I can spot INFP's from a mile away. And they are by far my favourite type. My closest friends are all INFP's. We, INFJ's can get along with pretty much anyone, cause we can see where ppl are comming from, but so far the only ppl I was able to open up to are INFP's. Individuality, creativity, spontaneusness and that sense of adventure combined with gentle soul just gives me so much hope in humanity. We love you guys and will always have ur backs.
As an INFJ, I love INFP.Never think you are useless or unloved.You guys are amazing and you don't even know it.I think right now,the world needs healthy INFP the most.We admire your way of defying the status quo.Your moral compass,your high values,your unshakable morals,is what is needed right now.No better type is more equiped to fight for a cause than you.Your sense of justice,of equality,of liberty...is what keeps the world from becoming an evil place.The passion,the beauty,the emotions,the art,the creativity,the childlike excitement is what brings life to the world.We need dreamers.You guys are so special,and I pray that you can bring this light to others,and people can see you for who you truly are.Unfortunaltly,the world isn't built for people like you,you are the misfits of society.But you are the one who can change it.I know that you can feel misunderstood,that your emotions are so deep,that it can crush you,that your negative experiences are so real,that you keep replaying over and over again.It can feel like a curse.But it's not,it's a gift,your deep emotions can create miracles.And when you have experienced something that somebody else has,you can have such a deep understanding and emotional connection,and relate to them,in a way that even us INFJs can't do. Please take care of yourself,find methods that work for you, don't beat yourself up,try to heal from the past,get out of your comfort zone,try new experiences,be open minded, broaded your perspective and let the world see your light.Because you truly are special.The world needs you to shine.We love you so much our dear INFPs.💖 -From an INFJ😊 (Thank you for reading through that)
INFPs are always questioning if what we do "matters" and if we can ever contribute as much as we wish we could. Your expressions of gratitude soothed my sore little heart today. Thank you
Very true. We understand INFJs and you can't understand them without admiring and loving them, because INFJs are awesome. I love the deep way they think and the way they express themselves and I love the fact that they don't assume we're stupid, just because we rarely say a lot.
Very true. They are so awesome in so many ways. Grace under fire , man ! You can always count on them to have a level head and see the many perspectives involved in situations...... unfortunately this very thing can get "em down sometimes (cognitive dissonance; they can see that both sides of a dilemma are viable.) They deliver the goods, though because they very carefully examine considerations before thinking or acting.
The only way that us infp can heal you.. is that we have been through it ourself. We faced the feelings first.. we had no choice, but we know how hard it is. And we learned from it.
"Damn this hurts my heart-" "Hold on, is that stranger experiencing it too?! Well, since I know myself, since I know that I can use my sadness to think deeply about my current situation and what it means for me or my future, that stranger right there might not have the same thought process! I need to help them first!"
From my experience as as INFJ with only having one INFP friend, they always know just the right questions to ask when you open up to them about a struggle. Really gets to the core of the matter.
This was really sweet man. Likewise, INFJ’s allow us to be ourselves which is so cathartic because it’s so hard for us to truly trust people most of the time. 🙏
I am an INFP, You made me feel understood and appreciated, and made me feel pretty damn good about myself! Made me cry! (Shocker, right?! Lol) I appreciate you! Thank you💜
@@DuelingPersonalities I'm an INFP named Faith and I swear my heart skipped a beat when you commented thanks for watching Faith. For a moment I thought you were talking to me and I did a double take. Also! Hello fellow INFP and another Faith :)
As an INFP I love people but I don’t really like them. They hurt me all the time, they make shit about me and lie on me. They don’t want to see that I have a pure heart. I’m 20 and I always dreamed of Utopia.
Im a 31 y/o INFP. I don't want this to come across as a rant or lecture AT a younger person. Just some observations and opinions that I hope you can find helpful in some way. So if you're up for it.... Balancing idealism with the reality of the slow moving nature of human consciousness can be a real pain in the ass. Being a misunderstood emotional dumpster is no picnic either. But it's nice to know that there are people like this guy who really appreciate what you bring to the world and he's not nearly the only one. Those little acts of kindness and empathy spread far beyond what we will ever see. Don't take that to mean you shouldn't remove yourself from bad or one sided relationships. Just know that there is a place for your Unique Individual Self in this world where you can put your good intentions into practice, fully express your authentic self and have a profound influence on the people and world around you. I can't presume to tell you who your "best" or "fulfilled" self is or where to find them, that's on you. But I wish you all the best on your journey. Go with love and patience. And I hope the world is allowed to experience the full extent of the gifts you have to offer it.
It's not easy being an INF. P, especially when you're young, just have faith in god and who you are creating to be. Make sure the people you are around are truly the type of people you want in your life.
I think you just made all the INFPs watching, including me, cry. In a good way of course. Friendship is something that's very special and dear to INFPs and we tend to put a lot into it. I personally made the experience that people open up to me quite quickly and tell me all about their problems and no matter in what mood I am, I always listen to them because it helps me too. It gets very depressing to hear about all this pain and sadness in the world, though :/ My best online friend is an INFJ and although we aren't real-life friends, we are really close. Listening to him suffering so often (he is struggling with all sorts of stuff right now) makes me very sad, but then noticing that he is happier whenever we texted or talked for a while, brings me joy. We get along very well and I totally appreciate how gentle and kind he is. He is honest, but in a and nice healthy way. And we have very much in common. I sent him this video to ask about his opinion on it, hehe
Thank you for sharing this thoughtful comment, Danny. I agree the pain and sadness in the world is overwhelming at times. Keep going and have a blessed weekend. 🙏💪
You INFJs are necessary to make this world a better place. Your energy and your desire for harmony are essential qualities. I can't describe how much love I feel for my INFJ friends. We understand each other on a galactic level. You make me believe in humanity and are capable to make everyone feel appreciated and united. I cried a lot with this video
As an INFP who's just celebrated 5 years together with her fav person in the world - an INFJ - this made me smile from ear to ear. It is a match made in heaven if both are committed and openly communicate what's going on inside their hearts & minds. Thank you so much dear sir for this very INFJ way of sending out your appreciation: eloquent and witty yet right from the heart. ❤️👏
As an infj, there are probably 2 people in my life I feel comfortable sharing my really difficult emotions with: my dad (an infp) and best friend. I’m generally a very positive and happy person. But the other day I was sobbing because of something my mom said to me, and I very reluctantly texted my newish boyfriend to ask if it was at all possible for him to talk since I’m trying to be more open (he’s an infp). Immediately he called me, and asked me what was wrong, and he listened patiently the whole time as I started crying again, and at the same time was able to give me some of the kindest and most beneficial advice I’ve ever been given about looking after myself. But that talk shocked me, because no one (except perhaps my dad) has ever listened to me so well. He’s the first person I’ve met that actually makes me want to become a better person.
Omg I relate to this. One of the first things my now husband did when we were dating was when I reached out to him when I was emotionally struggling and he was there to listen in a genuine way. Most people would have teased me or come off as annoyed but he had zero airs and no judgements. It felt so safe and so right.
Aww you are the sweetest. INFP won’t judge because I don’t think we ever feel that we have any right to. I think we realise there is nothing people tell us about themselves/what they have been through or done, that we can’t imagine or haven’t already lived/imagined ourselves. As an INFP, I feel like I would be betraying myself by passing judgment on another person.
