This the actual process only ,first you achieve something in your life and then become philosopher 😂😂 Pravachan nhi dena hai kaise bhi kiseke bhi aage phele apne life me kuch ukhaado , be it money, Olympic medal, research paper thesis, invention, innovation or some policy and socioeconomic achievement. Phir baad me philosopher hi bana hai jab tak dharm , arth , kaam kiya hi nhi toh moksh tak kaise pahunch jaoge. Bhaiya aap bhi banao Aisa kuch hum bhi sunege aapko aap bhi ban jana philosopher phir abhi apna kaam par dhyaan do 😂😂😂
@@Serious90-e6g he still earns more than you lol -- and you know through experience that society and people at large is capitalistic. So cut the act. Money will be respected -- at all times.
What's noticeable and laudable is that Nikhil knows he doesn't want a family. A sizable number of individuals give in to the societal pressure of getting married and end up messing theirs and their spouses lives.
when u have gf like nikhil’s .u can never dare to marry . otherwise it will be disaster. he know very well that the girl he is dating is not suitable for marriage but only a source of enjoyment for few odd years .
I think he still is figuring out if he can commit to someone in an institution like marriage which means in a way he does think of marriage as an important step of one’s life and he knows his need for space too because that how he functions as a human rn. Some people are loners by heart. They work in a specific manner. Not their fault entirely.
But its better wait than to f up... u will eventually land up exactly where u are meant to... maybe he hasn't met the right person because believe me... the right one will transform u to a level where u wont be able to avoid her/him.
getting married or not is his choice. Having family , love etc are overly romanticised when it is actually not. There are lot of people who wish to come out of family and marriage but are stuck. Instead of that he choose to stay single. Good for him.
The reason you get to comment is because you parents decided to marry each other. Marriage isn't a pill that you pop at a party to feel good, it is the foundation upon which a functioning society is built.
@@dattaganesh1 If someone says marriage is not his cup of tea. Why does it hurt you? My parents choose to get married and have me is their choice. If someone says they don’t want to live that life it’s their choice too. It’s because of society pressures people who are not ready for marriage are marrying and those who are not ready for kids are having kids. And this kinda forced marriages eventually give trauma to each other and also they give trauma to their children for life. Why not accept if someone is not interested in marriage and stuff…. Better leave them alone.
@@learnlivelove1 Nobody is forcing anyone to get married. If you think most parents are “ready” to have children then you are mistaken. It’s safe to say if a billionaire like Nikhil Kamath isn’t ready then 99.99% of the population isn’t. People need to stop taking hedonistic nonsense they watch on Netflix as philosophy lessons. Marriage is tough, life is hard but at the end having children and finding partner that adds meaning to your life is what matters.
Shahrukh Khan once said, be rich first and then be a philosopher. Now that Nikhil has earned enough and freed him self from the financial insecurities that a normal human would deal with at every stage of life, his decision to remain single is coming from a very holistic place. Also, there are lot of cases that we all know where partners and/or kids have been the driving force for an individual to go against their comfort zone and have achieved success, or at least it gives a reason to wake up in the morning and go to work to fend for their beloved family, this gives meaning to their actions and to their lives, also gives a sense of vitality which is anti-dote to depression. Both ideologies are great but one has to be brutally honest with oneself and radically accept the outcome they might receive from the choice they made and have lots of patience to see the fruits. As he is influenced by Kiran Majumdar, who is also a well-known philanthropist, Nikhil, one-day is likely to become one himself. This is what Indian sages/scriptures have said. If you don't have your own family or child, treat your surroundings/neighborhood/state/country or society at large as your own and spend your time and other resources for their well being. This seems the only way for one to maintain one's sanity otherwise one might keep over-analyzing and spending on therapist to deal with existential crisis or they may start exhibiting their narcissistic traits buried deep within their sub-conscious.
I feel Nikhil is used to too much of data analysis.. While it is good for his businesses and investments, using the same philosophy in personal life sounds like overkill.
But Nikhil, Ms Shaw is fulfilled in life, because she was not restrictive to any normal things in life, be it love, marriage or kids. Kids never happened to her. but she was all open to those ideas and never chained her life . But, people like us, may not be feeling secure as her at her age or any age if we haven't explored those aspects of life without fear
There is no end to analysis...it just goes onn and onn...just do wat you feel like...live in the present...marry or no marry...it's a choice one should take about how one feels rather by overthinking about the pros and cons...in such a diverse and beautiful world we have examples of every nature, it's just that one resonates with the one dat one wants/needs to attach to. There is subtext to everything...hope nikhil have a great, compassionate and a blissful life ahead.
Is it just me or Nikhil Kamath never really looks truly happy, like is always overthinking his emotions. Maybe he should just go with the flow. All I feel is if you keep telling yourself you will not get married and you will not have kids that just takes away the spontaneity from life, you can never go with the flow and let yourself fall in love because you are too preoccupied with your thoughts.
