On Hong Kong’s DSE exam results day, emotions run high

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    High school students received their results for the Hong Kong Diploma of Secondary Education (HKDSE) on July 10, 2019. Twelve of the highest performers in Hong Kong’s main university entrance exams come from nine elite schools.
    St Francis Xavier’s College invited companion dogs Pepsi and Mung Mung to help students stay calm.
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  • @StinkySundae
    @StinkySundae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18780

    This is what drives suicide rates

    • @simon-ji7ml
      @simon-ji7ml 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2479

      @ϟϟ White Wolf ϟϟ so cute. Have to make others feel weak to make yourself feel a tad bit confident. If anyone here is a beta, it's you.

    • @mz3674
      @mz3674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +486

      RombaKungen agreed 😂

    • @nis62
      @nis62 4 ปีที่แล้ว +278

      RombaKungen I thought it was a joke. If he was serious then I feel bad for him.

    • @taejunchang396
      @taejunchang396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      Archaic Savage You wouldn’t really joke about suicide..

    • @nis62
      @nis62 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@taejunchang396 I was addressing the white wolf guy.

  • @strider029
    @strider029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27873

    "stressful day"
    One guy: "I find the dog very cute"
    That guy has priorities man

    • @carnum1159
      @carnum1159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Megumin did you even read what he said? *A PART* of happiness comes in nature

    • @XLEZZY_REUPLOADS
      @XLEZZY_REUPLOADS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@carnum1159 Yup! And it's the most irrelevant comment to ever add. It's like saying there is at least one human on the planet!

    • @ishworshrestha3559
      @ishworshrestha3559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yed

    • @ella7939
      @ella7939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Must protecc man

    • @alson8403
      @alson8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Carl Ortiç funny, but still a bit offensive

  • @michaelw3159
    @michaelw3159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27544

    Those parents being so supportive on camera.
    *At home it's a different story*

    • @misty_ravy
      @misty_ravy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +980

      true but no soo super true

    • @michaelw3159
      @michaelw3159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      @@misty_ravy Hopefully :P

    • @heavenlydusk
      @heavenlydusk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +604

      “您為什麼不學習更難?!,我什至讓您修訂了一千倍,您是愚蠢的嗎?!”,

    • @m.hafidzimtiyaz4201
      @m.hafidzimtiyaz4201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +793

      @@hahsbaabjnvc1909 no need to go at their house we can already predict it tho. Otherwise, you're not Asian so you wouldn't know how our parents literally have 2 difference face.... supportive only when infront of many people, but when not.... uuhh u know lah

    • @michaelw3159
      @michaelw3159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@hahsbaabjnvc1909 No, it's a joke lol. Don't take it literally.

  • @bluedragongaming8633
    @bluedragongaming8633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14908

    If students are this emotionally recked and a single standardized test determines their future then something in their education system is wrong.

    • @david.jr.
      @david.jr. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +302

      Exactly

    • @eemeli7093
      @eemeli7093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Yep

    • @ambulantgaming8483
      @ambulantgaming8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1059

      Asian countries like this put too much focus on memorization

    • @kevinte1646
      @kevinte1646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      not so much the system but the competition

    • @Glitchmelon
      @Glitchmelon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Do you expect universities to handpick students? Anyways chances are the universities know a lot are going to fail so they will make the minimum mark lower

  • @nunyabusiness3652
    @nunyabusiness3652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14223

    And schools be like, "Why students are committing suciding?"

    • @Gaminghunter2000
      @Gaminghunter2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      Killing yourself is committing suicide

    • @user-ui7jt8ms5i
      @user-ui7jt8ms5i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@rat4588 I just escaped from Nagito's basement.

    • @user-ui7jt8ms5i
      @user-ui7jt8ms5i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@rat4588

    • @user-ui7jt8ms5i
      @user-ui7jt8ms5i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@rat4588 What did you think happened?

    • @megantaur3683
      @megantaur3683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Your englishing is committing suiciding

  • @exstee
    @exstee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6064

    “Don’t let schooling interfere with your education.” - Mark Twain

    • @soloassasins9407
      @soloassasins9407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Well said

    • @rigolol7451
      @rigolol7451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +175

      Easy to say as a westerner

    • @wizardsyndicate5505
      @wizardsyndicate5505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      rigolol ur just mad the United States is the most successful country in the world 🤷‍♂️

    • @mcprogamerro
      @mcprogamerro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +337

      @@wizardsyndicate5505 you are actually delusional

    • @diliu6298
      @diliu6298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      totally agree!!!

  • @lambeefbiryani08
    @lambeefbiryani08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9263

    In front of camera/crowds: "it's ok it's ok"
    Already in home : "look at your cousin and your neighbor they got high score"

    • @zo_glass
      @zo_glass 3 ปีที่แล้ว +273

      That happened to me

    • @wheresyouraim1379
      @wheresyouraim1379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +271

      that sh is a fact bro they be bringing us down and comparing us to other better people

    • @goshiii1995
      @goshiii1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      I hate how some parents compare their children to someone else

    • @10zin9
      @10zin9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr

    • @cxxia
      @cxxia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Beryl語詩 My parents did this to me tho ;-;

  • @andrewdoesyt7787
    @andrewdoesyt7787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3019

    The fact that they need a therapy dog tell you something. It’s like having bars outside your window, there’s a reason for it.

    • @blibdoolpoolp
      @blibdoolpoolp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Most universities I know in Canada also bring in puppies during exam season. It's a common practice

    • @mizu4305
      @mizu4305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You don’t have bars outside your window?

    • @andrewdoesyt7787
      @andrewdoesyt7787 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mizu4305 ?

    • @mizu4305
      @mizu4305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andrewdoesyt7787 I look out and every window has bars over it

    • @andrewdoesyt7787
      @andrewdoesyt7787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mizu4305 What city do you live in? 😂. I don’t think I have seen bars on a window for a few years lol

  • @Theguywholikesturtles
    @Theguywholikesturtles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5840

    In the result day i become the Most Religious Person in the World

    • @danica._.6822
      @danica._.6822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +598

      Sameee. Atheism leaves my body as soon as tests and exams begin.

    • @rinhubi7447
      @rinhubi7447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@danica._.6822 😂fr

    • @Zorocanify
      @Zorocanify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😂

    • @SeekMVS
      @SeekMVS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lol

    • @sunhopii8534
      @sunhopii8534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      On result day I shall pray like no other Christian has ever prayed before 😀

  • @flowerondiscord4254
    @flowerondiscord4254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11568

    I hate it when your life is determined by a piece if paper but I can’t do anything about it.

    • @87togabito
      @87togabito 4 ปีที่แล้ว +337

      I hate it when snowflakes cant take the harsh reality of life either

    • @bluff8364
      @bluff8364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@87togabito ^

    • @nasuscapilli9160
      @nasuscapilli9160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      The kids who hate it are probably are in the class of lazy, undisciplined, rebellious or video game addicts. For the hard working kids, it is the best social mobility system in any society.

    • @experience_point6233
      @experience_point6233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +519

      @@87togabito Judging people based on piece of paper is stupidity nothing more nothing less.

    • @MinttMeringue
      @MinttMeringue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      @@87togabito literally one of the top scorers in this vid talks about how liberal studies isnt brainwashing and is an important topic... isnt that pretty "snowflake-y"? Lol.

  • @creativefaithbyshelbygrace3672
    @creativefaithbyshelbygrace3672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6089

    As a teacher in the US, this breaks my heart. Students you are more than a test score! You are a human being and you are so important to the world. Your life has meaning and is valid. It hurts me to know that countries outside of the states put so much emphasis on what you score determines the path you take in life. I took the SAT and bombed everything, but the essay. I ended up attending a junior college (2 year institution) then transferring to my University to complete my BA. I graduated with a BA in History and a Social Studies composite teaching certification with honors in 2019 and just landed a teaching position in December. I love my school, I love my job. I love my kids. My parents did not force me to choose a career. While people told me I would never be happy because I would not make enough money, my parents and my friends encouraged me to pursue a career that would make me happy. You should enjoy your secondary education and enjoy your college experience. And do not be afraid to change your path if you come to discover the career you thought you wanted it not what you truly want to do.
    And if your parents, family, teachers, or professors never told you this, then let me say it.
    “You should be proud of the hard work you are putting in or have put in to reach you goal. Be proud of the mistakes, hardships and trials you have faced or are facing, because those will make you grow. You are doing this for you, your happiness, your future, no one else’s”.
    -Ms. Lotre A high school World Geography and Economics teacher from Texas, USA.

    • @kitkatheart
      @kitkatheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Thank you

    • @alle4068
      @alle4068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Thank you so much.

    • @enea_7280
      @enea_7280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Thank you

    • @jeongzz3817
      @jeongzz3817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Thank you, teacher. You're gonna make me tear up

    • @ra_vela
      @ra_vela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Thank you, I really needed this.

