old...The men said nothing about judging just that they appreciate time put into looking good.
Thank you Joe! Yes, first impressions matter. Others might not want to hear it but it does not changes the fact that you get the job/the girl/the opportunity when you look more put together because it gives the impression that you have your life in order.
I love being a beautiful woman.
+Adam Hecker ....thank you that is a nice compliment.
Thelondonbadger ikr. Women can be so envious smh
Kufre Akpan speak for yourself only
True! Stay beautiful!
All women are beautiful!
She's being honest. Too honest 😆. And people can't handle that.🤷🏾♀️
Ikr? Who doesnt want to wear sweats all the time!? I wear leggings and tshirts all the time and my hubby still staring at my ass 🤷♀️🤣🤣🤣
Oh we can handle her honesty it's her jelly roll looking stomach that gave me a hard time lol
TrinityHostile cause you body probably snatched boo... I hope 😳😉
She's not honest about her weight tho 😂😂😂
Exactly. People can’t handle the truth esp when it isn’t popular.
Women are judged by their appearance; men are judged by their wallets (clothes, car, house). Judging by Steve's dress alone, every husband-seeking woman KNOWS he has a bigger wallet and more spending power -- and therefore more desirability -- than the four men on his panel.
I think it’s starting to change though. Women make their own money now so they expect men to look good now too.
@@carriewhitmore the men you want do not care for your money while the men that care about your money will not look like the men you want.
@@redclayscholar620 damn nice one
Katherine is crazy. I'm 21 and a big girl too and when other big girls say things like this, it really gets on my nerves. People are going to judge your based on your appearance and while everyone wishes that wasn't the case, it is what it is. The solution isn't to keep stubbornly living in this ideal world in the hope that people are going to accommodate you. There's a balance between staying true to yourself and knowing that if you want to win you've gotta play the game. It's not like you have to lose weight and stay dressed to the nines but, you have to acknowledge that every choice has a cost and it up to you figure out what your budget is.
I guarantee you that the girl in the purple made up a majority of what she said
You can lie to yourself if you want ladies but a man likes something pretty to look at. Doesn’t mean you have to have a full face of makeup and salon hair every day, but stay pulled together, live a healthy lifestyle, and on some kind of regular basis get dressed up and remind him of what “date night” you looks like.
I think the majority of men do like a woman dressed nicely, but not ALL men, as this man on here demonstrated. My hubby doesnt want me in torn up sweats and tshirts three sizes too big, but hes just as happy if im in a pair of jeans and tshirt as he is a nice dress. And he doesnt like makeup at all. But he is also very low-maintenance, tshirt and jeans kind of guy. Theres all kinds, you just have to find your match. :)
Exactly.
Exactly, thank you.
I don't have that problem because I like to look good everywhere I go, even just half decent when going to Walmart. I'm the type of woman who likes to dress up and wear heels. It's a part of my personality ever since I lost 106 lbs.
Shaunée Nicole yes baby congrats on the loss 🖤
0:55 STEVE SO PETTYYYY 💀💀💀
Hahahaha! He thinks he knows everything about everything......hahahaha.......like his view is the only view.....
Steve, I spent a lot of time in my formative years with my father's parents. My grandmother was the real life Donna Reed. She cooked and cleaned in skirts (with petticoats), pumps, velour or cashmere tops and apron. I never saw her in anything else unless it was a formal occasion. Every dinner was full table settings with 3 forks, 2 spoons and knives (plus proper table edicate and protocol).
Every day at exactly 5:30 she would stop what she was doing and go to the bedroom and sit in front of the vanity and "doll herself" up, before my grandpa came home. She always said that a good wife "always" made herself presentable to her husband when he comes home from work. He's worked hard and "we" (I guess she was talking about the both of us) have no idea if grandpa had a good or bad day and it was her job to ensure he didn't have and problems (stress) when he comes home.
She was obviously an anomaly, because in my many years of searching, I have not met one woman that even comes close to her.
In fact, it's been kind of fun when girls try to compare me to other men (I say, "don't play that game with me...") and I roll out the "battleship" that was my grandmother. They didn't even have a chance.
