16year old is a child and should not be dating an adult. If children are dating each other, that is different but children should not be dating adults. I do not agree with Tope on this.
BeeCee it’s not really like that, people date for years without “collecting” or “giving,” yet financial support could be given based on trust and conviction. People are able to actually set boundaries regarding their dating/courtship and stick to it.
@@jumokeadetoun7127 That is true in what we can call ideal circumstances but where poverty reigns and the government has rendered the parents ignorant or useless then we find some 16 year olds growing up quite quickly and use their brains 🧠 bodies and beauty to get ahead in life. Esther in the bible used her body to help her family and people, we do not know how old Esther was
@@whiteliberty4492 hmmn... even at un-ideal circumstances, a child should not be under pressure or encouraged to engage in funding the family expenses. It is a misplacement of priority.. a child did not choose to be born and so should not be saddled with parenting duties! Parents choose to give birth. We understand that economy is bad, parenting responsibility would devise ways to circumvent economic hardship through dignified ventures to fend for the child. As for Esther, it was not her body but her grace. We know that age was not stated when she got married to the King, she definitely did on the acceptable age of marriage in their time. If this girl child in question here was said to be married at her age of 16, still it will be subject of discussion because maturity age is set at 18years in Nigeria. It shall be well with our generation when we get parenting responsibilities right.
One thing you people need to know about this show is that the ladies deliberately hold different views so the show can be balanced. They all can't sleep and face the same side. The show would even be boring.
Becee is always on point. A very intelligent and real woman
16year old is a child and should not be dating an adult. If children are dating each other, that is different but children should not be dating adults. I do not agree with Tope on this.
BeeCee it’s not really like that, people date for years without “collecting” or “giving,” yet financial support could be given based on trust and conviction. People are able to actually set boundaries regarding their dating/courtship and stick to it.
16 year old girl should be involved in activities that will lead her to knowing herself, to discover her feminity and her identity not dating!
@@jumokeadetoun7127 That is true in what we can call ideal circumstances but where poverty reigns and the government has rendered the parents ignorant or useless then we find some 16 year olds growing up quite quickly and use their brains 🧠 bodies and beauty to get ahead in life.
Esther in the bible used her body to help her family and people, we do not know how old Esther was
@@whiteliberty4492 hmmn... even at un-ideal circumstances, a child should not be under pressure or encouraged to engage in funding the family expenses. It is a misplacement of priority.. a child did not choose to be born and so should not be saddled with parenting duties! Parents choose to give birth.
We understand that economy is bad, parenting responsibility would devise ways to circumvent economic hardship through dignified ventures to fend for the child.
As for Esther, it was not her body but her grace. We know that age was not stated when she got married to the King, she definitely did on the acceptable age of marriage in their time. If this girl child in question here was said to be married at her age of 16, still it will be subject of discussion because maturity age is set at 18years in Nigeria.
It shall be well with our generation when we get parenting responsibilities right.
God bless u beecee. I feel u
Tope is correct and it happens in our society do not involve sentiment in it please
Abeg what is Tope saying today???
I love your view
Ramatu is not beingb realistic here abeg. Hausa where de marry quick which kind yeye marriage is that? There is no difference ma.
Or rather it is you that is being stereotypical. So because she is Hausa she shouldn't have a different perspective?
Am disappointed with Tope.
😂😂😂💔 person that doesn't know if you exist or not!! That one na for your pocket
Why? She is expressing her own opinion abeg
Tope is very very on point today. Listen to her well oga
One thing you people need to know about this show is that the ladies deliberately hold different views so the show can be balanced. They all can't sleep and face the same side. The show would even be boring.
Tope is talking nonsense
I think 🤔 Tope is making a lot of sense, different strokes for different folks, one man’s food is another man’s poison
No I don’t think so, if it doesn’t fit your narrative, it doesn’t become nonsense abeg
She is actually very right. Not true for many. Some of us had to grow up really quickly, depends of your family situation/circumstances