I also feel bad for yeosang but at the same time I feel bad for san because it seems to me that san is being attacked and also this breaks my heart because san was quite for a while like he was sad and other things but I do love all members equally ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I can empathize with the three of them Wooyoung is naturally a friendly person so I mean it’s easy for him to make friends and get close to them for his friendship with San based on videos and pictures he looks closer to him than yeosang he’s always with him gravitates to him more like they are always together I mean friendship isn’t determined by how long you know a person but by the bond. However for yeosang I can understand why he did what he did I mean it’s a group he wants to be the same with everyone and not show favoritism (that’s literally what woo and San always does and that’s fine for them but yeosang isn’t like that) he knows that woo is his best friend/friend so OF COURSE it’s going to hurt seeing his friend get closer to someone else. Now for San he just made a friend that turnt into his best friend there is nothing wrong with that 🤷🏽♀️
jungho comes off very emotionally intelligent and eloquent here. I'm sure Yeosang is too, poor thing, I think he just finds it a bit more difficult to openly express himself. He said he wasn't sad, but pretty sure he was, I'd be sad too.
Bcz he felt guilty I think I was in the same situation one time ... here u just don't want to be the main reason.. that your best friends arguing or feeling sad because of you It's hurt uk
Ofc lmao I felt exactly what all three of them felt. In my eyes here, San seemed very embarassed but you could tell he sorta felt sad thinking about woosang being close again after the thingy was addressed. San is way too attached to Woo, he sorta wants him all to himself. They're both codependent on e/o one way or the other and i feel him. (Though I know it's wrong myself) That's is natural to feel sometimes, you get carried on unknowingly. But this whole discussion just had to be done. One must not be selfish too and try to see stuff from other's pov ksksjs idk what I was tryna prove here I'm sleep deprived and tired from crying lol-
I have the type of character like woo (extrovert). The people like us need for some honest clarification or sharing our feeling for know each other more. If they didn't sharing their feeling for us, the type like me or woo didn't understand what's going on with this. This like, we aren't sensitive enough, it's really so hard to the type of character like us to understand what's going on if he/she didn't talked about their feeling, seriously this is so hard even if we thinking about this all night and even this will missunderstanding for the other problematic things like in the video. we need some honest clarification or sharing for the other feeling like they do in the video.. that's why joong,yunho,jongho,san,mingi and seonghwa know about yeosang feeling but woo didn't know about it cause his character is like that, he didn't sensitive enough. Almost of the extrovert people absolutely like that. And woo is the extrovert ones. I know it's hard for the introvert people to become honest on their feeling but let's just try it, try to trust your friend more that he/she really love you and always accept you whatever your feeling to him/her.. the real friend always try to understand character of each other, and try to clearing or sharing their feeling to each other.. ❤
@@babypink2569 thank you for saying this, this is me. I felt a bit offended reading the comment but also understood. I've told my sister a few times before that I wouldn't know what's going on in a person's mind if they don't say it to me directly regarding any misunderstanding etc etc. I keep thinking about what may be wrong bc the person seems off, and then it frustrates me. I'm glad someone understands!
Thats true but then again its not woos fault either. It was just a big misunderstanding they both had woo thought yeosang didnt care about him as much and found someone he can be more open too while yeosang just wanted to make sure the members didnt feel intimated by them. So i just know if they had better communication skills this wouldve never happen but im also glad it happened earlier then later and it also helped them learn and understand eachother more.
@@babypink2569 omg this is so good thankx for explanation btw I'm introvert I same mbta with yeosang don't like sharing ppl what I like or I hate I'm always normal idk what I do where I beginning I can't even share my family how about another ppl or besties such idiot person
And that's credited to the fact they talked it out and were very mature about things. I'm sure San felt bad because he probably didn't even realize how it was affecting Yeosang. But since they brought it up, they were able to hear how it affected Yeosang personally. It just allowed them to get closer and read each other better
San is saying nothing and just looking around, they're all talking about how they keep talking about each other i really felt weird, but i totally understand the subject but it's still weird..
I think it could be more awkward but thank god it wasn’t. I’ve been in similar but wayyyy more uncomfortable situations. I think Hongjoong and Yeosang handled it pretty well.
As an introvert like Yeosang, and a person who's been through the same thing as Yeosang. I know how it hurts. I think the reason he gave short replies to woo is that he wanted attention. When my friend used to leave me out and sometime later come talk to me I'd always give her short replies, I did this because I knew my friend would say "what's wrong?" as soon as she saw me quiet. In all honesty, I did it because I wanted attention, I wanted her to worry about me instead of someone else, even for a tiny moment. I wanted to see if she cared and noticed I was a bit off, I think Yeosang did the same.
Sometimes it's better to address the issue rather than to make small implications which can be not understood or can be considered in the wrong way.. like here.
I think this is related to the personality type of both, my understanding is that Yeosang is an introvert and both San and Wooyoung are extroverts so of course is gonna be difficult for him to integrate and also he had a point of explaining why he wanted to have a relationship with all the members. At the end I think both parts clear the situation and the hug at the end was just too precious 💕💕💕
maybe he thinks he is in the same shoes as wooyoung, I mean we all know yungi are as close as woosang but yunho try to be close to other members just like how yeosang do.. but after yeosang explains from his point of view, mingi start to understand why yunho doesn't show their friendship that much.. this is purely based on my opinion tho.. and I noticed that woosang and yungi are not as touchy/clingy as woosan.. but they're still so close to each other off camera..
I dislike when yeosang is painted as a bitter jealous person. He’s such a sweet guy, he’s introverted and that’s great. Anyone would feel a bit disappointed when their best friend ignores them, but he never blamed san.
Agreed. It's ridiculous that Yeosang got so much hate or that any of them got blamed for feeling hurt or left out and I wish they would've just discussed this off camera and not during a vlive, even though I'm glad that Hongjoong and Seonghwa handled the situation so well.
Yeosang is the kind of person who won't go and say it out loud for the good of the team. We can notice it in many videos how he try his best to not make the others feel bad about anything he says even though he can be brutally honest he Trully care about their feelings. We can also see it clearly when he said San was his best friend and Woo went all No! Then you can see yeosang panicking and trying to lift San while saying to him Woo is your best friend we're all best friends! 99zlines . Gosh this is Soo complicated thats why I like him best. He Trully care about each one of them and his best friend Woo but in silent. And they also do 8 makes 1 team after all
@@aiur2009 RIGHTT to talk about something as sensitive as that I wouldn’t even be able to get a word out with stuttering and all you see if snot coming out with tears
I’m pretty sure yeosang would have cried too because he probably is used to hold his emotions on camera. As an introvert I do face myself wanting to cry but I just hold myself hard cuz I don’t like people to watch me cry.
i think it was a hard time for him bcs he's not used to situations like that, he keeps all in himself. But he handled the situation so well and blamed himself for everything :) i don't know how much he's hurt, but he faced this situation strongly and i admire him for that. Just remembered San once said "Yeosang always puts others first no matter what" 💔
Maybe Hongjoong meant the senior atiny. The atinys before Ateez were debut or around that year. If you watch code name Ateez (before debut era), Wooyoung and Yeosang are really close 🥺 and you can barely see any woosan actually
Hongjoong, Seonghwa, and Jongho all stepped in here to make sure the situation didn't get out of hand. Wooyoung is the classic extrovert who externalizes everything and has a hard time connecting to people's internalized feelings, and Yeosang is the classic introvert who has trouble externalizing his feelings but is very good at picking up on the internalized feelings of others. San doesn't really factor in to this conversation to be honest, because he's not the issue, and I'm glad Hongjoong pointed out Yeosang's maturity here and how it demonstrates the strength of their friendship - even if Yeosang felt hurt by Woo he didn't blame him or attack him for it. Another comment mentioned that after this they all seemed to be closer and I think that's true - San went out of his way to include Yeosang many times after this. It's a difficult situation but I"m glad they were able to solve it - these kinds of misunderstandings at their age can often get out of hand but because Seonghwa, Hongjoong, and Jongho all mediated they were able to manage while being cognizant of everyone's feelings. I hope other ATINY don't feel too saddened by this - it's a natural part of life and the fact that they can talk about it and work through it demonstrates that they really value each other and want to grow together. You don't put this much effort into solving a misunderstanding unless you're very invested in the relationship. Hongjoong deserves a lot of credit here because he stopped Woo and clarified the reality of the situation even though they were on live - he put Yeosang's feelings and fairness to him first and that really shows how much he values fairness in his team. I'm glad they got to talk about this and I hope that Yeosang continues to be loved and cared for bythe members.
After this incident it's quite evident San tries to include Yeosang at his best and mostly by skinship, and Yeosang being the mature one accepts and goes along. I don't know about Wooyoung but the way Yeosang and San try to be matured is worth appreciation. Just as you said I loved how Hongjoong handled the situation ❤️
The way y'all talking about San more..lol none of them blamed san, the matter is when yeosang looked for wooyoung, wooyoung looked for san and it made yeosang hurt so much as wooyoung and yeosang are close friends for many years. But yeosang is such an angel he never blamed anyone. Put Yourself at yeosang's place and you'll understand.
no one said they blamed san . but it's also a fucked up situation for san and he looked so uncomfortable the whole video, thats why people also felt bad for him.
