Growing Out The Gray Update | Internalized Age Gap Phobia
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ส.ค. 2024
- Today's video touches on a few topics but the main one has left us a little bit puzzled. Let us know in the comments if you can figure this enigma out.
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We had no intentions of offending the age gap lesbian couple that we were referring to in this video. Our intention was to talk about Sadie’s experience, to show how much internalized age gap phobia is a reality nowadays in our society and culture. We ourselves, carry that phobia while being in an age gap relationship!
This video was meant to be thought provoking and not by any means offensive to other people who are in an age gap relationship. While also encouraging more age gap couples to come out, and normalize this taboo subject.
As for the comments, we liked the supportive aspect. However since some of them can be offensive towards this couple (who we don’t know personally) we took the likes down.
Faye Dixon you’re going a bit too far there lol
@@fayedixon4525 are you okay honey or you need some cookies? like wtf is happening with you overly sensitive liberals
Faye Dixon they didn’t rubbish anyone. You’re exaggerating!!
And why don’t you go tell that to Eileen who “rubbished” women on a Smash or pass video, or who trashes everyone on Twitter who shares a different opinion. This is hypocrisy at its finest!
MsJoey that’s true about the smash are pass video they deleted it and had to sorry.
you didn't even name them but everyone knows who you are talking about because they make fools of themselves daily online with their over the top forced fake displays of affection. It's way too much and downright disgusting literally nobody wants to know about their sex life ewww! Of course you dont want to be like them, but don't worry you're not. You two seem really genuine and sweet and natural together keep it up :)
I really like the way colours got blended on P's hair 🥰
Dr.Aydın seni burda görmek çok güzel❤️
Dr.Aydın en sevdiğim youtuber ı burda görmek çok güzel 😍♥
Ooo abi sende mi buradaydın
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Seni burda görmenin güzelliği 💙🍷
Sadie don't waste your time wondering why you are in love with an older woman you are mature enough to deal with it don't worry what other people are saying follow your heart please
I believe y’all are wonderful together.
I would never have thought you guys where mother and daughter, you definitely appear to be more balanced in age. Don’t worry about what other people think because you’re probably overthinking it!
Firstly, I love you ladies and I am glad to see that you are working the issues out in your own way that works best for you. I am also in an age gap relationship of 30 years. Almost 4 years ago I moved from my home state to start a new life with my love. At first I was very self conscious because of the age difference and we did not really show any public displays...like holding hands..a little kiss here and there...etc. It really sucked. Over the last 3 plus years I have had to realize and tell myself that this is my life and to forget about any outside judgment because at the end of the day, this is who I am madly in love with. It's hard to live with outside judgement, especially when you were brought up traditionally to worry about what other are going to think. I admire most the people that just don't give a shi* . Anyway, I know being judged is such a hard thing to overcome as I am constantly dealing with this battle. I wish you two the best, as you clearly love eachother. At the end of the day when you come home it is just you. Thank you for sharing your story.
To be quite honest you and P do not look strange together, you look like a really cute couple. P looks amazing for her age and what you thought you looked like before you saw that other couple is still valid! Sometimes you get an amazing energy or vibe with someone but the initial attraction isn't there until you start to get to know them and then BAM! You start to realize how attractive that person is to you.
I think when a woman Become older and reach a certain age they become more comfortable in their own skin and confident which makes them look more attractive. A confident woman is always Sexy at any age, Well that's according to me
BlackRose Theodorah My fiancee is 25 years older. She had a very difficult time embracing her body when we first got together, but I'm trying to help build her confidence so she can see the beautiful goddess that she is. Confidence is sexy at any age ❤ Women are such beautiful beings, no matter the age, no matter the body. :):):)
@@markoembarko9045 My girlfriend is 27 years older than me and once she stopped seeing herself as being older than me and started seeing me as her equal she started being confident about our relationship first, then that confidence grew to her being confident about how she looks. She started seeing that our relationship is not contest of looks but the love we have for each other. I understand what you are saying.
