Thank you Adam; Can we normalize not all adults knowing how to drive? I feel like it’s such a weird dig to take at people when they don’t have their license.
Literally, I’m 23 and I don’t have my license bc of wreak trauma in which I lost my mom when I was 12, and people, even my dad, try to take digs at me and make me feel embarrassed about not having it. Which inevitably made me even more reluctant. There are so many reasons an adult might not have their license and I really wish that people would just leave that shit alone
I’m so sorry but I’m not talking or dating a guy w out his licenses my state just isn’t public transportation heavy so to me it screams DUI or immaturity
100% this. Whether it's by choice, financial situations, health issues, etc not being able to drive needs to be normalised. I can't drive because of my health and the constant questions and belittling over that fact is saddening. Attitudes change when they find out why I don't drive, but shouldn't have to explain my personal situation for it to be accepted. I'm only so open about why I can't do things you'd expect a 'standard' almost 26 yr old to do - such as driving, still living at home etc - because I want to help break the stigma of poor health at young age. *edit - corrected some spelling mistakes
Trisha’s view on Tourette’s is so frustrating. I have it and it’s pretty severe and affects my life daily but I wouldn’t say it’s horrible or as negative as she implies. It’s just who I am and a part of my life. Ethan not wanting to talk about it is so valid because it really is a whole conversation that gets super personal every time. Trisha has such a piss poor view on disability
That isn't her view anymore. That was before she really understood it, and then she went on podcasts and educated others on it including some assholes that were making fun of it.
i listened to the whole frenemies podcast this year without knowing anything ab it really but its so crazy seeing how trisha and ethan have moved on afterwards now
If I remember right, Trisha made a video saying she was quitting frenemies and that nights episode would be the last one. And Ethan didn't know until he saw that video. So he was as blindsided as the rest of us. So yes she did break up with him.
IMO, it was very obvious that Trisha was not in the right mental headspace to do Frenemies. She said some pretty vile things & would do things to just make Ethan uncomfortable. Ethan did that at times too but still wanted to make it work with Trisha. It’s likely best that they separated, Trisha got help, & she has a successful podcast. Hopefully she grows from here.
i’ve been randomly rewatching frenemies and it can be so stress inducing sometimes - at the time i guess i didn’t pay much attention but rewatching back i sometimes have to leave the episode because she just keeps going and going and going. they both poked at each other with peace and love, but trisha just takes it to a whole different place every time. the phrase “bull in a china shop,” as a fellow taurus, i relate but geez it’s a hard watch sometimes. not your content though, i love these watch with you series! 🫶🏻
58:33 as a late diagnosed autistic I hate this, Moses says "normalize autism" and Trisha speaks over saying "something wrong" and "now I can speak up for autism people"
Sad for Hila but not Ethan? Wow that's insensitive. Moses was Ethan's family before Trisha was. You think he doesn't want to see his niece too? Trasha is the problem and it's crazy immature to ever use a kid as a pawn. Moses shouldn't allow it.
Trisha actually triggers my bpd rage so much! Just she opens her mouth and the most disgusting stuff comes out. But then she uses her bpd/mental illness as a shield, so people can’t say anything back to her. As a person with bpd, who is medicated and in therapy, she gives us such a bad name and stereotypes.
both my older brother and one of my best friends are bpd diagnosed. my brother immediately started using it as a shield, no work, no self reflection, same old path of destruction and burned bridges in his wake. my friend works so fucking hard and has come out stronger, smarter, more aware, and SO frustrated at people like my brother and trisha as well. i hope your work continues to pay off for you!! and that people like trisha see the light eventually…….but i’ve stopped holding my breath. her destructive tendencies are her paycheck 😢
@@shanel4294 I don’t know. I haven’t watched her recently. I just stay away so I don’t get triggered. If I continue to watch her, yet she affects my mental space negatively, then that’s on me for still watching her.
I think she’s changed a lot in her new content and is trying to really grow and holds herself to being a more positive person but I understand you not wanting to even try checking out her newer stuff if she’s triggered you in the past
Anybody dating (let alone marrying) anybody who's like that is actual insanity. I dislike Moses for the simple reason that a good person would never ever want that type of partner so he must be a bad egg too.
@Lindseyisloony i can see why you would think that, but then youd have to apply that to all people who are victims of bad partners. we shouldnt accuse somebody of being a bad person because you dont like who theyre dating. Kinda victim blamey
@@c.e.h.57 they aren’t exactly regular people, Trisha is a rich celebrity lmao who puts her life online and exaggerates it purposely for views, if we’re being honest. not saying it’s necessarily right to judge but we can speculate since none of us know these people, including you
Adam, the game they played "Newly Weds" was a huge game show in America from the 70s through the 80s. The show got more personal than their questions. One women literally said "anal" as an answer because she misunderstood the host and his question.
HIla and Ethan have a good marriage. They communicate and they have built a good life. Is everything perfect I'm sure it's not but they seem to discuss things and are equal partners.
yes!! the way trisha would pick on Ethan saying their marriage is boring or not passionate enough just shows she didn’t understand what goes in to a healthy, functional relationship :(
I remember watching this episode and thinking Trish always has a bad take. The reason for that is because she is and will always be self-serving. It's cringe because Trish is an opportunist and always will be. She doesn't care about anyone, and that will not change. I will continue to hope that ppl will see TP for what she is. She's not going to change. Stay tuned for her exploitation of her child. T will always be this way. I'm so tired of her getting away with this. I'm a former fishy. I will never support her again. Guh, she's vile.
