Hello Counselor - CN Blue! (2014.03.31)

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  • @theashmaster1000
    @theashmaster1000 9 ปีที่แล้ว +836

    Even if all those male customers thought the first guy was a girl, it's pretty disgusting that they think it's okay to force a girl to sit down & start groping her. I think that issue should have been addressed too.

    • @00Kalypso
      @00Kalypso 9 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      +TheAshMaster1000 I was thinking the same thing. I was totally disgusted. No one said a word about that. They were all like ''oh, for a boy is though to go through all that''. Well it is for women, too.

    • @chrissycox7166
      @chrissycox7166 9 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      +TheAshMaster1000 YAS i was so surprised when people seemed more worried BECAUSE he is a man, and looked like they think it is normal and okay if he was a woman!

    • @icedmocha5264
      @icedmocha5264 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      That's why they ask him why he didn't report it to the police. It's sexual assault regardless if they thought he was a man or woman.

    • @manishjonwal7875
      @manishjonwal7875 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think he should change his hairstyle. It makes him look more feminine. And I don't know why he is wearing makeup.

    • @krisjuju9172
      @krisjuju9172 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      he's wearing make up to not look dead on tv

  • @ShrooMIR05
    @ShrooMIR05 10 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    The first concern, his brother looked upset and he looks like he's going to tear up when he saw his brother teared up while telling how many people assaulted him. I can feel he cares for him so much

  • @chrissycox7166
    @chrissycox7166 9 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    Doesn't the first concern reveal about Korea's deep set cultural traditions and thinking about women? Like sexual harrassment by customers!! WTF

    • @tanbey3626
      @tanbey3626 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chrissy Cox because of wine and drinking i thank god that iam in countrey which has limits and principles and no drinking out there

    • @eleanor1105
      @eleanor1105 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chrissy Cox its not just Korea it's everywhere

  • @emzvipbb20
    @emzvipbb20 10 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    My tears fell down about that 22 years old young man.....and OMG..CNBLUE are too handsome....can't wait to see them next weekend

    • @zoiavip
      @zoiavip 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lucky you ...........love CNBLUE

    • @emzvipbb20
      @emzvipbb20 10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      they are so awesome....their performance was DAE to the BAK...Yonghwa's voice is so beautiful

  • @aylinncar
    @aylinncar 9 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    This episode was very interesting. The first concern really made me angry he's really strong after all that happened and still coming to the show. And the last two were kind of hilarious hahah.

  • @DinoChickk
    @DinoChickk 10 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    *sniffle* I really feel like the 22-year old man that's mistaken for a woman is much more of a concern than a guy that eats potatoes all the time._.

    • @aurorastevens2832
      @aurorastevens2832 10 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      I feel the same. After he told us about how people treat him I was like "annyeong potatoes!" His concern was more important to me because if this is how he as a man mstaken as a woman is treated, how are REAL women treated in those situations where people just touch him?

    • @DinoChickk
      @DinoChickk 10 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I agree wholeheartedly! It's definitely something people need to be aware of!

    • @heonieluvr6781
      @heonieluvr6781 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He made me cry. It's hard enough to live like that in North America, where we claim to be liberal, but in other countries, it is even more of a challenge. I have a 22 year old daughter and this broke my heart.

  • @PandaAndFazer
    @PandaAndFazer 9 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    Aish, the first concern. Ppl touching him to see if he's a man?? C'mon, that's disgusting!

    • @llotus6116
      @llotus6116 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh Yea that's sad disgust2

    • @sunnygirly2k4
      @sunnygirly2k4 9 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      ItIsEL That makes me feel very sad for the amount of sexual harassment some women and men must face, poor man.

    • @Leegheid
      @Leegheid 9 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ItIsEL It's not even funny, like I don't understand why the audience is laughing... Maybe it's just a cultural thing, I don't know... It wouldn't be tolerated here in the west-side of Europe. I am pretty knew to the K-pop fandom, but as far as I have seen their shows, I am afraid that I better keep it with watching their Music Videos.

    • @arelledythia7307
      @arelledythia7307 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      its so sad, but fortunately he didnt hve gynecomastia.. u can imagine wht ppl think after they touch his chest

    • @heonieluvr6781
      @heonieluvr6781 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sexual harassment, plain and simple. Your boss asked you to take your pants off to prove you're a man? I know Koreans are desperate for work, but that made me so, so angry.

  • @fiona232
    @fiona232 10 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    Being a fan is good. But if you have a family, you need to have a line drawn. Cancelling family trip for a concert? Thats just. I get why the husband is mad.

    • @rosellemallari
      @rosellemallari 10 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      you should see the 2pm fan in the 2pm episode... she lied to her mother in law about a business trip and went to a concert in japan and etc. ~

    • @fiona232
      @fiona232 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      happiiiiiehana I did. Thats why I feel like there should be a line drawn.

    • @NaruDIANime
      @NaruDIANime 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      happiiiiiehana
      what show and chapter was it?

    • @rosellemallari
      @rosellemallari 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same show and idk but just look for hello counselor 2pm and youll see it. ~ (:

    • @NaruDIANime
      @NaruDIANime 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ok, gamsahamnida :D

  • @Godzillalove3
    @Godzillalove3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    I would be glad to date the first guy, no shame. He seems like a fun person regardless of his looks. And personally I find that guys who are a little feminine are the best because they understand us women so well xD

    • @vxmit
      @vxmit 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      same. i would have dated him in a heartbeat!