I was answering what P was saying about how when a person is older they are not considered attractive that's why I am saying that mature women who are older once they are confident they are so sexy and attractive. So I do agree that all women are sexy but in this case I was answering to what P was talking about
BlackRose Theodorah I understand. Wow though, that's a beautiful way of seeing it and certainly a perspective that I will have to share with my fiancee. Thank you for sharing that with me and for also clarifying. Shine on beautiful soul ❤
I agree with you!! 🙋🏻♀️
This video made totally sense! I'm the younger one in my relationship yet I'm the one who's always ultra aware of how we look to others (maybe because in terms of body type we couldn't be more different, too, like that "other age gap couple" you mentioned...). Funny enough my girlfriend also says she would never want to date someone way older than her.... in our case she also looks younger than she is. But I know what you mean, Sadie. In my mind I can't tell the difference between us really, but who knows how we actually look like to others? Just let me tell you, you guys don't come across as extreme as the other couple (sometimes) does. At least to me... I love your videos and support you guys fully! Thanks for sharing ❤🌌
I love how P went from embracing her age to being scared of a little spider and screaming like a teenager 🤣 So Cute though
I can imagine
Hahaha, I know exactly which TH-cam pair you're talking about. I found them here before I found you two and thought "Whoa!" just like you did. And then when I found you two the gap was quickly forgotten. I think y'all are beautiful humans individually and as a pair & I appreciate your openness and exploration. Thanks for sharing. (:
Who are they?
Aging naturally is beautiful. P you are beautiful..we are all as young as we feel.
Hi, to the greatest philosopher out there Sadie & P, you guys do not slip a day through your fingers but live it fully by loving each other. Time is precious, minutes disappearing like water into sand, unless you pay attention. Dont mind the age gap & what people may think. Its destiny thats why the universe put you together. Hugzzz to you both♥♥♥
You look great together!!! Seriously don’t worry about that.
You guys look sweet together and P’s fear of spiders is relatable😭
I cannot stop laughing at P's reaction about the spider, relatable 😂
“The natural disgust that we have for older people.” 😂
I assume that the "other couple" are Julia and Eileen... so, here's the thing. You do not look like that! Not because of the age gap but because of the behaviour, maturity and the nature of your characters. I'm in an age gap relationship myself with someone who's 21 years older, we were too self conscious about this at the beginning so we searched for the good old internet consolation... I first came across Julia's channel even before she and Eileen started dating. Something was simply off... She acts way too immature and is not really convincing (I really cannot stand people who overact and overreact). After a few days I had your channel in my recommendations and have been following you ever since. I was amazed on how real, natural and emotionally and mentally mature you both are, as individuals and as a couple. From the videos, it's very clear you are comfortable and natural around each other even when talking about certain difficulties in your relationship. My partner and I watch your videos as soon as they are uploaded and we can undoubtedly relate to almost everything you've ever talked about, including your opinions, arguments and every day life situations. We tried giving Julia and Eileen a chance but it didn't seem like a realistic representation to us (screaming at the camera about how much you love someone, being hysterical, smooching throughout the entire video and wasting the word "love" to the romance hungry audience is not how real people live and exist in the society). We settled for you two, as you are not acting like a reality TV show stars, you're people, like all of us and you're showing us the real struggles, the real doubts and the real love. You look great together and all of your YT watchers can see that the support and love you have for each other surpass the tiny screens of our cellphones and laptops. Of course, my opinion regarding the other couple has nothing to do with Sadie's and P's opinion on them, you can agree or disagree, but I stand behind every word I said.
Greetings from Bosnia :)
@Hush Hush Sweet Charlotte how are they exploiting it?
Y'all are such a gorgeous couple! Both genuine, and endearing, y'all have a lot commonalities. Some other age couples simply don't.. But that doesn't take away from the fact that you two are not other couples, you are you, and y'all have a special connection. From the outside you two appear to be a beautiful couple, the age difference doesnt show as being too much in my opinion
You guys look balanced to me. You do look similar.
You two look great together 💛
P is young at heart and so likes younger women. Sadie is a melancholic old soul who enjoys older women. It's this symbiosis that glues them together. Mystery solved ;)
But their perception of what society thinks keeps them obsessing over whether or not they represent the incest taboo.
Don’t worry so much! You are both beautiful women in a relationship :)
Its been 3 years since you are analyzing ahahahah I am gonna call you the greek philosophers from now on :))))
I'm having a major hair envy over Sadie's heavenly hair and P's silver fox/goddess gray. I stan!
I love how p embraces her age.. cute
Love you guys
Ohh P don't be shy as long as sadie loves you and you also to sadie that's it💓loved each other unconditionally.😃😃😃
she looks so beautiful in gray hair....😍😍😍😍
Me and my teacher. We have been physically attracted to each other for past 20 years but never had the strength or courage to act on it, because of the age gap.
20 years!!?? I must appreciate the restraint that you both have shown ...but at what cost I wonder ? Is it worth?
Did you study something for 20 years? Or what.
@@sineadiloveyou 😂😂
@@sineadiloveyou probably anatomy.
