a message to my old classmates.

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 มี.ค. 2024
  • The old Josh is dead.
    Your old view of me is outdated and no longer represents the person that I am today, so please respect that and do not try to drag me down.
    I want to give an apology to everyone for not being a better classmate to you all, and I want to tell you that I forgive every single one of you for anything that you may have done to me - it's all in the past after all.
    For the people who want to reconnect with me, this is my discord username: irn_monkey_15249 (updated version because somebody stole it before LMAO)
    Sorry for the gloomy attitude, it's reaching back into some pretty deep trauma for me, so please forgive me.
    Love you all :)

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  • @purifiedsand3574
    @purifiedsand3574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This shi is so inspiring, GOAT behaviour. Keep going bro you got this

  • @bashbosh7600
    @bashbosh7600 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Crazy, didn't know any of this bro this brings a whole new perspective, hope you are doing good now man 🙏

    • @JoshuaLongmate
      @JoshuaLongmate  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah thanks man, doing a lot better now :)

  • @leilachan5698
    @leilachan5698 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ive never talked to you before but i was in your year and im rlly happy to see that you are doing so much better!!! good luck for the future :)

    • @JoshuaLongmate
      @JoshuaLongmate  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, it means a lot :)

  • @jvlezz3695
    @jvlezz3695 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I went through a similar situation of having no friends for my first few years at school i would go around alone and anytime i had a friend it would only be for a few days as they would use me if they fell out with they’re friends, that gave me a lot of trust issues and anxiety, i’ve only recently in my last few years at school made friends and it feels amazing but i can’t help but think about all those years i missed out on being alone, i think it’s given me a lot of independence and i no longer need to rely on anyone, i admire how you can forgive the people who wronged you, it’s so hard to pretend it dosent bother me as the same people who would make fun of me then have now realised that im actually a nice genuine person and they now try to talk to me and form friendships that i try and lightly shut down, I hope one day i wont feel all this anger towards those people, huge respect too you!!

  • @ITS_UR_BOY_CJ
    @ITS_UR_BOY_CJ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lots of respect bro

  • @user-uv9rr7kc8m
    @user-uv9rr7kc8m 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    well spoken , i struggled in school and hid behind my long hair also, good man keep your head up

  • @jamesthornton3539
    @jamesthornton3539 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I dont know you or anything but this was recommended and i watched the whole thing and i was really glad you've turned your life around and youre on the right track!

  • @luker1630
    @luker1630 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Incredible video I have been thinking of making my own TH-cam channel where I talk to the camera similar to the way you do, this is inspiring and I wish all the best, Josh 👍

  • @redeyeman06
    @redeyeman06 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fair play man it's hard to get this sort of stuff off your chest! one thing I would say is try to never let a girl rule your life ever again brother. They say you are a mixture of the 5 closest people around you and having strong male role models and friends who are wanting to move forward in life rather than stay stagnant will help you evolve as quick as possible! Much love and hoping for your success in the future man!

  • @sparkydthcap
    @sparkydthcap 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    great to see you've changed so much for the better :) hope everything goes well for you man, takes a lot to post this
    - kota (johnson)

  • @captain_kipz
    @captain_kipz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yo, it's great to see things are starting to look better for you bro. Honestly, we didn't talk much but either ways massive respect for having the courage to come out and talk about this, especially with all the misunderstandings and controversies that hovered around our year after you left. No one has any clue what you were going through with your gf's parents and it's nice to see you reflected on your experiences and managed to improve yourself for the better, and I'd bet most of our classmates are happy to watch you grow as a person. Like most of the people in our school that are in this comment section, I'm willing to lend an ear and chat anytime bro. Have a good one!
    - Jiveen from (French) Wellman

  • @CTZ470
    @CTZ470 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    im happy for you, i dont know you and i dont need to know you. i went through a very similar situation. God bless

  • @techjan796
    @techjan796 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mate tbh I rarely spoke to you, used to sit next to you in physics right before you left, glad you're doing well for yourself, respect that keep pushing, keep your head up, it's a tough journey to the top, like parris said if you need to talk just lmk, good luck bro🙏- Jan from Prothero🙏

    • @fronky_
      @fronky_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jan Sawzcuk I know where you live

  • @jacktree6464
    @jacktree6464 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    🙏🏼

  • @Ojaymunii
    @Ojaymunii 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    keep your head up

  • @JoshuaLongmate
    @JoshuaLongmate  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm gonna be opening up my email to people who are in/have been in a similar situation to me and want advice or just someone to listen to them outside of their normal life. It can be with or without video, and it's completely free, just want to give the help that I desperately needed now that I'm on the other side of it. If you're interested, my email address is: joshualongmate1@gmail.com
    Just shoot me an email and we can organise a call or just send me a message about your experience and any problems you want to talk about :)
    Thank you all so much for the support, I'm so glad that this video could help so many people and I hope that doing this will be able to help even more :)

    • @MaxWaghornFanAccount
      @MaxWaghornFanAccount 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Will you ever explain on your channel about what happened a few years back 🙏🙏

  • @tititoto123
    @tititoto123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is BOSS ☝️🤘 don't listen to the haters who try knock you off of your grind. Stay LOCKED IN 🔐🔥🤙

    • @tititoto123
      @tititoto123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this is 🐜

  • @kaffeenate7318
    @kaffeenate7318 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    bro has no enemies 💪 looking much healthier and happier, keep it up king 👑

  • @photixel5821
    @photixel5821 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Hi Josh it’s Parris if you remember me 😭 hope you’re doing well mate honestly it’s good to see you’re doing much better for yourself now you honestly deserve so much respect for recovering from what you went through and it’s good to see you realise where you messed up and we know you were in quite a bad position and nobody really knew what you were going through with your gf and things but if you wanna get in contact at any point just hmu but honestly I respect the positive change you made on your life and you’re doing so well now.

