Boundaries and Discernment // Relational Intelligence Part. 3 // Thrive with Dr. Dharius Daniels
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I'm living proof right now
I tell everyone that I can’t find the right church because on TH-cam I found my very favorite pastor. Been this way for 3 years now! Thank you
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Same
Haha I felt the same way at times but I found that I will always be able to listen to great pastors on TH-cam but the community you are able to immerse yourself in at your physical church is an experience that is amazing cannot be duplicated online! So keep going on Sunday’s don’t be afraid to try different locations you will eventually find your place! It is God’s promise not mine:)
FACTS!!
Hey friend in CHRIST, so… not that you asked but based on this very sermon here’s some tips and information…. This very same pastor would tell you to find a local Church to go to and serve your community and find / use your gift(s) for The Gospel… also if you really feel that strongly maybe relocation would be the next step, new and better opportunities! 🎉 ❤ Also, when my husband and I were dating we went Church hopping.. lol. So on Sundays we would go to different Churches and see how we felt and thought afterward…. 🎉 I too have pastors I enjoy listening to online. Just some ideas, not saying it to make you feels…. ❤🎉 love you. 😍
It's amazing when you cry out to GOD for certain things, how he brings exactly what you need...when you need it. Although this series is a year old, I wasn't ready for this back then! WOW!!!! 🤔🤔🤔🤔
No more falling in love..
Next time, I will conscientiously walk into it.
When someone shows you themselves believe them
Wow! Point 3: USE YOUR EARS - out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
This hit me!!
For a while now anger, swearing & ugliness has been coming out of my mouth, and I keep praying/crying/begging God to help me change, as well as do practical things to try to change, but I'm still struggling.
When I heard this I realised those things come out because they're IN my heart!
God show me how to get anger, hurt, resentment, hatred, bitterness etc out of my heart, help me to do this!
Prayers appreciated
Prayed for you.
@@thelma1206 thank you! Just an update, God has been healing me by allowing me to see & acknowledge the hurts, & forgive those who caused pain! I've been angry less - more just annoyed but quickly get over it, and am swearing a whole lot less!
This, as well as Ps. Steven Furtick's msg on "Do the new you" & Joseph Prince's teachings on God's grace has helped me to realise I can respond from a different place because God empowers me to - & it's not of my own struggle, just simply believing that what Jesus did is enough & because of that I CAN (have the ability to) speak/do things differently - that revelation has just been 🤯🤯🤯
Thanks again
I liked what you said about if you listen to somebody long enough you will see what’s in the heart love you man thank you sir
Powerful teaching! Thank you for this advice.
Discernment
There a difference between vulnerability & stupidity ✨
DISCERNMENT
Sheeeeew my Lord!!!
"Not me! I cannot allow the people who mean the most to me to get the least from me."
Love requires vulnerability. But there's a difference between vulnerability and stupidity
Soooo gooood. Thank Jesus for using Pastor Daniels
I keep coming back to this
TALK ABOUT IT!
I received it, life changing message to build better and stronger relationships.
Relational Intelligence highly recommended. It will truly save you from many heart breaks. Excellent breakdown on different levels of friendship. Thank you Pastor Daniels. At 66 years old, I see so many of my past errors. This book needs to be in lots of hands. Blessings and ❤️
I RECIEVE IT
33:30 - 35:50. I wrestled with these same questions about giving. Thank you for your clarification. Reciprocity is key.
Decernment
Wow this was life changing! Thank you so much I needed to hear that right now.
I RECEIVE IT !!! IN JESUS NAME
This is Real PD , Thank you for these Practical Steps once again. God through you is changing my Life.
I receive
Wow! Powerful!! I receive it
I receive it !!!
i receive it achayah
Thank you PD!
Thank you!!
Good teaching
Thank you!
Thank you!
I receive it!
Makes perfect sense
I receive it!
I recive it
Thank you
Thank you
Wow God is so good I needed this revelation he’s so good thank you for truth and yes it was my choices but no more with Gods grace
Thank you.
Use your eyes
Thank you!!
I receive it
I receive it
I receive it
I receive it
I receive it
I receive it! ❤🙌🏾
...So that we don't have wounds
Thank u
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌈🌈🌈🌈 trying to stay on that Parth getting hard
Makes sense!
Talk about it thank you
I have to admit that I’ve made decisions influenced by my feelings.
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I receive it Amen!
Talk about it
Talk about it
I Receive It 🙌🏾👏🏾
Me too 🎉
I received it
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!!!!!! Very eye opening and helpful and the season I am in 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I love listening to you such healing
Wow 😮❤🔥🔥🔥
Make sense
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Use your eyes ,heart and ears continuously 🙏🏾 I receive it!
I didn’t have relational intelligence in my 20s and 30s and I DO have regret today. So he’s right. And, we are absolutely replaceable. I can also testify to that. Didn’t matter how “important” I was; I was replaced and forgotten about INSTANTLY. After 20 years too. So he’s spitting facts.
I still remain as relevant as ever as father bc as PD said, that’s my DNA walking around. I created them and therefore we are in it for life. And I’m so thankful for that role in their lives.
That breakdown on a person’s potential…🤯🔥!!! This teaching is what is needed today in order for people to properly see others, in order to relate better to one another. This is some GOOD teaching!!
