Unfit Mother or Child Abuser? | Wayback Wilkos
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- Katie was caught force-feeding and screaming at her child in the hospital. To make matters worse, she dropped the baby twice on her head!
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This is what a father is supposed to be. There are places that can supervise the visits and help the mother learn to care for the baby
i hope katie has gotten help not just for her child but for herself too!
Agree, maybe postpartum? what ever it is, elated to hear & see dad with family standing up and caring for this angel.
Steve is wrong he has every right to keep her from his child. It’s been serval times Steve has told men to stay from their children
Yeah, the men touching, abusing, or severely neglecting their children. The same for women. Don’t be dumb.
Unless it's a molestation episode, when has Steve said this? I've only seen him get upset because the fathers aren't putting the effort to go see their kids
Not really. Typically he wants both parents in the child’s life.
@@LilT2o00 it was a guy who the mother said was a great dad he just miss treated her Steve said leave him your kids don’t need to see that I agree that the kids don’t need to see that but I disagree that the dad shouldn’t see his children because he doesn’t get along with the mom
Saying the father shouldn't be in a romantic relationship with the mother is not the same as saying the father shouldn't be in the kids life. So what you're saying doesn't really make sense. I don't remember Steve saying fathers shouldn't be in their kids life unless it was extreme abuse.
I like Steve I really do, but I’m getting tired of him not making woman take accountability. I’ve seen Steve tell women keep the father out the picture for doing less.
There was an episode with twins. The gf accused the dad of abusing them.. he was young and didn't really engage with them as much as she liked and just wanted an excuse to leave the relationship... but even though he passed the test, Steve told the gf he's better off out of their lives.
@@SamanthaJoYowhen? Because nobody seems to be able to provide evidencenfor these claims. Steve has a different approach dependent on what the other parent has done
He used to make women take accountability when his show was first starting out. My best guess is some crybabies threatened to have his show banned if he doesn't soften up with women. So now he is being careful so his show doesn't get banned
@@sammwalker You think we walk around with links memorized to drop in a comment section when conversing with other people who have seen the same things? IDC to change someone's mind, was simply commenting my agreement and gave an example as to why.
@@willthetrill4849 Makes sense
Steve deadass wrong for standing up for that horrible mother. She’s abusing her child and you’re acting like she made one mistake. The courts took her child away from her, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see she’s a horrible mother.
It's always the child(ren) that suffer(s) the most in situations like this.
And it's always because of selfish parents who think they deserve to be in the child's life giving birth doesn't give you the right to be a harmful influence in an innocent kids life I'll die on this hill because I had no mother or father because they knew they weren't up for it and did the right thing by me to stay away I was 13 wen my mom (over the phone id never met her at this point) told me she gave me to my GMA because she knew being around me would harm me I wish she'd kept that energy when it comes to my baby sister and brother but she gave up 3/5 and I at least thank her for that kids don't need a mom and dad that are unstable and/or dangerous all they need is one loving person to do whatever it takes to protect them
Steve was wrong here. Baby is so much better off without her.
I’m so confused, but she didn’t do anything did she? This episode really confused me sorry.. just hoping to understand it better
@@kai-kt6ui seemingly not intentionally, but the way she acts and tries to justify/explain some of her actions rub me the wrong way and I don't trust her, but that's just me personally
@@NoBlueHawaii to be fair to her she did come clean in the end and that takes guts to admit your wrong doings, should she get to see her kid maybe after a lot of parenting classes and giving support to the farther by however she can even if it's just some clothes, things like that would show she's trying.
@@NoBlueHawaii ah! I see thank you, that’s very helpful I can see that now that I read this comment
I bet anything there is an evil spirit on her that is influencing her to be angry all the time and demonstrating it by screaming and hollering.
Wtf is wrong with that audience? Ohhhh she passed a question let's clap for her. She force fed a newborn, she screamed in that newborns face more than once! He has every right to keep that baby away
The Steve wilkos show has signs for applause, or boo so they going by the signs they see in the background
People need to be more aware of what post partum looks like it’s insane to not help a mom or dad that has it and then punish her for it
@@Keepingupwitherickah we also need to stop labeling crappy parenting with PPD all the time. Not every women gets it. Sometimes they are just bad people.