  • @freddietrevelyan8251
    @freddietrevelyan8251 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    just came across this video on my recomended. Wow mate, so much self reflection you should be proud of yourself. Keep going

  • @halo444_
    @halo444_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    we nvr like officially interacted but we used to sit at the same table in psychology, it's cool to see how you've changed!! i was js wondering if u still do psychology?? :00

    • @MaxWaghornFanAccount
      @MaxWaghornFanAccount 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bigger question is if he still follows girls home tbf

    • @JoshuaLongmate
      @JoshuaLongmate  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah I do but not in an academic setting, more just researching Greek philosophy and stoicism etc which is more philosophy but a lot of it comes down to psychology too :)

  • @Cashmoneylord9067
    @Cashmoneylord9067 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    dw man, i forgive you

  • @olihaigh1766
    @olihaigh1766 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    good lad. upwards

  • @millykendrick4164
    @millykendrick4164 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Don’t even know you but fair play for even being able to post this big respect to you

  • @walktallii
    @walktallii 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i gen dont think u know me like at all??? u used to sit outside my form room sometimes and every time i saw you u looked so miserable im glad that ur on a better track now bro keep it up 🙏
    - charlie from johnson :)

  • @fronky_
    @fronky_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You looked like everything was shit the last time I saw you in one of my science classes. It is crazy to see how far you've come. Keep it up! 🙌 - Alex from Prothero

  • @user-pm4dv9db7z
    @user-pm4dv9db7z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    잘 했어, 지금은 행복해. 와, 지금 너무 좋아. 행복하다.

  • @frostlol2561
    @frostlol2561 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    poor from you joshua

  • @vagaouk4703
    @vagaouk4703 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do you know cal? Idk who he is but I have him added on snap, anyways, he is posting your channel on his story..

    • @JoshuaLongmate
      @JoshuaLongmate  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No I don't but I don't really mind. I made this video expecting it to be showed around my old school anyway, so it's not really a problem. Free exposure is how I see it

  • @ticctacc609
    @ticctacc609 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    keep uploading boss

    • @tititoto123
      @tititoto123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      drop music you bum

    • @gciwoodie1078
      @gciwoodie1078 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      When’s ur next upload mate

    • @ticctacc609
      @ticctacc609 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@tititoto123i have the whole world on edge they want ticctacc beat compilation 10

    • @hendak4206
      @hendak4206 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Pls drop

    • @ticctacc609
      @ticctacc609 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      soon guys soon

  • @JDSports12
    @JDSports12 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Happy to see that you're on a self improvement journey, glad to see that you're able to take accountability too. Keep it up man

  • @jakehawthorn2477
    @jakehawthorn2477 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    W josh

  • @fallenWZ
    @fallenWZ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    born in 2007 is wild

  • @RealityHurts21
    @RealityHurts21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I don'r know you and this video came in my recommendations. I find it very strange that you blame yourself for being bullied. No one should bully anyone even if you have no friends/are a social outcast. Fuck them, I'm sure that you'll meet better people soon. you seem like a lovely guy, good luck with your TH-cam channel.

    • @JoshuaLongmate
      @JoshuaLongmate  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I blame myself because that is how you grow as a person. You can't control what other people do so blaming them is an easy escape. You need to take accountability for the things that you CAN change, and not stress over the things that you can't. Anyway, everyone makes the right decision on how to act from their perspective so there's no point in blaming them. If I blamed everyone for bullying me and said I was not at all at fault then they wouldn't have responded so positively to me.

    • @MaxWaghornFanAccount
      @MaxWaghornFanAccount 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It was all for a reason trust me

  • @gizmokitt6491
    @gizmokitt6491 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    three Tickets to minions rise of Gru please

    • @steveharvey8575
      @steveharvey8575 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      didnt you get caught watching porn in school?

    • @thecoolkid1589
      @thecoolkid1589 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@steveharvey8575he did

  • @hendak4206
    @hendak4206 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Respect

  • @triplethreeRE
    @triplethreeRE 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    honestly W from you, i used to just view you as a weird guy based on extremely limited interactions with you, but i’m glad you’ve changed for the better and are improving your life man :)
    - jake from mabbs… if u remember me lmao

    • @gabrielokon-rocha3477
      @gabrielokon-rocha3477 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      shut it

    • @frostlol2561
      @frostlol2561 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      cheers jake from maths

    • @MaxWaghornFanAccount
      @MaxWaghornFanAccount 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jacob Moore Mcarthy I will find you

    • @frostlol2561
      @frostlol2561 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MaxWaghornFanAccountlove that from you I will also 🤫🌽🌊

    • @MaxWaghornFanAccount
      @MaxWaghornFanAccount 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@frostlol2561 slip an AirTag into his bag I reckon

  • @fadeaway6699
    @fadeaway6699 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Weirdo

    • @returnofthemanc9412
      @returnofthemanc9412 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Shut up

    • @K-Dance-Grooves
      @K-Dance-Grooves 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bruh u probably one of those guys who bullied him right?
      Yk hed beat the shit outta u rn? 😂😂😂

    • @MaxWaghornFanAccount
      @MaxWaghornFanAccount 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@K-Dance-Groovesyk there was a reason that he was made fun of. One that was failed to mention in this video

    • @matthewsmith1273
      @matthewsmith1273 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MaxWaghornFanAccountwith a hair band right

    • @MaxWaghornFanAccount
      @MaxWaghornFanAccount 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@matthewsmith1273yep