God would never give you a partner who is an idol! He's not gonna give you someone He knows will take you away from Him !! You are ministering to me so much on this one! Wow. It reminds me of someone who once said "Marriage should do the same thing that your singleness is meant to - make you a better Christian." God has graced you, anointed you and gifted you so much for this kind of ministry. Thank you for this. 🌼
Litha the CreatorTM How deep is that quote , wow. I never want a relationship to consume me to the point that I don't even have time for God anymore . That's when our partner becomes an idol. Thank you so much for watching!
Right now, it seems like everyone is getting in relationships and having kids. I’m only 21, I’ve been out of high school a year and a half. A ton of couples in my church are engaged or newly married. But I’m single. I thought this “everyone is getting married” time would come when I was 24 or 25, not this early. Every guy I’ve had any sort of attraction to has not been an option. He’s either in a relationship, not a Christian, not really my type, or just not into me. It’s pretty frustrating. Even my best friend who’s a year younger than me has started a relationship with a guy from her school. He’s a pastors kid and sounds perfect for her. I’m really happy for her. I just feel lonely. I really needed this. I know I have time, I’m still young but it’s hard when it seems like every around me is in a relationship and my mom keeps asking about every boy I mention. I really want to be a mom and I’m so excited for my future family. It’s left me wondering where is this man God has for me. With my broken family I’ve worried I’ll end up with a guy like my dad. But I know that God has someone out there for me, I just need to be patient. I really needed this. This helped me realize I’m not alone in this and helped me have hope for my future. Thank you. ❤️
Now I see why God let my relationship to end because my focus was on the relationship but not on my relationship with God. I'm now celibate and working on my relationship with God. I'm at peace as I'm waiting for my God ordained husband. I shall testify
'Would you date yourself?" that hit home Rachel!! I live by this short saying.. " A woman has to be so hidden in Christ that a man has to go through Him first to find her" ...it goes both ways.. Any relationship found(established) outside the presence of God is unstable because it relies only on the ability of either of the two; such that when effort dies the 'love' goes with it, Whereas in a God founded relationship, Grace steers- we learn to love the other as far as God loves us, and the security in that is that the Love of God is unconditional, so we also then are expected to love as God loves us- Without Condition, perfect security, only in Christ...
Lulama Manzana Yea , I love that saying as well because you can only love your partner with the love of Christ if you know the author of love Himself. Man , what you said is so true because we sometimes just use our own emotions and strength to sustain a relationship which is why we have infertility, abuse and failure. I really believe we need to ask God for guidance the same we can ask Him for other things in life. Thank you for shedding light on that & I know someone reading this comment will be blessed by it.
so inspired by this, took the decision to be single and commit my self to having a better relationship with God about a year ago, it's a very healthy decision to make ( giving me a lot to think about).....big ups to you honey
Thank you for sharing & definitely need to hear this message! I’m 36 , still single & it very frustrating but I know I have to be patiently.. Galatians 5:16 🙂
I needed to hear this and your two vlogs(celibacy and your story time. I literally had coffee and a warm blanky). i dont even know how i stumbled across your channel but i am already loving it. Thank you for not making women who believe in God seem dull or boring( and YES ... world out there Godly Women do exist), society needs to hear more women like you speak freely of God, I know i am a firm believer even though one stumbles at times (clears thought) but i was just having this day where i needed to hear words of encouragement and godly wisdom and i am glad i stumbled across your channel. Keep us posted on the Godly journey, godly advices, and your beauty hauls.not everyone one will like them and its okay, as long as you know that you spoke to someone and that someone happens to be be.
Olwethu Ndamase Girl , Christian girls are cool too. You don't have to be in the world to enjoy life. But I do agree, I think it's really important to understand that just because you've messed up in the past, God doesn't see you as any less. Thank you so much for the support because by God's grace , I will always be about His business even though some may not understand. I appreciate you 💛
I had to cut of a man because he was coming in between God and I. I wasn't myself anymore. I had to go back to a place where God and I were best friends. People who aren't believers thought I was going crazy for letting go a good man who wanted nothing but to love me(or so I thought) . I am finally in a place where i'm content with myself and with God and suddenly I am seeing signs that my ex was actually toxic for me.
Simply Zash Girl I just have to applaud you for your spiritual maturity because it takes some of us heart break to realize certain things. Just because a guy is "nice" doesn't necessarily mean he's right for you or God approves of him. I mean, looking back, you would've messed up you and Dad's relationship. Keep going and I know God will be with you every step of the way.
Simply Zash I am in a similar situation. I know I have to let go of this relationship. I am a whole different person these days. I really needed to see this comment. Thank you!
