I work with people like this. All the characteristics you mentioned about being controlling, are the people that I work with. It has been a long and very difficult fight trying to break free from these people. When your job takes the place of God in your life should be the next topic of conversation. When you have conversations with other people in your field of work they don't describe their work environment as you do. Please have a conversation on unhealthy work environment and how to break free. Love you ladies. God bless💛💛💛💛
@Britney Dampies Document, document, document then go to HR. Watch TH-cam videos on Narcissism. Les Carter PhD ("Surviving Narcissism") is a born-again Christian.
My my my Mama Joyce everytime I listen to her I get goosebumps I mean just listening to her story the abuse my it's terrible thing she'd had in the past but I am more amazed how she made her decision and turned around the bad to good and being a voice of courage and strength to many sexual abuse victims and helping millions around the world !
God expects us to stand up/against to things that aren’t right. I pray for women listening to this that find themselves in an unhealthy relationship to take that in. You are right to stand up/against to things that are not right! Take in that freedom today! God is for you and with you ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Better together Family of God. You are a blessing ladies. God continue to strenthen you , stay true to the call, encouraging us to hold on,change where need and accept what we find hard. Much love your Sister in Christ xxx
Hello beautiful women of God. I thank God that he has given me a husband that loves me, supports me, and builds me up. But if their are those who are listening in an abuse relationship get out. God bless you all. ❤
This was so good and God's timing IS impeccable! It's something how you can notice others when they're in a controlling environment but not you yourself. Many make excuses for the abuse. I'll have to share this one for sure!
So the lord will restore me wholly one day and wipe away all the tears from my childhood and broken relationships ?Cause when i see these women i have hope 🙏
Just around 15:00 is what I am breaking away from. I confronted and was made to apologize. When I apologized I was shamed then told I was forgiven. I carried it all day yesterday. 😢 God is giving me peace.
@5:43 wow! awesome testimonies. love and relationships are definitely something u have to invite JESUS into because tryna go it alone, will lead to a lot of mistakes.
Absolutely go to them directly and try to talk privately, but if they hide and avoid the situation, BLAST THEM. When they are controlling your decisions, you have to.
I used to have that book boundaries that lady in my Bible study gave me in 2014. I was attending Joy of Living Bible study at Second Baptist West Campus in Katy,Texas. I have a son that is an abuser. He tried to tell me Saturday that when I deal with him that I think of his dad who us d to abuse me in 1987. This isn't true. God has healed me from that years ago. My son us d that everytime I confront him about his abusive ( psychological& mental abuse). He has been in trouble all of his life & second time on probation for abuse with my fav of his girlfriends I loved that young lady and we celebrated our birthdays together back in 2016. Now he has another girlfriend whose birthday was August 14. We were trying to go to movies but he manipulated situation & now we aren't even talking. We all went out for Mother's Day. They took me shopping & we went out to eat. He is crazy. I thought we could do same thing for my birthday( August 11th& Kelly's). I was giving her advice on how to keep herself safe when dealing with him. He tried to lay a guilt trip on me Saturday while on phone. He says that I am trying to make Kelly think he is her enemy. She is used to abusive relationships. He says that they have made a " pact" with her. His controlling is demonic and I know that men can have a jezebel spirit. I learned this from a male pastor. I have to once again stay away from my son. I confronted my son before & he did get angry when we lived together in 2017-2018. He pushed me down. I had to anoint place with oil,he moved out& ended up going to jail after getting into it with Jessica. Second time he was& still is on probation. I went a year without speaking to him& my youngest son& I mov d to a different town. My abusive son had no car& I was free from him. Now in 2022, I need to not communicate with him or Kelly.
here we're i growing up, the pastor even demand if we open new business then we need his pray for success.. its man centered chruch and not Christ centered chruch , i get my self out of that church.. its not healthy..so sick
In Jesuses name I humble and ask and pray that he helps me stand up,gain control of my life,and protect myself by getting respect in that people don't just use me step on me,run me over,and please help me some how do it without hurting someone else to protect myself.Help me with a way that teaches or you h others in away that doesn't just protects me,but actually helps the situation.I pray in love and agood deserve for better life and living not just for myself but other to cause for things to be better for only me.I learned is not the right answer and still has a whole and isn't fixed or really better.Please and thank you.Amen.