@@lafflesia681 san is kind as angel.. he definitely understands the situation and they're like a family so i don't think he'd feel uncomfortable :) but think abt yeosang's situation.. even he himself didn’t bring this matter up, it was hongjoong who did what to do as a leader
@@yeowooz i know how my introvert babie felt bad bc of this situation😔 but i think they are okay now. it's from 2019 and they seem closer with each other now.
yeosang is an introvert, a very shy boy. he has trouble explaining what he thinks about, even to close friends. as someone with a similar personality, he probably understood what woosan was, and because of his quietness, he didn't say anything. like they both said, they know they are close, but they have 8 members! ofc you can't talk all the time. that's probably what yeosang reasoned with, but he most likely felt saddened by this. because he created a reasonable explanation, he felt like "oh.. i shouldn't be upset about this." so he didn't address it. and no, nobody was wrong in this situation. because sangie is quiet, he was attached to woo already, but woo is extroverted, so he "moved on" quickly. they have major personality differences, which caused the awkwardness. but i just wanna say, that yeosang had a justified reason to feel left out. lets not just focus on wooyoung and sannie, but also yeosang
To be honest, i have been felt in the same of situation like woo and i'm the extrovert like him. That so hard when you in woo's situation too. When we have many friends and all of them loves us and they always want to become close to us but one of them turns out hide his/her feeling from us and not to be honest on us when he/she becomes uncomfortable eventhough we thought all of them become comfortable with this because he/she didn't talked or protest anything about this. it's really so hard to the type of character like us to understand what's going on with this if he/she didn't talked about it, seriously this is so hard even if we thinking about this all night and even this will missunderstanding for the other problematic things like in the video. we need some honest clarification or sharing for the other feeling like they do in the video.. I'm so sure woo really love yeosang in friendship way because he was his best friends for a long time but his character like that, you know almost of the extrovert didn't sensitive enough.. that's why woo misunderstood and feel sad too cause he want to clear this with his thinking about this so hard, but in the end the point is missed. Because he didn't sensitive enough.. i'm so glad woo try to talked about this to clear it and their senior (joong and hwa) try to help them to clear it too and become in neutral sides.. i'm so glad.. i hope their relationship is closer than before and try to trust or honest with each other. Sharing their feeling like in the video is really important to do for the good relationship in their group..
@@babypink2569 i COMPLETELY agree. i love both woo and sang to death and their friendship is honestly so sweet to see. woo did not do anything wrong, he was simply adapting to new people and welcomed them. the only difference is that woo adjusts to people more easily, while yeosang needs more time. yeosang knew this, hence why he didn't speak up, because he knew that it was normal. and he didn't do anything wrong either. it was just that because their personalities are so different, what is simple to one can be much harder for the other, which had happened in this situation. it's so obvious that wooyoung cares for every single member with his whole heart and like you said, i'm happy they managed to resolve the situation
as someone who is like that, it hurts because people are always assuming that you are fine and don't need the same treatment as the other friends. friendship-wise everyone is family, but actions wise i am the one that doesn't recieve much skinship, together time, outings etc. im the one clicking the photos/recording but not the one my friends go out of their way to get a photo with-i always have to ask/get in. people dont go out of their way for me. ive had to deal with not being the priority and asking to be included. its all because i never share when they upset me or make me feel left out because a-firstly im an introvert so they wouldn't understand my concerns and the way i take things in and b-i know it will make things awkward. if i cry about how they dont do much with me, then when they do fix their behaviour, it'll feel forced, because the way i see it is if you really wanted to spend time with me, you wouldve done it without me having to ask. and who am i to be jealous of everyone else because i am happy for them. being type 9 is a burden because you understand things so deeply you put your self last because its easy to convince yourself that things are the way they by their intention and the whole dynamic cant be destroyed by a sensitive person. like imagine being the cause of a whole group walking on eggshell around you...
@@bassbabs6500 awh I’m so sorry, I can relate to how you feel… I’m also a type 9 and I really really relate to when it’ll feel forced, I’m really shy I still want attention and affection from friends but they don’t notice so then I’ll isolate myself and do the things I like alone… sigh type 9 life
ok this is out of topic but i like the way hongjoong trying to solve the issue here and hes the one that explain yeosang's feelings before yeosang answer it. the leader position really suits him 😭 he knows what happen between the 3 of them and he explain it very well 😭 goodjob hongjoong 🥺 i hope they can do this 'counselling time' more often in future cuz sometimes atiny wanted to know about them too and its good to see they talk about each other like this 💗
oof. yeosang didn't want to make the others uncomfortable so he distanced himself from wooyoung so he could also befriend the others. wooyoung intern ran to san and they clicked like puzzle pieces. that kind of backfired on yeosang. yeosang had to watch his bestfriend become bestfriends with someone else. the whole "amicus ad aras" and "woosan best unit" thing must have hurt in the beginning. hopefully it is better now and woosansang can coexist.
I would feel the same honestly, this shitty situation happened to me but sadly I never got my friend back oof. I hope their friendship will last forever.
I've seen so many compilation videos about San being jealous when Wooyoung gets touchy with other members but if you'll deeply look at it, Yeosang might also feel sad about it. Let's not only think about San's feelings, let's also understand Yeosang's.
I agree my friend some people ship woosan soo much that they react when woo is getting touchy with other members and say SAN IS JEALOUS!! C'mon yall how about Yeosang's feelings???
@@mariagracemorales9163 ikr!!!! they don't care about yeosang. i feel so sorry for him because he can't express how much he adores wooyoung as much as he wants too :((
wooyoung and san spend more time together bcs they just met so they have a lot of things to say, they need to know eatch other better,etc... While wooyoung probably trusts and feels more comfortable with yeosang. That is it
@@catebenedict3516 that's true. I was literally a WooSan ship before that video came out. But when they opened up this topic on their Vlive, I suddenly felt sad for Yeosang especially when Hj (or Seonghwa) said that "when there is a team work, Yeosang will look at Wooyoung but Wooyoung will look for San". Of course, Yeosang will expect Wooyoung to team up with him coz they're friends for like 5 or 6 years. That's why I'm kind of not okay to see WooSan being together after what happened (but i'm not against WooSan).
@@immuu6376 I understand your opinion and I'm not against WooSan. But Wooyoung should at least know what Yeosang will feel for targeting him like that. Just like what they said, even ATINY knew about this matter except for Wooyoung. Woo also said that Yeo already knew that he loves him but just like what Seonghwa said, your friend will never know if you don't express it. Everyone's fine with WooSan being clingy and spending time with each other, but what everyone couldn't accept is that when they needed to team up, Yeosang will look at Woo (expecting to team up with him) but Woo ended up on looking at San.
I'm not crying, you are🤧 I've seen many of these on Pinterest, but i didn't see the whole vid. Every time i see woosan i'm like:aww❤ but then yeosang comes in my mind. And i'm like poor yeosang. But i do ship woosan tho🤧 but i feel bad for yeosang🤧
Yep ;; I know it’s not necessarily that deep but man do I feel for Yeosang. I know how hard it is to make friends as an introvert: you’re bound to get attached to them over time, and then it hurts when they make other, newer friends who start taking up what used to be your time with them. Yeosang’s a kind person, so he’s clearly being pragmatic about his feelings and saying that he doesn’t want to be biased and that he hopes that they all share strong relationships... I could never be mad at WooSan but if I was in Yeosang’s place I’d be acting so passive aggressive lmaooo
1:10 I think this is the most physically expressive I’ve ever seen Yeo Sang. His actions really speak louder than words and I think that’s why he chose to simply distance himself from Wooyoung rather than talking it out. However Wooyoung wasn’t picking up on those signals the same way everyone else was, probably because he’s caught up in his own world and not able to put himself in Yeo Sang’s shoes. I’m glad they were able to talk it out here because it wouldn’t have happened without the others present
I feel bad for yeosang cuz he feels ignored, I feel bad for San cuz he might feel like the cause of the conflict in woosang's friendship.Wooyoung why you gotta be so friendly 😭 This whole situation just needed a lot of communication. This vlive was from a while ago so im glad their friendship is thriving now
Another reason i feel bad for other than the obvious is how smiley yeosang was when he heard wooyoung had something to say to him before he realised what it was 😭
I love how after this live yeosang and san started becoming closer and they started doing more things together (both with each other and as a trio with wooyoung)
Yeosang handled it so well not blaming anyone i think he didnt want anyone to feel bad, in his mind he's probably like "its kinda my fault cause i didnt tell the members we were close" even though it isnt cause if they knew they would put them together all the time, He wanted him and woo to get close to all the members
Y all should go to vlive and watch the full version 🤣🤣🤣 because the whole video is about ateez jealousy to each other. But, imho the main point is, they got jealous because everyone is interested in each other. And that's good, really :3. It's in their christmas 2019 vlive. It's super interesting to watch. Btw, the way hongjoong handle every situation is impressive. As expected from best leader :3 :3 :3
I kinda adore the fact that they're such close friends that they get jealous overall each other hanging out with others. You can really see their chemistry. Also HJ is just straight up one of the best leaders in Kpop, he's so emotionally intelligent and kind. I love our babies :(((((
A lot of people took this situation out of context and actually made it seem much more serious than it was. Of course we don’t know what really goes on behind the cameras but during the whole video, the atmosphere was actually really lighthearted and it was just the members displaying cute jealousy towards one another.