Please keep this spiritual series coming Rache, you are very relate-able. Your honesty is very refreshing and you might not know this, but you are encouraging some of us with this series. Thank you babe. God Bless
Thank you for so much wisdom! I've listened to a lot of singleness sermons and videos and I've notice that they all say one thing we just need to start acting on the knowledge and wisdom we have received. Be a doer of the word!
I'm like swimming through you page with Joy in my heart bc I know when I finally sleep tonight tomorrow will be different. Thanks for the inspiration n push Rach. Obviously you can't imagine how you are impacting my life this moment but just know that you are doing just what God has called you to do. God bless you
I love this! Thank you Rach for being such an inspiration. Our newly found spiritual journeys are so similar and it gives me great joy to tune into a TH-cam channel and relate to almost all topics. I kept on saying yassssss!, while watching this (LOL) Please keep them coming. love you lots
lerato namakando I will do that by His strength and I know we're gonna learn from each other. Just be patient with me, okay? I appreciate you being here, and I'm ready to see what God does in your life!
I'm a single Christian man, and I confess every day that I am the Righteousness of God in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:21). I have never been married and I do not have any children. I am willing to be like Boaz but I still believe that the Lord Christ Jesus is greater than Boaz. I have read in the New Covenant concerning the Lord Jesus that as he is so are we in this world (1John 4:17), so I'd rather be like Christ Jesus than Boaz.
Oh my gowsh! Just found your channel a few days ago and I am in love with it already. I've watched all your videos already and I just can't get enough. From talking about God to beauty and hair, I m just in aw right now! Keep on doing what you do and I love you ! It's like I found what I have been waiting for.Dankie!
Basetsana Mokgethi Yay! So glad you found me 😂 . I really want to just talk about everything that makes me the person I am and it honestly makes me so happy that you appreciate that! x
This is amazing. I clicked on this video to change it to vice versa and God has really spoken to me through it. You don't know how you have helped me so much. Things that are happening in my life is starting to make sense now. Thanks for posting.
Amen we need to work on ourselves 🙌🏿🙌🏿 another thing is God will send someone who loves you despite of your past . Someone who sees how perfect you are irregardless of your faults . God will send someone who won't make you feel worthless aswell. Trust me sisters / brothers . Remain single whilst God sends you the best .
Esther Jewel that's really true and important. It would be the worst to be honest with someone about your past, only for them to use it against you or to judge you based on it. I'm glad you mentioned waiting for God's best because His best is a blessing!
This is so relevant. We are the chosen generation and we need to let God use us. Thank you for sharing this, especially in this kind of platform that touches so many people
Hi babe. I have taken a serious decision to change my ways. Simply because i want what God wants for me, and I cannot afford to miss my blessings from God. Thank you so much for sharing this, I have learnt a lot. I used to jump into the next relationship soon as I'd break up with an ex. And I would always hope that, that particular person would eventually be my husband. I had to stop and focus on me and allow the Lord to intervene and renew me and renew my strength. Depriving ourselves of food is really essential as well because we get to hear from God and the holy spirit with no destruction. Being single is not easy, but waiting on the Lord is worth it.May you please pray for me as well, mention my name Mosa Seane because when two or more people are gathered together in the name of Jesus, all shall prevail.Thank you. xo
Mosa Seane This just brought a smile on my face because sometimes we can stand in the way of our own blessings & we don't even know it. So I'm happy that you're making those serious decisions for your life. I will keep you in prayer 🙏🏾
This was such a blessing. I was just telling my sister about songs of Solomon 8:4 last night, how the enemy has a way of presenting someone to soon in your life which you may get consumed by "love" and forget to glorify God because the timing wasn't right. This was just what I needed to hear!
Florence Emmanuel Exactly! It's scary how the enemy knows what you want as well. That's why we always need discernment. Aww , you're such a good sister actually, big ups to you ☺️
Thank you so much !!!!!!! I just recently found myself in God and your spirituality playlist helped so much.I really hope you continue posting more videos on spirituality.
I've been divorced for 15 years. I was in an abusive relationship for 20 years. My kids are grown and married. I have been with God since 9/28/1985. I've been believing God has someone better but it's been 15 years and I'm still waiting. I work have my own home. 15 years, well 16 now with 2021.
What if e every time you pray for a mate the same guy show up but he is not the one if I marry him ill be miserable his mindset is so messed up and he is not a believer ?So many red flags
mimi89 Wow really? Maybe they want you to get married one day but not with your suitor? All I can really suggest is to pray about it . God will make everything clear for you in due time.
