How to NOT mom-shame (a handy tutorial)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 2 ต.ค. 2024
- This is my free of charge, anti-shaming tutorial. You're welcome.
Don't be the kind of human who adds hurt to the world. There's enough pain in this world already! Check out this tutorial on exactly how to end your mom-shaming, and be the kind of human who adds good.
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List of things I was criticized for by my family:
-Giving him a pacifier at 3 weeks old
-Having lactation failure after post part preeclampsia
-not giving my son enough sun exposure before 6 months of age
-not taking him out enough
-taking him out too much
-that it’s my fault he has GERD
-that how could I let him catch a cold
- that he has not gotten enough colds
- how much diapers/pacifiers/clothes I buy (I bulk shop because it’s cheaper)
- what I feed him (too much/too little)
-endless other petty things
At the end of the day all I did was feel like an absolute failure because everyone always had something negative to say. Looking back and I realize that I am a great mom. My son is loved, fed, clothed, and mostly a happy little dude. I love him with all my heart and try the best that I can. I am far from perfect but I do give it my all. Mommy judging is ridiculous and hope people realize how mean it actually is.
Love my Chi23, Hello! I read your post. Aww, life is tough with people who don't always get it...but we have to forgive them and keep being the best MOM ever! You go girl! I have a special song to share with you. My son and I perform a praise dance and skit using this song. My brother and I have a ministry and have many events. The song is called MASTERPIECE by Sandy Patti found on TH-cam. Check out the one with lyrics. I think you'll love this song. Your son is a MASTERPIECE and so are you!!!! Please let me know if you or others here check it out. God bless you and your son. God bless your loved ones as well. I hope and pray you are strong and mighty in the Lord!
Have a "GOD" day!
Peace,
Lynne 🍃💜🍃
Girl I understand
Sorry you had to deal with all that.
Honestly the biggest mom shameers are your parents and grandparents...they know it all, and whatever you do is just not good enough.
I have come down to the point of just posting this video to any comments on facebook statuses telling other women how to raise their babies or telling them how to take care of their babies.
As women we should only be worried about boosting each other up not tearing them down.
Thank you for making this video it's become quite useful for dealing with Mom-Shamers.
Part two please 😃
Ah yes, Let’s lift each other up! I love it
You are wonderful Kristina!⏫😁🔼⬆⏫
Moms are brilliant it’s a hard job bringing up children grow up people
Thank you. I love this so much. This climate of women shaming each other needs to stop! We are all doing the best we can. It takes a village in this world and we should all come together to create that village!
Tabitha Hamlette ....Amen sister! If we all stood together...what amazing things we could do! I feel it coming, I believe we’re in a time of awakening....and it’s messages such as this that make me ever more hopeful about the future, and the world our children will soon inherit.
ANOTHER fabulous video, Kristina!! 👏🏻
In the situation with the kid acting up I usually try helping the mom. Or just ask if she needs help. Sometimes just distracting the kid from its tantrum is enough to get the child to obey the parent.
Funny story I was determined when my daughters were young ( I’m talking 4 and 3) to teach them empathy. I’d point out things going on around us and ask how they think the people felt.
Well we’re at the mall once and there’s kid being a tyrant to his mom. Even hitting her. My 3yo gets up and runs over and says “you’re bad!! You’re making your mommy sad! You say your sorry!!”
The kid was floored. His mom was floored. And my 3 yo was triumphant.
The mom wound up thanking me cuz her son was still so confused like 15 min later.
DeetsterB wow! Great job momma on raising such a sweetheart!
That is awesome! Best story ever
Love it. Common sense is not so common, especially in parenting. Keep the videos coming.
Still experiencing mom shaming at work as a mom of an 18 and 22 year old, even though I have great kids. Thanks for doing this video. It helped me in my moment of hurt.
Wow another one, yes another awesome video.
And also don’t use words like too tiny, “is that healthy”, etc, when describing her belly, because there are a lot of thin women out there with “tiny” bellies during their pregnancies, who have healthy lives and healthy babies, and you don’t know if it is due to some kind of special exercising and dieting, or that’s just the way they are and they can’t do anything about it, which is often the case.
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First!!! I love you you're awesome and thank you for being you.