  • @DaniHMcV
    @DaniHMcV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +946

    School shouldn’t be this stressful. Finland has a much, much less strict attitude towards testing, etc and yet they consistently show that they have the best schooling on Earth.

    • @sage1476
      @sage1476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Finland is country with a population less than population of metropolitan city in India or China.

    • @oomphdooph
      @oomphdooph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      You can't really compare Finland and china as Finland has 5 million people while China has 1 billion

    • @cerealbeforemilk8976
      @cerealbeforemilk8976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I agree that they should mitigate the stress level, unfortunately Finland and China can’t be comparisons when it comes to education due to massive population differences

    • @emperor8716
      @emperor8716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      to everyone saying not to compare finland to china… hong kong isnt china. :)

    • @sage1476
      @sage1476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@emperor8716 HongKong is China and anyone who disagree can go to China and ask the PLA.

  • @CopperheadAirsoft
    @CopperheadAirsoft 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18927

    Asian parents grading system
    A = acceptable
    B = beating
    C = can’t have dinner
    D = don’t come home
    F = find a new family

    • @trainer-bq4wj
      @trainer-bq4wj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +678

      I am indo and we use number to grade score
      Max:100
      Min:0

    • @juangayming1848
      @juangayming1848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      Isn't not coming home like finding a new family?

    • @shaiRSN
      @shaiRSN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      Imagine having a name it’s more like don’t come home = all of the above and you have to beg to come back

    • @juangayming1848
      @juangayming1848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@shaiRSN oh ok ty

    • @rainer533
      @rainer533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@trainer-bq4wj anjim awoakwoakwo

  • @novafrost523
    @novafrost523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13229

    I'm from Hong Kong, and the fact that people study not for knowledge, just for passing DSE shocked me.

    • @permafrost8894
      @permafrost8894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1029

      I'm sure majority of the people study for that reason

    • @RahimAli-lu6jx
      @RahimAli-lu6jx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      MyrohComments they have drones for that

    • @zakariyasiddiqui5605
      @zakariyasiddiqui5605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +363

      @MyrohComments Bruh here in Asia university exams are taken seriously, they have serious checking, security, cameras even the dress code

    • @serpentzachary1340
      @serpentzachary1340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +454

      That's the whole point of school you study not for knowledge but for that piece of paper. I prefer self education because it helps me to improve that's why I love the library and the internet more than school itself.

    • @RakaZet
      @RakaZet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +233

      @@serpentzachary1340 Until you get hit by the reality truck finding out that most companies only accept university graduates.

  • @ImNotEpix
    @ImNotEpix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2186

    Bruh I'm already having a hard time in school in America, I can't even imagine going to school here. ;-;

    • @idunnodo1142
      @idunnodo1142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      To be completely honest, it's a very fine line between stern discipline and outright mental abuse. Where do we draw the line is a serious question we all need to answer

    • @ghoodbhabie2558
      @ghoodbhabie2558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +206

      one time a foreign exchange student came to our class and finished a math test that had an hour to complete in 5 MINUTES. the teacher asked him, “how did you finish already?” and he said “too easy”

    • @mehreenali3602
      @mehreenali3602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@ghoodbhabie2558 reallyyy , which country was he from?

    • @ghoodbhabie2558
      @ghoodbhabie2558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      @@mehreenali3602 china

    • @3rdassassin50
      @3rdassassin50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ghoodbhabie2558 wow wth

  • @lelekoko8986
    @lelekoko8986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    I’ve personally learned how to not let my grades demolish my mental health and my emotions. it’s not the end, there is so much more life outside of education

    • @darkdelphin834
      @darkdelphin834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      That is honestly so important

    • @theaudiotube3293
      @theaudiotube3293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Your comment literally gave me hope after the above depressing ones. You're great and made the right choice.🤗

    • @Kakashi-ck9tp
      @Kakashi-ck9tp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The thing is education decides most of your future and exams and tests will remain a key component of your education and it decides which university you go to
      Going to a higher level university means more resources, better facilities, more competitiveness, better teachers and most importantly more career opportunities especially to work in higher-level businesses and or institutes
      It'll make life a whole lot better
      But yeah preparing for exams is stressful
      We have an 8th grade entrance exam and most top high-school’s will only accept admission for top students and remember it's high school admission not university
      Prep for most students begins in around end of 6th grade or beginning of 7th grade and it's stressful af cause firstly it's a hard paper, secondly the grading and marking is very strict, the timing given is also not that much so you have to be fast, there's also a lot of stress and it's extremely competitive putting a lot of stress especially for top students

    • @lelekoko8986
      @lelekoko8986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Kakashi-ck9tp what you’ve said makes sense and I partially agree. It’s also important to understand that there are other streams and means that can support your life as well outside of higher education. Education is fundamental yes however it shouldn’t be the sole reason that your life is miserable and you’re battling depression and anxiety amongst other things. We need to allow people to be outside of standardized tests and classes.

    • @StreamOStreamS
      @StreamOStreamS 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MofuMofu wait wat ? where you live ?

  • @carson7985
    @carson7985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47401

    I think us East Asians put too much focus on exam results. We are judged by how well we do in our exams. Life is more than just a piece of paper.

    • @lillyyum2101
      @lillyyum2101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2016

      Sad truth.

    • @yogawan3805
      @yogawan3805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2492

      Those paper will effect your future.
      IF u just finished high school and no collage degree, for sure no job for u.

    • @cyanoxicrose
      @cyanoxicrose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1570

      THANK YOU!
      Some of the most successful people on the planet do not have college degrees, let alone high school diplomas. Granted, some careers require college such as the medical field.

    • @jayjayjuki276
      @jayjayjuki276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +292

      Yoga Wan maybe yes, maybe no

    • @Kimun888
      @Kimun888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +540

      Well more population= competition, while job market stay same or will be reduce by tech, what do you expect

  • @yashikasharma8455
    @yashikasharma8455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5693

    As an Asian kid I actually cried while watching this. Its too relatable

    • @unnamedindividual5157
      @unnamedindividual5157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Lol what a beta 😂

    • @varunnair4705
      @varunnair4705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      @@unnamedindividual5157 that means child or kid

    • @staninsertkpopgroup1181
      @staninsertkpopgroup1181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Stay in school still tho, aint don't want to not get a job

    • @supreetkaur996
      @supreetkaur996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So Yashika as l get that we r both indians, which grade u r in??

    • @420cm
      @420cm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      @@unnamedindividual5157 Look guys, we got a badass alpha here

  • @abc397
    @abc397 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    I got my DSE results last year, and I broke down in tears as soon my eyes laid upon the results. I’d been revising for months and months before the exam and I still got horrible results. It’s affected me so much in the past year and both my physical and mental health have deteriorated immensely. The education system is honestly terrible, although effective. If you’re a parent, don’t raise your child in Hong Kong unless you want to give them lifelong trauma.

    • @PrincepsFailed
      @PrincepsFailed ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm so, so sorry. I wish you all the success and happiness in life, you're more than your grades.

    • @user-ri5zk4ff2v
      @user-ri5zk4ff2v ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you doing well

    • @funnytalk7297
      @funnytalk7297 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i am the dser this year. i got your feeling even though i havent started my dse exam.

    • @Sadf430
      @Sadf430 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you're doing ok now :(

    • @rumanfurqan1097
      @rumanfurqan1097 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you are doing something which is better than this.

  • @AmitCodes
    @AmitCodes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +883

    42% can apply to universities, this is such a great number. In India result is maximum about 5 to 10%

    • @workplease5696
      @workplease5696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      exactly, most others have to settle for other private colleges

    • @AmitCodes
      @AmitCodes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@workplease5696 yes people like me

    • @an2471
      @an2471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      @@enea_7280 for girls the only option is " marriage", while boys work as a janitor.

    • @workplease5696
      @workplease5696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@enea_7280 well realistically speaking people in the top colleges have better chances of getting a job as their college signifies they can work hard. Others in different colleges have a much harder time getting a job and either have to settle for very low paying jobs or find something else, especially in a country overflowing with engineers. There's not a lot of focus on vocational training as a realistic career.

    • @kirillfursov6167
      @kirillfursov6167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      In Ukraine 120% students can apply to universities. Our universities is empty.

  • @carly4749
    @carly4749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8173

    litterally the ones who got “okay” or “poor” marks on that could come to america and probably win every top award in the country

    • @kevinnguyen8631
      @kevinnguyen8631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1064

      Probably not. America has different values. They don’t view people who only study as qualified. They rather get people who are well rounded and active in their community

    • @phenomenalphysics3548
      @phenomenalphysics3548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +464

      @@kevinnguyen8631 totally. and even when these students are scoring great marks. It doesnt really say weather they are best at that subject, maybe they've just memorised it and would probably forget it

    • @maten146
      @maten146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      @@phenomenalphysics3548 It's only in the us where subjects are only about memorising, in most countries you have complecated think where you need to think

    • @phenomenalphysics3548
      @phenomenalphysics3548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@maten146 asian countries? Well in India, if you prepare for entrance exam, that's only when you need to think (well a lot)
      In your country too?