Yes he is unhappy. He keeps justifying all the time that marriage and having kids are of no use. If he has made up his mind, why bring it again and again. But he is unsure about his decision, he seeks validation. Probably his parents had a terrible marriage, but he being a public figure should not endorse such views as it influences so many people. He can step back from his decision and marry easily to a great girl in future given his wealth, looks and fitness but ordinary guys can't after reaching a certain age. Hope his viewers realise this thing.
@@YourLifeMatters15 why , the question is brought by Ranbir and when women can advise to not marry and don't have kids why not a man ? The question about his marriage comes from many people because he is a filthy rich man , if Nikhil kamath doesn't have what material money and assets he have then 99% of people wouldn't bothered about his marriage except few people like is brother.
I agree, he looks depressed and he looks like he is struggling with his s£xuality as well, if you know, you know. It will be better if he won't marry and waste someone's time. Glad he is aware that he don't want family and wouldn't be able to handle that.
Its u not the societal norms which should decide where shuould u flow.... What is this go with the flow?...... If for someone marriage doesn't come in that flowlooo track let him not do that... Whu r u to decide flow for someone else
Most of the comments seems to be judging his choice where as he was actually expressing what he feels. Probably that is the same reason people like Nikhil are not able to open up truly. Hope he finds his peaceful place. Loneliness is only felt until we seek joy and company of others. Take care Nikhil!!!
Yes I'm noticing same, Nikhil got a lot of criticism for his statement. Almost boys are abusing him in every possible way just because he avoids the Indian marriage framework
Nikhil, your transient ideology may even lead you to marriage. I have seen many guys who say they don’t want to get married, eventually get married when they meet the right gal. You can’t beat destiny. Time will reveal what’s in store.
well one can when you try extremely hard, destiny is what you do in the present with a vision of the future, if he decide's he doesn't have to give into any kind of emotion's no matter which gal he meet's programs himself for a year r more that is his body mind and soul nobody on earth can penetrate that guy ever.
@@sanchitvishwakarma1108 well, will wait and watch. FYI, he was married once which did not work out. What we want or don't want changes with time. What he doesn't want can become a want in the future. You never know.
Miss, I meant in a different way, go watch his zepto founder's video in which he says that marrying seriously limits one's abilities for achieving greatest feat's(who know's he might be aiming for a $100B) or to come in the world's richest that's what I meant with a guy like him.
At that stage, hooking up is not as exciting as you may think. After a point, one is satisfied of it. I have seen highs and lows and based on seeing people around me, can tell.
@@Adityapangul-s1fnot really …. Having kids means so much pressure of giving them good life , luxuries. Nowadays school fees are so high, kids do so much comparison with each other. It’s really complicated to have kids in today’s time.
Why should one have biological kids...... there are so many people who adopt kids, look at sushmita......It would be fantastic to see her one day at your podcast. God bless!!!
if every one adopts kids, who will be birthing them? your advice is good but it cannot be applicable for all population as a whole. Some people really love to have a little/future version of themselves or their loved ones. Why are we making a simple act of having a child look like a sin or lesser than adopting a kid. That sounds like virtue signalling.
@@SudhamsuSharmaneodonlywe are overpopulated, this exact mentality is also a cause of overpopulation 🤦🏻♂️ Go to any adoption center, there are so many kids and nobody is adopting them. People love to brag about adopting kids but nobody is actually adopting them 😅 and btw, giving birth is not a simple act, it requires sacrifice, risk, some even lose life, and a lot of money. Op wasn't virtue signalling anything. At the end, it's your choice if you want to carry for 9 months and birth or not.
@@talkingtochapri we aren't overpopulated...we just haven't found new lands to move in to, we as in our forefathers unlike Europeans. Neither did we lose many people to war in last 200-300 years. Also we lost out on land to invaders who also overpopulated in our lands.
Nikhil does not have a yes or a no to an answer !! Which is quite annoying most of the times. He justifies himself too much !! I really like this guy but I feel he should work on answering the questions more straight o the point.
When someone says they have done it all in life without actually managing a family i would say they are just pushing away responsibility Having a family and keeping the wife and kids fulfilled and upbringing of kids in certain way is really under estimated as an ability in todays life Because there arent any standards He wants to stay single coz he feels he can give more to people in need but not for common people😊
It's true. People marry because that is expected and then curse their family with someone who wants to be free and not really take care of them. But on the other side there is age, you might not have a family and be ok with it now, but what if you lose your charm to attract or the time to create a family and realize you need a family, at say 50.
Its really dumb to feel you will be lonely in your 70s if you don't have kids or don't get married. First of all why are you thinking about your 70s in your 20s or 30s? Do you know how many peoples struggle in 30s,40s because of their partners and kids? not getting married and having kids is the best thing you can do for yourself
I totally agree with you, staying single and taking care of yourself and focusing on career is the best thing one can do, invest in health insurance to take care of yourself in 70's , not kids
He's doing these interviews for a reason, he's having many questions in mind and while interacting he gets all the answers from already achieved personalities.
