guy in vr talks about their worst day as a soldier

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  • @lec4671
    @lec4671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4092

    The fact that the man confessed all his experience in a war towards winnie the pooh

    • @calebh6434
      @calebh6434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      Confess-a-bear

    • @Minutes_Man
      @Minutes_Man 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I wonder what that feels like talking about your experience in war with winne the pooh

    • @Lycanicpotato
      @Lycanicpotato 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Ji Xin Ping

    • @banan9432
      @banan9432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Minutes_Man TELL CONFESS-A-BEAR NOW, N O W

    • @TeenWithACarrotIDK
      @TeenWithACarrotIDK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Winnie understands war.

  • @mixmaster2909
    @mixmaster2909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4596

    “War is agreeable to those who have never experienced it”

    • @DeathDiety365
      @DeathDiety365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Dulce bellum inexpertis

    • @forgotmyname5742
      @forgotmyname5742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      "One countrys hero is anothers terroist" or something like that

    • @DeathDiety365
      @DeathDiety365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @nashaleatpo no one asked

    • @fabricatorgeneralchadius1114
      @fabricatorgeneralchadius1114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @nashaleatpo go away

    • @cameronshultz352
      @cameronshultz352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @nashaleatpo What a pathetic excuse of a god someone who can create all but can't stop someone going in his church and shooting his followers a god too weak to control his emotions and when overwhelmed with rage he takes it out on his own creations good ol lucy had it right when he tried overthrowing the stupid bastard

  • @Nemisis007
    @Nemisis007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66193

    This poor dude seems like he just wanted tell this story for so long but never found the right person to tell this too, until he met vr pooh bear.

    • @sheevhernandez3869
      @sheevhernandez3869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +573

      Yes

    • @maddybennett5871
      @maddybennett5871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1381

      GOES THROUGH A TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCE THEN GOES TO VR TO TELL IT TO POOH

    • @ImWithStupid230
      @ImWithStupid230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Logan Roof ...tf

    • @copingflower1909
      @copingflower1909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      Honestly though I feel bad for him I feel how he does sometimes like when your out there your just a pawn sure you could say that your fighting for your freedom but are you really cause all your really doing is fighting against your will and against a lot of other people who do the same to them and you your strangers who don't have a reason to kill one another but as we do our government can just sit back and watch as they do so now I know I know it's not fair to say our government just does it for a buzz but considering the stuff they have been caught doing after all this time it's not to far to think that way because of it and people are getting tired of it me included what ever happened to putting your people first

    • @thekinghmimidou7001
      @thekinghmimidou7001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      or maybe it was made up

  • @MaunoKoivistoOfficial
    @MaunoKoivistoOfficial หลายเดือนก่อน +224

    This guy is an unbelievable interview subject. Every documentarian dreams of speaking to someone like this

    • @siqck
      @siqck 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      You're missing something.

  • @tylererdman5074
    @tylererdman5074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15509

    The fact that he is using Anakin Skywalker as his avatar while talking about his experiences as a soldier to VR Pooh Bear makes it feel more complete somehow.

  • @goldenpun5592
    @goldenpun5592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16336

    Him describing all the guys in his bunk with obvious neurological disorders... Like those are literally the symptoms of lead poisoning. that's so nuts.

    • @unitedleagueofgamers3633
      @unitedleagueofgamers3633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +547

      Yeah it’s fucked up...

    • @kianchampion9581
      @kianchampion9581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      But why they all had it though?

    • @goldenpun5592
      @goldenpun5592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1618

      @@kianchampion9581 from breathing in lead dust from the shells being fired. He mentions they did an air quality test

    • @kianchampion9581
      @kianchampion9581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      @@goldenpun5592 oh thanks for replying

    • @cheegus4160
      @cheegus4160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +278

      @Logan Roof I imagine that you haven’t done halve the work he’s done and your shitting on him for doing dangerous work and duty?

  • @crayon3911
    @crayon3911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37176

    general skywalker and his therapist the chinese president.

  • @lp_grumpy
    @lp_grumpy ปีที่แล้ว +3378

    "I killed a tree and then two people under it."
    There's something so sad, yet powerful about what he said here. "I killed a tree" is not a phrase many people would opt to use.
    I guess it's just goes to show that being put in a situation where you are made to take a life, just makes you more aware of all the forms it takes.

    • @InVinoVeratas
      @InVinoVeratas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +167

      I think it speaks more to the fact that by this point, he was desensitized or at least mentally trying to be desensitized to the violence he's inflicted upon others. By describing as such, makes it seek like he's less culpable of their deaths, in a way where the responsibility of what killed them doesn't lie solely on him.

    • @TheRealRusDaddy
      @TheRealRusDaddy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      @@InVinoVeratasi think he was just very humbly bragging about his double collateral kill

    • @TrickyLoud
      @TrickyLoud 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      The way you worded this hit my soul. “All forms it takes” also what a great detail I missed as well with his wording choice being so interesting

    • @venomx9973
      @venomx9973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@TheRealRusDaddy i dont see why anyone would brag about killing people

    • @kimpeater1
      @kimpeater1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

      He wasn't bragging. He was distancing himself. He didn't kill those people. The tree did.

  • @Deeplycloseted435
    @Deeplycloseted435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7852

    “I felt like I owed.....everyone, without owing myself, anything.”
    Those words hurt.

    • @spartanwarrior961
      @spartanwarrior961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Its how I feel every day.

    • @pyromaniacforhire
      @pyromaniacforhire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      That almost made me cry.

    • @geezotics
      @geezotics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      how it is in life everybody feels like that once , but once you realize everybody’s opinion won’t deposit your money in the bank !

    • @danramos6192
      @danramos6192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Facts bro...

    • @loganstevens3559
      @loganstevens3559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@geezotics it’s different when you’re in a combat MOS. I was an 11b that showed to my first unit with shattered hips from airborne school that I had hid. Did a ruck March my first day and had a level 3 break in both hips. Spent the next year there in a bottle contemplating suicide because I joined to fight for my brothers and I couldn’t. To me I didn’t give a fuck wether I lived or died. I contemplated suicide everyday because my friends were getting blown up and killed while I sat in the barracks unable to walk. Been out almost a year now and I still have nightmares and bad anxiety over how I feel about my buddies that fell when I was supposed to be protecting them.

  • @polter_z
    @polter_z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9838

    The fact that he’s Anakin Skywalker seems fitting

    • @LsoisoRBLX
      @LsoisoRBLX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      I said the same. Bobba fett wouldve fit too

    • @fries4me10
      @fries4me10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ikr

    • @mitcheymitchyeet1844
      @mitcheymitchyeet1844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @Logan Roof ?

    • @themusicisalligot91
      @themusicisalligot91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Not just the men... But the women... And the children!

    • @wiz161j2
      @wiz161j2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @Logan Roof ???

  • @isaiahthomas6744
    @isaiahthomas6744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4188

    Him using the Anakin avatar makes me think he’s talking about his experience in the clone wars

    • @kingkoopa5807
      @kingkoopa5807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      😳

    • @pondemonium3746
      @pondemonium3746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +348

      It's probably who he feels he relates to

    • @megawarrior_101
      @megawarrior_101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      That’s what I was thinking

    • @nitroon8476
      @nitroon8476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Not the younglings, Anakin

    • @Kaanfight
      @Kaanfight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Especially with the gunship mentions

  • @BlackSeranna
    @BlackSeranna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1199

    As a kid, I was told that anyone who went into the military had it made. I didn't go in the military, I was disqualified due to reasons. I felt regret. Now, I have passed four decades, and every military person I have known personally has some kind of health or mental issue. Every. Single. One. I don't know why the military breaks their soldiers so hard. We have an excellent military, but after the people get out, we fail them. I wish we could help them better, they deserve good treatment for all that they protect.

    • @nickcox1408
      @nickcox1408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

      Not just the military but veterans. They make it seem like veterans are living it up rich as shit. We're not. VA care is a joke and the steps you have to take just to get any type of care of benefits are too much. The part were he mentioned about the guy having the shakes is true. Since I've been out my hands shake so much people constantly ask " what's with your hand?" Almost mocking me and they dont listen when I try to explain it.

    • @WailOfDoom
      @WailOfDoom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Thats because the military markets themselves towards the poor and middle class, uses them for whatever agenda is necessary no matter how hard it breaks them mentally and physically, and then kicks them to the curb after their contract is over. American prosperity is paid with young mens blood. Thats the truth Americans need to hear and understand. Everyone is enjoying the benefits in America, does that make everyone complicit for turning a blind eye to these sacrifices? Everyone loves being the premiere country, loves having more new technology to buy, and knowing no one can stand up to us because of our indomitable military might. Being number one comes at a cost, a cold, disgusting price that is paid every day, every week, and every year. Yet I dont know how to make sense of it morally.

    • @BlackSeranna
      @BlackSeranna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@nickcox1408 No one respects when someone is sick or has issues. I don't understand this. I know that as a young person, I never knew what to say to someone. But now that I am older, I listen to people. It took me a little while to grow up and understand that it is okay not to be afraid of someone who has an ailment that can't be fixed. I remember going to school with kids who made fun of others when others were hurt. Those kids grew up, and you can bet as adults they still do that stuff. It's only when it happens to them that they want everyone to listen to their problems. As you can see, I am pretty disappointed in how people treat one another.