    • @SC-lr8tv
      @SC-lr8tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Probably not. Studying and scores are not the only valued thing in America. Our education system is sub-par though

  • @Dangdawg.
    @Dangdawg. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6332

    If I did that, you’d see me cry right away because I didn’t pass.

    • @skylovermc2146
      @skylovermc2146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Egg Egg How do you know you won’t pass? You may have other times you didn’t but you can’t be sure if this time will be the same as the rest.

    • @KraneJams
      @KraneJams 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Plus if you tried your hardest and put all you could, that's all that really matters right? You did your best, but it's just not one if your strong points and that's okay. I dont mean to be condescending, as I'm not too great at keeping up with schoolwork at all 😅

    • @skylovermc2146
      @skylovermc2146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Macoroniyu ! You can’t assume.

    • @Dangdawg.
      @Dangdawg. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SkyloverMC
      It’s ok. It’s a joke

    • @dominiqueshaneawitin7307
      @dominiqueshaneawitin7307 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

  • @lonamisa834
    @lonamisa834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    You know what's the bitter truth of society everyone talk about celebrities' struggle but no one talks about students' struggle which I think is the hardest sitting on a chair for like 10-12 hrs doing that thing which we don't like i. e. study no one likes to study...

    • @darkdelphin834
      @darkdelphin834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Studying is not really that bad. Ideally when you are learning about sth that interests you. The pressure is what makes it so tough...

    • @lonamisa834
      @lonamisa834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@darkdelphin834 Yeah.. Actually if you've interest in something than it'd be easy for you... So yeah basically if you wanna achieve something than first you've to fall in love with that...For example for me Physics and Maths are not a subject they're emotions.. 😅

    • @Hanzu_Yuzuru
      @Hanzu_Yuzuru 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@darkdelphin834well heres the thing not all that you learn interest you. Some make you bored and you have to study even if it is against your free will.

  • @predator1409
    @predator1409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Imagine a test so hard that you actually need companion dogs to help you not have a mental breakdown and they take interviews of you if you pass the test.

  • @golammorshed7260
    @golammorshed7260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8953

    "He needs to find his way at the end"
    Yes, every Asian mom says that in front of public, at home is another story

    • @non-binaryduck
      @non-binaryduck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +658

      @太邪太恶了犹太佬 that is definitely not true uneducated learn the facts. People have to work hard their whole life's so no westerns do not have it easy I've met people who live paycheck to paycheck in America. The whole world is messed up no country is perfect there will always be people who suffer sadly this is the reality 😔

    • @sarahs9381
      @sarahs9381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +396

      太邪太恶了犹太佬 “westerners have it easy” until we go to the emergency room for 15 minutes and proceed to get billed thousands of dollars to the point people file for bankruptcy

    • @supreetkaur996
      @supreetkaur996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Nope delete that thought.. I have worked way too hard since last 2 yrs to get into an nice engineering college in India which is pretty tough.. But my dad always told me that life is also beyond yours marks.

    • @billycasper3351
      @billycasper3351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      maybe she's not one of those typical moms. who knows.

    • @vincelam1998
      @vincelam1998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      no she they seem like pretty genuine parents. My parents are like that too

  • @cassandra7105
    @cassandra7105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22884

    but sometimes, even if your parents or family doesn't pressure you, you can't help but put pressure on yourself.

    • @purnimasihmar2332
      @purnimasihmar2332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      So true

    • @nah_.
      @nah_. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +249

      Same except I don't really do anything about it lol

    • @joyceleung6361
      @joyceleung6361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +297

      Yes! This is societal pressure. People think once removed from this environment, even if parents give no pressure in a new society, it goes away. But it doesn't. I immigrated a long time ago. This unspoken pressure is still present. It's been difficult to adapt to living without this pressure... I see my cousins raise their second generation immigrant children. They really don't have this pressure and live completely carefree. 🤦 I don't know if this self added pressure is a +/- thing. 😅

    • @zohoney9288
      @zohoney9288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is right....

    • @theecrownprince
      @theecrownprince 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      me

  • @danv7887
    @danv7887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +760

    I feel like in China you HAVE to be a star student, whereas in the west you have some options if school isn’t your forte

    • @lovesickfics5059
      @lovesickfics5059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Not only china dude but every Asian country!!

    • @insanelyawesam1420
      @insanelyawesam1420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right! Although the China part applies to nearly all of Asia.

    • @lovesickfics5059
      @lovesickfics5059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@insanelyawesam1420 yeah

    • @anikdey9706
      @anikdey9706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Yep in the western even if you fail, there are a lot of opportunities to a dream life.

    • @insanelyawesam1420
      @insanelyawesam1420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@anikdey9706 Well, the grass is always greener on the other side. Opportunities don‘t come easy anywhere these days.

  • @theuniversewithkingkiwi
    @theuniversewithkingkiwi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    2:33 "Parents were there, supporting their kids" Well apparently the dad in the middle left is different

  • @whoami6064
    @whoami6064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8019

    "I am very surprised that I achieved it. I didn't expect it to happen"
    - every topper ever

    • @Alex_Christin
      @Alex_Christin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      True😂😂

    • @the.ancientphilosopher8611
      @the.ancientphilosopher8611 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      😂😂😂

    • @asadshaikh4643
      @asadshaikh4643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      🤣🤣

    • @freya4718
      @freya4718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      pretty sure they practiced for this acceptance speech

    • @blepblep7245
      @blepblep7245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +340

      "i dont think i studied enough, i think im not gonna pass" - every topper ever before the test

  • @anonymoushack9453
    @anonymoushack9453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14088

    As a American student, I have huge respect for students from China, Japan, and Korea... It’s crazy how different our school system/life is...

    • @wreck-itralph938
      @wreck-itralph938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1567

      Or you can also asia as whole. Our parents and the society put too much stress on us to do our best. I'm now living canada but the stress of going to school is still there

    • @eternalobi
      @eternalobi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +453

      The challenge for American students may not be getting into university but rather graduating from it. Some programs have 50% or less completion rate.

    • @danielhycarl539
      @danielhycarl539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@eternalobi true

    • @aysber7802
      @aysber7802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +590

      Not only in China, Korea and Japan. Almost all of Asian countries put too much expectations on students.

    • @Suffer-grow
      @Suffer-grow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +223

      Yes,too much pressure on kids in Asia..at age 15 and 16 I spent 10 hours a day studying....still useless though

  • @mvproductions8543
    @mvproductions8543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    The paper isn’t worth your life...
    this is truly sad that schools have made us value things too much like this

    • @mW-yp9gn
      @mW-yp9gn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      school in America is the worst, I feel their pain, jesus its already hard to keep up, I've barely passed my grades

    • @emperor8716
      @emperor8716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@mW-yp9gn school in america is 100x easier than this

    • @daniloroksa3766
      @daniloroksa3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah american school is better than serbian school

    • @CCP-Lies
      @CCP-Lies 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My country exams aren't that near-impossible level
      At least more than 50% accepted to university

    • @erwin5731
      @erwin5731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mW-yp9gn UK is harder, but I feel your pain either way

  • @rockbison9626
    @rockbison9626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    As an Asian i know how it feels our exams marks is everything for us . We not only have exam stress but loads of comparing with either our elder siblings or relative's children if we get less than them we are literally considered as black spot of family
    We are judged by our exam results not by how productive we are in our daily lives

    • @parmeetsingh7705
      @parmeetsingh7705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @Piyaphum
      @Piyaphum 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exam can change our life

    • @breebrown2579
      @breebrown2579 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same my mom always compares her friends children to me😃

    • @funnytalk7297
      @funnytalk7297 ปีที่แล้ว

      it is true, my parents always compare me to others

  • @ethanisnothere1375
    @ethanisnothere1375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4292

    "some students came out very satisfied"
    *Literally all girls*

    • @clockworkssh2675
      @clockworkssh2675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +987

      Because.... the scene theyve taken is from an all girls school(?)

    • @lailani.c46
      @lailani.c46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      So?-

    • @knzdkss5020
      @knzdkss5020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

      clockwork ssh they’re wearing DGS uniform, yes its a girl school.

    • @Marklee-lx7cd
      @Marklee-lx7cd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +331

      It's a all girls school they even showed a pic where boys are toppers some schools have separate classrooms for girls and boys also many schools take girl toppers and boys toppers pictures separately. But actually Asian girls take education very seriously as they think that's the only way to proof themselves in society because in China/Hong Kong boys where preferred over girls so many girls put alot of effort in exams.

