20 Years of Abusive Marriage
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- Granger Smith Podcast Episode 184: I heard someone say: "Divorce is not a private matter." We all need community, we all need wise counsel around us. Join me as we talk about this topic and more on this week's podcast!
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My son is a Soldier. He got hurt, needs 3 total disc replacements in his lower back, but they think only one is possible. Apparently, Tricare rarely pays for this which is disgusting. He is 29, very discouraged. Please pray for him, y'all. His name is Taylor.
Prayers for your son
Honestly its a darned shame how they chew up and spit out our people, all while using them to propagate a Zionist one world Anti Christ system. I pray your family finds strength, hope, peace and growth through their struggles. May Christ bless you.
Prayers for him
Hurt while on Duty
I’m 59yrs and have had back problems for 7 years from Radiation damage. I feel so bad for your son.
Lord you know Taylor and his struggle But God You are bigger and you’re Word says 📖 By your stripes We are healed 😔🙏 Jesus wrap your arms around him let him know it’s YOU his Father whom he loves cares 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Touch his back Jesus, Jesus in your name. Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah 🥹 Thank him for the touch and praise him 🙏🙏🙏
Me and my wife have been married for 10yrs this Oct. We were both atheists our entire life and relationship.. but a few years ago this changed for me. I finally realized that we humans and our science knows nothing about universe and reality and existence and that God is absolutely real and our creator... my wife is still an athiest. We went to church and she enjoyed it and so did our kids... but we haven't gone in a long time and it's hard for me to go because she doesn't really want to or have the drive to like I do. I can't MAKE her have faith or accept christ she has to get there in her own, I pray through my actions that she sees the change in our lives.
Go to scripture. What is your role as the head of your household according to scripture? Your first ministry is to your wife! Be a leader for her according to scripture.
I just read in 1st Corinthians about when your married to an unbelieving spouse. Look it up ♥️ and keep praying!!!
Just because she doesn't want to go to church doesn't mean you can't go and take your children. You are suppose to be the spiritual head of the household!
Never give up on prayer for your wife. I knew someone who prayed for 40 years before her husband finally gave his heart to God. As long as anyone is alive, there is still hope for them.
Ha so true. I’m sure you’ve look into quantum theory and stuff like that lol who knows what real and what’s not anymore..
I left an abusive marriage years ago. He put his hands on my and knocked me out, I spent the night in the ER and he did 20 hours in jail. When I got out of the hospital I cleaned out the joint checking account and moved to my own place. I had a restraining order but he violated it the first week. Now I have my CPL and I have no fear. He was an alcoholic and a narcissistic egotistical ex military and he talked down to me daily, he cheated on me, and I said if he ever put his hands on me that was it. And it was.
I'm getting out of a bad 23 year marriage myself. I am disabled, live on SSDI, and am scraping to exist in a rented bedroom from an acquaintance. She kept my car, I had to buy an old used pickup truck and it has a bad engine, so I'm not much better off that way. She was psychologically abusive and neglectful. the worst offence I made was working so hard that I destroyed my body, making other men very wealthy, leaving me with no assets and a damaged spine and joints. But, I know God has need of me to remain in this Life and to reach out to others. Your words resonate with me brother. Service to the Kingdom of God is the highest call we can answer. Divorce is a rough thing, but it is often needful. A marriage is a partnership: it takes both people to be fully committed to each other and to God for it to succeed. My parents are going strong after 54 years because they support each other and serve God. I am lucky to have the support of wonderful brothers-in-God and my parents and siblings who are in full support of my decision to leave, and to take care of myself. I spent decades taking care of others, it's time for me to take care of myself.
Granger is a master at spoken word… not one ‘uhhh or ummm’ his thoughts are liquid with his speech, he means everything he’s saying. This podcast rules.
Yes!!!
As much as you will be missed on tour, you can tell this is where you need to be. You can see how happy you are about this decision. You seem so relaxed now that the news is out. You will be great and will make such a difference in many lives. So proud of you for standing up for this in this difficult world. Especially being in the spotlight. It couldn’t be easy. Behind you and your family Al the way! ❤️
For the allergy healing, I encourage you to seek Gods plan and consider sharing His miracle. I’ve been healed many times and seen many. Also I’ve asked for many and His answer has been NO. If it’s Gods will for you to share, give God the honor and
Glory.
