My husband from Ghana was married to another woman for ten years and I had no idea | Tuko TV

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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    What message do you have for Angela?
    To share your story, send us an email at news@tuko.co.ke, Lyn.ngugi@tuko.co.ke or Kevin.philips@tuko.co.ke

    • @moreenmbatha1147
      @moreenmbatha1147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      mimi siku nita toa yangu dunia ita tetemeka soon tu nitashare 😁😁😁😁

    • @joyceamsi6396
      @joyceamsi6396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@moreenmbatha1147 waooohh

    • @paulineolesi9714
      @paulineolesi9714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😭😭😭 I feel you Angela, may God give you strength and bless the work of your hands, I know what you're looking for is love but pray God to give you somebody that you will never regret in life, God protect you from con men's

    • @esthercheptoo6558
      @esthercheptoo6558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Angela, you have an incredible story. And a lot of courage. I'm glad that part of your life is over and you are helping other people pick themselves up. Girl, you're glowing, be blessed!

    • @moreenmbatha1147
      @moreenmbatha1147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joyceamsi6396 watu wameyaona uzuri hayo mangumu ukiwa mkweli yana baraka nyingi sana

  • @romanticasia
    @romanticasia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    This lady is beautiful, honest, loyal and faithful. She is an angel who fell for the devil. She has my deep respect. God bless her and her two boys.

    • @marypeter4008
      @marypeter4008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes I agree with you ..I was ones done almost the same by a Kenyan guy ...some men are real evil..may them never have peace.

    • @stephxylv4165
      @stephxylv4165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Abdikhani mohamed you said it all

    • @stephxylv4165
      @stephxylv4165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you

    • @nadegelubin8056
      @nadegelubin8056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen to that

    • @harrisonwazza3563
      @harrisonwazza3563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i agree

  • @kangula4035
    @kangula4035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +754

    Men will hurt you so bad until you become a motivational speaker

  • @globalcitizen1138
    @globalcitizen1138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    She might be naive but she has a Heart of GOLD. Both women and men let’s guard our hearts and minds and ask our God to guide our every step.

    • @drfaithkilonzo
      @drfaithkilonzo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well said. Her vulnerability was a liability then but now it is her greatest strength💪

    • @drfaithkilonzo
      @drfaithkilonzo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Angela, your vulnerability was a liability then, but now it is your greatest strength 💪 See you at the top!!!

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    You paid for the first date, gave him money, dropped him home, he lives with 5 men, treated his boys!!!! Girl?????? He saw a desperate woman and took advantage. Don't do that nonsense ever again.

    • @sharoneeneeza8572
      @sharoneeneeza8572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Linda Tinah TV u have taken wrds out of my mouth.

    • @LindaTinahTV
      @LindaTinahTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@sharoneeneeza8572 sometimes the red flags are hidden but with this one they were all there loud and clear, sirens too but she wanted a man so bad she accepted so much shit. And he knew it and used it to use her. We should count our losses sometimes and say goodbye.

    • @biggrhymees88one
      @biggrhymees88one 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She was a "jumpy" girl/woman who hit the wall with a child out of wedlock and was looking for a man who would accept "bakishish".

    • @mamuyu171
      @mamuyu171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yes she was desperate and acted like a stupid rich woman who didn't put her son first...

    • @josephharlem6192
      @josephharlem6192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Linda Tinah TV I am your subbie, don't be mean to the sis, some women are nice, and the dude is a dead-beat heartless player, who also happens to have been longing for a son; btw how is the situation in Italy and the covid situation? How have black people fared statistically?

  • @ndanikoi4109
    @ndanikoi4109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Hi, I'm from Ghana and sorry you had to be deceived this way. This talk is good for single ladies to learn from. You don't pay for dinner when it's the man who asks you out...

    • @amoskanneh5540
      @amoskanneh5540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nda Nikoi My sister don't be so sorry about this . I guess you have never live in Kenya or to listen to your Ghanian brother side of the story . First , let me tell you , most west African are harassed in Kenya . I have friends that I know that are legally married , some in church and court in Kenya and have the marriage certificate , but they are not allow to get a form of visa to stay with their families there ,and police are always arresting them and some even get deported . So some of these men will be force to leave the country to go back west Africa because they fear harassment , and then the Kenyan lady on the other hand will come up with abandonment story . I think the first thing they should do is to inform their government to work on this aspect

    • @maxk5831
      @maxk5831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ghana women hard as stone

    • @princessnaaofeibeaquarcoo3091
      @princessnaaofeibeaquarcoo3091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@maxk5831 🙄you have issues,before you insult us,check your English grammar

    • @loveprevails7080
      @loveprevails7080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PRINCESS NAA OFEIBEA QUARCOO He/she meant Ghanaian women are strong like stone.proud Ghanaian woman here!

    • @narkietetteh
      @narkietetteh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@amoskanneh5540 so why not send her money? Why not tell her the truth that you're already married? No matter what, what that dude did is really shameful and has further tainted the reputation of Ghanaians, men and women alike. Whether they are good or bad. I'm really saddened by this as a Ghanaian.

  • @maureenokon4012
    @maureenokon4012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +665

    The first red flag was when she paid for dinner, dropped him at his place and gave him 5k.

    • @nanatiti2006
      @nanatiti2006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Kenyan ladies bend over when they are with foreigners, period.

    • @aliceomarphiri9635
      @aliceomarphiri9635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@nanatiti2006 yap trying to show them how independent we are

    • @NyarRailakende
      @NyarRailakende 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I would never give a man money only if am married to him and even that, I need a good concrete reason, Ladies never give a man money it shows how desperate you are and the man will never give you THAT respect! Poa Lynn dear keep safe we love you❤

    • @nectarblue
      @nectarblue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Yeah what would compel a woman to give a man money on the first date, pay for his meal, move him and a gang of men into her house where she lives with her young son (Thereby putting the kid in unknown danger) What if they were child molesters? How does she know whether they were thieving and bringing her stolen goods into the house? Thats why l think she is extremely thick. I would not like to be motivated by her, She ought to have joined a wisdom group. Not motivational group. Am sorry. Her story has really wound me up.

    • @sylfiailavonga9867
      @sylfiailavonga9867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nanatiti2006 true

  • @rukundo7840
    @rukundo7840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    Does anyone else think Lynn’s voice is nice & calming? I think so. She sounds like a real African sister or mom.