People who have as many very young fans as Adam does shouldn't have their chats displayed. It's much too unpredictable what people will say and for TH-cam videos that's an issue. Teens do nutty stuff like doxx themselves on purpose or say unacceptable things to incite a reaction and no editor wants the job of making sure Adam doesn't get in trouble for some kid in the chat on screen doing something that can't appear in a TH-cam video.
So many muckers have their drivers license because in America our public transport either sucks or is nonexistant so if you wanna go anywhere you HAVE to drive. Especially out in the country or in small towns.
Moses jealousy was so strong. He used Trisha to fight his battles. He was a bum who never had success. Now he lives in a mansion and thinks he’s a celebrity. Trisha is getting played. She’s his 3rd wife btw. I wonder when she learned that nugget
I went to school with Joel Olsteen’s niece(?) it was absolute fucking HELL. At a CHRISTIAN private school! She’ll never read this (at least I hope not, but hey A. The OG frenemy in my life) but she is literally a huge reason why I left the religion
@@lo-fi4653she was just a total bully. I always wanted to be friends with everyone as a kid, but because I was the weird girl with no parents and a fuck ass bob, I was an easy target for that group.
Ethan and Trisha talking about isreal: “yeah they haggle a lot over there” Adam “..... yeah they do A LOT over there..... 😒😒” you’re so real for that FREE PALESTINE ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hey Adam, so you know you have to self diagnose in order to bring things up to a doctor in order to start treatment. And when it comes to women’s mental health a lot of people fall through the cracks and don’t get the treatment they need because of the sexism in the medical field. Though I do agree I don’t think it’s OK for someone to make blatant statements about someone else’s health or diagnosing them.
@Elkura_xo the majority of people who “self diagnose” are doing it with nuance and reason because they realize something is wrong but it’s hard to get diagnosed or there’s no real treatment for it like autism. autism is really easy to self diagnose and there’s no harm in using tips to make your life easier
@@Elkura_xo self diagnosing that I have autism, not BPD saved my life. Again, you have to have a suspicion something is going on in order to bring it up to a doctor. Also not everyone has the financial ability to get official diagnosis
I don’t like Joel Olsteen either. He makes Christians look bad and twists words around in the bible. No Christian is perfect but he is not a real one,trust me 😬
Well considering Moses and Hila both actually were IDF, especially (with peace and love) Hila being a desk jockey but willingly changed her mind to be apart of the “action”, I think they’re all pretty wild together.
Oh no😢 Okay I totally understand where you are coming from about diagnosing other people and I had the same stance as you for a while. But for certain communities self diagnosis is such an important part of some people’s journey
i’m pretty sure adam just didn’t mean self diagnosing as self-diagnosing, but as in diagnosing someone else based on your diagnosis. it worried me for a second when i thought he was anti self-diagnosing too haha, but i’m pretty sure it was just that
@@tree4110 Okay no you are absolutely right I’m rewatching this now after commenting this (with absolutely no hate intended just with the purposed to inform) and I’m soooo happy he clarified that. Adam is literally my favorite person so I was honestly just confused but he honestly doesn’t even need to worry about that anyway with what he is going through with baby Milo, life is so unfair. I’m glad we are all supporting him in this horrible time. Thanks for the helpful and kind reply💖
yeah, our boy meant that Trisha is a piss poor ARMCHAIR THERAPIST, not self diagnosing 😂 we’ve all been there, i pronounced queue like “kwayay” for fucking years and everyone assumed i was just joking
11:55 Hey Adam, big fan as you can probably tell with my commitment to your content over the years! Just wanted to clear up real quick that although I agree impulsive self dx isn't smart whatsoever and I totally agree with researching the topic for a long time or having professional opinion first is a must, sometimes self diagnosis is valid ESPECIALLY for those who are less fortunate (AFABs, poor people or POC) that are incredibly neglected by the healthcare system. A diagnosis can be too expensive for someone to afford by the healthcare system in western countries or definitely even here with the NHS waiting list times.. those hurdles don't make the thing you're struggling with go away in the meantime or make you any less of that diagnosis, so people like to just say they have it if they're confident and definitive in their assumption! With a lot of second opinions and support. It's extremely hard to be taken seriously if you're born female or a person of colour because they either like to stereotype or play favourites and not give the resources beneficially to most in need. I really hope this is your take too on the topic because I really look up to you as one of my favourite TH-camrs and it would be really disappointing if you were supportive anti-self dx in this context :') But I know you have a big heart with takes like this usually and are quite self aware when it comes to people with privilege, so please reassure me if that's the case! Awesome video! 💙
At least someone here is sane... I don't wanna say exploitation but that show was fully just a showcase of how god awful and delusional Trasha is and I can't fathom how that appealed to anybody. I only ended up here cause auto play knows I love our Adam.