“At some point their mouth will tell on their heart” oooh weee!!! I could have ran around the perimeter (the outside) of my house with that one!!
Too many nuggets to even quote!
I receive it 🙌
I receive it. Thank you pastor❣️
The Holy Spirit gave you an in season word glory to God, because I was examining just recently if my feelings were deceiving me.
Great teaching! My feelings have fooled me- and have caused me some devastation.. that I’m not sure if I can come back from. Need much prayer and guidance.
Love requires vulnerability ♥️
Wish I had this teaching when I was younger! thank you Pastor Dharius!👏🏽
LETS GO
You teaching Pastor D. I receive it
Let’s talk about it
Great message! There’s a typo in the scripture it says 17* when it’s Matthew chapter 7 12:11
I receive it
I received it🙏
NOT ME!
Amen time to learn
(Me too talk fast) if I don’t have relational intelligence today/this season- I’m going to have regret bc the people who mean the most to me are not/ did not get the best of me
We don’t live with wounds. Greatest joy and pain is in our relationships.
Love requires vulnerability. (Me too!) There’s a difference between vulnerability and stupidity.
Some of our wounds are unnecessary wounds.
Stewardship of time, treasure, and talent.
Boundaries protect
Discernment is the ability to recognize fruits and respond accordingly. Analogy of trees as humans. Recognizing fruit is NOT judgement of the tree. Lack of discernment can get me sick. If I don’t know the difference between trees. It’s just not for me.
Fruit inspector to determine whether or not it is for you. Your feelings will fool you. The heart is deceitful. (Yes, my feelings have definitely fooled me- causing unnecessary wounds cause I let me feelings determine actions not the fruit-and I made excuses for the fruit bc I was overly influenced by the idea I was judging not inspecting fruit to see if it was healthy for me and I have underestimated the poison and overestimated potential!)
If I don’t have relational intelligence today I will have regret later ✨
Oh this is Good Teaching and Good Information!!! TGBTG God Bless
Something the Spirit discerned for me recently about what the world promotes as love - it's really just romanticised lust, made to conform to love. It's not love.
Much needed 😢 because I’m still learning how to use my discernment 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
"Matthew 7:16 -'...by their fruit you will recognize them.' So we're not judging, we're fruit inspecting."
Makes sense. I receive it! Thank you Dr. Daniels!🙏🏽🙏🏽
Me too🥲
Not Me!
We need relational intelligence so we don’t live with wounds ✨
1. Use your natural eyes. “When someone shows you who they are, believe them.”-Maya Angelou
2. Use your heart-mind, will emotions, imaginations. Intuition of the Holy Spirit aka hunches/ inner witness
3. Use your ears. At some point their mouth is going to tell of their heart. Many people end up dealing with unnecessary inconvenience bc their ears aren’t used to LISTEN.
MAKES SENSE!
Some people evolve and some regress. Not who they are but who they USED to be.
They can still be on the bus but their seat has to change.
Wheeewwww, this was good!! “The mouth speaks what the heart is full of”….
Boundaries and discernment🔥 Not me🔥 If I don't have Relational Intelligence today I will have regret tomorrow 🔥 The people I meant the most from me got the least from me🔥 Nothing wounds than relationships 🔥 We need it so we do not get wounded... Matthew 7:16 You are making so much sense to me🔥 Ability to recognise the fruit 🍑 Recognising what fruit the tree is producing is not judging 🔥 But to determine whether or not the fruit is bad for me is important 🔥 My lack of discernment will get me sick.... That tree is not good for me 🔥 Fruit inspecting whether they are good or bad for me🔥 My feelings will fool me 🔥A person's potential is an indication of what they can be but not always the indication of what they willing to be.. The choices they are willing to make the discomfort that they are willing to endure if they are not willing to make then you can never see it possible from the version of yourself. 🔥 You can realise that this person never become.. Before giving keys to our heart we need to do the fruit inspection 🔥🔥🔥 Wow that's so powerful 🙌 Fruit inspection will allow me to assess what assignment to carry through and what assets will bring so that you can carry it out...That assessment is not suitable for my assignment. Certain imperfections will impact me more than others 🔥 I can recognise what imperfections that I can really tolerate...
1.Use your eyes 👀 - Paying attention
2.Use your heart 💓 - mind, will, emotions, imaginations and affections. Using my inner witness which is under the influence of the Holy Spirit.
3.Use your ears...Luke 6:45 Their mouth will tell of what's there in their heart....Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks...Be slow to speak quick to hear. Based on this I will know what set of boundaries that I need to set...If I stop using my eyes, heart n ears i will not realise when people are changing seats🔥 My mind will be blown and God will pivot to the right relationship in Jesus Name. Amen 🙌 I see manifestation in my life when I use my eyes, heart and ears 🔥
Discerning the fruit doesn't mean I'm judging the tree 💯🔥 Goodness PD how can you be speaking to my heart like this???😱🙆♂️🤯
Dana Comeaux
Keep talking!!!
My oh my!!!
It was fantastic! Truly a blessing!
Goodness!! At work and almost ran out the building. This was for me. God has spoken to me through you. God I hear you. I receive it!!🙌🏾
Thank you for posting this Pastor! I recently released someone from my life because they were not good for me overall. They were not bad people, just not right for what God is doing in me. This clarifies SO MUCH! Be encouraged.😇