    • @bettymassanja881
      @bettymassanja881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rukundo, you're very right and despite her courage, she sounds very hurt and I have joined her in her painful pains.

    • @rozinaacademy3244
      @rozinaacademy3244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Both ladies voices are calming

    • @wanjirungari5781
      @wanjirungari5781 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea she is so calming

    • @paulinebrown8373
      @paulinebrown8373 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I absolutely love her voice, and she's so very good at job, makes people feel comfortable

  • @Theseanple
    @Theseanple 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Ladies ladies . If a man is serious about you he will work hard to provide for you and not to take from you.

  • @goldenstar9379
    @goldenstar9379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    As a single parent never move a man into your house, never even let him know where you live because of you and your children safety. Meet them in town during the day . If he wants you he wil do everything for you .Stop it ladies.

    • @debbiesmith7723
      @debbiesmith7723 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true

    • @catherinehamilton4099
      @catherinehamilton4099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Penelope Lopez you said it well

    • @tonyamoore1565
      @tonyamoore1565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I'm still single my son will be 20 this yr.! I refused to have a man because my son didnt have his Dad around like he should have. My son was my priority not a man! The old saying he needs a father he has a Dad and his heavenly father is a enough. Women will put a man b4 their kids with the quickness then regret it later. Only regret I have is I fell off the path of God's plan and picked the wrong mate to have a child by. Other than that, no regrets, I love being a Mom, I love my son and he love's his Dad who has always been in his life just not how I would have like him to be. We all have made a few mistake but plz learn from them and do not allow a man make you look like a fool. One time is enough, learn from it!🙌🙏😘

    • @firststar2
      @firststar2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lady the devil doesnt walk around with bells on. This can happen to even the smartest people like you. Be nice

    • @zittamwambanga87
      @zittamwambanga87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U r write.

  • @remmyambani2193
    @remmyambani2193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    People with good heart suffer the most...

    • @emmycheruiyot4333
      @emmycheruiyot4333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True.like me

    • @leokamil6284
      @leokamil6284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

    • @Soulmateswithl
      @Soulmateswithl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I've suffered in the past so much that now I just live for God.i don't want to be anxious anymore.i just tell God may your will unfold on this situation.

    • @patiencemburu1663
      @patiencemburu1663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I second you coz I'm a victim

  • @TheTeresiah
    @TheTeresiah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    Who else is just looking at how beautiful this lady is ?both physically and personality wise x

    • @princessann3760
      @princessann3760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She is so calm

    • @rapjoy2637
      @rapjoy2637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Say it again. I wish I could just hug her. Much love from Ghana 🥰

    • @sophiachin1262
      @sophiachin1262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She 2 good for him... God allowed and forgave her sin n led her to a stronger more powerful and purposeful destiny becuz of him. He was just a stone under her foot uncomfortable or hard but push up climb up in life from it n if it makes u get dirty u will clean up later. Bless her she 2 good o. He will run mad n be cursed as all our enemies honey. Yes forgive, repent n learn well. Be open to true love n clean marriage one mistake can never stop God's Plan. HALLELUJAH

    • @elohoemubare3446
      @elohoemubare3446 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      When I discussed the video with my sister we couldn't stop referring to how beautiful she looked & how nice she must be

    • @chibuikeugwulor8067
      @chibuikeugwulor8067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is your type of man that did this to her,keep your sweet talk one place, deceivers

  • @callieford2228
    @callieford2228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    "We go looking for a soul mate before you find your own soul"....This is the most phenomenal quote i have ever heard! Powerful!!🤨❤

  • @julienneayuk6191
    @julienneayuk6191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    When a man loves a women he does everything to make her happy.women don’t waste your time with men who do not treat you well

  • @loisegitau4897
    @loisegitau4897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    A man knows how to manipulate a woman when you start paying for bills.

    • @jenebadorley1073
      @jenebadorley1073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree

    • @nanyanzimariam7941
      @nanyanzimariam7941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree to

    • @veronicakoppelman3325
      @veronicakoppelman3325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Experienced the same thing in the USA by a Jamaican. Bled me dry financially. Yes, you're right the moment you are paying for everything that's a clear sign. We learned the hard way. But thank God we are stronger and wiser now. 🙏🏾

    • @marykiio304
      @marykiio304 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree 💯

  • @shetalks3099
    @shetalks3099 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This was not an easy interview, she's very brave and we applaud her for that 👏👏👏

  • @zipwangui
    @zipwangui 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Red flag was written all over Lynn's face when she heard that she paid for dinner. That look just made me smile. Angela you are one strong woman for choosing to rise again. May you keep growing and healing.

  • @mercyline1971
    @mercyline1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    women raise your hands if u know a friend like this lol

    • @tanumzalendo1567
      @tanumzalendo1567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Mercyline Kate
      Oh none of my girls is that stupid! We’re working hard for our coins ! Hatuna pesa yakupeana kwa these dusty broke dudes 😀😀

    • @anniendhluli2790
      @anniendhluli2790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      My friend is crazier than this woman everytime she dates & fall in love she goes out of her way spoiling her man. I will share this with her maybe she will finally understand that loving a man financially is wrong & never to let love blind her

    • @essymathesh9517
      @essymathesh9517 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tanumzalendo1567 Am one

    • @wangari3944
      @wangari3944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Been through a similar situation, with a Kenyan man though

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Annie Ndhluli I have posted my story too, maybe she can relate. I wish her strength ! There are a lot of relationships coaches to learn from on TH-cam. It takes a little bit of time to sink in but it works. A good physiologist that I listen to is John Gotman, Garry Chapman, relationship coach Matthew Hussey....

  • @shulestuff
    @shulestuff 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Ladies, if on 1st date you pick him and drop him off🛑 ,then you pay for the dinner 🛑, and then you give him $$ 🛑. Run like a night-runner is after your love life

    • @ruthmarygitahi612
      @ruthmarygitahi612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      shulestuff when will this girls stop this foolishness

    • @njambincillin2023
      @njambincillin2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @NOTANOTHERYOUTUBE
      @NOTANOTHERYOUTUBE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @eunicemueni9321
      @eunicemueni9321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Run dear run

    • @beyondrose4330
      @beyondrose4330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true.... We girls we can't no or believe until it's happen to us 😭 which is painful

  • @BelindaWisebey
    @BelindaWisebey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Ladies we have to learn to recognize red flags and avoid putting ourselves in harms way

  • @patiencempirirwe5449
    @patiencempirirwe5449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I cannot judge her coz I know what shes talking about.i fall so hard for men and throw away all caution.only God can save us from these predators called men.