@@Grevden38 this literally is a blatant PPD case literally it’s clear as day. Like it’s one thing when the kid is 1,23 45 years old and you’re abusing them. But she in the hospital yelling at the baby to go to sleep and falling asleep with the child in her arms. Idk what nursing schools they went to but mine we learned that’s clearly a red flag.
@@Keepingupwitherickah Post partum is no reason or excuse to scream at a baby to shut up.
The bad mother in the blue dress was quick to say no when Steve said there won't be any fighting 😂😂😂 ugh yeah cause girl in the red would tear you up
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 She was scared. When she walked out, I was thinking, "WOAH!" Then she spoke and I thought, "Oh, she will beat your ass." Too funny!
The fiance would have turned her every way but loose
Lol girl in red is a beast!! She would break the ex 😭
@@lindsaybee2763 no doubt! Lol
Shout-out to the Father for making sacrifices to protect his Daughter.
I was 16 and had a baby. Never once did i ever hurt him. He's a healthy, almost 6 foot tall 14 year old now. I dont get how grown women can have babies and harm them. Theres no excuse.
i agree, to most extent. The not intentional does count for something. Some people are just naturally clumsy and simply don't know what they are doing. It doesn't make it right, towards the infant that is. But for the father it should. At least have supervised visits. It is not that the mother is doing anything deliberately or being careless. She just doesn't know. She just is that slow? Should that be treated as a crime?
I had my first baby at 18 and would never do anything to hurt him
I wouldn't either but people make mistakes. Only hurting the little girl not seeing her mother. Be supervised visits but she's gotta see mom
@itzj34 her daughter would've ended up dead under her care. EVERYTHING can't be forgiven
I had my son also at 18 years old I would never dream of dropping him or screaming at him what the hell is wrong with people
Not justifying the mistakes she did make, but it clearly says that she did nothing to INTENTIONALLY hurt or harm her daughter. Just idiotic decisions as a young mother and not realizing that she needs patience when having a child. Not all young mothers obtain that motherly instinct at an early age. Yes, no excuse because children don't deserve. But their child is still little and people can change.
same
Psychological issues, post partum, whatever the reason for her behavior, that father is a hero for protecting his baby and keeping her safe. I do wish post partum was addressed and there was more awareness for it so that others would learn something from this. Its imperative that other family members step in and protect these babies from mothers that are a danger due to mental health and post partum. If you want to save babies from ever experiencing what this baby did, google post partum depression. Learn about it. It could be your family one day. The signs are there. She passed for not intentionally trying to hurt her baby. It would've been nice if steve offered her help for it, regardless of her ever seeing her baby or not.
Kudos to this dad for stepping up and protecting his baby. Its up to the mother now to seek the mental help she needs and commit to it and hope that she can one day see her baby
post partum could turn into intentional hurting the child btw. Can turn into hating a child. I don't think this is that. I think she is genuinely not capable. But that's not a shame. Being kept away from the child entirely is though. Supervised visits I'd say. But that's up to dad.
Steve im so happy neither of your parents are unstable or bad people like this woman is my mother however IS and im so grateful to my gma for keeping me far away from her my baby sister wasn't so lucky and saw things no child should ever have to see and had to help raise our baby brother because she's not capable neither of them should have had to ever know her and i hope this man NEVER let her anywhere near this poor innocent child
@freyjairis103 hey boomer ever hear of if you don't have anything nice/productive to say don't say anything at all? Ope obviously not I don't care to use punctuation online so I don't sorry it offends your clearly delicate sensibilities 😘
He's mad cuz she don't want him and he's stuck with wildebeest!!!
No, any woman that can scream at a newborn baby clearly doesn’t have the capacity to be a mother to one. She also looked high to me and couldn’t stop lying. I could see if the father wanted to supervise her himself but as a mother, I don’t see a point to her being in that child’s life if she can abuse and be negligent that early into the baby’s life. Most mothers are so anxious and want guidance and good advice and this one ignored everything she was told.