We introverts know what yeosang was doing trying to play it off like he was acting hurt when hongjoong was talking about "yeosang looks at wooyoung but then wooyoung looks at san" part. He really was hurt and I think he appreciated how the members explained what they observed but wanted to play it off so it wouldn't become too emotional. As an introvert, I would be SO thankful if someone did that for me in midst of an misunderstanding because there were so many times people i knew kept to themselves and didnt even try to explain it when they also knew there was a problem. It helps us feel like we're not alone and that feeling is enough to give us courage to speak sincerely.
Can we all just agree that Yeosang deserves the entire world. He is such a good friend that he allowed Wooyoung to drift away because he knew that San needed him, and he wanted to allow Wooyoung to make friendships with all the other members as well. My bias forever 😌Yeosang best boy
Agreed. It's ridiculous that Yeosang got so much hate or that any of them got blamed for feeling hurt or left out and I wish they would've just discussed this off camera and not during a vlive, even though I'm glad that Hongjoong and Seonghwa handled the situation so well.
san is my bias but i feel so sorry for yeosang and i am kinda frustrated how the comment section are more worried about san looking uncomfortable than yeosang’s feelings, imagine how uncomfortable yeosang must have felt when woosan are constantly affectionate and close with each other in front of him ? please consider yeosang’s feelings too
It's not wooyoung and san's fault to be friends now.. Yeosang doesn't own wooyoung just because he became his friend first.. Wooyoung is literally friends with half the kpop industry.. Y'all need to stop acting like this is some kind of fan fiction where San and yeosang are in a war lmao
@@seonghwaha557 it's definitely not wooyoung's fault to have friends or best friends. But, you have to admit that when you are in a group (who are not just friends group but also work together) you need to try to get close to all the members equally. The thing with wooyoung and san's friendship that I know their friendship is genuine and they are not doing it for show but sometimes they seem to ignore that they are in a group which also has other people. Before this live, wy and San didn't seem to care much about the situation and would always just stick to each which did make things awkward not just for Yeosang but other members as well. After this live, they kind of understood that they need to connect with other members as well in order for the group to function well.
Honestly, Wooyoung didn't even realize what he had done until other people told him. That tells me that if it were not for Yeosang holding onto him that their friendship probably would have grown apart a long time ago. What finally happened is that Yeosang was prepared to let go. Yes he would have remained professional and cordial, but he was closing himself off to Wooyoung. That says a lot about how deeply he cares for him. Because you want the person you care about to be happy, even if it is at your own expense. Yeosang was totally willing to suffer in silence if it meant that Wooyoung would be happier being closest to San. But Wooyoung noticed Yeosang slipping away. I can't imagine how many nights Yeosang sat and was angry or sad or cried before he got to the point where he gave up.
this made me cry 😭 seeing your best friend of so many years kinda drifting away and you finally deciding to let go of them for their own happiness must hurt a lot
That awkward transition when your long-time BFF gets a significant other and you have to figure out how to recede in your BFF's life without losing them entirely... Poor Yeosangie...
it's really funny how everyone (literally even atiny) has noticed this but yeosang has kept hos own feelings inside and it was only disclosed when woo spoke up... living together i bet all the members could see yeosangs feelings TT i hope they grow happy together TT (hongjoong did a good job in understanding the situation and taking a side when he had to defend yeo xx)
I feel like people are kinda blaming Wooyoung for the whole thing but I hope you all know that not everyone can pick up subtle hints. Some people need verbal clarification, they need someone to tell them when something is wrong. I understand Yeosang's feelings and why he didn't just outright say it but I also understand why Wooyoung didn't get it. Woosang are opposites, they're very classic introvert meets classic extrovert, they'll have difficulties sometimes when those two things clash but at the end of the day sometimes a little outside influence can sort it out quickly.
Hongjoong stirring it up😂 It's crazy that they are so honest! Most groups would hide this kind of dynamic, not tell the fans that they need to know all about it😂
Its okay guys. Its called friendship, there also up and down in a friendship. That thing either will make it stronger or downhill but yeosang explain it really well, so that he doesn’t hurt other member. He keep being carefull with his personality eventhough we know that yeosang is the most savage out of this group but who knows maybe this will make the friendship become more stronger. Please dont send a hate comment about the friendship between yeosang, wooyoung and san if you love them.
I really think atiny make this whole thing deeper then what it was. People act like it was some intense fight or something. They weren't being that serious. It's an important lil convo to have but none of them were bothered and they were laughing most of the time. There's no uncomfortable body language or words said. I really think they were all amused at the topic more than anything. Also, when someone says they hope San wasn't uncomfortable people jump down their throats in defense of Yeosang. Paying attn to San doesn't mean you don't care about Yeosang lol. I've seen atiny literally fight over this and try to talk about things that don't even concern them or about things they couldn't possibly know about with ateez. This fandom internationally seems to be younger, but that doesn't mean it needs to be immature. Fans need to remember that we don't know 75% of these guys lives or even their personalities. Don't assume anything about their lives or situations or conversations. This so called drama wasn't even drama it was typical boy friendship stuff in a group. They worked it out. Woosan spend more time with the rest of them now. Sidenote it's not San or Woo's fault that they became closer. Different friendships are different. Yeosang is friends with both of them and I'm glad he spoke up about feeling lonely cuz Woo wouldn't have known otherwise.
Just like Seonghwa said in this live as well, there is jealousy between them because they like each others soooo much. Also I would say that Hongjoong handled this thing very well. Ever since this happened they seem so close to each others. I'm so proud
Ppl acting like solo stans in the comment section. If you were atiny or even a mature person you would understand how it's not anyone's fault. NONE IS TO BE BLAMED HERE. This is life. We meet ppl, we make friends, as life goes on we meet new ppl and make more new friends. Y'all would be really dumb to take sides in this kinda situation. Woo is an extrovert , he has bff in not only ateez but also is quite social outside ateez too. Yeosang & San are introverts who just clicked with woo so well. Comparing how woo's friendship is with yeosang vs San is so dumb. He shows his love in different ways. He left bighit for yeosang and got matching tattoos with san. Tho San & woo seem much more closer now. But how can you guys blame on them?? Is it their fault to become even friends now?? They are humans REAL PPL. Know your limits as fans and let them be.
I'm actually very happy and relieved they are being honest about this. This kind of emotion is harmful and is more harmful when bottled up. The fact that they opened up about this and wanted to try resolve and understand is quite mature of them. As teammates, it's important to let out feelings than bottling up.
Honestly I impressed with yeosang because he can control and keep it to himself. I was in the same situation like them but I chose to Cope with it by making my friend jealous. And it work, she got jealous but at the same time, she was hurt like I do. At the end, we hurt each other and I lost her as my bestfriend.
Now tell me who wouldn't hurt when your bestie leaving you out and looking more comfortable & happy with new person? Especially when that person upgraded it's position to 'bestie'. IT HURTS SO BAD. Fcuk. I've been in the same situation. My bestie looks more happy with our one friend whenever they're together, until it makes me "Let them be. Finally she found a person who can make her happy" eventhough she always insist that whatever happen, I'm still her bestie. Eventhough I have a place in her heart, but still, looking at your loved one being close to other person is disturbing and it's normal to get jealous. Anyway it's so uncomfortable for San. It's not his fault for him to finally found his soulmate. It's hard yk to find someone that could match with you 100%. Wooyoung could be his first. This is so uncomfortable to watch. San and Yeosang both of them will get hurt time by time bcs both of them love Wooyoung so much. The only solution that could settle down this problem is both San and Yeosang should try to be more closer and build more chemistry just like how they did to Wooyoung, so they could possibly become a trio just like WooSanHwa. But yea it's not something that we can force. Idk but for me, I will be uncomfortable to be in one group with them (I've been in the same situation before). If you want to be close, not in front my sight. I will hate the third person so bad that I can't be myself whenever around them. Urgh anyway I can't never rewatching this again. One is more than enough. It's as if I was watching the throwback preview from my life lmao
If yeosang get closer to san it may make a distant between them and woo cuz they will hung out together and woo will be left over it one of the possibilities also it may make them a strong trio in the end i think woo must give yeosang the same love that he give to san cuz he's the one in between them
@@marysoo2434 today san confirmed that he and woo got same tattoo on the same spot. I feel happy for them but I can feel that Yeosang left behind since he can't express his feeling much like extrovert person. I make me sad tho as an introvert person too
now a lot are laughing about this.. but i think this is a really serious and dangerous situation. This triangle shit can destroy all three of them. Yeosang will be sad, san will be sad and i think wooyoung is overstrained with this. This can end reaaaaally bad. It seems like they all doenst speak about their feelings (i know we dont see everything) and when they act like this, this wont get better. I hope they can make this up and everyone can be happy
Nah, you should watch the full vlive version 🤣 it turned out to be funny the way they jealous to each other because the whole video is about every member talking about their concern as a team. Even Mingi get jealous over wooyoung. And Yunho get jealous over 99 liner. And Jongho get jealous because he is the only one who 00 liner 🤣🤣🤣.