Having age gap but still loving each other just shows you guys are not narrow minded and of great vitality. I think people tend to clarify things into some existing patterns,which can make them easier to understand for brains.
You two are beautiful...you seem comfortable with yourselves. Do not worry about others!!! You are classy!
I think you both are great together no matter what age difference their is. After all age is just a number.
You two are my favourite couple I love the age gap, please don't feel weird or anything bad, we don't see any problems but natural and beautiful love💛💛💛
You both look adorable 🥰 new subscriber!!
Love is not something you can understand every time, actually love is about something you need to live in it, & just feel it. Understand spiritual feelings is not super easy.
Love has ni judgement ....
I’m in an age gap lesbian relationship, I’m the younger one by 25 years, she is the same age as my mother. Her hair is greying too, and people do presume that she is my mother. She has never been bothered by what other people think, I was bothered at first but I’m totally with her now. We just don’t care! It’s honestly so nice and feels so free to walk down the street hand in hand and not be bothered what everyone is thinking. Just don’t worry about anything, be free! Who cares what other people think, as long as you fancy the pants off each other that’s what counts ;)
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It was really cute that Sadie was so eager to kiss P when P was talking about those problems. I mean that I am touched deeply by the love between you two.
I think your hair looks beautiful ... you look ravishing with your natural hair ♥️❄️🧶
In comparison your relationship comes across as more relaxed and real. It is what it is and you don't need to prove anything to anyone and shove it down people's throats like Julia and Eileen do for views.
I think amongst the history of the universe, we are all close in age if we could meet each other during our lifetime... age gap is no problem - you may as well meet someone in writing, yet that person may have only lived in the past century or sometime BC, then what do you do?
Hi my name is judy been following you for awhile from what i see you two look happy wish you the best
I am 59 and I have a STUNNING silver grey color, I get alot of complements. I have short pixy, (so cute, I know you like long hair) when I was younger my hair was way LONG- the 80's hair, big perm. But I love to also embrace my natural color. My hairdresser said women want to get that color put on,
and it FIRST... cost alot and SECOND it don't work
Imagine one of you was leaving how would that make you feel? Fight for that! Screw what other people think! Everyone is looking for that feeling and you both have it!
The blue plush with those bubble eyes behind them is making me lose it 😂😂and P aswell when she started screaming . I think Saddie handled that spidersituation well I would probably be screaming next to P if it was me
Actually it’s a ceramic cookie monster cookie jar! 😆😆😆
@@SadieP awwe nice , my bad 😄 now that I take a closer look at it, it does have that ceramic icy look . Thanks for your reply.
she still looks young❤️❤️
I love this couple.
Lovely couple. You are amazing together
hahahhahahahah the moment when P sees the spider: literally me and my girlfriend/fiance. her being the screamer and me taking care o the spider. we are also an age gap couple and she is the older one. funny spider-rescuing-age-gap-similarity.
That kiss!!! Wow!!!!😍❤
I think I initially started watching your videos because I found it so curious that an "age gap" relationship would garner so much attention or be something people found amusing as a concept. To give you context I am Cuban and Mexican and I was raised in the West Indies. I now live in New York city. I'm 35 years old. I don't know. I always think info about ones self helps understands comments. The person I am closest to is my grandmother on my dad's side and we live in the same building together plus she has been my university professor more than 8 times in my undergraduate studies. For me, there is no one more I intellectual and stimulating, loving and caring, well informed and decent, kind and truly virtuous than her. She happens to be 82 and my grandma but that is secondary to me respecting her as a human. I basically spend my entire life with her and she is who j study and cook with and talk to and watch movies with every single day and night and who I call every few hours to make sure she knows where I am and to ask where she is. Everything revolves around her. I don't find it odd or strange for someone to be drawn to someone younger or older. It happens. Also in my family, one uncle has a wife that is one of my best friends and she happens to be 30 years younger than him. My grandma was married to a woman 45 years younger than her as well and has always had ling term relationships with a 15 year age difference or more so I suppose it's normal to me. My dad is 11 years older than his wife. Because of my own life choices getting my PhD and being a university professor it would make sense to marry someone maybe 10 years younger since I want her to carry my biological children. I don't know. I guess in my cultures there are so many different choices and the idea that older people don't need healthy sex lives and love and affection is absurd. These sound like things first world superficial morons think. Just keep doing your thing.
You two are absolutely nothing like the other couple lol not in any way shape or form. You absolutely 100% appear compatible and don’t look like there’s a big age gap, P looks so young :)
Abla lütfen tükçe çeviri koyarmısın videolara
Love the gray ... !