    • @JEMUTAI60
      @JEMUTAI60 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True guys can be manipulative at times I understand that situation

    • @EA-xd1jr
      @EA-xd1jr 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just find a Godly man and love him with all your heart and you will not be disappointed

    • @rosemueni560
      @rosemueni560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never judge anyone this life weh

    • @evadney1000
      @evadney1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No not only God can save us. We need to exercise wisdom in all our decisions

  • @betavsall973
    @betavsall973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I love how Lyn connects with her guests and makes them feel comfortable

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you🙏

    • @usa_kenyan
      @usa_kenyan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree with you. Lynn has a very sweet voice. It's very soothing. Also, from her body language you sense a very polite, considerate person. This is a good quality for a journalist to have for it relaxes the person being interviewed. I like watching Lynn do her work.

    • @carolinewanjiku6
      @carolinewanjiku6 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah she is a great interviewer

    • @totozworldkenya
      @totozworldkenya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      they tell everything without much questioning

  • @TheLion-pi8ow
    @TheLion-pi8ow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    GOD WILL PUNISH ANY MAN WHO TREAT KIND HEARTED WOMEN WITH EVIL. EVIL THAT MEN DO, LIVES WITH THEM!!!

    • @cocobutterchin6768
      @cocobutterchin6768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen, Amen, Amen

    • @funkebeloni
      @funkebeloni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      amen

    • @zionsdaughter2391
      @zionsdaughter2391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You remind me of the book of Ceaser.

    • @TheLion-pi8ow
      @TheLion-pi8ow 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zionsdaughter2391 yes dear

    • @sophiachin1262
      @sophiachin1262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It shall return to sender. They shall reap what they have sewn in Jesus Name.

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    The guy seems like a perfect fit for a narcissist, and these people have a smooth tongue and can be very convincing. They empty you of everything including your dignity and self esteem. I understand her and I respect her for owning up to her mistakes, especially for exposing her sons to such a monster!

    • @NoDnaJustRsa
      @NoDnaJustRsa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very little is known of those here in Africa and yet majority of our man are very high on narcissism spectrum if there is such.

    • @melodieperkins7080
      @melodieperkins7080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Narcissist exist in every country and every profession

    • @bevturgot7595
      @bevturgot7595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Am single for over three years my kids dad for 19 years I was abroad working my but off for my family he was busy making baby wit with neighbors so I dont know if I can love again

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      bev turgot I was married to a religious narcissist for 19 years and got out and left everything behind! They are very cunning and conniving behind your back, excellent pretenders too. May the Lord deal with them, after all the battle is His, and so is vengeance!

    • @laureenndlovu4548
      @laureenndlovu4548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      very true .they have promises of a paradise

  • @rosemaryrosinahmorero426
    @rosemaryrosinahmorero426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can relate..i almost got married to a Ghanaian that was married back home....God saved me in that 2 year relationship....i was praying very hard for God to reveal enything that is not good about him....then things came out at its own way.God will always open ur eyes if ur in a wrong relationship...pay for ur relationships

  • @uchy8905
    @uchy8905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm happy she humbled herself and continued living.

  • @josephmuguro5304
    @josephmuguro5304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Dating a West African man is sweet but ends up in premium tears. Such stories are very common even globally.

    • @andyazure3759
      @andyazure3759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Men are generally like that ,it doesn't matter which part of the world ,race and tribe the person comes from

    • @TheMackenziesKE
      @TheMackenziesKE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Word of thought

    • @TheMackenziesKE
      @TheMackenziesKE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andyazure3759 really??

    • @julieshishrealityletstalk9206
      @julieshishrealityletstalk9206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      True they are sweet talker for nothing be careful my sisters who think West men are better than Kenyan... aciii

    • @andyazure3759
      @andyazure3759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@julieshishrealityletstalk9206 I we are different with different characters, from different homes so don't generalized us all,anyway am a proud Ghanaian

  • @janealala1332
    @janealala1332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    The need to be loved can make us do desperate things. Thanks for sharing so we can learn.

  • @jacintanyambura4175
    @jacintanyambura4175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Her: I paid for our first date
    Me: WTF🙆🏼‍♀️
    Also her:I dropped him off to his house
    Also me: removed my headphones and put a pause
    Also her🙆🏼‍♀️: I gave him 5k
    Woman!!!! Madness is not even closer insult😩😩😩😩😩
    But I'm glad you came back even more stronger❤️❤️ hugs🤗

    • @sheilamigans473
      @sheilamigans473 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jacinta Nyambura exactly! Sad how many ladies going 50/50 with men or even paying for stuffs! That’s so dusty! I’m against this and y’all can check out Dustyfree_line ✊🏻

    • @liin514
      @liin514 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sheilamigans473 bxxbgrr♥️2

    • @ipetert5372
      @ipetert5372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Was she dating a man or juju. She needs to establish truth first

    • @susanmacharia4320
      @susanmacharia4320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me where I fainted is when she said she hosted 4more footballers jesooo. Kuzidi, someone who abandoned her akiwa hosi and didn't send cash is telling you to sell your staff and wait for tickets and you don't think twice??

    • @ipetert5372
      @ipetert5372 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kaylahawkins no don't laugh she was drugged just like retired beach boy drugged keroche daughter. It is time parents get involved from start to finish. Parents can detect liars n witches

  • @belleame1064
    @belleame1064 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Clarification: A miscarriage has nothing to do with your lack of sexual activity before the pregnancy .

    • @talcareyifill5937
      @talcareyifill5937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Belle Ame true ....

    • @corrinegrannell9164
      @corrinegrannell9164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think 🤔 that was red flag 🚩 to run 😢when she had the miscarriage

    • @salomekamande2058
      @salomekamande2058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That miscarriage was a red flag for warning her.

    • @bonolomasuku5896
      @bonolomasuku5896 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I couldn't understand what she meant there actually 😅

    • @christinejomo3237
      @christinejomo3237 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @rubysailor9186
    @rubysailor9186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    This will woman is naive, apart from red flags with the so called husband, how did she trust 4 strange men into her house with her child. Ladies please,don't leave your sons with strange men,that's how they get molested by these uncles.