I'm happy Frenemies is dead but I'm also happy that you're rewatching it! Some people need the reminder of how absolutely heinous and delusional Trisha is! Pity you don't know about Joel cause it's so completely not ok at all that she was advocating for him. Even at that time people knew about how bad he is
I have so much respect for you Adam, but I would like to address the comment about hating when people self diagnose. I have severe Tourette's syndrome and I wasn't diagnosed until after five years of tics. I did a lot of research into my symptoms and came to the conclusion myself that I most likely had Tourette's so when people asked me about my tics, I would inform them that I had TS. I also ended up self diagnosing myself with depression before later being professionally diagnosed. While some instances of self diagnosing can be harmful to communities of people who have legitimate disorders, for somebody like me who is not getting the proper medical treatment that was the only option that I had. I'm also in the process of trying to get a PANS diagnosis. Every neurologist who I've seen has doubted my symptoms and essentially told me to see a psychologist when the psychologist has referred me to the medical professionals in the first place. For people like me who have disorders that are highly stigmatized and misunderstood, self diagnosing is simply a last resort. I'm sure that the comment was meant as a generalization, and I mean no disrespect. I'm simply trying to inform people. If you have read this, thank you. And if you are another person struggling with similar issues or inadequate medical care, know that you are not alone.
thank you for sharing your journey and i wish you the best growing forward, but i’m almost a hundred percent sure adam misunderstood the definition of self-diagnosis. he meant it as diagnosing someone else based on your own diagnosis, and i understand why it could be incorrectly called “self diagnosing” (like, “by your *self diagnosing*”) much love!!❤️❤️
@@tree4110 you're correct 😅 Been in his lives for a good while now, he never knows what words mean or how to pronounce them 🤣 He HATES reading in stream go watch his coverage of any article it's GOLD 💜
Yeahhh it’s really gross how she is dickriding Jamie Spears so hard. I’ve had clients on conservatorship with financially abusive guardians. When ur on conservatorship it literally means you are the property of the state & have no rights.
I really feel that Trisha at the time. Really wanted to see the good and everyone and I think that was part of her issue. It's like at that time she wanted. She wanted to believe that there's good in everyone. I think we saw that with colleen.
u support palestine I meann u are northern Irish so it makes alot of sense lol but I do appreciate it, and it was very brave of u to just say that one thing ❤ur so amazingggg
this has aged so horribly... why was trisha saying support for the people involved in britney's conservatorship? this ep of frenemies hurts adam!! good luck tomorrow, wishing the best for milo
I agree with everything Adman’s saying besides the self diagnosing part. I don’t think she was trying to self-diagnose Britney I think she was just speculating based from her experiences. It might be more of a theory or hypothesis then a “I’m bpd so she’s bpd.” Idk
I really feel in the future that their family will come together. I really feel like it was a misunderstanding and I think. Trisha's been hurt so much that she takes everything so personally. So when hila said she didn't want to be mentioned. I think that hurt her very deeply even though she didn't take into consideration. That Ethan and hila are very private people when it comes to their family.
They're not speaking because of Moses. Hila and Moses have beef and Moses refuses to own up so therefore they don't talk. Naturally Trish sides w Moses even tho Hila is in the right... its honestly pretty fucked up. When Moses and Hila's parents visit they see their kids completely separately from each other
Tbf the ep where Ethan said "don't bring up hila" he was the one who brought her up first, then Trisha just responded to it, then Ethan was like "DONT TALK ABT HER" I remember being like wtf Ethan xD so no wonder Trisha got triggered. Lol
trisha wanted ethan so bad lmao. it's funny how she started being with moses to rub it in their face and now she's married to him. they deserve each other tbh
Adam google Apline style noodles or Alpermagronen, it’s so so good. Meant to eat on a cold winters day after hiking in snow, it’s a creamy bacon basil noodle dish. ❤
To me in was very clear that the kind of self diagnosis you were talking about is people diagnosing themselves and other people based on only their own personal experience but with no extensive knowledge of human psychology. Researching your symptoms extensively, finding something that may match, and then researching that until you are confident, is absolutely valid, many people think that is the point where it’s ready to present to a doctor, but not everyone has that luxury.
I think it was ethan because they recorded an episod that “clarify” trisha side bit he did not want to post it from what i understand so she did not want to continue, finally i guess its both lol
I think what gave me the ick about frenemies is that the podcasts are pre-recorded. If Hila didn’t want to be talked about, Ethan had the FINAL decision to edit that section out of the video. But he chose to keep it in because he knew the drama would get views. And this is not a defense to Trisha comment. I’m just saying, the “drama” was created BECAUSE Ethan decided to not edit it out. And also, people love to say that Trisha Isolated Moses from his family. Moses’ family was literally at their wedding and their gender reveal. Hila has even mentioned a few times that Moses always visits his family, and he just doesn’t talk to Hila. And the entire beginning of the Trisha/Moses relationship, Ethan and Hila were absolutely HATING their relationship.
It’s funny because Moses will cook spaghetti bolognese for her, and it’s her favorite meal. Idk it’s funny because it shows how much they didn’t know about each other here. I watch her tik tok she often says he’s a good cook lol
@@ambersmith2612 did I state that everyone enjoys it? Did I state that I even enjoy it? No I didn't, it's a major challenge every, single, day. That still doesn't mean it is something wrong with me, like it's some sort of illness that needs to be cured 🙄 All I stated was that it isn't something that's wrong with me. Being neurodivergent isn't a BAD things. It doesn't mean that something is WRONG with the person.
