I feel that. I'm constantly asked (as a woman who's tried to have a child for years) when I'll have a child. I know they don't know, but it still hurts.
I feel it's awful that society even expects everyone to even have kids. Some people just don't want any or can't. I wish you success and sending blessings 💖🥰 xx
She ain’t got time!! She like 40. These women that put their careers first and then cry about infertility later in life don’t understand this is the consequences of their own action.
Thank you so much for coming back. It’s only been a couple months since My husband passed away. Seeing how well you’re doing has helped me to continue forward on my skin care in the make up journey. Let’s have some smiles along way. Skin care and make up is all about self-care❤️
I’m so sorry to hear that. My daughters dad recently passed away also so I feel your heartache 😭 prayers to you ❤️ Tati really does make my days better!
Omg I’m so sorry. I lost my mom a couple months ago and never knew what it was like to lose someone that close until then, so my heart hurts for anyone feeling that pain. Glad you’re finding some happiness in the beauty world!
So sorry . I know how painful it is to lose your husband I lost mine in February 2020 after a very short battle with cancer. My heart and prayers go out to you.
My mom was married for 50+ years and she always tells me “there are days when you don’t even like your partner but it doesn’t matter they are still your partner.” You are 100% right Tati. Love that last, Is a choice.
Q&A Timestamps - Halo Beauty 02:26 - Fertility Treatment + Relationship update + Religion 04:34 - Further update on Fertility 12:05 (showing make up she's doing) - Tati Beauty Update 20:16 - How is Puka? 24:13 - Talking about legal bits not letting her talk freely 29:38 - Love you Tati x
I wish I could see a side-by-side of how different your makeup looks when doing the underneath-the-foundation-sculpting versus the norm of contour and highlight over your foundation. I’m so curious to see how much of a difference it makes and if it’s worth it
I like to underpaint my makeup when I want a natural look , it makes it look like it's coming from the skin naturally underneath your foundation... Also if you want your makeup to stay all day try it with powder products on top
Tati, all the best on your fertility journey! I've been watching TH-cam for almost 10 years now, and I think I speak for a lot of us when I say you are already a mom to so many of us
Tati, I have been married 15 years. I just want to say that it is completely normal to not feel much towards your spouse. The temptations of being with someone new and chasing butterflies will always hover around. I was at a low point in my life and I made the same prayer you did. "Please let me love my husband again". And I swear to you, God gave it back to me. I look at him and see what an amazing person I married. God is there always listening, although he will not be so quick to spoil us by giving us what we pray for each and every single time. I thought everyone should know this.
Tati, my Grandma had my dad in her mid to late 40s and continued to live to almost 93 and met all of her grandchildren because she was a strong badass woman and so are you.
I 100% understand the “not feel” anything. When you’ve gone through a lot of trauma, you tend to build walls around you to protect yourself from falling apart. In a society where divorce has become so normalized - no one really remembers the vows they took and chooses to work things out. Now, no one should stay in an abusive relationship. But, all relationships will go through good and bad times. It IS a choice you make to choose love and forever. I’m so happy that Tati has gone through the storms and is coming out on the sunshine side.
I wish everyone would get comfortable with fertility being a private matter. Asking about it can bring up so much hurt and frustration in a person. They will tell you, when and if they're comfortable telling you.
@@Angelaaa1015 But also in real life, just because you're family or friends doesn't make it your buissness. I've heard so many stories of couples struggling with fertility that dread family gatherings because of family asking or hinting at "when is the baby coming"?
Some ppl need to hear that they are not alone. I get where you're coming from but also it's a breath of fresh air when someone's idol says "you're not alone" and you hear their story. You feel seen, you feel heard and most importantly you don't feel alone. Thank you Tati for sharing!
I want to hear everything you're comfortable sharing. We were all so worried about you while you were away, and this might sound weird, but things feel just a little more "right" since you've come back. ❤
I get what you mean about loving someone is a choice. My husband and I went through a really rough spot 14 years into our marriage. We both worked hard to get back to why we loved each other, and I'm glad we did as we fell in love all over again. I'm glad we got back to where we had been as my darling husband passed away just after our 15th wedding anniversary. We were always in love, but his mental health issues got on top of him for a while, but he found happiness again. For 11 months he was happy, which is all I could have ever wanted for him. I'll be forever thankful that we were in a REALLY good place again, and he was finally happy before his life was cut short. It took work, it sometimes felt so hard, but love won. And it's something I will carry with me, always.
I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. Going through what you have is one of my biggest fears, and also putting my husband through that because I wanted want him to go off the deep end. I feel you are a very strong person and I hope you find love again. Idk if you have because I don’t know how long ago he passed, but finding love again doesn’t mean your guys love wasn’t amazing and it doesn’t mean your replacing him. Obviously do whatever feels right to you when it does. Again I’m so sorry for your loss.
My mom was 41, almost 42, when I was born. There was definitely a big generational gap, but I'm so happy she kept trying and had me and so is she. Wishing you well in all aspects of life but especially the fertility stuff! Cause that hits most close to home I guess haha
My mama was 41 when she had my brother ! Love him so much and actually my mom and I were pregnant together when I had my first one little wierd at first but loved the experience !!!
Both of my daughters were surprises. My first I was 35 and told 15 days after I was told I would never be able to get pregnant I conceived on birth control and had her at 36. My second I was 39 and also on the pill. She was born 7 days after my 40th birthday.
Biblically, the Greek word for love is a verb-it’s an action. It’s not an emotion. Sometimes to truly love someone is to choose to actively love them through the imperfections and pitfalls. That’s how God intended love.
Tati, I’m on the verge of tears with your testimony. I’m going through a rough patch and to hear you share your story in a sense made me have hope for myself. Thank you for sharing this intimate stuff with us!!! You are such a wonderful person.
Someone once told me “Marriage is a daily decision to stay. A daily decision to love. A daily decision to do your best.” So I kiss my husband every night and I tell him I still choose him 25 years late! Your right Tati, it’s worth the work!
I’ve been with my husband for 15 years, and it is a choice some days! Tati you are spot on! My husband and I have gone threw some struggles and have had times where we are just floating threw the motions but God always brings us closer together ❤️ when you have God in your relationship it helps a lot
You and Tati are making me feel better, because my husband and I are going through it right now, and it’s hard sometimes to remember that all the smiling photos I see online don’t tell the whole story!
Loved hearing about your faith. It's also so refreshing to hear someone talk about marriage the way you do. Yes you are realistic and yes it's hard work, but it's also not something disposable when hard times come. My husband and I have been married 10 years now, and I know what you mean about love morphing.... it's not always butterflies but if you stick around and work through things it becomes even deeper and stronger. Thank you for REAL content!
what you said about love made me cry. i’m going through this right now in a long term relationship where we’re in a down, i really needed to hear this. love is a choice and it’s good to hear because sometimes it’s true society makes you feel like you have to have the butterflies forever but it’s not true! thank you for that ❤️
Keep strong 💪🏼 because all this movement about needing to be loved, listened everyday (yes i know it needs to be that in a relationship but not as the self development or spiritual movement wants you to believe) that whatever your husband/boyfriend is doing wrong that means, he is not the right. So keep fighting if it is not abusive of course 💪🏼
@@blackananaas thanks ! not abusive at all just going through some stress! we have been together since early 20s so we changed over the years as we grew, it’s a new adaptation and figuring out
Thank you so much for pushing back on the "just manifest it" culture. It allows us as a society to distract ourselves from the systemic / structural barriers that we need to address. Not to mention creating a culture where when bad things happen to people (like getting cancer, which I had at 37), people blame themselves (or others blame them). Anyway, long comment, but just appreciate you speaking up about this change in your perspective.