    • @afiqueamirule5772
      @afiqueamirule5772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He's so cute I just want to give big ol hug to him and pinch poke his pinky cheek 🤗😍

  • @emrachel6244
    @emrachel6244 8 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    The wife from the second concern looks like she can be a rich k-drama mom

    • @starrysky4215
      @starrysky4215 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Em Rachel OMG.....I was thinking the same thing the whole time!

    • @KayYoung320
      @KayYoung320 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She reminded me of the mom from 12 Years Promise for a moment.

  • @danielledino9461
    @danielledino9461 10 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This episode was awesome, but that 22 year old guy really made me feel sad.
    I hope people will treat him differently now.
    That said, I must say, CNblue was gorgeous! Every single one of them! Minhyuk, Jungshin, Jonghyun and Yonghwa!

  • @shezafiroz4442
    @shezafiroz4442 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    OMG.Even I started squealing like an idiot when Jung Dongha came and sang, even though I'm NOT his fan. That voice,doe. Anyone will fall in love with that voice.

  • @i72enigmasquared
    @i72enigmasquared 10 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    I think a bigger concern is the amount of girls that must be getting sexually harassed--if what the man in the first concern reported was true (him getting such encounters dozens of times a month)...
    Also what does it mean to run like a girl? Some of the gender stereotypes while meant to be comical were unnecessary...

    • @wregell72
      @wregell72 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i72enigmasquared they are very sexist and it’s sad but yeah the amount of women who get sexually harassed isn’t even a big deal to them since they know it happens a lot and the concern is about him and he cries thinking about his experiences that’s so fucking sad

    • @gummynoodles9036
      @gummynoodles9036 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah and also : sit like a girl, put your hands together like a girl, laugh like a girl and clap like a girl

  • @ChristineeeeHerr
    @ChristineeeeHerr 9 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The first concern had me in tears :(

  • @PerksOfBeingSarah
    @PerksOfBeingSarah 9 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Its cases like the second one that make Korean celebrities worried when it comes to dating. Coz there are always those fans who don't support them just for their talents, looks and personalities, but support them in the hopes of marrying them someday.
    If not this, they just feel like they own the idol or actor. I understand being a little sad that the guy you like is taken, but there are extremes. And sadly there are people who go to these extremes.
    I know I can't be with Lee Jonghyun (just an example even tho I do love him lol) but I want him to find love and be happy ^^

    • @janisgay5507
      @janisgay5507 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think her obsession has more to do with menopause or a mental disorder. it has nothing to do with the poor celebrity. I like how he said what she is, is not uplifting for him. There are also studies now that the decline in estrogen can bring on psychological problems that may have been held in abeyance by the hormone.

    • @giulia855
      @giulia855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      true !! it is soo frustrating that there are fans like that... and even worse1!

  • @princess101cute
    @princess101cute 10 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I think this is one of the best episodes; hot guys (cnblue and some of the guests), funny, sad and crazy stories, and of course the hilarious hosts!!) Ahh and I was supposed to do my homework!! Damn!

    • @charmgirl12
      @charmgirl12 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lol same here!! who needs homework anyways? i'm going to suffer after watching this tonight T_T so much hw!!

    • @ghadahal5209
      @ghadahal5209 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, thanks for the reminder!! So much homework here too :'(

  • @kbsworldtv
    @kbsworldtv  10 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    Hello Counselor - CN Blue! (2014.03.31)
    A 22-year-old male misunderstood as a woman. A husband who's worried about his wife's love for a singer. A mother who's worried about her overly affectionate son. Check out these concerns with today's guests, the members of CNBLUE. And will "A Dry Life" win again?
    th-cam.com/video/MrLK84oKJb8/w-d-xo.html

    • @JohnSmithpeace
      @JohnSmithpeace 10 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Fans like her are one of the major building blocks of the entertainment industry, hehehe, so I feel a bit happy for her although I do feel for her husband but when your lonely or depressed you do reach out for something, anything.

    • @gabrielaliz7
      @gabrielaliz7 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      CNBLUE is a nice group, I'm her fan from Peru, and thanks so much for sharing this great show online. I hope CNBLUE can visit Peru again :)

    • @riannecn5366
      @riannecn5366 10 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      KBS TV is really the world TV for subbing this, CNBLUE is a great hallyu star, and they have many international fans. Now we have never to worry about language’s barrier. Another TV program should look KBS and subs their programs as well. KBS DAEBAK!!!

    • @albatool6689
      @albatool6689 10 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Thank you KBS for subbing these shows it means a lot for the foreign fans, as for a request for the next guest It would be REALLY nice of you to invite V.I.X.X on Hello counselor!

    • @MhokDayRak
      @MhokDayRak 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Please invite VIXX in da house...the show going to b awesome like freakin much with them as a guest!!

  • @XxRekikoSamuraixX
    @XxRekikoSamuraixX 10 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The 1st concern made me cry. I feel so bad living in a world where other people cannot respect eachother. Theres a line betwern joking around and hurting someones feeling.. On a side note his friend with the black hair is cute

  • @poofyowl
    @poofyowl 10 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The first concern, his older brother actually looks quite cute.
    Wow a Jeong Chanu fan flashback! xD
    I remember Jung Dong Ha was on Hello Counsellor a while back such a surprise he came this time too!

    • @grace61235
      @grace61235 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you know which episode the Chanwoo fan was in?

