CULTURE SHOCKS In The Netherlands (From a South African)

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  • @Rani79
    @Rani79 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Out of 17.7 million people you manage to find the only one who doesn't speak sarcasm, that's very impressive!

  • @daluzsoares
    @daluzsoares 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    With the curtains open you can see from the room who is stealing your bike.🧐

    • @Mutation80
      @Mutation80 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Bicycles don't get stolen in the netherlands, everybody just lends them out to everybody!

    • @jacquelineb3475
      @jacquelineb3475 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Mutation80 Best answer!

    • @rebekkavandenbrink8273
      @rebekkavandenbrink8273 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

    • @kissakiza
      @kissakiza 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You joke, but this literally happened to me. Luckily I got the bike back, because my South African sense made me run outside and chase him down!

  • @hunchbackaudio
    @hunchbackaudio 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    Poes has a double meaning in Dutch too, but we don't make a big deal out of it. Because it doesn't sound foul to us in any way. Never new it is perceived like that in Afrikaans. And for the sarcasm, I think you didn't encounter the right people yet, Dutch people can be pretty sarcastic, it's just not for everyone.

    • @martebarnard
      @martebarnard  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Thanks for the insight! Overall the Dutch I’ve met have a great sense of humor, so hopefully I’ll encounter some who are sarcastic too 😜

    • @hunchbackaudio
      @hunchbackaudio 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      @@martebarnard Dutch humor is very comparable to Britsh humor, we love under statements and reversed statements, it can also be pretty dark sometimes. And complaining is our national sport as you probably already noticed.

    • @SwordOfHeimdall
      @SwordOfHeimdall 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@hunchbackaudio so true. The Dutch are very much like the Brits and the Irish in our love for banter, slagging and sarcasm.But I guess it works a bit differently than in SA. I've noticed this before in interactions.

    • @longbow857
      @longbow857 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@martebarnard I liked you video and I would like to think I like sarcasm too, but I have to say that with your example I couldn't see the funny side of it. Maybe saying no when you are really into it is perhaps a bit too.. simple? A good example of sarcasm I like is the way the character House is represented in the same named series. If you have seen it you probably know what I mean, and if not: give it a try for sure. The sarcasm is just too funny.

    • @martebarnard
      @martebarnard  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@longbow857 Hello! I can certainly understand where you're coming from. For the length of the video I didn't mention our entire conversation; within the scenario it was pretty obvious that I was being sarcastic as I had praised the shop assistant for finding the perfect pair and that I loved them. Maybe not the best example without giving full context! Also, I love House :D

  • @JulesStoop
    @JulesStoop 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    7:27 There’s also the reverse of the cause and effect that’s usually mentioned. The dutch transparency between inside and outside spaces, also means that people inside are aware of what happens outside and those with ill intent will know themselves observed. In this way Dutch streets are an extension of people’s living rooms. More so than in most other places I have been to. In other words: being safe outside in the Netherlands is partly a result of people not keeping everything shut and themselves invisible.

    • @daluzsoares
      @daluzsoares 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      this is the best explanation i have seen!!

  • @y.v.l.
    @y.v.l. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    When I walk around in other countries and find every house firmly locked often including metal safety curtains (France, Germany) in front of the windows I feel very unsafe on the streets. Being able to see people whilst your out on the streets especially at night gives me assurence.

  • @OBolk
    @OBolk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Sarcasm, we love it. You just bumped into a grumpy guy.

    • @EdwinRiem
      @EdwinRiem 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agree

  • @robinjansen6891
    @robinjansen6891 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hearing the Afrikaans language is like music to my ears. Keep talking it. Very nice video. Thanks for sharing your experiences here.

  • @doctorjoost
    @doctorjoost 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You should watch 'Jiskefet' (meaning 'garbage bin' in Friesian) if you're interested in Dutch humour, whatever that may mean. A couple of my favourite Jiskefet sketches are 'Prostitutie op het platteland', 'Humor op het platteland', and 'Ons genoegen'.
    Great video by the way. You've given me some interesting insights!

    • @ayporos
      @ayporos หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      op 't randje Edgar, op 't randje.