THIS! I have been going through one of the HARDEST times of my life, and have been so damn hard on myself with asking "Why? What did we do to deserve this?!" Then when I started to feel negatively about our situation, I would get so anxious bc "Omg! I doubted! I had negative thoughts! They will now play out irl!" NO! No freaking way! We do not create bad things that happen in our lives. Like your cancer diagnosis. You did not create that for yourself! I hope you are doing well. Sending you love and prayers 🙏🏻❤
@@Catglittercrafts actual manifestation is not toxic positivity in the slightest. and isn’t what social media makes it out to be, you have to put in the work to see your manifestations come to fruition, it’s not just about thinking and saying them, that does nothing.
Once you are able to release new products, you should totally create your own perfume/fragrance! All your fragrance recommendations have been amazing, I bet a Tati perfume would smell divine ✨
The fact that you were praying to love him again shows you still loved him.. you were just really going through it and your brain was saying “emotions! Shut down! Before we have a nervous breakdown!”
The point about love being a choice is a very important reminder, because the moment you chose to love someone despite their flaws and the circumstances around them or the relationship (obviously not in a abusive and/or manipulative context) then that is real love 💗💗
Totally agree, at the beginning of the relationship it’s this rush of chemicals in your brain you feel like you’re on cloud nine. But getting through the difficult times and choosing to stay together everyday despite everything that gets thrown your way that’s true love.
Legit me right now. I just finished watching it. My rooms dark I'm standing beside my bed my husband's annoyed 🤣😠 and I was plugging my phone up to crawl in bed and was like ooohhhh hood on wait a min... 30mins later I'm actually plugging up my phone to crawl in bed lmao.
I’m so proud of you as a person. Staying together is the hardest part of being married. I’m 41 and got married for the first time 5 years ago. We’ve had a lot of ups and downs. I almost left him several times. But thank God we are in a good place in our relationship. Neither of us gave up. That’s what marriage is. Sometimes it’s hard. But when it’s hard, you work harder and sometimes you have to check your ego.
My mom had me when she was 42. She’s now like 62 and I’m turning 20 the day after tomorrow. It’s not easy but I think you’ll be able to have a relaxed relationship with your child compared to being a young mom. I hope you have a happy life Tati❤️
I can relate to the relationship plateau. After being in a steady relationship for 8-9 years, choosing to love is key. It’s not always easy to feel “in love”, definitely something we have to actively work at to keep alive.
Huge misconception, people do not stay actively in love all the time. Relationships grow and change. You do have to work on it, but there are times where you just go about your day and think constantly about being in love. Yes, you can fall in love over and over again as well as not so much. Then you just do your own thing until it changes. I’ve been married for 25 years and our relationship has changed. We still care about each other but it is not like ooh I’m so in love, it doesn’t stay that way. A lot of people get divorced when they don’t feel that anymore which is just stupid in my opinion. It’s about committing to the person you said ‘Til death do us part’.
I’ve been with my husband for 30 years and this is always my advice when people ask how we make it work or have lasted so long. Love and marriage is not always easy or hearts and butterflies, we have had our ups and downs, but it is always a choice to make it work. ❤️
Love how open you are with us. I miss seeing you and James unboxing PR together. You have such great chemistry . Hoping you are able to make a volume 2 palette. I love my textured neutrals but I can't use the glitters. they irritate my eyes.
What I don’t understand is people talking about your age yet so many people are in love with the kardashians and Kourtney is 42 and nobody mentions anything about her age. You’re still so young and absolutely stunning. We all just need to live OUR lives for OURSELVES! Love you to death!
I know this isn't your full testimony but just hearing bits and pieces of how our God has worked such wonders in your life is incredible. Our God is a God of details, he cares about details large and small. I am only 11 mins in and this is just so great to hear. Be blessed Tati ❤
@@Alyssasixxtillthisday The lord is not god he's the son of god. Some people worship Jesus and I worship Jehovah the almighty god. So I would find it interesting if she worshiping god or the son. The lord is not god.
I cannot even begin to tell you how much this video hits home!!! My husband and I have been together for 10 years as well. Several months back we went through some tough times and separated temporarily. I prayed for the EXACT same thing-“God please let me feel love again!” We also put in a TON of work and through counseling, prayer, and support from loved ones, we made it!!💕Thank you for the video Tati🥰
I spent Christmas 2019 alone and homeless on someone else's couch sobbing. I lost my husband of 28 years, our home, and so much more...it is a pain that's indescribable and I don't wish it on anyone...I'm sorry you had that pain Tati 💛
@@stephaniewolf2134thank you so much for caring and taking time to care about a stranger...its people like you that keep my faith in humanity alive, so kind of you..I'm doing better..God bless you and everyone you love. 💛🙏
Lord I'm sorry to hear about your loss and struggle but through all of that u still have love and compassion for others is the true meaning of kindness. I pray that u are happy, healthy, and loved. May God bless everyone and keep us all safe and healthy.. 🙏🙏🤗
Its so refreshing to hear a influencer talk about real journeys and real pain, instead of the perfect life they have manifested for thereself. I think its a lot more relatable and makes me respect her so much more for this. Its also nice to hear someone talk about just having faith and living day by day, instead of obsessing over your perfect future.
I love SO much that you are talking about your spiritual journey. It brings tears of smiles to my face hearing someone else's Love journey with the Lord.
I have watched you for years, and I’ve never loved you more than in this moment. God’s love, grace, and peace is pouring out of you. You are in my prayers. 💜
I’m 38 and we have been trying for a baby for the last 4 years. Our fertility clinic has a backlog due to Covid and we’re waitlisted to start IVF in January. For now, we’re just letting go and not stressing over it. So, I’m totally with you on that journey. Wishing you and yours the best, Tati.
Dear Tati, I just want to thank you for speaking so openly about how you fared in your marriage and how you experienced Jesus anew and what Jesus did with you and your marriage. You are a light and a blessing for so many people and married couples who are in deep crisis. Thanks for sharing this! You are a beautiful woman inside and out. Greetings from Switzerland
I’m just loving the new you. I can tell even through the screen that the Lord has truly transformed your life which is exactly what He does and it’s beautiful to see ❤️
tati, i truly felt like you were my only friend when i went to my freshman year of college. i was two hours away from my family and was with a super abusive boyfriend at the time. thank you so much for all you do, i love you so much more than you can imagine. im so proud of you & your journey. you always have me in your corner 💘
This weekend I was using your palette on my friend`s eyes for her wedding day and i was thinking "when will Tati come out with volume II?",because that palette is amazing and i`m not even into neutrals. She was looking stunning btw.