  • @mishbeatz
    @mishbeatz 9 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    CN Blue's intro "performance" was too cute

  • @aaaanna120
    @aaaanna120 10 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Sometimes I feel as if these male hosts go way too far in making fun of Lee Yeonja, at the end of the day she's a woman afterall, no one likes being poked at because of their weight.

  • @uyenvu5568
    @uyenvu5568 9 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The first concern reminded me of this drama I'm currently watching.. Coffee Prince! haha!

    • @xBlueTrancex
      @xBlueTrancex 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha me too xD !!"

    • @marinceb.a.p3319
      @marinceb.a.p3319 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg same! they even look a like (for me)

  • @BintMuscat2000
    @BintMuscat2000 10 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    The story of that 22 years boy who looks like a women made me CRY T.T .. poor him TT.TT

  • @RAWRAWKS
    @RAWRAWKS 10 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    i screamed so much watching the son and mom's skinship. it's really taking it too far

    • @mangafox16
      @mangafox16 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      lol same i had to turn away >

    • @HaGi308
      @HaGi308 10 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I dont mind to have a husband like dat, but a son like that is...NO..NO X__X

    • @Zaharitsa98oups
      @Zaharitsa98oups 10 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Idk..My brother does the same with hugging, back hug and stuff to my mother and he's at his age and i think it's okay..

    • @mangafox16
      @mangafox16 10 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Well I think hugging is okay but like some of the other stuff is a little too far

    • @atrociouszhen
      @atrociouszhen 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol its ok for me cuz im a girl and i can kiss my mom but i dont always kiss my mom i will feel embarass some times !

  • @bigbangsofly
    @bigbangsofly 10 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    i wish i can donate my manliness to him,i'm too rough etc to be a girl sometimes.

    • @22staytiny22
      @22staytiny22 10 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      LOL omfg when they taught him how to sit more like a guy... damn i sit like that XD i tend to cross my legs like a guy. otherwise i open them. i see no problem with that cuz im always wearing jeans or shorts XD

    • @idontknowwhattoputinhere7382
      @idontknowwhattoputinhere7382 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same. Even some of my new friends confused me for a guy. And my new class sometimes says: "I really don't know if you're really a girl." So I jokingly look in my pants and say things like "Nope nothing there" or "no. As far as I know I'm a girl." It's fun but sometimes really too much. I know how he feels...

    • @Iced_boba_tea127
      @Iced_boba_tea127 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      INFINITEInspirit95 bigbangsofly same

    • @elisan685
      @elisan685 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      however you are is always completely fine, no matter if you're a woman or a man. i hope you're doing well now, i know this comment is 6 years old

  • @XxxMuseluverxxX
    @XxxMuseluverxxX 9 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Marine boy who loves his mom has a really nice, "I don't give a fuhhh~" personality that is really attractive 😆😆😆 I enjoyed the last story, I found it pretty funny + son has swag lol

    • @camtunguyen2664
      @camtunguyen2664 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      XxxMuseluverxxX you're so right! Even his friends look so nice and kind, sweet! Maybe his parents is kind of arranged marriage, and his family have good education

    • @n.m467
      @n.m467 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Doesn't he look like junkook or is it just me??

    • @sarael6720
      @sarael6720 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES I thought it was just me but he does look like an older version of jungkook :D

    • @angah9675
      @angah9675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@n.m467 I thought the same too😁

  • @nabyinreverse
    @nabyinreverse 9 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Korea's attitude to homosexuality though... ¬______¬

  • @Ameiaru
    @Ameiaru 10 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    LOVED all three concerns. I haven't been so entertained or laughed or touched or shocked as I have from this episode. Great job to Jung Dongha (i'll probably be looking up more of your songs XD) and Jungshin you were an ace today. :D

  • @mizhielle03
    @mizhielle03 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    CNBLUE are really a great group.. These guys are so awesome.. Hope to see them often on TV..
    thank you KBS for the subs...

  • @potatowandsfries
    @potatowandsfries 10 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As expected of an episode with CNBLUE to be filled with interesting topics and funny incidents just like the past episode that featured them as well!

  • @3akirasuzuki
    @3akirasuzuki 10 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I just discovered this show not long ago and I keep watching it!! So funny, love it! =D

    • @pearlbowblack
      @pearlbowblack 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's addicting isn't it?! But I wish they had a professional doctor or psychologist on the show, to give advice for some of the concerns.

    • @pearlbowblack
      @pearlbowblack 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** Really?! I think CNBLUE is a pretty good Asian Rock/Indie band:) (I like the fact that they are a band, meaning they play their own instruments, write and compose their own music etc... And have worked pretty hard to get to where they are now.) Who do you like now?
      Yeah, as a fellow Canadian, I thought JB was cute too, (when he was first starting out), but lets hope that CNBLUE can better handle success and fame then JB.😁

    • @pearlbowblack
      @pearlbowblack 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** I'm not really that familiar with B.A.P. Is he the leader and one of the ones who raps? Nice choice:-) So handsome! I once read somewhere that he had a twin!!
      I pretty much like everything and anything, and have a bias in every group (okay make that allot of bias in every group:-)