  • @marjoleinrijtma3617
    @marjoleinrijtma3617 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Het lekker gelag want dis so herkenbaar. Wat my na 20 jaar nog steeds 'surprise' is dat mensen hulle groente/eiers/fruit langs die pad sit met n potjie waar jy geld in gooi en vat/koop wat jy nodig het. In die aand kom hul dan die geld en oorgeblewe goed weer vat tot die volgende keer. So nice.

    • @RustyBumbleBee
      @RustyBumbleBee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wij doen dat zelf met eieren en er wordt eigenlijk nooit iets gestolen.

    • @plofkraak6536
      @plofkraak6536 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Dat kun je ook veel zien in Scandinavië.
      Geniet ervan zolang het duurt, want tijden veranderen (sommigen noemen het: "cultural enrichment").

    • @maxw7118
      @maxw7118 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Het kan hier in het oosten nog steeds behalve tijdens de zomer vakantie want dan blijven de eieren staan en verdwijnt het geldpotje naar een andere eigenaar . Jammer is dat dus geen local eieren in de zomer vakantie.

    • @jaysimoes3705
      @jaysimoes3705 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ja hier in Zeeland ook in steden als Middelburg zag ik het ook. Maar in de stad waren het boeken met het verzoek er niet meer boeken in te doen dan je eruit neemt (dus een ruilhandel).

  • @iamalexwolf
    @iamalexwolf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    If going for a walk during the day surprises you, you will be surprised how many women walk or bike around at night.

    • @dutchman7623
      @dutchman7623 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, especially in student cities. It is safe, but a little bit awareness is advised.
      And when something happens, it will be on the national news, everyone talks about it, everyone gets angry, though it happens only once or twice a year, over the entire country. So enjoy freedom, but stay safe!

  • @janjanssen9629
    @janjanssen9629 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thanks for pointing out the normal things we almost take for granted… we should appreciate them (more)… and very nice you ended in Afrikaans… wouldn’t mind if you share some live experiences from South Africa… always nice to hear what happens in other parts of the world.

  • @Guuskje
    @Guuskje 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved this video! As a Dutchie it makes me realize (again) that being safe is such a privilege. It gives as the space and time to actually think about mundane things or other priviliged things such as how to spend/to save our money best. Also, loved Zuid Afrika, such a beautiful country.

  • @jsb7975
    @jsb7975 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Maar droge humor en sarcasme zijn nou net twee vaste ingrediënten in Nederland !
    😊❤

    • @lindaraterink6451
      @lindaraterink6451 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think she used it in the wrong setting. The salesman was being serious, so he got caught off guard.

    • @willemdederde6669
      @willemdederde6669 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kijk . . . Wat een moed om hier in het Nederlands te schrijven . . . werkelijk een verademing tussen al dat Nodeloze engels.

  • @UnusSedLeo-w5l
    @UnusSedLeo-w5l 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Living in Brabant is a good life. More relaxed than in the busy Randstad.
    Yes, the Dutch are happy to show their interiors, but if you want to visit the people living there, you need to make an appointment two months in advance.😂
    Directness... coconut culture!
    Enjoy the Netherlands🎉

  • @gerrybreugem2496
    @gerrybreugem2496 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You did a great presentation, loved the way you brought out the differences in culture. I'm a Dutch Aussie, what you explained about SA is same in Australia, I look forward to going back to my birthplace soon.

  • @FrankHeuvelman
    @FrankHeuvelman 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's a lot of shocks, miss Barnard.
    A shocking amount.

  • @harriependers9171
    @harriependers9171 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Heb zelf in mijn jeugd in Zuid/Afrika met plezier gewoond...prachtig land en jammer van de onveiligheid. Heb ook nog de Tafelberg beklommen op me 12ejaar....Zeeland heeft het meeste zonuren van Nederland....fijne dag

    • @jaysimoes3705
      @jaysimoes3705 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      De Wadden zijn echt het zonnigst, Zeeland scoort ook goed. Hoe verder landinwaarts, hoe meer bewolking.