Much respect for speaking so candidly about your relationship, being in a almost 10 year relationship myself what you said about choosing to continue to love each other is so true ! It’s not always butterflies/rainbows or exciting like kids in the school yard … & you can miss that aspect, but learning to love each other again as each of you grow & change is work & worth it to stay making memories & conquering all of life’s challenges in the end together 🥺🥰❤️
I got pregnant at age 39, after failing IVF and trying for twenty years. I also adopted a child, and both ways are AMAZING ways to get a child. With adoption, both of you are “pregnant” together as equals and it’s an amazing journey you get to share together. Pregnancy is more about you and your body, while he is a observer, but as soon as the child is born and you start to bond, it’s amazing too. I’m saying this to tell you that children can come into our lives many different ways, and that your own genes have nothing to do with how much love you’ll feel for it. I hope you succeed with getting pregnant, Tati, you will be amazing parents!
Still elated that you’re back. I remember during your hiatus, I would check up on the Halo Beauty Twitter account to see you still being active and receiving positivity, and I’m so glad that you’re able to return to form.
I had my daughter when I was 37!!! I wouldn't change the age I had her at even if I could!!! I'm at a point where I can just enjoy being a mother without worrying about anything else
This was so beautiful, raw, and vulnerable to watch and it reminded me of the Tati I subbed to years ago. So glad I’m still subscribed. Thank you for sharing your journey and I hope you continue doing well
I’d love to hear whatever you feel comfortable with and are legally able to share. ❤️ I found you about six years ago and would watch you every day. I’m so happy that you and James are doing better and have found faith in God. I can’t wait to hear your testimony. Love you Tati!
Hey Tati, I was 41 pregnant with my son and when he was born, 3 weeks later, I turned 42. And a few friend were 44 having babies. So you can def do it. I'm praying for you and your family💗
My mom had me when she was 3 months shy of being 40! Completely normal pregnancy, no complications, natural birth, and I was born exactly 1 day early ☺️
just as encouragement, I wasn't able to carry my first child(several miscarriages) until I was 38 and just had my second a few days before I turned 41, is it harder i think so but soooooo worth it and honestly I wouldn't change it, it's been so wonderful for us!
I was more traumatized turning 30 than 60. I feel so blessed at this stage in my life. Every decade is a milestone in my life. I'm so grateful. Live your life. I can't wait for your baby stories.
Tati.... Chills all over my body when you began to speak of Christ's power. Something very similar happened to me and my husband, but I turned to God and through my act of obedience, our love was made new. We are THE best of friends again. Thank you for sharing your testimony in a scary world that often sneers at such truth. ♡
I’m not a person that buys every influencer product that drops but when you released your pallet I HAD to get it. I still use it almost every day. I am a neutral type of girl. The formula is incredible and your glitters are stunning! I would love to see what you come out with next.
Yes, we do want all the details. At the end of the day, we’re all human and I think when you share your experience we can learn from it or just share in the human experience. I know I don’t have the right words for it but I do think it would help us all if you share just like when you share about everything else. We are a community here after all. I love hearing you talk about your experiences and your views and perspectives. It honestly makes me love, appreciate and respect you even more than I thought I could! Nothing you talk about could make me stop watching or want me or you to “move on.” Love you forever. 🖤
Thank you for promoting, working through challenges in marriage!! I’m choosing to work hard in my marriage for as long as I can. I love my husband so much and we are great right now. But even when we aren’t, I’m going to watch this and remind myself- it’s possible!
@@noramezo8062 szia, igen itt élek és megvámolták, de én még akkor rendeltem, amikor kiadta a palettát. Akkor 8500 Ft volt a vám. A mostani szabályok szerint nem tudom hogy működik.
I really appreciate you as a creator, and I'm so grateful you are making content again. I feel like you're a drop of sanity in an otherwise chaotic space. You're bravery and genuine spirit have always been what attract me to your channel and keep me watching every time you post a video.
I spent m y first ever Christmas alone due to my husband passing on Christmas Eve. Right next to me as I was in the middle of speaking to him. We were together for 30 years. There are definitely ups and downs that you go through and just have to recognize that. As you said, Love is a choice. And those choices influence everything.
Oh Tati, I wish I could hug you. It's not even 10 minutes and I teared up about four times, haha. You do and did amazingly well. So proud of you coming out of it. I am also so glad you have good things and a positive mindset back. All the best, so great to have you back.
Do whatever feels good to you, girl. I'm so happy that you felt well enough to come back and make content. If it helps you to address it to move ahead, go for it. If it isn't supportive to your journey, don't feel like you owe us anything.
I got my daughters when I was 40 and 42. You will too. Take time for yourself, try to relax and I personally will root for you. It will happen. I know this. Love from the Netherlands.
Im crying as Im listening to your testimony, love is a choice and when we choose love it breaks open things in us for us that we did not even know or think of, God is love and your message is powerful. Love to really love is to choose love its not based on emotions, we are emotional roller-coaster so if we rely on the emotion only it will be up down and lacking but when we choose it, that emotion is so much stronger.
"sometimes love is a choice" - YES + AMEN! i so wish more people would understand this. you gotta fight the good fight of faith, it's so worth it. so grateful to have a creator like you to speak so boldly about truth. love you so much + so happy to have you back, praying for you!! God Bless! xoxo
I get you ! Stress hits my body too . I’ve had cystic acne, stomach issues, migraines developed , hair loss, and soo much more . It’s hard to deal with really hard situations without it hitting your body . Especially when you are still trying to act normal . Don’t worry about putting out your issues and what others think. Take time to better yourself and your health because mental health is super important as you have learned . Take these down falls as lessons or openings for new paths in your life . Keep moving forward , you are awesome .
I've been with my husband for 21 years this next year. And I've fallen back in love & out with him so many times. So I know exactly what you mean Tati! It's hard life is so hard! But sometimes it can be beautiful! 💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸 Getting older sucks 😭 I can't stand it! I feel your pain!
I absolutely love that you talked about the hardships that stress can cause on relationships. My husband and I went through a very hard patch in 2020 and we were on the brink of divorce. We came back together and are stronger than ever. It’s so important for woman to know their worth and to have a partner who supports them and for those two to grow together and make things better. Being real about relationships can be hard but it’s great listening to you speak about yours because I’ve always looked up to you two.
Omg Tati, I’m so glad to hear you are going to do fertility! I’m sitting here snuggling with my miracle one and only IVF baby out of two rounds and even though I don’t know you I think about you and can’t wait to watch your journey and pray for you and will be so happy for you and what could be. I pray it goes well!!
I did 2 rounds of IVF too. I had 1 natural pregnancy that ended in a stillborn at 26 weeks. Then I was unable to get pregnant again. My 2nd round of IVF produced 2 embryos and my last embryo transfer I finally got my rainbow baby. Such a long road, but I would do it all again.
Wow thank you for being so vulnerable and real! It is nice to be let in to other ppls struggles and not just see the perfect sunny side of social media. Sounds like the future is bright 🌞 staying relaxed approaching fertility endeavors is def important!! Will you document the journey to conceiving ? I love those videos 💗
Girl. I love to see how much stronger you've become through all the struggles of the past year. It's good to see your shine again. I hope your family wishes will be granted and that Pucca will do well. On the creative note, take all the time you need. If you decide to release music at 80 years old, I'll be here for it ^^
I cried so hard for this video. The empathy I feel for the situation is so close to my heart and mind and life. I absolutely love watching your videos and look forward to them. My five year old, Coco, pulls them up on our tv and yells for me to come watch with her. We love you!