@@ambersmith2612 also, mental illness doesn't fall in to the same category as autism. Not even close to it. I stated the BPD is something that is WRONG with me because it is. It's an ILLNESS which autism ISN'T
@@ambersmith2612You can not mind mental or cognitive issues, or you can have a problem with those issues. But either way it’s not wrong for people to have it. “Something wrong with us” is just insensitive as hell to say honestly.
Thank you Adam; Can we normalize not all adults knowing how to drive? I feel like it’s such a weird dig to take at people when they don’t have their license.
Literally, I’m 23 and I don’t have my license bc of wreak trauma in which I lost my mom when I was 12, and people, even my dad, try to take digs at me and make me feel embarrassed about not having it.
Which inevitably made me even more reluctant. There are so many reasons an adult might not have their license and I really wish that people would just leave that shit alone
I didn’t get my license until I turned 27. Things happen and it’s no one’s business why.
It’s anti public transportation propaganda fr!!
I’m so sorry but I’m not talking or dating a guy w out his licenses my state just isn’t public transportation heavy so to me it screams DUI or immaturity
100% this. Whether it's by choice, financial situations, health issues, etc not being able to drive needs to be normalised.
I can't drive because of my health and the constant questions and belittling over that fact is saddening. Attitudes change when they find out why I don't drive, but shouldn't have to explain my personal situation for it to be accepted.
I'm only so open about why I can't do things you'd expect a 'standard' almost 26 yr old to do - such as driving, still living at home etc - because I want to help break the stigma of poor health at young age.
*edit - corrected some spelling mistakes
Trisha’s view on Tourette’s is so frustrating. I have it and it’s pretty severe and affects my life daily but I wouldn’t say it’s horrible or as negative as she implies. It’s just who I am and a part of my life. Ethan not wanting to talk about it is so valid because it really is a whole conversation that gets super personal every time. Trisha has such a piss poor view on disability
That isn't her view anymore. That was before she really understood it, and then she went on podcasts and educated others on it including some assholes that were making fun of it.
She later went all-in on basically fetishizing them
@@TheKatarinaGiselleno she still thinks this stupidly
@@funya-xw1iw you clearly didn't read my comment
i listened to the whole frenemies podcast this year without knowing anything ab it really but its so crazy seeing how trisha and ethan have moved on afterwards now
If I remember right, Trisha made a video saying she was quitting frenemies and that nights episode would be the last one. And Ethan didn't know until he saw that video. So he was as blindsided as the rest of us.
So yes she did break up with him.
I do remember that, I think they "fixed" things for a few episodes then another fight happened
i think it’s called “armchair diagnosing” when an unprofessional tries to diagnose another person. self diagnosing is only applied to the self.
IMO, it was very obvious that Trisha was not in the right mental headspace to do Frenemies. She said some pretty vile things & would do things to just make Ethan uncomfortable. Ethan did that at times too but still wanted to make it work with Trisha. It’s likely best that they separated, Trisha got help, & she has a successful podcast. Hopefully she grows from here.
Her podcast is trash. She lies throughout. Ugh
Motherhood changed her too
i’ve been randomly rewatching frenemies and it can be so stress inducing sometimes - at the time i guess i didn’t pay much attention but rewatching back i sometimes have to leave the episode because she just keeps going and going and going. they both poked at each other with peace and love, but trisha just takes it to a whole different place every time. the phrase “bull in a china shop,” as a fellow taurus, i relate but geez it’s a hard watch sometimes.
not your content though, i love these watch with you series! 🫶🏻
“lost a subscriber, that’s upsetting” “well I’ll see ya Julia, have a good one” I’m literally wheezing 💀
Adam : Self-Diagnosing = Diagnosing yourself, Armchair Diagnosing = Diagnosing someone else if you aren't a pro with permission
or without doing a proper evacuation like using interviews and media presence
@@alexlemaire8513you can't do a psychiatric evaluation and diagnosis by viewing media interviews
@@kelsiemcveety999 yeah that's what meant but it kinda looks wrong re-reading my wording 😂
Adam was so ridiculous for that I can't.. SHES DIAGNOSING OTHERS NOT SELF DIAGNOSING???? HELLO.
Self diagnosing is diagnosing yourself not you diagnosing whoever else in the sentence. Adam. Adam please what. Adam what are you on. Adam...
It's not political to stand with Palestine. This is a human right issue not a political issue
58:33 as a late diagnosed autistic I hate this, Moses says "normalize autism" and Trisha speaks over saying "something wrong" and "now I can speak up for autism people"
you’ve truly become my comfort youtuber the past 2 months,,, i usually don’t comment but i’m jus so glad u make vids
I honestly feel sad for Hila not being able see her niece and everything
& Moses not being able to see his nephews
Sad for Hila but not Ethan? Wow that's insensitive. Moses was Ethan's family before Trisha was. You think he doesn't want to see his niece too? Trasha is the problem and it's crazy immature to ever use a kid as a pawn. Moses shouldn't allow it.