    • @pearlbowblack
      @pearlbowblack 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ***** Way too many to list! I think they all have some strengths in different categories:-) I got into K-Pop a long time ago; It was around the time SS501 first debuted.
      But Top 10 would be:
      GD and Big Bang- for a rap and hip-hop group, for swag, great fashion sense and crazy M/Vs.
      SS501- for brotherhood (Members are doing solo things now though)
      Suju- for entertainment
      U-Kiss- for a good all-around group
      CNBLUE- for a rock band
      Mate- for an Indie group
      SHINee- for making so-so and silly songs that are not necessarily good but, you just can't seem to get them out of you head and dance to them when you're alone!
      MBlaq- for Lee Joon (enough said:-)
      Infinite- for their synchronized dancing and choreography, and having allot of member that have multiple talents.
      Royal Pirates - my favorite rookies so far (I hope they get more popular!)
      And too many more....
      However its strange, I've never really paid attention to any girl groups. Plus I like allot of individual singers, for real music:-) 

    • @EarlyMorningsAndRain
      @EarlyMorningsAndRain 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** the thing is that the boys in boy groups get as much surgery as the girls. so its really not a gender thing. both get plastic surgery but honestly no one does any dramatic procedures so i dont get why people freak out over plastic surgery. its not a big deal.

  • @farahraihana
    @farahraihana 10 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    That part when Jungshin is a bit too manly... LOL XDD

    • @sania5532
      @sania5532 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      i agree!!! lol!!!

    • @medaroma725
      @medaroma725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aigoooo!! Jungshin chinguya!!!!!!😂😂

  • @brigittanguyen
    @brigittanguyen 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The husband and Jung Dongha both slouched and sighed with an irritated expression when the wife said, "But for now... I can't stop being an active fan." At the same time!!! 😂😂😂

  • @josseline18cat
    @josseline18cat 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved seeing CNBLUE there!!! These were true concerns and I hope they get solved. THANKS for having CNBLUE there!!! ;)

  • @cookiecrumble91
    @cookiecrumble91 10 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    affectionate son is so handsome and perfect!!! i fall in love with him the moment they introduce him..aaa otokaji..i keep repeating their issue part..and the imagination of him smiling,laughing,his gesture still fresh in my mind..aaa i must be insane..geez this affectionate son really sweet.. ^.^

    • @misscutiemah
      @misscutiemah 10 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      i know right, when the mom was voicing her concern about him getting married I was like "gurl that boy fine!" He can get a girl if he wants to. He was so good looking!

    • @HanieJ
      @HanieJ 10 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      So true! The son is one fine looking young, tall, sweet, affectionate. They say if the son affectionate to the mom, he will be even more affectionate to his wife =)

    • @ShrooMIR05
      @ShrooMIR05 10 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      ***** Same here, its good for her son to be affectionate but its really close to break a boundaries. And if they keep this cycle going i believe that it will just get worsed and unhealthy. He's handsome yeah, but his affection is at the level of not normal at all. Im sorry to say this but the way i see it its too close for an incest relationship

    • @stephaniezhu5448
      @stephaniezhu5448 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      His affection is a bit too much, but it's not to the point where you can call it incest relationship, though.

    • @ShrooMIR05
      @ShrooMIR05 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Im not calling it incest. But its close to if things are just getting too passionate for them

  • @bluekatt24
    @bluekatt24 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i love seeing how brothers and family are so close in kroea, when the brother cried for the guy who looked like a woman was on I felt touched

  • @chuynin
    @chuynin 10 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I love the show =). Please, invite B.A.P!!!

    • @chnicolee
      @chnicolee 10 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Omg YES!

    • @831x10
      @831x10 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They'd bully jungup so hard lol

  • @silvervixen007
    @silvervixen007 8 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I kinda feel for the woman in the second concern. She does the houshold, raising the children, and he sneeks in once a month telling her what to do in the other 29 days. What does he do to make her feel less lonely? If he had been such a great husband how come that she likes Dongha so much? 😞

    • @geesuslookatthatalpaca7471
      @geesuslookatthatalpaca7471 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah. I agree with you. She might go a little overboard with all the money spent, or too many pictures, but it makes her happy. I was just like "How dare he try and take away her happiness". She doesn't have a job, and she basically raises two kids on her own. She needs something else in her life! And if a singer makes her happy...then she shouldn't change that!

    • @monika8255
      @monika8255 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      +silvervixen007 try to look at this concern from the husband's perspective. he provides for his family, he works apart from his family, he can't see them everyday, I guess if he could he won't take that job, who wants live separately with their families? and seeing his wife loving (or I'm gonna use her term), liking another man that much? of course it hurts. if she thinks her husband can't make her happy then there's a problem with her. his husband's jealousy is already a proof that he loves his wife, and he envies his wife's affection towards Dongha. just my two cents.

    • @silvervixen007
      @silvervixen007 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Monika Anindita yes actually the first time I watched this episode i sided with him more than with her. but still, the second time i realized that only blaming here isn't right either

    • @monika8255
      @monika8255 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      silvervixen007 I agreed, they need to have a good communication. But after reading your comment again I kinda get it, I was a hardcore fans of kpop (if I ever lived in Korea I could be one of those sasaeng fans lol) but once I met the right man I stopped being a fan. Maybe the distance is the problem (but I hope they resolved this issue now) :)

  • @JCXP123
    @JCXP123 9 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Here because of the new couple on wgm! Jonghyun and Seungyeon!

    • @horridhenry1273
      @horridhenry1273 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg! I thought I was the only one. xD Same here. (/_\) Love the new couple.

    • @babyred2658
      @babyred2658 9 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me... Too.. I feel the same too.. Because of jonghyun .. My search engine always all about him.. I'm crazyy about him... I want to have a husband Like him... Is this Kind of man Does exist ?