@@black_rose1136 for me, I don’t judge what I haven’t experienced or felt. How can you? Anyway, I’m not God and I’m just some woman/person in this huge world and I only react to how people treat me - good or bad and I go from there whilst also trying to work out where they’re coming from (past and hang ups) if they are nasty. However I understand if a person doesn’t like me! Not everyone has to get along.
I'm an INFP and my very best friend was an INFJ (unfortunately we don't talk anymore for multiple reasons, but i do still care for him deeply and i think i always will) and he always understood me better than anyone else. There were times where i reacted to something in a certain way, and i didn't had the need to explain myself because he already knew everything, already understood me, and i don't think there's any other personality who can empathize and care for us as deeply as INFJs do. INFJs pick on so many little details about us that we often dismiss because nobody else care or see them, but you guys do, INFJs see EVERYTHING, detail per detail and they don't let you know right away, but they remember. INFPs also crave being understood and seen by others so much and being able to experience that with INFJs is incredible! He would always struggle to understand himself and be as empathetic to himself as he was to me, and to know now how he felt when i "healed" him (i almost cried when you said that 💕) it's an amazing feeling. Thank you for this video 💗 I often see mockery of us being so emotional and "naive", and to see someone actually care about us like this warms my heart ❤️
Love love love #3! So true with my INFP friend. We go on lots of cool adventures thanks to her 😊. I (INFJ) love INFPs because they are not controlling -they tend to have a live and let live philosophy of sorts. Also bc they are naturally good at boundaries and that has helped me learn how import boundaries are amd implement them a little better.
@@DuelingPersonalities Controlling people is just complete anathema to us INFPs. I think the need for authenticity in any of our relationships with others translates into utter disdain for anybody who uses any form of power to control others - it's a basic ethics thing. Going of on a slight tangent, I wonder if this is the root cause of why I've always had a real dislike/distrust of any form of authority that's been bestowed rather than earned? I'd rather live in a world with little form of hierarchies, where any form of authority comes from genuine expertise and/or experience. Maybe what us NFs need is to discover an NF planet that we can all decamp to? 🙂
Omg 😭😭😭 we love you too INFJs! I literally feel happier and at peace just by being in the presence of an INFJ 💕 We have the same admiration and respect for you that you have for us. Thank you for making this sweet video! 🥹
Why am I crying? This was so amazing I guess it's kinda hard to see what you can do for someone when it feels like you don't do much for someone but listen. I guess actions really do speak louder than words. Thank you for the kind words!
As an infp my closest companions are infjs. They do talk to me about their feelings. And very attentive to my comments cause i would usually blend it with my past experiences even though it might not be similar to them, but i find them intrigued by it. Because sometimes infjs can be quite selfish in a sense that they are not that eager to listen to our problems in return, thats why i would incorporate my story into their problems. And tts ok cause they appreciate it and through feelings, i relate to them the most. I hope this makes sense cause sometimes infp still have more explanation inside despite having had explained it.
As an INFP, thanks for this. We love you too. I’m a male INFP, and two of my best friends I’ve ever had, I know one to be an INFJ and the other I strongly suspect is as well. These two are two the best people I’ve ever known and I’m grateful to have them. To speak to Reason #4, believe me, it’s euphoric for us, too. To have someone we care about open up to us and pour their hearts out is something we thrive off of, whether we realize it or not. We as INFPs value our friends over everything else, and we want you to be happy, want you to be able to vent if you need to, and want to be allowed to share in your ups and downs. Reason #5 is on the money too. As you say, a key feature of INFPs is our strong self-identity, and being easily able to understand and identify our emotions quickly. So when others struggle with their own feelings, we’re happy to help. I, at least, crave to help others with their emotions. Especially those younger than me. Maybe being a male INFP, perhaps I have some masculine instinct that’s activated in a unique way.
@@Tanner0 Yeah? I think if we consider that there's perhaps a deep-laid instinct among men to help and protect those younger than us, it makes sense on a INFP level too
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My best friend is an INFJ (I’m an INFP) we can talk about anything and everything (our feelings and emotions) we never judge each other, we understand each other very well and get along very well. We also relate a lot when it comes to feelings, emotions and opinions. I’m so glad to have him as a friend
My infj bestie is the best! I just❤❤❤ infj's you guys are sooo non judgemental, and super caring and fun. If only I had married one 😪 instead I married a intj and that was painful.
I am a INFP and my sister is a INFJ. I’m not just saying this because she's my sister but I love her so much. I know that I could never live without her. She's my everything and we understand each other so well. We talk about everything and I know her so well as she does me. We are very similar but at the same time not. We even have the same room and sometimes we talk for hours before going to bed. We can talk for hours and not even notice (it's a problem) No one understands me as she does and no one understands her as I do. She gets me. We both are very closed off with our emotions with others but with each other, we are very open. She's my life and I know she feels the same about me.
Hearing this fills my heart. When I met my INFJ husband I felt an instant connection. His energy fit so easily with mine. Within a few days of meeting I suggested we take a vacation together. So glad he said yes.
I’m an INFP, and I almost feel as if I understand an INFJ when I talk to them even If I don’t know them that well, even through facial expressions it communicates so much to a much greater level than other personality’s. INFJs see life in a very similar way even though we are so different. It’s shame there aren’t many of you around! The extroverted feeling of the INFJ helps me to look beyond my own needs. I hate feeling miss understood INFJ’s are the best at understanding me.
My brother is an INFJ and I am an INFP. He is my best friend because we have some of the best conversations. He thinks I am carefree and fun and actually laughs with me which makes me more open. I found INFPs to have moments of struggle with self-hate, but I can always count on an INFJ to give me encouragement. I fell in love with an INFJ girl and she is so open with me but not with many other people.
Yes so true. Infj is so trustworthy. It's like so easy to open up to them and they make you fill heard, they don't judge. They give the best hugs and best of the best advice. They actually let you sit in the sadness instead saying it's going to be okay, someone is suffering worse lol, so infuriating.
you could say that the typical infp has the proverbial "poker face" .....it can be a bit deceptive to most people and just when you least expect it you realize that "you just got ' shrinked' by an infp " Good thing they're also loving !
@@juliaf7481 Mostly due to their superior listening skills and open mindedness. Sometimes it would appear they don't give a rats - a** like they're distracted or not even paying attention. Make no mistake they are reading between the lines like crazy and they're good at it. Due to the fact they are generally thoughtful and loving they are gonna be diplomatic if you ask them their opinion.
“Just got shrinked” 😂 I’m stealing that! I did that all the time as a teenager. I loved it. Not in a manipulative way. We are genuinely interested in people. I found it fascinating that the majority of people never noticed in the moment but only later. It was even more surprising that they hadn’t noticed I hadn’t shared 1 thing about myself. Interestingly, most viewed it as a mysterious power when in reality it only came down to asking questions. The majority of people only talk about themselves.
I love INFPs so much cuz like I feel like I can be myself they bring so much peace into my life. I feel like they understand me better then I do myself
My INFJ mom loves me (I'm INFP). But she sees me as a selfish, sort of evil, and sort of useless person. My love for her is unexplainable, but I wish she embraced my true nature.