  • @jellemb3603
    @jellemb3603 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Interesting you found the Dutch weather better than expected, since we just had the most rain in history from sep 23 to march 24 :) this wasn't normal even for Dutch standards

    • @martebarnard
      @martebarnard  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I moved at the beginning of this year, so perhaps missed the worst of it! :)

  • @hansutrecht6555
    @hansutrecht6555 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Marté, enjoying your vlogs very much. You’ll get used to the Dutch ways and in the long run you’ll adapt. In fact language wise we’re not that different, but cultural we are. I have no problems understanding the Africaan language which is pretty much old Dutch😊

  • @hallomierlo
    @hallomierlo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Most sunlight hours in NL are on the coast in Zeeland, the North of Noord-Holland and the Waddeneilanden. Brabant can be slightly warmer in summer.

  • @henksanders6621
    @henksanders6621 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Marté, thank you so much for this video. Good to hear you like it that much. I really hope it'll stay like that, because of being Dutch and having lived my whole life here, todays Netherlands isn't anymore as it used to be. But for you coming from South Africa I can imaginaire it's a huge difference, for instantie the feeling of walging alinea in a park. I rally hope both of you are gonna like it overhere. And now, up to learning Dutch. Maybe it shouldn't be that difficult because you speak Afrikaans. Have a nice day. Een fijne dag. Groeten Henk. P.S. I also luve in Brabant. Lovely province
    .

  • @drerri
    @drerri 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    poes is actually sometimes used with a bit of the same meaning here, but seen as more old fashioned and not as vulgar.

  • @jackvandersluis1723
    @jackvandersluis1723 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Like your video very much, and poes 😂😂

  • @renevaanhold
    @renevaanhold 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beste Marté,
    Dat was een hele leuke culture shock video. Je hebt al meer dan 300 likes dus ik ben benieuwd naar de volgende video!
    Vriendelike groete,
    René

  • @TheBorgfelder
    @TheBorgfelder 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like the Dutch directness - perhaps, because I am from neighboring Germany 😀.

  • @PrinceWalacra
    @PrinceWalacra 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The most sunny region in the Netherlands is the southwest (Zeeland), it gets approximately 2050 sun hours a year, whereas the east of the country gets like 1750 hours a year.

  • @carpor911
    @carpor911 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When I hear the word SHOCKS I aways thing it is negatief .......
    But I am glad that they almost all of them are positive,

  • @schiffelers3944
    @schiffelers3944 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Het kinderliedje: Poesje mauw, is met een puberaal brein zeer dubbel.
    Poesje mauw, kom eens gauw. Ik heb lekkere melk voor jou.

    • @Tentoooooo
      @Tentoooooo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Donders, ben 49 maar zo had ik het liedje nog niet "eerder bekeken" haha dussss

  • @TheEvertw
    @TheEvertw 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That app to inform people of the cheapest moment to use electricity has a purpose: to lessen the peak load on the electrical grid. At times the grid is near its max capacity, so we currently can not add new users to it. If people were to spread the load and lessen the peaks, we could add new businesses that are waiting to be connected.
    Most dutchies will directly understand more than 75% of Afrikaans once they get used to the accent.
    I once heard Pik Botha on the news sometime in the seventies and ask my dad why an obviously powerful man would speak like a small child. Of course, I was a BIG boy at the time, who had learned to speak properly. I must have been about 10 years old, which would put this in 1977. 🤣

  • @RAMDH
    @RAMDH 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Dan zou ik maar geen tompoes (tompouce) eten 😂

    • @martebarnard
      @martebarnard  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      HAHAHA no!! (Cries in Afrikaans) that is too funny 🤣

  • @pjbrons1
    @pjbrons1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It was fun looking at this clip. Ill send it to my SA friends and will hear what they say about it;-))

  • @rattlinghost8904
    @rattlinghost8904 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ons imigreer enkhuizen toe noord holland, dankie vir die deel

  • @marleen1451
    @marleen1451 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had Spanish relatives over and they were surprised too that they could look into the houses, that's not usual in Spain.

  • @tyson00001
    @tyson00001 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm Belgian living in the Netherlands. Efficiency isn't a topic I can agree upon. When I had to register in cityhall it was so hectic. For my wife (who is from Taiwan) is more paperwork. In belgium we have it all digital. The only benefit is that they take English as a legal language which in belgium can Dutch, french and German

  • @joopdesmit
    @joopdesmit 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Quite counterintuitively, the driest and sunniest places in NL, are directly at the coast. Clouds collect and rain out after that. Say some 10 -50 kms inland. There can be huge daily differences, but on a whole I'd say that the similar North to South is more or less similar. There is a distinct difference between coast and the East. That said, it has been raining mostly non-stop from last October until a few weeks ago. Exceptional. We have weather. Not climate.