    • @JCXP123
      @JCXP123 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love both Jonghyun-Seungyeon couple and the Henry-Yewon couple! They're one of my absolute favourites behind Teukso! baby red Apparently, yes! :D

    • @lawl970
      @lawl970 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      JCXP123 I l ove both couples too! thats why im here!

    • @azwhoony
      @azwhoony 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i'm here bcoz of jonghyun seungyon shipper as well....but the bouncing part truly cracks me up...hillarious...haha

  • @ms.maggie5636
    @ms.maggie5636 9 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    For the first concern i think maybe he could try a new hairstyle and a new style? i mean if some girl idols are called boys because of style maybe hes being mistaken by his hair and style? To me he doesnt look like a girl i just feel like the haircut is very feminine... You know what i mean?...

    • @sugary_sugar
      @sugary_sugar 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Ms.Maggie That's what I think too, I've seen a lot of girls with a similar haircut, so I feel like if he got something different (maybe what people would consider 'manly') he would look less girly

    • @ms.maggie5636
      @ms.maggie5636 9 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Sanya Mishra Yeah yeah. Im thinking its just that the hair doesnt suit his face. Instead of bowl or flippy hair maybe get one like JungKook from bts where it all is spiked towards the front or another spiked badass look yah know

    • @erinbussert
      @erinbussert 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Ms.Maggie the outfit he is wearing looks like what most women wear to hide their hips and belly....I think if he wore shirts that fit rather than oversized then it would help .....I think a lot of it has to do with what he said about not having enough testosterone and therefore he has more estrogen which can give men belly fat, more breast tissue and a higher voice.....regarding the married couple I think that either the family should move to the town where the husband works or he she get a job closer to home....I think the wife is extremely lonely as well as raising 2 kids and working....he only comes home once a month and that is ridiculous and that is why she is fixated on the singer since she wants companionship and romance and isn't getting any

    • @smolbutscary5114
      @smolbutscary5114 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well to me he was actually quite ugly to be a girl but looks quite good as he is but I agree with the hair

    • @iss3888
      @iss3888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He can try to that. But he still looks like a female to me even if he did. His face and physical body shape is crying out female. He can't do much about it. I find it quite concerning.

  • @saraliu4143
    @saraliu4143 9 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    Second concern: future me of EXO 😂😂😂

    • @alexanderv.r8362
      @alexanderv.r8362 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Puan Nur OMG Did you see how macho he acted? XD Compared to WGM....hahaha XD

    • @payals2659
      @payals2659 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      future me of GD BigBang haha

    • @redroses3237
      @redroses3237 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Future me of minhyuk cnblue

    • @payals2659
      @payals2659 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Txmilx ssi you know how i feel then ehehe

    • @Tdk-sd7bg
      @Tdk-sd7bg 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahaha ikr exo l forever

  • @safiralight3768
    @safiralight3768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    after watching the husband get frustrated at his wife for fangirling too much, i realized the married life might never be for me. i don't think i'll ever be able to stop fangirling over kang minhyuk

  • @jimireza
    @jimireza 9 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Jonghyun...u r so handsomeeee

  • @ashleyramk
    @ashleyramk 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    44:49
    i love how they both slouched down when she said that

  • @vonzilla2082
    @vonzilla2082 8 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    The overly affectionate son is really disturbing. I don't understood why more people don't see it as a problem. The problem is not that he's showing affection, but it's in the WAY that he is showing affection. He is being physical with his mom in a way that you would with a lover and not a family member. Hugging and kissing your family is ok, but not kissing on thighs and stomach and toes and back of her neck and all over her body and holding her from behind. There's something wrong there. Even his expression when he was holding her from behind to demonstrate what he normally does was more like a look that you would give someone you were dating. I wanted so bad for someone to say that he was a son, and not a husband or boyfriend, so even though he wished he could heal his mom's hurt from an unaffectionate marriage, he simply will never be able to fill that kind of void because he's the SON. Ugh. He's trying to fill that sexual role as husband whether he realizes it or not. He was trying to fix what his father failed in doing, but that's just something he can't do. I bet she cried and told him about the marriage problem when he was a teenager, so when he was trying to heal his mom's hurt, I can see him developing this kind of off thinking during that critical time period of mental growth and development combined with all the harmones swirling. He obviously loves his mom and wants to see her happy, but this is too much.
    Even if there wasn't anything wrong with what he is doing, he should respect her wishes and back off some. It's a kind of physical harassment. And it wasn't like she was asking him to completely stop showing affection. He's an adult now so he should be able to handle it. It's so disturbing when people come on this show because they are being physically or sexually harassed by their own partners, and all the other person says is, "well I like it and this is how I show my "love" so they should just accept it." It makes me so upset that even though they are causing the other person physical pain and/or mental anguish, they are so selfish and disrespectful to the other person that they won't stop. It's very disturbing.
    The guy that looks like a girl, really all he needs is a shorter manly haircut and more sharp tailored clothes with boxy lines. Something that can give a more manly shape to his body. And probably work on his mannerisms because he does have feminine movements. Most of the guys in those k-pop groups look like girls, so I'm not sure him looking like a girl is so much the issue. If he could gain confidence in himself coupled with a haircut plus more man-like movements and gestures, I think that would help. Maybe when he is able to afford it he could start harmonies again. (Though with what I'm hearing about the medical system over there, I wonder if the doctor was even giving him the right medicine.) It's really disturbing and wrong how people have been treating him. I hope one day they do a "where are they now" show and we can see how these people are doing years later and if the advice helped.