I'm so glad you've found God in a way that's personal. I'm so happy you have been able to count your blessings and let go and let God🙏. I really feel like you deserve it, you deserve peace and happiness. So happy you're back Tati. 🥰❤😊
I love how raw and real , vulnerable you are. I can’t imagine the whole legal battle trust me I’m a a paralegal and it does takes a huge toll on clients . Remember God can’t give us storms , situations we can’t handle . We come out of it stronger . May God bless your life and marriage tatis ❤️🤍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Amen God is so real 🙏🏻🙏🏻
That is not true! we need to remember that saying that “God doesn’t give us more than we can handle” is false.... we need God because we CANNOT handle it alone, he is a ROCK and FOUNDATION for those who call upon Him! God bless! 💜
Tati, you haven't given your full testimony in detail yet, but truly your testimony already shines through in your words and life. I appreciate you and I'm praying for you!
Although you’ve been in a hard place, it sounds like you’re doing really great now. It’s so awesome to have someone talk about their faith openly. 🤍 I personally don’t need all the details about the litigation, I’m good with just the quick highlights. Sometimes it’s good to have a place that feels separated from your worries.
Thank you for sharing that little bit about you and your husband going through and coming out of that difficult time. I'm going through something similar with my husband who I've been with for 13 years. Your story makes me feel hopeful. Thank you for being vulnerable.❤
I love what you said Ms. Tati, “Love sometimes is a choice…” why am I crying while you talk about this? Thank you for discussing about this. And yes, God is So Real🙏🏽
I've recommended textured neutrals volume 1 to SO many of my friends and we all love it!! the formula is top notch!! can't wait for Tati Beauty to come back :)
You’re absolutely right about love being a choice. Went thru that myself where both my husband and I got numb to each other and were on the brink of divorce, but one day out of nowhere, after going thru the motions, we had a conversation and said so are WE gonna work on this? And we both said yes. No details or anything… just the decision that yes we would. And from there day-by-day we worked on being kind and patient with each other. It wasn’t perfect, but better and there was definitely progress. I made effort and he noticed and he made effort and I noticed. And here were are a year later in a great place and in love again ❤️
what’s sleep? we have tati 😍 loved this video sm
also that tati beauty palette is still iconic👀.. period!
Late night squad 😂❤
Manny I LOVE YOU!! Ive been following you forever!
Haven’t gone to bed and so tired but have to see you 😍
Love you Manny
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It’s heartbreaking to me that someone who struggles with fertility gets constantly bombarded with questions about it. You do you in your own time. 💕
I feel that. I'm constantly asked (as a woman who's tried to have a child for years) when I'll have a child. I know they don't know, but it still hurts.
I feel it's awful that society even expects everyone to even have kids. Some people just don't want any or can't. I wish you success and sending blessings 💖🥰 xx
Yes. I think its everyones private thing.
She ain’t got time!! She like 40. These women that put their careers first and then cry about infertility later in life don’t understand this is the consequences of their own action.
@@elephantcarnal who are you to judge others life decisions. She has endometriosis also. Its not easy. She can also adopt.
Thank you so much for coming back. It’s only been a couple months since My husband passed away. Seeing how well you’re doing has helped me to continue forward on my skin care in the make up journey. Let’s have some smiles along way. Skin care and make up is all about self-care❤️
I’m so sorry to hear that. My daughters dad recently passed away also so I feel your heartache 😭 prayers to you ❤️ Tati really does make my days better!
I'm sorry for your loss. ❤️
Omg I’m so sorry. I lost my mom a couple months ago and never knew what it was like to lose someone that close until then, so my heart hurts for anyone feeling that pain. Glad you’re finding some happiness in the beauty world!
I'm sorry for your loss. Lots of love from Denmark. ❤️
So sorry . I know how painful it is to lose your husband I lost mine in February 2020 after a very short battle with cancer. My heart and prayers go out to you.
My mom was married for 50+ years and she always tells me “there are days when you don’t even like your partner but it doesn’t matter they are still your partner.”
You are 100% right Tati. Love that last, Is a choice.
Q&A Timestamps
- Halo Beauty 02:26
- Fertility Treatment + Relationship update + Religion 04:34
- Further update on Fertility 12:05
(showing make up she's doing)
- Tati Beauty Update 20:16
- How is Puka? 24:13
- Talking about legal bits not letting her talk freely 29:38
- Love you Tati x
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thank you so much for this!
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I wish I could see a side-by-side of how different your makeup looks when doing the underneath-the-foundation-sculpting versus the norm of contour and highlight over your foundation. I’m so curious to see how much of a difference it makes and if it’s worth it
Yes like a side by side!!
What a GREAT idea!
Fun video idea!
I like to underpaint my makeup when I want a natural look , it makes it look like it's coming from the skin naturally underneath your foundation... Also if you want your makeup to stay all day try it with powder products on top
Fantastic idea!
Tati, all the best on your fertility journey! I've been watching TH-cam for almost 10 years now, and I think I speak for a lot of us when I say you are already a mom to so many of us
That is so sweet ... & true!
Awww she really truly is the OG TH-cam mom ❤️ also people trying to make fun of her or use her age as an insult are so stupid
Honestly!! I look up to Tati so much💗 With age comes life experiences, and I'm so happy for everything she shares on her channel💞
Tati, I have been married 15 years. I just want to say that it is completely normal to not feel much towards your spouse. The temptations of being with someone new and chasing butterflies will always hover around. I was at a low point in my life and I made the same prayer you did. "Please let me love my husband again". And I swear to you, God gave it back to me. I look at him and see what an amazing person I married. God is there always listening, although he will not be so quick to spoil us by giving us what we pray for each and every single time. I thought everyone should know this.
Tati, my Grandma had my dad in her mid to late 40s and continued to live to almost 93 and met all of her grandchildren because she was a strong badass woman and so are you.
Same…well she made it till 101. but yes longevity! ❤My grandma had my uncle ( the last of her seven kids ) at 46. He was perfectly healthy!
I 100% understand the “not feel” anything. When you’ve gone through a lot of trauma, you tend to build walls around you to protect yourself from falling apart. In a society where divorce has become so normalized - no one really remembers the vows they took and chooses to work things out. Now, no one should stay in an abusive relationship. But, all relationships will go through good and bad times. It IS a choice you make to choose love and forever.
I’m so happy that Tati has gone through the storms and is coming out on the sunshine side.
Well said! 👏🏼👏🏼
Yes to this! Totally agree 💯
I so understan what you mean about "not feeling" anything. I built walls and now I'm alone.
I wish everyone would get comfortable with fertility being a private matter.
Asking about it can bring up so much hurt and frustration in a person.
They will tell you, when and if they're comfortable telling you.
Yes! I agree.
People ask too many personal questions in general. Just because someone is in the public eye doesn’t mean we need to know their personal business
@@Angelaaa1015 But also in real life, just because you're family or friends doesn't make it your buissness.