  • @spitfire5451
    @spitfire5451 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Most interesting. Relating. to the form of soft sarcasm you referred to, I can certainly understand that it doesn't fit well for the Dutch, because of the fact that they are so direct. Sure way for a massive miss understanding. South Africans on the other hand has an inherent love for humor and will forever see jokes in anything.

  • @Bruintjebeer6
    @Bruintjebeer6 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are right. I live on the north west coast and we get a lot of rain

  • @lindaraterink6451
    @lindaraterink6451 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    lol imagine hearing the neighbour calling the cat to come home. Poes, poes, poes, poes, poes! Poes is also a word for lady parts in the Netherlands. fyi.

  • @johndoidge5191
    @johndoidge5191 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Regarding Dutch thrift, the former CEO of one South Africa's banks, a Dutch citizen, 9ne described Dutch people as being like a Scotsmen with his generosity removed.

  • @erikpooters8834
    @erikpooters8834 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Like your video! Have some SA friends and co-workers and they feel mostly the same about our country.... I especially like the parts spoken in Afrikaans, as I really like the similarity to our dutch laguage but more authentic!

  • @armanivanderwesthuizen79
    @armanivanderwesthuizen79 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lovit! Asb maak 'n part 2

  • @MCK620
    @MCK620 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On the contrary, I find the Afrikaanse words far more direct, like an elevator is a 'hysbak' (hijsbak). In Dutch a 'hijsbak' is an elevated platform for window washers or construction workers. I had a good laugh, when I heard the word 'skootrekenaar' (laptop) for the first time 🙂

  • @ralphbehouden
    @ralphbehouden 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    😄 leuke video. Mooi om te horen hoe je tegen Nederland en de Nederlanders aankijkt.

  • @cellevangiel5973
    @cellevangiel5973 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have an Rwandese friend and once we talked about the difference of thinking ahead in Rwanda or Europe. Africans don't think ahead that much, a week is far ahead. But if you live in a climate where it freeze -10 C for weeks in a row, you better think ahead and collect some firewood. That's why we think different.

    • @jaysimoes3705
      @jaysimoes3705 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Those times have gone in The Netherlands. I have never seen it freezing like that. The coldest spell I ever witnessed was an average of -7,5 C the first three weeks of 1985. Pretty cold. I loved it.

    • @cellevangiel5973
      @cellevangiel5973 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaysimoes3705 But the cows can not go on the meadows, so the farmers had / have to provide food for the winter. And indeed, we don't collect firewood anymore. But my father still did.

  • @GerbenV90
    @GerbenV90 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Breda is about 50 km closer to the equator than Leiden (which is somewhat in the middle of the Randstad). I don’t know if that makes much of a difference in sun hours 🤭

  • @gerbentvandeveen
    @gerbentvandeveen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ik heb op mijn navigatie ook de taal op zuid Afrikaans staan. Het is echt een mooie taal. Neem op de cirkel de tweede afdraai. En aan het van die pad draai rechts. Groetjes uit Spakenburg, Nederland

  • @hippopotoftea
    @hippopotoftea 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    just wait until someone says someone was ´poeslief´

  • @2684dennis
    @2684dennis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You should do a tutorial speaking african for dutchies, sounds awsome african 😁

  • @dykam
    @dykam 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Specific execution of sarcasm seems to be fairly culturally grounded, and especially when using second languages it is lesser perceived. But many people do love sarcasm (of course many also don't). I'm sure you'll get plenty of fun moments in the future, I'd just be careful initially. Dutch sarcasm I think is very tone based, rather than a deadpan delivery.

  • @orangeguppie6897
    @orangeguppie6897 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Double meanings, well, if you are not carefull you can't stop laughing because you say something, normally quite innocent, it can have a double meaning, you can have so much fun with it!!!over nothing strange, just an innocent sentence. 😂😂😂😂. Thanks, i loved your reaction! Tot ziens en groetjes vanuit het dorp Klaaswaal in de Hoeksche waard, niet zo ver weg van Brabant, de provincie Zuid Holland. Bye!!!