    • @BlackSeranna
      @BlackSeranna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@WailOfDoom Yes, our country's power is run on the blood of young people. There are some things that could change if the government changed practices, such as making guys run that burn pile which spews out chemicals and gives the soldiers cancer. I remember talking to a former military man who said they trained in some swamp land out in the eastern states, but the swamp had been a chemical dumping site for some companies before the laws changed in the 1980's or so. So these kids were running around in chemicals, breaking out in rashes, headaches, throwing up. But no one removed them from training in that site. I don't know why we put our young soldiers in unhealthy situations when we need them to be healthy in case of war? Maybe the top brass figure they are all going to die anyway? But that isn't the way to run a winning scenario.

    • @nickcox1408
      @nickcox1408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@BlackSeranna like dave chappelle said: it's funny until it happens to you

  • @banditdeluxe1310
    @banditdeluxe1310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11582

    This man is extremely lucky that he was emotionally intelligent enough to have processed all this and still be alive on the other side

    • @alectriciti
      @alectriciti 3 ปีที่แล้ว +429

      Maybe lucky, he's definitely strong. We're lucky to be hearing it.

    • @t-posingbobafett6017
      @t-posingbobafett6017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      A n i k a n

    • @dsi-films1264
      @dsi-films1264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Woah I’ve never seen a comment that like, showed this in a way. haha I was about to make my own.

    • @oliviamoose9641
      @oliviamoose9641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I am usually this person telling everyone horror stories. Hearing him talk about all of this just reminds me of what almost everyone who has a combat or mechanical job in the military deals with.

    • @banditdeluxe1310
      @banditdeluxe1310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@b3_w4ter85 if you think that's at all even close to what I said, you should reread what I wrote.

  • @Geogamma
    @Geogamma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5473

    It is both so fitting and so sad that he’s using the clone wars skin

    • @sgtappo2625
      @sgtappo2625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +366

      “Good soldiers follow orders”

    • @connorspenker1745
      @connorspenker1745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @Logan Roof tf wrong with you

    • @limon9614
      @limon9614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      "The Nightmare is over ...."
      Still gets to me damn

    • @thegoldengamer9315
      @thegoldengamer9315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      and its Anakin

    • @keegang_55
      @keegang_55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      He didnt know it yet, but when he joined the air force he would have the high ground

  • @latt.qcd9221
    @latt.qcd9221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9135

    Anakin: "I worked in a Toys R Us"
    Younglings: *profuse sweating*

    • @harlequin2614
      @harlequin2614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      *chuckcles,i’m in danger

    • @zeek3177
      @zeek3177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Fucking epic comment!!!!!

    • @deadeye9439
      @deadeye9439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Now i know why he was fired

    • @ChunkTGreat
      @ChunkTGreat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You win best comment ever

    • @IcyWolfGamer
      @IcyWolfGamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @BlitzkriegHD
    @BlitzkriegHD 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +496

    VR is unironically a surprisingly good medium for storytelling. I liked that at 11:12 he was able to use body language and hand gestures to express the environment, just as you’d do if you were telling a story in real life. Helped paint a more visceral picture in my minds eye for sure.
    There’s probably something to be said about the anonymity of the internet making traumatic stuff easier to speak about, paired with how VR can make a story more compelling or gripping by way of making it feel more like an in person experience.

    • @Maladjester
      @Maladjester 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Separation catalyzes authenticity.

    • @reyoftheworld
      @reyoftheworld หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Maladjestergood psychological analysis

  • @dzaxortpanos6950
    @dzaxortpanos6950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14711

    Respect to the other guy for letting him tell his story uninterrupted

    • @Sephenon
      @Sephenon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      Madddddd respect. :/

    • @Kal-El207
      @Kal-El207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +279

      He was AFK.

    • @jaggerback6568
      @jaggerback6568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +339

      Bro, respect to the lady that sat with forrest gump and listened to his life story

    • @GAM3RK1NG.
      @GAM3RK1NG. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

      There were cuts so he probably talked to him but in a good way. Either way at least he listened.

    • @soruvfrancis6210
      @soruvfrancis6210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I know what a good friend 🥺

  • @Pico_444
    @Pico_444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45606

    This guy: we were literally inhaling cancer and killing people
    Pooh: 😊

    • @MASTEROFEVIL
      @MASTEROFEVIL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      400th like

    • @Rossco139
      @Rossco139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +755

      Oh bother.

    • @muaddib.atreides
      @muaddib.atreides 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

      i am the difference between 999 and 1k likes

    • @armadillowastaken
      @armadillowastaken 3 ปีที่แล้ว +342

      He’s a very good listener.

    • @anuragneelam8527
      @anuragneelam8527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@muaddib.atreides reality can be whatever I want

  • @wearblackclothes
    @wearblackclothes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2270

    I felt like I owed everyone, without feeling like I owed myself anything.
    Heavy words.

    • @wearblackclothes
      @wearblackclothes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      @Logan Roof you're small in everyway that matters.

    • @veeeevo
      @veeeevo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @Logan Roof you’re a weirdo replying to every comment lmfao

    • @soup1118
      @soup1118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Logan Roof ?????

    • @Attack_Pillow
      @Attack_Pillow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Logan Roof You probably failed first grade.

    • @zachenglish309
      @zachenglish309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Logan Roof then why don’t you go out there and do what this guy did. see what he saw

  • @Erelyes
    @Erelyes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2612

    "Pretty sure he has lung cancer and just won't go to the doctor cos he can't afford it" - the American Dream, people

    • @savageraccoon787
      @savageraccoon787 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm pretty sure that's not the quote

    • @moonmarcher
      @moonmarcher 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

      Its close enough to the quote that it makes the same point​@savageraccoon787

    • @wowitsfrostygames155
      @wowitsfrostygames155 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      everytime i hear this statement made this way it reminds me how little people actually understand the rest of the world.
      better to be here than 98% of the rest of the entire world bud. it aint perfect but it is THE best place to be.

    • @MarceloKatayama
      @MarceloKatayama 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      ​@@wowitsfrostygames155I don't think that it is the best place to be. But it is one of the better ones in the world, for sure.

    • @thewiseone2717
      @thewiseone2717 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      @@wowitsfrostygames155 Definitely not the best place to be, but def in the top 20 countries imo, just don't act like America is the best

  • @rumble8865
    @rumble8865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3408

    There's something morbidly comedic about the soldier's model being Anakin.

    • @knox7945
      @knox7945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +292

      I think its fitting, cause he's a war veteran, fighting in Afghanistan where sand is present lol.

    • @mbsb1376
      @mbsb1376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      @@knox7945 And on a gunship.

    • @neonblack211
      @neonblack211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I didn't really find it funny more awkward and unnecessary

    • @seirbhiseach
      @seirbhiseach 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      @@neonblack211 but it fits because the character, specifically that rendition of the character, can identify totally with the struggle and hardship and pain.

    • @ascensionunlimited4182
      @ascensionunlimited4182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      And the whole accidentally firing on women and children thing..

  • @DarthVader1273
    @DarthVader1273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9202

    I know this guy is speaking from his soul, but I cannot get over how perfect his avatar is for retelling war stories

    • @undyingjin5968
      @undyingjin5968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +301

      right lmfao he kinda sounds like Matt Lanter too

    • @alwinvillero9505
      @alwinvillero9505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      it would've been better if it were war crimes lol /j

    • @princeCustos324
      @princeCustos324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      I REPEAT IT WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN BETTER I REPEAT

    • @crnkmnky
      @crnkmnky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      “I hate sand.” - Anakin Struggle

    • @josullivan5189
      @josullivan5189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      At first i thought it was real heavy role play

  • @tenfold4792
    @tenfold4792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12497

    “The AC-130? From like Modern Warfare 2?”
    “YEAH MAN”
    this is gold

    • @bigdaddygibbs251
      @bigdaddygibbs251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +726

      Bro thats literally how they peddled people into combat arms for a good 15 years, hell they probably still do

    • @GhostlyWhiteGuy
      @GhostlyWhiteGuy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +422

      @@bigdaddygibbs251 plot twist: the government is secretly making COD games

    • @xkavarsmith9322
      @xkavarsmith9322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +281

      @@GhostlyWhiteGuyPlay a demo of America's Army. Literally an FPS created and funded by the Department of Defense.

    • @aakashjain4569
      @aakashjain4569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@GhostlyWhiteGuy eh not so secret

    • @jackofclubs6229
      @jackofclubs6229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@GhostlyWhiteGuy Have you seen War games? Imagine COD War games

  • @MickeyKraut419
    @MickeyKraut419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    I wanna thank Syrmor for taking the time to listen to this story. Not many civilians want to hear about the messy parts of GWoT without throwing in their two cents or judging those of us that did the best we could as human beings in very inhumane circumstances. It's takes a compassionate soul to truly listen and gain some insight on how the war went down and how it affects those of us that were there and carry this weight. Big props for putting forth the time and effort to create and share this with the world. It gives an invaluable, unbiased insight into the struggles each of us in the veteran community have with what we experienced.
    To Struggle: Thank you for the courage to share your story brother. Each of us carry scars on our souls from the GWoT and what we experienced. You're definitely not alone in this. Even though I was already done with my time in the service before you went in, my unit had help from your brothers in the JTAC/Gunship community in my trips overseas, they saved our asses on multiple occasions. Don't ever feel like what you did was for nothing or let the bad experiences taint the gratitude we knuckle draggers extend to you. The RoE sucked. ISIS and the Taliban being cowardly enough to use women and children as shields, or even worse sending them to carry out attacks... that especially sucked. So many of our brothers and sisters on the ground and in the air have stories where unfortunately civilians got caught in the crossfire or bad intel or poor comms led to the wrong target or simply having to make a gut call in a shit moment and seeing it go belly up and sideways. I've buried brothers in the years after our time in the war because they couldn't forgive themselves but felt too much shame to reach out. That is the worst pain in the world. Even if you never meant for this to be a tool of encouragement when you chose to share your story that day, that is what this serves as now.
    To Struggle and any other veteran that may stumble across this: Keep being honest about your struggles. Keep talking about it. Peace is a precious treasure for us that sometimes we find hardest to keep in our grasp, but if the veteran community sticks together, it's easier to hold onto to. Celebrate the good memories. Celebrate the dumb shit you did with your brothers to waste time. Celebrate the memories of brothers and sisters lost, and keep diligent to do your best and be your best every day living the fullest life you can to honor the sacrifice and memories of those that no longer have the chance. Much love to you and all those in the JTAC and air support community from myself and all the other knuckle draggers of the 2nd BCT, 82nd Airborne.