    • @forevermanutd2732
      @forevermanutd2732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      IKR. Its so disturbing they way her son show his affection. Kissing here and there. I think you are right. Maybe he see his mother, more than a mother. He says he likes her mother, but what he really mean is he really "LIKE" her mom. Like, like like. Hmmm that is so distrubing

    • @sreemolcs9838
      @sreemolcs9838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perfect comment. Loved it

    • @Crescentmoon0701
      @Crescentmoon0701 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I also think it's an Oedipus Complex. It's something to be concerned about.

  • @025general
    @025general 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so love this show and I love it even more that CNBLUE is here!!! Thanks KBSworld!

  • @malaikaamin540
    @malaikaamin540 9 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Im just pissed people find it dodgy that 2 girls go out together

    • @Randomninja47
      @Randomninja47 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      A lot of older generation koreans are still very much conservative. The newer generations seem a bit more accepting but it's still not something widely accepted there.
      I'm not saying it's right but you need to understand their culture and look at how it's continually changing in the future generations.

    • @malaikaamin540
      @malaikaamin540 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Randomninja47 ik that the young g are more open minded.

    • @MVPA-io5ee
      @MVPA-io5ee 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Randomninja47 it's not accepted in many countries for a long time... Honestly...

  • @iloveasiansandkpop3297
    @iloveasiansandkpop3297 10 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That 22 year old male actually reminds of the cute little Hello Baby, Leo ,from the MBLAQ Hello Baby season.

  • @mangafox16
    @mangafox16 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hello Couselor is awesome for doing the Jung Dongha surprise!

  • @kimjiwonie3621
    @kimjiwonie3621 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    oh my jonghyun is sent from heaven how can someone be so cute and well mannered and dreamy........... 😍😍😍

  • @btricev5
    @btricev5 10 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    when Jung Shin sat with the pillow... so dorky and sexy 😹

  • @yelishanx
    @yelishanx 10 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I think that the wife is not entirely wrong.Because like what they said,they are a monthly couple.They don't get to see each other often,so it is not surprising that the wife isn't close to her husband.But of course,she needs to draw a line between her and the idol after all.

  • @rynloisfuntilon1359
    @rynloisfuntilon1359 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    the last one made my hands and toes curl 😓

  • @adelinelvv89
    @adelinelvv89 10 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really really wish to see Big Bang on this show, KBS. Please pleaseeeeeee

  • @sequoiasm
    @sequoiasm 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I kind of understand why the wife was like that. SHE'S LONELY!!!

  • @kimborassecondwife
    @kimborassecondwife 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of my favourite episodes by far and I've watched a ton... CNBLUE was a really good guest, they were so talkative and they gave good advice and questions.... I think I need to start stan them now😂

  • @mucicalkittycat12
    @mucicalkittycat12 10 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I feel like the first concern was more serious than they put it but obviously they can't talk about it on family TV. That poor boy is being sexually harassed weekly...that's a serious societal problem (everywhere but really thats not okay.)

  • @miado8048
    @miado8048 10 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The mom that's a fan of Jung Dongha, she kinda resemble BTOB's Eunkwang while her husband looks like Beast's Dongwoon, at least his smile/lips and eyes did to me...and I think Dongha is tired of her problems too! he kinda sighed when she said she mentioned he went solo.. his shoulder slumped! lmao!
    I would fan girl like that if I was in her case too except for that it has to be DBSK or FT Island too lol

  • @niagrimaldi2071
    @niagrimaldi2071 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    LOL! I just love how the husband and DongHa sigh at the same time when the woman says she can't stop being an active fan cuz he went solo!

  • @bathonsama8102
    @bathonsama8102 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Those four MCs are the best in all korean programs, I LOVE them!! *^*
    so hilarious

  • @Randomninja47
    @Randomninja47 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can we just take a moment and appreciate how beautiful the mum was in the last concern? 46? Daaaang.
    But the son was too extreme...

  • @andresil8330
    @andresil8330 10 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    That first concern is serious.Why the hell the government doesn't pay for his treatment?Even here in Brazil you have access to those injections if you need to.
    The second concern is ridiculous,realllyyyy hard to watch.If i was married to a girl like that i would be seriously desappointed with her behavior .The guy is really patient to keep married to to such stupid woman. (not because she's a woman, if a man behave like that. being a crazy fan of a girl group that would be also unacceptable)

    • @puddlemini
      @puddlemini 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think in Korea, despite universal healthcare sponsored through work/the gov, this kind of treatment comes under cosmetic or elective care. A lot of gender/sex related health issues are treated like that in general unfortunately, in Korea and all over the world.

    • @andresil8330
      @andresil8330 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ***** Yeah, how could she be so heartless seeing her own daughter crying and the efforts of the husband to change things and still put an idol before the family.It was painful to watch and make me really mad at her.

  • @bargui3445
    @bargui3445 9 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    the corcern of the mom with her son, he actually looks like Jongkook!

    • @jyriah17
      @jyriah17 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know, he looks so similar

    • @penguin_forest
      @penguin_forest 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry but which jong kook there's kim jong kook bts jungkook and other jongkook

    • @jyriah17
      @jyriah17 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Julia Shoji bts jung kook

    • @alleenayrah152213
      @alleenayrah152213 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr!!! Totally similar!

    • @selinazerie4540
      @selinazerie4540 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Barbara Guiot whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat!!!!! ok no...that can't be.you probably need to look up who junkook is!!kookie is way more cuter and handsomer than this guy!