She confessed to most of it. And she could be less intelligent. It happens. People who probably can barely take care of themselves, get into a relationship. Get pregnant, and in her case it was too much. Sadly no help around it seems.
Kudos to the father for stepping up & taken care of his daughter. He’s doing the right thing by keeping his daughter away from the mother. She needs some serious help.
No kudos. That’s what you are supposed to do. You don’t get a pat on the back for doing the right thing. That’s what’s wrong with the world. You want a fucking trophy for doing what you are SUPPOSED TO DO
Just in the short time watching this video this woman is a time bomb ready to explode !! This woman is a psychological train wreck !! But I hope the father sees the importance in letting her see her daughter,however I understand this man’s conflict with protecting his little girl and seeing the child’s unstable birth mother !! Good luck to all 3 parents,but most of all I pray for this little girl caught in this sad situation !!
I agree
If she actually works on herself etc sure otherwise no
I remember being in high school and they offered a class, I forget the name of the exact class but the teacher gave you a baby to take care of for the weekend. Then they have you watch movies about fetal, shaken and other forms of abuse. Hospitals should do that with new parents
Child development?? Because I have that at my school
@@kourtneyluvsu yes. It's been a minute since I've been in school. Junior and senior the first part of the day I was studying for my ECE so I took the baby three times. It was either that or write a lengthy essay. Definitely not writing an essay.
When I was 10 my first sister was born, and my mother let me feed the bottle, and even do a diaper change now and then. Just to show how it works. And that is how it is learned in the past. People used to have bigger families and everyone helps out. The older siblings help. Check if the bottle isn't too hot etc. And watch the kids a bit so they don't get into harm. People were busy all day for thousands of years. There was no "helicopter mom" Because mom had multitude of kids to take care of.
Kids need stability from their parents. Mom is still completely unstable and seems unwilling to listen to others in the moment. She immediately gets defensive instead of taking accountability. Until she gets a stable job and roof over her head, she will be a stranger to her daughter. It’s on mom to get her life together.
Steve you bombed on this episode!!!!!! That child should be nowhere near her unstable and abusive Mother!!
I had a newborn on my own and yes it was hard but I never harmed my child or screamed at a newborn how could she even do That? Probably terrified the baby and scared her psychologically for life
Postpartum is no joke i remember crying becus im so overwhelming especially when u have no help all u can do is be strong
My point exactly
What is sad is people arent even going to think that is maybe what is happening. Ppl dont care about where a persons health or mental health is until they off theyself or someone else. THEEENNN its mental health is important.
I had postpartum also, my twins were born one passed away so I was dealing with postpartum and depression plus I already had PTSD D the IDB PD so when it comes down to mental health and everything like that I still was able to take care of my child. I have no. Family. I don't have no mother father. Friends to come help me when I need help. I'm adopted also to make it even worse, my child. And I had to go into the shelter? Do you think I put my child for adoption? Or lie to the father of my child Like these are excuses. She's making that she's saying there's a lot of people who have way less like I did. Who had to struggle way more like I did and still was able to make it. She is just weak and cool when we're skimming. Due to the fact that she put that shout up for adoption. Mind you. I'm a kid who was also adopted. If I was to get older like that, child is going to and they see that show that Mommy was young at me because I wouldn't let you into her t**** And she put me up for adoption, without telling my dad. And my dad was able to get out of the military, so he could come and claim me. So I don't get adopted out of this family and I do get a chance to still know my bio parents. Even as an adult, I still wouldn't see that lady because What sense does that make
Stop blaming this on darn postpartum shit no excuse
@@LifeofDestinyBI mean that explains her behavior but it doesn’t excuse hurting her kid
I'm on team dad honestly forget this mother
We should stay in our doodie stations and mind our own business. Nature calls.
It's on national television
@@DevontaeCrook-jq1ku Is it though? I want you to think about what we just said.
@theconsolekiller7113 It remains a subject of public interest, making it challenging to maintain privacy. Given its global reach and accessibility to millions of viewers, it demands our attention.
@@full-timeanimeman4341 When you put it that way it makes me question my ethnicity. Light or brown, Whattaya clown.