    • @xkclanftw
      @xkclanftw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      thank you for your service. In time the sacrifices you’ve made will be paid in the most rewarding and meaningful way possible. I hope you have a great night or day where ever you are at. May god take care of you for taking care of the people you care about. So again thank you from me for the people who didn’t have the opportunity to say it :) have a good one brother✌️

    • @FilthyRamenChef
      @FilthyRamenChef 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      i could listen to yalls stories for days on end.

  • @NerdKnightsReborn
    @NerdKnightsReborn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10708

    "I felt like I owed everyone without feeling like I owed myself anything."
    That one struck home pretty hard...

    • @caldw615
      @caldw615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +308

      People don't give themselves enough self love or self worth. I've been there, always putting others before me to a point I would avoid interacting with people because I felt like I was wasting their time and it would be doing them a favour letting them spend time with others.

    • @lolsbarry2248
      @lolsbarry2248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      same here, these stories always get the tears running...

    • @drek7361
      @drek7361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      him being able to express that is really powerful. Its a definite sign he made progress in processing all those experiences

    • @thelastflame64
      @thelastflame64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cal DW What changed?

    • @caldw615
      @caldw615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@thelastflame64 A combination of things, it wasn't a simple "When the fire nation attacked" where I could point to one single event that made me change my outlook.
      I tried to downplay the things I used to overthink, most of the time all the worst case scenarios I worried about were very very unlikely to happen and I jist got worked up over nothing.
      I learned to accept that as an adult, it is upto me to decide what makes me happy and no one else is responsible for that. I am also not responsible for other people's happiness. Now that does not mean "be a dick and don't care about anyone", you should still always strive to be nice to others as that bit of niceness can really help people in day to day life BUT don't put someone's happiness solely on yourself. That's something they need to figure out for themselves and relying on someone else to be happy or make you "whole" leads to it being draining for both people.
      Self worth and self love also helps a lot when it comes to dating and the types of people you let into your life. If you only love or value yourself 10%, and you date someone who gives you 20%, to you that will seem like they love you at least twice as much as you thought possible. So even if that person is toxic, lies, cheats, manipulates or is physically/emotionally abusive In reality, because they "love you" that 20% you will likely try to cling to that (this is why a lot of abuse victims stay with their abuser because they don't value themselves enough to think they deserve better). If you love yourself, respect yourself and value yourself 100% then you won't accept anything less, someone would have to show you love 100% or even more to really be worth you wanting to spend time together and build a life together and if someone was only going to show you that 20% you're not gonna get hung up on dodging that.

  • @achild6518
    @achild6518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14325

    And when the world needed him most, he returned

    • @birbmess8148
      @birbmess8148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@flandin_ bet

    • @flandin_
      @flandin_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@birbmess8148 dosent make any sense but ok

    • @achild6518
      @achild6518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@flandin_ he hasn’t uploaded for the last 4 months lol

    • @Sovietube
      @Sovietube 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Such an original comment man

    • @achild6518
      @achild6518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Sovietube thank you

  • @mariannenannerlmozart8179
    @mariannenannerlmozart8179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2842

    Soldier: *Talking about his traumatic experiences as a soldier*
    Winnie the Pooh: *Smiling gracefully*

    • @sandollor
      @sandollor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Am I going to be that guy?

    • @AJ-sb1gd
      @AJ-sb1gd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@pastetatse4957 you get used to it halfway thru lol

    • @frostbitetheannunakiiceind6574
      @frostbitetheannunakiiceind6574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      fr tho

    • @kewltodamax
      @kewltodamax 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      PTSD is like a loveless enclosed honey jar that is forgotten on the shelf for years. Sometimes you need to give it some love and let it out and share with the people you love or even strangers, em-hmph-hmph-hmph - Syrmor Winnie The Pooh

    • @justanoob4425
      @justanoob4425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pooh is just happy to be able to listen imo

  • @hellohsaytin6813
    @hellohsaytin6813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    I had a friend that had the exact same thing happen. Young stoner encouraged to go into the military. He came back completely mentally destroyed. Ended up taking his own life.
    I am glad that this guy seems to be coping ok. These stories need to be told ❤

    • @thereal4815
      @thereal4815 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      RIP ❤

  • @Not_Here_Never_Was
    @Not_Here_Never_Was 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6458

    Imagine this. you are a veteran soldier telling your worst day as a soldier in a game where one is dressed like Winnie the pooh and you're dressed like Anakin Skywalker from the clone wars series

    • @Guigao2901
      @Guigao2901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +377

      I don't know how the fuck I ended up in this video nor wtf is this channel about, but I guess Winnie the Pooh and Anakin characters lighten up the mood a bit, you know. Maybe we are seeing a therapeutic use of VR here?

    • @kaimarrelli7180
      @kaimarrelli7180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      Honestly it could be possible that it is easier to talk about this sort of thing in this medium. Not being face to face but still being able to gesture and talk like a human being could be therapeutic. I wouldn't know though I am fortunate enough to have never experienced anything close to what this guy did.

    • @rosbui3242
      @rosbui3242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @silvussol8966
      @silvussol8966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      It’s actually oddly appropriate coming from Anakin though.

    • @NB-or8rs
      @NB-or8rs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@silvussol8966 he killed not only the men, but the women and the children too. Because they’re like animals you know.

  • @TtotheG
    @TtotheG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3670

    "SCORE! They shot at us!"
    Jesus, man...

    • @ffcreation1489
      @ffcreation1489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Ikr?

    • @thefunnycolors
      @thefunnycolors 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      they rarely landed on the FOB anyways. so usually nothing to worry about.

    • @thefunnycolors
      @thefunnycolors 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @History Aesthetics yea. Unless you roll snake eyes or a nat 1, you dont need to worry unless they are launching dozens. Which is why many MRL battalions launch 50+ through 100+ for effect and suppression.

    • @stevendalloesingh1214
      @stevendalloesingh1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yea, I had to pause and process... Hella cray

    • @GLAIVEDEVIL
      @GLAIVEDEVIL 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thefunnycolors Natural ones will haunt me in the military too huh

  • @jetblackthunder1
    @jetblackthunder1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1729

    Tell that soldier, as a taxpayer, he doesn’t owe me anything. I’m glad he’s home and I hope he gets the help he needs.

    • @mailmanwilly
      @mailmanwilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @Logan Roof Real edgelord here, folks.

    • @holdguard4624
      @holdguard4624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Logan Roof Could *you* do any better?

    • @davidreeding9176
      @davidreeding9176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      You all really got bamboozled by this guy. Ignore him, he's just spamming the comments to get people like you upset. What does he gain from it? I dunno but you gain nothing from feeding into his nonsense.

    • @Suo_kongque
      @Suo_kongque 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Logan Roof ladies and gentlemen, we found one.
      A true piece of shit.

    • @Suo_kongque
      @Suo_kongque 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Logan Roof I gonna get you fucking drafted mate.

  • @kapelski104
    @kapelski104 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    It's so nice that video games can be used just to hang out with people and talk about stuff anonymously. Life is so isolated nowadays with social media and dating apps that it's good to see people get their social needs get at least a little met on game servers.

  • @rileygoodenough5000
    @rileygoodenough5000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6423

    Why isn't vr therapy a thing. I'd feel way more comfortable opening up about the shit that's happened to me with that sort of disconnect from myself

    • @casualgerm
      @casualgerm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      great point

    • @christophercarnes5225
      @christophercarnes5225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +262

      It’s still pretty new & most people can’t afford it. Someday though, no doubt.

    • @terrifiedguy2
      @terrifiedguy2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      @Logan Roof bro your profile pic

    • @terrifiedguy2
      @terrifiedguy2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Logan Roof also why were you mean to markliplier

    • @MPEMagnumMarkGamingTV
      @MPEMagnumMarkGamingTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Million dollar ideas

  • @OllyWood688
    @OllyWood688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2772

    _"I felt like I owed everybody, without feeling like I owed myself anything"_ Man that hits hard :c

    • @skrimper
      @skrimper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeh it do

    • @william_ok
      @william_ok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Olly Wood I read that when he said it..

    • @firehazard51
      @firehazard51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      That's the feeling you have when you go to war. The very last thing you ever want to do is let the guy next to you down. Or be the one that can't do the mission that you've trained your entire military career to do. If you can't do the mission then what the fuck are you doing in the military? No one wants to be dead weight in a war zone. I totally get what Struggle was talking about.

    • @cincylaw14
      @cincylaw14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did Winnie the Pooh just jet before that part? lol

  • @UberSeamus
    @UberSeamus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5807

    “I mean it never worked for em, but they tried” that’s a fucking soldier right there

    • @giovannigonzalez6984
      @giovannigonzalez6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      On both sides right ?

    • @calemccartney7415
      @calemccartney7415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

      @@giovannigonzalez6984 my best friend still loses sleep over watching elementary age children walk into crowds of civilians and blow themselves up. I'm fortunate enough to have never deployed during my service. But you need to think before you say dumb shit bruh

    • @kadeerkhan9802
      @kadeerkhan9802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +351

      @@calemccartney7415 the same respect you give your military, the other side gives theirs. Its not like the US military is exactly the embodiment of all that is good and holy in the world.