    • @puneetsingh2772
      @puneetsingh2772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@Marklee-lx7cd yeah, pressure over girls is different at average.

  • @rossrocks9353
    @rossrocks9353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5764

    "I don't have too many expectations"
    *lies, all lies*

    • @theresachen3634
      @theresachen3634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      I mean these high school parents should know their own kids ability by now so if they actually know that their kid is failing school then they wouldn’t have high expectations. Not saying that this is true for everyone.

    • @mysticdragonex815
      @mysticdragonex815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      .

    • @morethanclumsy
      @morethanclumsy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      hong kong parents expectations are very different in comparison to mainland Chinese parents

    • @thingamajig9565
      @thingamajig9565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theresachen3634 this is Asian mom

    • @theresachen3634
      @theresachen3634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@thingamajig9565 ? Is there something you wanted to add to my comment?

  • @keiko9160
    @keiko9160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    This is literally happening all over Asia not only in China, Japan and Korea. When I took my college entrance exam and did not meet my parents expectation I cried because I felt my hardwork is not enough and my parents were disappointed at me.

    • @anfiena
      @anfiena 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You worked hard and that is what counts ❤️
      Trust me. If you work hard. You will make it one way or another but if you give up. Then you shall never make it.
      This is late, but you can do it and life is much more than just tests and exams. You will realise it.
      Your parents should have been happy for you because you worked hard.
      It's rare to find people who are hardworking and especially when they are not planning to give up.
      You can do it. What helps me is planning a goal. A goal you really want to accomplish. So when you think: 'I can't do this anymore' or 'I will never make it'. Think about that goal you really want to accomplish.
      I hope this helped you!

    • @Truthholder345
      @Truthholder345 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea especially India

    • @templexdank2933
      @templexdank2933 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine caring what your parents say.

    • @theophrastusbombastus827
      @theophrastusbombastus827 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@templexdank2933Said by the unloved child.

    • @theophrastusbombastus827
      @theophrastusbombastus827 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Truthholder345I wouldn’t say India cares about grades more, for me I think they care about grades as much as any other Asian countries.

  • @user-kj3qw4dt2s
    @user-kj3qw4dt2s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    This reminds me every day of that kid I once knew in my graduating high school class that committed suicide because he got a low score on the SAT & ACT...mind you his parents had super high expectations and controlled every aspect of his life from who he talked too and really honestly they cared more about the name of the college he would get into rather than his health.
    They wanted to brag that their child made it into this prestigious ivy league school. I remember the kid being like a blank paper, people knew his situation and became friends with him & talked. But he ignored everyone as if he didn't care...I never not think about this kid every day and if the circumstances were better he'd still be alive today.

    • @NONO-oy1cu
      @NONO-oy1cu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have nothing to say besides that I feel sorry for him.

  • @user-yx1lc1hb3n
    @user-yx1lc1hb3n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3930

    In India especially Tamilnadu hundreds of students have committed suicide because they scored less marks! This zombie system needs to change!

    • @zlatko8051
      @zlatko8051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Jawohl.

    • @mangojuice1596
      @mangojuice1596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      சங்கி மங்கி sanki manki

    • @ventithedrunkon66
      @ventithedrunkon66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Hey bro! I'm also from Tamilnadu. I'm just gonna take my math exam tomorrow. Now itself I'm dying from fear.

    • @savirrelan
      @savirrelan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Bro , don’t forget kota.

    • @DGLeo482
      @DGLeo482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@ventithedrunkon66 i gave my 12th boards too and I swear I was shivering in fear on my way to maths exam 😂😂😂

  • @kevinzhong2910
    @kevinzhong2910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12729

    Imagine getting back the marks for a test you've prepared for for over 2 years, knowing that it literally decides your future, and getting a low grade. If that situation happened to me I'd jump off a bridge right away. No wonder why these types of tests are harmful for student's mental health

    • @methcat5005
      @methcat5005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1169

      you can give the test again but thats like dropping a year? And that year becomes the most depressing ones because everyone you know your age is already in the colleges they wanted and you are just stuck

    • @keemielulep840
      @keemielulep840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +217

      One more thing is that the results will literally decide their fate therefore they will likely to be stressed about it while reviewing and wont perform well

    • @janicesee__
      @janicesee__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      3 years*, it's my turn next year and I'm terrified

    • @goldenfeatheryglow999
      @goldenfeatheryglow999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +259

      @@janicesee__ fighting❗
      I genuinely hope that you pass, I have to take my exams too next year... let's do our best together😊
      But first I need my results back from my math test, it's killing me😔
      JAN‼️ UPDATE I PASSED, let's both do our best next year kay😁✊

    • @leahantoinette7333
      @leahantoinette7333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@janicesee__ all the best dude. Rooting for u. U can do it.

  • @clementlee2121
    @clementlee2121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Don’t let school interfere with your education - Mark Twain

    • @_aragornyesyes_7171
      @_aragornyesyes_7171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Lord Jashin I think the guy is East Asian judging from the name and pfp

  • @theDisciplineForce.
    @theDisciplineForce. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    " *Some students came away very satisfied* "
    Literally from every class that one Albert Girl!-
    " *Not everyone was happy with their results* "
    Half of the school-_-

  • @s_spiritstar
    @s_spiritstar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3622

    Even people who did “so so” are harsh on themselves!!! This is the nature of Asian culture. If you don’t hit the mark, you’re not the norm.

    • @blacksheep1069
      @blacksheep1069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Yes..I'm Asian to..but my mom in another level..didn't want continue study? Great..I won't forcing my girls to do whatever they didn't want to..but make sure u find ur husb rich enough to support your life..

    • @juniuws
      @juniuws 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yea I'm also an Asian...well I scored B on one subject and she would still be dissapointed. I've tried my best...

    • @spiceydice6968
      @spiceydice6968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I'm asian too and my mom said if I get under a 95 she'll take my gaming setup away.

    • @PinkMcstuffins
      @PinkMcstuffins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is how it is for us Americans too. It’s truly sad. I get a f and I’m scolded, I get a c and I’m still scolded. I get a B or an A and all I get is “I’m surprised you actually passed”....

    • @spiceydice6968
      @spiceydice6968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@PinkMcstuffins C is a pass

  • @muskreality
    @muskreality 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1815

    Remember kids getting an "A" doesn't guarantee you're going to be a Billionaire, Always in everything that you do, do it best with full passion.

    • @kiyoko2525
      @kiyoko2525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Well getting an "A" can determine whether or not you go to uni.

    • @kevinzhang7370
      @kevinzhang7370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      A students work for C students.

    • @kaisasong1332
      @kaisasong1332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kevin Zhang name a c student CEO?

    • @boi190
      @boi190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Kaisya Ng A lot of CEOs are college dropouts

    • @muskreality
      @muskreality 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@kaisasong1332 You should read the book "why A students work for C students" by Robert Kiyosaki.

  • @adamcheeseburger1369
    @adamcheeseburger1369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I got mediocre results for my national exam. I remember how nonchalant most of the teachers were upon knowing what I got. But two most meaningful things happened on that day, one the teacher of my weakest subject was the only one that literally cheered for me and I didnt even get an A for his subject. Second, my parent were so happy for me as if I got excellent result, we even celebrated with dining at expensive restaurant which my family usually wouldnt and couldnt go to. I might not get achieve excellence in my academic performance, but I learn that there are more beautiful things in life other than that.

    • @christieng5166
      @christieng5166 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I’m so glad u got to enjoy those things even after such a stressful ordeal.

  • @xitlaltepec
    @xitlaltepec 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    watching this while procrastinating for studying for a test stresses me out even more

  • @dilyn7262
    @dilyn7262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11237

    Just come live in America for a little bit. You’ll be the smartest person in the room anywhere you go 👌🏼

    • @ash_mini
      @ash_mini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +673

      Smartness doesn’t mean much in America.

    • @pyreworks5210
      @pyreworks5210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +293

      @@ash_mini Not from america but as an outsider looking in, it seems like who knows you and who you know matters much more there. They pay for connections rather than education, I think. Someone pls correct me if im wrong lol
      Edit: grammar

    • @CB_here
      @CB_here 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Inure it is a feature of all capitalist countries, even China is reliant on connections when you’re at the top of the capitalist system but the people at the bottom of the system will study hard to climb to the top. (China is basically capitalism but they just call themselves socialists)

    • @it_s_me_jojo
      @it_s_me_jojo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      I swear, I was in 10th grade in highschool and everything was just so easy (Im from Germany,)😂
      Englisch Ap, yes, Biologie for 11th grader, here I go, oh look a subject I never had and dont understand, still A
      And when the exams were, everyone was like "I have to learn or else I will fail" "it will be difficult"..... an exam where you just have to choose between 4 answers is easy (they should change that bc it doesnt prepare you for life where you have to write WHOLE essays/texts + I heard in college you have to do so)

    • @dilyn7262
      @dilyn7262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Karen luvs Jesus I’m kind of confused by your comment.. but, okay?