God will show you through your parents if indeed they have a healthy relationship. Also anyone can have a husband because some people will do anything to be housed a free life.
God would never give you a partner who is an idol! He's not gonna give you someone He knows will take you away from Him !! You are ministering to me so much on this one! Wow. It reminds me of someone who once said "Marriage should do the same thing that your singleness is meant to - make you a better Christian."
God has graced you, anointed you and gifted you so much for this kind of ministry. Thank you for this. 🌼
Litha the CreatorTM How deep is that quote , wow. I never want a relationship to consume me to the point that I don't even have time for God anymore . That's when our partner becomes an idol. Thank you so much for watching!
Pure rubbish. God is not giving marriage. Men are looking at women and picking the prettiest ones.
Right now, it seems like everyone is getting in relationships and having kids. I’m only 21, I’ve been out of high school a year and a half. A ton of couples in my church are engaged or newly married. But I’m single. I thought this “everyone is getting married” time would come when I was 24 or 25, not this early. Every guy I’ve had any sort of attraction to has not been an option. He’s either in a relationship, not a Christian, not really my type, or just not into me. It’s pretty frustrating. Even my best friend who’s a year younger than me has started a relationship with a guy from her school. He’s a pastors kid and sounds perfect for her. I’m really happy for her. I just feel lonely. I really needed this. I know I have time, I’m still young but it’s hard when it seems like every around me is in a relationship and my mom keeps asking about every boy I mention. I really want to be a mom and I’m so excited for my future family. It’s left me wondering where is this man God has for me. With my broken family I’ve worried I’ll end up with a guy like my dad. But I know that God has someone out there for me, I just need to be patient. I really needed this. This helped me realize I’m not alone in this and helped me have hope for my future. Thank you. ❤️
Bethany Brown Your time will come and it’ll be perfect ❤️
Now I see why God let my relationship to end because my focus was on the relationship but not on my relationship with God. I'm now celibate and working on my relationship with God. I'm at peace as I'm waiting for my God ordained husband. I shall testify
Wow, I'm soon happy for you. I'm glad you're on the right track again & are ready to get only the best from God.
'Would you date yourself?" that hit home Rachel!! I live by this short saying.. " A woman has to be so hidden in Christ that a man has to go through Him first to find her" ...it goes both ways.. Any relationship found(established) outside the presence of God is unstable because it relies only on the ability of either of the two; such that when effort dies the 'love' goes with it, Whereas in a God founded relationship, Grace steers- we learn to love the other as far as God loves us, and the security in that is that the Love of God is unconditional, so we also then are expected to love as God loves us- Without Condition, perfect security, only in Christ...
Lulama Manzana Yea , I love that saying as well because you can only love your partner with the love of Christ if you know the author of love Himself. Man , what you said is so true because we sometimes just use our own emotions and strength to sustain a relationship which is why we have infertility, abuse and failure. I really believe we need to ask God for guidance the same we can ask Him for other things in life. Thank you for shedding light on that & I know someone reading this comment will be blessed by it.
I love this💯 what a revelation❤️🙌
oooh wow. I LOVE this.
so inspired by this, took the decision to be single and commit my self to having a better relationship with God about a year ago, it's a very healthy decision to make ( giving me a lot to think about).....big ups to you honey
Thank you for sharing & definitely need to hear this message! I’m 36 , still single & it very frustrating but I know I have to be patiently.. Galatians 5:16 🙂
She is just so beautiful inside and out. Please don’t change unless it is due to growth. May God continue to bless you. Love you lots.
I needed to hear this and your two vlogs(celibacy and your story time. I literally had coffee and a warm blanky). i dont even know how i stumbled across your channel but i am already loving it. Thank you for not making women who believe in God seem dull or boring( and YES ... world out there Godly Women do exist), society needs to hear more women like you speak freely of God, I know i am a firm believer even though one stumbles at times (clears thought) but i was just having this day where i needed to hear words of encouragement and godly wisdom and i am glad i stumbled across your channel. Keep us posted on the Godly journey, godly advices, and your beauty hauls.not everyone one will like them and its okay, as long as you know that you spoke to someone and that someone happens to be be.
Olwethu Ndamase Girl , Christian girls are cool too. You don't have to be in the world to enjoy life. But I do agree, I think it's really important to understand that just because you've messed up in the past, God doesn't see you as any less. Thank you so much for the support because by God's grace , I will always be about His business even though some may not understand. I appreciate you 💛
I had to cut of a man because he was coming in between God and I. I wasn't myself anymore. I had to go back to a place where God and I were best friends. People who aren't believers thought I was going crazy for letting go a good man who wanted nothing but to love me(or so I thought) . I am finally in a place where i'm content with myself and with God and suddenly I am seeing signs that my ex was actually toxic for me.