This is a tough one honestly but I think supervised visits shouldn’t be off the table forever, every kid deserves to know their mother if the mother never intended to hurt them
I don't blame the father for keeping her away from the baby. It was only a step away from her actually hurting this child. immediately after giving birth you're already screaming at a newborn for crying? Oh yeah that was definitely going to end up bad. He's right some things are unforgivable and when he gave her a chance she screamed at the baby while people were around at his house!! And let's not forget this poor man had to leave his career in the military because he found out she had lost custody of their daughter and she was in foster care! She didn't even tell him..... She does not need to be around that child whatsoever
The fact that the dad had to take her kid away MERE MINUTES after her first supervised visit tells ya she'a too dangerous to be a mom. Im glad the dad wasnt playing around and stood his ground against steve
Exactly. There's no excuse for her to be screaming at a newborn, and then screaming at the baby again, IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE, after having the baby for literal minutes.
She's obviously very negligent. A lot of people are saying she probably had postpartum. But if that were true, falling asleep and letting your baby fall on the floor TWICE after being told proper care, isn't something that can be explained by being depressed. She ignored explicit instructions pertaining to HER NEWBORN BABY, several times. Unforgivable, for sure 😡
@@I.no.ah.guy57 I agree. And as a mother of two children my daughter who is 20 now and a 6 year old boy and yes I went through SEVERE postpartum both times and never ever did I have any feelings of hurting my babies. Frustration and sadness and feeling severely overwhelmed yes but never did I feel like I was so overwhelmed and helpless that I would scream at my freaking helpless newborn baby. Just imagine if she's doing that in front of people what she does when there's nobody around to see.. I really do feel like it was one step away from something tragic happening to that baby.
If this was a father hed be calling him a deadbeat and saying he doesn't deserve to see the child
7:45 - Melissa is SO cool!
"You're taking care of her baby?"
"YUP!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Unfit mother or C.A.? Are you kidding me??? Same, same... It's ABUSE 😭💔😭!!! That parent should never be alone with the child 😭🚸 ever again... She was seen by hospital staff doing many things she was explicitly told NOT 🚫 to do & ignored them... Her husband says if she straightened up, he'd let her have supervised visitation.
No baby apart from sexual abuse,and physical abuse ,is better off without their mother,she needs help obviously,❤
@@GilliamHutchinson i m sorry that not true, neglect, emotional and physical, screaming at a baby, can be just as damaging…… mothers who drink or take drugs……. And put their children at risk
The father has done the right thing, but the mother should get help and have supervised visits.
Steve is wrong for this one. He's protecting the baby, that lady should never see her baby again.
Steve how could you try and put that badly in danger.
In supervised visits? I'm not making excuses for her but she very likely had post partum depression. She absolutely made mistakes and should continue taking parenting classes. But in the long run there's no benefit to a child not seeing their mother. As someone who grew up without a parent I can tell you that pain never goes away. It's still her child at the end of the day and hopefully she turned things around and sees her daughter now.
If she had postpartum it wasn't depression it was psychosis and this episode was 8 months later and she's very clearly still wholly unstable and no child should ever have to be exposed to that kind of toxin I support the father's decision to keep his daughter safely far away from this woman because she's just selfish and crazy
@@MsLilmonsterr21I had neither a mom nor dad and yes it left some issues but much less than if those 2 broken individuals had been around I'm incredibly grateful I didn't have to be exposed to them he gave her a chance under supervision and she still started screaming at that poor baby it's not baseball you don't get 3 strikes when it comes to the well-being of a child one and done she doesn't deserve to be a mom end of story
it’s always best to for a child to have both of their parents in their life. this woman treated her child badly at the beginning but the child is still young enough to redeem yourself as a mother. i hope she got a job, fixed herself up, and grew up with her daughter in her life and became a great mom.
I told a Mom her daughter bumped her her head on hand rail, as baby cried. She became enraged. She became engaged with me rather than seeing about the welfare of baby. I still feel for baby girl. God bless her.
I'm with the dad, he's protecting his ďaughter and need to keep her away from that crazy wmn. Ì disagree with Steve, I wouldn't trust her around that baby either, I see too many cases of children being abused and killed by their parents because they had no one to protect them and this father is doing exactly what he's suppose to do!!!!