We are all those things on occasion. The thing with us INFJ's is, we are all about constant improvement and personal development. It makes it easier to go trough life and collect good karma. We don't get how majority of ppl feel no need to change for the better, cause just a few tweeks in all of us could make this world a Heaven for all. What I am trying to say is, do not take her words as permanent judgement of you. She has seen you act in a certain way in some situations and wants to point it out to you, so you can develop from there. The ppl we dnt care about, we dnt frett, we leave them to their ways, but if we love you, we will pester you to change, because we want to see you happier in your future. 🤷♀️
Sure Anmana! My upload schedule is already set for May (INFJ's and their planning lol) but I'll add it to the list. Please press the notification bell so you don't miss the video when it launches. Thanks for watching!!
The happiness in my heart is infinite from watching this and reading the comments. The world needs more people like you guys to be the light in this cruel world
Awe, this is so beautiful! Thank you! I love INfJs right back! Some of my favorite people in my life are INFJs! 🤗 I love how deep I can connect with INFJs!
Awww...Thanks man!💕 I don't know a single INFJ in real life. Must be nice, since my dad is an ESTJ, my mum an ESFJ, my sister an ISTJ (so at this point you pretty much guess how my life was growing up). My best friends so far have been an unhealthy INTJ, two ISTPs and a narssisistic ESTP. Needless to say, I'm no longer friends with either of them. I'm doing pretty good with my parents now and I'm doing even better with my sister though because of Fi-Si. She keeps me grounded when I need it!
Thank you for this explanation. I'm an INFJ so lucky to be married to an INFP. I fell in love with him because I could sense that he was deep enough that I could be completely real with him - the first person I'd met in 40 years who was like that! His true integrity healed me of past misconceptions about relationships, before I'd even gotten to know him very well. I've always been someone who would give up something if someone else wanted it - but he would honor my preference and insist that I keep it for myself. And when I bring to him something I'm struggling with, he never gives a pat answer, but takes a few minutes, thinks about it, and says exactly what I need to hear. Like you said, a different perspective, but often the one I've missed. Just being near him makes me happy. What a blessing to have him in my life!
ALL SPOT ON, as an INFP i can say that on my part, i rarely met ot talk with people, but whenever someone opens up to me, i try everything possible to support their feelings and help them, no matter how broken am at that moment (its like a natural instinct...)
even after watching this video... as an INFP I still wonder wheter my INFJ friends feels helped/relieved when they vent to me😐. I already did my best I swear 😓.
This brought tears to my eyes. It made me feel so good to know I could offer these things to others, I actually felt a wave of gratitude, it is humbling because I am well aware I didn’t choose my nature; it’s something I I have sensed from others but when you spoke it so clearly, I felt it in my heart. My closest friend - soul sister is an INFJ. In a similar way, you guys see us in ways that others dont’… and then you have a way of putting it in such a clear, direct, convicting way... you INFJs are equally amazing, soul warriors with your words that are like silver swords cutting the mist. Thank you so much ♥️
As an infp who for a long time tried to run away from her "predeterminated" personality. I can tell that I feel really grateful for everything you said. I usually try hard to hide when something affects me so people won't take advantage of it, but I'm seriously so hurt when something happens and I feel so deep inside me anytime someone tells me how they feel. But because of my environment I didn't show it so often since it's seen as weakness. But I would cry later for all the charge of emotions I was holding. I'm trying to start showing people my "real version" and is really helpful seeing what others think about it. I'm genuinely happy and grateful
What I couldnt put into words the infj just slice through life effortlessly expressing these intense feelings look at the infj rappers they make the world goes insane
Thank you so much for this video. These are actually what my boyfriend(INFJ) said to me as well, and it was really empowering. I still think that INFJs are way much better at figuring out what others feel, and knowing exactly the right words to say to make others feel better and understood. (Just like you, Johnny.) That's an amazing, almost magical gift that INFJs have. Even when the world is against me, I feel like I could always find shelter in INFJs. And you INFJs, can count on INFPs to do the same for you. WE LOVE YOU!!!
Thanks for the kind words. I guess this healing capacity we infps have is much because of the fact we don´t judge people for not being on top of things all the time, or having out of the box-ideas or lifestyles. We´re probably the opposite of the "tough love-get your shit together"-approach. Also, it´s very interesting how infps and infjs are so similar and so different at the same time.
Awwww ❤❤❤❤ You're so loving. Thank you so much for this. This video helped me heal and I was getting cozy warm feelings from you. Same love back to you!! You're awesome!!! :D ❤❤❤❤
I feel so seen and understood as an INFP, which is such a RARE feeling for me. I have noticed that I get along extremely well with INFJs and that we seem to mesh almost on a cellular level. It's like meeting a long lost best friend every time I encounter an INFJ. I feel safe with them. It's hard not to fall deeply for an INFJ in my honest opinion. I love when they open up and let me listen to their woes. INFJs are also my favorite adventure partners
I am an INFP and two of my most favorite people, my best friend and my brother, are both INFJ. I feel fully myself with them, we just click in the most magical ways. I hope to find love like this one day.
Thank you so much for your kind words! As an INFP who is always doubting herself it's extremely comforting to hear such things. Keep on your great work, it's much appreciated 🤗
INFP are true healers. I've talked with many people but how they say things, how they come with a new perspective works very well with me. It feels like they heal my heart. And even though I've read that Fi might clash with Fe, I think that it helps when an INFJ is in Ni-Ti loop. In that state we don't care, we don't feel and their Fi makes us return to Fe and get in touch with our feeling side, which can get us out of the loop. With other types, especially sensors, the advice I get is usually "You shouldn't feel like this. Get over it!" but INFP are understanding and they are more like🤗 and they say you are hard on yourself and how amazing you are in another aspect of your life. I just hope that I also help them somehow.
7:25 the healing from INFPs...my...ex was a narcissistic INTJ and was low key reverse empath...one of his nick-names for me was "Sarah-dol" ...maybe a reference to a perscription medication, 🤷♀️ I guess...got my superpower sucked outta me...working to be that "healer" again...have to do it for myself, first, this time around. This is really helping me HEAL...thanks!
Wow as an infp, i think the reasons are mutual.. People tend to think I'm too emotional if I open up, I feel judged and often misunderstood. But with my infj friends, I feel comfort. They are so brave with their emotions it's admirable. They are empathetic and great listener as well. I don't usually like to open up even though people open up to me a lot. But it's easy with infj. I truly felt understand and appreciated. My infj friends often doubt themselves as if they don't deserve the love the good but they have the most pure soul. I am amazed how they don't see that. World need more of infjs
INFP here, and this honestly made me smile so much. I have a close friend who's an INFJ. I've never met someone so similar, yet still so different. We're both from different cultures, countries, religions, upbringing, etc, but I think we both still understand each other on an emotional level. Especially through trauma, but that's just personal lives. As I said previously, we're from different cultures. Different countries, if you want to cut to the chase. I really hope that I get the chance to meet him irl one day. Thanks for the video!