If I confront it he just calls the cops..... He threatens to call a cops if I touch his car. If I shut a door too hard. If I get water on the linoleum unloading the dishwasher.
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When she said “I’m only living for the audience of 1…” that sent chills up my spine. Great analogy!!!
I work with people like this. All the characteristics you mentioned about being controlling, are the people that I work with. It has been a long and very difficult fight trying to break free from these people. When your job takes the place of God in your life should be the next topic of conversation. When you have conversations with other people in your field of work they don't describe their work environment as you do. Please have a conversation on unhealthy work environment and how to break free. Love you ladies. God bless💛💛💛💛
Yes,that would be a great topic.
@Britney Dampies Document, document, document then go to HR. Watch TH-cam videos on Narcissism. Les Carter PhD ("Surviving Narcissism") is a born-again Christian.
I would definitely love to hear conversations on this topic.
A good woman can't change a bad man.
My my my Mama Joyce everytime I listen to her I get goosebumps
I mean just listening to her story the abuse my it's terrible thing she'd had in the past but I am more amazed how she made her decision and turned around the bad to good and being a voice of courage and strength to many sexual abuse victims and helping millions around the world !
God bless all these women
So good to have these conversations in church as well.
God expects us to stand up/against to things that aren’t right. I pray for women listening to this that find themselves in an unhealthy relationship to take that in. You are right to stand up/against to things that are not right! Take in that freedom today! God is for you and with you ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Better together Family of God. You are a blessing ladies. God continue to strenthen you , stay true to the call, encouraging us to hold on,change where need and accept what we find hard. Much love your Sister in Christ xxx
Hello beautiful women of God. I thank God that he has given me a husband that loves me, supports me, and builds me up. But if their are those who are listening in an abuse relationship get out. God bless you all. ❤
This is your right as a human being.
This was so good and God's timing IS impeccable! It's something how you can notice others when they're in a controlling environment but not you yourself. Many make excuses for the abuse. I'll have to share this one for sure!
So the lord will restore me wholly one day and wipe away all the tears from my childhood and broken relationships ?Cause when i see these women i have hope 🙏
"You're not free to be yourself."
Just around 15:00 is what I am breaking away from. I confronted and was made to apologize. When I apologized I was shamed then told I was forgiven. I carried it all day yesterday. 😢 God is giving me peace.
It’s true @pain feels the same as if you were physically rejected. It’s true. Honestly.
BREAK FREE!!!! 🤲🏽🙌🏽
for me, at this point in my life; its my mother. so I am looking forward to hearing the WORD of you Mighty Women of ALMIGHTY GOD'S testimonies 😊
u have to confront it! amen!
@2:20 yup! yes and amen!
@2:54 wow SMH GOD BLESS U QUEEN MOTHER JOYCE! LOOK AT U NOW! U R A LIVING BREATHING BLESSING ! THANK Q FOR SHARING!
@5:43 wow! awesome testimonies. love and relationships are definitely something u have to invite JESUS into because tryna go it alone, will lead to a lot of mistakes.
@6:56 wow!!!! #ThatPart was for me wow. I'm already planning for my 1way trip sista Queen lol and ur testimony was my divine confirmation
This is so good🙏🏾 thankful to God for these amazing women of God who have the courage to share so we can be free as well.
Thank you for freeing us with this word on today God ❤️❤️❤️
Proverbs 13:7
There is that maketh himself rich, yet hath nothing: there is that maketh himself poor, yet hath great riches.
This was so on time for me!!! I'm so grateful for Better Together!!