They could at least let her come to the house and hold her and see her kid
Give her supervised visits ONLY
Some people should NEVER have kids or pets.
To me this sounds like a new unexplored mother who was dealing with PPD. Who was there helping her?? Sad case.
She was in the hospital and had several nurses there. They called CPS on her she got home her family seen her doing exact same thing and her family did it. It’s more than postpartum depression. She looks drunk or high, just standing on the stage. And to add, she knew that the baby was in the foster care about to be adopted out and she didn’t tell him once she sat there and she lied about it. They had to call him She didn’t want that baby, but it looks bad on her to not have or try to have her baby
PPD does not start within mere hours after giving birth. This woman was doing all these crazy things immediately after she had the baby, prior to them even getting released from the hospital. She’s an unstable person, in general, who’s shown she can’t follow directions from multiple medical professionals and can’t control her temper.
It’s nobody’s fault she did these vile things lol. She shouldn’t have someone take care of her kid 24-7 so she doesn’t do these things. It was her job as a mother to be a good mother. So even if she had help she more than likely would’ve still done this when it would be just her and baby. OR totally neglect the child and let someone else care which had happened !
You can tell the mom is a drug addict. She doesn't need to be around that kid until she has herself together. She's clearly unfit. There is a chance she can change and I hope she does. But until then, there is no way she needs to be around that baby
Nah, dad's right here. Trick wouldn't see my child either.
I don't know what Steve's issue is on this episode. She is an absolute danger to her child. What he and other people are overlooking is that she was INSTRUCTED on how to care for her child and she CHOSE not to do it. She may not have planned to hurt the baby in the way we think of it but she did willfully neglect to do the correct things she was INSTRUCTED to do and it resulted in harm to her child! So this was NOT a case of her not knowing how to care for her child! Steve has no right trying to persuade that guy to let his guard down about his child. As soon as he does, they'll be right back on the show with tragic news...
It's unbelievable just how ignorant some people are..she's a clear danger to any child..
It is unforgivable!
This is why I believe Steve knows the results before he reads them. He was trying to force the dad to give the mom time with the kid probably because he knew she passed for not intentionally trying to harm her child. That lady shouldn’t have anymore kids, she may have had PPD.
Really sad no one’s is talking about the possibility for her having postpartum depression which can cause a parent to act that way
Cope
Yes that could be but she should never have that baby. Some children aren’t that lucky to be saved when a mother has postpartum depression . The mother is on trial for murder and that’s the defense for murder. Hope she does get the help she needs and maybe in the future can become a mother again. Right now this baby is right where she should be,away from her bio mother.
That’s not a fucking excuse wtf… now y’all want this post partum shit to excuse you from hurting babies???
@@noahprice3658 That isn’t an excuse to hurt your child!! She’s an unfit parent and I’m glad the dad stepped in and took her away from the mom
Accountability is kryptonite to women. Take some f*cking responsibility
How in the world do you drop a baby. If you can not hold a child, then you shouldn't be having children. The dad should give her a chance like Steve said though. If she is actually trying then he should at least let her see her child.
NYD 2009 I had given birth to my daughter and I was in a 2 person room within an NHS hospital. I woke up needing the bathroom, my new born was sound asleep. I went to the en suite style bathroom and noticed the door didn't lock, I held the door closed with my hand but clearly not hard enough as the door swung open as I was using said toilet and I witnessed the 'room mate' fall asleep and drop her baby on the floor, it appeared like she had been breastfeeding. I gasped or exuded air loudly enough the Mother woke up, nothing. She leaned over, picked up the baby that was making no sound, the bed to the floor? Around 4 feet. Then put the baby in the cot and pressed the buzzer for the nurse. I witnessed a nurse enter, hushed tones and the curtain being pulled around. I went back to sleep and the next morning as I was being discharged she was still there, asleep with her baby murmuring in the cot beside her. I still think about it to this day as my daughter is 15. I wonder about that baby.