I've heard so many stories of couples struggling with fertility that dread family gatherings because of family asking or hinting at "when is the baby coming"?
Yep
Some ppl need to hear that they are not alone. I get where you're coming from but also it's a breath of fresh air when someone's idol says "you're not alone" and you hear their story. You feel seen, you feel heard and most importantly you don't feel alone. Thank you Tati for sharing!
I want to hear everything you're comfortable sharing. We were all so worried about you while you were away, and this might sound weird, but things feel just a little more "right" since you've come back. ❤
She has been here for months now lol
Agreed! So glad she’s back!
I agree 100%
@@dylangintherofficial I'm aware of that...
I get what you mean about loving someone is a choice. My husband and I went through a really rough spot 14 years into our marriage. We both worked hard to get back to why we loved each other, and I'm glad we did as we fell in love all over again. I'm glad we got back to where we had been as my darling husband passed away just after our 15th wedding anniversary. We were always in love, but his mental health issues got on top of him for a while, but he found happiness again. For 11 months he was happy, which is all I could have ever wanted for him. I'll be forever thankful that we were in a REALLY good place again, and he was finally happy before his life was cut short. It took work, it sometimes felt so hard, but love won. And it's something I will carry with me, always.
I'm so sorry for your loss Claire
I'm very sorry to hear you lost him xx
So very sorry for your loss ❤️ how beautiful though that you had gotten your love back and had 11 more months together ❤️
I just wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. Going through what you have is one of my biggest fears, and also putting my husband through that because I wanted want him to go off the deep end. I feel you are a very strong person and I hope you find love again. Idk if you have because I don’t know how long ago he passed, but finding love again doesn’t mean your guys love wasn’t amazing and it doesn’t mean your replacing him. Obviously do whatever feels right to you when it does. Again I’m so sorry for your loss.
So sorry for your loss! Glad you have a beautiful love story to cherish forever. Love stays with us forever!
My mom was 41, almost 42, when I was born. There was definitely a big generational gap, but I'm so happy she kept trying and had me and so is she. Wishing you well in all aspects of life but especially the fertility stuff! Cause that hits most close to home I guess haha
My mom was 42 when my lil site was born!
My mama was 41 when she had my brother ! Love him so much and actually my mom and I were pregnant together when I had my first one little wierd at first but loved the experience !!!
I was 23 at the time and IAm 37 now
Both of my daughters were surprises. My first I was 35 and told 15 days after I was told I would never be able to get pregnant I conceived on birth control and had her at 36. My second I was 39 and also on the pill. She was born 7 days after my 40th birthday.
In my pregnancy forum right now most moms are in their late 30s or 40s!
Biblically, the Greek word for love is a verb-it’s an action. It’s not an emotion. Sometimes to truly love someone is to choose to actively love them through the imperfections and pitfalls. That’s how God intended love.
Amen to that!! Well said! ❤️
Wow that’s beautiful . So many of us want to run when the going gets tough
That's really beautiful..thank you for sharing something that is beautiful with all of us..blessings to you for that💛
As a Greek, I want to thank you for mentioning this!
Beautifully said. ❤️
Tati, I’m on the verge of tears with your testimony. I’m going through a rough patch and to hear you share your story in a sense made me have hope for myself. Thank you for sharing this intimate stuff with us!!! You are such a wonderful person.
I will be praying for you! God bless you friend ❤️
I hope you’ll get through it! Sending you lots of love ❤️
I’m also going through a lot of awful right now. You’re definitely not alone 🫂
Same here! Eyes full of water
Someone once told me “Marriage is a daily decision to stay. A daily decision to love. A daily decision to do your best.” So I kiss my husband every night and I tell him I still choose him 25 years late!
Your right Tati, it’s worth the work!
That is so sweet
I’ve been with my husband for 15 years, and it is a choice some days! Tati you are spot on! My husband and I have gone threw some struggles and have had times where we are just floating threw the motions but God always brings us closer together ❤️ when you have God in your relationship it helps a lot
You and Tati are making me feel better, because my husband and I are going through it right now, and it’s hard sometimes to remember that all the smiling photos I see online don’t tell the whole story!
Loved hearing about your faith. It's also so refreshing to hear someone talk about marriage the way you do. Yes you are realistic and yes it's hard work, but it's also not something disposable when hard times come. My husband and I have been married 10 years now, and I know what you mean about love morphing.... it's not always butterflies but if you stick around and work through things it becomes even deeper and stronger. Thank you for REAL content!
what you said about love made me cry. i’m going through this right now in a long term relationship where we’re in a down, i really needed to hear this. love is a choice and it’s good to hear because sometimes it’s true society makes you feel like you have to have the butterflies forever but it’s not true! thank you for that ❤️
Keep strong 💪🏼 because all this movement about needing to be loved, listened everyday (yes i know it needs to be that in a relationship but not as the self development or spiritual movement wants you to believe) that whatever your husband/boyfriend is doing wrong that means, he is not the right. So keep fighting if it is not abusive of course 💪🏼
@@blackananaas thanks ! not abusive at all just going through some stress! we have been together since early 20s so we changed over the years as we grew, it’s a new adaptation and figuring out
Thank you so much for pushing back on the "just manifest it" culture. It allows us as a society to distract ourselves from the systemic / structural barriers that we need to address. Not to mention creating a culture where when bad things happen to people (like getting cancer, which I had at 37), people blame themselves (or others blame them). Anyway, long comment, but just appreciate you speaking up about this change in your perspective.
THIS! I have been going through one of the HARDEST times of my life, and have been so damn hard on myself with asking "Why? What did we do to deserve this?!" Then when I started to feel negatively about our situation, I would get so anxious bc "Omg! I doubted! I had negative thoughts! They will now play out irl!" NO! No freaking way!
We do not create bad things that happen in our lives. Like your cancer diagnosis. You did not create that for yourself! I hope you are doing well. Sending you love and prayers 🙏🏻❤
100% needs to be addressed. agree!
Manifestation is just toxic positivity disguised as spirituality.
@@Catglittercrafts actual manifestation is not toxic positivity in the slightest. and isn’t what social media makes it out to be, you have to put in the work to see your manifestations come to fruition, it’s not just about thinking and saying them, that does nothing.
"Judge not ." I try
“Let’s contour and talk about scandalous things.” I’m going to need that on a shirt or makeup bag, Tati. Please and thank you!
I would also love "Im wearing big girl clothes today" 😂
I can make that happen Tati! We so need Tati merch
Omg! Yes 💯 we need Tati merch
Right? Tati merch is a must 😂
That and as Catherine Echevarria said I’m wearing big girl clothes today would both be absolutely awesome on merchandise
Once you are able to release new products, you should totally create your own perfume/fragrance! All your fragrance recommendations have been amazing, I bet a Tati perfume would smell divine ✨
Omg yes!!! Totally agree
I would love that too! 💯
Tati, I’m an IVF baby! From the 90’s!!! My parents tried 8 years to have me, so don’t give up!! Sending you so much love 😘
The fact that you were praying to love him again shows you still loved him.. you were just really going through it and your brain was saying “emotions! Shut down! Before we have a nervous breakdown!”
Hey, may I ask who she is suing? I think I have missed something.