    • @ksaver8784
      @ksaver8784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

    • @coitushandguns3808
      @coitushandguns3808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@calemccartney7415 And you're assuming that humans on the other side just don't feel? Politics aside, brains are brains, trauma and PSTD don't care what your politics are or where you live.

  • @jamesbhollingsworth5452
    @jamesbhollingsworth5452 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    This video will be a Time Capsule of the days we live in. The future will look back on this as a timeless record of the past, when all these men are dead and gone. This video, a single soldier’s retelling his experience while he’s still relatively young, his body language retained, but uniquely on primitive VR.

  • @Jarebearrr
    @Jarebearrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3266

    The general Anakin skin from the clone wars literally makes this a bajillion fucking times more captivating.

    • @katteisace4563
      @katteisace4563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      somehow i could see the emotion the guy had on the avatars face

    • @noahmendoza8548
      @noahmendoza8548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      It’s actually perfect because his story kind of lines up with Anakin’s in a way. Not that he turned to the dark side or anything but that he had to make some really tough calls in a war that changed him slowly without him realizing until much later.

    • @spacepotato2516
      @spacepotato2516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @Booger Balls anakin Skywalker is the name of the character skin hes using

    • @therealwaterdonkey_4561
      @therealwaterdonkey_4561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Its honestly suiting for this man

    • @DerekReznik
      @DerekReznik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @Booger Balls Theres no way someone commenting on YT doesn't know who Anakin Skywalker is.

  • @wavyhead9
    @wavyhead9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4759

    i was really hoping Winnie the Pooh would be the one telling his war experiences

    • @juelgrace
      @juelgrace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Same

    • @bulliedmaguire8209
      @bulliedmaguire8209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      LOLL ME TOO

    • @birdbrain9280
      @birdbrain9280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      yup

    • @defjulz
      @defjulz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Same, but the attentive Winnie just made since lol

    • @Zloty_Diament
      @Zloty_Diament 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Story-wise Anakin Skywalker fits way better as the story unfolds. Better than a temporary laugh from "that sweet bear telling war stories"

  • @Dawabvle
    @Dawabvle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35025

    Ah yes, the military, “you get to go to college for free, and in exchange you give us -your mental health- everything”

    • @PauhovXiong
      @PauhovXiong 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2428

      And physical health. I’m all sorts of fucked up. Shoulder pain, back pain, knee pain. Yep.

    • @conefiend2570
      @conefiend2570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +731

      Hi Dawa
      Edit: Also My dad said make the military your last option due to the fact how messed up it is-

    • @rayzin7994
      @rayzin7994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +531

      i don’t think it’s just mental health, you put everything on the line

    • @tobazko5491
      @tobazko5491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +670

      “And your literal life as well as your morals”

    • @Puppy_Puppington
      @Puppy_Puppington 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

      Not true. Depends on what branch and what job you choose or get.

  • @guccimalcs
    @guccimalcs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    These are the veterans I respect. Not every veteran is a “hero.” But these types of guys? They gave it all

    • @utena2
      @utena2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He literally said he killed civilians

    • @jsmithy643
      @jsmithy643 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@utena2 "Shit happens in the heat of passion, Jimbo" - Brandon Herrera.

    • @DavidVandemark
      @DavidVandemark 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@utena2that’s war. There has never been a war that didn’t have civilian casualties.

    • @levector2445
      @levector2445 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fighting to steal oil from under developed countries will never make anyone a hero, makes you traumatized at best psychopathic at worst

  • @alexramey2062
    @alexramey2062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7682

    I love how this sounds like a story that Anakin or a clone trooper would tell. And then there's Pooh just *staring. Invested.*

    • @nonamekurtisferrara5156
      @nonamekurtisferrara5156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      I wish I had someone who looked at me the way pooh looks at anakin while he speaks😂😂😂 all jokes aside thank you for your service

    • @mujenkai
      @mujenkai 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      10/10

    • @Muteki_REN
      @Muteki_REN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      kingdom hearts type beat

    • @BirdRaiserE
      @BirdRaiserE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Muteki_REN Disney could seriously hide this in Kingdom Hearts 4 if they wanted to, Star Wars is inevitable now that disney owns it.

    • @justinthompson4533
      @justinthompson4533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kinda ironic thts he’s anakin lol

  • @IMattz
    @IMattz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9225

    This can be used as a primary resource on a kids research paper about the Afghanistan conflict in like 40 years

    • @claytonfilpo
      @claytonfilpo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +273

      God damn right it can. VR is going to change the world. VR and storytelling.

    • @jeffbenzos6344
      @jeffbenzos6344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@claytonfilpo nah

    • @frostedlambs
      @frostedlambs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@jeffbenzos6344 it's good story telling... I dont have vR but it's a good story

    • @eccentriastes6273
      @eccentriastes6273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Technically it probably shouldn't since the guy is anonymous and therefore it can't be proved that he was ever in the military. I mean I believe him just because his story has the ring of truth, but for research purposes there are better sources.

    • @bxmbxr
      @bxmbxr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      there is offensive language so idk

  • @cezarsarman1937
    @cezarsarman1937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9414

    Anakin telling us about his military experience is like him describing his most traumatic experiences in the Clone Wars

    • @JustifyTheseHeathens
      @JustifyTheseHeathens 3 ปีที่แล้ว +594

      Clearly using the Anakin avatar for a reason

    • @EvilSnips
      @EvilSnips 3 ปีที่แล้ว +484

      HE EVEN SOUNDS LIKE ANAKIN TOO

    • @SollomonTheWise
      @SollomonTheWise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +304

      It took me 10 minutes to realize this wasn't a meme, it's not the clone wars. Just the republic.

    • @veryexciteddog963
      @veryexciteddog963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      When he started talking about how he wanted to level the building to a "dirt parking lot"

    • @SleepyMatt-zzz
      @SleepyMatt-zzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was thinking the same thing 🤣

  • @Malluc
    @Malluc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    This video hits deeply in the soul. The utter, horrible reality of war. Nobody should have to endure war. It's so awful, but our leaders will never stop sending kids out to face death and trauma. It hurts knowing that so many soldiers will never, ever be okay again.

    • @doktorhabilitowanystanczyk
      @doktorhabilitowanystanczyk ปีที่แล้ว

      you phrased it like people are being conscripted. in America, world's biggest war mafia, mandatory millitary service hasn't been a thing in, what, 60 years, since the Vietnam War? Americans are joining the army willingly and they do not deserve sympathy for it. they are murderers. join the army and after your tour is over go to the country where you used to murder people and tell them you did it to go to college. I'm sure they'll forgive you.

    • @firebanner6424
      @firebanner6424 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If it wasn't volunteer it would be mandatory. The economic cost of conscription is greater than a volunteer military. Most people in the military don't want to think about the fact that they are killing people. ALso you really think the Taliban isn't a volunteer force? it's volunteer force vs volunteer force....@@doktorhabilitowanystanczyk

  • @nihilnihil161
    @nihilnihil161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2600

    "Stocker... n-not stalker but like stocker."
    Every grocery/retail store stocker felt that

    • @TWOhype23
      @TWOhype23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😔

    • @andrewgradilla7283
      @andrewgradilla7283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Fr

    • @23Butanedione
      @23Butanedione 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Every grocery/retail store stalker felt that
      Fixed it

    • @oscarnavarro2313
      @oscarnavarro2313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Replenish. Would be the word to place on your resumè lmao

    • @nihilnihil161
      @nihilnihil161 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oscarnavarro2313 dang, you right

  • @amandeepbaghiana4510
    @amandeepbaghiana4510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3583

    All jokes aside, hats off to this channel for letting the vet talk about all of his experiences without interruption or judgement like a true bro. God bless this guy and I hope he finds peace. Another case of the gaming community showing how amazing they are.

    • @landonwebb3056
      @landonwebb3056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      POG

    • @COVID--zo3ng
      @COVID--zo3ng 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@noaplaza-gibson2500 i saw 2 and I kade it 3

    • @johnjohnson201
      @johnjohnson201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To be fair... I’m met a lot of complete assholes in the gaming community.

    • @otvant8742
      @otvant8742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@johnjohnson201 Me too but their are some amazing people nonetheless

    • @adamwilson7590
      @adamwilson7590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@johnjohnson201 To be fair, typically that asshole might just be a person going through the "lashing out" phase of something. Where you want to fight everyone no matter what. That same person in 1-5 years might be someone totally different. Could be wrong, but just a thought.

  • @empress9554
    @empress9554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5494

    the emotional maturity he has, and the self awareness, not all have such a good head on their shoulders

    • @amelius0984
      @amelius0984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      some veterans are superheroes fr

    • @Flamingbannas
      @Flamingbannas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      He mentioned that he scored really high on the ASVAB, I can see exactly why.

    • @HLmilkcarton
      @HLmilkcarton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      unlike all the social activists nowadays

    • @Teabonesteak
      @Teabonesteak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Huh!? You hear maturity here?

    • @dinodan2759
      @dinodan2759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@Teabonesteak nice troll

  • @JoelHannock
    @JoelHannock 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I hope this man, wherever he is right now, is at peace.

  • @f-35alightningii79
    @f-35alightningii79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4740

    Anakin: *Reflects on the horrific soul crushing reality of war.*
    Pooh: :)

    • @notleefy9837
      @notleefy9837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      "That's it Anakin, remember what Disney has done"

    • @Bloodlyshiva
      @Bloodlyshiva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Honestly, that boy needed someone to really TALK to. He never really had that. That's how Palpatine got his hooks in. Built trust and molded him. Pooh would be good for him.