Keep up the laughter.
I really question if the one in purple actually has a boyfriend.
Why does that woman act like women wouldn’t prefer they men to be well groomed and take care of the way they smell and dress? She acts like we expect them to look like a 10 while we gain weight sitting around in front of the TV watching sports with pizza stains on our wifebeaters... Most men nowadays actually take care of themselves way more than in the past and ladies LOVE IT... Deny it, I dare you
My mother, who is a very shrewed businesswoman, told me to always look my best. Never to gain approval, but to use it in my arsenal in getting my goals. People will always be visual creatures and the image what you portray is what they will believe. Others can argue about it for hours but it does not make it any less real.
steve's face killed me...he's like you looked worse than this?! then he is looking at the audience like why is you clapping? lol i cant
Yeah, and she says she wants people to love her for her mind, not her appearance. That is because she is too lazy to work on her appearance. And her mind isn't worth much either, given that she is self important and delusional.
the camera man knows his job...every time someone says something sketchy, he has to point to Steve face for his expression LoL
"This is this nicest I've looked all year!!"
Me: Oh my... 😕😕
As soon as the big girl opened her mouth I knew this is going to be a problem and very annoying and I was right, I mute everytime she speaks lol
YOU MUTED!??? LMAOOO!! 😂😂😂😂😭
I rather listen to a cat getting raped by a moose than to hear that fatty in the purple dress voice again smh annoying af
Girl in the purple cannot be just 24. I thought she was older
Men are visual I understand but if you want your lady to look good all the time it's
A fantasy because I bet your not living up to her standards all the time a man want a beautiful woman on his arm a lady wants her man to be faithful, respect,ful honest ,a
great provider, if you can't live up to my standards then don't expect me to live up to yours.
Exactly. A lot of men's ideas about how women should be are downright laughable.
The comments here are disgusting especially when it comes to the white girl with the bold personality . Everyone is different and has an opinion, and just because she voices hers doesn't make her weird or a freak. dont judge people on a 5min segment .
It's funny that the most unattractive woman there is the one who is the most vocal about how your looks doesn't matter. 🤣 She actually said that when she met her boyfriend she said "hey you wanna make out?" If she took more pride in her appearance, she wouldn't have had to ask.
Everybody is attracted by appearance,nobody falls in love with character at first "sight"
Women are visual too! We just don't leave it at that. The other qualities are important too. But I love a good looking man to spend my time with.
Sadly the typically lack in other departments, lol.
No....most of em, prefer money first...men go for looks more
I love being well dressed HOWEVER the woman in the purple dress has a right to dress how she wants. These comments and the folks on this video are a trip. People need to stop being so worried about what the next person is doing and worry about themselves.
Preach!
yes
Yeah but the girl in purple looks like Grimmus lol she's a fatty which means her boyfriend is poor and desperate if she's the best he can do lol
But the comment section is so people can discuss and the other people can complain about the discussion. That's the arrangement.
Exactly, thank you! 🙌🏾
I’m so sick of seeing ladies in bonnets at the grocery store.
I'm sorry but as a woman, I don't wear makeup, or straighten, dye my hair, infact I don't eveb own a hair dyer. BUT I always have home cooked meals, use steel or glass as storage, we even make our own mayo, go for walks, relax, dance, and drink lotts of filtered water! This is more expensive and hard, but it shines through and natural beauty cannot ever be compared to plastic, thats like saying you prefer fake gem stones. My opinion, feel free to criticise.
+Preety RA Preach honey #LOVINTHENATRUALBEAUTY
+XLovinDaisesX thanks :D
+Preety RA Anytime
+XLovinDaisesX ♥
IKR? Seems there's a new "tyrrany of geauty" on the loose These young girls on YT have "makeup rooms". I'm not against a little make up, but, really....too much is hookerish, clownish, doesn't let the real you shine thru!
That woman's advice is terrible same with the guy in green. I expect my woman to look good all the time because I expect that from myself all the time. Don't be looking like a slob, it's not ok.