I understand what you're trying to say. The fact that Yeosang just poured out his feelings out of nowhere and went as far back as 2 years ago means that he's been holding it in for a while. This shows that Yeosang isn't one to talk about his feelings so he just keeps it all in until it all just comes out which is what happened in this vlive. And wooyoung is the type of person that's tricked by familiarity like San said. He just expects Yeosang to be ok with everything because they've been best friends for years. It's really just about communication, once they have that down. They're friendship will only grow stronger. This vlive was also an old one so things are probably alot better since they have this understanding
Just wanna say that this was back in December of 2019. 9 months ago. Their friendship has gotten a lot better and I think they are all closer now. Recently they asked woo about his best friends and he said "Yeosang and San" not only that, but I can see that he has learned how to be with not only San, but the rest of the group too. 💕
true though, my friendship of 8 years with my 2 other close friends was totally toxic because of this type of misunderstandings. and we never talk to each other now. I'm only keeping in touch with only one of them now
I totally understand the position that these 3 are in. It’s def hard to keep oneself from getting hurt by seeing their bestest of friends be close with another. If yeosang was not being so considerate of everyone’s feelings, it would Ben hard for others to get close to his best friend bc they already have that kind of bond. Meanwhile there is San who is just super affectionate toward woo and I can imagine how he’s feeling too😩I personally have to remind myself not to get jealous of my best friend being with her other friends but I def struggle because she’s my only friend
Honestly I always felt like a horrible person whenever I felt jealous of my friends having other friends but seeing this and everyone’s comments makes me feel comforted that It is a common thing to happen
"Even Atiny knows about this." As a Baby Atiny, even I knew Yeosang must have felt like this. 😅 It can't be easy watching your close friend getting closer to another and spending less time with you. But I'm happy that's no longer the case. 🙂
Yeah, I've definitely been in the same situation many times and I feel for Yeosang here. I'm glad that they managed to sort it out and are now a close trio!
Yeosang is my bias because he is most introverted member in the group and I feel like we share lots of similarities and all. I really understand his pain and everything but I just want to say when something like this happen I would have yuhno reaction like getting the tea 😂
I really understand Yeosang. Two years ago, I was in the same position as him.My best friend since school (9 years of friendship at that moment) knew a friend of mine at her job. They have similar personalities, likes and hobbies. In a very short time they became very close. I was studying at uni, so it was difficult for me to see her. It was kind of hurt at the beginning, just thinking that my best friend found some similar to her. Because we are kind of opposite. After some time, I realize I was kind of glad she found someone similar to her. Because she can do things she was not able to do with me.
This conversation was so honest if i were the one in Yeosang’s place I would’ve cried already! 🥺 Please protect all of them. Also Mingi calling out Yunho was so funny! 😅
I think after this conversation, I noticed that San tried to include Yeosang more and to go out of his way to care for him. I really love watching ATEEZ grow as individuals and as a team - I just find them to be so relatable, even as I'm blown away by their talent.
The respectful, honest, heartfelt and at times funny ways in which they talked about this was actually quite cool to see as a girl, I don’t get to see those interactions often so you are often left wondering what male friendships are like. This was cool, they were pretty mature about it
As an introvert myself, I know how hurtful it is when your bff starts distancing from you. Like even if unintentionally but it feels bad seeing your best friend hanging out with other friends and just leaving you out. And if I was Yeosang I would have been a crying mess while trying to explain myself .
After looking back, this was a wonderful way to get words off of their chests. Everyone who wanted to speak, spoke. The rest of the members were respectful and only chimed in at appropriate times. Hongjoong really used the correct method to get POVs across. I hope this is a method they use in their dorms. Truly what an amazing leader. As someone like yeosang, I’ve learnt that being friends with 3 ppl is hard. 2 are always closer and ones Just on the side and speaks when necessary.
So I haven’t been able to get to know the members much but I have always seen “woosan” everywhere but never “woosang” and I always get so confused Bc Ik woosang has been together the longest but then I come to find out woosan apparently is “bigger” than woosang and I have always wondered why hasn’t Yeosang said anything or what does Yeosang think? Does he know? Do the other members know? And now I see this video. Ngl I was in tears this whole video and when Wooyoung hugged Yeosang I started bawling. I know what it’s like being left out so it hit a little too close to home💀😔
This was from long ago but I feel myself in Yeosang's shoes, my friend was the only one I can talk to comfortably and seeing her all of a sudden grow cold to me really hurt me, to the point I had a mental breakdown in front of her. My friend talked to me and I told her all of my concerns, she understood me and tried her best to make it up because she knew that she was the only one I'm incredibly close to. I'm glad that we got through that time and I also learned to accept that my friend can have other friends too, and she learned that she would at least treat all of her friends equal.
omg this is more complicated than my physics test but im sure they have matured now i mean not that they wrrent mature but well uh honestly idfk im just gonna cry gby
drifting from a long time best friend is painful enough, but watching them get really close w someone else just adds another layer of pain. i feel for yeosang.
I cried when woo young hug yeosang and told him that he is the reason why he joined the company coz i thnk he wanna be with him always. I thnk out of all of woo young friemds (txt yeonjun and stry kids changbins and otners ) yeosang is the most special, i mean theyre totally opposite but they stick and click together
damn friendship is complicated, just like any other relationship. this video made me rethink all my friendships in the past, everything I said or do and now I'm just sad thinking I might've hurt someone without even knowing it.
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I just want to say that Hongjoong handled this really well as the leader
He always does
Hongjoong best leader!!! Hongjoong best boi!! 😁
he’s so mature!
and Seonghwa helped as well, but yes, they both did a great job at handling the situation!
Great leader
Poor san just wanted to make yeosang feel better and he said them 3 can hang out together but he was attacked 😭💔😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
San be like : *i said that just wanted to make the situation better, didn't expected to get attacked like this-*
I also feel bad for yeosang but at the same time I feel bad for san because it seems to me that san is being attacked and also this breaks my heart because san was quite for a while like he was sad and other things but I do love all members equally ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@@lisalopez3505 same I feel bad but this the only way they can be more comfortable as a team. And it’s not about san think about yeosang too
I can empathize with the three of them Wooyoung is naturally a friendly person so I mean it’s easy for him to make friends and get close to them for his friendship with San based on videos and pictures he looks closer to him than yeosang he’s always with him gravitates to him more like they are always together I mean friendship isn’t determined by how long you know a person but by the bond. However for yeosang I can understand why he did what he did I mean it’s a group he wants to be the same with everyone and not show favoritism (that’s literally what woo and San always does and that’s fine for them but yeosang isn’t like that) he knows that woo is his best friend/friend so OF COURSE it’s going to hurt seeing his friend get closer to someone else. Now for San he just made a friend that turnt into his best friend there is nothing wrong with that 🤷🏽♀️
seongjoong being a worried parent meanwhile yunho just enjoying the tea 😂😂
And then Jongho being the therapist 😂
@@blabla. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 true I've been scrolling down to see a comment like this, like yours
YUNHO 😂😂😂
he's always being in the middle enjoying every couple's (in ateez) tea hehet
agree 👍
jongho being a therapist for 6 minutes straight
i’m so happy jongho explained what yeosang was trying to say, he looked a bit pressured there
jungho comes off very emotionally intelligent and eloquent here. I'm sure Yeosang is too, poor thing, I think he just finds it a bit more difficult to openly express himself. He said he wasn't sad, but pretty sure he was, I'd be sad too.
Yunho enjoying the tea 😂😂
I'm sorry, I'm new, Yunho is the one in the middle, in the costume of Santa Claus?
Oh, or the one dressed in black in the right corner?
Melany Tănase hes santa
@@koyasbunnies aw, thank you ^^
@@melanytanase1274 Jongho is the one in the right with black clothes (he is the youngest)
nah bc if i was yeosang i would’ve been crying trying to explain myself 💀.
SAAAAME💀💀
omg same
SAME I LITERALLY CRY WHEN I DONT UNDERSTAND THINGS AND THIS WOULD BE WAY WORSE
LITERALLY SAME I STARTED TEARING UP WHEN YEOSANG WAS TRYNNA EXPLAIN HIMSELF BECAUSE I COULD FEEL THE AMOUNT OF PRESSURE HE HAD
Same here 🤧
MAn... The way they ALL KNEW wht Yeo was talkin' about and woo was completely lost like... wait did y'all btjhes knew???????????????????????????
ikr lmao wooyoung
this is literally like a drama aksjaksksj
True wooyoung leaves in his own world and most of the time doesn't noticed important things sometimes 😂😂🥰
Exactly 😂
San looked so uncomfortable the whole time
Antriimx I mean, this is a serious situation so they have to sort it out
Bcz he felt guilty I think
I was in the same situation one time ... here u just don't want to be the main reason.. that your best friends arguing or feeling sad because of you
It's hurt uk
It's Like Being The Other Woman But Not Knowing You Are lol
CowsAreCool Don't Lie I-
Ofc lmao I felt exactly what all three of them felt. In my eyes here, San seemed very embarassed but you could tell he sorta felt sad thinking about woosang being close again after the thingy was addressed. San is way too attached to Woo, he sorta wants him all to himself. They're both codependent on e/o one way or the other and i feel him. (Though I know it's wrong myself) That's is natural to feel sometimes, you get carried on unknowingly. But this whole discussion just had to be done. One must not be selfish too and try to see stuff from other's pov ksksjs idk what I was tryna prove here I'm sleep deprived and tired from crying lol-
i hate the way extroverts would never understand introverts feelings they simply assume we are doing sumn wrong there 😭
I have the type of character like woo (extrovert). The people like us need for some honest clarification or sharing our feeling for know each other more. If they didn't sharing their feeling for us, the type like me or woo didn't understand what's going on with this. This like, we aren't sensitive enough, it's really so hard to the type of character like us to understand what's going on if he/she didn't talked about their feeling, seriously this is so hard even if we thinking about this all night and even this will missunderstanding for the other problematic things like in the video. we need some honest clarification or sharing for the other feeling like they do in the video.. that's why joong,yunho,jongho,san,mingi and seonghwa know about yeosang feeling but woo didn't know about it cause his character is like that, he didn't sensitive enough. Almost of the extrovert people absolutely like that. And woo is the extrovert ones. I know it's hard for the introvert people to become honest on their feeling but let's just try it, try to trust your friend more that he/she really love you and always accept you whatever your feeling to him/her.. the real friend always try to understand character of each other, and try to clearing or sharing their feeling to each other.. ❤
@@babypink2569 thank you for saying this, this is me. I felt a bit offended reading the comment but also understood. I've told my sister a few times before that I wouldn't know what's going on in a person's mind if they don't say it to me directly regarding any misunderstanding etc etc. I keep thinking about what may be wrong bc the person seems off, and then it frustrates me.