  • @dafnecasapiasalcedo9461
    @dafnecasapiasalcedo9461 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the show, people can share their problems and search for solutions... I like very much the CNBLUE's participation, their smiles make everything better.... CNBLUE

  • @anniedot9970
    @anniedot9970 10 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yonghwa is perfect

  • @ebonyloveivory
    @ebonyloveivory 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That second concern though, even Dongha was like "Aishhh seriously this woman." when she said she couldn't stop being an active fan at 44:50. His and the woman's husband's reactions were exactly the same.

  • @cloudburstt
    @cloudburstt 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ugh the first experience almost made me cry!

  • @babyyneekyy
    @babyyneekyy 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    LOL I can kind of relate to the wife of the 2nd concern xD I was sad Dongha got married (but i was also extremely happy for him!). Imagine your favorite idol got married, you'd be sad. However, the wife is crossing many lines and she should love and pay more attention to her husband :)
    Btw Dongha looks really good with his new haircut! I hope married life is treating him well!

  • @LDLK
    @LDLK 10 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    the affectionate son is handsome lol

  • @teodoradimitrova9030
    @teodoradimitrova9030 10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    KBS please invite 2NE1 on hello counselor!! :)

  • @razghanie86
    @razghanie86 10 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    the 2nd concern.. their daughter is a fan of crayon pop. i dont know why im laughing, but the audience laughing too.. lol

  • @saldiamond
    @saldiamond 10 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    the 22 year old guy's concern made me sad. people treat him so badly, like he's a sideshow act :((( i think he's an attractive guy, i wish he had been able to continue the hormone treatments like he wanted. the last concern is just weird....i am affectionate towards my parents and give them hugs and kiss them on the cheek, but kissing like he does that's just.....no....you don't do that with parents D:

  • @angelas1220
    @angelas1220 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you KBS World😃👍❤

  • @sage9097
    @sage9097 10 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I feel bad for Yeongja at times because they literally make fun of her. I mean, if it was me i would have literally boiled or something. I know that she is a entertainer ans this is something that she gets paid for and whatever, But remember, she's still a woman. And a woman's size is a very sensitive issue for them.

    • @sage9097
      @sage9097 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** Yeah i hope so! She is a strong woman! Love her! :)

  • @Sereenpower
    @Sereenpower 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The first concern is so frustrating for the poor boy. The second concern made me laugh a lot since the fan concerns are always funny and the third was sweet and disturbing at the same time. It's sweet to see he loves his mother and wants to make her feel happy because of the though marriage but he should realise the amount of bounderies he is crossing with being so affectionate

  • @texhnolyzed7470
    @texhnolyzed7470 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    HOW IS CNBLUE NOT GLOWING?! That's a concern to me right there haha

  • @syarina
    @syarina 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ohmyyy the first concern really serious. When his brother cry and looks so sad, I can feel it he's being through a very hard life, and there must be a lot more serious situations but he did't tell. I hope even a bit, his life could be better.

  • @babycocktail15
    @babycocktail15 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In the second concern I feel like I was looking into the future because that would totally be me.

  • @sweetbre5383
    @sweetbre5383 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a Huge fan of CNBLUE! Happy they were on the show!

  • @7th_soulchild801
    @7th_soulchild801 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I laughed so hard when Jung Dongha sings in front of the couple. Looked like a drama XD

  • @koengsinghz
    @koengsinghz 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG! it was a FANTASTIC surprise seeing JEONG DONGHA oppa!
    I hadn't been able to see him since his last appearance in Immortal Songs 2 and after his marriage
    I was dying to see him!
    Ommoooo! Can't believe!
    Thank you! Hello Counselor Team for bringing him in.
    He looks more handsome after cutting his hair! Slightly chubby and handsome.
    I can totally understand the wife here.
    If I were in Korea I would have been the same !

  • @SUJULOVES13
    @SUJULOVES13 10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The first concern really got to me .. I felt that he actually deserved more votes. On the other hand, the third concern is just so cute xD Honestly, i think that having an affectionate son is so much better than having a son that forgets all about you once he has grown up.

  • @aqesta5004
    @aqesta5004 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    ''he would bounce back'' that made me laugh so much

  • @lowlyffangirl1025
    @lowlyffangirl1025 10 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Omg ,the first concern? I felt so bad for him when he said that people would touch him to see if he was a woman? That's sexual abuse and i swear all those people are disgusting and inhuman. So what if he doesn't look like a typical man? He had his reasons and i would sit those people down and ask them how they would feel if i touched them to 'check' their gender ,ugh such assholes.
    The second concern? The woman should draw a line between her personal activities and her family's activities ,the husband was clearly upset ,i mean come on he wasn't stopping her from fangirling ,he just wanted the wife to be a bit more considerate towards the family and love them more. It's obvious he was mostly away on business but he's doing that for the family and he loves his wife and kids ,she should understand more rather than just pushing him away and dreaming about an idol.
    The last concern ,when the son said that he had a reason ,i just died coz he was so what so considerate of his mom and what she had been through ,yea of course he should cut a down a bit on the skinship but he was pretty sweet . Also i hope he understands that skinship isn't the only way of showing support for someone! I hope they're not misunderstood coz it doesn't seem incest at all!
    Oh and gotta say CNBLUe were awesome lol! One of my favourite guests! Oh one last thing ,right before they show the son in the last concern ,around 53:06? You can see Jong shin applying lip balm hehe so cute!