I would worry yet too. You sound so loving and caring. Thank you
It's a horrible thing to even think about 😥😮💨
Regardless if it was intentional or not, this women needs a roof over her head, a steady life, and needs to be stable. And then, after that, she should be able to see her supervised. I'm tired of women like this giving excuse after excuse and taking no responsibility. I don't see in this how she has bettered herself. She needs to get it together and Steve needs to recognize that too. I'm sick of him giving women these passes. Post psrtum or not, if that's the case, go get help. Stop with the excuses. You want your baby that bad, then go get help. Otherwise you don't want it that bad
I’m a first time mom as well, my daughter is now 3 years old and i’m 29 years old. But never will i do something to harm my baby! Some women should just never be moms period. I had no idea what i was doing as a first time mom but best believe i did everything and anything to make sure my baby was safe and protected! There should be no excuse to mistreating any baby! This is just a sad case.
So.. are we going to ignore the fact that she LIED to him and hid the fact that his daughter was placed in foster care to be adopted out? That should be a crime.
I cant put myself in her shoes bc I never had a baby. I dont know if she was suffer PPD or just felt overwhelmed & not a natural as maybe she wasnt raised being taught the way to actually calm a child, which is sad. That being said, if she is genuinely trying & loves her child, never tried to cause harm, thats absolutely horrible for both the baby & her to not atleast allow her supervised visitation. That can really mess up the child later in life.
i understand both.
This woman should not have her baby
No one wants to hear it if they already have kids. But SOME SHOULDN'T HAVE KIDS. EVEN THE ONES WHO DO.
I can tell something is up with her though…like something is off
She doesn't deserve the baby. God bless the daddy 🙏🙏
And Steve is saying supervised visits with the father not by herself
Im 19 with a 6 month old and my baby sleeps with me i did scream not at her but just a scream trying to relax myself bc of postpartum then i was overwhelmed on top of all that and i felt so bad i just cried i could never put my child in harms way yes she sleeps with me but im a very light sleeper if i move in my sleep i wake up and make sure she isnt there but as a newborn if she was on the bed for a nap id put pillows around and be on the floor until she wakes
It’s not like this lady abused that child at home. She was a new mom in the hospital with nurses and stuff to assist her if they felt she didn’t know what she was doing. The classes should have started when she was in the hospital and they realized she may need help. She didn’t intentionally hurt that child and probably needed her village if she had one and sleep. Steve is right here and the people saying he’s not, speaks volumes🤣
Sure, but screaming at a newborn baby, several times, right after it was born? Nah.
I would think her re-unification, or not, would be directed by CPS and the courts. If she has not done her assigned tasks and is not drug free, they will not give her visitation or it will start supervised. I don’t blame Dad one bit.
Did you drop your baby on her head?
No
You're lying
Well...I woker UP and she was on the floor, yes - BUT NO I DID NOT DROP HER!
Ohhh nooo.not a wig from the Jerry springer dressing box
Abuser or unfit mother ....does it really matter both as bad as other.
ayeeeee finally a new vid 🎉😂
(way back or not lol.) I remember this one
He can really pick ‘em. Yikes.
He drinks too much😄
Post patum depression
I will tell ya if this man keeps this child from the mother that kid is going to resent the father BIG TIME
A Proper Mother should be able to love ❤️ her baby. not abuse or shout at her baby.
😢you dropped you baby and didn't take her to see medical help😮
3:47 she never said that she never committed the things that she was being accused of. She tells him that he wasn't even there for it🥴
I raised 7 to adults and never dropped them once, and neither did my ex.
That "mother" does NOT deserve to ever see that child again.....she is psycho and evil.The dad has every right to protect that child and keep her safe. She does not care about anyone but herself. Steve is wrong about letting her see the baby. She has very bad energy....
The mother should sue to see her daughter with supervised visits!
Damn Steve…… you need to treat every horrible guest the same. You give these terrible mothers a break and you even yell at men you think are guilty…..
"sit there and..." Is such a sign of guilt and stupidity
Some people are just unfit parents. She admits to not supporting the child, force feeding the child, and dropping the baby twice. I agree with the father that I wouldn't trust the mother around the child. She was making excuses for her choices when she had the baby in her care. Also, if the roles were reversed, Steve wouldn't be trying so hard to get the father to see the child like he is for this woman. He'd also ask why he doesn't send child support for his child. But I didn't hear Steve ask her why she hasn't sent any support for her child all that time.