@@MrsHoneyFlavah you can catch up on Emily D Baker’s TH-cam channel.
The point about love being a choice is a very important reminder, because the moment you chose to love someone despite their flaws and the circumstances around them or the relationship (obviously not in a abusive and/or manipulative context) then that is real love 💗💗
Totally agree, at the beginning of the relationship it’s this rush of chemicals in your brain you feel like you’re on cloud nine. But getting through the difficult times and choosing to stay together everyday despite everything that gets thrown your way that’s true love.
When you’re about to go to sleep but get a notification that Tati uploaded, you pick the only acceptable option. Tati now, coffee tomorrow 😅
Right!!!
🥱😴🤔😲🤷♀️☕
Legit me right now. I just finished watching it. My rooms dark I'm standing beside my bed my husband's annoyed 🤣😠 and I was plugging my phone up to crawl in bed and was like ooohhhh hood on wait a min... 30mins later I'm actually plugging up my phone to crawl in bed lmao.
😂😂😂😂
I’m so proud of you as a person. Staying together is the hardest part of being married. I’m 41 and got married for the first time 5 years ago. We’ve had a lot of ups and downs. I almost left him several times. But thank God we are in a good place in our relationship. Neither of us gave up. That’s what marriage is. Sometimes it’s hard. But when it’s hard, you work harder and sometimes you have to check your ego.
Tati talking about rebuilding her relationship with James gives me hope
SAME
HA
I think sometimes it’s also okay to not be okay together… as we grow we sometimes realize we’re not as good of a match as we once were.
what happen between them both ?
@@natasharamirez2993 did u watched the video?....
My mom had me when she was 42. She’s now like 62 and I’m turning 20 the day after tomorrow. It’s not easy but I think you’ll be able to have a relaxed relationship with your child compared to being a young mom. I hope you have a happy life Tati❤️
i agree i’m 34 and my son is 14 and he thinks i’m one of his bros lol
@@kherr1986 exactly the same situation 🤣🤣 My son tries to act more like he's my little brother.
@@saraho6799 🤣
Emily D. Baker has been covering your litigation, and doing well on her commentary, reading the legal papers. She is doing it justice
Love the vibe in Law Nerd Community 🤗
Love her
Emily is amazing
Once Tati can talk, she needs to do a joint video with Emily. That would be everything!
What’s up law nerds?!
I can relate to the relationship plateau. After being in a steady relationship for 8-9 years, choosing to love is key. It’s not always easy to feel “in love”, definitely something we have to actively work at to keep alive.
Huge misconception, people do not stay actively in love all the time. Relationships grow and change. You do have to work on it, but there are times where you just go about your day and think constantly about being in love. Yes, you can fall in love over and over again as well as not so much. Then you just do your own thing until it changes. I’ve been married for 25 years and our relationship has changed. We still care about each other but it is not like ooh I’m so in love, it doesn’t stay that way. A lot of people get divorced when they don’t feel that anymore which is just stupid in my opinion. It’s about committing to the person you said ‘Til death do us part’.
I just love the down to earth convos. And making sure to put out that "Love is a Choice" and isnt always fun, or nice or butterflies is so important.
I’ve been with my husband for 30 years and this is always my advice when people ask how we make it work or have lasted so long. Love and marriage is not always easy or hearts and butterflies, we have had our ups and downs, but it is always a choice to make it work. ❤️
Love how open you are with us. I miss seeing you and James unboxing PR together. You have such great chemistry . Hoping you are able to make a volume 2 palette. I love my textured neutrals but I can't use the glitters. they irritate my eyes.
day 2 of asking tati for a perfume video!! maybe an updated collection or winter recommendations?
YESSS
Great idea!
Yes pls tati
What I don’t understand is people talking about your age yet so many people are in love with the kardashians and Kourtney is 42 and nobody mentions anything about her age. You’re still so young and absolutely stunning. We all just need to live OUR lives for OURSELVES! Love you to death!
I know this isn't your full testimony but just hearing bits and pieces of how our God has worked such wonders in your life is incredible. Our God is a God of details, he cares about details large and small. I am only 11 mins in and this is just so great to hear.
Be blessed Tati ❤
Amen! So happy for her and how's she's going to direct people to the lord
@@Alyssasixxtillthisday yessss so much this!! ❤
Yesss so happy to hear Taty speak about God😍
@@Alyssasixxtillthisday The lord is not god he's the son of god. Some people worship Jesus and I worship Jehovah the almighty god. So I would find it interesting if she worshiping god or the son. The lord is not god.
100% agree!! What a breath of fresh air!! 💛 Jesus carries us in our pain.
I cannot even begin to tell you how much this video hits home!!! My husband and I have been together for 10 years as well. Several months back we went through some tough times and separated temporarily. I prayed for the EXACT same thing-“God please let me feel love again!” We also put in a TON of work and through counseling, prayer, and support from loved ones, we made it!!💕Thank you for the video Tati🥰
🙏🏼 so happy to read that!
@@blackananaas Thank you! I was shocked to see so many likes! Maybe more people have been in my shoes than I thought😊
I spent Christmas 2019 alone and homeless on someone else's couch sobbing. I lost my husband of 28 years, our home, and so much more...it is a pain that's indescribable and I don't wish it on anyone...I'm sorry you had that pain Tati 💛
I’m sorry to hear about your loss…
I hope you are doing well…
@@stephaniewolf2134thank you so much for caring and taking time to care about a stranger...its people like you that keep my faith in humanity alive, so kind of you..I'm doing better..God bless you and everyone you love. 💛🙏
Lord I'm sorry to hear about your loss and struggle but through all of that u still have love and compassion for others is the true meaning of kindness. I pray that u are happy, healthy, and loved. May God bless everyone and keep us all safe and healthy.. 🙏🙏🤗
@@studiogirl1967 thank you so much..accepting those hugs and squeezing you back💛
@@meredithlinzay823
Thank You!
I’d like to think that we are all in this together!
Especially as fellow makeup lovers! ☺️
Its so refreshing to hear a influencer talk about real journeys and real pain, instead of the perfect life they have manifested for thereself. I think its a lot more relatable and makes me respect her so much more for this. Its also nice to hear someone talk about just having faith and living day by day, instead of obsessing over your perfect future.
No matter what Tati is going through, she's always obsessed with Scott Barnes. Haha
Haha exactly my thought, it’s endearing how much she respects him and loves his work.
Hi! What is the name of the lip gloss please?
I love SO much that you are talking about your spiritual journey. It brings tears of smiles to my face hearing someone else's Love journey with the Lord.
I have watched you for years, and I’ve never loved you more than in this moment. God’s love, grace, and peace is pouring out of you. You are in my prayers. 💜
Praying for you and James. God will make a way when there appears to be none. Be blessed always. XXX
I’m 38 and we have been trying for a baby for the last 4 years. Our fertility clinic has a backlog due to Covid and we’re waitlisted to start IVF in January. For now, we’re just letting go and not stressing over it. So, I’m totally with you on that journey. Wishing you and yours the best, Tati.
One of my favorite quotes on marriage: “You choose your love and then you must love your choice.” That’s a successful marriage.
Such a simple concept and I don’t think I’ve ever thought about it like this before but it’s so true!!!