I think there is a context for everything. Within the context both choices i.e., Getting married or staying single are equally valid. To think that one advice is a clear winner over the other all the time is probably a miscalculation from a person.
Dear Nikhil Sir, You are my inspiration. Whenever I open the TH-cam app, all the videos I see are yours. Every two hours, I watch and listen to you. The first time I watched one of your interviews, I didn't know much about you. After that interview, everything changed. You broke a belief that had been set in my mind since childhood, and at that moment, I felt so weak.I would love to work with you in the future. Sir, please keep smiling 😊
Does he think that a normal married person doesn't change?! Megalomaniac! Marriage is about commitment because everyone and everything changes , buddy ! It's a sign of a mature intellect !
@@vu-pd6uf You explain it easily, but do you really follow those powerful quotes of yours? So many things that you may love are result of work of others. If you take them for granted because you are paying money then a day will come when money cant buy those.
Kamat brothers have done enough during COVID times ,they open a kitchen serving 20k food packets reaching needy, they have supplied oxygen to state govt during Dr Ashwath Narayana was home minister, many ambulances donated, unfortunately they don't do it for publicity. It's very inspiring to see self made youngest billionaires in country
@@omnamahashivya15 so true. These brothers are inspirations and real heroes. People should follow them and not those attention seeking bollywood celebrities.
As a kid on whom birth was forcefully imposed I didnt want to be born..now I have to live through because I cannot take my own life and I am not even depressed...jus stuck being born..meh
I am day by day becoming Nikhil's fan now!! Wow!! That's how we should be... why do we need to tie ourselves to the societal norms?? Kids,marriage... blah blah!! We should actually try to find happiness within ourselves!!
OMG!!!1 of worst set up for a professional interview. Who's interviewing who here??. Both need support and therapy. This should of been a private convo. More on Ranbir as a star pls!!!
I feel as he reads lots of books , so he is having a relationship with books. I mean books give us so much knowledge, ideas, growth and are not at all demanding .Also he like some of us has already figured out the fact that "what's the point anyway end mey toh sab marne wale hai "😂
whether he wants to marry/not, have kids/not, he might be thinking that he is the one currently making a choice, but deep down its his fate and destiny, the valid questions should be like if he is satisfied/happy/peaceful in life currently ? no one can beat destiny, he doesnt know what would he be doing or how his life would be next moment onwards, its all karma that only matters, nothing in the materialistic world goes beyond,
how many girls have you known except the genZ chapris to come to the conclusions that all girls hate deep wise men? xD Not all women are cringe and shallow.
Visit Neem Karoli baba place once. Visit Rishikesh/Kasol/Malana and interior places of Himachal pradesh . And the valleys in Nepal. Moral of the story: There will be a New born Nikhil. India need you!!❤️❤️ From Bangalore
Nikhil's totally spiritually detached from his soul. He has no clue about his needs as a spiritual human. Look at Elon Musk per se; he might be a westerner; but he's 1000% crystal clear about his soul's need and purpose.
I think… being comfortable in ur skin with the other person in personal space is most important. Even I believe after 4 months as well u are not the same, u are keep on thinking and changing.. and u just need someone as a partner who understands that and be there. Because i would love to be the same. No dramas only peace and curiosity.
in my eyes he looks far happier than you -- happiness is not excitement. It's about an underlying sense of peace and joy. And is based on long-term. He looks centered asf. Self-aware too.
@@anobody4464 he does not look happy, he seems to be highly insecure and crazy for validation. true leaders never crave validation. listen to his elder brother, he sounds much more confident, composed and motivated in life and he is actually the ceo and running the co.
@@MtNisyou don't seem to understand what a podcast essentially is. He didn't seek any validation from anybody when he became a billionaire. Via Zerodha. This is a podcast. Here what's going on from his POV is NOT seeking validation. He is merely discussing stuffs. To bring out ideas. Don't project your own insecurities on others please. Accept the fact that you are afraid And he is a winner. You are not. So you try to make him look small.
39...best years of my life also stressful were last 5yrs since my daughter was born..she will grow up..n move appart eventually but i wouldn't trade these intial.years with her for any other sense of freedom or i am happy in life bulshit..having my daughter has brought beautiful learnings as human..much more than a book or some philosopher would bring..
@@Abrakadabra9to5 That is the life you picked, my friend and you are content with it. Similarly, this is the life Nikhil or others with similar beliefs wish to lead, and if they are content, that is also acceptable.
JUST U MENTION DAUGHTER😮 AND SOME DAY SOMEONE LIKE U WILL MARRY UR DAUGHTER AND HIS IMPORTANCE WILL ALSO BE his son or DAUGHTER AND NOT BOTH WIFE AND DAUGHTER 😮😮😮
Ranbir asking questions huh.. He did wat every man does hoe around then married a younger woman by years.. His is not in position to talk or ask. Nikhil seems more practical When one is not ready to marry atleast he/she is not spoiling someone else's life.