I'm glad someone understands!
@@babypink2569 thankyou for this omg I don't realize myself like this even though i know i am an extrovert
Thats true but then again its not woos fault either. It was just a big misunderstanding they both had woo thought yeosang didnt care about him as much and found someone he can be more open too while yeosang just wanted to make sure the members didnt feel intimated by them. So i just know if they had better communication skills this wouldve never happen but im also glad it happened earlier then later and it also helped them learn and understand eachother more.
@@babypink2569 omg this is so good thankx for explanation btw I'm introvert I same mbta with yeosang
don't like sharing ppl what I like or I hate I'm always normal idk what I do where I beginning I can't even share my family how about another ppl or besties such idiot person
I remembered after this video, Yeosang seems a lot closer to San somehow 🤣 All of them became more closer than ever since this.
Aya that's true
100% agree.
And that's credited to the fact they talked it out and were very mature about things. I'm sure San felt bad because he probably didn't even realize how it was affecting Yeosang. But since they brought it up, they were able to hear how it affected Yeosang personally. It just allowed them to get closer and read each other better
So they all good now? I can’t have my yeosang feeling left out and unappreciated 😢
I can feel the awkwardness in the air
San is saying nothing and just looking around, they're all talking about how they keep talking about each other i really felt weird, but i totally understand the subject but it's still weird..
xsamvvi what is going on?
@@i1ssam where is he
@@brit7627 all black shirt on the left line and with hat
I think it could be more awkward but thank god it wasn’t. I’ve been in similar but wayyyy more uncomfortable situations. I think Hongjoong and Yeosang handled it pretty well.
As an introvert like Yeosang, and a person who's been through the same thing as Yeosang. I know how it hurts. I think the reason he gave short replies to woo is that he wanted attention. When my friend used to leave me out and sometime later come talk to me I'd always give her short replies, I did this because I knew my friend would say "what's wrong?" as soon as she saw me quiet. In all honesty, I did it because I wanted attention, I wanted her to worry about me instead of someone else, even for a tiny moment. I wanted to see if she cared and noticed I was a bit off, I think Yeosang did the same.
same
Same
Same, it’s like a strategy because they don’t have anything to say to you
Aww girl 🥺 I'm sending you a virtual hug ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ
Sometimes it's better to address the issue rather than to make small implications which can be not understood or can be considered in the wrong way.. like here.
Yunho looks like he's there for the tea
I like whe I see yuyu comments Cs another comments make ma crazy😭😭🤌😂
hongjoong was just cracking up during this whole conversation
Whenever I see this video I really felt bad for yeosang
Same this video randomly came in my head
Same :(
I think this is related to the personality type of both, my understanding is that Yeosang is an introvert and both San and Wooyoung are extroverts so of course is gonna be difficult for him to integrate and also he had a point of explaining why he wanted to have a relationship with all the members. At the end I think both parts clear the situation and the hug at the end was just too precious 💕💕💕
This is the second time I'm watching this and this is the second time that I'm crying
@Manahil Chaudhry that’s true
We have our cuties here talking about woosansang and we have mingi who can't stop calling yunho👁👄👁
yungi sjcjdbdjs
Ikkkk 😭
maybe he thinks he is in the same shoes as wooyoung, I mean we all know yungi are as close as woosang but yunho try to be close to other members just like how yeosang do.. but after yeosang explains from his point of view, mingi start to understand why yunho doesn't show their friendship that much.. this is purely based on my opinion tho.. and I noticed that woosang and yungi are not as touchy/clingy as woosan.. but they're still so close to each other off camera..
@@nuhahaha8575 girl that what i was thinking about 😭😭😭😭😭
Dany Min sameee 💀
I actually teared up watching this, both of them got hurt because they value each other so much.
Samee
Same
Same
😭
I dislike when yeosang is painted as a bitter jealous person. He’s such a sweet guy, he’s introverted and that’s great. Anyone would feel a bit disappointed when their best friend ignores them, but he never blamed san.
Agreed. It's ridiculous that Yeosang got so much hate or that any of them got blamed for feeling hurt or left out and I wish they would've just discussed this off camera and not during a vlive, even though I'm glad that Hongjoong and Seonghwa handled the situation so well.
WooYoung hugging Yeosang make me :'(
Yeosang is the kind of person who won't go and say it out loud for the good of the team. We can notice it in many videos how he try his best to not make the others feel bad about anything he says even though he can be brutally honest he Trully care about their feelings.
We can also see it clearly when he said San was his best friend and Woo went all No! Then you can see yeosang panicking and trying to lift San while saying to him Woo is your best friend we're all best friends! 99zlines . Gosh this is Soo complicated thats why I like him best. He Trully care about each one of them and his best friend Woo but in silent. And they also do 8 makes 1 team after all
@mako rima i think this one was in their expedition tour (if i'm not mistaken)
If i were yeosang i would cry tho while explaining it 😭
same tbh LMFAO i cant handle being on blast about things like that
@@aiur2009 RIGHTT to talk about something as sensitive as that I wouldn’t even be able to get a word out with stuttering and all you see if snot coming out with tears
ONG ID BE A MESS
I’m pretty sure yeosang would have cried too because he probably is used to hold his emotions on camera. As an introvert I do face myself wanting to cry but I just hold myself hard cuz I don’t like people to watch me cry.
i think it was a hard time for him bcs he's not used to situations like that, he keeps all in himself. But he handled the situation so well and blamed himself for everything :) i don't know how much he's hurt, but he faced this situation strongly and i admire him for that.
Just remembered San once said "Yeosang always puts others first no matter what" 💔
“Even Atiny knows this”
Atiny: 👁👄👁
we do
Maybe Hongjoong meant the senior atiny. The atinys before Ateez were debut or around that year. If you watch code name Ateez (before debut era), Wooyoung and Yeosang are really close 🥺 and you can barely see any woosan actually
@@dinxtiny8813 tat's true, but i've noticed that after this live things changed. i mean they are a group an sometimes misunderstandings happen
Hongjoong, Seonghwa, and Jongho all stepped in here to make sure the situation didn't get out of hand. Wooyoung is the classic extrovert who externalizes everything and has a hard time connecting to people's internalized feelings, and Yeosang is the classic introvert who has trouble externalizing his feelings but is very good at picking up on the internalized feelings of others. San doesn't really factor in to this conversation to be honest, because he's not the issue, and I'm glad Hongjoong pointed out Yeosang's maturity here and how it demonstrates the strength of their friendship - even if Yeosang felt hurt by Woo he didn't blame him or attack him for it. Another comment mentioned that after this they all seemed to be closer and I think that's true - San went out of his way to include Yeosang many times after this. It's a difficult situation but I"m glad they were able to solve it - these kinds of misunderstandings at their age can often get out of hand but because Seonghwa, Hongjoong, and Jongho all mediated they were able to manage while being cognizant of everyone's feelings. I hope other ATINY don't feel too saddened by this - it's a natural part of life and the fact that they can talk about it and work through it demonstrates that they really value each other and want to grow together. You don't put this much effort into solving a misunderstanding unless you're very invested in the relationship. Hongjoong deserves a lot of credit here because he stopped Woo and clarified the reality of the situation even though they were on live - he put Yeosang's feelings and fairness to him first and that really shows how much he values fairness in his team. I'm glad they got to talk about this and I hope that Yeosang continues to be loved and cared for bythe members.
After this incident it's quite evident San tries to include Yeosang at his best and mostly by skinship, and Yeosang being the mature one accepts and goes along. I don't know about Wooyoung but the way Yeosang and San try to be matured is worth appreciation.
Just as you said I loved how Hongjoong handled the situation ❤️
I adore how mature and well-written this comment is
this is so well written
man u took all the words out my mouth
Wow........ Well explained friend. 🥺❤️
The way y'all talking about San more..lol none of them blamed san, the matter is when yeosang looked for wooyoung, wooyoung looked for san and it made yeosang hurt so much as wooyoung and yeosang are close friends for many years.
But yeosang is such an angel he never blamed anyone.
Put Yourself at yeosang's place and you'll understand.
no one said they blamed san . but it's also a fucked up situation for san and he looked so uncomfortable the whole video, thats why people also felt bad for him.