Lol
The lady on the orange sounds just like cardi b
Her age was the first of about 15 lies she told in this segment. I HOPE the fact that she looks better than she has in a year was one of them.
Loool Katherine makes me laugh. She seems pretty confident actually.
+Kez P she is the embodiment of looks doesn't matter
Ofcourse. When you're generally unattractive looking, you make it up with character and personality
@@douglasmcquaid5343 facts!!!!
Uncle Steve is hilarious! His facial expressions and when he bent down! I can’t stop laughing!
can you do us all a favor and never bring kathryn back
I feel like purple shirt should be using air quotes Everytime she says "my boyfriend*
Been married 5 yrs. I aint got time to look stunning.... if he wants to appreciate me he'll help with the house.
Katherine: This is the nicest I’ve looked in a year
Steve: looks her up and down in shock
Of course women are still judged for their appearance, this is one thing I don't think is ever going to change.
But what I like seeing, is how women are starting to judge men's appearance a lot more than before.
Good looking guys gets just as much if not more likes on Instagram and facebook than girls, attractive male actors having a solid female fanbase and that skyrockets their career, and of course when a man looks good and chats up a girl, it's definitely easier for you to get her number or a smile.
Men are starting to realise that being attractive brings them benefits the same way as attractive females get benefits from men.
+TenjoZakito to be fair, women have been judging men's appearance for a long time. But this is one of those situations where there's more nuances compared to what's being talked about in this video.
Brian .Word Personally I feel that men doesn't get judged by appearance as much, or at least it doesn't affect their day to day lives when they aren't attractive.
But then again I am not a men so I won't know
It happens more than most people probably think. Like I've been told by female family members, female friends, and random females i do't know that I'm handsome. But right now I'm dealing with a skin condition that does take away from any attractiveness females believe I have, and because my current condition is out in the open for everyone to see, most people are likely judging me as i interact with them, they just happen to have the good graces to not say it to me so as not to accidentally insult me. The women in this video on the other, it's not even that their judged on attractiveness but on presentation, which everyone is judged for. As a black man, if I posted pictures on social media with pants sagging, gold grill on my teeth and obscene tattoos, I'd definitely be looked at in a negative light, even if people who know me well enough will call me the nicest guy on the planet. These girls may be the nicest girls on the planet, but if they're posting those kinds of pictures, it sends a message to men and women in general. But this video had a specific focus.
The only thing that have to look attractive is our wallets, and please don't deny it, because it's true.
Haitian Wood Yeah because I bet you think women can't earn their own money, that male strippers and escorts don't exist, and every women out there is going to throw themselves at you after they find out you have money, or shun you after they find out you don't.
Either you surround yourself with a very small and toxic group of people, or you just haven't personally got to know enough women to form a unbiased opinion on them.
I hate the girl in the purple dress' laugh.
Lookin good feels good. But my girl better have a great personality. Steve is judging this girl cuz she different.
anybody else notices that only the overweight girls say "I don't care about dresses, it's important to feel confident regardless of guys"
Both men and women care about looks just as much. The reason a woman wants to go up to a guy like steve showed is because he's attractive. No woman would go up to a guy or do anything like that to an ugly or average looking guy
Steve dresses like a million bucks, but it's not right for me. I wouldn't date a guy that dresses like him alot. It's just not my thing. Different types.
This Episode Made Me Exhausted I Don’t Even Want A Relationship Anymore 😂😂😂
I hear you 🤣
Lady in purple practical threw herself at her now boyfriend...
Yeah cause no one would approach her
Wonder what foundation this relationship is based on?
Steve's face when she said "this is the best I've looked in years" 😂
It's always the least attractive girl that says women shouldn't be judged by their appearance but their confidence lol
I don't like dressing up all the time but I do believe in looking decent all the time. Taking time for either your hair or doing your eyebrows and putting on chapstick and mascara isn't going to kill you. It's great that you can have confidence without dressing to the nines all the time but don't get upset when men or women do not show you the respect you know you want. If you leave your house with a dingy scarf and a stained shirt you put out energy that tells people that you don't take care of yourself. Everyone had 24 hours and can spend 5 minutes getting something together. You never know who is watching you when you leave your house.