    • @bellaolum9515
      @bellaolum9515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Honestly, she should not have agreed to have so many men in her house, I would feel so unsafe with total strangers near my kid!

    • @imeldamayer-taylor2783
      @imeldamayer-taylor2783 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm a sceptical person , would never trust such a man . Sad that maybe she was in love and the next thing ,better to be alone than be used by a man.

    • @mamuyu171
      @mamuyu171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true... she was desperate for a man not knowing she was putting her son in danger.

    • @patiencenartey7096
      @patiencenartey7096 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Intact men like this would never have peace in their life s.

    • @yaafowaa4149
      @yaafowaa4149 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said

  • @tonneyodhiambo6482
    @tonneyodhiambo6482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Her emotional sobriety despite what she went through is quite inspiring. A number of us lose the battle for self recovery when we spew much hatred on the people who have hurt us. Angela has, however, found herself a gift of self-forgiveness. She can even call that same guy to promise him that there is still chance to recover himself. She is a unique person.

  • @prophetesschambuladevine666
    @prophetesschambuladevine666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    GREAT STORY!!! I LOVED WHEN SHE SAID, "YOUR PAIN IS YOUR BLESSING!!!" HALLELUYAH!!!

  • @tashalindqvist7455
    @tashalindqvist7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    West African men with sweet talking???🧐 That's their talent.....CAREFUL LADIES!

    • @becky8531
      @becky8531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Manzee

    • @herbertkutayi1946
      @herbertkutayi1946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tasha LINDQVIST hata sisi Kenyan men we do sweettalk na and yummiest

    • @tashalindqvist7455
      @tashalindqvist7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@herbertkutayi1946 - say East African men r yummiest.👍🤣🤣🤣

    • @herbertkutayi1946
      @herbertkutayi1946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Na sasa sisi ni garlic kwani alafu after being used unanipata nimeivaa kuruka

    • @tashalindqvist7455
      @tashalindqvist7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@herbertkutayi1946 -😩 i wish i cld read/ understand ur language...re-send it in English. I want to knw pliz. Thks in advance/🙏

  • @lindaasongayi2662
    @lindaasongayi2662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank you for speaking up. Thank you for sharing your stories so that we all can learn. I continue to pray for your healing and growth.
    Red flags:
    1. You paid for the first date
    2.you dropper him off, he should have taken a cab
    3.you gave him pocket money on first date
    4. You allowed him and 5 other men to stay at your place
    5. You are talking about having a baby with him when you are not married
    6. He was not faithful
    7. He was jobless
    8.you still kept the footballers at your place... despite your financial constraints
    9. He was a serial liars
    10.you refuses to believe the signs

    • @justbecause6472
      @justbecause6472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Naivety at its best

    • @deana5843
      @deana5843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😵😵😵😵😵😵😵

  • @ghmg2554
    @ghmg2554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    The title should have been, "I took care of four footballers and their manager"

  • @eunicemonyenye7515
    @eunicemonyenye7515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Wah this lady is too patient, I got impatient already when she paid the bill😂😂😂

    • @Dtella55
      @Dtella55 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @teddytaaka6717
      @teddytaaka6717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is good hearted just ,

    • @cissynanny986
      @cissynanny986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

    • @titusojo9826
      @titusojo9826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is not good hearted but desperate to get her son a father figure

    • @lilianakal4291
      @lilianakal4291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @Nonek214
    @Nonek214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    😂 😂 😂 'Then the footballers moved into my house'. Nie maudu maya!

    • @lilianwanjugu9255
      @lilianwanjugu9255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 reke nemwo

    • @Mosh-p5f
      @Mosh-p5f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol! digehota!

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And she had a young child. Goodness me!!!!

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Were they really footballers or conmen 🤔

    • @suezanna2690
      @suezanna2690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aiiii mi naeza fukuza watu yiote saa sita usiku sipendagi ujinga 😂😂😂😂

  • @daisyvono
    @daisyvono 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This happened to my sister, she found out on their wedding day when the guy didn’t show up for the wedding. He was a Nigerian

    • @mamakesharlyne956
      @mamakesharlyne956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️Sorry for your sister, hope now she's strong

    • @nananini6888
      @nananini6888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hehhheee haiya!

    • @jennyralte7468
      @jennyralte7468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same here dating a Nigerian guy for five years he cheated on me

    • @herbertkutayi1946
      @herbertkutayi1946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s what chicks get when they underrate us Kenyan men ati simply because hatuna kakitu ati ooh vibe iko down

    • @Wanjenga1
      @Wanjenga1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Even Kenyan men have joined the con game and are moving into women houses

  • @bettychebitok4593
    @bettychebitok4593 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    me paying bills? me giving out money? me hosting a man? shuuupid

    • @goldenstar9379
      @goldenstar9379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      BETTY CHEBITOK Biggest mistake to support a man

    • @leonardorjioffor6683
      @leonardorjioffor6683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well I don't think it's all men that is bad however someone many is bad but there is some good ones out there whether you like it or not.

    • @millicentgyimah3270
      @millicentgyimah3270 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Relationship is 50 50 men don't have to do everything. What is wrong to pay for things as a woman?

    • @jackiendoro7472
      @jackiendoro7472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Single woman tend to be less dependent and this is good but not when you are with a narcissist

    • @ajoaayebo6752
      @ajoaayebo6752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not me . Am ghanaian. Alot of dont do that. Its the other way round.

  • @tebbybear1923
    @tebbybear1923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Amen sister. I'm proud of you. I'm from South Africa. Indeed your pain is your blessing I'm a testimony

  • @bellabellabella7266
    @bellabellabella7266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    THE ONLY MEN IN MY LIFE I CAN GIVE MONEY ARE MY BLOOD 2 BROTHERS N MY DARLING FATHER... FULL STOP🇪🇦🇪🇦🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @a.muchemi4360
      @a.muchemi4360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Uko wapi Spain my sister

    • @fatumaadan633
      @fatumaadan633 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wallah me too

    • @trizerkawira
      @trizerkawira 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @jacklineokech9498
      @jacklineokech9498 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even me my dad n my brother only

    • @doreenkathure1799
      @doreenkathure1799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bella Bella I second you my sister, the only men I will give money are three brothers and my father the rest wacha wang'ang'ane..I will never make a mistake of giving any other man my own money kwa hii safari if a man will not take care of me I have no business being in his life and I thank my own is taking good care of me soo well.my mother taught me to raise my standard and it has paid off very well. But am not judging our sister here but please our Kenyan sisters ran ran from these West African scammers. Love your own men

  • @agoogo5026
    @agoogo5026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Please, my East African brothers and sisters note this has nothing to do with West African guys. The whole thing is she met a wrong Ghanaian guy and most of us have been through similar situations even with guys from the same hometowns. She is such a sweet lady and I wish she had met the right Ghanaian guy. I'm from Ghana and I wish she is my sister-in-law.

