Which of these 5 challenges do you resonate with the most as an INFJ? Is it overthinking, people pleasing, fear of being seen, absorbing others’ emotions, or waiting for the right moment? Share your experience in the comments-I’d love to hear how you’re navigating these and what has helped you the most! Let’s support each other on this journey. 💜
Most of my early life i was a huge people pleaser and overthinker, but nowadays (27yrs) its more waiting for the right moment. I think it has already reached me so im doing best i can to thrive for a better future, currently in retraining, crossing fingers that everything works out well and wont fall down on me again Thanks for being a pillar of my self-developement last 3 years!
Something that comes to my mind at first, before watching the video. People love and admire your independence as a sigma INFJ, because most of them are suffering from overdependence, but that doesn't mean that they admire you for the kind of relationship you will want as an INFJ - deep, genuine and honest. That's one of the things that is holding us back, not realizing the hollow admiration that most people give us. It could sound rude, but is true, never waste your smile and niceness for someone who will never ever get who you really are as an INFJ - your empathy, loyalty and intensity and the actual power of your smile and kind presence. Don't take admiration's easy, challenge the hollow admirers and let them and all the people around them know what you really want no matter if they will agree or turn their backs on you, you must apply better ways to filter people if you want to meet the right one for you like I am trying to do now.
Absorbing others emotions can be a big one for me, especially when I’ve taken action and find myself presenting or speaking to a group. I can then end up feeling totally overwhelmed by the energy of the group. This then creates a bit of a fear in me to keep putting myself in the spotlight. It also plays into a fear of what people think of me and also the fear that what I’m doing/saying isn’t perfect.
Overthinking and perfectionist I'm working on. With a high I.Q. it may be futile :P. As far as absorbing other's emotions, it cannot be removed ,only suppressed in my opinion, and I wouldn't want to remove it if I could. The right moment can be very useful but can look like procrastination to others. Becoming a realist helped me with this. Accepting what is, changing what I can, letting go of what I cannot change or will not change. Living in the future is a balance. Life is a balance. I don't fear being seen, it's just something I do not need or want. I'd call it a choice not a fear. I do love myself, self worth and self value is extremely important. I don't need validation from others anymore. Boundaries are necessary for your own peace of mind. Your help is extremely valuable for an INFJ. As far as I'm concerned, it's priceless. Thank you for being you. Never give up on our people.
Completely identify with all, but ESPECIALLY overthinking & perfectionism, people pleasing & absorbing others’ emotions. It’s exhausting. Getting separated & feel like life has been hell. Getting ready to start over yet again, only this time I’m moving overseas. I hope I continue to grow & learn; I appreciate your work & videos so much! It makes it a little easier knowing others go through the same. Power to the INFJ lol ❤
i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.
The fact is that as an INFJ I carry a mission. That's not something most people would understand and consequently not something I am inclined to share. But the principle of surrounding yourself with people with a similar call on their life is a way to encounter less resistance. The idea of authenticity also has to be looked at through the personality lens. As an INFJ I don't wear a mask, rather my struggle with authenticity is to show parts of myself that are not currently in company. That's a tougher struggle, I think. How do you appear as your whole self and yet not offend or draw needless attention to yourself? That's an INFJ articulation of the common struggle to be authentic and in the moment.
I feel like I have conquered people pleasing, but the other four are spot on. My therapist says we have to have boundaries with our empathy. It's been SO helpful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. ❤
It's the truth. The truth is the problem and my family and so called friends can't handle 😔 the truth. It's the pursuit of perfection and that journey. Nobody ever reaches perfection. Extraordinary will do just fine.
I am shocked I've seen the world before it's begun I don't know who I am but I do know now is almost time and it's been about everything I have been trying to get my mind 😊
As I watch this enthralling video, it resurrects the painful memories of my recent breakup-a relationship of 4 years that ended just 3 months ago. The woman who meant everything to me decided to leave, plunging me into a vortex of heartache. Despite my desperate attempts to reconcile, I find myself trapped in a cycle of frustration and longing, unable to envision a life without her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I find solace in expressing my lingering affection for her here.