Marriage is personal choice. However the reason "changing" should not be reason for not marrying because everything in this universe is subject to change. @Nikhil, NOTHING is CONSTANT. As we grow all people will change. There is no perfect Life partner, marriage, but in good marriage change in each other is embraced and they both grow together and get older.
Why are people disposing gyan here? He doesnt want to get married nor have kids. Just cos you people do what society expects you to do, doesnt mean he has to.
I do agree with Nikhil Kamath on his view point of marriages, but personally for me I feel like attachments are scary and to add on that people really don't care, one misunderstanding or a differences would make them forget you completely even though the other has realised their mistake there's no going back, so why should we risk ourselves in getting into serious relationship with anyone when people can forget your existence so easily, relationships are nothing but a burden.
when u r billionaire u don’t need marriage e u need assurance that every decision he makes doesn’t backfire, for him one thing is not working that is ignorance is bliss
I think if you can get the best of both worlds it’s the best thing. I came across something called L.A.T. “Living apart together” that may work for people who are loyal to the core but do not want to marry and live together.
He has achieved everything in life. Now he has become philosopher .
@@mynameisjimmy9823 not evrything
People these days
Ravi : Sir what's your name ?
Rich & successful guy : I don't say name to strangers ? H
Ravi : wah saar what a philosophy
Crap
This the actual process only ,first you achieve something in your life and then become philosopher 😂😂
Pravachan nhi dena hai kaise bhi kiseke bhi aage phele apne life me kuch ukhaado , be it money, Olympic medal, research paper thesis, invention, innovation or some policy and socioeconomic achievement.
Phir baad me philosopher hi bana hai jab tak dharm , arth , kaam kiya hi nhi toh moksh tak kaise pahunch jaoge.
Bhaiya aap bhi banao Aisa kuch hum bhi sunege aapko aap bhi ban jana philosopher phir abhi apna kaam par dhyaan do 😂😂😂
Theek hain maggi banaate haun 😂
@@Serious90-e6g he still earns more than you lol -- and you know through experience that society and people at large is capitalistic.
So cut the act.
Money will be respected -- at all times.
What's noticeable and laudable is that Nikhil knows he doesn't want a family. A sizable number of individuals give in to the societal pressure of getting married and end up messing theirs and their spouses lives.
when u have gf like nikhil’s .u can never dare to marry . otherwise it will be disaster. he know very well that the girl he is dating is not suitable for marriage but only a source of enjoyment for few odd years .
@@Nakuldhullsingh what about your parents?
@@niranjan6918 better and more successful than ur whole family .
@@Nakuldhullsingh insecure kid LMAO
So true
I think nikhil is the guy ,who overthinks everything in life and justify by reasons which he feels it is right
yaa but because of that he has some good decision...but ya as u said he does oveercomplicate some stuff...
I think he still is figuring out if he can commit to someone in an institution like marriage which means in a way he does think of marriage as an important step of one’s life and he knows his need for space too because that how he functions as a human rn. Some people are loners by heart. They work in a specific manner. Not their fault entirely.
u get one life. why not over-think abt it?!
Soooooooooooo fuckinnnn true
But its better wait than to f up... u will eventually land up exactly where u are meant to... maybe he hasn't met the right person because believe me... the right one will transform u to a level where u wont be able to avoid her/him.
getting married or not is his choice. Having family , love etc are overly romanticised when it is actually not. There are lot of people who wish to come out of family and marriage but are stuck. Instead of that he choose to stay single. Good for him.
Many people may be not good in marriage may be good at anything other,in India nobody have freedom to choose
The reason you get to comment is because you parents decided to marry each other. Marriage isn't a pill that you pop at a party to feel good, it is the foundation upon which a functioning society is built.
@@dattaganesh1 If someone says marriage is not his cup of tea. Why does it hurt you? My parents choose to get married and have me is their choice. If someone says they don’t want to live that life it’s their choice too. It’s because of society pressures people who are not ready for marriage are marrying and those who are not ready for kids are having kids. And this kinda forced marriages eventually give trauma to each other and also they give trauma to their children for life. Why not accept if someone is not interested in marriage and stuff…. Better leave them alone.
@@learnlivelove1 👍🏻 💯🕉️💯
@@learnlivelove1 Nobody is forcing anyone to get married. If you think most parents are “ready” to have children then you are mistaken. It’s safe to say if a billionaire like Nikhil Kamath isn’t ready then 99.99% of the population isn’t. People need to stop taking hedonistic nonsense they watch on Netflix as philosophy lessons. Marriage is tough, life is hard but at the end having children and finding partner that adds meaning to your life is what matters.
Ranbir is highly intellectual 😊rarely saw a star listening so carefully...