@@lafflesia681 san is kind as angel.. he definitely understands the situation and they're like a family so i don't think he'd feel uncomfortable :)
but think abt yeosang's situation.. even he himself didn’t bring this matter up, it was hongjoong who did what to do as a leader
@@yeowooz i know how my introvert babie felt bad bc of this situation😔 but i think they are okay now. it's from 2019 and they seem closer with each other now.
@@lafflesia681 yeah and they eight are one..and will be close together forever..8makes 1team🥺
@@yeowooz yeah💖
yeosang is an introvert, a very shy boy. he has trouble explaining what he thinks about, even to close friends. as someone with a similar personality, he probably understood what woosan was, and because of his quietness, he didn't say anything. like they both said, they know they are close, but they have 8 members! ofc you can't talk all the time. that's probably what yeosang reasoned with, but he most likely felt saddened by this. because he created a reasonable explanation, he felt like "oh.. i shouldn't be upset about this." so he didn't address it. and no, nobody was wrong in this situation. because sangie is quiet, he was attached to woo already, but woo is extroverted, so he "moved on" quickly. they have major personality differences, which caused the awkwardness. but i just wanna say, that yeosang had a justified reason to feel left out. lets not just focus on wooyoung and sannie, but also yeosang
To be honest, i have been felt in the same of situation like woo and i'm the extrovert like him. That so hard when you in woo's situation too. When we have many friends and all of them loves us and they always want to become close to us but one of them turns out hide his/her feeling from us and not to be honest on us when he/she becomes uncomfortable eventhough we thought all of them become comfortable with this because he/she didn't talked or protest anything about this. it's really so hard to the type of character like us to understand what's going on with this if he/she didn't talked about it, seriously this is so hard even if we thinking about this all night and even this will missunderstanding for the other problematic things like in the video. we need some honest clarification or sharing for the other feeling like they do in the video.. I'm so sure woo really love yeosang in friendship way because he was his best friends for a long time but his character like that, you know almost of the extrovert didn't sensitive enough.. that's why woo misunderstood and feel sad too cause he want to clear this with his thinking about this so hard, but in the end the point is missed. Because he didn't sensitive enough.. i'm so glad woo try to talked about this to clear it and their senior (joong and hwa) try to help them to clear it too and become in neutral sides.. i'm so glad.. i hope their relationship is closer than before and try to trust or honest with each other. Sharing their feeling like in the video is really important to do for the good relationship in their group..
@@babypink2569 i COMPLETELY agree. i love both woo and sang to death and their friendship is honestly so sweet to see. woo did not do anything wrong, he was simply adapting to new people and welcomed them. the only difference is that woo adjusts to people more easily, while yeosang needs more time. yeosang knew this, hence why he didn't speak up, because he knew that it was normal. and he didn't do anything wrong either. it was just that because their personalities are so different, what is simple to one can be much harder for the other, which had happened in this situation. it's so obvious that wooyoung cares for every single member with his whole heart and like you said, i'm happy they managed to resolve the situation
yeosang definitely has major type 9 behaviour, keeping his feelings in so it wouldn’t affect the social harmony of the team
rIGHT
as someone who is like that, it hurts because people are always assuming that you are fine and don't need the same treatment as the other friends. friendship-wise everyone is family, but actions wise i am the one that doesn't recieve much skinship, together time, outings etc. im the one clicking the photos/recording but not the one my friends go out of their way to get a photo with-i always have to ask/get in. people dont go out of their way for me. ive had to deal with not being the priority and asking to be included. its all because i never share when they upset me or make me feel left out because a-firstly im an introvert so they wouldn't understand my concerns and the way i take things in and b-i know it will make things awkward. if i cry about how they dont do much with me, then when they do fix their behaviour, it'll feel forced, because the way i see it is if you really wanted to spend time with me, you wouldve done it without me having to ask. and who am i to be jealous of everyone else because i am happy for them. being type 9 is a burden because you understand things so deeply you put your self last because its easy to convince yourself that things are the way they by their intention and the whole dynamic cant be destroyed by a sensitive person. like imagine being the cause of a whole group walking on eggshell around you...
@@bassbabs6500 awh I’m so sorry, I can relate to how you feel… I’m also a type 9 and I really really relate to when it’ll feel forced, I’m really shy I still want attention and affection from friends but they don’t notice so then I’ll isolate myself and do the things I like alone… sigh type 9 life
"It's like a movie." Yeah the whole video is.
That was hurt for them it's not a funny thing on drama
ok this is out of topic but i like the way hongjoong trying to solve the issue here and hes the one that explain yeosang's feelings before yeosang answer it. the leader position really suits him 😭 he knows what happen between the 3 of them and he explain it very well 😭 goodjob hongjoong 🥺 i hope they can do this 'counselling time' more often in future cuz sometimes atiny wanted to know about them too and its good to see they talk about each other like this 💗
oof. yeosang didn't want to make the others uncomfortable so he distanced himself from wooyoung so he could also befriend the others. wooyoung intern ran to san and they clicked like puzzle pieces. that kind of backfired on yeosang. yeosang had to watch his bestfriend become bestfriends with someone else. the whole "amicus ad aras" and "woosan best unit" thing must have hurt in the beginning. hopefully it is better now and woosansang can coexist.
Yeosang : "I'm not jealous"
Inside : bitterly hurt nd jealous :)
He is clearly jealous 🙄🙄🙄 lol~
hurt also🙂
@@yeowooz Yup... Poor Yeosang 🙁
I would feel the same honestly, this shitty situation happened to me but sadly I never got my friend back oof. I hope their friendship will last forever.
@@KK-et5cc Same:)) I've lost my bestfriend and saw her being bestfriends with someone other so i can feel it. It hurts:)))
I've seen so many compilation videos about San being jealous when Wooyoung gets touchy with other members but if you'll deeply look at it, Yeosang might also feel sad about it. Let's not only think about San's feelings, let's also understand Yeosang's.
I agree my friend some people ship woosan soo much that they react when woo is getting touchy with other members and say SAN IS JEALOUS!! C'mon yall how about Yeosang's feelings???
@@mariagracemorales9163 ikr!!!! they don't care about yeosang. i feel so sorry for him because he can't express how much he adores wooyoung as much as he wants too :((
wooyoung and san spend more time together bcs they just met so they have a lot of things to say, they need to know eatch other better,etc... While wooyoung probably trusts and feels more comfortable with yeosang. That is it
@@catebenedict3516 that's true. I was literally a WooSan ship before that video came out. But when they opened up this topic on their Vlive, I suddenly felt sad for Yeosang especially when Hj (or Seonghwa) said that "when there is a team work, Yeosang will look at Wooyoung but Wooyoung will look for San". Of course, Yeosang will expect Wooyoung to team up with him coz they're friends for like 5 or 6 years. That's why I'm kind of not okay to see WooSan being together after what happened (but i'm not against WooSan).
@@immuu6376 I understand your opinion and I'm not against WooSan. But Wooyoung should at least know what Yeosang will feel for targeting him like that. Just like what they said, even ATINY knew about this matter except for Wooyoung. Woo also said that Yeo already knew that he loves him but just like what Seonghwa said, your friend will never know if you don't express it. Everyone's fine with WooSan being clingy and spending time with each other, but what everyone couldn't accept is that when they needed to team up, Yeosang will look at Woo (expecting to team up with him) but Woo ended up on looking at San.
Well, i almost cried...
I feel Yeosang:
I'm not crying, you are🤧
I've seen many of these on Pinterest, but i didn't see the whole vid. Every time i see woosan i'm like:aww❤ but then yeosang comes in my mind. And i'm like poor yeosang. But i do ship woosan tho🤧 but i feel bad for yeosang🤧
Yep ;; I know it’s not necessarily that deep but man do I feel for Yeosang. I know how hard it is to make friends as an introvert: you’re bound to get attached to them over time, and then it hurts when they make other, newer friends who start taking up what used to be your time with them. Yeosang’s a kind person, so he’s clearly being pragmatic about his feelings and saying that he doesn’t want to be biased and that he hopes that they all share strong relationships... I could never be mad at WooSan but if I was in Yeosang’s place I’d be acting so passive aggressive lmaooo
Sorry but after hearing this I realize I hate yeosang
@@twicesheart8104 why?
@@twicesheart8104 lmao you're going and hating under all the comments, do you not have anything better to do?
2:47 san did a bowl flip
Poor baby San just there....getting dragged in the middle
Well that’s how it be sometimes
@@deneisha6400 why is this so funny 😂
Deeksha Bhamidipati sdjdkdk I tried to be 😂
“poor San”
@@khloeeworld4l416 why quotes?
Wooyoung even the fans noticed 😂😂I'm glad Jongho explained the situation and how Yeosang must've felt
Why tf am I crying over this???