Love you, girls! I'm also married to a much older woman and her name is Paula. Kisses from Brazil! 😘
P you're so sweet when the spider came by don't touch me. I see the love you have for each other and it's awsome .
questiion for Sadie did more happen to you when you were younger that you havent told us
Insanlarin ne dusundugunu onemsememesini soyler misin ona saide cok tatlisiniz bu arada
Guys please don't mind the age gap, I sense that you have a very strong connection..and P. you always look younger than your age,you're both pretty ❤💚💛
Türkçe altyazı yapabilirmisin
Sevgili Sadie videolarını izlemeyi çok seviyorum ama lütfen bizim için türkçe altyazı koyar mısın? With love bye.
Turkce alt yazi ekledim. Izleyebilirsin.
P LOOKS AWESOME,,SHE IS AGEING GRACEFULLY,,AND SADIE DON'T KEEP ON ABOUT AGE DIFF
P is so so incredibly beautiful! You're both so lovely x
Sadie AND P. pls don't bother about What people are saying. Think about what you guy's want. That's it. P is A beautiful Lady in side and out its rare. Sadie you are lucky To get A GEM Like P. Give her lots of love I see that P is Attracted To you. That's All That matters in the end. BE HAPPY. MANY BLESSINGS!!! 🕉🙏From: Sapna.
I will give her all the love I have for as long as I live. I know that she’s a rare gem! 💎
Gosh.. that's hilarious.. I also hate, am disgusted by and terrified by spiders.. Love You guys
This video is about spiderphobia. lol.
renata teofilo Arachnophobia!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dead
Beautiful couple xx
Videolarına alt yazı ekler misin
Turkce alt yazi ekledim. Izleyebilirsin.
Türkçe video çekermisin?
You shouldn't care what other people think. End of story. If you are in love, just be in love.
Was the age gap couple Julia and Eileen??
Yeah. And they are a joke.
@@sineadiloveyou at least they're honest and don't have to put other people down to get views
@@fayedixon4525 yeah I remember their smash or pass video.
@@sineadiloveyou yep they're the biggest joke on youtube!
Ps: Do people still ps?
You two are soulfully such a beautiful couple. ❤ Completely genuine beings!
İ am straight, but can date with P.. she is gorg. 💕🤷🏻♀️
you guys might want to tone down the lighting a bit, everything is way to white
Is P's fear or discomfort with the age gap, about emotions or sexual feelings ? Fortunately Sadie is not your average younger woman, she is emotionally and intellectually advanced for her age and so that should make for a more comfortable relationship regardless of the age gap. However if her discomfort is more on a sexual level then that could be more to do with our inbuilt feelings that we should only have sex within certain age perameters, but that is only relatively modern thinking that makes us believe that. Honestly if you are both happy together it should matter very little what others think xx
TÜRKLER BURADA MISINIZ
ilove you maan 💕💕💕
Dear Sadie and P, thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. I think maybe people's projection of an incestuous mother-daughter relationship is what makes
you feel uncomfortable??? xx
Turkce ceviri yok Boyle Izlenmez ki😳😪😍❤️lütfen ekleyin
Nice video I love it
Turkce alt yazi ekledim. Izleyebilirsin.
@@dezialtug2445 tessekur
@@dezialtug2445 obür videoya da eklermisin Hani p. Sadienin bikini baktiginda
Bu sevgili galiba dimi?
Türk takipçilerini unuttun sanırım neden alt yazı yok 😭😭
Turkce alt yazi ekledim. Izleyebilirsin.
paola is so cute cuz of the spider
sürekli videoyu türkçe yapmanı söyleyenler o kadar sinirimi bozuyor ki seni düşünemiyorum sadie.....
Geri dönüş olmadıkça söylemeleri mantıklı
@@BadBoyS-jp5ss geri dönüş olmamasının sebebini düşündün mü peki?
belli ki yapmak istemiyor bu gereksiz istek neden
@@berry1351 bilmiyorum,ben sadece kendi düşüncemi dile getirdim
Turkce alt yazi ekledim. Izleyebilirsin.
So the conclusion is "LOVE".❤
Hahaha, Sadie around 11.30 when P says a younger person can't be attracted to an older person. You see the attraction pour out of her.
I think it's funny you start to overthink it now, when in earlier videos you stayed with your connection and love. I'd say, watch your earlier videos. Then you can see how you look together aswell 😉. And I say good. But I have also seen agegap couples who didn't make sense. I guess it is the vibe couples send out. And that can be off with same age couples too.