The process of releasing a loved one can be an uphill battle. I can relate, having navigated a similar journey when my 5 year relationship dissolved. Despite the heartache, I refused to relinquish hope and embarked on a quest to win him back. Turning to a spiritual counselor for assistance, I found guidance that ultimately led to our reconciliation.
I would love to have a 1-1 conversation with you with payment of course, but there will be some faith-based topics from my side. Will that be OK with you? Keep up your amazing work!
I assume people pleasing Is somehow connected with absorbing emotions. Once I've travelled with my family to some event And I choose apparently too light style (open legwood were the last drop) on February. That deadly quiet atmosphere in a car was unbearable for me. And I wasn't a child those days though. Still no need sarcasm for it.
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
Just take action...OMG. If it were that easy I'd be rich and not crashed out in parents' yard directly from the DEI things in my way over and over and over again such that I'm out of ideas for action that isn't just getting through another day. I just turned 51, I'd change my approach and have done many times without ever hitting upon a way to make money that doesn't utterly suck. One of the results is I have no funds for anything like this. I'm utterly tapped out just keeping my food supply out of junk food that harms my health all over the free food access.
Which of these 5 challenges do you resonate with the most as an INFJ? Is it overthinking, people pleasing, fear of being seen, absorbing others’ emotions, or waiting for the right moment? Share your experience in the comments-I’d love to hear how you’re navigating these and what has helped you the most! Let’s support each other on this journey. 💜
Most of my early life i was a huge people pleaser and overthinker, but nowadays (27yrs) its more waiting for the right moment.
I think it has already reached me so im doing best i can to thrive for a better future, currently in retraining, crossing fingers that everything works out well and wont fall down on me again
Thanks for being a pillar of my self-developement last 3 years!
Something that comes to my mind at first, before watching the video. People love and admire your independence as a sigma INFJ, because most of them are suffering from overdependence, but that doesn't mean that they admire you for the kind of relationship you will want as an INFJ - deep, genuine and honest. That's one of the things that is holding us back, not realizing the hollow admiration that most people give us. It could sound rude, but is true, never waste your smile and niceness for someone who will never ever get who you really are as an INFJ - your empathy, loyalty and intensity and the actual power of your smile and kind presence. Don't take admiration's easy, challenge the hollow admirers and let them and all the people around them know what you really want no matter if they will agree or turn their backs on you, you must apply better ways to filter people if you want to meet the right one for you like I am trying to do now.
Absorbing others emotions can be a big one for me, especially when I’ve taken action and find myself presenting or speaking to a group. I can then end up feeling totally overwhelmed by the energy of the group. This then creates a bit of a fear in me to keep putting myself in the spotlight. It also plays into a fear of what people think of me and also the fear that what I’m doing/saying isn’t perfect.
All are a problem if we don’t work on them 😂
Overthinking and perfectionist I'm working on. With a high I.Q. it may be futile :P. As far as absorbing other's emotions, it cannot be removed ,only suppressed in my opinion, and I wouldn't want to remove it if I could. The right moment can be very useful but can look like procrastination to others. Becoming a realist helped me with this. Accepting what is, changing what I can, letting go of what I cannot change or will not change. Living in the future is a balance. Life is a balance.
I don't fear being seen, it's just something I do not need or want. I'd call it a choice not a fear. I do love myself, self worth and self value is extremely important. I don't need validation from others anymore. Boundaries are necessary for your own peace of mind.
Your help is extremely valuable for an INFJ. As far as I'm concerned, it's priceless. Thank you for being you. Never give up on our people.
Completely identify with all, but ESPECIALLY overthinking & perfectionism, people pleasing & absorbing others’ emotions. It’s exhausting. Getting separated & feel like life has been hell. Getting ready to start over yet again, only this time I’m moving overseas. I hope I continue to grow & learn; I appreciate your work & videos so much! It makes it a little easier knowing others go through the same. Power to the INFJ lol ❤
i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.