Me too . This hurt's more than a broke up
Your pfp matches your comment LMAO
maybe because u empathize with yeosang/experienced what he experienced??? idk just a guess LMAOAOAO
@@aiur2009 you’re exactly right, I feel like we’ve all been in yeosang’s position before
@@softsquishysuga PLSSA
woosansang: the love triangle
99z and the maknae: the mediators and therapists
yungi: here for the tea
4:11 yunho's reaction lmao
and mingi's XD
HE HAD NO RIGHT LMAOO
Yunho and Mingi is looking awkward here while these two best friend reconciling with each other
their friendship just really amazing and sweet😭😭😭
Yes
1:10 I think this is the most physically expressive I’ve ever seen Yeo Sang. His actions really speak louder than words and I think that’s why he chose to simply distance himself from Wooyoung rather than talking it out. However Wooyoung wasn’t picking up on those signals the same way everyone else was, probably because he’s caught up in his own world and not able to put himself in Yeo Sang’s shoes. I’m glad they were able to talk it out here because it wouldn’t have happened without the others present
I feel bad for yeosang cuz he feels ignored, I feel bad for San cuz he might feel like the cause of the conflict in woosang's friendship.Wooyoung why you gotta be so friendly 😭 This whole situation just needed a lot of communication. This vlive was from a while ago so im glad their friendship is thriving now
Why you gotta be so friendly? Really? Great, blame the extrovert, it's convenient
When Wooyoung hugged Yeosang, I felt like crying.
Another reason i feel bad for other than the obvious is how smiley yeosang was when he heard wooyoung had something to say to him before he realised what it was 😭
I love how after this live yeosang and san started becoming closer and they started doing more things together (both with each other and as a trio with wooyoung)
San was being silent tho and he look so freaking terrible here 😭😭 Why was this conversation were getting deeper and deeper. I’m crying my soul! 😭
Yeosang handled it so well not blaming anyone i think he didnt want anyone to feel bad, in his mind he's probably like "its kinda my fault cause i didnt tell the members we were close" even though it isnt cause if they knew they would put them together all the time, He wanted him and woo to get close to all the members
Y all should go to vlive and watch the full version 🤣🤣🤣 because the whole video is about ateez jealousy to each other. But, imho the main point is, they got jealous because everyone is interested in each other. And that's good, really :3.
It's in their christmas 2019 vlive. It's super interesting to watch.
Btw, the way hongjoong handle every situation is impressive. As expected from best leader :3 :3 :3
I kinda adore the fact that they're such close friends that they get jealous overall each other hanging out with others. You can really see their chemistry. Also HJ is just straight up one of the best leaders in Kpop, he's so emotionally intelligent and kind. I love our babies :(((((
A lot of people took this situation out of context and actually made it seem much more serious than it was. Of course we don’t know what really goes on behind the cameras but during the whole video, the atmosphere was actually really lighthearted and it was just the members displaying cute jealousy towards one another.
We introverts know what yeosang was doing trying to play it off like he was acting hurt when hongjoong was talking about "yeosang looks at wooyoung but then wooyoung looks at san" part. He really was hurt and I think he appreciated how the members explained what they observed but wanted to play it off so it wouldn't become too emotional. As an introvert, I would be SO thankful if someone did that for me in midst of an misunderstanding because there were so many times people i knew kept to themselves and didnt even try to explain it when they also knew there was a problem. It helps us feel like we're not alone and that feeling is enough to give us courage to speak sincerely.
Yeosang is actually really thoughtful. I admire him for that trait.
San must feel awkward being in between.And at the end he just said them three to hang out together.
fr he said "let's hang out together" and they attacked(not seriously lol) him lmfao i feel bad for him 😭
Can we all just agree that Yeosang deserves the entire world. He is such a good friend that he allowed Wooyoung to drift away because he knew that San needed him, and he wanted to allow Wooyoung to make friendships with all the other members as well. My bias forever 😌Yeosang best boy
Agreed. It's ridiculous that Yeosang got so much hate or that any of them got blamed for feeling hurt or left out and I wish they would've just discussed this off camera and not during a vlive, even though I'm glad that Hongjoong and Seonghwa handled the situation so well.
san is my bias but i feel so sorry for yeosang and i am kinda frustrated how the comment section are more worried about san looking uncomfortable than yeosang’s feelings, imagine how uncomfortable yeosang must have felt when woosan are constantly affectionate and close with each other in front of him ? please consider yeosang’s feelings too
It's not wooyoung and san's fault to be friends now.. Yeosang doesn't own wooyoung just because he became his friend first.. Wooyoung is literally friends with half the kpop industry.. Y'all need to stop acting like this is some kind of fan fiction where San and yeosang are in a war lmao
@@seonghwaha557 it's definitely not wooyoung's fault to have friends or best friends. But, you have to admit that when you are in a group (who are not just friends group but also work together) you need to try to get close to all the members equally. The thing with wooyoung and san's friendship that I know their friendship is genuine and they are not doing it for show but sometimes they seem to ignore that they are in a group which also has other people. Before this live, wy and San didn't seem to care much about the situation and would always just stick to each which did make things awkward not just for Yeosang but other members as well. After this live, they kind of understood that they need to connect with other members as well in order for the group to function well.
Honestly, Wooyoung didn't even realize what he had done until other people told him. That tells me that if it were not for Yeosang holding onto him that their friendship probably would have grown apart a long time ago. What finally happened is that Yeosang was prepared to let go. Yes he would have remained professional and cordial, but he was closing himself off to Wooyoung. That says a lot about how deeply he cares for him. Because you want the person you care about to be happy, even if it is at your own expense. Yeosang was totally willing to suffer in silence if it meant that Wooyoung would be happier being closest to San. But Wooyoung noticed Yeosang slipping away. I can't imagine how many nights Yeosang sat and was angry or sad or cried before he got to the point where he gave up.
this made me cry 😭 seeing your best friend of so many years kinda drifting away and you finally deciding to let go of them for their own happiness must hurt a lot
ATEEZ is the only group where eldest is like a cute curious child and the Maknae is the mature serious one 😂
That awkward transition when your long-time BFF gets a significant other and you have to figure out how to recede in your BFF's life without losing them entirely... Poor Yeosangie...
it's really funny how everyone (literally even atiny) has noticed this but yeosang has kept hos own feelings inside and it was only disclosed when woo spoke up... living together i bet all the members could see yeosangs feelings TT i hope they grow happy together TT (hongjoong did a good job in understanding the situation and taking a side when he had to defend yeo xx)
I feel like people are kinda blaming Wooyoung for the whole thing but I hope you all know that not everyone can pick up subtle hints. Some people need verbal clarification, they need someone to tell them when something is wrong. I understand Yeosang's feelings and why he didn't just outright say it but I also understand why Wooyoung didn't get it. Woosang are opposites, they're very classic introvert meets classic extrovert, they'll have difficulties sometimes when those two things clash but at the end of the day sometimes a little outside influence can sort it out quickly.
Hongjoong stirring it up😂 It's crazy that they are so honest! Most groups would hide this kind of dynamic, not tell the fans that they need to know all about it😂
Its okay guys. Its called friendship, there also up and down in a friendship. That thing either will make it stronger or downhill but yeosang explain it really well, so that he doesn’t hurt other member. He keep being carefull with his personality eventhough we know that yeosang is the most savage out of this group but who knows maybe this will make the friendship become more stronger. Please dont send a hate comment about the friendship between yeosang, wooyoung and san if you love them.
I really think atiny make this whole thing deeper then what it was. People act like it was some intense fight or something. They weren't being that serious. It's an important lil convo to have but none of them were bothered and they were laughing most of the time. There's no uncomfortable body language or words said. I really think they were all amused at the topic more than anything. Also, when someone says they hope San wasn't uncomfortable people jump down their throats in defense of Yeosang. Paying attn to San doesn't mean you don't care about Yeosang lol. I've seen atiny literally fight over this and try to talk about things that don't even concern them or about things they couldn't possibly know about with ateez. This fandom internationally seems to be younger, but that doesn't mean it needs to be immature. Fans need to remember that we don't know 75% of these guys lives or even their personalities. Don't assume anything about their lives or situations or conversations.
This so called drama wasn't even drama it was typical boy friendship stuff in a group. They worked it out. Woosan spend more time with the rest of them now.
Sidenote it's not San or Woo's fault that they became closer. Different friendships are different. Yeosang is friends with both of them and I'm glad he spoke up about feeling lonely cuz Woo wouldn't have known otherwise.
You said it perfectly
Yunho mood😭😭😂
Just like Seonghwa said in this live as well, there is jealousy between them because they like each others soooo much. Also I would say that Hongjoong handled this thing very well. Ever since this happened they seem so close to each others. I'm so proud
Ppl acting like solo stans in the comment section. If you were atiny or even a mature person you would understand how it's not anyone's fault. NONE IS TO BE BLAMED HERE. This is life. We meet ppl, we make friends, as life goes on we meet new ppl and make more new friends. Y'all would be really dumb to take sides in this kinda situation. Woo is an extrovert , he has bff in not only ateez but also is quite social outside ateez too. Yeosang & San are introverts who just clicked with woo so well. Comparing how woo's friendship is with yeosang vs San is so dumb. He shows his love in different ways. He left bighit for yeosang and got matching tattoos with san. Tho San & woo seem much more closer now. But how can you guys blame on them?? Is it their fault to become even friends now?? They are humans REAL PPL. Know your limits as fans and let them be.
your comments should be on top i swear
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I just love the fact that Yeosang never blamed sanie. Look at them now they"re like each others babies 💜
I'm actually very happy and relieved they are being honest about this. This kind of emotion is harmful and is more harmful when bottled up. The fact that they opened up about this and wanted to try resolve and understand is quite mature of them. As teammates, it's important to let out feelings than bottling up.