Shahrukh Khan once said, be rich first and then be a philosopher. Now that Nikhil has earned enough and freed him self from the financial insecurities that a normal human would deal with at every stage of life, his decision to remain single is coming from a very holistic place. Also, there are lot of cases that we all know where partners and/or kids have been the driving force for an individual to go against their comfort zone and have achieved success, or at least it gives a reason to wake up in the morning and go to work to fend for their beloved family, this gives meaning to their actions and to their lives, also gives a sense of vitality which is anti-dote to depression. Both ideologies are great but one has to be brutally honest with oneself and radically accept the outcome they might receive from the choice they made and have lots of patience to see the fruits. As he is influenced by Kiran Majumdar, who is also a well-known philanthropist, Nikhil, one-day is likely to become one himself. This is what Indian sages/scriptures have said. If you don't have your own family or child, treat your surroundings/neighborhood/state/country or society at large as your own and spend your time and other resources for their well being. This seems the only way for one to maintain one's sanity otherwise one might keep over-analyzing and spending on therapist to deal with existential crisis or they may start exhibiting their narcissistic traits buried deep within their sub-conscious.
Most people marry to avoid loneliness and fear of old age. Stay true to yourself
So many insecure people on this video getting insecure about the fact that Nikhil chooses not get married and have kids.
xD true.
True :D
Exactly,”!
I feel Nikhil is used to too much of data analysis.. While it is good for his businesses and investments, using the same philosophy in personal life sounds like overkill.
Ranbir asking valid cross questions, kudos!
Yeah coz we expect all actors to be dodos
But Nikhil, Ms Shaw is fulfilled in life, because she was not restrictive to any normal things in life, be it love, marriage or kids. Kids never happened to her. but she was all open to those ideas and never chained her life . But, people like us, may not be feeling secure as her at her age or any age if we haven't explored those aspects of life without fear
He didn't ask others not to have a family. He is talking about his own choice here.
There is no end to analysis...it just goes onn and onn...just do wat you feel like...live in the present...marry or no marry...it's a choice one should take about how one feels rather by overthinking about the pros and cons...in such a diverse and beautiful world we have examples of every nature, it's just that one resonates with the one dat one wants/needs to attach to. There is subtext to everything...hope nikhil have a great, compassionate and a blissful life ahead.
Is it just me or Nikhil Kamath never really looks truly happy, like is always overthinking his emotions. Maybe he should just go with the flow. All I feel is if you keep telling yourself you will not get married and you will not have kids that just takes away the spontaneity from life, you can never go with the flow and let yourself fall in love because you are too preoccupied with your thoughts.
Yes he is unhappy. He keeps justifying all the time that marriage and having kids are of no use. If he has made up his mind, why bring it again and again. But he is unsure about his decision, he seeks validation.
Probably his parents had a terrible marriage, but he being a public figure should not endorse such views as it influences so many people. He can step back from his decision and marry easily to a great girl in future given his wealth, looks and fitness but ordinary guys can't after reaching a certain age. Hope his viewers realise this thing.
@@YourLifeMatters15
why , the question is brought by Ranbir and when women can advise to not marry and don't have kids why not a man ?
The question about his marriage comes from many people because he is a filthy rich man , if Nikhil kamath doesn't have what material money and assets he have then 99% of people wouldn't bothered about his marriage except few people like is brother.
I agree, he looks depressed and he looks like he is struggling with his s£xuality as well, if you know, you know. It will be better if he won't marry and waste someone's time. Glad he is aware that he don't want family and wouldn't be able to handle that.
Its u not the societal norms which should decide where shuould u flow.... What is this go with the flow?...... If for someone marriage doesn't come in that flowlooo track let him not do that... Whu r u to decide flow for someone else
@@talkingtochapri seems like u have tried his wifi 😂😂otherwise how can someone be so aware of the data speed
Most of the comments seems to be judging his choice where as he was actually expressing what he feels. Probably that is the same reason people like Nikhil are not able to open up truly. Hope he finds his peaceful place. Loneliness is only felt until we seek joy and company of others. Take care Nikhil!!!
@@dreepk8118 obviously 🧿
dissect the flower so much that you know what it is but it no more is there
Yes true dissect and u stop enjoying the flower
Wow profound
Wow you just nailed it 😂
WOOOW
Loved it ;) This one line is more profound than Nikhil's entire life 😅
Nikhil has reached on top in Maslow's hierarchy of need
Too much analysis of a simple thing called life.
😂😂 exactly 💯
@@mypetismexactly otherwise missing the obvious
Riight. Just coz his views differs frm urs. Too much analysis?! He is analyzing his own life. May be you shud do tht for ur own life
@@TheRhinodon Did anybody say anything about different views? 😂😂 A postmortem is a postmortem. Why so agitated?😂😂
Lol
He is making everything serious calmly which makes other think he is right
Love, How people who are married/ who have kids, are constantly criticising Nikhil to safeguard their own decision. 😅
Yes I'm noticing same, Nikhil got a lot of criticism for his statement. Almost boys are abusing him in every possible way just because he avoids the Indian marriage framework
Nikhil, your transient ideology may even lead you to marriage. I have seen many guys who say they don’t want to get married, eventually get married when they meet the right gal. You can’t beat destiny. Time will reveal what’s in store.
well one can when you try extremely hard, destiny is what you do in the present with a vision of the future, if he decide's he doesn't have to give into any kind of emotion's no matter which gal he meet's programs himself for a year r more that is his body mind and soul nobody on earth can penetrate that guy ever.