Tati you should start a podcast. Honestly love just listening to you
I agree!
Me too it's totally like a tv show the Tati show with James and Puka!!!😊
When you left TH-cam, we felt it. Glad you’ve been back. And I would love to hear your side of everything that has been going on.
Yes, we definitely did. I’m so happy she’s back! And of course I would love to hear her side of things too when everything will be over.
Dear Tati,
I just want to thank you for speaking so openly about how you fared in your marriage and how you experienced Jesus anew and what Jesus did with you and your marriage. You are a light and a blessing for so many people and married couples who are in deep crisis. Thanks for sharing this! You are a beautiful woman inside and out. Greetings from Switzerland
I’m just loving the new you. I can tell even through the screen that the Lord has truly transformed your life which is exactly what He does and it’s beautiful to see ❤️
My mom had her last child at 48. You got a long time to go girly. Proud of you and so thankful for you. Excited to hear that testimony someday!
tati, i truly felt like you were my only friend when i went to my freshman year of college. i was two hours away from my family and was with a super abusive boyfriend at the time. thank you so much for all you do, i love you so much more than you can imagine. im so proud of you & your journey. you always have me in your corner 💘
Ahahaha I’m living for this “Tati After Dark” schedule! 🌖
This weekend I was using your palette on my friend`s eyes for her wedding day and i was thinking "when will Tati come out with volume II?",because that palette is amazing and i`m not even into neutrals. She was looking stunning btw.
Much respect for speaking so candidly about your relationship, being in a almost 10 year relationship myself what you said about choosing to continue to love each other is so true ! It’s not always butterflies/rainbows or exciting like kids in the school yard … & you can miss that aspect, but learning to love each other again as each of you grow & change is work & worth it to stay making memories & conquering all of life’s challenges in the end together 🥺🥰❤️
I got pregnant at age 39, after failing IVF and trying for twenty years. I also adopted a child, and both ways are AMAZING ways to get a child.
With adoption, both of you are “pregnant” together as equals and it’s an amazing journey you get to share together. Pregnancy is more about you and your body, while he is a observer, but as soon as the child is born and you start to bond, it’s amazing too. I’m saying this to tell you that children can come into our lives many different ways, and that your own genes have nothing to do with how much love you’ll feel for it.
I hope you succeed with getting pregnant, Tati, you will be amazing parents!
The speech you had about love, how sometimes it's a choice, was so real and raw that it made me tear up a bit. I'm so happy you're back, Tati❤️
Still elated that you’re back. I remember during your hiatus, I would check up on the Halo Beauty Twitter account to see you still being active and receiving positivity, and I’m so glad that you’re able to return to form.
I had my daughter when I was 37!!! I wouldn't change the age I had her at even if I could!!! I'm at a point where I can just enjoy being a mother without worrying about anything else
This was so beautiful, raw, and vulnerable to watch and it reminded me of the Tati I subbed to years ago. So glad I’m still subscribed. Thank you for sharing your journey and I hope you continue doing well
Hi!! This Tara agrees!!! What a lovely name you have 😉
It’s wonderful to see how God is giving you beauty for ashes. Love hearing you share your faith.
I’d love to hear whatever you feel comfortable with and are legally able to share. ❤️ I found you about six years ago and would watch you every day. I’m so happy that you and James are doing better and have found faith in God. I can’t wait to hear your testimony. Love you Tati!
Same here sis. I missed her SOOO MUCH .. I used to get ready with her everyday ....
"Puka is my child." Awwww exactly our purrfect furry children mean a lot to us 🤍✨🐾🐾 wish you all the best for the whole topics you talked about Tati 🍀
Hey Tati, I was 41 pregnant with my son and when he was born, 3 weeks later, I turned 42. And a few friend were 44 having babies. So you can def do it. I'm praying for you and your family💗
My mom was 41 (I’m a science baby) when I was born, I used to think it was super rare but now I know lots of people have kids at that age.
@Amy F I have 3 friends who had babies starting in their 40s, and one of them was just with the tubal flush. Her baby just graduated college 😭🎉🖤
Thank you for your comment. It gave me hope, as I am in 40s and still no babies. Crying here typing this. Thank you!😥
My mom had me when she was 3 months shy of being 40! Completely normal pregnancy, no complications, natural birth, and I was born exactly 1 day early ☺️
First child at 1month short of 41. He keeps me young.
I used your palette on my wedding day and it is still my favorite palette I’ve ever owned! I truly can’t wait to support your future launches 💕
I used it on my wedding day too!
So did I!!
just as encouragement, I wasn't able to carry my first child(several miscarriages) until I was 38 and just had my second a few days before I turned 41, is it harder i think so but soooooo worth it and honestly I wouldn't change it, it's been so wonderful for us!
I was more traumatized turning 30 than 60. I feel so blessed at this stage in my life. Every decade is a milestone in my life. I'm so grateful. Live your life. I can't wait for your baby stories.
Tati.... Chills all over my body when you began to speak of Christ's power. Something very similar happened to me and my husband, but I turned to God and through my act of obedience, our love was made new. We are THE best of friends again. Thank you for sharing your testimony in a scary world that often sneers at such truth. ♡
Amen!
I’m not a person that buys every influencer product that drops but when you released your pallet I HAD to get it. I still use it almost every day. I am a neutral type of girl. The formula is incredible and your glitters are stunning! I would love to see what you come out with next.
Same it’s one of favorites!
Yes, we do want all the details. At the end of the day, we’re all human and I think when you share your experience we can learn from it or just share in the human experience. I know I don’t have the right words for it but I do think it would help us all if you share just like when you share about everything else. We are a community here after all. I love hearing you talk about your experiences and your views and perspectives. It honestly makes me love, appreciate and respect you even more than I thought I could! Nothing you talk about could make me stop watching or want me or you to “move on.” Love you forever. 🖤
Thank you for promoting, working through challenges in marriage!! I’m choosing to work hard in my marriage for as long as I can. I love my husband so much and we are great right now. But even when we aren’t, I’m going to watch this and remind myself- it’s possible!
Tati, I used your palette on my wedding and I have to tell you, I never looked as gorgeous 😍✨
Szia! Magyarországon élsz? Megvámolták nagyon? Régóta szemezek vele de nem mertem még megrendelni :/
@@noramezo8062 szia, igen itt élek és megvámolták, de én még akkor rendeltem, amikor kiadta a palettát. Akkor 8500 Ft volt a vám. A mostani szabályok szerint nem tudom hogy működik.
I really appreciate you as a creator, and I'm so grateful you are making content again. I feel like you're a drop of sanity in an otherwise chaotic space. You're bravery and genuine spirit have always been what attract me to your channel and keep me watching every time you post a video.
I spent m y first ever Christmas alone due to my husband passing on Christmas Eve. Right next to me as I was in the middle of speaking to him. We were together for 30 years. There are definitely ups and downs that you go through and just have to recognize that. As you said, Love is a choice. And those choices influence everything.
Oh Tati, I wish I could hug you. It's not even 10 minutes and I teared up about four times, haha. You do and did amazingly well. So proud of you coming out of it. I am also so glad you have good things and a positive mindset back. All the best, so great to have you back.