To that lovely 15 yr old. God has honored your prayer of faith for healing. In your joy, you want to share this great news with your mom. What a great and beautiful heart. Your healing is according to God's purpose for your life. Now, you can best bring that message to others by honoring God with living a life that is reflective of love, joy, gentleness, meekness, peace, faith.Let the love light shine and people will notice and ask questions and be more open to your healing story.
Granger, love the advice you gave in the abusive marriage. Wise counsel is so important - “find someone to walk through it with you”. I also loved your answer on what you think heaven will look like!!! Too many of us like to think about what “we’ll get when we get there”. Perfect answer!!!! ❤
Congrats on pursuing your passion for ministry. It's refreshing to see and I appreciate your earnestness in the video about it.
I went through the abusive marriage and divorced after 17 years of marriage. I was in a church which counciled me to go through counseling, which I did and it got worse.
He got more abusive and I was afraid he would kill me. That divorce took from 1987 to 1988. Right after the divorce started he assaulted me and I fell against the garage. I ended up in the emergency room for stitches and he cracked one of the roots of my tooth. I ended up loosing everything including custody of my children. He couldn't take my horses because I had 2 horses and I had 2 horses.
That lady that is going through the same thing I did really pulls at my heart. It's hard, but God will protect her if she has repented and given her heart to Jesus.
I have seen God throughout the years that I went through the marriage and divorce.
Love your perspective, Granger ❤
Your answer to the last question was phenomenal. 🙏🏻
Carry on brother, respect.
I'm down for the live podcast. Would be awesome!
AWESOME podcast! This is why I watch. God bless you in all you do for Him, Granger.
We didn't make it to 13. I left as I promised him I would.
Wow! More young people today need this advice.. So much truth here.
Though Im disappointed that I never made it out to one of your shows. Seeing and hearing that you are using your platform, heart and mind to help people and build community while leading others to Christ is a rare and wonderful blessing. You and your wife seem like strong and loving people who I would be proud to call friend.
God bless you and your beautiful family Granger
I am happy that you left the music industry--your story is kind of reminiscent of the late Jeff Fenholt, a former musical stage actor (Hair, Jesus Christ Superstar) and hard rock frontman TO a born again evangelist and Christian faith singer.
He passed away in September 2019 at 68 but he died knowing he was saved had served The Lord. His son is a pastor in a non denominal church in Orange County which is awesome🙌.
Okay thank you so much ❤😂
Chills at the response to the last question. Just imagine 🙌🏻
I haven't watched this video, but a clip came across my newsfeed, today, about why you are leaving country music to surrender to God. Honestly, I'm not a country music fan and have never even heard your name before. But, I will say this... among the vast wealth, of information, produced by mankind, and made available, through this smartphone, I struggled to find ANY information, which comes from a higher power, until I watched that clip. So, that is my testimony that you are on the right path, and I just wanted to share that, with you, and give thanks for it. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
God bless you and your family.
Thank you Griz,,,
I definitely think you have a gift, and that's good that you're getting mentored and sharpened. Take care God bless you
YES to the ending ! ❤
God Bless
Yes sir I tell you some of these questions and your advice really hits home. Such an amazing gift. You have sir. When you read that ladies email and said G my first thought oh he must know her lol can’t wait to see you in July have a blessed week. Thank you so much for all your hard work .
Thanks for another great episode! We need a guest. Yee Yee
Love this episode. I love seeing the direction it’s going. I think drawing people to God is a great platform for you in your season of learning. Praying that you are blessed
I have been a devoted Christian for many years. I want to thank you for your amazing answers to those questions. Please let that lady, or anyone who has gone through an abusive marriage, like I did, that they can go to a Pro Bono lawyer. You won't have to pay them anything because a Pro Bon lawyer is free to their clients. I may be wrong, but I think they are paid by the state. Anyway, that's the way I had to go because my ex also controlled everything and everybody. I feel for anyone who tried everything to keep the marriage together, but he or she wouldn't listen. I hope they find peace, like I did, even though it took me 15 years. God is so good!
Funny thing about the things getting weird part is that many would consider healings that happened in the bible weird. May the 15 year olds faith continue to get stronger so she may encourage our brothers and sisters that need encouragement! Sister you have more faith than many adults that have read the bible cover to cover or claim to belong to the Lord! Love it❤
Thank you
You are awesome thanku so much love an God bless always x
@GraingerSmith I am a grainger smith fan it doesn’t matter if it’s music or your ministry gods useing your voice for a reason god bless you and your family
Hey y'all, How y'all doing? Love Always Candy 💕 Come to Tennessee
Go in peace and serve the Lord, brother. Walk where the the Lord calls you, we're here to support you back.