Honestly I impressed with yeosang because he can control and keep it to himself. I was in the same situation like them but I chose to Cope with it by making my friend jealous. And it work, she got jealous but at the same time, she was hurt like I do. At the end, we hurt each other and I lost her as my bestfriend.
Now tell me who wouldn't hurt when your bestie leaving you out and looking more comfortable & happy with new person? Especially when that person upgraded it's position to 'bestie'. IT HURTS SO BAD. Fcuk. I've been in the same situation. My bestie looks more happy with our one friend whenever they're together, until it makes me "Let them be. Finally she found a person who can make her happy" eventhough she always insist that whatever happen, I'm still her bestie. Eventhough I have a place in her heart, but still, looking at your loved one being close to other person is disturbing and it's normal to get jealous.
Anyway it's so uncomfortable for San. It's not his fault for him to finally found his soulmate. It's hard yk to find someone that could match with you 100%. Wooyoung could be his first. This is so uncomfortable to watch. San and Yeosang both of them will get hurt time by time bcs both of them love Wooyoung so much. The only solution that could settle down this problem is both San and Yeosang should try to be more closer and build more chemistry just like how they did to Wooyoung, so they could possibly become a trio just like WooSanHwa. But yea it's not something that we can force. Idk but for me, I will be uncomfortable to be in one group with them (I've been in the same situation before). If you want to be close, not in front my sight. I will hate the third person so bad that I can't be myself whenever around them.
Urgh anyway I can't never rewatching this again. One is more than enough. It's as if I was watching the throwback preview from my life lmao
"disturbing" WHY IS THIS SO FUNNY LMFAOOO
If yeosang get closer to san it may make a distant between them and woo cuz they will hung out together and woo will be left over it one of the possibilities also it may make them a strong trio in the end i think woo must give yeosang the same love that he give to san cuz he's the one in between them
@@marysoo2434 today san confirmed that he and woo got same tattoo on the same spot. I feel happy for them but I can feel that Yeosang left behind since he can't express his feeling much like extrovert person. I make me sad tho as an introvert person too
You can have 2 best friends
@@ecytb7042 yes u can but it’s the fact that Yeosang was feeling left behind
San trying to reconcile and everyone basically ignores him :(
So the conclusion is, let's not be involved in this and love all the members. Just let them solve it and don't involve.
now a lot are laughing about this.. but i think this is a really serious and dangerous situation. This triangle shit can destroy all three of them. Yeosang will be sad, san will be sad and i think wooyoung is overstrained with this.
This can end reaaaaally bad.
It seems like they all doenst speak about their feelings (i know we dont see everything) and when they act like this, this wont get better.
I hope they can make this up and everyone can be happy
Nah, you should watch the full vlive version 🤣 it turned out to be funny the way they jealous to each other because the whole video is about every member talking about their concern as a team. Even Mingi get jealous over wooyoung. And Yunho get jealous over 99 liner. And Jongho get jealous because he is the only one who 00 liner 🤣🤣🤣.
Wahyu Altair nahhh.
i don't just talking about this video :(
I understand what you're trying to say. The fact that Yeosang just poured out his feelings out of nowhere and went as far back as 2 years ago means that he's been holding it in for a while. This shows that Yeosang isn't one to talk about his feelings so he just keeps it all in until it all just comes out which is what happened in this vlive. And wooyoung is the type of person that's tricked by familiarity like San said. He just expects Yeosang to be ok with everything because they've been best friends for years. It's really just about communication, once they have that down. They're friendship will only grow stronger. This vlive was also an old one so things are probably alot better since they have this understanding
Just wanna say that this was back in December of 2019. 9 months ago. Their friendship has gotten a lot better and I think they are all closer now. Recently they asked woo about his best friends and he said "Yeosang and San" not only that, but I can see that he has learned how to be with not only San, but the rest of the group too. 💕
true though, my friendship of 8 years with my 2 other close friends was totally toxic because of this type of misunderstandings. and we never talk to each other now. I'm only keeping in touch with only one of them now
I totally understand the position that these 3 are in. It’s def hard to keep oneself from getting hurt by seeing their bestest of friends be close with another. If yeosang was not being so considerate of everyone’s feelings, it would Ben hard for others to get close to his best friend bc they already have that kind of bond. Meanwhile there is San who is just super affectionate toward woo and I can imagine how he’s feeling too😩I personally have to remind myself not to get jealous of my best friend being with her other friends but I def struggle because she’s my only friend
The leader looks at the members with such fondness and understanding 😭🥺
felt sad for yeosang😔 poor baby🥺
Honestly I always felt like a horrible person whenever I felt jealous of my friends having other friends but seeing this and everyone’s comments makes me feel comforted that It is a common thing to happen
lets be honest, i think we all have experience this and its completely normal as they are humans too. Its no ones fault.
what kdrama is this
I’m saying🤣🤣🤣
Woosansang
😂😂😂😂😂
An ateez triangle love story ❤ 💕
"Even Atiny knows about this."
As a Baby Atiny, even I knew Yeosang must have felt like this. 😅
It can't be easy watching your close friend getting closer to another and spending less time with you.
But I'm happy that's no longer the case. 🙂
Yeah, I've definitely been in the same situation many times and I feel for Yeosang here. I'm glad that they managed to sort it out and are now a close trio!
The friendship between Yeosang and Woo is so precious 🥺
Yeosang is my bias because he is most introverted member in the group and I feel like we share lots of similarities and all. I really understand his pain and everything but I just want to say when something like this happen I would have yuhno reaction like getting the tea 😂
Mingi in the middle of it all "Yunho what are you doing?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I really understand Yeosang. Two years ago, I was in the same position as him.My best friend since school (9 years of friendship at that moment) knew a friend of mine at her job. They have similar personalities, likes and hobbies. In a very short time they became very close. I was studying at uni, so it was difficult for me to see her. It was kind of hurt at the beginning, just thinking that my best friend found some similar to her. Because we are kind of opposite. After some time, I realize I was kind of glad she found someone similar to her. Because she can do things she was not able to do with me.
now, the tatto.... i really just wanna hug yeosang rn
This conversation was so honest if i were the one in Yeosang’s place I would’ve cried already! 🥺 Please protect all of them. Also Mingi calling out Yunho was so funny! 😅
Not yunho at the last moment saying do you want me to go now 💀 I can't- with this jealous-teez
I think after this conversation, I noticed that San tried to include Yeosang more and to go out of his way to care for him. I really love watching ATEEZ grow as individuals and as a team - I just find them to be so relatable, even as I'm blown away by their talent.
The respectful, honest, heartfelt and at times funny ways in which they talked about this was actually quite cool to see as a girl, I don’t get to see those interactions often so you are often left wondering what male friendships are like. This was cool, they were pretty mature about it
As an introvert myself, I know how hurtful it is when your bff starts distancing from you.
Like even if unintentionally but it feels bad seeing your best friend hanging out with other friends and just leaving you out.
And if I was Yeosang I would have been a crying mess while trying to explain myself .
Their friendship is so pure and beautiful and strong.
I'm crying :(
Awwww, anyone notice seonghwas self soothing technique? when wooyoung says “6 years of friendship” all sadly he begins to hug and rock himself
After looking back, this was a wonderful way to get words off of their chests. Everyone who wanted to speak, spoke. The rest of the members were respectful and only chimed in at appropriate times. Hongjoong really used the correct method to get POVs across. I hope this is a method they use in their dorms. Truly what an amazing leader. As someone like yeosang, I’ve learnt that being friends with 3 ppl is hard. 2 are always closer and ones Just on the side and speaks when necessary.
I just started crying when Wooyoung hugged Yeosang....
So I haven’t been able to get to know the members much but I have always seen “woosan” everywhere but never “woosang” and I always get so confused Bc Ik woosang has been together the longest but then I come to find out woosan apparently is “bigger” than woosang and I have always wondered why hasn’t Yeosang said anything or what does Yeosang think? Does he know? Do the other members know? And now I see this video. Ngl I was in tears this whole video and when Wooyoung hugged Yeosang I started bawling. I know what it’s like being left out so it hit a little too close to home💀😔
This was from long ago but I feel myself in Yeosang's shoes, my friend was the only one I can talk to comfortably and seeing her all of a sudden grow cold to me really hurt me, to the point I had a mental breakdown in front of her. My friend talked to me and I told her all of my concerns, she understood me and tried her best to make it up because she knew that she was the only one I'm incredibly close to. I'm glad that we got through that time and I also learned to accept that my friend can have other friends too, and she learned that she would at least treat all of her friends equal.
Being an introvert was the thing that put the cherry on top of my mind full of anxieties and bad thoughts
omg this is more complicated than my physics test but im sure they have matured now i mean not that they wrrent mature but well uh honestly idfk im just gonna cry gby
drifting from a long time best friend is painful enough, but watching them get really close w someone else just adds another layer of pain. i feel for yeosang.
I cried when woo young hug yeosang and told him that he is the reason why he joined the company coz i thnk he wanna be with him always. I thnk out of all of woo young friemds (txt yeonjun and stry kids changbins and otners ) yeosang is the most special, i mean theyre totally opposite but they stick and click together
Yunho just sitting in the middle looking back and forth 😂
damn friendship is complicated, just like any other relationship. this video made me rethink all my friendships in the past, everything I said or do and now I'm just sad thinking I might've hurt someone without even knowing it.