    • @kkpeace
      @kkpeace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      U just don't know please stop hurting some of us we still live with wounds that your people left in our hurts , ladies please stop engaging yourselves with west Africans , I married a Ghanian ,he lied ,cheated disrespected me made me loose myself ,I don't know how u guys are being raised but most u are not decent

    • @ansumanacamara9886
      @ansumanacamara9886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kkpeace I am sorry that you women are having such a bad experience in regards to men from Ghana and Nigeria. Besides I think that you women met the wrong men from these countries and in most cases from the poorest of background and in most cases from the country side. Moreover I never thought a Ghanaian will be so low and heartless ,moreless playing the Nigerian game. Furthermore I pray that God will give you the strength to heal from your worries and to give you a worthy king in the future towards a blissful and everlasting marriage. I felt it so much to see our Afrikan queens in pain of such act and I am guilty even though I never did it myself. But because of the depiction of an entire region as the same whiles I am from the western side of Afrika make me guilty.

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ansumana Camara oh, that's nice !

    • @titusojo9826
      @titusojo9826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve heard similar nasty experience with a Kenyan ladies. I will be stupid to say all Kenyan ladies are bad. Only illiterates generalise. I am a UK based Nigerian and met the lady whilst she was in the UK.

    • @marthaatuhaire2881
      @marthaatuhaire2881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Titus Ojo Thank you 👏🏿👏🏿.. So many ignorant comments on here.. One can go through this same experience with a person of the same nationality..

  • @janetibulu1550
    @janetibulu1550 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Lyn's face when she said the footballers moved in to her house. .😂😂😂

    • @emilymula645
      @emilymula645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How for real..

    • @zelwanjiko
      @zelwanjiko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Priceless 😂😂😂😂

    • @atienosimbi2553
      @atienosimbi2553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤭

    • @susanapollo284
      @susanapollo284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They were not footballers they were con men looking for prey

    • @anniekuria7165
      @anniekuria7165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😕😕😕 footballs moved in🙆

  • @evelyncole3679
    @evelyncole3679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I admire this lady, she is a courageous woman.

  • @michellehubbard8865
    @michellehubbard8865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    He will look back on this and regret using this lady.

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think he will ever regret his actions, that's what he does for a living

    • @deana5843
      @deana5843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's a lowlife,waste man ,is NOT feeling NO remorse or nothing.

    • @irses457
      @irses457 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is too selfish to think about anyone but himself

  • @lufantdulo9201
    @lufantdulo9201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wuoh! This has brought me back bad memories from my ex Ghanaian husband. Please my fellow Kenyan ladies be warned I know it's not all of them but just be careful with those dudes

    • @angelinaakoma9278
      @angelinaakoma9278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh sister sorry do u no something am a ghanian but I want you to no something before u marry a ghanian man there is a thaugh in their minds that there is no harm in cheating in married a ghanian men will marry and still cheat our people accept that

    • @TempermentalTart
      @TempermentalTart 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelinaakoma9278 Ghanaian ex once told me that, "A man is always available."

  • @prettyqueen5754
    @prettyqueen5754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Am from Ghana some of our men here love money than good relationship, some ghanaian men will show u pepper.

    • @backyardboy2020
      @backyardboy2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I fortunately women love such men leaving those who genuinely looking for love

  • @muchijoseph5195
    @muchijoseph5195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I don't think those other men where football but Yahoo boys,

  • @sharonw2862
    @sharonw2862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I see a lot of ‘ideal’ comments in the comments section. If only everyone in the world actually did what was ideal! This is a real life story where this lady made a bad choice, learned from her experience and bounced back - a real life story. She is not the first nor the last to experience something like this and I’m sure her story will benefit someone out there. I thank her for sharing.🙏

    • @najmagani5655
      @najmagani5655 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So proud of you love you proud of being a woman I went through almost the same experience like you

    • @firststar2
      @firststar2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Best comment ...people over here shaming her like the devil walks around with a bell around his neck

  • @ShamieVlogUg
    @ShamieVlogUg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I paid our lunch dropped him off and gave him upkeep see witchcraft 😂😂😂😂😂 I have realised most of us who have kind hearts always go through alot

  • @TheMackenziesKE
    @TheMackenziesKE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    First mistake paying for bills and feeding those other men

    • @tanumzalendo1567
      @tanumzalendo1567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The Mackenzie's Fay and Frank
      She’s mama Theresa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @leoniajohn8676
      @leoniajohn8676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

    • @lilianonganyi3010
      @lilianonganyi3010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @krystynaha2455
      @krystynaha2455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tanumzalendo1567 😂😂😂

    • @paulinemugodo589
      @paulinemugodo589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tanu Mzalendo 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @SirCollinsLuv
    @SirCollinsLuv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Just 5 minutes into this story and you see the alarms ringing all over, you were so naive not to see that.

    • @tanumzalendo1567
      @tanumzalendo1567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SirCollinsLuv
      Very true! That dude saw immediately that she desperately wanted him.... ndio akamtumia! Am sorry for though

    • @SirCollinsLuv
      @SirCollinsLuv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tanumzalendo1567 exactly, but I'm happy she a better person now, and more wiser.

    • @koomedoris2635
      @koomedoris2635 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      SirCollinsLuv she was blinded by love

    • @ansumanacamara9886
      @ansumanacamara9886 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree is her fault in giving her money from the first date. Unfortunately for her she thought that a man will be the solution to what he was missing.

    • @tashalindqvist7455
      @tashalindqvist7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allooo!🤦‍♀️ This lady really🙊.....the alarms were ringing like a fire brigade.🚒

  • @karenwangari4057
    @karenwangari4057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Wait! You allowed 5 grown men to move into your house?? That is not love it is pure witchcraft!

    • @herbertkutayi1946
      @herbertkutayi1946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Karen Wangari if it was me yani najua nimeangukia investor mambo 😀na majama zii ni mimi tu inibambe

    • @melowmel1442
      @melowmel1442 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @jaredaliaro4487
      @jaredaliaro4487 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Charity home?