@@sanchitvishwakarma1108 well, will wait and watch. FYI, he was married once which did not work out. What we want or don't want changes with time. What he doesn't want can become a want in the future. You never know.
Miss, I meant in a different way, go watch his zepto founder's video in which he says that marrying seriously limits one's abilities for achieving greatest feat's(who know's he might be aiming for a $100B) or to come in the world's richest that's what I meant with a guy like him.
A few rich people don't believe in marriage and believe in solitude but enjoy life hooking up with strangers! Just saying
At that stage, hooking up is not as exciting as you may think. After a point, one is satisfied of it. I have seen highs and lows and based on seeing people around me, can tell.
@@ai-ml-india-hardik we cannot generalise this
nothing wrong with that
IF MARRIAGE IS SUCH A TOOL TO FULFILL LIFE THEN WHY 84% IS THE "REPORTED" DATA OF MARITAL RAPE, 34% MARITAL MURDER AND ENDLESS UNFORTUNATE INCIDENTS 😮
I am 36 married but never feel I am lacking a child
is it really necessery to have kids?
@@Adityapangul-s1fnot really …. Having kids means so much pressure of giving them good life , luxuries. Nowadays school fees are so high, kids do so much comparison with each other. It’s really complicated to have kids in today’s time.
Why should one have biological kids...... there are so many people who adopt kids, look at sushmita......It would be fantastic to see her one day at your podcast. God bless!!!
if every one adopts kids, who will be birthing them?
your advice is good but it cannot be applicable for all population as a whole.
Some people really love to have a little/future version of themselves or their loved ones.
Why are we making a simple act of having a child look like a sin or lesser than adopting a kid.
That sounds like virtue signalling.
@@SudhamsuSharmaneodonlywe are overpopulated, this exact mentality is also a cause of overpopulation 🤦🏻♂️ Go to any adoption center, there are so many kids and nobody is adopting them. People love to brag about adopting kids but nobody is actually adopting them 😅 and btw, giving birth is not a simple act, it requires sacrifice, risk, some even lose life, and a lot of money. Op wasn't virtue signalling anything. At the end, it's your choice if you want to carry for 9 months and birth or not.
@@talkingtochapri we aren't overpopulated...we just haven't found new lands to move in to, we as in our forefathers unlike Europeans. Neither did we lose many people to war in last 200-300 years. Also we lost out on land to invaders who also overpopulated in our lands.
5 years from now :
"Im Nikita Kamat. I identify as a woman. My pronouns are they/them."
😂😂😂oh guru yeh toh funny ho gya
Ranbir is interviewing Nikhil the whole episode while it should have been the opposite. 😂
I would like to appreciate Ranbir Kapoors second side. He is really a good interviewer.
Overthinking is not good for life
Some people can’t help it. Their brains are wired like that.
say that to yourself -- sharp , clear and centered thinking isn't overthinking.
Unnecessary advice also
I kinda feel more genuinity from Nikhil .. Thanks man .. for inspiring 💌
Nikhil does not have a yes or a no to an answer !! Which is quite annoying most of the times. He justifies himself too much !!
I really like this guy but I feel he should work on answering the questions more straight o the point.
True.But here he is quite clear on his stand.
I agree , he is just dilly-dallying around it . couple of years we will know if he actually follows through what he is talking about....
To be honest, he don't even look convinced with his own answers 😂
Coz he’s transient even in his answers 😂
I didn't know Ranbir had a great skill to interview.. as an interviewer nice ..
When someone says they have done it all in life without actually managing a family i would say they are just pushing away responsibility
Having a family and keeping the wife and kids fulfilled and upbringing of kids in certain way is really under estimated as an ability in todays life
Because there arent any standards
He wants to stay single coz he feels he can give more to people in need but not for common people😊
It's true. People marry because that is expected and then curse their family with someone who wants to be free and not really take care of them. But on the other side there is age, you might not have a family and be ok with it now, but what if you lose your charm to attract or the time to create a family and realize you need a family, at say 50.
Its really dumb to feel you will be lonely in your 70s if you don't have kids or don't get married.
First of all why are you thinking about your 70s in your 20s or 30s?
Do you know how many peoples struggle in 30s,40s because of their partners and kids?
not getting married and having kids is the best thing you can do for yourself
I totally agree with you, staying single and taking care of yourself and focusing on career is the best thing one can do, invest in health insurance to take care of yourself in 70's , not kids
well said,
Nikhil is the man who needs to be idolized..high time
These guys are fucking with my mind.
ignore some things, take things as they come in life and make the best choice at the time,
Take this as entertainment purpose only
He's doing these interviews for a reason, he's having many questions in mind and while interacting he gets all the answers from already achieved personalities.
Live the way u want …. Kudos to nikhil 🎉
He lives life on his terms. that's great.
I think there is a context for everything.
Within the context both choices i.e., Getting married or staying single are equally valid.
To think that one advice is a clear winner over the other all the time is probably a miscalculation from a person.