I'm INFP and my friend that I found is the most trusted is an INFJ. We also share each other problem between us, things that I never tell others all my life. Thank you for INFJ too ♡
I am an INFP surrounded by INFJs. They playfully call me the INFJ Whisperer. This video was awesome and I sent it to them to remind them how much they need me and they better not ever forget it. LOL. I kid, I kid. I love my little INFJ alien squad. They have no idea how rare and magical they are, so I constantly remind them. Beneath that hard exterior beats the hearts of the most beautiful souls I know. Their perfectionism causes them to look past and underestimate all the value they bring to the world, and the gaps only they can fill. 💗
I'm an INFJ-T with 95% (Fe) and 90% (Se) and I don't have any idea of what emotions I feel so I find myself in the Nothingness of agony and despair without hope. I have removed everyone from my life. Including the INFP that I could just sit in her energy doing nothing eles and feel the healing process happening. Now I will not allow anyone to be held back by me. Nor will I ever allow anyone close to me. 50 feet away and I know exactly what everyone is feeling. This also works for identifying metals, crystals, gems, and the one time I activated a old phone that had no Sim card and drove all over town with the wifi off yet streaming TH-cam music videos. So I now focus internally unlocking and pushing the limits on what I can do with my souls energy signature.
Awwww thank you so much for this video🥺 I admit i cried a bit because I remembered that one time, when i sat down with my INFJ friend and she just shared everything with me, it was amazing, she was so open. So i got back to that memory and realized how important this must’ve been for her. Aww, i love INFJs! Thank you for making me feel appreciated✨
Thanks for this video! This INFP feels loved ❤️. I think I really needed this test. I’ve always felt like I didn’t fit in. Yet I have a few extremely close friends that I cherish and I’m aware that they call me when they need to talk. I’ll drop everything to listen to them and I feel good when I do. I don’t know if any of them are INFJs.
Yes, I am an INF. P. I want to thank you for the great way that you've explained my personality type and we appreciate when we can help someone I heard just to see people struggle and we always want to help them feel better. You really done your studying again? Thank you for your great caring loving words. I n f j truly
while i was watching and you got to the 'the idea of a fun night out might be...' youtube literally cut out. yes, that is my idea of a fun night out, it does not exist lmfao
That's a funny point about INFPs being more spontaneous...that's actually something that happened once when my cousin and I were out at a family gathering and went to a loud restaurant and I struck up a random chat with someone, and my cousin (INFJ) looked at me and went, "Awww, look at you making friends in the bathroom," in this snarky (but friendly) tone. I'm no extrovert but I will strike up a conversation sometimes for sure.
as an INFP place a lot of importance in exploring how to love unconditionally those close to me in a practical everyday sense, maybe other INFPs do this too and that’s why we are called healers? Lol
I fell in love with my INFP BFF because of her kindness, understanding, and ability to help me even when at my WORST. She's aroace so there's nothing to be had there, but my heart has been broken so many times, I'm actually rather happy that I feel like this for someone who will never have the urge to do something in that area that would hurt me. I love my INFP friends with all my heart. They are my foil, my anchor. They are a hot air balloon taking me to unseen heights, and the n somehow they return to the ground before me, so they might catch me if I fall. I have never felt safer even among my dearest friends, and I couldn't begin to tell you how glad I am to have replaced those awful, abusive jerks, with these delightful unstoppably kind paragons of humanity. Be well my P friends. I love you so much. All INFJs do.
Bless you man. Ive seen more than 5 comments talk about people tearing up and well im the same, sometimes I guess you really dont know how much you needed to hear something until you hear it. This was very much appreciated, and im sure i share the thought here with a lot of other infps that, even though we re not looking for it, it just doesnt happen enough. Thank you so much.
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What a sweet video. And thank you for using the word Appreciate. It's my favorite word. And I appreciate you spreading understanding and kindness here. Everyone should have something like this, whoever they are.
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INFJ man here - married to INFP woman for 45 years now.
That’s incredible! Congratulations! Thanks for watching 👋🏻 💪🏻 🙏
I can spot INFP's from a mile away. And they are by far my favourite type. My closest friends are all INFP's. We, INFJ's can get along with pretty much anyone, cause we can see where ppl are comming from, but so far the only ppl I was able to open up to are INFP's. Individuality, creativity, spontaneusness and that sense of adventure combined with gentle soul just gives me so much hope in humanity. We love you guys and will always have ur backs.
😳 Now I want an INFJ friend
@@PauloVictor-md2wr same ;-;
As an INFJ, I love INFP.Never think you are useless or unloved.You guys are amazing and you don't even know it.I think right now,the world needs healthy INFP the most.We admire your way of defying the status quo.Your moral compass,your high values,your unshakable morals,is what is needed right now.No better type is more equiped to fight for a cause than you.Your sense of justice,of equality,of liberty...is what keeps the world from becoming an evil place.The passion,the beauty,the emotions,the art,the creativity,the childlike excitement is what brings life to the world.We need dreamers.You guys are so special,and I pray that you can bring this light to others,and people can see you for who you truly are.Unfortunaltly,the world isn't built for people like you,you are the misfits of society.But you are the one who can change it.I know that you can feel misunderstood,that your emotions are so deep,that it can crush you,that your negative experiences are so real,that you keep replaying over and over again.It can feel like a curse.But it's not,it's a gift,your deep emotions can create miracles.And when you have experienced something that somebody else has,you can have such a deep understanding and emotional connection,and relate to them,in a way that even us INFJs can't do.
Please take care of yourself,find methods that work for you, don't beat yourself up,try to heal from the past,get out of your comfort zone,try new experiences,be open minded, broaded your perspective and let the world see your light.Because you truly are special.The world needs you to shine.We love you so much our dear INFPs.💖 -From an INFJ😊
(Thank you for reading through that)
Thank you, the person that helps me a lot was INFJ. She's so smart and really love helping people. I love her so much.
But you INFJs can't stand our lack of organisation/planning xD
INFPs are always questioning if what we do "matters" and if we can ever contribute as much as we wish we could. Your expressions of gratitude soothed my sore little heart today. Thank you
Thank you for the kind words Danille. And thanks for watching!
It really does.Dont underestimate yourself.
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As an INFP watching this video and reading these comments genuinely made me tear up. Thank you for this, you've earned a new subscriber.
Awwww💕
Very true. We understand INFJs and you can't understand them without admiring and loving them, because INFJs are awesome. I love the deep way they think and the way they express themselves and I love the fact that they don't assume we're stupid, just because we rarely say a lot.
Excellent thoughts, Helen. Thanks for sharing in the comments!
Very true. They are so awesome in so many ways. Grace under fire , man ! You can always count on them to have a level head and see the many perspectives involved in situations...... unfortunately this very thing can get "em down sometimes (cognitive dissonance; they can see that both sides of a dilemma are viable.) They deliver the goods, though because they very carefully examine considerations before thinking or acting.
@BEATRIZ JIMÉNEZ CÁSEDA I'm sorry to hear that
@@tekla9935 I feel SEEN!!! thank you, such a spot-on comment! :)
The only way that us infp can heal you.. is that we have been through it ourself. We faced the feelings first.. we had no choice, but we know how hard it is. And we learned from it.
hey! I'm an infp too! hello friend!!! :>
@@cliffordthebigreddog2552 hello!!!! :)
Well said 🦋
INFP here ❤️🌹
"Damn this hurts my heart-"
"Hold on, is that stranger experiencing it too?! Well, since I know myself, since I know that I can use my sadness to think deeply about my current situation and what it means for me or my future, that stranger right there might not have the same thought process! I need to help them first!"