    • @matinajazmine
      @matinajazmine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Imagine it could have easily turned to a rape case

    • @justbecause6472
      @justbecause6472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂girl imagine!! I can’t even accommodate my boyfriend for more than a weekend let alone him and his friends 😂😂😂😂

  • @halimashaban7637
    @halimashaban7637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Your story has touched me, I thought I was alone on this, thank God I also stopped this nonsense

    • @laureenndlovu4548
      @laureenndlovu4548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      l am stopping from todae on wards ...we learn everydae .thanx to Tuko Talk

  • @vincentoyoo7533
    @vincentoyoo7533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I wish you could display his photos on your show to save many lives that he is about to hurt 😔

  • @Shizniz
    @Shizniz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I like her honesty.

    • @tanumzalendo1567
      @tanumzalendo1567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes, honest and naive

    • @2464hellen
      @2464hellen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed. Honest

    • @tashalindqvist7455
      @tashalindqvist7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙊🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣 wld be every man's dream.🤫

  • @aidana4033
    @aidana4033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm a Ghanaian and I'm truly sorry for what this jerk put you through. Thank you for forgiving him, and for all the work you've done on yourself since this abuse. I pray you and your boys flourish in every way. Keep plowing forward in life; as the Lord lives, everything will turn out great.

  • @DaughterofUbuntu1988
    @DaughterofUbuntu1988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Not only west Africa men, all black men lie coming to this issue my habby got married when I was with him, sick almost dying and end up got married in the period I was sick, I forgive him but now its so hard to put my shoe in another relationship so scared aki.

    • @joycewambuikiongojoyful3973
      @joycewambuikiongojoyful3973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true. I agree with you.

    • @damariszuckschwert9489
      @damariszuckschwert9489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree💯 many women went through this kind of relationships or marriage.

    • @blessedlady6307
      @blessedlady6307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Especially they behave rich

    • @chalalita
      @chalalita 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Man off all race lie

    • @pacpac-oh5gn
      @pacpac-oh5gn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I totally disagree with you madam. Iam a complete Nigeria man and have been dating a Kenya girl for d past years now without being to Kenya yet and sincerely speaking, i had not even dated or had fun with any other ladies since i met her. Finally,, i even decided to go off on Facebook to avoid chatting or making friends. I don't smoke nor drink. Everything is just about self control and decision making. Finally, its also depend on family brought up. Men that doesn't talk too sweet to win ur heart ♥ are the most honest pple to date. Ciao!!.

  • @lizzwaceraofficial8307
    @lizzwaceraofficial8307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    The mistake us women do is to give man your money.

    • @maureenanyango422
      @maureenanyango422 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      YEsssssssssssss

    • @cedricmbago2854
      @cedricmbago2854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not a mistake, really love

    • @estherkalekye2682
      @estherkalekye2682 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true

    • @jamaicaninthekitchen4358
      @jamaicaninthekitchen4358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes we are buying love it does not work

    • @georgiadyer665
      @georgiadyer665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank God I am poor, I have no money to give to any man. Women must maintain their dignity and stop paying men to be with them. Not right, you will forever get used.

  • @lenaviola4054
    @lenaviola4054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Lynne's face when she's asking "the footballers"😂😂😂...she sounds like it's unbelievable 😂

  • @nanatiti2006
    @nanatiti2006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Lynn Ngugi, your mhm and mmmmm responses during conversations can make someone toboa secrets only God knows. 18:45, priceless.

    • @erastusmigwi100
      @erastusmigwi100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This reality n thanks for opening ur heart to help those who are in pain,no condition is permanent.
      Lakini ladies mkiona hawa westerners toka mbio they take love advantage to drain u n ur wealth.

    • @paulinejames5200
      @paulinejames5200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣😂😂 true.lynn "she is waaaow

    • @hubertdegraft-hammond8665
      @hubertdegraft-hammond8665 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry about this to you, l believe this guy is Akim person

  • @kwekud3547
    @kwekud3547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So sad a story. I am a Ghanaian married to a Kenyan. I feel ashamed to hear all these but I can guarantee you that not all Ghanaian men behave that way. Stay strong, and glad you have moved on.

    • @abenaasieduaa5495
      @abenaasieduaa5495 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmm our brother didn't try.i believe he will regret later

    • @TheLutheranDude7938
      @TheLutheranDude7938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But why do you feel the need to apologize? Do you know the guy?

  • @amazinggraceofgod.3788
    @amazinggraceofgod.3788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    No relationship is a waste of time. At least you learn and now teaching other women. Hopefully you'll learn something from your stories and use it to guide you throughout your life. GOD will help you.

  • @LeilaandTalia
    @LeilaandTalia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    A Ghanaian man once said, "Ghanaian men be slow poison".

    • @cathy3842
      @cathy3842 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Na trueooooooo

  • @lindajeptoo2558
    @lindajeptoo2558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aki before I give someone money, I always think when was the last time I sent mum ama dad money, alafu this Lady has a golden heart Aki no wonder God opens her doors so wide despite having setbacks, God bless you girl and preach... 'you go finding soulmates before finding your own soul.'

  • @tommylove7
    @tommylove7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Glad to see her rise again. Her earlier life experience is a common script as well and young girls should learn from it. I have seen and never understood why, while in high school/college/campus, a lot of the 'hot', 'beautiful' girls think the world revolves around them until a pregnancy or a misfortune happens and suddenly they are on their own. As they sober up they realize they have no genuine friends and that makes them vulnerable to anyone.

  • @clemmyamani7566
    @clemmyamani7566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My story tooo.... sai nimekulishwa block kwa social media zote .... women may God give us eyes to see what's inside of what your falling in love with Amen

    • @kakuufarida3933
      @kakuufarida3933 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen My twin...

    • @JayJay-rt9ox
      @JayJay-rt9ox 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woiiiye dear pole

    • @mutembeinyaga3794
      @mutembeinyaga3794 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @kiiaknia7232
      @kiiaknia7232 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      aki pole dear wanaume wengi ni mashetani

    • @shirumm278
      @shirumm278 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But bado hawataskia the love for money some women aki but mwishowe ni shida

  • @janetwachira8165
    @janetwachira8165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Nigerians and Ghanians 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️run for your life my sister 🙅💔

    • @edigeorge548
      @edigeorge548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nigerian and Ghanaian celebrate marriage better than east African people everybody wants to get married to west African.