@@Lindseyisloony ... did I say that I wasn't sad for Ethan?? Go argue with someone else since that's clearly all you commented for
@@mimiscloset7075moses is a predator. it's why hila stopped talking to him. they're over the trisha beef
how have you not picked up on the vibe that hila absolutely hates trisha😂
Trisha actually triggers my bpd rage so much! Just she opens her mouth and the most disgusting stuff comes out. But then she uses her bpd/mental illness as a shield, so people can’t say anything back to her. As a person with bpd, who is medicated and in therapy, she gives us such a bad name and stereotypes.
both my older brother and one of my best friends are bpd diagnosed. my brother immediately started using it as a shield, no work, no self reflection, same old path of destruction and burned bridges in his wake.
my friend works so fucking hard and has come out stronger, smarter, more aware, and SO frustrated at people like my brother and trisha as well. i hope your work continues to pay off for you!! and that people like trisha see the light eventually…….but i’ve stopped holding my breath. her destructive tendencies are her paycheck 😢
Does she still trigger you now? Like her new podcast and stuff?
@@shanel4294 I don’t know. I haven’t watched her recently. I just stay away so I don’t get triggered. If I continue to watch her, yet she affects my mental space negatively, then that’s on me for still watching her.
I think she’s changed a lot in her new content and is trying to really grow and holds herself to being a more positive person but I understand you not wanting to even try checking out her newer stuff if she’s triggered you in the past
@@awolpilots6746 this
Omg i thought there was new drama. I couldnt handle this again!
The ptsd
5% ahhhhhhhhh 😱
Did you literally just find out Trisha has isolated her husband from his entire family?
To be fair though, Moses’ family was at their wedding and even the gender reveal of Malibu. So that “isolation” doesn’t exist anymore
Trisha being openly obsessed with her exes is crazy
Anybody dating (let alone marrying) anybody who's like that is actual insanity. I dislike Moses for the simple reason that a good person would never ever want that type of partner so he must be a bad egg too.
@@Lindseyisloonyi think he has SA allegations too
@Lindseyisloony i can see why you would think that, but then youd have to apply that to all people who are victims of bad partners. we shouldnt accuse somebody of being a bad person because you dont like who theyre dating. Kinda victim blamey
@@Lindseyisloony i linda agree like if she’s not over those people why is she married?? It’s her life tho🤷🏽♀️
@@c.e.h.57 they aren’t exactly regular people, Trisha is a rich celebrity lmao who puts her life online and exaggerates it purposely for views, if we’re being honest. not saying it’s necessarily right to judge but we can speculate since none of us know these people, including you
My beige flag is that I can easily understand trisha ranting on 1.25 speed
Adam, the game they played "Newly Weds" was a huge game show in America from the 70s through the 80s. The show got more personal than their questions. One women literally said "anal" as an answer because she misunderstood the host and his question.
That show is sooo funny! The way some couples would be throwing death glares at each other 😅
I think that Hila made the final decision about frenemies lol
HIla and Ethan have a good marriage. They communicate and they have built a good life. Is everything perfect I'm sure it's not but they seem to discuss things and are equal partners.
Yeah I completely agree, out of all these youtube couples they actually seem to function in their marriage
yes!! the way trisha would pick on Ethan saying their marriage is boring or not passionate enough just shows she didn’t understand what goes in to a healthy, functional relationship :(
@@mollyo2407 100% she has always been delusional.
@@mollyo2407Maybe if Ethan openly aired their sex life to the world like Trisha does then maybe she’d realize the passion is there 💀💀
HAHAHAH real af@@Aylii1
I remember watching this episode and thinking Trish always has a bad take. The reason for that is because she is and will always be self-serving. It's cringe because Trish is an opportunist and always will be. She doesn't care about anyone, and that will not change. I will continue to hope that ppl will see TP for what she is. She's not going to change. Stay tuned for her exploitation of her child. T will always be this way. I'm so tired of her getting away with this. I'm a former fishy. I will never support her again. Guh, she's vile.
Absolutely agree.
Just out of sheer curiosity what was the turning point for you that turned you from fan to not?
Thank you for saying it’s not political to stand with Palestine!
Ik it makes sense cuz he is northern irish ❤
No Ethan made the finally decision, Tisha wanted to do a finally episode but Ethan decided not to air it
I can only imagine what that video would be like. Honestly I'm glad they didn't
Ugh I wanna see it soo bad I can only imagine
Maybe, it's because Trisha and Moses secretly and without permission tape recorded Ethan and his Wife in their own private home.
@@RuthRobisonthis…. She couldn’t be trusted. Liability personally and professionally
@@bb-mf6qhwhy? That’s weird
I love the Britney shirt sm, also will u ever bring chat back i like seeing the fans chat together while you talk about the vid
People who have as many very young fans as Adam does shouldn't have their chats displayed. It's much too unpredictable what people will say and for TH-cam videos that's an issue. Teens do nutty stuff like doxx themselves on purpose or say unacceptable things to incite a reaction and no editor wants the job of making sure Adam doesn't get in trouble for some kid in the chat on screen doing something that can't appear in a TH-cam video.
@@Lindseyisloonyohhh i never knew about that, thank you for the info
@@Lindseyisloonyexactly he got rid of it because chat wouldn’t behave
i can’t believe people in england say public transport is awful and here we are in america just BEGGING for an INKLING of public transportation
self diagnosis is when you diagnose yourself Adam 🤣🤣🤣
As someone who lived in Houston during the Harvey and my parents lost their home I HATE Joel Olsteen.