From my experience as as INFJ with only having one INFP friend, they always know just the right questions to ask when you open up to them about a struggle. Really gets to the core of the matter.
Yess we’re really good with introspection and getting to the depth of things
This was really sweet man. Likewise, INFJ’s allow us to be ourselves which is so cathartic because it’s so hard for us to truly trust people most of the time. 🙏
Thanks Hunter!!
As an INFP , hearing someones problem and helping them out is the greatest pain and greatest healing..
Oh yeah... that's so true
OMG COULDN't SAY IT ANY BETTER
I am an INFP, You made me feel understood and appreciated, and made me feel pretty damn good about myself! Made me cry! (Shocker, right?! Lol) I appreciate you! Thank you💜
Thanks for watching, Faith!
@@DuelingPersonalities I'm an INFP named Faith and I swear my heart skipped a beat when you commented thanks for watching Faith. For a moment I thought you were talking to me and I did a double take. Also! Hello fellow INFP and another Faith :)
Thank you! Hope you have a great weekend!
As an INFP I love people but I don’t really like them. They hurt me all the time, they make shit about me and lie on me. They don’t want to see that I have a pure heart. I’m 20 and I always dreamed of Utopia.
Im a 31 y/o INFP. I don't want this to come across as a rant or lecture AT a younger person. Just some observations and opinions that I hope you can find helpful in some way. So if you're up for it....
Balancing idealism with the reality of the slow moving nature of human consciousness can be a real pain in the ass. Being a misunderstood emotional dumpster is no picnic either. But it's nice to know that there are people like this guy who really appreciate what you bring to the world and he's not nearly the only one. Those little acts of kindness and empathy spread far beyond what we will ever see. Don't take that to mean you shouldn't remove yourself from bad or one sided relationships. Just know that there is a place for your Unique Individual Self in this world where you can put your good intentions into practice, fully express your authentic self and have a profound influence on the people and world around you.
I can't presume to tell you who your "best" or "fulfilled" self is or where to find them, that's on you. But I wish you all the best on your journey. Go with love and patience. And I hope the world is allowed to experience the full extent of the gifts you have to offer it.
It's not easy being an INF. P, especially when you're young, just have faith in god and who you are creating to be. Make sure the people you are around are truly the type of people you want in your life.
I think you just made all the INFPs watching, including me, cry. In a good way of course.
Friendship is something that's very special and dear to INFPs and we tend to put a lot into it.
I personally made the experience that people open up to me quite quickly and tell me all about their problems and no matter in what mood I am, I always listen to them because it helps me too. It gets very depressing to hear about all this pain and sadness in the world, though :/
My best online friend is an INFJ and although we aren't real-life friends, we are really close. Listening to him suffering so often (he is struggling with all sorts of stuff right now) makes me very sad, but then noticing that he is happier whenever we texted or talked for a while, brings me joy.
We get along very well and I totally appreciate how gentle and kind he is. He is honest, but in a and nice healthy way. And we have very much in common.
I sent him this video to ask about his opinion on it, hehe
Thank you for sharing this thoughtful comment, Danny. I agree the pain and sadness in the world is overwhelming at times. Keep going and have a blessed weekend. 🙏💪
@@DuelingPersonalities Your reply just made my day, thank you so much Johnny!
I hope your day is going well, too
We INFJs love INFPs so much 💖
Thank you! I love INFJs too 😢😢
we INFPs looooove INFJs so so so much too!😬❤💙
We love you too❤
We love you infj❤
You INFJs are necessary to make this world a better place. Your energy and your desire for harmony are essential qualities. I can't describe how much love I feel for my INFJ friends. We understand each other on a galactic level. You make me believe in humanity and are capable to make everyone feel appreciated and united. I cried a lot with this video
Thank you, Joana.
@@DuelingPersonalities You're welcome :)
As an INFP who's just celebrated 5 years together with her fav person in the world - an INFJ - this made me smile from ear to ear. It is a match made in heaven if both are committed and openly communicate what's going on inside their hearts & minds. Thank you so much dear sir for this very INFJ way of sending out your appreciation: eloquent and witty yet right from the heart. ❤️👏
Thanks for watching!!
how did u meet who asked who out tell me everything I'm here with popcorn spill the tea
As an infj, there are probably 2 people in my life I feel comfortable sharing my really difficult emotions with: my dad (an infp) and best friend. I’m generally a very positive and happy person. But the other day I was sobbing because of something my mom said to me, and I very reluctantly texted my newish boyfriend to ask if it was at all possible for him to talk since I’m trying to be more open (he’s an infp). Immediately he called me, and asked me what was wrong, and he listened patiently the whole time as I started crying again, and at the same time was able to give me some of the kindest and most beneficial advice I’ve ever been given about looking after myself. But that talk shocked me, because no one (except perhaps my dad) has ever listened to me so well. He’s the first person I’ve met that actually makes me want to become a better person.
I hope you feel better now!! , your boyfriend is so cute and supportive. I hope I would meet someone I can love like this soon. (Infp)
@@snowwolf507 Aw, thank you I really do. And I hope that for you too :)
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Omg I relate to this. One of the first things my now husband did when we were dating was when I reached out to him when I was emotionally struggling and he was there to listen in a genuine way. Most people would have teased me or come off as annoyed but he had zero airs and no judgements. It felt so safe and so right.
Aww you are the sweetest. INFP won’t judge because I don’t think we ever feel that we have any right to. I think we realise there is nothing people tell us about themselves/what they have been through or done, that we can’t imagine or haven’t already lived/imagined ourselves. As an INFP, I feel like I would be betraying myself by passing judgment on another person.
Yess! We will never judge you for who you are.
@@black_rose1136 for me, I don’t judge what I haven’t experienced or felt. How can you? Anyway, I’m not God and I’m just some woman/person in this huge world and I only react to how people treat me - good or bad and I go from there whilst also trying to work out where they’re coming from (past and hang ups) if they are nasty. However I understand if a person doesn’t like me! Not everyone has to get along.
I'm an INFP and my very best friend was an INFJ (unfortunately we don't talk anymore for multiple reasons, but i do still care for him deeply and i think i always will) and he always understood me better than anyone else. There were times where i reacted to something in a certain way, and i didn't had the need to explain myself because he already knew everything, already understood me, and i don't think there's any other personality who can empathize and care for us as deeply as INFJs do. INFJs pick on so many little details about us that we often dismiss because nobody else care or see them, but you guys do, INFJs see EVERYTHING, detail per detail and they don't let you know right away, but they remember. INFPs also crave being understood and seen by others so much and being able to experience that with INFJs is incredible!
He would always struggle to understand himself and be as empathetic to himself as he was to me, and to know now how he felt when i "healed" him (i almost cried when you said that 💕) it's an amazing feeling. Thank you for this video 💗
I often see mockery of us being so emotional and "naive", and to see someone actually care about us like this warms my heart ❤️
Thanks for sharing this in the comments, Valentine!