  • @evama6348
    @evama6348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5115

    The parents from 2:30 made me tear up a little. Everyone needs supportive and loving parents during these challenging times. Hope everyone will hold their head up high regardless of their grades. Remember: some geniuses didn't do well at school so don't let this test define you.

    • @Royandwho
      @Royandwho 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      i totally agree with you, im from the UK and when A-level (grades that determine whether you get accepted into your university) results came out , my parents were too busy and i can understand that but i died a little seeing my friends and their supportive parents. The fact that i got A*AAA didnt matter to me anymore. I think more parents should be supportive than imposing their standards on their children because we are human and we do have feelings.

    • @myv7822
      @myv7822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      When u fail they ain’t supportive

    • @sweetambitions2381
      @sweetambitions2381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s easy to say but how easy is it to get anywhere in life without that gold gilding of a college education?

    • @ru_iru7092
      @ru_iru7092 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I just had fights with my parents regarding university and studies..and this part of the video just teared me up

    • @neogotmycrack7938
      @neogotmycrack7938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      My mom was so dissapointed everytime I get low grades, believe it or not Asian parents care more about grades and how you present yourself to society than their child's mental health.

  • @poonam4679
    @poonam4679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This is really sad. I just want to hug them and tell them it's ok🥺💚

    • @Rosemary_bae
      @Rosemary_bae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same

    • @marygrace8389
      @marygrace8389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now I’m waiting for my results in weeks (2021 DSE)

  • @carson-ro2lu
    @carson-ro2lu ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I mean it’s not just the DSE in Hong Kong,Recently a middle school girl(13 years old) committed suicide in a parking lot 15 minutes away from my home.
    Reports said it was all due to stress anxiety and a new principal that was too strict.
    One of my classmates was a close friend of her.
    So to everyone in world,I hope that you not only word hard but think positively,not everything is defined by a grade
    even in a stressful environment,we should try are best and give are all.
    Even if we don’t succeed.We still have a future.
    Everyone has a future.
    -a 6th grader in HongKong🧡💛❤️💙💜

  • @XX-qj9sj
    @XX-qj9sj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2685

    I got poor grades in high school including failing maths and I still got into a top 100 ranked University. If I was in Hong Kong I'd probably have to be a janitor or something, it's crazy how competitive asian countries are

    • @alphaweeb5195
      @alphaweeb5195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +191

      Crazy what money can do eh

    • @bobkay8806
      @bobkay8806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +252

      Similar story as yours. My brother failed in the HK exam but my mom gave him a tiny amount of money to go study in a community college in the US.
      He rode a bike to school and worked at Denny's to support himself. To make the story short, he founded a company that became a Fortune 500 company.

    • @chunchunmaru3644
      @chunchunmaru3644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @Anna Lee, On the contrary, you get ahead because of education, without relying on one source of information.
      In east asia: "Yeah I didn't make the cut for this top university, time to work as a janitor as at best I'll be mediocre"
      In the west: "Yeah I didn't make the cut for this top university, let's create a business around what I wanted to study, and learn as I operate it".

    • @justinf.5688
      @justinf.5688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I mean there isn't as much universities in Hong Kong, it's a small piece of land. That's probably why it's that much more competitive

    • @chunchunmaru3644
      @chunchunmaru3644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@justinf.5688 Hong Kong is artificially kept small so that real estate prices can stay high, I mean it's more than 50% unused due to the government, but if such a huge amount of people can live there, then even universities shouldn't have a problem.

  • @cookiekyung4635
    @cookiekyung4635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2687

    People laughing and making jokes about this makes me disgusted. You dont know how stressful it is to not only have such a huge burden and concern about your future but your parents' expectations of you as well. It's never just about the scores.

    • @husenpr
      @husenpr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      That's why don't be dumb

    • @desaad1725
      @desaad1725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      it's not like they died or something. life doesnt end after DSE.

    • @rush8647
      @rush8647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      @Mike Jack you may not be like that but parents concerns are more likely the reasons why students study. Some doesn't want to let their parents down and some are downright scared about their parents

    • @ednaliawyifaye2406
      @ednaliawyifaye2406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      Mike Jack Darling, you’ll never understand Asian culture so why bother? Everyone is fighting their own battle that you’re not aware of so, until you have something nice to say, shut your mouth.

    • @lisakhan5727
      @lisakhan5727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@husenpr You just dont understand. You are lucky even your smart there's alwalys people that smarter and more diligent than you. I felt the same when I was in senior high school. 76 score isnt Bad right? Wrong!!! When everyone scores 80-90 even 100 mark! Teacher making us more stress comparing our result. Welcome to Asia btw.

  • @heeransaad2473
    @heeransaad2473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Asian grading system
    A*= well done
    A= you tried you best
    That’s it lol

  • @juafps
    @juafps 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Imagine some kids don't like dogs and they just get more stressed

  • @joesr31
    @joesr31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2938

    Kinda relate as a Singaporean. Remembered they had security guards checking the rooftop doors to make sure they were locked during A level results day

    • @zoeknight1
      @zoeknight1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

      Oh my

    • @blepblep7245
      @blepblep7245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      WOW

    • @eesha6462
      @eesha6462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      O-oh...

    • @CAProductions051
      @CAProductions051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      That bad? Wow

    • @battlelover666gaming2
      @battlelover666gaming2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +301

      And they should know it isn't gonna stop a suicidal person from killing themselves, they will find some other ways...

  • @raykarpp
    @raykarpp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2826

    Saw the title and immediately felt really anxious and stressed. I can't even imagine how stressed they are, I feel very lucky that here we aren't put under that much stress. Exams in Asia are no joke... I wish the very best for those who didn't do as well as they wished, also for those who did well. But it breaks my heart knowing there are people who would be devastated by their results.

    • @user-ep8vs9fy4y
      @user-ep8vs9fy4y 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. To be honest I felt heartbroken

    • @fine1298
      @fine1298 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think it's either you spend your entire life and focus on one exam or like in America, over many different things such as extracurriculars, SAT, GPA and et cetera.

    • @mayas1655
      @mayas1655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't think exams are a joke anywhere

    • @raykarpp
      @raykarpp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@mayas1655 Here in NZ they aren't the most important thing in highschool, we focus on getting through the year with enough credits. Exams are important but they don't mean everything

    • @mayas1655
      @mayas1655 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raykarpp well the video shows the opposite

  • @xianlaw
    @xianlaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I remember having my first 50% exam result on my test back in 4th grade and it felt like I wanted to move to a new house or to an island where no one would find me with that failure. Yeah, the house was VERY VERY LIVELY when they found out.

  • @CCCFFHO
    @CCCFFHO 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Parent: "I don't have much expection" - Meaning (Mostly A s with a couple A- s )

  • @thebasketballhistorian3291
    @thebasketballhistorian3291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +798

    I love how supportive those parents are.
    For other Asian students, the pressure comes FROM the parents.

    • @randomt800kiddo2
      @randomt800kiddo2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      they’re very caring, in their own way most of the time

    • @nandinikhurpa3476
      @nandinikhurpa3476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @kookies_luv1062
      @kookies_luv1062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm not Asian but my hispanic parents do be putting pressure on me

    • @randomrandom5316
      @randomrandom5316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      My parents tried to pressure me on my studies before, hoping to improve my grades. But I'm too hard headed af, my parents gave up pressuring me eventually lol.

    • @2cumber
      @2cumber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      this sounds incredibly ridiculous but i actually sobbed when the boy was being comforted by his parents and even had his dad acknowledge his hard work. some of us aren't that fortunate with supportive parents. sorry for going off in a rant.

  • @ibreathenapalm1112
    @ibreathenapalm1112 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5165

    *Meanwhile*
    Additional maths - F
    Meh, it's not important anyway.
    Edit: additional maths = advanced maths. We call it that where I live.

    • @joachimcarlos4435
      @joachimcarlos4435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Additional maths is torture! For me at least

    • @MustBeNiceBro
      @MustBeNiceBro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Subaru Natsuki agree

    • @hiyou969
      @hiyou969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lol what is additional maths why do y’all say maths instead of math

    • @howie5655
      @howie5655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Tbh addmaths isnt really that hard, chem is💀

    • @user-oh6wb5rj2q
      @user-oh6wb5rj2q 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hiyou969 it's two different maths.

  • @cupcakewithouttheicing
    @cupcakewithouttheicing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Man, I just wanna give each and every one of them a hug. They're all so much more than a test score

  • @oldmansam95
    @oldmansam95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    me, in the US: [fails an exam]
    me: oops! 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @ihaveseverefrootsnackism
      @ihaveseverefrootsnackism 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      in college yet?