Simply Zash Girl I just have to applaud you for your spiritual maturity because it takes some of us heart break to realize certain things. Just because a guy is "nice" doesn't necessarily mean he's right for you or God approves of him. I mean, looking back, you would've messed up you and Dad's relationship. Keep going and I know God will be with you every step of the way.
Simply Zash I am in a similar situation. I know I have to let go of this relationship. I am a whole different person these days. I really needed to see this comment. Thank you!
Please keep this spiritual series coming Rache, you are very relate-able. Your honesty is very refreshing and you might not know this, but you are encouraging some of us with this series. Thank you babe. God Bless
Nosibulele Fana This really made me happy. I will keep going by His grace. Thank you so much honey. I appreciate this so much!
Thank you for so much wisdom! I've listened to a lot of singleness sermons and videos and I've notice that they all say one thing we just need to start acting on the knowledge and wisdom we have received.
Be a doer of the word!
Lausanne Sithole Yeah I've also noticed that. It's important to put action into what we're learning to grow and stuff.
I'm like swimming through you page with Joy in my heart bc I know when I finally sleep tonight tomorrow will be different. Thanks for the inspiration n push Rach. Obviously you can't imagine how you are impacting my life this moment but just know that you are doing just what God has called you to do.
God bless you
I love this! Thank you Rach for being such an inspiration. Our newly found
spiritual journeys are so similar and it gives me great joy to tune into a TH-cam channel and relate to almost all topics. I kept on saying yassssss!, while watching this (LOL) Please keep them coming. love you lots
lerato namakando I will do that by His strength and I know we're gonna learn from each other. Just be patient with me, okay? I appreciate you being here, and I'm ready to see what God does in your life!
Wow Thank you so much for this video. It just served as a confirmation that I am truly going in the right path.
I'm a single Christian man, and I confess every day that I am the Righteousness of God in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:21). I have never been married and I do not have any children. I am willing to be like Boaz but I still believe that the Lord Christ Jesus is greater than Boaz. I have read in the New Covenant concerning the Lord Jesus that as he is so are we in this world (1John 4:17), so I'd rather be like Christ Jesus than Boaz.
Oh my gowsh! Just found your channel a few days ago and I am in love with it already. I've watched all your videos already and I just can't get enough. From talking about God to beauty and hair, I m just in aw right now! Keep on doing what you do and I love you ! It's like I found what I have been waiting for.Dankie!
Basetsana Mokgethi Yay! So glad you found me 😂 . I really want to just talk about everything that makes me the person I am and it honestly makes me so happy that you appreciate that! x
This is amazing. I clicked on this video to change it to vice versa and God has really spoken to me through it. You don't know how you have helped me so much. Things that are happening in my life is starting to make sense now. Thanks for posting.
Amen we need to work on ourselves 🙌🏿🙌🏿 another thing is God will send someone who loves you despite of your past . Someone who sees how perfect you are irregardless of your faults . God will send someone who won't make you feel worthless aswell. Trust me sisters / brothers . Remain single whilst God sends you the best .
Esther Jewel that's really true and important. It would be the worst to be honest with someone about your past, only for them to use it against you or to judge you based on it. I'm glad you mentioned waiting for God's best because His best is a blessing!
ForeverRachel amen 🙏🏾 all I know is the one chosen for us will love us despite our shortcomings ❤️❤️❤️
This is so relevant. We are the chosen generation and we need to let God use us. Thank you for sharing this, especially in this kind of platform that touches so many people
Lwandisa Shezi I couldn't agree more. We are His ambassadors & though we are not perfect, we always have to talk about Him
You are a blessing. I know I comment on all of your religious videos but they all speak so much to me. Thank you so much for the initiative.
Asandiswa Shange I thank God . I'm so glad they mean something to you 🙏🏾
This is an awesome message and well needed!💗 You're inspirational!
Loved this video! There was honestly such wisdom here
ZeeXOnline Hey beautiful. Thank you so much for watching babe 😘
Hi babe. I have taken a serious decision to change my ways. Simply because i want what God wants for me, and I cannot afford to miss my blessings from God. Thank you so much for sharing this, I have learnt a lot. I used to jump into the next relationship soon as I'd break up with an ex. And I would always hope that, that particular person would eventually be my husband. I had to stop and focus on me and allow the Lord to intervene and renew me and renew my strength. Depriving ourselves of food is really essential as well because we get to hear from God and the holy spirit with no destruction. Being single is not easy, but waiting on the Lord is worth it.May you please pray for me as well, mention my name Mosa Seane because when two or more people are gathered together in the name of Jesus, all shall prevail.Thank you. xo
Mosa Seane This just brought a smile on my face because sometimes we can stand in the way of our own blessings & we don't even know it. So I'm happy that you're making those serious decisions for your life. I will keep you in prayer 🙏🏾
thank you..