    • @lilmoris1
      @lilmoris1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Pooh himself has killed thousands of men...

    • @justsomeone5314
      @justsomeone5314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Bloodlyshiva Is Pooh also owned by Disney?
      Is this an inner-company rant, or is he just telling China all of USAF's secrets?

    • @concept5631
      @concept5631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a -fellow- genocidal maniac, Pooh understands Anakin's thought process.

  • @ChilyCheezeFryz
    @ChilyCheezeFryz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2728

    This, unironically, needs to be mandatory viewing for basic

    • @comradekarlvonschnitzelste8218
      @comradekarlvonschnitzelste8218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Logan Roof ?

    • @tumbleweed1551
      @tumbleweed1551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@comradekarlvonschnitzelste8218 Just report him, he's spamming every comment.

    • @ChilyCheezeFryz
      @ChilyCheezeFryz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Logan Roof I'm sorry, what?

    • @bravo6959
      @bravo6959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Logan Roof imagine being worthless

    • @donotcareatall
      @donotcareatall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What for to scare everyone in basic? You’re suppose to build up their confidence not destroy it

  • @liamennis4516
    @liamennis4516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7359

    I loved this, the fact that there’s some anonymity to this. Not everyone likes to sit in front of a camera and talk.

    • @Astrixct
      @Astrixct 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pls check out my skits

    • @tonyepic8
      @tonyepic8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      @@Astrixct no

    • @captainoblivionthicc1004
      @captainoblivionthicc1004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Alright snowflake thanks for explaning

    • @Nick-vz4oo
      @Nick-vz4oo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@captainoblivionthicc1004 angry man

    • @AlexB731tillDone
      @AlexB731tillDone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because he knows he did things illegal and inhumane

  • @oliverjensen22
    @oliverjensen22 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    PLEASE DO MORE OF THIS. There are probably so many more stories like this and it’s so important to actually hear the horrible things going on in the military

  • @ChoomOfDoom
    @ChoomOfDoom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +875

    Strangely appropriate that he's using the Clone Wars Anakin model

    • @aztecfighter5
      @aztecfighter5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yup appropriate

    • @ocularzombie6679
      @ocularzombie6679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I initially thought it was made up in Anakin's perspective

    • @haydenb123
      @haydenb123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn’t want to point this fact out:(

    • @topdawgpaps5665
      @topdawgpaps5665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      When he was talking about the woman and children I couldn't help but laugh. VR Anakin saying it's not women and children its terrorists

  • @arndg2785
    @arndg2785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4574

    if you want to understand what having PTSD is like, Struggle really captures it at 18:26 when he describes trying to process his trauma. After crying for hours, it is natural to feel catharsis, and after a few night's sleep you'd expect to start letting go. PTSD is when that catharsis never comes; that mental pain is now a permanent part of you now, and your only choice is how you're going to deal with it. It's why the condition is known for dehabilitating some of the toughest people on the planet
    "If animals were to be inflicted with shellshock, they'd go find that quiet corner to die." - Charles Samuel Myers

    • @Jcod_
      @Jcod_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

      I hate that mental issues still have that air of shame associated with them. No one would dare shame a veteran or active service member who had to take some time to recover from a bullet or shrapnel wound. People still try to say that PTSD is some form of weakness. Where I think it really is just as direct a result of what we ask these men and women to do as those bullet and shrapnel wounds.

    • @arndg2785
      @arndg2785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@Jcod_ well said, it's very comparable to a physical wound or scar. I hope people will better understand it over time, too

    • @warriorsofftime2782
      @warriorsofftime2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      @@Jcod_ everybody loves a soldier till he comes home

    • @Jcod_
      @Jcod_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@warriorsofftime2782 I hate that some people have that attitude. They deserve to be taken care of for life from any injury they sustain during their service. My understanding is that it isn't easy to get that and that is insane to me. The cost of a conflict isn't just in the money it takes to buy all the weapons and ammo. It is also the cost of taking care of the people who went to go fight for the rest of their lives.

    • @warriorsofftime2782
      @warriorsofftime2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Jcod_ I feel that, im 11B infantry, but there can be only so much others can do, you have to put on work too

  • @luca.1992
    @luca.1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3830

    Imagine randomly walking in on something like that, some guy just relaying his trauma in combat to Pooh Bear, who calmly listens with a smile.
    Edit : holy shit.

    • @d.a.5788
      @d.a.5788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      @Logan Roof troll moment

    • @StarWarsftw12
      @StarWarsftw12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      @Logan Roof Watch out boys we got a badass over here.

    • @boomblow4005
      @boomblow4005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @Logan Roof Mr badass😲😐

    • @sneakycheeky531
      @sneakycheeky531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @Logan Roof isnt your profile picture an actual baby? he didnt blame anyone not even the people shooting at him he just explained the story and his thought processes

    • @cbhv4321
      @cbhv4321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you see waaaaaay weirder chit in vrchat

  • @swirvin91
    @swirvin91 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I was robbed in a home invasion about three years ago around this time. On top of being robbed I was going through this horrible relationship. The depression I felt afterwards was so visceral. Nothing made me feel better for a while. This video helped me for some reason start to feel better. It was like therapy to me. Thank you and the guy you interviewed from this video. Helped me get my emotions back on track.

  • @upcycleengineer7825
    @upcycleengineer7825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3974

    I started drinking after coming back from Iraq. It definitely destroyed my life. I felt guilt for surviving and it led to me getting arrested one night. I remember sitting in jail, eating this cold ass sandwich thinking how did I go from being a non-commissioned officer in the Army to being locked up. After my marriage ended I went home to live with my parents in worse condition then when I left for the military. I stopped drinking, remarried and I am in school for electrical engineering.I don’t drink anymore and I cook every night. I attended culinary school and its my outlet. Every time I cook I remember those nasty ass sandwiches.
    Thank you for sharing this, every time i hear this stuff it reminds me I’m not alone and I don’t have to walk around like Im in a foreign country.

    • @Vallnerik
      @Vallnerik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      Awesome job at recovery man.

    • @MausOfTheHouse
      @MausOfTheHouse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      This is a good story

    • @StruggleGun
      @StruggleGun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      We’re in this together. Thanks for sharing your story, and thank you for taking the time to listen to mine. We’re not alone. We never will be.

    • @upcycleengineer7825
      @upcycleengineer7825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Vallnerik thanks brother

    • @upcycleengineer7825
      @upcycleengineer7825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@MausOfTheHouse hopefully not one I will repeat

  • @ItsJustCartier
    @ItsJustCartier 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2167

    “When you go to war as a boy, you have a great illusion of immortality. Other people get killed, not you... Then, when you are badly wounded the first time, you lose that illusion, and you know it can happen to you.” -Ernest Hemingway

    • @enzofurtado5737
      @enzofurtado5737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Rip Jackie Welles

    • @ThePrinceofElPaso
      @ThePrinceofElPaso 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I also played cyberpunk

    • @matthewhummel3462
      @matthewhummel3462 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i

    • @dayonbledsoe
      @dayonbledsoe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This was deep bro and beautiful, your mind is much appreciated.

    • @matthewhummel3462
      @matthewhummel3462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      what the fuck i watched this and went to sleep and apparently commented here

  • @aldobg4110
    @aldobg4110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3711

    That part when he feels wrath for the first time and realizes anger has a big brother. I felt that. Wrath is a special and rare emotion

    • @mushfiqamin
      @mushfiqamin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      word

    • @AvonNabors
      @AvonNabors 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Wrath is when you’re helplessly watching someone you love get hacked apart.

    • @keotheus7096
      @keotheus7096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I’m autistic as fuck. I only feel wrath. I don’t get this anger that people be talking of.

    • @jeanaadams952
      @jeanaadams952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      I feel like every emotion has a big brother. Like true terror is a whole other ballpark than being scared. Or how grief can literally bring you to your knees. I remember seeing my sister with self-inflicted scars on her leg and blood and I'm usually a pretty stoic person when it comes to things like that, but the sadness I felt seeing her like that literally made my body drop, my mom had to catch me. I have NEVER felt that in my life, even though this happened two years ago I still haven't felt that. Even a friend of mine who had a similar experience expressed that the same thing happened to her. It's crazy how strong humans can feel emotion.

    • @tojiroh
      @tojiroh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@jeanaadams952 we are emotional animals. Rationality is a veneer. Hope your sister's better.

  • @SerialAnkleBiter
    @SerialAnkleBiter 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +203

    Just started considering military, this set me straight.

    • @TheDormantP
      @TheDormantP 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do NOT join the military, my friend. Unless you want to shoot people.

    • @kyledodson2992
      @kyledodson2992 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      There’s no war going on, so you’d probably be fine

    • @Enlightened_SpursFan
      @Enlightened_SpursFan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Im still heavily considering it. Feels like theres nothing else for me in life

    • @THEULT1M4TEA55ASIN
      @THEULT1M4TEA55ASIN 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kyledodson2992 There's still rockets and shit hitting all our FOBs over there. The threat may not be as clear and present as before, but it definitely still exists.

    • @scrungo7610
      @scrungo7610 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Enlightened_SpursFanGo for it

  • @leecharles3576
    @leecharles3576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8552

    I did not realize this was 21 minutes long...his story telling was THAT good

    • @navonmyhand7999
      @navonmyhand7999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Usually I watch videos like this in 1.25x speed but I got past halfway in the video before I realized it was at normal speed.

    • @skyjr13
      @skyjr13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I didn’t realize it was that long until you pointed it out. Damn....