    • @oldmansam95
      @oldmansam95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ihaveseverefrootsnackism yup. i got one year left to go before i get my bachelors. lol

    • @yoongisgummysmile9648
      @yoongisgummysmile9648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@oldmansam95 I am from India and if I get less than 60 percent in exams, I feel like killing myself...that's how bad our education system has manipulated us...

    • @oldmansam95
      @oldmansam95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@yoongisgummysmile9648 💔 i’m sorry. please stay safe and reach out to professionals about this.

    • @_sultana_8970
      @_sultana_8970 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yoongisgummysmile9648 i wanna cry just by thinking of it.i got 80 percent yet nothing

  • @serpentzachary1340
    @serpentzachary1340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2575

    Too much people too less university space and jobs. High competition= stress and potential increase in suicide rate

    • @__________o____________
      @__________o____________ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Karen luvs Jesus I understand bro. I never needed college or certain grades in high school for the life I am striving for. Being more successful than anyone can get out of any degree. Anyone can succeed if they look outside of what the world and parents teaches them to be

    • @harrissmith7134
      @harrissmith7134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Happy Dude and no studied stereotypes and hate

    • @caiwenpeng5035
      @caiwenpeng5035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      no choice. life is always a competiotion, and a unfair one.

    • @renieronronshi7120
      @renieronronshi7120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wanna do the thanos solution?

    • @serpentzachary1340
      @serpentzachary1340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Karen luvs Jesus I want to start my own business but I am stucked in my 9-5 rat race job

  • @fiddyboink
    @fiddyboink 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1616

    I’m Asian and I remember one time I had fairly high grades on my report card for a particular subject. I was so proud of myself and happy about it. Then my asian dad came home and was like “what happened. You said the exam was easy.” And then my grandma was like “you made your father sad.”
    I hated myself for the entire month.

    • @bluecoffee3306
      @bluecoffee3306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      It is heart-breaking you went through that. It may not mean much, but congratulations on getting that high score! I applaud your hard work and you have the right to be proud of your achievement!

    • @senseishu937
      @senseishu937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Bro, ignore them... Be proud of what you did... Sometimes they just have too high of expectations

    • @yunjeans
      @yunjeans 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I lost ONE MARK. ONE MARK in a exam and my mom was like "what is this you lost one mark you could've done better"

    • @brendanstreecko7847
      @brendanstreecko7847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@yunjeans sounds like my grandfather to my big bro

    • @starr2870
      @starr2870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      im sorry you went through that, i have asian parents but they use to be like that when I was younger but as I started to get older they were proud of me for even doing an exam because I had issues in the past so they were mich more sympathetic with me and didn't care what grades I got as long as I wanted to do something with my life

  • @adriankhoury6314
    @adriankhoury6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Their way of living is so sad it’s actually depressing to watch. If you left them in the wild they would probably start reciting their biology notebook because they don’t have any knowledge on anything other than school. How could you live your life like that?

    • @apurboghosal4875
      @apurboghosal4875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well to survive in the forest u will need some amount of basic biology knowledge.
      Which plant is edible or which is poisonous
      Which animal is harmful or which one is friendly

    • @saibestboy4976
      @saibestboy4976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@apurboghosal4875 you missed the point of this comment

    • @rayvenhd387
      @rayvenhd387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@apurboghosal4875 yeah, then what knowledge do they have after that? schools don't teach you how to fight wild wolves when they sneak up on you. They don't teach you where to set up camp, or which places in the forest i.e lakes, rivers or caves, to avoid. It's all memorization, not practical.

    • @zhenyucai8688
      @zhenyucai8688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rayvenhd387 They're in Hong Kong, lol not in the middle of the Amazon forest.

    • @thiagoburgunder4533
      @thiagoburgunder4533 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rayvenhd387 its not even that, they dont teach anything related to real life (businesses, capitalism etc) they teach theoretical stuff that was used by people for 100 years. The problem is that we are constantly evolving and to be successfull you need to find a new way to developp our society, not using the old existing ways. If I can teach this, its because im a self made and i am 20 yeard old. I also go to university, which is not usefull at all in real world businesses

  • @lemonpeel0220
    @lemonpeel0220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This video got recommended to me today right before my exam tmr, oh what a great timing, I’m now form 4 (high school, grade ten? I think ?) in HK and I’m already so scared/stressed that I would fail in this exam, and, in the future, DSE exam.
    Best of luck to all of you and I’m rooting for anyone who’s going through tough time, we can do this :D !!

    • @rinnzu
      @rinnzu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey! It’s been 2 years. Mind if I know how your exam went?as an Asian, study culture in sch is very stressful too 😔

    • @lemonpeel0220
      @lemonpeel0220 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rinnzu yooo, I still haven't had my exam yet, it starts at 21st of April, soon, very soon, im trying my best :D im trying to stay positive, for example, even if I fail, I can always retake the exam :>

    • @PranavG-un2cc
      @PranavG-un2cc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hey how'd you go on ur exam?@@lemonpeel0220

  • @brooksgunn5235
    @brooksgunn5235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2243

    Wow, if coronavirus wasn't a thing, I'd be flying over there to hug everyone, no cap.

    • @Smileee425
      @Smileee425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Same! I just wanted someone to hug them all

    • @user-ui7jt8ms5i
      @user-ui7jt8ms5i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      And I need to go to school physically soon and I can't wait to get bullied and getting mocked again and making my life worse.

    • @brooksgunn5235
      @brooksgunn5235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@user-ui7jt8ms5i Aw man, sorry to hear that. I wish you the best and here is an internet hug. つ ◕_◕ ༽つ

    • @Smileee425
      @Smileee425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@user-ui7jt8ms5i let me tell you that school will be over someday, and you will be free from that toxic environment, until then hang in there, you're not alone!! :')

    • @misoasoda340
      @misoasoda340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      fr i just wanna go over there and hug them all and give them food/presents lol idk

  • @123fourfive5
    @123fourfive5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1747

    It's more stressful in HK because there's only a handful of Universities but one of the densest cities in the world.
    Best of luck, from the mainland, guys. We don't always see eye to eye but the stress of tests unite us.

    • @aoimusic8516
      @aoimusic8516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Look at Singapore

    • @Adspecter
      @Adspecter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wait, TH-cam is banned in the mainland, how were you able to set this out?

    • @123fourfive5
      @123fourfive5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      VPN, my dude. And no, no one care about it, contrary to western belief.
      They only care when people commit crimes.
      The police here are more like...how do you say it...community helpers. They didnt even carry guns until a couple years ago after that terrorist attack at the train station.

    • @LAZYLAM
      @LAZYLAM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Adspecter Chinese Need to export goods outside the country, so its not banned totally

    • @Ezm42069
      @Ezm42069 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@123fourfive5 how is your social credit score ? lol

  • @georgiana1147
    @georgiana1147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    as someone who struggled with gifted kid burnout because of the pandemic and still trying to overcome the gaps in all the knowledge that i lost because of online school,this made me cry

  • @justyouraverageweeb9141
    @justyouraverageweeb9141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Every teacher you meet, tells you to do your best but when you do, they always tell you to try harder ;-;

  • @yashfakhan3747
    @yashfakhan3747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1183

    Now I know what they meant by
    "School kills creativity" 😞.

    • @twinkiet.muffin1634
      @twinkiet.muffin1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And belle delphine making money without doing NOTHING

    • @jackoboys
      @jackoboys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@twinkiet.muffin1634 stick to the topic

    • @quietperson3886
      @quietperson3886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Art school and art subject still exist in asia calm down

    • @jackoboys
      @jackoboys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@quietperson3886 Though it really shouldn't be a mandatory subject middle school onwards

    • @eliza1826
      @eliza1826 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@quietperson3886 really? What about philosophy or poetry? I never see east asians being into these.

  • @lovekookie4ever661
    @lovekookie4ever661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2771

    It's funny how the ppl in the comment section refer to only Chinese, Japanese, Korean when they refer to Asians....

    • @alanaknox49
      @alanaknox49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      I haven't seen any comments specifying this, as there are cultural similarities with other Asian countries

    • @garvmsdevilliers6100
      @garvmsdevilliers6100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

      yeah Indians are asians too....and i will say the pressure is same on me......it is not easy...not at all....i am preparing for JEE Advanced 2022...i have wasted my 6 months already.....and am struggling...i hope for best in 2021

    • @abby-kq6lw
      @abby-kq6lw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Well do you want them to keep mentioning all those countries everytime, I mean everyone knows not all Asians are the same but saying they are Asians is easier and shorter

    • @lilcinnamonroll9577
      @lilcinnamonroll9577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Indian here I hate when people do that.