This was such a blessing. I was just telling my sister about songs of Solomon 8:4 last night, how the enemy has a way of presenting someone to soon in your life which you may get consumed by "love" and forget to glorify God because the timing wasn't right. This was just what I needed to hear!
Florence Emmanuel Exactly! It's scary how the enemy knows what you want as well. That's why we always need discernment. Aww , you're such a good sister actually, big ups to you ☺️
Thank you so much !!!!!!! I just recently found myself in God and your spirituality playlist helped so much.I really hope you continue posting more videos on spirituality.
This is such a Beautiful Message. Thank You SO Much and stay Blessed!!!
Anytime! Stay blessed beautiful.
Honestly you just changed my life ♥, love you forever!!!!
Girl preach I am so happy I came across this video. So much wisdom shared I have learned a lot ❤
Nokwanda Mchunu Hey pretty. Thank you so much for stopping by 🖤 I hope you were encouraged.
I loveee all your content couldn't resist subscription immediately
Welcome! 🙂
I am not single but will be passing this on to my single ladies. X
Love you baby❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️God bless you and give you Moore wisdom..xx
Priah G Wow! Thank you P , so sweet of you. God bless you too 💛
I've been divorced for 15 years. I was in an abusive relationship for 20 years. My kids are grown and married. I have been with God since 9/28/1985.
I've been believing God has someone better but it's been 15 years and I'm still waiting. I work have my own home.
15 years, well 16 now with 2021.
You blessed me with this word, sis. Thank you!!!
The verse is James 1:17 for anyone looking for it
Franca Omo Yes that's the scripture , I thought I inserted in the video! Oops . Thanks for that x
Thanks
The. lord .Brought..Me .A. Beautiful. Christian. Lady..This. Took. 37. Hard..Years. Ive. Had. So. Much. Opposition. But .God..Put. This. .Relationship. Together. Boy. The. Way. I .A. Man. I. said. Things. I. Asked. Her. Forgiveness. She. is. From. Another. Country. But. The. Lord. Said. She. is. Beautiful. Im .Truly. Blessed
Joe Halecki Glory to God
This really hit home!!!! Thank you!
I'm in love with this channel
sweethartia Yay! So happy to hear that 👏🏾
Really needed to hear this. Thanks lovey 💖
Tsebo Themba Thank God . Anytime babe 💚
This was such an eye opener. Thank you
Katlego Nakedi Girl God works and speaks in mysterious ways . I'm glad you got something out of it 🙏🏾
so much wisdom ..Thank you Angel .
Phumie Gee And thank you for watching honey.
I love your accent, are you from Zimbabwe?
keep them coming honey! love it!
Amanda Mimz By His grace I will 😬
What if e every time you pray for a mate the same guy show up but he is not the one if I marry him ill be miserable his mindset is so messed up and he is not a believer ?So many red flags
Is it weird that I like before I watch
Minnie Teba Haha you're the real MVP. Thank you 😬
Thank you for this!!
I know a woman whose mortgage was $2000 a month and she told me that her husband was not putting a dime towards the mortgage.
That man goes to church.
Nice video sister, definitely helped me :) 💝
I'm happy to hear that angel. Thanks for watching! x
Forever Rachel I trust in the Lord that you are married to your Boaz
I have a problem my parents won't allow me to get married even though I have a suitor what shall I do
mimi89 Wow really? Maybe they want you to get married one day but not with your suitor? All I can really suggest is to pray about it . God will make everything clear for you in due time.
New subbie :) Awesome video!!! ❤️
i love u so much i wish i can have a day to spend with you so you can encourage me to move on with my life and focus on working for God
Aww! Well for now, my DM's and email are always open for you, okay?
ForeverRachel hi Rachel my email address is cwayita.qutu@yahoo.com looking forward to chat with u I have alot that I need to learn from u
❤❤ Thank You
sandisiwe manxiwa 💚
comforting
Thank you!!!!
AfriScents Thank you for watching honey ☺️
God will show you through your parents if indeed they have a healthy relationship. Also anyone can have a husband because some people will do anything to be housed a free life.
I love you😘😘
Reitumetse Mashiane Aww , love you x
Love your accent
Kanyin Xo Haha OMG 😂 thank you
I love you dear
this is a weird comment but you have nice lips👄👄👄👄