Great conversation and many of us needed to hear this 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️
Praise The Lord and God Bless You, Madam Joyce Meyer,if possible pls pray for me I need prayer ,
Vishwas, we will be praying for you. We will stand in faith and believe for answered prayer, in Jesus' name!💜
@@BetterTogetherTV Praise The Lord and God Bless and all
Very timely for me. Thank you Jesus🙌
Wow!! This testimony has blessed me! Because I am not in a relationship but one thing to have is boundaries, respect and trust!
When you tell somebody to knock it off and they don't listen, the next healthy step is enforce your boundaries.
God bless everyone
Henry cloud - boundaries.
Got it, imma read this next
So super powerful.... Love you all.
Yes, that's the worst spiritual controlling people. They use nice words to be hateful.
Thank you beautiful ladies, so encouraging. Thank you my beautiful Joyce, love you 😊🤗😘💕💕💕
Can we apply the same to family relations?
Waooo Dios bendiga este programa Gracias ME HA SANADO !!!
Thank you 😇
Thank you so much for this. Soo powerful! Love you ladies and Better Together ❤
Wow Alex your words are so true and wise, they stood out to me I can relate
Absolutely go to them directly and try to talk privately, but if they hide and avoid the situation, BLAST THEM. When they are controlling your decisions, you have to.
Amazing Woman Xxx
yes safe boundaries very important
I used to have that book boundaries that lady in my Bible study gave me in 2014. I was attending Joy of Living Bible study at Second Baptist West Campus in Katy,Texas. I have a son that is an abuser. He tried to tell me Saturday that when I deal with him that I think of his dad who us d to abuse me in 1987. This isn't true. God has healed me from that years ago. My son us d that everytime I confront him about his abusive ( psychological& mental abuse). He has been in trouble all of his life & second time on probation for abuse with my fav of his girlfriends I loved that young lady and we celebrated our birthdays together back in 2016. Now he has another girlfriend whose birthday was August 14. We were trying to go to movies but he manipulated situation & now we aren't even talking. We all went out for Mother's Day. They took me shopping & we went out to eat. He is crazy. I thought we could do same thing for my birthday( August 11th& Kelly's). I was giving her advice on how to keep herself safe when dealing with him. He tried to lay a guilt trip on me Saturday while on phone. He says that I am trying to make Kelly think he is her enemy. She is used to abusive relationships. He says that they have made a " pact" with her. His controlling is demonic and I know that men can have a jezebel spirit. I learned this from a male pastor. I have to once again stay away from my son. I confronted my son before & he did get angry when we lived together in 2017-2018. He pushed me down. I had to anoint place with oil,he moved out& ended up going to jail after getting into it with Jessica. Second time he was& still is on probation. I went a year without speaking to him& my youngest son& I mov d to a different town. My abusive son had no car& I was free from him. Now in 2022, I need to not communicate with him or Kelly.
Thank You
This is so good
You have to be able to be yourself in any relationship
Wow ..
here we're i growing up, the pastor even demand if we open new business then we need his pray for success.. its man centered chruch and not Christ centered chruch , i get my self out of that church.. its not healthy..so sick
yes fear
Amen
Mine told me "I could have a cute figure if I lost weight" when I was still small.
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"It's wrong. It's not God. You have to confront."
In Jesuses name I humble and ask and pray that he helps me stand up,gain control of my life,and protect myself by getting respect in that people don't just use me step on me,run me over,and please help me some how do it without hurting someone else to protect myself.Help me with a way that teaches or you h others in away that doesn't just protects me,but actually helps the situation.I pray in love and agood deserve for better life and living not just for myself but other to cause for things to be better for only me.I learned is not the right answer and still has a whole and isn't fixed or really better.Please and thank you.Amen.
"Controlled in a demonic way. Pray this thru."
Joyce nails it. "It's witchcraft."
In Jesus name amen 🙌🏽
If I confront it he just calls the cops..... He threatens to call a cops if I touch his car. If I shut a door too hard. If I get water on the linoleum unloading the dishwasher.