Oh my God, you're right.Steve is wrong.I am really disappointed in him
As a new first time mom not excusing it but I’ve accidentally dropped my baby when I fell asleep rushed to the hospital as soon she dropped cause she cried and when i tell you i was balling my eyes out i felt like the worst mom and all the nurses were chill about it knowing babies fall all the time. All im saying is being a mom is exhausting and thats with my husband this lady was by herself alone post partum and baby blues are very much a thing and that’s why moms needa villiage to help stay above water !! Not excusing her but i understand!
I hope she gets help and learn to properly care for her baby. She deserves a chance. She needs help. I'm not a mother but I imagine it to be tiring and stressful especially if she had no guidance. The new lady should understand as a mother but she seems not all there. They're being too hard on her. The things she being accused of are not major. People have done worse to kids. The dad seems to be trying to punish her for something else. I hope Steve helps her. She carried that baby and deserves to be her mama.
POSTPARTUM - DRUGS - ALCOHOLIC? No excuses, thank GOD she is safe and the family is caring for her. Amen~
Personally, until she gets major help, I would NEVER allow this mother to see this beautiful infant.
Why are you saying postpartum like it's something people choose to get? Postpartum depression is like any other mental illness, it just happens. She absolutely needs to continue parenting classes and therapy but she should be allowed supervised visits. It's not a benefit in the long run to not have a parent in the picture if they're trying to do better. Speaking from experience.
@@MsLilmonsterr21People in the comments are not very smart. They do not understand hormones or how the human brain works, especially that of a pregnant woman giving birth. Lol
Steve should be harsh with the woman. She dropped her baby and he thinks it's ok for her to see the child. Another thing I had two children and never had them in bed with me. However my mother was profoundly deaf and had her babies in bed with her incase they woke up. She had seven of us kids.
Every kid needs a mother and father. She made a mistake. Shes not asking much but 2 see her daughter in a public place. The little girl is gonna need her mother. Parents get overwhelmed and make mistakes sometimes but also can be great parents in the long run
Thank you finally someone who understands. I think she is trying, i wouldn't give her unsupervised visits for sure but she still should be able to see her daughter
That’s not always the case. My father was in my life until I was 7 through supervised visits and it caused so much harmed to me mentally that my mother stopped the visitations. Now nearly over 2 decades later I’m doing so much better but I still went through therapy for 8 years because of nightmares I had due to my father.
Sometimes it’s best to get the unfit parent out of the situation. My uncles stepped in as my father figures and I’m so grateful for that but my point still stands that a single parent whether it’s the father or the mother is sometimes better for the child
As a person who also went through postpartum, that was not a mistake that was not postpartum. I have a lot of mental health from being borderline personality to having d I d to having depression anxiety Insomnia and then my child died. Wow. Giving the bird. Well, technically she wasn't still born and I still had to deliver another child cause I had twins. I had to go into a shelter. I am adopted my d*** self so I had no family. I had no help. I had no friends I had nothing. My child is flored now. We have our own place now. I live in a city where everything is also so so expensive. She had no excuse. She also put that chat up for foster care to be adopted and yaki weren't acting like postpartum. Does that when at the same time she had help? She knew who the daddy was. And cool. And when daddy's calling to see how everything is doing with her and her in his princess. And she's saying everything's okay to find out that it wasn't. She already had that child leave that home so she could get adopted. What real mother no matter what they're going through does that. Yasann these days cause she's a female at the end of day. If a man was to be like oh I couldn't take it as baby and i was yelling at the baby. Cause the baby wasn't eating and everything. Yeah, that would be so high up in his a** took about how he's A. Terrible father ya are hypocrites It sounds stupid Like how you're mad. At the dad and his girlfriend for doing what they're supposed to do for protecting the child. I'm not gonna want my child to go be with that person if they did all that if I was to do something like that to my child. I will hope and pray that the guy would take my child. Away? Does that's not safe? You were screaming. I have for eating or the lack of eating. I cried because of the lack of eating and then she's still hungry. We have things called formula. People act like things are so hard when it's not stupid. People stupid, stupid stupid people is what you are
take him to court; if the court deems she's fit to see the child, she'll get visitation. If not, then she doesn't need to see that child
@@mahailiabrown3972 I’ll be honest I didn’t fully understand your comment as the English was a bit broken but I understood the key point and completely agree. If a parent is unfit and neglectful towards their child then they shouldn’t have them or be allowed around them whether it’s the mother or the father. People underestimate single parents and it annoys me because they don’t realise what single parents have to do to help their child survive. My mother would go without food to make sure I ate and even now as an adult living with my partner she still sends me money out of her rent money because she cares more than anyone and wants to help me (even though I don’t need it an constantly send it back to her🤣).