    • @jonkrade6644
      @jonkrade6644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Another Indian here, tbh i don't really care about it cause it's obv that they didn't mean any harm

  • @uzairtole1923
    @uzairtole1923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This makes me cry cuz I know what emotions they are going through

  • @leungstone5287
    @leungstone5287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Three year till my DSE, wish me luck boys

  • @Twintouch1
    @Twintouch1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1904

    Ugh the stress of it all must be very hard for all of them. Wishing them success and happiness in the future!
    Hello from Long Island, New York🙂

    • @Updatesys
      @Updatesys 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lucky you no stress

    • @taejunchang396
      @taejunchang396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Slowlikehoney Too I live in Long Island too

    • @hiyou969
      @hiyou969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Updatesys shutup you don’t even know

    • @Twintouch1
      @Twintouch1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Updatesys we all have stress and watching these students stressed me out just to see how hard and important these tests are.
      No judgement and non biased so chill!

    • @Twintouch1
      @Twintouch1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Taejun Chang where about neighbor?🙂

  • @inferious777
    @inferious777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +885

    "I cant believe I got top marks, I'm only aiming to study at Cambridge in the UK"

    • @constellious
      @constellious 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @Yeshua is Lord. Yeah because in UK there are only 3 unis. Cambridge , Oxford and Harvard. Thanks stereotypes

    • @tinaz.6137
      @tinaz.6137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

      Skywalker Mapping Harvard is in the U.S. 😂

    • @LatimOnek
      @LatimOnek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Tina Z. 😂

    • @matsab7930
      @matsab7930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      IncinerateZ turns out admission to one of the best universities in the world requires more than pure academics. In Cambridge they expect more from their students.
      In reality more than half the knowledge you gain throughout high school will be unused through university, the majority of your schooling is more important as a sign that you are capable of learning difficult concepts/ applying yourself rather than just the amount of knowledge you can retain.

    • @orueom7720
      @orueom7720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Yeshua is Lord. UCL is seriously overrated i honestly dunno why
      Only their medical school is world class

  • @ureverydaybookworm3189
    @ureverydaybookworm3189 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This just made me very nervous. Although my DSE is still 5 years away, my school has already start prepping us for it.... I’m grateful but it just starts building up so much stress...

    • @aryavirsangwan6837
      @aryavirsangwan6837 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m across the world, but I’m rooting for you. Make sure to have a bit of fun in the stress tho

  • @lathifahyasminwulandari272
    @lathifahyasminwulandari272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Having the result of your test has never been easy, even for a medical student like me who always meet exams :) it took me a long time to realize that this path that i'm choosing is the right one, even until now i still figure it out. I hope these kids will learn how important to learn smart not learn hard

  • @asfandyarimran
    @asfandyarimran 4 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    chinese parents:he tried his best, i am proud of him
    my parents:we are spending so much on him for nothing

    • @cristssss8105
      @cristssss8105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Asfandyar Imran other way around

    • @peters840
      @peters840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Asfandyar Imran focus more?

    • @POSEANREAL
      @POSEANREAL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think its me replace with chinese and chinese replace with me

    • @Stonk5331
      @Stonk5331 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      STUDY MORE!!

    • @GamingPet07
      @GamingPet07 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @ipshita12345
    @ipshita12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1136

    It's same in India too...The competition for a seat in prestigious college is so tough.
    And In entrance exams like NEET, JEE main and Jee advance, the selection rate is only about 2-3% and almost around 10- 16 lakh appears each year.

    • @bellecwy
      @bellecwy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      for real

    • @harshitasingh4348
      @harshitasingh4348 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@bellecwy yep even Harvard is 5 percent even mit has 8 percent but in indoa ,china the acceptance rate is sometime even less than 1%.
      As of 10,000 are selected out of 1.5 to 2 million students .
      And Except these colleges other college degree has no value its zero beacuse these are the only options or even other options are there but falling these breaks you too much with society pressure that you can even do anything .

    • @manasa7351
      @manasa7351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Was looking for this comment.

    • @ipshita12345
      @ipshita12345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@manasa7351 Yeah...And right now I am crying because I just missed a medical seat by 2 marks😭😭😭...
      I will try again next year...
      It hurts knowing all my hardwork just go in vain 😭

    • @manasa7351
      @manasa7351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@ipshita12345 aw I'm so sorry!! You tried your best that matters more (ik how this society is) All the best for your 2nd attempt! I'm sure you'll rock it!!!💕

  • @korean_lover_bmixthedreame8827
    @korean_lover_bmixthedreame8827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My Father Already told me that if you didn't pass in board exams you don't need to be in our family!

    • @mujikobabiko8332
      @mujikobabiko8332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      boards are cancelled right

    • @korean_lover_bmixthedreame8827
      @korean_lover_bmixthedreame8827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mujikobabiko8332 No dear Only some States in India cancelled board exams

    • @mujikobabiko8332
      @mujikobabiko8332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@korean_lover_bmixthedreame8827 cbse boards are cancelled but state boards and icse not confirmed na?

    • @korean_lover_bmixthedreame8827
      @korean_lover_bmixthedreame8827 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mujikobabiko8332 yes

    • @LumTheAlien
      @LumTheAlien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jeez, I am so sorry, thats really sad. I wish you luck in your exams.

  • @sarahhh9136
    @sarahhh9136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ah, as a malaysian i rmb upsr result day, everyone was crying, out of joy or sadness. my mum cried, i cried, my friends cried. some people were happy, some were disappointed. its been some time, and upsr doesn't even exist anymore, but man, definitely a day i'd never forget, everyone in that big hall as we received our result slips. yr 6 (upsr year) was a stressful year really, but somehow it was really the year i enjoyed the most for some reason
    p.s. upsr is a national examination taken by all students in Malaysia at the end of their sixth year in primary school before they leave for secondary school

  • @skakakaklelelelle7058
    @skakakaklelelelle7058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    I live in Asia and I know the feeling, what’s worse is that my parents always bring me down every time my scores are not what my parents expected, it’s like I have to reach their expectations in order to be successful, but I don’t want that, I have another dream. I wish my parents appreciate talent instead of scores. I do this sport and I really want to go to the Olympics but I don’t think it’s possible because my parents are gonna choose my future, not me. I really hope my parents start changing

    • @sanazlol7433
      @sanazlol7433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Facts!I can’t remember not being called a failure.

    • @jennyemmycubing175
      @jennyemmycubing175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sometimes I wish I had talent. In the toppers girls school most of them are very intelligent, always get straight As, some kind of whole Hong Kong champion in sports, at least reached grade 8 in an instrument by age 10, won awards in Visual Arts. Yep, talent matters the most here

    • @apasserbyintheinternet1838
      @apasserbyintheinternet1838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This is true, I live in ph and when I got a low score on exam, I can't get my hands on my cellphone so I always study and got top in class.
      I just study for me to play games because I always fight in online tournaments and playing is really my passion.

    • @antimoba7778
      @antimoba7778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Try to managing time. It would be awesome if you could do both.
      Don't give up on your dream that easily.

    • @GUYEDITINGS
      @GUYEDITINGS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Be your own savior if your parents don't change, rely on yourself as hard as it sounds. You got this, it's your destiny.

  • @staninsertkpopgroup1181
    @staninsertkpopgroup1181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    Its not just about "oH I got bad result"
    Its your future

    • @oblivion2755
      @oblivion2755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      The future isn't just a piece of paper. One has to achieve the future they want by their own experience and guts, and not by scoring high points in a exam. What's important in life is knowing how to be happy, and how to live happily.

    • @ashleyyu4418
      @ashleyyu4418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Oblivion[2] i do understand what u mean, but it doesn’t work on our broken education system

    • @seressor
      @seressor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Oblivion[2] That high points in exam gets you to the best colleges which will entail you to get better connections with big companies. This will result with you having a better chance at high paying jobs meaning if you wanna succeed you better try harder. Working hard won’t always get you to succeed. Working 12 hour shifts 5 days a week at Mcdonalds because you dropped out of high school won’t get you to succeed.

    • @hwuntsu4425
      @hwuntsu4425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@oblivion2755 yep, i understand your point but this asia, duh

    • @jasonstarrising
      @jasonstarrising 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Oblivion[2]
      Well that’s just how it is. That piece of paper determine your future and you can’t live a “happy life” if you do bad...

  • @ajharwoods1974
    @ajharwoods1974 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had tears seeing these students. I know the pain, am sure many of us can too. I literally died many times to complete my education i remember i use to have hallucinations due to exam stress an pressure an not be myself completely, like a person who is high on something. The degree i earned is literally my sweat an blood. It means alot to me. An hats off to every student who goes through this phase in their life . Mark sheets are Just one part of your life , life is beyond that.

  • @takonikiyaki
    @takonikiyaki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've ever been in their position, it's so stressful and disappointing. I'm glad i can overcome it. Life must go on, i can't stop my life just because I didnt pass the exam :)

  • @nakshatra1402
    @nakshatra1402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Sons hug their Fathers while crying? Wow, that's actually amazing.