  • @TravelFilming
    @TravelFilming 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    On the topic of words I was surprised that the word ‘kaffer’ is seen as such a foul word in ZA (and could even get you into legal trouble) whereas here if someone really messes up big time it is not unheard of to say ‘What een kaffer!’.

  • @jelle_smid
    @jelle_smid 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    From experience, expats and energy bills are an unfortunate combination.
    Most in the world are unable to fathom how high energy costs are in The Netherlands, not adjusting their usage habits, resulting to massive massive annual bills.

  • @leoStouthart
    @leoStouthart 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its very simple,as your bike is stolen, you steel also a bike back .😅

  • @Treinbouwer
    @Treinbouwer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:31 Amsterdam-Antwerp, twice the distance, has a difference in altitude which leads to 15 minutes difference in sunset time.
    No you do not get significantly more sun. In the long year average it is possible to mesure a slight difference between regions, but you can not feel it because the randomeness of the weather.

  • @berryrijnbeek5938
    @berryrijnbeek5938 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sarcasm is mostly done (A LOT) between friends, not a lot to a stranger..... because you might not know/like the reaction....

  • @100percentnonofyourbiz
    @100percentnonofyourbiz หลายเดือนก่อน

    Actualy Den Helder and Texel have the most sun hours in the Netherlands...that is way up north....

  • @arnomeesters1
    @arnomeesters1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    baie baie mooi, dankie voor de video

  • @nlbergsma
    @nlbergsma 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I say it once more: windows are for the inhabitants to look out and to let light in. NOT for outsiders to look in !. 😉

  • @hansblom5881
    @hansblom5881 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    welkom to the Netherlands how you have a good life here oo and dont worry we do have sarcasm here :P

  • @jannetteberends8730
    @jannetteberends8730 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    About the weather: the difference are the rivers. I lived in Maastricht and every time I went to Utrecht or Amsterdam I was freezing the whole day. (Because I keep forgetting to take something warm with me).
    The windows without curtains is a centuries old tradition. There are two explanations. The first one is that people wanted to show of their wealth. The second is that in this Calvinistic country, people wanted to show they had nothing to hide.
    And about sarcasm, that’s also different above the rivers. In the randstad people can be very sarcastic. When I moved back from Maastricht, it took some time to get accustomed to it again.

    • @jaysimoes3705
      @jaysimoes3705 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The rivers have zero influence. Maastricht is not warmer in winter than AMsterdam, it is colder.

    • @jannetteberends8730
      @jannetteberends8730 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaysimoes3705 and in the summer it’s warmer

  • @dykam
    @dykam 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kat and poes can both be used, kater is explicitly male, poes is often female. Poes is often used with the diminutive poesje, for larger cats people are more included to use kat.
    There's absolutely a double entendre there, but as other double entendres, the context is leading.

    • @martebarnard
      @martebarnard  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for explaining, appreciate it ☺️
      In Afrikaans, a cat is kat. P*os is exclusively a swear word, which is what causes the amusement!

  • @GerbenV90
    @GerbenV90 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh the Dutch can be prètty sarcastic. The seller just wasn’t having it and that’s too bad for him 🥲

  • @margreetanceaux3906
    @margreetanceaux3906 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Like your sarcasm - I presume the shop assistant just had an off day.

    • @martebarnard
      @martebarnard  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ouch 🤣 hahaha

    • @giselavaleazar8768
      @giselavaleazar8768 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I guess it didn't come across in the way it was used . I think we Dutch have some particular intonations in our speech when we use sarcasm.

  • @hondaryder3779
    @hondaryder3779 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Moenie worry nie alles sal reg kom is het enige SA dat ik nog spreek.
    47 jaar geleden terug verhuist en ik ga nooit meer terug, zelfs niet op vakantie!
    Leuke video.

  • @lindaraterink6451
    @lindaraterink6451 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    'Peeping in' as you walk past is something different then 'stop and stare' You are ok with peeping in

  • @meticulousgeek
    @meticulousgeek 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congrats on getting a bike stoien, you are now officially Dutch! And don't worry about peeking into homes, the curtains are open for a reason after all!

