Getting Schooled

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  • @jillcabler3398
    @jillcabler3398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    Damn he look older than his Mother living to fast and furious will definitely put some age on ya fo sho

    • @mychannel9403
      @mychannel9403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You must be going blind.

    • @dom_ferris_
      @dom_ferris_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mychannel9403 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @The-Mediator
      @The-Mediator 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what I thought too. I thought she suing her ex-boyfriend until the narrator started introducing the case.

  • @tiasway
    @tiasway 4 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    Honestly more parents should make their kids pay for stupid mistakes like this... why Should your parent have to suffer the consequences of a decision that you made especially if you were old enough to know better

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes! the consequences of your actions!

    • @potentspirit3096
      @potentspirit3096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My pops taught me best when he made me sit 6 nights after I called him and told him I got locked up. Never felt such disappointment over a phone call, I been highly productive and respect him more than ever bc it taught me that I have to fully deal with my own life

    • @patience8290
      @patience8290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@potentspirit3096 exactly how my parents were. They always said, if you ever go to jail, don't call us.

    • @shaniefrancis2102
      @shaniefrancis2102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AGREE

    • @moniquejones6482
      @moniquejones6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@potentspirit3096 i did that to my son. He got in trouble for the dumbest thing. I was like, well sit there. He said it made him more responsible. He's a great young man. No issues before or after that. Have a cool day.

  • @Dymsx86
    @Dymsx86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    $100 a week while he was in prison?! Wow. That is such a blessing and he doesn't even realize it. Some people go to prison and don't get anything from loved ones - not letters, cards, money, or visits. I hope this young man recognizes how much his mother loves him.

    • @mom2babygkaterad946
      @mom2babygkaterad946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I most certainly agree....

    • @SimplyASweetHeart
      @SimplyASweetHeart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is so true!

    • @The-Mediator
      @The-Mediator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He won’t. It’s too late for him. That entitlement will not go away. Next, he’ll move on to using girlfriends.

  • @Tynab
    @Tynab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    When he said that’s what mothers are for... the amount of entitlement of some men/children is incredible. Your mother should not have to be put into financial hardship for your mistake, especially when you are old enough to know better!

    • @The-Mediator
      @The-Mediator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And that’s what JM’s mother already knew and wouldn’t give him a dime when he was in that predicament. More more mothers need to stop spoiling children and hold children accountable when they screw up so that they’re not entitled to begin with. If not, they create little narcissists that they will NEVER change.

  • @damienhall2917
    @damienhall2917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    Judge Mathis be kicking the truth to the young black youth! 👩🏾‍🎓👨🏻‍🎓👩🏾‍🎓

    • @darylmartin6989
      @darylmartin6989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s cuz shorties be trying to wild smoking ses drink beer!

    • @The-Mediator
      @The-Mediator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yet, he still wouldn’t listen to what JM said.

  • @iDreamOfJeanii
    @iDreamOfJeanii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Man, hairlines can really make or break yal. His hairline has him passing as a smooth 40.

    • @allengriggs8894
      @allengriggs8894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lolol 😁😂😆😭

    • @beb5407
      @beb5407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙈🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @nippypinto
      @nippypinto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂

    • @briannadaylon90
      @briannadaylon90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lmao not “a smooth 40” tho 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @G1Z
      @G1Z 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Plus black don’t crack, (unless they smoke it)

  • @ericablige9449
    @ericablige9449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    A Flagger? He needs a Mentor asap.
    Blessings

    • @finessedoffju544
      @finessedoffju544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How do he need blessings

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Flaggers make around $15 per hour to start
      So yes, he needs male guidance to inspire him to strive higher

    • @ericablige9449
      @ericablige9449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@finessedoffju544 😳🤔

    • @ericablige9449
      @ericablige9449 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Live Love 🙏💜

    • @My2lovess
      @My2lovess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Flaggers in Ny make $33 and a lot more if your in a union

  • @gritsnwavy3059
    @gritsnwavy3059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    He’s ungrateful. Talking about it’s ridiculous. 👀

  • @hustle100
    @hustle100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    My parents are gone and i still want to pay them back for what they did for me!