I started re-watching Frenemies too, but I love your commentary more
So many muckers have their drivers license because in America our public transport either sucks or is nonexistant so if you wanna go anywhere you HAVE to drive. Especially out in the country or in small towns.
love you and this series Adam!
FROM THE RIVER TO THE SEA 🇵🇸
PALESTINE WILL BE FREE!
PALESTINE WILL BE FREE
❤
Hope things go ok with Milo ❤
As someone who lives in Texas, it’s always flipping off Joel’s church when we drive near it
Moses jealousy was so strong. He used Trisha to fight his battles. He was a bum who never had success. Now he lives in a mansion and thinks he’s a celebrity. Trisha is getting played. She’s his 3rd wife btw. I wonder when she learned that nugget
STOP why is this posted during my shift. looks like ik what i’m doing when i get home can’t wait 😁
I went to school with Joel Olsteen’s niece(?) it was absolute fucking HELL. At a CHRISTIAN private school! She’ll never read this (at least I hope not, but hey A. The OG frenemy in my life) but she is literally a huge reason why I left the religion
Yes, after further research, niece.
Wait (if you’re willing to spill) what did she do?? 😭☕️
@@lo-fi4653she was just a total bully. I always wanted to be friends with everyone as a kid, but because I was the weird girl with no parents and a fuck ass bob, I was an easy target for that group.
@@xxrooxx2724not the fuck ass bob 😅💔 I’m sorry you were targeted, I was too at Catholic school and it can really stick with you 🫂
Ethan and Trisha talking about isreal: “yeah they haggle a lot over there”
Adam “..... yeah they do A LOT over there..... 😒😒”
you’re so real for that FREE PALESTINE ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
LMAOOOOOO WHEN SOMEONE IN THE CHAT SAID THEYRE UNSUBBING “okay Julia have a great one” Adam I love you
Its funny ethan is normal speed at 1.25x. But trisha is now super speedy chipmunk 😅
I NEED the Full Bible of Adam...
"Thou shalt slay if... thou are slaying" 😂😂😂
Adam please update the playlist on your channel of this series!!!!
The willy wonka comment had me dead. That is so true
Just got home from work and an Adam video is exactly what I needed
Hey Adam, so you know you have to self diagnose in order to bring things up to a doctor in order to start treatment. And when it comes to women’s mental health a lot of people fall through the cracks and don’t get the treatment they need because of the sexism in the medical field. Though I do agree I don’t think it’s OK for someone to make blatant statements about someone else’s health or diagnosing them.
Exactly this❤
It’s good to look into and have an idea but not diagnose yourself
@@Elkura_xo depends on what you're diagnosing yourself with
@Elkura_xo the majority of people who “self diagnose” are doing it with nuance and reason because they realize something is wrong but it’s hard to get diagnosed or there’s no real treatment for it like autism. autism is really easy to self diagnose and there’s no harm in using tips to make your life easier
@@Elkura_xo self diagnosing that I have autism, not BPD saved my life. Again, you have to have a suspicion something is going on in order to bring it up to a doctor. Also not everyone has the financial ability to get official diagnosis
Love watching your videos when I’m struggling. It’s like just watching a vid with a pal, as I don’t have any 😂 Lol
Adam not knowing what self diagnosing meanss😭😭
I don’t like Joel Olsteen either. He makes Christians look bad and twists words around in the bible.
No Christian is perfect but he is not a real one,trust me 😬
All religious people make Religion look bad.
Christians do just fine doing that on their own 😂
When ur fishing for compliments and u get “it looks like Hillary Clinton hair” 😂😂 I’d stop taking
trisha bringing up IDF training made my jaw drop that was... wild.
Well considering Moses and Hila both actually were IDF, especially (with peace and love) Hila being a desk jockey but willingly changed her mind to be apart of the “action”, I think they’re all pretty wild together.
I dont always love Ethan's takes and kinda drives me nuts often..but he was SO right on Joel
Oh no😢 Okay I totally understand where you are coming from about diagnosing other people and I had the same stance as you for a while. But for certain communities self diagnosis is such an important part of some people’s journey
Self-diagnosing mental health conditions? Or identity?
@@alicetoyou448 mental health conditions!
i’m pretty sure adam just didn’t mean self diagnosing as self-diagnosing, but as in diagnosing someone else based on your diagnosis. it worried me for a second when i thought he was anti self-diagnosing too haha, but i’m pretty sure it was just that
@@tree4110 Okay no you are absolutely right I’m rewatching this now after commenting this (with absolutely no hate intended just with the purposed to inform) and I’m soooo happy he clarified that. Adam is literally my favorite person so I was honestly just confused but he honestly doesn’t even need to worry about that anyway with what he is going through with baby Milo, life is so unfair. I’m glad we are all supporting him in this horrible time. Thanks for the helpful and kind reply💖
yeah, our boy meant that Trisha is a piss poor ARMCHAIR THERAPIST, not self diagnosing 😂 we’ve all been there, i pronounced queue like “kwayay” for fucking years and everyone assumed i was just joking
11:55
Hey Adam, big fan as you can probably tell with my commitment to your content over the years!