Do whatever feels good to you, girl. I'm so happy that you felt well enough to come back and make content. If it helps you to address it to move ahead, go for it. If it isn't supportive to your journey, don't feel like you owe us anything.
Aging is a blessing. Not everyone gets to make it 40.
Exactly
Especially this last year plus, when so many of us have experienced loss that was premature and shouldn’t have happened, aging is a blessing.
Couldn’t have said it better. Give me all the wrinkles. So grateful to just be alive regardless of age.
I got my daughters when I was 40 and 42. You will too. Take time for yourself, try to relax and I personally will root for you. It will happen. I know this. Love from the Netherlands.
Im crying as Im listening to your testimony, love is a choice and when we choose love it breaks open things in us for us that we did not even know or think of, God is love and your message is powerful. Love to really love is to choose love its not based on emotions, we are emotional roller-coaster so if we rely on the emotion only it will be up down and lacking but when we choose it, that emotion is so much stronger.
My mom had me when she was 41, it’s never too late. I wish you the best in your fertility treatment ❤️
"sometimes love is a choice" - YES + AMEN! i so wish more people would understand this. you gotta fight the good fight of faith, it's so worth it. so grateful to have a creator like you to speak so boldly about truth. love you so much + so happy to have you back, praying for you!! God Bless! xoxo
I get you ! Stress hits my body too . I’ve had cystic acne, stomach issues, migraines developed , hair loss, and soo much more . It’s hard to deal with really hard situations without it hitting your body . Especially when you are still trying to act normal . Don’t worry about putting out your issues and what others think. Take time to better yourself and your health because mental health is super important as you have learned . Take these down falls as lessons or openings for new paths in your life . Keep moving forward , you are awesome .
I've been with my husband for 21 years this next year. And I've fallen back in love & out with him so many times. So I know exactly what you mean Tati! It's hard life is so hard! But sometimes it can be beautiful! 💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸💕🌸 Getting older sucks 😭 I can't stand it! I feel your pain!
I absolutely love that you talked about the hardships that stress can cause on relationships. My husband and I went through a very hard patch in 2020 and we were on the brink of divorce. We came back together and are stronger than ever. It’s so important for woman to know their worth and to have a partner who supports them and for those two to grow together and make things better. Being real about relationships can be hard but it’s great listening to you speak about yours because I’ve always looked up to you two.
Omg Tati, I’m so glad to hear you are going to do fertility! I’m sitting here snuggling with my miracle one and only IVF baby out of two rounds and even though I don’t know you I think about you and can’t wait to watch your journey and pray for you and will be so happy for you and what could be. I pray it goes well!!
I did 2 rounds of IVF too. I had 1 natural pregnancy that ended in a stillborn at 26 weeks. Then I was unable to get pregnant again. My 2nd round of IVF produced 2 embryos and my last embryo transfer I finally got my rainbow baby. Such a long road, but I would do it all again.
@@YurTypicalVegasMom702 sorry, I don’t know much about this subject, what is a rainbow baby?
@@sara_ye a baby born after a miscarriage, stillbirth or neo-natal baby death (eg premature baby that passes away)
@@sara_ye it’s a baby born after a loss. The rainbow after the storm.
@@YurTypicalVegasMom702thank you for sharing! I’m so sorry for your loss and yes, IVF is a bumpy road but worth it all! So glad you got your rainbow!
Wow thank you for being so vulnerable and real! It is nice to be let in to other ppls struggles and not just see the perfect sunny side of social media. Sounds like the future is bright 🌞 staying relaxed approaching fertility endeavors is def important!! Will you document the journey to conceiving ? I love those videos 💗
Girl. I love to see how much stronger you've become through all the struggles of the past year. It's good to see your shine again. I hope your family wishes will be granted and that Pucca will do well.
On the creative note, take all the time you need. If you decide to release music at 80 years old, I'll be here for it ^^
I cried so hard for this video. The empathy I feel for the situation is so close to my heart and mind and life. I absolutely love watching your videos and look forward to them. My five year old, Coco, pulls them up on our tv and yells for me to come watch with her. We love you!
I'm so glad you've found God in a way that's personal. I'm so happy you have been able to count your blessings and let go and let God🙏. I really feel like you deserve it, you deserve peace and happiness. So happy you're back Tati. 🥰❤😊
I love how raw and real , vulnerable you are. I can’t imagine the whole legal battle trust me I’m a a paralegal and it does takes a huge toll on clients . Remember God can’t give us storms , situations we can’t handle . We come out of it stronger . May God bless your life and marriage tatis ❤️🤍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Amen God is so real 🙏🏻🙏🏻
That is not true! we need to remember that saying that “God doesn’t give us more than we can handle” is false.... we need God because we CANNOT handle it alone, he is a ROCK and FOUNDATION for those who call upon Him! God bless! 💜
Amen!
Amen!
AMEN!
What about people who die of cancer? Where’s god?
Tati, you haven't given your full testimony in detail yet, but truly your testimony already shines through in your words and life. I appreciate you and I'm praying for you!
Although you’ve been in a hard place, it sounds like you’re doing really great now. It’s so awesome to have someone talk about their faith openly. 🤍
I personally don’t need all the details about the litigation, I’m good with just the quick highlights. Sometimes it’s good to have a place that feels separated from your worries.
The Tati palette is still my holy grail! These formulas are fail proof. I can’t wait to see what you do next.
Same here 💜
I keep hoping it somehow goes on a mega sale and I can get it lmao it looks so pretty but I'm so cheap
I've run out of my glitters...boooo, need a palette with just glitters please!!
I got a faulty palette … the darker browns wouldn’t blend at all… still kinda mad about it
Your Tati palette is still one of the most stunning palettes I’ve ever seen. Always be proud of your creations 🖤
Is her palette still available?
I am wondering the same thing
I think it is!
It is. I just got my second one.
Thank you for sharing that little bit about you and your husband going through and coming out of that difficult time. I'm going through something similar with my husband who I've been with for 13 years. Your story makes me feel hopeful. Thank you for being vulnerable.❤
I pray for restoration in your marriage 💛
I love what you said Ms. Tati, “Love sometimes is a choice…” why am I crying while you talk about this?
Thank you for discussing about this. And yes, God is So Real🙏🏽
Your words are such an inspiration. Especially for someone going through a really hard time. Thank you Tati for sharing this.
I've recommended textured neutrals volume 1 to SO many of my friends and we all love it!! the formula is top notch!! can't wait for Tati Beauty to come back :)
My Tati Beauty palette is hands down the best eyeshadow I've ever used! Anytime I wear a glitter shade I always get so many compliments!
I love Tati, sometimes you can just tell a genuine and kind person. She didn’t deserve all of the stuff that happened to her
You’re absolutely right about love being a choice. Went thru that myself where both my husband and I got numb to each other and were on the brink of divorce, but one day out of nowhere, after going thru the motions, we had a conversation and said so are WE gonna work on this? And we both said yes. No details or anything… just the decision that yes we would. And from there day-by-day we worked on being kind and patient with each other. It wasn’t perfect, but better and there was definitely progress. I made effort and he noticed and he made effort and I noticed. And here were are a year later in a great place and in love again ❤️