"You should always dress to impress" - Ladies , are you agree with this? ( I agree 100%)
*Juanita at **2:06**.....Perfect.*
I'm not gonna lie. Ladies should always look fly, not only for their man, but for them Ex and haters just in case you pass them by 😜
What if a woman doesn't want attention? I will purposely dress down just to avoid it.
After staring at the comments, women are judged by their appearance even if they have confidence in themselves. Come on guys, you know not to judge.
Thank God ! I'm glad someone finally seems to have common sense... Had to look way too hard for this ^^'...
on the street if we are to approach a girl ALL WE CAN GO OFF IS LOOKS THATS ALL WE CAN JUDGE! Jesus we can't read minds, of coarse we're gonna judge your appearance.
+Daniel Prime You're going to see the way we're dressed the moment you meet us... Making a judgement on that very moment is kind of superficial, just admit it ^^. We're definitely more than looks even if they matter for a first impression...
But I'm personally approached dressed up and in sweat pants / hoodie with zero make up... Turns out charisma or confidence, or smile or whatever are better weapons than just clothes...
(And tip for you guys : pick a person who is ok looking when natural... When dressed up, you'll be amazed (: !)
+Blu being judged by "charisma and confidence" is still part of your outside looks it's not until they get to know you that they'll really see whats inside. to us your nothing but a good looking person on the streets when we make the first approach, a smile helps but that still your looks.
+Daniel Prime The video said women are expected to look / dress nice to be noticed or please men or whatever, but it is not what I've experienced... You can attract people without make up or fancy clothes... That's my point (: ... I do suppose something on the global appearance caught the eye of the approacher, but to me it's less depressing to see that looking perfect is not the only thing people notice (:
GIRL, SWEATS IS NOT SEXY AT ALL...NO, SWEATPANTS EQUALS BEING ALONE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, LIFE, LIFE, LIFE AND LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Steve: You can't know us in 20mins.
Woman: You can't know us in a year.
Steve: We can ever know you.
Me: I'm dead 😅🤣
Her: "If your confident you can look good in anything."
Me: Then why are you wearing make up? If your confident you don't need make up.
People do go by how you look. But when you get to know someone, things change.
I like how everyone is like I dress nice for myself and my confidence. LOL ok.
You gain your confidence because people around you sill start giving you looks and checking you out even if it’s subtle. Your subconscious is still aware of it.
there is definately a little bit of cultural difference being expressed on the panel as it relates to physical appearance and clothing
The only people I see consistently judging women on their looks is other women. Stop acting like y'all have a moral highground.
Dress to impress. No. You dress to impress yourself. Unless that person has important impact of your life. E.g. A job interview. 🙄
Nope, don't buy that. I saw a comment that made a lot of sense to me. They said that if you would be the last person on earth, would you still wear your stilletos everyday and nice dresses and makeup, etc?
Exactly
Then the woman will be alone or the men will find interest in another women who is attractive.
If a woman wants to keep his man interested; then she better be dressing for herself and her man.
Yes the man needs you to dress to keep him interested, else he will look and go the other way.
Independent women who just do for her self, will end up being alone or going through multiple men in her life. This is the truth.
When women say they do not need a man, guess what?
Quality men are looking for quality women, not pretenders.🤔
Why does Juanita reminds me of cardi B?? Anyone else think that??
Everyone on here is full of it. What if I bought a 800 dollar outfit and people think it looks like a homeless outfit. I think people should be judged on their actions because let's face it the ones that judge you are either ugly old or poor.
She is awesome and little crazy
I love her so much 😘😘 she lovely and ❤️❤️❤️ cute so confident
When a guy dresses up, especially for me I can't help but appreciate him and I find it attractive. Workout Clothes can be attractive too, but that extra effort is even better. Vice versa with my appearance as well. Changing levels of formality every now and then is healthy.
Juanita be sounding like cardi b!!!!!!!!
Yesssssss
romario H right!!!!????
GIRL, DRESSING FOR YOURSELF EQUALS...NO MORE BOYFRIEND FOR YOU!!!!