    • @elviizchoi
      @elviizchoi 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      agreed! i was shocked when the boy of 1st concern said that ppl touch his chest to check his gender, cuz maybe wasnt the big deal cuz hes a boy but if thet touch and found out is a girl! you cant go around touching other ppls bodies! :l

  • @sachalala1898
    @sachalala1898 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't know why I started to tear up when that woman met Jung Dong Ha. I feel like I can understand how she feels as a fan myself.

  • @asiancitizen9277
    @asiancitizen9277 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The man from first concern is really got serious problem because he was sexually abuses by strangers because they thought he is a girl. The second concern...OMG... The wife should've know that she has a family and has to pay more attention to them. I feel bad for Jung Dongha when he said that he like to sing because it heal him when he heard that his song has given people strength but the concern shows the opposite effect. As we much love our favorite singer but it doesn't mean we have to neglect our family for them. I hope CN Blue will never stuck with something like this...aigo...

  • @Yinyueify
    @Yinyueify 10 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    omg i feel bad for the first dude :(..the son from the 3rd concern is hella cute like damn, but he's really touchy...i can't see myself doing that to my mom if i was a boy.

  • @enigerlee0525
    @enigerlee0525 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jungshin is daebak!! Love him!

  • @IsabelVo_
    @IsabelVo_ 10 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Jungshin ruined my biased list

    • @elviizchoi
      @elviizchoi 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      idk what u mean with that, but I agree! he's so funny, I totally loved him here! ruin my bias list too, now he's on top :3

    • @fall3nange11
      @fall3nange11 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      elviizchoi I'm not the only one ;-;

  • @poppyorangeflower
    @poppyorangeflower 10 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    first person has hormonal problems: that's not something HC can solve as it's not behavioral. It's a deficit he has to live with until he gets a permanent *and probably expensive* medical treatment.

    • @AluraNightShade101
      @AluraNightShade101 10 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      People in his position go on HC not because they expect themselves to change but because they hope people will see it and recognize them and not badger them about it because they know it can't be fixed. It's to raise awareness for themselves so that less people would misunderstand and treat them like that.

    • @egg-spert
      @egg-spert 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Doesn't the winner or whatever get money though? Any he use that to get medical treatment also?

    • @SanaSamaha
      @SanaSamaha 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      ButtcheekofKyungsoo The prize money is only around $1000 usd. It can be a lot or very little depending on the winner. I think the prize money is mainly there as an incentive so guests will appear on the show.

  • @Cherrylover255
    @Cherrylover255 10 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i feel bad for the guy in the first concern =(

  • @chrystalite1895
    @chrystalite1895 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I keep coming back just to see 50:11 - 51:16 ITS TOO FUNNY MAN!!!!!!! First time I saw it, I was laughing harder than CNblue all together!

  • @susripathy
    @susripathy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Poor boy! It obviously is a huge problem as both brothers are effected by the disrespect given to the younger one... so very sad for him

  • @farzlyn
    @farzlyn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Am I the only one that think the son that like to kiss his mother so much, a little bit looklike Jungkook BTS??

    • @zeek10010
      @zeek10010 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes you are so stfu lol

    • @zeek10010
      @zeek10010 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes you are so stfu lol

    • @elik575
      @elik575 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeeeah, you're right! I guess it's his nose a little bit and smile or teeth idk😅

    • @hedidntfeelsogood4481
      @hedidntfeelsogood4481 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +What if if you were an anime no she's not the only one, and you don't need to be rude

    • @princess8004
      @princess8004 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I KNOW RIGHT!!!😍😍

  • @xXxMoonLightStarxXx
    @xXxMoonLightStarxXx 10 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I can relate to the last concern. If he is on a 10/10 scale with being affectionate to his mother, then im at about a 7/10 LOL I'm really close with my mom and im a mommy's girl, so i can understand. I give my mom kisses and back hugs, and she always tells me to stop, but i cant lol! But im not as bad as he is. XD

    • @elviizchoi
      @elviizchoi 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same here, im 23 too I Give my mom back hugs when she does the dishes, kiss her (cheeks, forehead or shoulders) and hug her a lot, we sometimes cuddle, but I do think hes over the top! :l

    • @Kpophdvidfan
      @Kpophdvidfan 10 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It's much different for a guy compared to a girl.....for a girl it's quite normal but what that guy does is too much....

    • @DaVinCode912
      @DaVinCode912 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree people in 99.99999% cases irrespective of then being girls or boys behave like a small kid when around their mother. A mother child relationship is the purest of all. We exist because of our mother. I don't think there is anything wrong with him at all.

  • @parkseonghwaswife6217
    @parkseonghwaswife6217 8 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    ''He has the body of a chubby woman'' really? -.- that's chubby? he's thin!

    • @icedmocha5264
      @icedmocha5264 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      In East Asian standards that's chubby :/ I live in Asia and that's not thin lol

  • @grace61235
    @grace61235 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    That last concern is so cute~ What familial love for each other~

  • @cutiepie12333
    @cutiepie12333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    There are concerns about sexual assault in this episode. What a coincidence, one of the guest is a sexual assaulter, Lee Jong Hyun...I couldn't even look at his face without getting irritated....

  • @15lazz
    @15lazz 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much, KBS. You are the best! :D

  • @massieregalachuelo7457
    @massieregalachuelo7457 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't think Jung Dongha appreciates the woman's harsh words toward her husband though... Can see it in his face... He is a husband now too... So I think he understands :)