  • @robvoncken2565
    @robvoncken2565 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes the south gets more sun I think. Greetings from the deep South ( Limburg )

  • @anne1709_
    @anne1709_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol I'm from a region a little bit north of Brabant and in Brabant they canNOT handle the level of directness that is common in our province. Let alone the directness from even norther regions 😂

  • @jaapfolmer7791
    @jaapfolmer7791 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😁 Have you gone sailing yet? Learned what a jib is in Dutch?

  • @BleepingTom
    @BleepingTom 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am Dutch and in my opinion sarcasm DOES work but mostly with people you already know.... Apply sarcasm to strangers you get a weird look much more often....

  • @realpirate
    @realpirate 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The poes thing took some getting used to 🙂

    • @realpirate
      @realpirate 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      and ja, no sarcasm, grin

  • @willemdederde6669
    @willemdederde6669 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ok . baaie dankie voor de complimenten . . . Ik ben Hollander dus ik ben ook 'direct'. . . . : Noem in een volgende video a.u.b. alleen negatieve kanten van ons land zodat de stroom (werk, school, politieke, etc ) immigranten, een klein beetje gaat afnemen zodat de 6 hierboven genoemde punten in stand kunnen blijven . . .

  • @wgsips
    @wgsips 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Uhh my curtains are definitely closed!! 😉

  • @ikkezelfdoemaar
    @ikkezelfdoemaar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A "poes" is a female cat,
    Its also the female part of a women. You know, down there!

    • @mvdh877
      @mvdh877 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the female part down there have alot of names here,not only poes lol

    • @ikkezelfdoemaar
      @ikkezelfdoemaar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mvdh877 tja, het ging om het woord poes.
      Niet over mossel, oester, kut, spleet, naaigat, zijkgat, neukgat, pisgat, frunnike, uitgestoken koeien oog, foef, muffe sloot, baby fabriek, potje, pruim, gratige vis, naakt kat, haring, makreel, natte sloot, fluit, goudmijntje, enz enz enz.
      Het ging over het woord poes!

    • @mvdh877
      @mvdh877 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ikkezelfdoemaar ja hahaha dat weet ik ook wel

  • @_JoyceArt
    @_JoyceArt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ah, that leaving that phone in the aisle, don't try to replicate it. We absolutely have opportunistic thieves here was well. I once forgot my handbag on a shopping cart. When I got back to the store, my bag was handed over to the supermarket staff, but not before taking out my wallet and phone.
    And the weather, I have decided recently to go against the grain, and love our ever changing weather. I got so sick of the constant complaints, in particular on social media.
    Historically it is indeed to show you have nothing to hide, but it certainly also has to do with wanting as much as possible natural light in our houses.
    Sarcasm is certainly a dialect here as well, but probably it might be that your sarcasm just didn't land with him.

  • @theglanconer6463
    @theglanconer6463 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aha a new Brabander, welcome !!!

  • @AlbertZonneveld
    @AlbertZonneveld 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Netherlands had and Russian caused energy crisis in 2022 with energy prizes quadrupeling and some people in poorly insulated house actually needing to sit with blankets in the winter because they could not heat their house over 15 or 16 degrees celsius.
    Prizes have dropped back most of the way but the goverment has increased energy taxes on gas so that stays very expensive (at 1.25 euro/ m3) .
    So saving on energy is really a big thing since 2022.

  • @K55365
    @K55365 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Welcome home 😅

  • @FacelessJanus
    @FacelessJanus 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There is another saying "Trust in God, but lock your bike." (Vertrouw op God, maar zet je fiets op slot.)

    • @martebarnard
      @martebarnard  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hahaha I’ll certainly remember that one 😁 (wise words!)

  • @BandSteel
    @BandSteel หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the suid afrikaans accent

  • @ralphvercauteren9267
    @ralphvercauteren9267 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😀 A lot of Dutch are sarcastic also, but when you do business thenat we tend to be more serious. I think that happened to you in that time. Money is a serious business. 😉
    "Poes" has a double meaning, but we tend to use different words to swear. Also, different regions in the Netherlands have different swearwords.

  • @klementerwin
    @klementerwin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Go out fot a bike ride on Ameland, Terschelling etc.. by nice weather.