    • @leecharles3576
      @leecharles3576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@skyjr13 right? I was entranced with his story...and I’m a Wizard

    • @MrTomcus1234
      @MrTomcus1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Cuts definitely help in achieving fluent flow

    • @hokage1997
      @hokage1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Or that the editing is pretty good

  • @darkrealmlight92
    @darkrealmlight92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2336

    He sounds just like Anakin, physically and emotionally.

    • @--cobb--1674
      @--cobb--1674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      It helps that he was an aerial gunner, and ya know, anakin was the best starship pilot in the galaxy.

    • @Mikegaming202
      @Mikegaming202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      He definitely is one that deserves to use that avatar

    • @n.dynz00
      @n.dynz00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      He's telling what happened before he gets the high ground

    • @stevenhetzel6483
      @stevenhetzel6483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No he doesn't

    • @veeam21
      @veeam21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stevenhetzel6483 Bruh

  • @thatoneguy8907
    @thatoneguy8907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2022

    Frickin love how they don’t interrupt him. Like man everyone now adays just kinda buts in to fit a question and crap

    • @Heinz_Stresseinheimer
      @Heinz_Stresseinheimer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Yeah was thinking the same thing. It was pleasing at the least no one interupted

    • @mcp6885
      @mcp6885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What

    • @owenlewis5377
      @owenlewis5377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      sometimes I feel like people are justified when asking a question because they could be confused by a topic. I think that's fine as long as it's not excessive.

    • @dinodare1605
      @dinodare1605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      That's because teachers and parents are telling people that that's the way to show you are paying attention.

    • @Boosted_aj
      @Boosted_aj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It cut at some points. I’m sure they asked questions and helped him talk. It isn’t easy to tell a story like this. It really helps to have someone helping you say what you feel

  • @StoicRageTV
    @StoicRageTV 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    18:45 “Ignorance is bliss” PTSD is real. There is no going back once you open the bottle, the only way backwards is forwards. Sincerely, 12-yr active duty soldier, Army Skills Identifier, Suicide Intervention NCO.

  • @ollienang7253
    @ollienang7253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2573

    This dude is actually a lad for being honest and telling his story. He carries the weight of his actions and takes full responsibility and shows genuine remorse. I wish my future son will be half the man he is.

    • @joshantony2782
      @joshantony2782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@bartb6804 If you have daughter you would hope they would be honest, caring and would be willing to talk with you about their problems just like if you have a son. I would think being a 'man' isn't worth all the hype if you think of some of our older influences are stoic and suffered from alcoholism and being closed off. It didn't mean they didn't care but they weren't the type of people to show affection until they were literally on their death beds. I think it's still a common misconception that men have to be stoic and not show feelings to be considered strong.

    • @brad3203
      @brad3203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Remorse for what??

    • @donovanscheel8947
      @donovanscheel8947 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why remorse?

    • @bridgetb1699
      @bridgetb1699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I hope your kid doesn’t have to carry the weight of fighting in war

    • @quelleion
      @quelleion 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Ameer Wassup bro maybe not look into the wording of something nice? Come on have a think

  • @PoncesPoint
    @PoncesPoint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6099

    Anakin: “I felt like I was dying”
    Winnie the Pooh: “🙂”

    • @zenpai5998
      @zenpai5998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Hey it’s Xi Jinping bro

    • @thebatman4279
      @thebatman4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@zenpai5998 Easy mistake to make.

    • @zenpai5998
      @zenpai5998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@thebatman4279 not really, both are emotionless dogs who eat all the bunny. Why are you stalking me however.

    • @thebatman4279
      @thebatman4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@zenpai5998 Winnie don't eat no bunnies though.
      Stalking you? 🤔

    • @purpledefaultpfp6233
      @purpledefaultpfp6233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@thebatman4279 I think he mistakes honey for bunny

  • @SoZexal
    @SoZexal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3957

    This guy: gets fired from Toys r us
    *Enemy AC-130 Above*

    • @PlzDontbemadd
      @PlzDontbemadd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I laughed to hard at this

    • @idkidk5211
      @idkidk5211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      *begin bombing preparations*

    • @Ariez___
      @Ariez___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao

    • @goochfitness26
      @goochfitness26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Walpurgisnacht.
      @Walpurgisnacht. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😬
      Oof.

  • @cherrybanana8534
    @cherrybanana8534 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Him talking about that ambush and getting frustrated over the slow and tedious steps to get authorization instead of just taking immediate action is SO Anakin getting pissed off with the Jedi Council and their careful rules/politics.

  • @galaxygas_Epic
    @galaxygas_Epic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2182

    I love how his avatar is general skywalker

    • @StruggleGun
      @StruggleGun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      I love how your pfp is Ahsoka. She's my favorite.

    • @aether_antares7761
      @aether_antares7761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      May the force be with you.
      This is, the way.

    • @TimboSlice083
      @TimboSlice083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Master*

    • @giant678playz
      @giant678playz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@TimboSlice083 He was never granted the role of Master, cmon man.

    • @lee.as.in.l.e.e.7394
      @lee.as.in.l.e.e.7394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@TimboSlice083 Take a seat

  • @GeoffPeterson33
    @GeoffPeterson33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3475

    My buddy made a joke about killing himself during suicide awareness training, nothing too crazy, we use dark humor to combat the mundane and fucked up things we experience. I knew he needed help but sometimes you just can’t tell how bad, despite spending almost everyday with that person. I was also struggling mentally but got the help I needed, which is almost a collectors item in the military. I begged him to take the path I did, and I’d take him on Monday to talk to somebody and stop his suffering. Last thing he said to me was “alright Monday, we’ll go to doc”. On Sunday, he passed that pain and suffering onto his family and friends. Miss you bro.

    • @omegaowl2334
      @omegaowl2334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

      Dang bro, that sucks. Sorry for your loss bro.

    • @felixthefag
      @felixthefag 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you made his rough times a lot easier on him, and even if it didn't stop the suffering, at least he had an amazing friend like you.

    • @RPTIDE
      @RPTIDE 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Srry for your loss. Even tho idk you, my heart goes out to you and him and his family

    • @MrJM0B
      @MrJM0B 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      You did everything as good as you could. You were a good friend.

    • @leslo777
      @leslo777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He will be looking down on you, proud of who you are. I'm so sorry for your loss, my thoughts go out to you.

  • @okentrepreneur3777
    @okentrepreneur3777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3509

    Let’s be real if Vader had a sit down and heart to heart with someone like pooh, the empire would’ve been gone much earlier

    • @cobblestonegenerator2183
      @cobblestonegenerator2183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      The empire would improve and the rebel scum would be destroyed*

    • @SQUISHBUBBLE
      @SQUISHBUBBLE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💀😂

    • @gdust6579
      @gdust6579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this is b4 anakin turned evil

    • @okentrepreneur3777
      @okentrepreneur3777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gdust6579 that’s not the point be quiet thanks

    • @gdust6579
      @gdust6579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@okentrepreneur3777 anakin tried havin heart 2 heart about losing his mom and afraid of losing padme. the jedis told him to not be attached. they tried to make him less emotional. maybe if he talked to pooh instead of jedis he wouldnt have gone to the dark side.....

  • @calebhumphrey8220
    @calebhumphrey8220 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My dad was an airforce chaplain at candahar and he’s told us about the rocket attacks- seems crazy. While I can’t completely understand the things you went through My heart is with you and I really appreciate your service and sacrifice.

  • @cmdrcharles6284
    @cmdrcharles6284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7396

    100% of the people I've talked to who have worked at Toys R Us have joined the Air Force... Coincidence? I'm too old to believe in coincidences.

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      WARNING I am the unprettiest human YTer worldwide, but somehow I have TWO HOT TH-camR girlfriends. Thanks for being a future subscryber, dear charles

    • @StruggleGun
      @StruggleGun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +567

      Toys R Us is a gateway to many careers that some would consider to be unnatural...

    • @andgalactus1
      @andgalactus1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      I worked at Toys R Us once charlie so there goes your theory.

    • @mysticalbtch
      @mysticalbtch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wtf really?

    • @Xgckl
      @Xgckl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Toys'R'Us seems like a crappy employer. I know them for their union busting, for one thing.

  • @premiumfruits3528
    @premiumfruits3528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6009

    My CO told us "fuck the rules of engagement, you get yourself out alive and let me worry about the politics afterwards". That's almost an exact quote.
    edit: I made this comment over 3 years ago, but people are still replying and after skimming the comments I think I need to add context, because my situation wasn't the norm
    I was in the NAVY, on a VBSS team, basically we boarded anything we found floating in the Indian Ocean, this was over a decade ago when the piracy stuff was at its peak. Our rules of engagement were to not shoot unless shot at first, no matter what they were doing. There were no civilians out on the water, I heard there was human trafficking but I never encountered it, I think it was mainly further east. Our CO told us to basically ignore the rules of engagement. If they have guns and are acting nervous, they're most likely pirates. Don't go casually killing everyone you board, but don't give them the chance to shoot first if you smell bullshit. Out in the middle of the ocean, there wouldn't be any news crews or drones filming anything, and it was sop to sink anything that didn't pass inspection after we left. Him telling us to just make sure we get out alive and ignore the rules of engagement didn't mean anywhere near the same thing it meant for the groundpounders in the sandbox. There were times where we didn't even board, just to be safe. If you look through binos and see a dingy with a bunch of somalians with aks, there's no need to talk to them, the 5 inch could handle it.

    • @Gofaw
      @Gofaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +521

      Pretty based tbh

    • @Just_A_Random_Desk
      @Just_A_Random_Desk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +935

      He sounds like he actually cares about his soldiers, respectable.