Is Earl going to preach also?
Granger... I come berring a heavy heart. I just love your music. It's sad to see you go from country music. I completely understand why and I am excited for you to find your calling. It just deeply saddens me country music has lost a true great artist. I however do hope you bring us along with your journey. If you do ever get to do your own church I hope you bring it to us on youtube or somewhere we can see it. I do truly wish you the best in your calling and I know it's a bit selfish to want you to stay doing music but I understand.
Awesome.
Hi. I am from Indonesia. I know you from Fox News today. May GOD bless
Wonderful commentary on Faith and our relationship with Christ. Thank you for sharing what is Christ's true Blessings for us.
I really wanted to come into this, and be skeptical, but I see the marks of true conversion.
God Bless you and your family 🙏🙏
HALLELUJAH 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Saw you on fox. I watch you now. See how that works. Praise God.
All Glory be All to God 🙏🏻 hallelujah and Amen welcome Brother 🙏🏻 Love and God's Blessings from Australia 😊🕊️🙏🏻♥️
GOD. SHALL SPEAK. LISTEN. FOR. HIS. VOICE
Granger, I read that you were leaving country music to serve God. I can't think of a better person to serve God than you, you are authentic, truthful, kind and sincere. May He wrap his arms around you during this transition. God chose you. Peace be with you and your precious family.
I saw your interview on Fox News!
Dang never got my free tickets I won and your done lol o well I wish you the best Granger!
Abusers don't choose to be abusive
I would love to do a live pod cast Granger thank you im 46 years old lol
Amen
The price for a good white shirt package hmmmm ok thank you so much
I was abused for 5 1/2 years by my ex-husband. I went to our pastor for help, he swept it under the rug. He told me that if I left my husband I would be kicked out of our entire fellowship because divorce is a sin. After 11 1/2 I challenged him. I made it very clear that he cannot kick me out because I have legal and biblical reasons. He immediately switch tactics and said that he never knew that my ex-husband was abusing me. I'm pretty sure that's called gaslighting. I backslide after that for seven years and ended up getting raped last year. I have since rededicated my life to Jesus Christ. Life is a journey but I know that God didn't leave me drugged, naked, passed out and alone in a campground overnight.
If you do read this Granger, I ask that you pray for me if I cross your mind. 🙏
I never had that problem but I have had a few abusive females I just figured it was because of how they was treated so they end up treating every man they date the same way I could be wrong or it's a drug or alcohol problem 🤔
If someone wanted you to do a private show how much would it cost for you to come and sing because my cousin is graduating the same time as me on May 12th so I won't be able to be there but i want to see about you doing a show to kinda make up for it
@TRUMP2024 thank you and ik that's why I'm asking because I wanna know how much to get I'd even sell my vehicles because family comes first with me they are everything to me and I just want to make his graduation party the best one
Elizabeth Johnson has a ministry for abused Christian women. Maybe she can help the lady in the abusive marriage.
I can't be picked up if I don't want to come, yeah, I have to be picked up, I don't know if I'm abroad, it's far away, OK, I understand, my old, OK?
I am a devout follower of Jesus Christ. He is God in the flesh. His Presence is Peace and His glory is indescribable. I encountered my Saviour , Jesus while studying the Word( Gospel of John) . He is love personified and I can’t put it into words. He Is the Lord of All and deserves our devotion and dedication. You’re walking in His ways and He will direct your path. Remember, “ We’ve only One Life, it soon will past- Only what’s done for Christ will last.” I will be praying for you, Granger 🙏🏼. God honors your obedience
GOD Bless you sir. I 🙏 you do a better job than I. Speaking of Job, it is the most overlooked book, besides Enoch, which was tossed out, of tge Holy Bible. GOD BLESS YOU GRAINGER.
What do you mean, "The Bible says this; you practice this?" (Jenny's question) Thanks for sharing your perspective. Blessings
To me, it sounded like Granger was encouraging searching the scriptures to makes sure that the things we say we are doing for God are things He's actually instructed us to do in His Word. Do the instructions and actions match up? Any Christian practice done in His name should be able to be found instructed in the Bible.