The fact is that as an INFJ I carry a mission. That's not something most people would understand and consequently not something I am inclined to share. But the principle of surrounding yourself with people with a similar call on their life is a way to encounter less resistance. The idea of authenticity also has to be looked at through the personality lens. As an INFJ I don't wear a mask, rather my struggle with authenticity is to show parts of myself that are not currently in company. That's a tougher struggle, I think. How do you appear as your whole self and yet not offend or draw needless attention to yourself? That's an INFJ articulation of the common struggle to be authentic and in the moment.
Excellent presentation, thank you! ❤ I agree with everything. It's subconscious how we don't realize how we interpret our authentic self.
I feel like I have conquered people pleasing, but the other four are spot on. My therapist says we have to have boundaries with our empathy. It's been SO helpful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. ❤
It's the truth. The truth is the problem and my family and so called friends can't handle 😔 the truth. It's the pursuit of perfection and that journey. Nobody ever reaches perfection. Extraordinary will do just fine.
Mostly INFJ and INFP best friend.
When INFJ and INFP best friend, INFJ will absorb too much INFP emotions, yes it's brutal true 😅
im so tired of being abnormal. Im so tired of this damned life sometimes. All i want is love and understanding and its impossible
Give it to oneself. Only is possible this way.
I concur with what you say Wenze's.I thank you for you Wenze's.Jerome❤❤❤
My problem is that when I strip all of what I pick up away, I feel like I'm just a blank page. It's like a never ending identity crisis.
Great stuff! Thank you.
Even if it would seem i lose then i still win and even if they win they still.lose.
That is how i secured the place
I am shocked I've seen the world before it's begun I don't know who I am but I do know now is almost time and it's been about everything I have been trying to get my mind 😊
As I watch this enthralling video, it resurrects the painful memories of my recent breakup-a relationship of 4 years that ended just 3 months ago. The woman who meant everything to me decided to leave, plunging me into a vortex of heartache. Despite my desperate attempts to reconcile, I find myself trapped in a cycle of frustration and longing, unable to envision a life without her. Despite my efforts to move forward, I find solace in expressing my lingering affection for her here.
The process of releasing a loved one can be an uphill battle. I can relate, having navigated a similar journey when my 5 year relationship dissolved. Despite the heartache, I refused to relinquish hope and embarked on a quest to win him back. Turning to a spiritual counselor for assistance, I found guidance that ultimately led to our reconciliation.
How did you discover a spiritual counselor, and what's the procedure for me to get in contact with her?
Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for her talent in bringing back.
Thank you for this invaluable information; I've just checked her out online.
Thank you for your time xoxo
Amazing as always . Thanks . 👍👌🙏
Thank you Wenzes 😊
I deal with all the mentioned problems with Tangibility and nihilism(like I don't give a damn, I will deal everything like a man)
Thanks 👍😊
Jesus is the answer.
I would love to have a 1-1 conversation with you with payment of course, but there will be some faith-based topics from my side. Will that be OK with you? Keep up your amazing work!
I assume people pleasing Is somehow connected with absorbing emotions. Once I've travelled with my family to some event And I choose apparently too light style (open legwood were the last drop) on February. That deadly quiet atmosphere in a car was unbearable for me. And I wasn't a child those days though. Still no need sarcasm for it.
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
Just take action...OMG. If it were that easy I'd be rich and not crashed out in parents' yard directly from the DEI things in my way over and over and over again such that I'm out of ideas for action that isn't just getting through another day. I just turned 51, I'd change my approach and have done many times without ever hitting upon a way to make money that doesn't utterly suck. One of the results is I have no funds for anything like this. I'm utterly tapped out just keeping my food supply out of junk food that harms my health all over the free food access.
This is a confusing read. Could you clarify what exactly you are blaming please? Thanks.
Excellence is not an act, it's a habit. Stop trying to feed endless pits with your energy, instantly feel better.😏👌
I think youre a enfj
Why?🤔