    • @graywatts14
      @graywatts14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +233

      My CO was unofficially relieved by the BCO for not doing that

    • @janchy339
      @janchy339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Too bad you were dying for someone else's interests.

    • @ColdMarty
      @ColdMarty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +500

      @Aaron White Rules of engagement exist to minimize civilian casualties. You know, the people who didn't sign up for all that shit.

  • @Dezzerray
    @Dezzerray 3 ปีที่แล้ว +868

    This guy's Anakin avatar is literally perfect for these stories

    • @edwinsandra5904
      @edwinsandra5904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I mean captain Rex would have also been great

    • @dokucity
      @dokucity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      in every syrmor video the avatar always matches the guest. every single time.

    • @kentuckybruce6816
      @kentuckybruce6816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Notice how he was talking about being on respirators for the whole job? Fits well into anakin and darth vader’s story

    • @betatoast2271
      @betatoast2271 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I first thought he was talking about a clone trooper gunship

    • @nom6758
      @nom6758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dokucity Well, its the people telling the story that decide the avatar that fits them best. Its no coincidence.

  • @Spadiaux
    @Spadiaux 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I come back to this video every 3 months or so to listen to Struggle's story. It's such a tragedy, but the fact that he keeps pushing to this day is a testament to what a fucking inspiration he is.

    • @Jell-o-cide
      @Jell-o-cide ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I come back to this video every so often as well. This is the first story I watched on this channel and its just so well told.

  • @robertleon7107
    @robertleon7107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2542

    The part where he didn’t feel anything after killing was most likely “disassociation”. That’s how lots of people including me are wired to deal with traumatic things. It’s a built in fail safe in the brain to make sure we don’t go completely insane

    • @robertleon7107
      @robertleon7107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      @Logan Roof Did you mean to post this as a comment? I don’t see how it’s replying to anyone here...

    • @EliminateSir
      @EliminateSir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Logan Roof get out of here, this has no room for politics.

    • @bbspooks
      @bbspooks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @Logan Roof imagine being that guy commenting the same comment on every comment you see and no one caring and youre just coming across a salty loser. Imagine that....here's a mirror, might help you imagine.

    • @PKcrash
      @PKcrash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here :/

    • @dustinjohnson7051
      @dustinjohnson7051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Logan Roof that's a rather random and odd comment.

  • @SpecialBusinessMan
    @SpecialBusinessMan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1739

    Why was this story much more satisfying with the vr replicating his hand movements??

    • @Khronogi
      @Khronogi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Body language

    • @zeropointnineninenine4951
      @zeropointnineninenine4951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@丛雨线 lol guess again

    • @zpearson59
      @zpearson59 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And the eye movements are on point

    • @Mustakrakish1337
      @Mustakrakish1337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thought of this too, somehow more engaging than real life.

    • @OmegaRedFan
      @OmegaRedFan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are a nerd

  • @user-mm5ty4lj1y
    @user-mm5ty4lj1y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3096

    Solider: gets PTSD and other sickness’s
    USA Military: damn we kinda not care

    • @wulfkriger3356
      @wulfkriger3356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Lifetime healthcare is sooo uncaring

    • @BallinBubblegum
      @BallinBubblegum 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@wulfkriger3356 there’s no reason to be an asshole

    • @rc59191
      @rc59191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +201

      Grandpa just recently got cancer for the 5th time because of that agent orange they exposed him to in Vietnam. Yet they still won't admit it was their fault.

    • @BallinBubblegum
      @BallinBubblegum 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@rc59191 Sorry to hear that. I wish that wasn’t so common

    • @rat_mikey
      @rat_mikey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      @@wulfkriger3356 yeah because the VA is perfect and has never done anything wrong. also using healthcare and education, something that’s free anyway in other countries, to get people to join the military. lmao

  • @kylekasper6342
    @kylekasper6342 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Air Force doesn't get the same kind of attention that the other forces MIGHT get.
    War is hell. I return to this video every once in a while just as a reminder of how difficult it is for a person to speak about their war experiences.
    Bless you sir, and thank you for your service.

  • @lowercase3635
    @lowercase3635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3477

    In Afghanistan: “I don’t like sand.”

    • @lowercase3635
      @lowercase3635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      I know it’s poor taste. I suffer from PTSD too. But sometimes poor tasting jokes make light of our fallacies.

    • @hummushueiii8626
      @hummushueiii8626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yeah I saw this joke a mile away.

    • @MaxC_1
      @MaxC_1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Honestly...I hate sand and M4s...those pieces of shit are so bad with sand with the malfunctions. It sucks

    • @thepastaprogenitor851
      @thepastaprogenitor851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@MaxC_1 "military grade" truly is a grouping built different

    • @TentacleFarmer
      @TentacleFarmer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      “It’s coarse, rough, and irritating. And it gets everywhere.”

  • @MegaGangsta4life
    @MegaGangsta4life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2562

    Fuck. There's a reason they called him Struggle. That shit sounds brutal

    • @cleetusdotjpg
      @cleetusdotjpg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      they’ll do anything to degrade your self esteem

    • @Oksobasically2
      @Oksobasically2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      In that context it was boot. They do that to everyone to increase stress levels.

    • @bonogiamboni4830
      @bonogiamboni4830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I think maybe that's just his nickname on vr chat. He posted a comment on this video so i think the drill sergeants said his real name and he just swapped it in with struggle to not dox himself. Then again, who knows.

    • @lordblazer
      @lordblazer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      yea they break you down, indoctrinate you into the soldier they want you to be.. that's how's it is done. and honestly they don't even lie about it. I went to the Air Force boot camp graduation ceremony in Lackland AFB, near San Antonio for my cousin, and they called it that. They called it indoctrination. They used the word. Which I can honestly respect that they're that transparent with the civilian public about this process. People rarely go into this without knowing what exactly they're getting themselves into it. That doesn't make it any better though.

    • @giovannigonzalez6984
      @giovannigonzalez6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cleetusdotjpg they hate themselves in reality that’s also why

  • @steliosvagianos8445
    @steliosvagianos8445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2160

    "is it weird that I don't feel anything?"
    That fucking hit me HARD

    • @shadowpeople2645
      @shadowpeople2645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      @Modern Culture Is Doomed cuz military conditions you into saying you gonna kill people so u set up a mental block like" oh its terrorists its fine theu die" until some.fucked shit happens and it all comes back to you like killing someone with ya own hands is different from seeing said person die

    • @shadowpeople2645
      @shadowpeople2645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      @Modern Culture Is Doomed tldr you mentality block the horrific things due to a "purpose" until something like killing civs breaks that wall down

    • @shadowpeople2645
      @shadowpeople2645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @Logan Roof no ones scared of guns numbnuts plus Walmart has guns aswell

    • @HounganJuJu
      @HounganJuJu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Logan Roof
      The Marines would be perfect for you 🥰

    • @luffycenter
      @luffycenter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i feel you bruh dont listen to these people who wouldnt know shit about it

  • @timmytenor1940
    @timmytenor1940 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The VR characters really bring the story to life in a digestible way oddly enough despite the seriousness of what is being talked about. I could see how VR therapy or even groups of people talking about their problems together in VR could be very beneficial for mental health. Very engaging conversation without the anxiety of talking face to face to someone about the darkest places of your mind.

  • @mr.coffee6242
    @mr.coffee6242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1577

    Bro, i was in Helmand in October 2011 as a Canadian FOO/FAC.
    You probably saved my ass.
    Stay safe friend, you are not alone.

    • @Stunnacrew87
      @Stunnacrew87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Hope you are well sir

    • @stealth2811
      @stealth2811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      how you doing?

    • @chefrodriguez6287
      @chefrodriguez6287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I’m enlisting into Infantry as a Canadian and I can’t wait. I have friends who are in the Air Force and Navy!

    • @KahinAhmed72
      @KahinAhmed72 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Stephen Ramirez What’s that supposed to mean?

    • @chefrodriguez6287
      @chefrodriguez6287 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Stephen Ramirez I understand my uncle served. And toured in Iraq back in late 2000s and I just wanna do that and join and do what’s right:)

  • @brodielarocque5300
    @brodielarocque5300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1346

    “I felt like I owed everyone and owed nothing to myself”
    That hit me like a truck...

    • @lachlanwilson6946
      @lachlanwilson6946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hit me harder than my dad

    • @torchdragon4803
      @torchdragon4803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lachlanwilson6946 hit me harder than my step drunk uncle

    • @VagueNaming
      @VagueNaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lachlanwilson6946 hit me harder than the air surrounding me

    • @VagueNaming
      @VagueNaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Logan Roof you’re just everywhere, aren’t you? Do you have anything better to do with your time?

    • @sage9255
      @sage9255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that thinking messed me up in my teen years

  • @shayZero
    @shayZero 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1201

    This is really needed. PTSD is hard to deal with and therapy is expensive.
    But pop on a vr headset and talk to Pooh. Really wholesome

    • @vplgery
      @vplgery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Logan Roof oh i get it. Just say you're racist and a loser 😂

    • @shinsouhitoshi9030
      @shinsouhitoshi9030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@vplgery I wanna know what he said lol

    • @vplgery
      @vplgery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@shinsouhitoshi9030 darn I forgot exactly . Something about the military veterans should go to hell or something like that. But he did have the nazi symbol on his profile pic.

    • @shinsouhitoshi9030
      @shinsouhitoshi9030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@vplgery damn, that sucks, thanks tho

    • @omegaowl2334
      @omegaowl2334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vplgery Some dude deleted his comment?

  • @saulgood6313
    @saulgood6313 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I happen to see this in the algorithm every 5-6 months or so. Watch it every single time.