    • @Airsign83
      @Airsign83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bless u🙇🏾‍♀️ be strong and of good cheer

    • @madinahmoore9137
      @madinahmoore9137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts I lost my mom at 15 and my dad at 21 and I’m 28 now....

    • @jasminej6281
      @jasminej6281 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too 😢😢

    • @taylorchristina5309
      @taylorchristina5309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@madinahmoore9137
      Be Strong.
      Revelation 21:3,4
      Soon, no more sickness and Death

    • @rubylove6176
      @rubylove6176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @shanelledavis2607
    @shanelledavis2607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Chile your son is the damn bad crowd lol

  • @payton0427
    @payton0427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    I wonder who is "the bad crowd" every parent claims their kids got "caught up in" since they're NEVER the problem

    • @KellFrr
      @KellFrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      It’s honestly their child and the group. Parents make it out to be like their child just fell into the group but don’t realize their kids are the group

    • @payton0427
      @payton0427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Toxic FN I agree

    • @DeeDiamond2981
      @DeeDiamond2981 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Some parents allow it then complain

    • @payton0427
      @payton0427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Denisa Anthony honestly parents never know what their kids are doing behind their backs.. that’s why I never understood the “bad crowd” thing.. you never know what these kids doing!

    • @Dougie19xx
      @Dougie19xx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SAY THAT AGAIN!!!!!

  • @xquisitty
    @xquisitty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I call it "the spirit of EXPECTATION". The notion these kids have that they're owed something just because they exist. Mama did good! He gone learn today!!

  • @bhdreamer
    @bhdreamer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    We don’t want to hear that peer pressure BS.

    • @KellFrr
      @KellFrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Even Judge Mathis agreed to it though! So yes we do want to hear it

    • @mothersixpack
      @mothersixpack 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly

  • @seekingknowledge4698
    @seekingknowledge4698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Damn he looks older than his mom. Mom look good!!!

  • @DEDE-of3fn
    @DEDE-of3fn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The mom could have forget the money, but, she wanted to teach him a big lesson, instead of senselessly pitying him. That's good mom.

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She's doing the best she can. I'm proud of her

  • @Tracie__91
    @Tracie__91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    Peer pressure lol and he looks 35

  • @johncostello6006
    @johncostello6006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Why does the mother look younger than her son? Lol

    • @zenabeme22
      @zenabeme22 ปีที่แล้ว

      I said the same thing. Dude look like he in his 40s

  • @goldiiilocks5491
    @goldiiilocks5491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The nerve of this young man.... he better shape up because if it happens again I wonder who will be there to help him? 🤔

    • @madmemadhouseme4885
      @madmemadhouseme4885 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His mom will be.
      She'll be right there taking care of his ungrateful self.
      That's why he acts so entitled.
      She needs to love him with some tough love.

  • @NKAB4
    @NKAB4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I thought Alternative Schools...where for kds that acted a plum fool in regular school...

    • @KellFrr
      @KellFrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      not necessarily

    • @JoyJoysWorld
      @JoyJoysWorld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not true. I went to a AS because I was a teen parent, I was on honor roll at the regular school and in the AS. I made the decision to go to the AS because I didn't want to be the odd one out and wanted to be around people like me.

    • @chardiepooh1
      @chardiepooh1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is‼️

    • @kayshawnsimmons6822
      @kayshawnsimmons6822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did too

    • @NKAB4
      @NKAB4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@JoyJoysWorld I guess you learn something new everyday...cus where I’m from the ones that couldn’t act right...all went to alternative schools...