Love love love #3! So true with my INFP friend. We go on lots of cool adventures thanks to her 😊.
I (INFJ) love INFPs because they are not controlling -they tend to have a live and let live philosophy of sorts. Also bc they are naturally good at boundaries and that has helped me learn how import boundaries are amd implement them a little better.
YES @Dude It’s Amy. I personally have never met a controlling INFP. Totally agree with you
Are u Male or female?
@@DuelingPersonalities Controlling people is just complete anathema to us INFPs. I think the need for authenticity in any of our relationships with others translates into utter disdain for anybody who uses any form of power to control others - it's a basic ethics thing.
Going of on a slight tangent, I wonder if this is the root cause of why I've always had a real dislike/distrust of any form of authority that's been bestowed rather than earned? I'd rather live in a world with little form of hierarchies, where any form of authority comes from genuine expertise and/or experience.
Maybe what us NFs need is to discover an NF planet that we can all decamp to? 🙂
Yes let's hope someday we discover an NF planet!! I will volunteer to go! Who else wants to join me?
@@DuelingPersonalities It'd have all the most amazing artists and musicians on it but I reckon none of the plumbing would work! 😕
Omg 😭😭😭 we love you too INFJs! I literally feel happier and at peace just by being in the presence of an INFJ 💕 We have the same admiration and respect for you that you have for us. Thank you for making this sweet video! 🥹
Thanks for watching!
Thanks we love you guys too 🤗
Why am I crying? This was so amazing I guess it's kinda hard to see what you can do for someone when it feels like you don't do much for someone but listen. I guess actions really do speak louder than words. Thank you for the kind words!
Thanks for watching, Faminisim!
I’m an INFP and I think INFJ’s are just spectacular!
As an infp my closest companions are infjs. They do talk to me about their feelings. And very attentive to my comments cause i would usually blend it with my past experiences even though it might not be similar to them, but i find them intrigued by it. Because sometimes infjs can be quite selfish in a sense that they are not that eager to listen to our problems in return, thats why i would incorporate my story into their problems. And tts ok cause they appreciate it and through feelings, i relate to them the most. I hope this makes sense cause sometimes infp still have more explanation inside despite having had explained it.
This totally makes sense and I agree with you, the Zeitgeist. Thanks for sharing!
As an INFP, thanks for this. We love you too.
I’m a male INFP, and two of my best friends I’ve ever had, I know one to be an INFJ and the other I strongly suspect is as well. These two are two the best people I’ve ever known and I’m grateful to have them.
To speak to Reason #4, believe me, it’s euphoric for us, too. To have someone we care about open up to us and pour their hearts out is something we thrive off of, whether we realize it or not. We as INFPs value our friends over everything else, and we want you to be happy, want you to be able to vent if you need to, and want to be allowed to share in your ups and downs.
Reason #5 is on the money too. As you say, a key feature of INFPs is our strong self-identity, and being easily able to understand and identify our emotions quickly. So when others struggle with their own feelings, we’re happy to help. I, at least, crave to help others with their emotions. Especially those younger than me. Maybe being a male INFP, perhaps I have some masculine instinct that’s activated in a unique way.
Great thoughts on this Walker Sunrise! Thank you for sharing your perspective in the comments.
I like your explanation about the masculine instance. As a fellow male INFP, I think your spot on.
@@Tanner0 Yeah? I think if we consider that there's perhaps a deep-laid instinct among men to help and protect those younger than us, it makes sense on a INFP level too
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0:30 - They are so different from INFJs
01:41 - They are so similar to INFJs
03:53 - They get INFJs out of their shell
05:39 - They understand INFJs
06:58 - They help heal INFJs
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My best friend is an INFJ (I’m an INFP) we can talk about anything and everything (our feelings and emotions) we never judge each other, we understand each other very well and get along very well. We also relate a lot when it comes to feelings, emotions and opinions. I’m so glad to have him as a friend
Thanks for the comment, Keira!
My infj bestie is the best! I just❤❤❤ infj's you guys are sooo non judgemental, and super caring and fun. If only I had married one 😪 instead I married a intj and that was painful.
Thanks for watching Lulu Ray!!
I am a INFP and my sister is a INFJ. I’m not just saying this because she's my sister but I love her so much. I know that I could never live without her. She's my everything and we understand each other so well. We talk about everything and I know her so well as she does me. We are very similar but at the same time not. We even have the same room and sometimes we talk for hours before going to bed. We can talk for hours and not even notice (it's a problem) No one understands me as she does and no one understands her as I do. She gets me. We both are very closed off with our emotions with others but with each other, we are very open. She's my life and I know she feels the same about me.
I wish I had some INFJs in my life! Great video! Subscribed. :)
So glad you joined Nameless Grace! Thanks for watching!
Me too :')
Hearing this fills my heart. When I met my INFJ husband I felt an instant connection. His energy fit so easily with mine. Within a few days of meeting I suggested we take a vacation together. So glad he said yes.
I’m an INFP, and I almost feel as if I understand an INFJ when I talk to them even If I don’t know them that well, even through facial expressions it communicates so much to a much greater level than other personality’s. INFJs see life in a very similar way even though we are so different. It’s shame there aren’t many of you around! The extroverted feeling of the INFJ helps me to look beyond my own needs. I hate feeling miss understood INFJ’s are the best at understanding me.
Thank you for sharing your perspective on this, Ben.
Sometimes I come back here just to feel loved.
Welcome back Alle! We're glad you are here! 🙏🙏
We INFPs also love you INFJs. I have a few of you IRL and never want to lose them.
My brother is an INFJ and I am an INFP. He is my best friend because we have some of the best conversations. He thinks I am carefree and fun and actually laughs with me which makes me more open. I found INFPs to have moments of struggle with self-hate, but I can always count on an INFJ to give me encouragement. I fell in love with an INFJ girl and she is so open with me but not with many other people.
Yes so true. Infj is so trustworthy. It's like so easy to open up to them and they make you fill heard, they don't judge. They give the best hugs and best of the best advice. They actually let you sit in the sadness instead saying it's going to be okay, someone is suffering worse lol, so infuriating.
you could say that the typical infp has the proverbial "poker face" .....it can be a bit deceptive to most people and just when you least expect it you realize that "you just got ' shrinked' by an infp " Good thing they're also loving !
Can u elaborate on this
@@juliaf7481 Mostly due to their superior listening skills and open mindedness. Sometimes it would appear they don't give a rats - a** like they're distracted or not even paying attention. Make no mistake they are reading between the lines like crazy and they're good at it. Due to the fact they are generally thoughtful and loving they are gonna be diplomatic if you ask them their opinion.
“Just got shrinked” 😂 I’m stealing that! I did that all the time as a teenager. I loved it. Not in a manipulative way. We are genuinely interested in people. I found it fascinating that the majority of people never noticed in the moment but only later. It was even more surprising that they hadn’t noticed I hadn’t shared 1 thing about myself. Interestingly, most viewed it as a mysterious power when in reality it only came down to asking questions. The majority of people only talk about themselves.
I love INFPs so much cuz like I feel like I can be myself they bring so much peace into my life. I feel like they understand me better then I do myself
@yyslt - well said! The infps in my life are also peacemakers. Thanks for watching!!