  • @robgerhardterellen1488
    @robgerhardterellen1488 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hoekom word Engels gepraat en nie in mooie Suid Afrikaans nie?

  • @qazatqazah
    @qazatqazah 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very interesting.
    Sarcasm is not in line with Dutch directness. Saying what you mean leads to the best results.

    • @-_YouMayFind_-
      @-_YouMayFind_- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We do use sarcasm. At least I do as a Dutch person XD, but I do misunderstand others sarcasm at time

  • @MaartjeTosca
    @MaartjeTosca 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i know at least three families that moved here coz of the insucerity in their homeland of South Africa.

  • @mattgiant8836
    @mattgiant8836 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The open curtains I don't understand, I like my privacy.

    • @greetjeb7030
      @greetjeb7030 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Open during the day, closed at night.

  • @robertrijkers4923
    @robertrijkers4923 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sarcasm abundant here.... just depends on who you met probably.

  • @BELOR_BSD
    @BELOR_BSD 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am form Indonesia ❤ Nederland

  • @00wheelie00
    @00wheelie00 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Afrikaans voor knipperlicht is flikkerlig, erg onfortuinlijk voor Nederlanders :D

  • @Aviopic
    @Aviopic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your idea about hours of sun is incorrect 😬 The west coast gets considerably more hours or sun than anywhere else in the country, can be up to 40%. The reason is that there is less obstruction for the sun to hide behind, apart from the ocean and that is. Also due to the presence of the ocean it gets less cold in winter and less warm in summer.

  • @rgfrank1668
    @rgfrank1668 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2nd point (Safety), has a lot to do with community or sense of belonging. There are parts of the Netherlands that are less safe than others but as a whole people aren't trying to better themselves at the cost of others. Also I know that there is a lot of talk about bike theft online, but I was born and raised in the Netherlands. Have never lived anywhere else longer than 6 months and never lost my bike.... This most likely also is related to the community u live in.
    Sarcasm is used often but much, much more between family member, friends, acquittances and colleagues.
    As for language, I was curious if it would pop-up. Afrikaans is a derivative of Dutch so many words/sounds should be familiar to u. Poes = cat but indeed also vagina or pussy, it all depends on context.
    I hope u are settling in nicely in this beautiful little country

  • @lostgirl23loveanimemanga86
    @lostgirl23loveanimemanga86 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4 fun deals use social deals❤

  • @mormacil
    @mormacil 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    About the open curtains, a common explanation goes back to our calvenist past. Showing off wealth was vain and a sin, you're not supposed to do that. But other people looking into your home and see your wealth? That's on them, not on you. It was a way to show off wealth and feel spiritually pure. It certainly had tracking in the northwest, the Randstad region for example. Undoubtedly there other factors at play, good natural light, the idea of having nothing to hide, low crime, etc. But I do think the theory of showing off wealth is credible.
    Sarcasm though, we're pretty fluent in. But perhaps the social rules differ a bit of when it's appropriate. Or perhaps there was a mismatch between your delivery and their mindset, who knows. Humor can be hard to parse at the best of times. But sarcastic routines is 100% a known commodity in Dutch humor.

    • @nlbergsma
      @nlbergsma 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I also leave the curtains open, in the summer at least, but there is little wealth to bee seen.....😔

  • @jeroenvanzwam6991
    @jeroenvanzwam6991 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The dutch do not appreciate sarcasm? Interesting 🤔.... I thought we did....

  • @Dutch-Power
    @Dutch-Power 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯 💯 💯 😎😎😎

  • @TheTwan85
    @TheTwan85 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😁 great video! With all that's going on here politically I wish more people would watch videos about our country through foreigner's eyes.

  • @ronbokje6213
    @ronbokje6213 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like to watch outside if I’m inside.

  • @rupsmeister
    @rupsmeister 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sound is very inconsistent when switching to your videos outside. You might want to check (yes I am Dutch 😂)

  • @00wheelie00
    @00wheelie00 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your sarcasm should land just fine in Amsterdam or places whit a large population originally from there :D

  • @freudsigmund72
    @freudsigmund72 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Poes in Dutch means (among other things) female cat
    Poes in Afrikaans means teef in Dutch (according to google translate)
    Teef in Dutch means female dog in English
    strange it goes from female cat to female dog in two translations?