Country music has gone downhill with very few like you and maybe one or two others...too many fallen into the worldly ways and the music is all about drinking, women, and partying now like all other music. Gotta go where your heart leads
Good luck and God Bless
Praise the Lord Granger! Your following Christ and not the world!
So Butch and Bull lost their job?
Dari dulu yeeyee mau menikah kekeh ok terima kasih banyak
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He got healed ..as he prayed & believed it sounds like to me.
Probably mom wldnt believe him..??
So ...l just wanna say. God said " I am the god that heals Exodus 15:26
Jesus died and took our sins and sicknesses..Isaiah 53:5 ..Psalm 103:3 says God heals All diseases.
& God wants us well. Gonna finish listening...just wanna end with...Best to you and your family. God bless you all & your (His) ministry 😇❤
Heaven is being with the trinity. PTL 🙌🏻🙌🏻 Amen
Yes, God hates divorce, but God HATES abuse too....God hates what happens to a wife...and very much what happens to the children in this situation. Go...Get out ...do whatever you need to do...for your sake and for the kids, who could grow up being an abuser like their father. It will be difficult, but it will be worth it. God will provide...Yes, community and help from others is essential. I have a daughter and grandkids going thru this situation. It's sick. Hopefully, the man will get a prison sentence for his abuse. The oldest 2 girls out of 5 kids, have gone thru hell...and Christian therapy. God has been faithful, and they have been healed, but scarred. Divorce will NOT send you to hell. God loves you and wants the best for you. You are worth it...
I eat first so it's not too late 😂❤
God hates Abuse more than he hates Divorce!!🤕 Your children are being exposed to this abuse daily,😵💫 please seek help...Love does not hurt, Living in Fear is not Love!💔
Yeeyee wife's name is Ambar yeah I forgot
Okay Janti first wants to pick me up the problem is I don't have postage okay yeeyee thank you so much yeah honey baby so much ❤
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with the help of the Lord. she can do it. all things are possible with God. I left. you cannot stay in an abusive relationship. not even the church helped me.God Almighty is my helper.
The promise that I wanted to pick up before is now continuing now I want to be with Yee yeeyee Ok thank you so much Honey baby so much ❤😂
In the past, yeeyee, I haven't answered, now I have answered, okay, honey, ok, thank you so much Honey, welcome to the oldmos victory, okay, thank you so much
Okay thank 💋 muahhhh welcome to the oldmos victory ✌️ okay thank 💋 muahhhh
God performs Miracles everyday!!!! We are to expect good things to come our way . God wants the best for our lives !!! All you do is ask if it’s his will in the name of Jesus and claim your miracle 🙏🙏🙏 God wants to answer your prayers and give you the desires of your heart ❤️❤️❤️ He Loves you so much he allowed his son to die on the cross for you 😇👏👏🙏🙏
As before there is no church marriage ok honey baby so much thank you so much
My wife and I have been married for 16yrs n she left me n kids 4 2.5yrssays she left 2 getaway 🎉to relax n find her innerself away from me and my kids. What do you make of this move
Probably another man...I have been there, and can say, sometimes God removes bad people, from our lives
I think a good mother would never walk off and leave her children. Not ever!
Okay thank you so 💋 muahhhh welcome to the oldmos victory ✌️ yeahhoney thank you so 💋 muahhhh ❤😂
Christian are to have relationship with the Father God, Son Jesus and The Holy Ghost.All three.
Sudah terima lagu .inikah yeah sayang sayang alhamdulillah terima kasih banyak semoga benar Amiinnnn dan lancar Amiinnnn terima kasih banyak
If you don't have God in your relationship it will never be a good relationship 💯
Baby you doing fantastic job
i love you
your ambe forever
you're show is on
the kids love you in NM
Walk in Faith Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ and pray that you will have the strength and courage to do what is right for you. God Bless you and your Family. 🙏🙏🙏
Not belin the doctrines of man isnt death. God is calling this person away from man made doctrins of devils to Gods written word. Your Bible is your road map and your full armor. If God is pulling you away from Catholicism or any other denomination, its because He wants you to look more to Him and His word. Gods word is true. Catholicism is not.
When u talk bout blinders on are you talking bout like when a horse get there blinders on. God puts on blinders on us and takes them off when needed! Man puts blinders on a horse to help his eye sight! He lets us see when he wants us to then when he don't he puts back on.
Married at home yee yee simple garden map okay very very imposible yeahhoney baby alhamdulilah aminn honey baby so much thank you so much
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