My INFJ mom loves me (I'm INFP). But she sees me as a selfish, sort of evil, and sort of useless person. My love for her is unexplainable, but I wish she embraced my true nature.
We are all those things on occasion. The thing with us INFJ's is, we are all about constant improvement and personal development. It makes it easier to go trough life and collect good karma. We don't get how majority of ppl feel no need to change for the better, cause just a few tweeks in all of us could make this world a Heaven for all. What I am trying to say is, do not take her words as permanent judgement of you. She has seen you act in a certain way in some situations and wants to point it out to you, so you can develop from there. The ppl we dnt care about, we dnt frett, we leave them to their ways, but if we love you, we will pester you to change, because we want to see you happier in your future. 🤷♀️
aww my gf is an INFJ and she sent me this beautiful video ´cause im a INFP
Thanks Tanito!!
This has to be one of the sweetest videos I've ever gotten recommended!
Thank you, Cindy
Could you PLEASE make a video about relationship between infp and infj?
Sure Anmana! My upload schedule is already set for May (INFJ's and their planning lol) but I'll add it to the list. Please press the notification bell so you don't miss the video when it launches. Thanks for watching!!
loved it ♡ (infp)
Thanks for watching, Eli seta!
The happiness in my heart is infinite from watching this and reading the comments. The world needs more people like you guys to be the light in this cruel world
Thank you for the kind words, HiHelloHi
🥺🥺🥺 thank you brother. Love you for this.
Awe, this is so beautiful! Thank you! I love INfJs right back! Some of my favorite people in my life are INFJs! 🤗 I love how deep I can connect with INFJs!
Thanks for watching Tam Tam!
Awww...Thanks man!💕 I don't know a single INFJ in real life. Must be nice, since my dad is an ESTJ, my mum an ESFJ, my sister an ISTJ (so at this point you pretty much guess how my life was growing up). My best friends so far have been an unhealthy INTJ, two ISTPs and a narssisistic ESTP. Needless to say, I'm no longer friends with either of them. I'm doing pretty good with my parents now and I'm doing even better with my sister though because of Fi-Si. She keeps me grounded when I need it!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts in the comments, Anthology of Interest!
@@DuelingPersonalities Thank you for replying!!!
This is my new anti depression video, thank you.
Thanks for watching Zubin!
Thank you for this explanation. I'm an INFJ so lucky to be married to an INFP. I fell in love with him because I could sense that he was deep enough that I could be completely real with him - the first person I'd met in 40 years who was like that! His true integrity healed me of past misconceptions about relationships, before I'd even gotten to know him very well. I've always been someone who would give up something if someone else wanted it - but he would honor my preference and insist that I keep it for myself. And when I bring to him something I'm struggling with, he never gives a pat answer, but takes a few minutes, thinks about it, and says exactly what I need to hear. Like you said, a different perspective, but often the one I've missed. Just being near him makes me happy. What a blessing to have him in my life!
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ALL SPOT ON, as an INFP i can say that on my part, i rarely met ot talk with people, but whenever someone opens up to me, i try everything possible to support their feelings and help them, no matter how broken am at that moment (its like a natural instinct...)
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, Vinicius! And thanks for watching!!
even after watching this video... as an INFP I still wonder wheter my INFJ friends feels helped/relieved when they vent to me😐. I already did my best I swear 😓.
Hi humammaulana.. Thanks for sharing this. I truly hope your infj friends appreciate you. 🙂 😊
This brought tears to my eyes. It made me feel so good to know I could offer these things to others, I actually felt a wave of gratitude, it is humbling because I am well aware I didn’t choose my nature; it’s something I I have sensed from others but when you spoke it so clearly, I felt it in my heart. My closest friend - soul sister is an INFJ. In a similar way, you guys see us in ways that others dont’… and then you have a way of putting it in such a clear, direct, convicting way... you INFJs are equally amazing, soul warriors with your words that are like silver swords cutting the mist. Thank you so much ♥️
Thanks for watching, Mia!
My boyfriend its INFP :3 ,i agree
You killed me man. Tears running down my face
@SuperAweber Thanks for watching!
As an infp who for a long time tried to run away from her "predeterminated" personality. I can tell that I feel really grateful for everything you said. I usually try hard to hide when something affects me so people won't take advantage of it, but I'm seriously so hurt when something happens and I feel so deep inside me anytime someone tells me how they feel. But because of my environment I didn't show it so often since it's seen as weakness. But I would cry later for all the charge of emotions I was holding. I'm trying to start showing people my "real version" and is really helpful seeing what others think about it. I'm genuinely happy and grateful
Thanks for sharing your perspective, Valeria!
What I couldnt put into words the infj just slice through life effortlessly expressing these intense feelings look at the infj rappers they make the world goes insane
Thank you so much for this video. These are actually what my boyfriend(INFJ) said to me as well, and it was really empowering. I still think that INFJs are way much better at figuring out what others feel, and knowing exactly the right words to say to make others feel better and understood. (Just like you, Johnny.) That's an amazing, almost magical gift that INFJs have. Even when the world is against me, I feel like I could always find shelter in INFJs. And you INFJs, can count on INFPs to do the same for you. WE LOVE YOU!!!
Thanks for watching, Harry W!
Thanks for the kind words. I guess this healing capacity we infps have is much because of the fact we don´t judge people for not being on top of things all the time, or having out of the box-ideas or lifestyles. We´re probably the opposite of the "tough love-get your shit together"-approach. Also, it´s very interesting how infps and infjs are so similar and so different at the same time.
it fits kinda very well x))
i love my infp gf.
but those people are just great anyways. i can feel free, and very comfy around those ^-^
Awwww ❤❤❤❤ You're so loving. Thank you so much for this. This video helped me heal and I was getting cozy warm feelings from you. Same love back to you!! You're awesome!!! :D ❤❤❤❤
I feel so seen and understood as an INFP, which is such a RARE feeling for me. I have noticed that I get along extremely well with INFJs and that we seem to mesh almost on a cellular level. It's like meeting a long lost best friend every time I encounter an INFJ. I feel safe with them. It's hard not to fall deeply for an INFJ in my honest opinion. I love when they open up and let me listen to their woes. INFJs are also my favorite adventure partners
I am an INFP and two of my most favorite people, my best friend and my brother, are both INFJ. I feel fully myself with them, we just click in the most magical ways. I hope to find love like this one day.
Thanks for watching, Erin!
Agree, agree, agree, very much true.
Thank you so much for your kind words! As an INFP who is always doubting herself it's extremely comforting to hear such things. Keep on your great work, it's much appreciated 🤗
INFP are true healers.
I've talked with many people but how they say things, how they come with a new perspective works very well with me. It feels like they heal my heart.
And even though I've read that Fi might clash with Fe, I think that it helps when an INFJ is in Ni-Ti loop. In that state we don't care, we don't feel and their Fi makes us return to Fe and get in touch with our feeling side, which can get us out of the loop. With other types, especially sensors, the advice I get is usually "You shouldn't feel like this. Get over it!" but INFP are understanding and they are more like🤗 and they say you are hard on yourself and how amazing you are in another aspect of your life. I just hope that I also help them somehow.