I hope you can figure it out and not keep feeling like hit by an atomic bomb. 😘😘😘 Marieke
This whole concept is bizarre to me. The fact that you question age gaps. I’ve been wildly attracted to women the same age as P and never once had it dawned on me like it had with you. And said women flirt with me harder than women my own age..... So to hear you question it genuinely boggles my mind because never have I once felt that way. It’s always been so normal to me..... Said women also look incredible for 50-55. So if you put us together we wouldn’t look like we have a 30 year age gap. At all. Maybe 15-20 years at max......
I’m also your age Sadie
You’re talking about Julia and Eileen...don’t base anything about your relationship on that toxic craziness 🤢 has nothing to do with their age gap and everything to do with the things that go on in their relationship and around them.
Just curious, why do you think Julia and Eileens relationship is toxic?
@@julianowell they are just so fake. One is in because of attention and neediness. The other is a scam artist who is a pervert and a completely irresponsible person in spite of their age. The excessive PDA is so cringe worthy as well. Like they need to show the world they love each other. Ew
All you have to do is take a real look sans the stars in your eyes to actually see it...
@@sineadiloveyou they seem so in love to me. Everyone has their own past and no one is perfect. I really doubt they would be together if they didn't love each other.
@@julianowell lol. Just wait a few more months.
Hello Amigas..
Size yeni bır ülke önerebilirim
Hair
Konuşurken sevgilinin duygularını önemsemiyor gibi görünüyorsun. Yaşlılığı kafana takıyorsan ayrılmalısın ayrica sevgilin yaşlanmış olabilir ama çok güzel bir kadın. Alınma ama yaşı büyük olmasına ragmen senden daha güzel...
I know the couple you're talking about and no you guys arent like that at all. Their relationship seems forced and toxic. You guys seem genuinely in love and in a healthy place. 💜
On every video you guys post you always mention being pale 😂
I think as an Italian P. feels out of her element when she’s this pale! 😆😆😆
Sadie says '' I LIKE you a lot''.Not love?????
Hmm I'm not sure about this.
I'm in an age gap relationship of 32 years (with a man) we have been together for 2 years but have had a connection for about 4.
We both understand our relationship is difficult for others to deal with, but what gives us strength is the belief we have in each other and the love we share.
I watch other age gap couples because I like to see others who are positive and share a life together.
I can't comment on your relationship, but if you feel the need to judge others in the same/similiar situation to you then I don't think you will ever be content.
Sadie, Türkiyedeki gençler için videolar yapmanı çok isterim. Özellikle lgbt hakkında. Yeni nesil Türk gençliği çok daha ılımlı bu konularda. Senin de yardımınla binlerce insanın fikri değişebilir ve Türkiyede lgbt bireylerinin refah seviyeleri daha da yükselebilir
robin Coenen bunu nick i ingiliz ismi olan birisi mi söylüyor
robin Coenen özgür bir ülkedeyiz isteyen istediğini yapar bilader!
@@robincoenen7073 benim adima yaza bilirsin ona😁❤ hemde koc gibi kocoglu ver ona kullansin😁😁😁😁
ne refahı, gunah gunah bütün dinlerde günah bu olay...
@@ulku7491 efendim, nasıl doğacağımızı biz seçmiyoruz. bazı insanlar erkek doğar bazı insanlar kadın. Bazı insanlar ise erkek bedeninde kadın ya da kadın bedeninde erkek doğar. Bu bir hastalık değil. Bunun bi tedavisi vs. yok. Bu tamamen doğal bir olay ve sizin çocuğunuzun da lgbt bireyi olamayacağına garanti veremezsiniz. Çünkü bu kimsenin isteyerek ya da seçerek ulaştığı bir şey değil. Lütfen empati yapın. lgbt bireyleri de herkes kadar saygıdeğer kişiler. Onları tanıyın, dışlamayın ve en önemlisi yargılamayın.
Is it me or is Sadie’s reaction at 9:14 -9:17 seems disturbingly submissive?
Shen Milano I'm confused on what you're seeing? P said don't touch me because she was scared of the spider and Sadie respected her claim and boundary? That's normal for any decent couple lol
You guys look like siblings 🤦♀️
Yanındakı annesi mi?
Kız arkadaşı sıkıntı ne !
Sadie is nice kissing.
Sadie is best kisser
I'm sorry,but I really don't like the grey hair
I’m so surprised I thought she’s your mother then I noticed that she is your gf wow. I’m still shocked how is your family accepted this relationship?