I Love your videos!
As a dad seeing the daily struggle and being shoulder to shoulder with my wife. Parenthood IS tough and we need to support each other. Thanks for posting this. Sub’d.
Mothers literally criticize if the car seat buckle seems at all a tad loose. Mothers criticize the type of diapers your kid uses. Mothers criticize your choice for handling disobedience. It is PATHETIC. Leave people ALONE unless it is encouragement!
That was so funny, with a solid lesson every one should consider
Can we get another version of this mom shaming parenting styles. Attached is detached. Breast vs formula. Vaccines. .
Wish I could like this a million times!
So basically don't ever be honest about what you're thinking and become a liar to coddle someone else?
My baby isn’t even out of my body yet, and I’m already getting “ advise”.
Thank you for all the time and energy you put into creating, editing, and uploading your videos. Your message is always so positive!
You are awesome! Got an attitude check today 😁 thanks 👍
this video is AWESOME
Love the video you are amazing to watch 👍
Brilliant! Should be a PSA run on Bravo 😜
Advanced level shamers 🤣🤣 lol
Love your videos on Facebook!
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This one for the win!!
You should run for president in 2020.
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You Are So Freakin' Awesome!!!!
Just, Thanks, Girl! Thanks!👑❤👏🏾
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#letssticktogetherladies,
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THANK YOU!! I shared this already with every mom I know. We love you girl!!!
This is THE BEST!
Omg this is great. I love your extremely blunt and funny attitude. You speak a lot of truth!
I love you So much you give me so much hope. Thank you. I wish I lived in your state would love to have toddler play date with our 3 year old. It would be so much fun. You life my spirits up every time I watch your videos.
You are amazing!!!!👏🏻
I love everything about this video! What you are doing is so incredibly unique, important, and inspiring! Thank you, and thank you again!
You are awesome!
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Love this one.
LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lift each other up, instead of tearing others down!
I absolutely love this video. Thank you for posting it
Awesome
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And this is why, I just love your videos! Keep ‘em comin’!
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Please refilm this at my son's school 😂 brilliant
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Thank you!!! ❤
Where is my helpful advice what not to do to my mom?
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I freaking love your videos!
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Love this! Amen!!
I believe in us too♥️
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Smart lady... 😘
If i still had Facebook, thia would be shared daily. But I'll share on Twitter. Because Twitter needs this.
When i was recently pregnant with my 5th (6th pregnancy, 5th delivery, 4th we'd get to bring home), you'd be AMAZED how many told me "aren't you done having babies?!?" Umm, none of your business. No, it wasn't planned, but just because it was a surprise blessing doesn't mean it doesn't hurt when you talk to me like that. Just like commenting on my big belly (you deliver babies that are nearly 8 to almost 9 1/2# and see how big your belly is), commenting on how rough i look and all, it HURTS! I don't care if she looks like she's been hit by a fleet of buses. Tell her she's gorgeous and doing great!
Megan Gosiak it takes a lot of courage and strength to be a parent these days and moms take on the hardest part of it. Nothing but love and respect to all the ladies doing their best.
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So amazing! And not just for mom's but for EVERYONE! Love it.
you have forgotten the mothers with only one child who will be unhappy forever, because there will be no siblings ... 😉
Hahahah, im glad you have children. So they can teach yhe world your lessons when they grow up .
Thank you so much for this! And to those 6 haters that dislike it shows you are shamers so shame on you.
Me: (gets C) OMG!! I need to do better.
Other student: (gets a C)
Me to that other student: GOOD JOB!! You did your best!
This video made me realize I hold myself to standards I don’t hold other people to. For the mom in her PJS one, I wouldn’t care if I saw someone in his or her PJs. If anything I’d think they look amazing and comfortable. Plus it’s not my business to judge them for being in their PJs in public. But I’d be embarrassed to do it myself wondering what other people think of me. Because I don’t care what other people do I just care what I do.
Testify girlfriend I'm a mother of five I really enjoyed this thank you baby girl
Great advice for everyone. :)
I'd like to make a video like this on my channel but for dads! What do y'all think are the most common dad shaming trends?
I totally thought you were waving a spoon around for most of the video 😆😆