Nikhil Sir I respect your perspective about life n marriage...n appreciate as well ..
Dear Nikhil Sir,
You are my inspiration. Whenever I open the TH-cam app, all the videos I see are yours. Every two hours, I watch and listen to you.
The first time I watched one of your interviews, I didn't know much about you. After that interview, everything changed. You broke a belief that had been set in my mind since childhood, and at that moment, I felt so weak.I would love to work with you in the future.
Sir, please keep smiling 😊
Perfect example of how work gets you attention and fame. Kamath brothers Kudos 🎉
He will marry same way he just bought a home. Thoughts keep on changing, nothing is constant except change.
Love listening to Nikhil. My favourite timepass. Who cares what he is professionaly. Absolutely love his thinking patterns.
Loved it! So informative and deep ✨
Nice! Honest answers from nikhil!✌
Liked nikhil being honest
Ranbir❤ is most clever smart good looking with brain actor
Ranbir be like :Main phas toh nahi Gaya ?
Does he think that a normal married person doesn't change?! Megalomaniac! Marriage is about commitment because everyone and everything changes , buddy ! It's a sign of a mature intellect !
Any drastic change may lead to differences.What Nikhil indicates is right.
@@vu-pd6uf You explain it easily, but do you really follow those powerful quotes of yours? So many things that you may love are result of work of others. If you take them for granted because you are paying money then a day will come when money cant buy those.
Commitments are scary, Attachments are even scarier
@@SudhamsuSharmaneodonly Life is not only relationship vs money.. wake up!!!
@@rpaafourever7908 why are you telling me this?
Did you read my previous comment properly?
and you ask me to Wake up ?! 🤔
Don't get married but sponsor some children from some orphanages.. they need someone and you are the best person for this job.
If parents had not courage to do take care of his children then why did they produce it just for sex
@@vasuarora9588u need some help .. what is the mistake of children
He is already doing it. Watch 'WTF is Bangalore' he has mentioned about it there.
Kamat brothers have done enough during COVID times ,they open a kitchen serving 20k food packets reaching needy, they have supplied oxygen to state govt during Dr Ashwath Narayana was home minister, many ambulances donated, unfortunately they don't do it for publicity.
It's very inspiring to see self made youngest billionaires in country
@@omnamahashivya15 so true. These brothers are inspirations and real heroes. People should follow them and not those attention seeking bollywood celebrities.
She also admitted her not having kids was her biggest mistake
As a kid on whom birth was forcefully imposed I didnt want to be born..now I have to live through because I cannot take my own life and I am not even depressed...jus stuck being born..meh
family life is for everyone, as soon as you realise which group you belong it would be much better
He is in the process of finding happiness.
Bro skipped the hormonal trap and went straight to blissful comfort.
Best wishes.
Who called whom at podcast?
I am day by day becoming Nikhil's fan now!! Wow!! That's how we should be... why do we need to tie ourselves to the societal norms?? Kids,marriage... blah blah!! We should actually try to find happiness within ourselves!!
If m there i could have given big deep hug to Nikhil Sir ..
OMG!!!1 of worst set up for a professional interview. Who's interviewing who here??. Both need support and therapy. This should of been a private convo. More on Ranbir as a star pls!!!
I feel as he reads lots of books , so he is having a relationship with books. I mean books give us so much knowledge, ideas, growth and are not at all demanding .Also he like some of us has already figured out the fact that "what's the point anyway end mey toh sab marne wale hai "😂
whether he wants to marry/not, have kids/not, he might be thinking that he is the one currently making a choice, but deep down its his fate and destiny,
the valid questions should be like if he is satisfied/happy/peaceful in life currently ?
no one can beat destiny, he doesnt know what would he be doing or how his life would be next moment onwards, its all karma that only matters, nothing in the materialistic world goes beyond,
Bro keep doing till 70, we really enjoy your show
When was this interview conducted?
Being cautious is good. Self discovery is important. Relatable
2:40 - He forgot chess 😢😅
He knows if he gets married with so much philosophy girl will be running with half of his property as alimony 😂
Expected, even i thought the same .
how many girls have you known except the genZ chapris to come to the conclusions that all girls hate deep wise men? xD
Not all women are cringe and shallow.
Visit Neem Karoli baba place once.
Visit Rishikesh/Kasol/Malana and interior places of Himachal pradesh .
And the valleys in Nepal.
Moral of the story: There will be a New born Nikhil.
India need you!!❤️❤️ From Bangalore
You Just visit Acharya Prashant once
@@mehakbatra6194 😂😂😂lol....I will not.
I will visit Elvish Yadav!! 💕💕
@@Xxyyuh good
It is his personal choice - marry or not. Why are married people getting offended in comments?
everyone wants to live nikhils life become a multi millionaire or billionaire then live life without marrying just enjoy
Dude Nikhil, pls don’t overthink bro! After seeing your video Benchooth Saab Marne wale hai, I stopped thinking and have started taking life easy.