Just wanted to clear up real quick that although I agree impulsive self dx isn't smart whatsoever and I totally agree with researching the topic for a long time or having professional opinion first is a must, sometimes self diagnosis is valid ESPECIALLY for those who are less fortunate (AFABs, poor people or POC) that are incredibly neglected by the healthcare system.
A diagnosis can be too expensive for someone to afford by the healthcare system in western countries or definitely even here with the NHS waiting list times.. those hurdles don't make the thing you're struggling with go away in the meantime or make you any less of that diagnosis, so people like to just say they have it if they're confident and definitive in their assumption! With a lot of second opinions and support.
It's extremely hard to be taken seriously if you're born female or a person of colour because they either like to stereotype or play favourites and not give the resources beneficially to most in need.
I really hope this is your take too on the topic because I really look up to you as one of my favourite TH-camrs and it would be really disappointing if you were supportive anti-self dx in this context :') But I know you have a big heart with takes like this usually and are quite self aware when it comes to people with privilege, so please reassure me if that's the case!
Awesome video! 💙
Frenemies was something I didn't want to watch when it was still a thing and I started watching H3 again once it was over lol
At least someone here is sane... I don't wanna say exploitation but that show was fully just a showcase of how god awful and delusional Trasha is and I can't fathom how that appealed to anybody. I only ended up here cause auto play knows I love our Adam.
Yeah, saying it's iconic or the best thing that happened is a stretch, like not seeing a full picture and ignoring a red flags
I'm happy Frenemies is dead but I'm also happy that you're rewatching it! Some people need the reminder of how absolutely heinous and delusional Trisha is! Pity you don't know about Joel cause it's so completely not ok at all that she was advocating for him. Even at that time people knew about how bad he is
I have so much respect for you Adam, but I would like to address the comment about hating when people self diagnose. I have severe Tourette's syndrome and I wasn't diagnosed until after five years of tics. I did a lot of research into my symptoms and came to the conclusion myself that I most likely had Tourette's so when people asked me about my tics, I would inform them that I had TS. I also ended up self diagnosing myself with depression before later being professionally diagnosed. While some instances of self diagnosing can be harmful to communities of people who have legitimate disorders, for somebody like me who is not getting the proper medical treatment that was the only option that I had. I'm also in the process of trying to get a PANS diagnosis. Every neurologist who I've seen has doubted my symptoms and essentially told me to see a psychologist when the psychologist has referred me to the medical professionals in the first place. For people like me who have disorders that are highly stigmatized and misunderstood, self diagnosing is simply a last resort. I'm sure that the comment was meant as a generalization, and I mean no disrespect. I'm simply trying to inform people. If you have read this, thank you. And if you are another person struggling with similar issues or inadequate medical care, know that you are not alone.
thank you for sharing your journey and i wish you the best growing forward, but i’m almost a hundred percent sure adam misunderstood the definition of self-diagnosis. he meant it as diagnosing someone else based on your own diagnosis, and i understand why it could be incorrectly called “self diagnosing” (like, “by your *self diagnosing*”)
much love!!❤️❤️
@@tree4110 you're correct 😅 Been in his lives for a good while now, he never knows what words mean or how to pronounce them 🤣 He HATES reading in stream go watch his coverage of any article it's GOLD 💜
self diagnose means diagnosing yourself not others.
Love both ethan and trisha both are controversial but they also seemed to have moved on
Yeahhh it’s really gross how she is dickriding Jamie Spears so hard. I’ve had clients on conservatorship with financially abusive guardians. When ur on conservatorship it literally means you are the property of the state & have no rights.
As someone who is AUDHD, it’s so insane to listen to someone say “ something wrong with us” about neurodivergence 😂😂😂
What the heck?! I never see you watching these! How did I miss this??? You need to title it Frenemies so I can find them 😂
Thank you for standing with the people of Palestine 🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸
Omg when does he do that x plz time stamp
Like 1:02, like right at the end
Bruh Trisha for real likes Joel Olsteen?!? 🤮
I really feel that Trisha at the time. Really wanted to see the good and everyone and I think that was part of her issue. It's like at that time she wanted. She wanted to believe that there's good in everyone. I think we saw that with colleen.
She really loves him, remember her entire “jew4jesus” bs. She’s a dumb b itch, through and through.
Kinda need this chaos right now. I know our hearts will heal but I’m just needing this.
Adam 11:5 “thou who slay, shall slay”
I feel like Trisha was just trying to upset Ethan
u support palestine I meann u are northern Irish so it makes alot of sense lol but I do appreciate it, and it was very brave of u to just say that one thing ❤ur so amazingggg
this has aged so horribly... why was trisha saying support for the people involved in britney's conservatorship? this ep of frenemies hurts adam!!
good luck tomorrow, wishing the best for milo
'they do a lot over there'..... adam you legend.