  • @Screw064
    @Screw064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2534

    I feel like it’s easier to see all this happening being that he’s using Anakin

  • @SizzleCorndog
    @SizzleCorndog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    The fact that his VR character is clone wars Anakin really does add an additional layer to him talking about his wartime trauma

  • @DYZ_971
    @DYZ_971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3038

    This guy: taking about his horrific time as a soldier
    Winnie the Pooh: **Interesting**

    • @grod5998
      @grod5998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @Logan Roof at least he picked himself up and did something with his life lol, instead of posting troll comments in a random yt vid

    • @hithere439
      @hithere439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @Logan Roof Watch it.

    • @TheSpectre911
      @TheSpectre911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @Logan Roof obviously they don't. That's why you're here.

    • @miro697
      @miro697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Logan Roof this man has accomplished more than u ever will

    • @div.agenthunter7856
      @div.agenthunter7856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Pooh: smiling as he remembers ww2 and Vietnam

  • @aaron6178
    @aaron6178 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm a vet on the war on terror too. Struggle did a huge thing by speaking so plainly to someone outside of that world about what it's really like. I can barely talk about my experiences. It's been 20 years. PTSD is a f.cking ball buster.

    • @Deseretian
      @Deseretian 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Israel thanks you for your service

    • @fishticles5
      @fishticles5 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Deseretian you are disgusting

  • @donelkingii3738
    @donelkingii3738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3247

    I was in the military myself. Honestly VR chat helps a lot of us who suffer from PSTD. It is honestly like going to confession for Catholics. Only way I can explain it.

    • @crimsondynamo615
      @crimsondynamo615 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Guess talking to cartoon characters helps get the weight off

    • @van_8
      @van_8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@crimsondynamo615 free theraphy

    • @TheRealRusDaddy
      @TheRealRusDaddy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +142

      @@crimsondynamo615nothing like hatsuni miku talking about her time in the us special forces in korea and nam and all the while cracking jokes and using area appropriate racial slurs against the commies while going on about the countless war crimes she committed and got away with

    • @todydn
      @todydn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Sad that it cant just be a family member or freind in real life as you can see from the one ass hole response people judge way to easily with no real understanding and rather than try they just double down on being holier than thou ive made myself that person to talk to for all the vets i know family and freinds . I dont judge hinestpy i let it all go when the convo is done but i truly try to understand in the moment to show some degree of empathy and i find that goes a long ways i will also keep up with em drinking so that helps lol... point being more people should be like vr pooh bear and just listen

    • @bryan3487
      @bryan3487 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TheRealRusDaddywow thanks for your deep understanding for what it is that soldiers deal with. You ever sign up for a credit card when you are young and don't really know what you're doing. The military is not very different. I signed up because I was poor and needed a way out of shitty circumstances. What you don't know is that your soul and mental health take the place of financial burden. Then you get out and no one in your family can even comprehend everything you have been through, then you find a place online for vets to talk and then the comment section gets filled up with shit heads who don't know anything about serving something other than themselves

  • @Testsubject276
    @Testsubject276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +723

    Serious conversations in VR must be really therapeutic. You're technically there but nobody can see your face, just your avatar, so you don't feel like you need to hold back as much.

    • @Olivia-dg4fb
      @Olivia-dg4fb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I talk more freely in xbox parties then I do in actual therapy.

    • @disknee3384
      @disknee3384 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Olivia-dg4fb because people will listen and doctor won't

    • @sorashou6229
      @sorashou6229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@disknee3384 no, because people gets shy and doesnt lay it all down face to face. Dude by saying doctor doesnt listen is a disrespect to them by itself.

    • @ConnorBP
      @ConnorBP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      NGL I have had some incredibly deep conversations on vr chat. It is pretty amazing. Just being on the internet with an avatar you like representing your personality instead of normal IRL you with all your trust issue shields up can do some incredible things to help lower those walls. When you run into likeminded people or just really cool people in general you vibe with it becomes really really easy to just talk about those things on your mind you may otherwise not ever tell a soul. It is really quite a magical virtual world they have created with VR chat and the community that comes out of the way they made this game is quite incredible.

  • @taxevader674
    @taxevader674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1948

    He's telling a super serious story and then he says "It's like bouncing around in my head, boolooloop"

    • @TommyTombstone
      @TommyTombstone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      Welcome to Veteran humor. We say something really fucked up, and then we have to find a way to make ourselves and everybody else a little less uncomfortable.

    • @BeanKerr6928
      @BeanKerr6928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@TommyTombstone is it bad that that is how my brain works and im only 17?

    • @BeanKerr6928
      @BeanKerr6928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@TommyTombstone i cant explain what ive been thru in my life without typing for 2 hours and i will never understand what you’ve been thru but i can relate to being emotional numb to the point nothing phases you sometimes

    • @TommyTombstone
      @TommyTombstone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@BeanKerr6928 everybody handles it differently. It isn't bad at all, its a harmless coping mechanism.
      And if humor can help someone to get a better grasp on the story you're telling them because you made them laugh, that means that you can tell your story better, and they can listen better.

    • @chriscaldwell4482
      @chriscaldwell4482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@TommyTombstone never served, but I've handled every situation I've ever inconterted like that. I never want to make anyone uncomfortable, so I will even use myself as the brunt of the joke or purposely answer something wrong. I've thrown games in Basketball, and other sports just so the other guy or team wouldn't feel bad. Sometimes it's a good thing but I think it makes me look weak. One time it really did work when I was speaking at my dad's funeral and threw away the speech I had prepared and just started telling funny stories, incidents, and stuff about my dad. I ended up talking for over a half hour, and had the whole place laughing. Thanks for your service.

  • @SpinCrash
    @SpinCrash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    One of the most notable things is how well of a storyteller this gentleman is. He's quite good at it.

    • @k3nfr0st39
      @k3nfr0st39 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Honestly he sounds like a natural speaker and I'm hooked.

    • @SpinCrash
      @SpinCrash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@k3nfr0st39 I think that's what makes it special. Lots of people can't be natural when they are on the spot.

    • @ButterBallTheOpossum
      @ButterBallTheOpossum 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It sounds really good because the pauses in his speech are edited out.

    • @SpinCrash
      @SpinCrash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ButterBallTheOpossum I'm a professional editor. I know what's happening behind the scenes in this. I still think he's good at storytelling.

  • @andrewjohnson9531
    @andrewjohnson9531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3664

    Glad my Cold War veteran father talked me out of signing up after 9/11. Time seems to have proven him right. “They’ll play on your patriotism, chew you and your friends up, then spit on you.”
    I had a deep sympathy for this man. I heard my father cry out in his nightmares, or when he drank, about his buddies.

    • @sleeplessstudios7626
      @sleeplessstudios7626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      Your father is a great man for doing that. I know far too many people who will always talk their kids into joining the military, despite knowing the reality of it.

    • @MDMDMDMDMDMDMDMDMD
      @MDMDMDMDMDMDMDMDMD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I've never heard of a "Cold War Veteran" before, due to the nature of a Cold War and all.
      Was he in a specific hot theater?

    • @andrewjohnson9531
      @andrewjohnson9531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      @@MDMDMDMDMDMDMDMDMD My father volunteered for the draft in 1958. Originally, he was assigned to 3rd Army, 82nd Airborne, but then changed to Army Admin and then Army Intelligence/DIA/CIA joint Ops. Anyone in the know will understand when I say that after he went through basic and second eight, he trained at Fort Slocum, New York.
      He served in the US Army in several theaters including the Caribbean, Central America, but mostly Southeast Asia (in active service and then as a “civilian contractor” while working at TRW Systems while still in the reserves).
      Considering the span of conflicts, I think “Cold War Veteran” is more succinct.

    • @AjninHaru
      @AjninHaru ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Whatever can be said about Iraq and Afghanistan the fact is many American lives were saved by not fighting mujahideen in malls, concerts and schools

    • @kingofwishfulthinking2490
      @kingofwishfulthinking2490 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s not that dramatic, man. No offense to your dad, but the Cold War military was a garrison force. At least post 9/11 you would’ve been able to do your job as a soldier, guaranteed. Now, you’ll live the rest of your life wondering if you could’ve ever lived up to it because you puss’d out.

  • @pibloackbar5420
    @pibloackbar5420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2458

    Vietnam vet interviews: Old men in person sitting on a stool, smoking.
    21st century war vet interviews: Anime japanese schoolgirl.

    • @dannagonetofar7352
      @dannagonetofar7352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Future is weird

    • @Resi1ience
      @Resi1ience 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      It's funny because they're both really awful stories, just communicated a different way
      also, that's anakin skywalker, "anime japanese" dont need to be in the same phrase

    • @bong6315
      @bong6315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      “It’s like one of my Japanese animes.”

    • @thirteen_candles9806
      @thirteen_candles9806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      @@Resi1ience we both know that under his darth vadar suit he’s wearing a cute little skirt and some a button up shirt.

    • @StruggleGun
      @StruggleGun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@thirteen_candles9806 can confirm.

  • @summerwalden9160
    @summerwalden9160 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    was just watching the short preview when your scrolling and got hooked. hope this guy is doing better now and glad you sat there and listened to him openly. i’m sure he really needed to tell those stories without someone judging, budging in and asking questions.

  • @SeaGoingLizabeth
    @SeaGoingLizabeth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1578

    Pooh was smiling but was like : oh shit thing's just got stickier than honey.

    • @49ersfoldem
      @49ersfoldem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Better pooh than Eeyore

    • @butcherybutcher8868
      @butcherybutcher8868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That isn't a happy smile anymore...

    • @austinglass1916
      @austinglass1916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His head barely out the water got me lol