    • @jotaya
      @jotaya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Edi George Then I guess the whole marriage institution for some people today is just but a social status, which wasn’t the case before. And it’s all courtesy of social media. For those who want to because they want a lavish wedding, let them do so at their own risk! This lady doesn’t seem like she was one of those. She just wanted a stable relationship lakini akachezwa. Kenyan ladies, BE VERY VERY CAREFUL ABOUT NIGERIAN AND GHANAIAN MEN. Ata Wazungu wameshinda huku Merikani. These people will do anything to gain a certain social status, and their women most of the time are a part of the whole saga! They are the most selfish group of people and the biggest sycophants at places of work. I think Kenyans as much as we are hard-workers, well conversed in our jobs most of the time, clean hearted(somehow better than our West Africa brothers),kindhearted, etc, we’re however too gullible, and too naive. As we get to know these guys more, don’t allow them free citizenship. They don’t deserve to be called Kenyans. They’re using our good reputation to gain their own agenda! Rather be single than marry these people just because!
      #doyourownresearch
      #nokidsbeforemeetingtheirfamily
      #girlpowerkickthemout

    • @graciakinyanjui6937
      @graciakinyanjui6937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      THUGS, CONMEN...

    • @anitasamuels8821
      @anitasamuels8821 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@edigeorge548 . Speak for yourself.

    • @christisgodd
      @christisgodd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shut up. I'm a Nigerian.

  • @emilycaster5020
    @emilycaster5020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    When she said the footballer moved into my house My Jaw dropped and my eyes open wide for 3mins........This woman is too good.
    Let me carry on with the story.

  • @suzykavuma6624
    @suzykavuma6624 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So kind ,polite and good hearted lady,she is very elegant, soft wth words and beautiful wth courage...now she is a role model for many hearts

  • @aminaismail4221
    @aminaismail4221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Hawa wanaume wakuhamia kwa mwanamke mzima mzima waogope ni matapeli na huwezi wadhania wako wanajuwa kupenda lkn mwisho anawacha umefilisika kabisa

    • @herbertkutayi1946
      @herbertkutayi1946 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      amina Ismail hahahahahaha na mbona wewe uingie box yangu mpaka na kuja na begi ya nguo?"LOVE na VIBE mwenda.

    • @agnesngarachu1780
      @agnesngarachu1780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100%

    • @mrsdeborahurio
      @mrsdeborahurio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kabisaa. Akina Mario wako WENGI!

  • @bellabellabella7266
    @bellabellabella7266 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    @LYNN NGUGI..YOU ARE THE BEST PRESENTER HAKI!!! I LOVE THE WAY YOU MINGLE WITH PEOPLE n guests.....💞💞💞🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇪🇦🇪🇦🇪🇦

  • @winniemukami2011
    @winniemukami2011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    😂🤣😂 Lynn ” now your mind is back to factory setting”.

  • @chaumbambondo3961
    @chaumbambondo3961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a heartful woman this woman is. Lots of love from Zambia 🇿🇲

  • @HeyPhonsi
    @HeyPhonsi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    East African men do it to Kenyan women, and Kenyan men do it to us foreigners! Don't judge Nigerians and Ghanaians, your own brothers and uncles and fathers are doing the exact same.

  • @daughterofmajor1846
    @daughterofmajor1846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I thank God for saving me from this shit, where someone claim to be single while they're married, westafrican men is a big no for me I almost landed on one but God said no

  • @luvisa2472
    @luvisa2472 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Thats was very risk to let the footballers to live with you and you had a small child inside! You didnt know these people even the boyfriend you didnt know that well. They could abuse your son sexually and even physical
    Women you need to learn and be careful, yes you needed a man and a father figure but you were a bit inresponsible there.

  • @doreenonekalit9888
    @doreenonekalit9888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wow unbelieveable. This Lady is strong and an overcomer. What a story.

  • @childofthemighty1341
    @childofthemighty1341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If you hear Ghana or Nigeria RUN! Even if it is a Pastor

    • @thebill8891
      @thebill8891 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have u had any bad experience with them

    • @paulinebarasam1491
      @paulinebarasam1491 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha sure

    • @posjaboateng5556
      @posjaboateng5556 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please stick to your own Kenyan men and Pastors rubbish

    • @childofthemighty1341
      @childofthemighty1341 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@posjaboateng5556 I wish you gave me this advise four years ago....and I mean it. I have learnt with my own book. Never again. Fool me once.....

    • @childofthemighty1341
      @childofthemighty1341 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thebill8891 yes. Educated and a church Person. I now know heart break is real

  • @RN-ml6uw
    @RN-ml6uw 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This lady is holy and beautiful, a saint unrecognised and she is not bitter at all....she is great and if we are all aware of her experiences and how she literally acted with values of God. Bravo

  • @marykinuthia6067
    @marykinuthia6067 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Giving him gifts was like breaking his arm, no respect.

    • @tashalindqvist7455
      @tashalindqvist7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 ur irony sentence that " gifts was like breaking his arms??!!! ....🤭hihihi....I thk i get u.....😆😆😆😆

    • @cherylternoirmatd
      @cherylternoirmatd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love that comment that's tweetable giving him gifts was like breaking his arms. powerful!!

  • @carolwanjiru1189
    @carolwanjiru1189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂let me laugh,,,I was told he ain't married,,,but being a woman I got suspicious,shock on me the guy had a family and was a deacon😂 back in his country weeeehhh

    • @sylviagatwiri1889
      @sylviagatwiri1889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wah! Totally speechless..

    • @redrose66
      @redrose66 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gai

    • @lovvy854
      @lovvy854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @bellabellabella7266
      @bellabellabella7266 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wawawawawa!!!

    • @a.muchemi4360
      @a.muchemi4360 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      West Africans all is business. I get a Nigerian pastor friend of mine Who told me frankly ....

  • @MrsMabusu
    @MrsMabusu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Angela! Angela! Angela! How many times did I write your name? Next time don’t quote the book of Proverbs before you read Genesis! God gave Adam work before Eve was created! Read your scriptures very well and start attending Bible study or Sunday school. Never ever reverse the roles of a man and a woman!

  • @R-Clairvoyant
    @R-Clairvoyant 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Ghana men, you even offer to be house girls just to live off a woman's money? Are you creative, lazy or greedy ?