    • @James-wt5uh
      @James-wt5uh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Nakshatra Rajput if i get bad grade the least punishment is no food for 2 weeks

    • @lejazz2420
      @lejazz2420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@James-wt5uh dude ain't that too much? That's child abuse bruh.

    • @Phunny
      @Phunny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Cloudy Clouds Unless you look like a concentration camp prisoner after two weeks, it's not really been two weeks.

    • @lejazz2420
      @lejazz2420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@James-wt5uh are you ded now

    • @ELLIE-jm8ky
      @ELLIE-jm8ky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@James-wt5uh mine is just no going out for at least 3 weeks, the cold shoulder from my parents and the classic slipper or hanger...whichever they choose

  • @nevayuh5636
    @nevayuh5636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    As an American, I just wanna give m a d respect to them. I’d die if I tried doing this.

    • @pyreworks5210
      @pyreworks5210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Karen luvs Jesus Sometimes I'm jealous of western society. Teens over there have so much carreer choices and picking a non-STEM course doesn't seem to be frowned upon in the west. Here in Asia, society pushes everyone to go on the same path(like choosing STEM courses) even if a person doesnt fit in those courses.

    • @hussnainali2738
      @hussnainali2738 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't have board exams in the US? Here in Scotland we have the national exams I thought the US was the same as the UK on that front

    • @arlen9343
      @arlen9343 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hussnain Ali Well we have the SAT which universities look at to see if u qualify and are at the correct level for their school.

  • @yoongenie_6181
    @yoongenie_6181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm so proud of everyone who made it through, and took these tough assessments. I'm really happy they continued even when it was hard, and I am really motivated after watching this video. Thank you so much, students in this video, you are helping me keep motivated no study even when I don't want to- well done, you guys really deserve to do well, I'm so happy many of you got great marks, and even if you didn't, I believe in you and don't give up on your dreams!!! Thank you so much

  • @shreyashreekumar9777
    @shreyashreekumar9777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1:14 I loved how they were being supportive👍🏻

    • @faisalkhan5539
      @faisalkhan5539 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are top1%of hk students

  • @janatumapang8508
    @janatumapang8508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    Whatever the results, I just hope that these students got a "Congratulations/it's okay, we know you did your best. We're proud of you."
    *Edit: Btw to everyone who feels discouraged or pressured rn, I'm here along with others to tell you that it's okay and still, congratulations. We know you did your best and we're proud of you! Take heart, stay healthy, and be safe 😃

    • @stormintheshell5130
      @stormintheshell5130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sadly many of em probably didnt

    • @janatumapang8508
      @janatumapang8508 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stormintheshell5130 yeah, it's a sad reality especially in our world where expectations and pressure exist. But for now, we can just hope they did and if not, well then we're here 😃

    • @shineedablueprint4914
      @shineedablueprint4914 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@janatumapang8508 expectations and pressure aren't bad though, only if you let it get to you, sometimes being under pressure helps people

    • @janatumapang8508
      @janatumapang8508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@shineedablueprint4914 Agree. But as long as there is that chance where expectations and pressure may cause bad stuff, I guess a few kind words or an ear wouldn't hurt 😁. And yeah, I guess my idea of expectations and pressure being a sad reality may have resulted from experience where even if it helps you excel for example, sometimes it doesn't really make yoy happy or satisfied. But oh well, it's just my opinion hehe and this isn't for me to disagree with you btw 😅 We all have our ways of dealing with things and thanks for pointing that out 😁

    • @Michelle-if4he
      @Michelle-if4he 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shineedablueprint4914 too much pressure though can have major negative effects like mental issues and suicide. There is a thin line that many parents and teachers go over, but it's hard to say where that line is

  • @berburking3515
    @berburking3515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1260

    Those who failed, when they got home, they'll be punished.. that's what asian parents do.

    • @rosew8495
      @rosew8495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      Not really. They’re parents will be disappointed and worried for their futures, because they don’t want a hard life for their children. These marks influence not only the parents happiness but the kid is intrinsically motivated to do well too.

    • @ouabain
      @ouabain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Rose W oh how wrong you are

    • @autumnleaf8907
      @autumnleaf8907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      Not every parent, there are some toxic and some that are understanding

    • @irenejessica4413
      @irenejessica4413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@rosew8495 ( ̄ヘ ̄)ᴴᴹᴹᴹ nope at least not a lot of parents I know

    • @pratikgaurav9943
      @pratikgaurav9943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rosew8495 true

  • @thenightcorereaper
    @thenightcorereaper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for recommending this 2 days before my final exam

  • @jo3984
    @jo3984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It’s crazy bc this is a EVERYWHERE THING like all parents pressure school so much on us and so do teachers and don’t realize how much damage that causes us

  • @Rimett
    @Rimett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    If I compare this to my german a level exams I feel so guilty. Not gonna flex or anything but I passed with ease and only studied like a month before the great exams.
    The way education is forced onto chinese teenagers is so wrong. Life isn’t a competition. It’s a constant journey of growth. And one should chose how to do so.

    • @sanazlol7433
      @sanazlol7433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Not only Chinese students,but all asian countries are the same.

    • @b_kby
      @b_kby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Michael Scofield Es gibt halt 'nen Unterschied zwischen "bestanden" und "gutes Abitur".

    • @armanbinukasim1386
      @armanbinukasim1386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they're from hong kong, but yes almost every asian country does this

    • @iam4026
      @iam4026 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A Levels? I completed that 2 months ago. Now I’m awaiting results

    • @Rimett
      @Rimett 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@b_kby Auf jeden fall, guter punkt. Ich wusste halt was ich studieren wollte und wusste das der schnitt irrelevant ist. Leider ist das in asiatischen Ländern nicht so. Da musst du dich abakern weil es nur einen weg zum "erfolg" gibt

  • @xoxo_to_you8598
    @xoxo_to_you8598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    Well after 3 years , i will be in their position. I promise I WILL STUDY HARD ;~;

    • @superxrod
      @superxrod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Hope the best for you :)

    • @xoxo_to_you8598
      @xoxo_to_you8598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@superxrod thank youuuuu :333333

    • @helli5057
      @helli5057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I'm rooting for you °^°

    • @xoxo_to_you8598
      @xoxo_to_you8598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@helli5057 °^° wahhh thanksss

    • @mrcaga4865
      @mrcaga4865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Study smart not hard, they say

  • @raniakawiswara478
    @raniakawiswara478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's not a film with sad ending but I'm cried because this video, I can feel how stressful it is. When you finish the exam and walk out from class, your tears will down instantly T°T

  • @Imtoobusyslayingrn111
    @Imtoobusyslayingrn111 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    As a Southeast asian student, this hits too hard. I once cried from my Math exam because I wasn't able to pass the first semester, but after a few semesters I was able to pass it. The worst thing I've felt is my family comparing me to my younger cousins for getting a high score at their Math exam.

  • @elizabethspain3206
    @elizabethspain3206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Man, I nearly vomited the day I had to take one of my AP exams. I wasn’t even studying European History for my future, but my anxiety levels were through the roof.

    • @chaeyoungsbestie414
      @chaeyoungsbestie414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Elizabeth Spain AP exams are super low stakes though. They don’t really affect your future. They could be nerve wracking, yes, but the AP text at its worst is a score you can ignore and its best is something you can boast about and perhaps get college credit before. The worst isn’t even that bad

    • @elizabethspain3206
      @elizabethspain3206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know! That’s why I can’t even imagine taking one of these tests that is very important for my future. Because I can’t lie to myself and say, if I fail, it won’t harm me in any way.

  • @gauthamv5898
    @gauthamv5898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    Their parents support them?! So sweet! Here in India they would be round housed with slippers! While heaping prices on neighbour's kids!

    • @winkoyun4551
      @winkoyun4551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s just some of the parents not all I KNOW THEYRE VERY STRICT IN HK

    • @thanos9704
      @thanos9704 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Hoàng Nguyên vietnam actually learned from India

    • @NOU-iw3gb
      @NOU-iw3gb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thanos9704
      What did vietnam learn from india? Lol

    • @brainquake4413
      @brainquake4413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I got 88% here in Pakistan scored 98 out of 100 in Advanced Math (equivalent to Add Maths of A level Oxford) also scored 96 in Biology 97 in Physics but couldn't handle the pressure in chemistry and scored 71 out of 100% and 74 in English and some low in non science subjects and here now I am not eligible for Med school so now I have to repeat my second year again 😔(I have offers from Australia National University and Bradford Oxford but cannot get a seat in any med school out of tens of in my city plus I m broke!!

    • @jerrykwon8837
      @jerrykwon8837 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah chinese parents usually don’t care about their kids

  • @Floragato602
    @Floragato602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hong Kong school when students get bad grades: *brings in dogs*
    My school: thats your problem

  • @aeyo7089
    @aeyo7089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is life u have to struggle to survive the competition and then you will get the reward in proportion to the effort u have put