Nikhil's totally spiritually detached from his soul. He has no clue about his needs as a spiritual human.
Look at Elon Musk per se; he might be a westerner; but he's 1000% crystal clear about his soul's need and purpose.
Why is he so complex ?
@@tanushree0610 Just because you don't understand /agree with him doesn't make him complex. Stop being so judgemental.
I think… being comfortable in ur skin with the other person in personal space is most important. Even I believe after 4 months as well u are not the same, u are keep on thinking and changing.. and u just need someone as a partner who understands that and be there. Because i would love to be the same. No dramas only peace and curiosity.
Nikhil podcast are so good n become fan of you
Nikhil should never marry. He is living well. Very genuine person, nothing fake.
Never take life ideas from people who doesn’t have very pleasant life and ain’t very happy with there own life
True
in my eyes he looks far happier than you -- happiness is not excitement.
It's about an underlying sense of peace and joy. And is based on long-term.
He looks centered asf. Self-aware too.
@@anobody4464 he does not look happy, he seems to be highly insecure and crazy for validation. true leaders never crave validation. listen to his elder brother, he sounds much more confident, composed and motivated in life and he is actually the ceo and running the co.
@@MtNismeanwhile nikhil sir with diff actresses all the time.😅
@@MtNisyou don't seem to understand what a podcast essentially is.
He didn't seek any validation from anybody when he became a billionaire. Via Zerodha.
This is a podcast. Here what's going on from his POV is NOT seeking validation.
He is merely discussing stuffs. To bring out ideas.
Don't project your own insecurities on others please.
Accept the fact that you are afraid
And he is a winner. You are not.
So you try to make him look small.
His views was similar on owning house... Few years back 😂
I’m sensing hes already in his Jupiter dasha . The transition is clear
He probably wants to avoid marriage because he was married once and it didn’t work out. A case of once bitten twice shy.
He know that if his marriage not gonna work he should pay hefty alimony to a **** , so why does he want to marry.
39...best years of my life also stressful were last 5yrs since my daughter was born..she will grow up..n move appart eventually but i wouldn't trade these intial.years with her for any other sense of freedom or i am happy in life bulshit..having my daughter has brought beautiful learnings as human..much more than a book or some philosopher would bring..
@@Abrakadabra9to5 observe nature and animals u could wonder more than this...
@@Abrakadabra9to5 That is the life you picked, my friend and you are content with it. Similarly, this is the life Nikhil or others with similar beliefs wish to lead, and if they are content, that is also acceptable.
JUST U MENTION DAUGHTER😮 AND SOME DAY SOMEONE LIKE U WILL MARRY UR DAUGHTER AND HIS IMPORTANCE WILL ALSO BE his son or DAUGHTER AND NOT BOTH WIFE AND DAUGHTER 😮😮😮
He said he won’t buy a house and now he owns one. So I expect him getting married anytime soon.
Ranbir asking questions huh..
He did wat every man does hoe around then married a younger woman by years.. His is not in position to talk or ask.
Nikhil seems more practical
When one is not ready to marry atleast he/she is not spoiling someone else's life.
introvert meets introvert….. Nikhil, if you are changing every year, then u don’t really if u might want to have a companion
Marriage is personal choice. However the reason "changing" should not be reason for not marrying because everything in this universe is subject to change. @Nikhil, NOTHING is CONSTANT. As we grow all people will change. There is no perfect Life partner, marriage, but in good marriage change in each other is embraced and they both grow together and get older.
Nk seems talking about self..
Living by following example is ok but realising self is best for oneself... time to explore spirituality..
He's already married and divorced.
For the sake of investments...i agree, don't retire in atleast next 20-25 years nikhil!!!😅😅😅😂😂😂
As per Google Nikhil once married
His brother nithin married
Yes.. He was married to amanda puravankara, and they got divorced
Why are people disposing gyan here? He doesnt want to get married nor have kids. Just cos you people do what society expects you to do, doesnt mean he has to.
I do agree with Nikhil Kamath on his view point of marriages, but personally for me I feel like attachments are scary and to add on that people really don't care, one misunderstanding or a differences would make them forget you completely even though the other has realised their mistake there's no going back, so why should we risk ourselves in getting into serious relationship with anyone when people can forget your existence so easily, relationships are nothing but a burden.
if podcasts are more in hindi, then i think more people can relate with you......
Everytime i listen him , i feel like to talkin to myself.
when u r billionaire u don’t need marriage e u need assurance that every decision he makes doesn’t backfire, for him one thing is not working that is ignorance is bliss
Nikhil acting like he is the greatest human being too ever live
He will be happier and will find that life is meaningful
Well...just loving it :-)
Who’s taking who’s interview? I thought it was Ranbir Kapoor !
As far as i can see i dont think its an interview..its just a conversation in between two people
It's a podcast dear not an interview.
Stoicism will be renamed as Nikhilism ,
I think if you can get the best of both worlds it’s the best thing. I came across something called L.A.T. “Living apart together” that may work for people who are loyal to the core but do not want to marry and live together.