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7:25 the healing from INFPs...my...ex was a narcissistic INTJ and was low key reverse empath...one of his nick-names for me was "Sarah-dol" ...maybe a reference to a perscription medication, 🤷♀️ I guess...got my superpower sucked outta me...working to be that "healer" again...have to do it for myself, first, this time around. This is really helping me HEAL...thanks!
I cried. Thank you
Wow as an infp, i think the reasons are mutual.. People tend to think I'm too emotional if I open up, I feel judged and often misunderstood. But with my infj friends, I feel comfort. They are so brave with their emotions it's admirable. They are empathetic and great listener as well. I don't usually like to open up even though people open up to me a lot. But it's easy with infj. I truly felt understand and appreciated. My infj friends often doubt themselves as if they don't deserve the love the good but they have the most pure soul. I am amazed how they don't see that. World need more of infjs
Thank you, Luna4CE!
INFP here, and this honestly made me smile so much.
I have a close friend who's an INFJ. I've never met someone so similar, yet still so different. We're both from different cultures, countries, religions, upbringing, etc, but I think we both still understand each other on an emotional level. Especially through trauma, but that's just personal lives.
As I said previously, we're from different cultures. Different countries, if you want to cut to the chase. I really hope that I get the chance to meet him irl one day.
Thanks for the video!
I am glad the video made you smile. Happy Holidays and be blessed. Thanks for watching! 🙏🎄🌈
I'm INFP and my friend that I found is the most trusted is an INFJ. We also share each other problem between us, things that I never tell others all my life. Thank you for INFJ too ♡
Thanks for watching, Unknoe!
I am an INFP surrounded by INFJs. They playfully call me the INFJ Whisperer. This video was awesome and I sent it to them to remind them how much they need me and they better not ever forget it. LOL. I kid, I kid. I love my little INFJ alien squad. They have no idea how rare and magical they are, so I constantly remind them. Beneath that hard exterior beats the hearts of the most beautiful souls I know. Their perfectionism causes them to look past and underestimate all the value they bring to the world, and the gaps only they can fill. 💗
@Jazzy Moni- Someone should do 5 reasons infp love infj lol. Thanks for sharing your thoughts in the comments. 🙏
@@DuelingPersonalities I agree.
Infp here ❤️ thank you.. I love Infjs too! We can share so much at a deep level. No small talk… ☺️❤️
Absolutely!!
I'm an INFJ-T with 95% (Fe) and 90% (Se) and I don't have any idea of what emotions I feel so I find myself in the Nothingness of agony and despair without hope. I have removed everyone from my life. Including the INFP that I could just sit in her energy doing nothing eles and feel the healing process happening. Now I will not allow anyone to be held back by me. Nor will I ever allow anyone close to me. 50 feet away and I know exactly what everyone is feeling. This also works for identifying metals, crystals, gems, and the one time I activated a old phone that had no Sim card and drove all over town with the wifi off yet streaming TH-cam music videos. So I now focus internally unlocking and pushing the limits on what I can do with my souls energy signature.
we loooove u too INFJs!!😚hug hug
Aw thank you for making me smile. I have an INFJ and she is truly the best.
also no one has ever referred to me as a jedi master but it is perhaps the greatest compliment i have ever received
Dude... NAILED it. I agree with every point in this video 100000%. ~INFJ
As an INFP I feel affirmed.
Awwww thank you so much for this video🥺 I admit i cried a bit because I remembered that one time, when i sat down with my INFJ friend and she just shared everything with me, it was amazing, she was so open. So i got back to that memory and realized how important this must’ve been for her. Aww, i love INFJs! Thank you for making me feel appreciated✨
Thanks for watching Maya!
As an infp I love infjs! They’re such caring people and this wholesome video really made my day, thank you🙏🏻
Thank you Lars
as an INFP tysm.. this made me feel loved
Thanks for this video! This INFP feels loved ❤️. I think I really needed this test. I’ve always felt like I didn’t fit in. Yet I have a few extremely close friends that I cherish and I’m aware that they call me when they need to talk. I’ll drop everything to listen to them and I feel good when I do. I don’t know if any of them are INFJs.
This is so true. I just forwarded this to my bestie.. 😊
Thanks for watching and sharing!
Yes, I am an INF. P. I want to thank you for the great way that you've explained my personality type and we appreciate when we can help someone I heard just to see people struggle and we always want to help them feel better. You really done your studying again? Thank you for your great caring loving words. I n f j truly
I need an infj in my life 😍💜 i would love to understand infj in depth. You made me cry with your words at the end 🥺🥺 it means so much 💜💜
👍✌️💪🙏❤️👋
while i was watching and you got to the 'the idea of a fun night out might be...' youtube literally cut out. yes, that is my idea of a fun night out, it does not exist lmfao
Awesome brother, thanks for making this video. ☺️🙏
INFP here - Much love right back at ya ^_^
We love you guys too! You are intelligent!
That's a funny point about INFPs being more spontaneous...that's actually something that happened once when my cousin and I were out at a family gathering and went to a loud restaurant and I struck up a random chat with someone, and my cousin (INFJ) looked at me and went, "Awww, look at you making friends in the bathroom," in this snarky (but friendly) tone. I'm no extrovert but I will strike up a conversation sometimes for sure.
Thanks for sharing this, Nerys!
As an INFP, this brought me to tears. Thank you 😭
Thank you for sharing your heart with us, Brett.
as an INFP place a lot of importance in exploring how to love unconditionally those close to me in a practical everyday sense, maybe other INFPs do this too and that’s why we are called healers? Lol
I fell in love with my INFP BFF because of her kindness, understanding, and ability to help me even when at my WORST.
She's aroace so there's nothing to be had there, but my heart has been broken so many times, I'm actually rather happy that I feel like this for someone who will never have the urge to do something in that area that would hurt me.
I love my INFP friends with all my heart. They are my foil, my anchor. They are a hot air balloon taking me to unseen heights, and the n somehow they return to the ground before me, so they might catch me if I fall.
I have never felt safer even among my dearest friends, and I couldn't begin to tell you how glad I am to have replaced those awful, abusive jerks, with these delightful unstoppably kind paragons of humanity.
Be well my P friends. I love you so much. All INFJs do.
Thanks for watching and commenting!!
Bless you man. Ive seen more than 5 comments talk about people tearing up and well im the same, sometimes I guess you really dont know how much you needed to hear something until you hear it. This was very much appreciated, and im sure i share the thought here with a lot of other infps that, even though we re not looking for it, it just doesnt happen enough. Thank you so much.
Thank you, Tafa! Have a blessed weekend.
Lol I havent done anything, but ily2 lol.
Thanks for making this video
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thank you, it feels good to hear.
I am an INFP this TH-cam was refreshing and encouraging. Some things I've seen about INFP's are so negative. I loved everything you've said thank you.
Thank you, Paula.
we are lovely.. thank you for this video :)
What a sweet video. And thank you for using the word Appreciate. It's my favorite word. And I appreciate you spreading understanding and kindness here. Everyone should have something like this, whoever they are.
Thanks Will!
Thankyou for this video! I'm an infp. This video boost my self-esteem. Thankyou Jhonny🥺❤️✨