    • @everkabete6645
      @everkabete6645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think it is greedy because ghana people are very hard working

    • @Jane-ie9ul
      @Jane-ie9ul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@everkabete6645 They are users.

    • @abapokuaa
      @abapokuaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Jane-ie9ulyou know all Ghanaian men? stop judging a whole country based on just one person, it could have been a man from anywhere else in the world

    • @leahwambui2379
      @leahwambui2379 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @marynyarko8622
      @marynyarko8622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not all Ghanians men,most of them are very hardworking am talking out of experience

  • @rachaelongalo6296
    @rachaelongalo6296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks Angela for your story, it is really a testimony that is helping many women. God bless you abundantly

  • @bettychege7009
    @bettychege7009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    My advice is get married to a man who loves you not vice versa

    • @tanumzalendo1567
      @tanumzalendo1567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Betty Chege
      She tried to buy snd terribly backfired 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jasonmoss6787
      @jasonmoss6787 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your STATEMENT DOESNT MAKE ANY SENSE WHATSOEVER!

    • @tashalindqvist7455
      @tashalindqvist7455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not fall in luv for just BIG CASSAVA. 🙈🙈🙈

    • @cosmasmutungi8017
      @cosmasmutungi8017 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what the Bible says. Your responsibility as a lady is to submit to a man who loves you

  • @muthonimacharia-nganga8026
    @muthonimacharia-nganga8026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    When you paid for your first dinner that's when you would have run like Kipchoge Keino🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️...such a big Red Flag.🙄🙄🙄
    Sorry gal....you are very honest but very clever n blessed now.!

  • @veronicakoppelman3325
    @veronicakoppelman3325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This lady is amazing. May God bless you and. Feeling inspired 🙏🏾

  • @yukae2878
    @yukae2878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I like this woman's energy and how she over came it, how can I reach this woman. I need her advice in my life 🙏

  • @thokogqiba4683
    @thokogqiba4683 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're a powerful woman. Taking charge of her life and not playing victim. I love your courage and a positive attitude. May God grant you the desires of your heart💞

  • @francinewade3962
    @francinewade3962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I feel your pain mama I was once that victim of a guy just like that I believe he had said he was from Ghana too he was good looking and cool but any how he got me pregnant and decide he was going to America and also want me follow him but how could I go with him when I also had more kids to attend to and also had my job well I told him he would have to go by himself well den when my son was born he use to send some money about three times and that ends but I got to find out that he met woman with money as his own friend had said that that woman stop him from mind his kids so God Bless them me and my child and children are still walking in God light in Jesus name

    • @annspotlight4047
      @annspotlight4047 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you and keep you.

    • @morenmr5066
      @morenmr5066 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for giving him God bless u ur restoration is coming Luo from Uganda thanks dia sister big lesson

  • @lynne5879
    @lynne5879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My story... my own Kenyan though 😂😂😂😂 lied to me about everything...even his name ....😂😂😂😂 don't forget he was married for more than 10 years .Thank God nilijikata mapema .Men !!

    • @florahangel1718
      @florahangel1718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hapana cheza na hii mijitu yenye miguu mitatu.

    • @lynne5879
      @lynne5879 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @ndamieza2190
      @ndamieza2190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God be with you!
      It’s everywhere,not only west Africans

    • @bloggtalk5085
      @bloggtalk5085 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ulichezea nyumbani..lol..kiwest african mpelekane wapi?

  • @praisemudare7459
    @praisemudare7459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I ges we learn from our past mistakes and testimonials of others. Shame on man who treat such beautiful jewels like priceless items.

    • @praisemudare7459
      @praisemudare7459 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Joe Smith sometimes we learn twice or more.

  • @aminahussain7078
    @aminahussain7078 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just happened just two videos and I am already addicted and in Love with the Host. She is awesome. God Bless you.

  • @otumfuo3
    @otumfuo3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wise people listen to either side before they pass judgement.

  • @PatriciaMuganzi
    @PatriciaMuganzi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Aki woi... can we please have a moment of silence... She actually moved in 5 grown men into her house while having a small child.
    Don't mistake me, I'm not judging, I'm just in distress at the thought... Enyewe God protects us in our days of ignorance. I've also made some mistakes when I look back, I just see God was watching over me

    • @tandumwaniki746
      @tandumwaniki746 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl you ain't alone coz am also stuck exactly there!!! Like how even can one be soo blind or should i call it brainwashed..🤔🤔🤔🤔🙄🙄

    • @PatriciaMuganzi
      @PatriciaMuganzi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tandumwaniki746 Yaani... I had to pause the video... I didn't think it could get lower than buying them food worth 5k. Weeuuhh. Brainwash is real oo...

    • @marykares7956
      @marykares7956 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My dear love is blind

    • @puritykosgei7426
      @puritykosgei7426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Na vile children are been molested out here?? 😵😵

    • @judyroth8928
      @judyroth8928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She was also stupied .what if this men could have rapped her? .just think about it .coz none of them is not relative of the guy she detated?? Wise mind and knowledge should be Upgraded in this life

  • @annewanjiku52
    @annewanjiku52 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I Love your courage my sister you have taught me another lesson may God strengthen you dear in Jesus Christ Name

  • @godspromisesamuel5886
    @godspromisesamuel5886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My Sister You Made A Mistake To Pay For A Man You Had A First Date With. And You Gave Him Money As Well After Giving Him A Lift Even Make You Look Desperate. You Didn't Give Him Chance To Chase You. Man Prefer A Prefer A Woman That They're Running After And Chasing Them. But Being Said That She's Is A Very Nice Lady. Why Do Bad Things happen To Good People?

    • @winniekamau5800
      @winniekamau5800 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has already admitted she made wrong mistakes .......

    • @mosesmuiruri4916
      @mosesmuiruri4916 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Desperate to find love..waah

    • @shiroblessed9228
      @shiroblessed9228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Strange and bad things happen to nice women and men. like housing 5 grown up men . manipulation and coercion of highest order!

    • @herbertkutayi1946
      @herbertkutayi1946 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      BEAUTIFUL MS PROMISE OKON SAMUEL wewe kama nimependwa nimependwa kupewa pesa pia nitapewa nothing wrong mkono upeanao ndio ubarikiwa

  • @mbaindukemokai9426
    @mbaindukemokai9426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is right you have to find your soul before looking for a soulmate. The moment I started loving myself and realizing my values I was able to find happiness and eventually met my fiancé.