Free Palestine 🇵🇸 ❤ love a TH-camr who isn’t afraid to show where he stands
Adam you can only self-diagnose yourself. That’s where the name comes from.
is this a reupload or did I catch the stream and forget
I agree with everything Adman’s saying besides the self diagnosing part. I don’t think she was trying to self-diagnose Britney I think she was just speculating based from her experiences. It might be more of a theory or hypothesis then a “I’m bpd so she’s bpd.” Idk
I really feel in the future that their family will come together. I really feel like it was a misunderstanding and I think. Trisha's been hurt so much that she takes everything so personally. So when hila said she didn't want to be mentioned. I think that hurt her very deeply even though she didn't take into consideration. That Ethan and hila are very private people when it comes to their family.
They're not speaking because of Moses. Hila and Moses have beef and Moses refuses to own up so therefore they don't talk. Naturally Trish sides w Moses even tho Hila is in the right... its honestly pretty fucked up. When Moses and Hila's parents visit they see their kids completely separately from each other
Tbf the ep where Ethan said "don't bring up hila" he was the one who brought her up first, then Trisha just responded to it, then Ethan was like "DONT TALK ABT HER" I remember being like wtf Ethan xD so no wonder Trisha got triggered. Lol
Exactly, totally understandable that they didn't want to bring hila up, but the way he suddenly snapped it was not the best with peace and love
thank you adam 😭 🇵🇸
It’s so much more chaotic when it’s sped up 😂
I believe trisha walked off and never went back
19:38 now I know I’ve been watching Adam for too long when we both hear that and go “not Hillary Clinton hair!” 😂😂😂😂😂
I have my license but am so scared of driving I only drive to work
trisha wanted ethan so bad lmao. it's funny how she started being with moses to rub it in their face and now she's married to him. they deserve each other tbh
I actually fall asleep when i listen to her. Everyone else makes me want to listen to them.
Great vid, Adam 💕
Is anyone else expirencing Adam's screen being blurry but his face and background is fine??
Adam google Apline style noodles or Alpermagronen, it’s so so good. Meant to eat on a cold winters day after hiking in snow, it’s a creamy bacon basil noodle dish. ❤
To me in was very clear that the kind of self diagnosis you were talking about is people diagnosing themselves and other people based on only their own personal experience but with no extensive knowledge of human psychology. Researching your symptoms extensively, finding something that may match, and then researching that until you are confident, is absolutely valid, many people think that is the point where it’s ready to present to a doctor, but not everyone has that luxury.
And I think that’s what Adam was trying to say but obviously explaining that on the internet is probably very frustrating
Not me getting a Domino's ad watching this after they said it a million times
I can't watch these in this speed feel like my brain is in a washing machine with Trisha gives me migraine lol
Ok but the prosperity gospel is actually a scam though...
And trisha is the right kind of dumb to fall for the scam
That’s americaa 🇺🇸
@@Naveen-tx8be It's some parts of America, the rest of us don't claim them.
I think it was ethan because they recorded an episod that “clarify” trisha side bit he did not want to post it from what i understand so she did not want to continue, finally i guess its both lol
I have never heard of anyone putting corn on pizza before
I think what gave me the ick about frenemies is that the podcasts are pre-recorded. If Hila didn’t want to be talked about, Ethan had the FINAL decision to edit that section out of the video. But he chose to keep it in because he knew the drama would get views. And this is not a defense to Trisha comment. I’m just saying, the “drama” was created BECAUSE Ethan decided to not edit it out.
And also, people love to say that Trisha Isolated Moses from his family. Moses’ family was literally at their wedding and their gender reveal. Hila has even mentioned a few times that Moses always visits his family, and he just doesn’t talk to Hila. And the entire beginning of the Trisha/Moses relationship, Ethan and Hila were absolutely HATING their relationship.
5:23 hi bisexual christian here, we don’t claim him he’s gross😭😭
adam, it's armchair diagnosing not self. you can't self-diagnose other people it's in the word😂
Adam, driving doesn’t take long to learn and you’d catch on quickly. Just learn and go at it 😁
It’s funny because Moses will cook spaghetti bolognese for her, and it’s her favorite meal. Idk it’s funny because it shows how much they didn’t know about each other here. I watch her tik tok she often says he’s a good cook lol
Trisha is , and always will be only about Trisha. She's only gotten better at hiding it.
Everything Britney’s dad did wasn’t mentioned on the documentary btw, it was all just speculation at that point
Trisha's laugh sped up is so funny for some reason.
"they do a lot over there.........*stares into the camera*" I was watching this on my tv like OOP-
Trisha, bby, I have lots of things wrong with me (including BPD) but my autism is not one of those wrong things
People have different experiences with mental illness/ disabilities just because YOU enjoy your autism doesn’t mean we all do
@@ambersmith2612 did I state that everyone enjoys it? Did I state that I even enjoy it? No I didn't, it's a major challenge every, single, day. That still doesn't mean it is something wrong with me, like it's some sort of illness that needs to be cured 🙄
All I stated was that it isn't something that's wrong with me. Being neurodivergent isn't a BAD things. It doesn't mean that something is WRONG with the person.
@@ambersmith2612 also, mental illness doesn't fall in to the same category as autism. Not even close to it.
I stated the BPD is something that is WRONG with me because it is. It's an ILLNESS which autism ISN'T
@@ambersmith2612You can not mind mental or cognitive issues, or you can have a problem with those issues. But either way it’s not wrong for people to have it. “Something wrong with us” is just insensitive as hell to say honestly.
Such a fan. Love you Adam!!