Everyone looks down on single parents but honestly they should be admired because it’s hard and the fact that they survive and put the work in of two parents is not only brave but heroic
Shes not all there. Everyone can see that.
What she did was wrong. That's not the question here tho I think. The question is whether or not she is stable enough to be around her child. Not alone with, not have custody of, just simply be around her kid. I don't blame the father for his feelings cause whether or not she was intentionally trying to hurt her baby doesn't matter. Her baby still was dropped and screamed at. Her baby was still hurt, whether she meant to or not. But maybe being away from her daughter has been enough of a wake up call to say "I can't believe I acted like that, I want her in my life, I can never do that again." And there's a good chance postpartum depression or postpartum rage had gotten the best of her for awhile. She's still just a baby so he definitely shouldn't send her off with her bio mom yet cause who knows if she'll have another moment and do something to her. Personally I went through postpartum depression and rage but I have a good fiance and a good support system so I never was in a position to make these same mistakes. I think this is a complicated situation and the dad is completely valid but Steve is also at least partially right.
Oh my wow, as a mother myself, I never would have not taken my newborn if I found any of them on the floor. No matter what the reason.
Keep this psycho away from that baby …
Postpartum is real and it's obvious she was going through it, she definitely needs more help. But Steve should not be pushing for this father to expose his defenseless baby to this woman until she has shown huge changes.
Post- partum depression?
Definitely is hope she can get some help and be able to see her child
Nope get out of here
No
@@ellencormier4287 Well said
This is why I will never have kids. I get too frustrated around them. I get scared around babies too. They are so fragile and I don't want to hurt them. I just want infants and children to have good homes and be safe. They wouldn't be safe if I had one. I'm glad other people can have children though 😊
04:07
Steve: “Did you scream at your daughter?”
Mother: “NO, I was merely talking louder”
Isn’t talking louder the exact definition of screaming? 🤨🤔
4:05
"This was in the hospital?"
"Yes" that is ONE aggressive sounding yes. This one's a ticking time-bomb.
You would think the hospital would of did something they knew she was force feeding the baby and yelling loud to it. And if I remember right I think she even dropped the baby out of bed after being told not to fall asleep with it in bed.
If it was vice-versa Steve wouldn't advocate for the father he'll be thrown off stage and called a bum
Ok accidentally dropping your baby is thing but yelling at and force feeding a newborn??! No. Idc who thinks she deserves another chance, imagine the neglect and abuse that would have morphed into. She doesn’t have patience and compassion she did not need that baby.
The dad is right! The lady needs to stay away from the baby period! She's a big risk for that child! I can't believe steve turned to the point oh at some points people make mistakes. Nope kept her away!
The dad will pay in the long run, hes a fool if he thinks his daughter won't want her mother.
Your wrong Chloe hasben Better offf without her
5:57
What was your reaction when you saw her on the floor?
"I texted my mom, like OMFG!"
Then?
"Well, uh, yeah, then I picked her up."
"What did you do then?"
"Well, I shook her to make sure she didn't get any dust in her hair."
"She's a newborn baby, she doesn't have any hair"
"Uh, that you can see yet - it's comin' in - it's just real fine, y'know"
Steve is way wrong for trying to force the father
If steve was told to stay away from his daughter..he would say no and argue with whoever told him that
The risk to the child is to big to let her have unsupervised visits,she could cause irreparable damage wether accidental or not it’s not fair to The child.
She cant see nobody kids.....never