  • @yvettefrancois8192
    @yvettefrancois8192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Let him pay bk every red cent wth his ungrateful an rude self

  • @jennylynwall3424
    @jennylynwall3424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The son quoted “When did you ever hear of someone having to pay their mother back”. Let me tell you something, not only did my father make me pay any money I borrowed back, He charged me interest on top of that. At 2% above prime, calculated daily. When I was much younger ( I am 66 now) I borrowed $5,000 for a new car. I was only 18 with no credit history, so I could not get a bank loan. He even made me get my own insurance policy, and would not put me on his policy. I went to school and was working since I was 12 or 13 years old. I had to make monthly payments on my car and on top of that $50 a week rent. That $5,000 car after all was said and done. After all the payments to my father were made, cost me almost $13,000. You have no idea of how lucky you are to even have a mother to lend you money. She should not had to take you to court. You should buy her flower, take her out to dinner and thank your lucky stars you have such a person in your life!!!!

  • @TalkswithMellow
    @TalkswithMellow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Parents always blame it on other kids. “Hanging with the wrong crowd.” No accountability.

    • @moniquebrown7738
      @moniquebrown7738 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because I guess there’s no such thing as peer pressure! 🙄

  • @nessaverne2811
    @nessaverne2811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    That son really don't appreciate his own mother, now that is son.

  • @kaymorris7029
    @kaymorris7029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Luckily for this young man his mom is classy because any other mom he would of catched them hands and died twice by now. Pay your mom back she looking out for you making sure you do better for yourself that's a good mom show her more respect and be greatful to her.

  • @Jean0987654321
    @Jean0987654321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Not too sure what to say here. The son had his issues but he trying to turn his life around. I gotta give him at least that. But come on, man. Pay back your mom...

    • @Chengetai
      @Chengetai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He also needs to turn that attitude around at the same time! But he’s growing and learning so that’s great

    • @gl3771
      @gl3771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed

    • @MegaLadylove2012
      @MegaLadylove2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even some

  • @charlesmartin7347
    @charlesmartin7347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I'm proud of this great woman and her son .
    He'll learn .

  • @Lady.B0420
    @Lady.B0420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If my children get arrested for negative behavior, I will NOT bail them out, loan them money for bail, or put money on their books. They are in time out. You don't reward them for being bad.

  • @ozdaartist3106
    @ozdaartist3106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s your mom bro just give her the money 🤦🏾‍♂️ Ungrateful

  • @zeezee990
    @zeezee990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She called it a High School 'Diplomer'

    • @chardiepooh1
      @chardiepooh1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I thought I was the only person who heard this. I thought I was trippin lol

    • @Arron413
      @Arron413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's probably a regional dialect!

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She was nervous folks..
      Give her a break

    • @italkalotofshit
      @italkalotofshit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @shysmoov
      @shysmoov 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That second time tho..2:57🤣

  • @ChicagoGuy72
    @ChicagoGuy72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    His mother needs to leave her son behind bars next time. Ungrateful... smh

  • @starrrankin-session1398
    @starrrankin-session1398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Mom didn't know what school her son went too🤔 the audience knew it was a rough school but mom agreed when Mathis asked was the school for over achievers and she said yes😒

  • @lynnlynn9121
    @lynnlynn9121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s just a shame to be in court with your mother and she is the one who beled you out.

  • @marskeins
    @marskeins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm glad she held him to be responsible. Gotta man up sir!!!

  • @KemiReneePiper
    @KemiReneePiper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He threw me off, when Judge Mathis, asked him what did he plan on doing, He said he wanted to do Construction work, but chose the lightest position, a FLAGGER! If you are as smart as you and your mom claim you to be. Why settle for nothing? Then after his mom won the case, he's upset she got him out of a bind, that obviously he couldn't get out on his own, then wanted his mom to excuse $3,000.00 of damage he caused to his potential livelihood. Children can be so UNGRATEFUL! They are grown, defiant, deceitful, and impulsive until they get into trouble, then they become children again! Responsibility and Accountability are key! He comes off as spoiled and entitled and that's TROUBLE!

  • @Firece_Lioness
    @Firece_Lioness 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I finished high school at Alternative School...I wasn't expelled or a trouble student. Just life circumstances no pregnancy. I paid all fees to go to Alternative School myself working at Sears & graduated top of my class & went to college...

  • @TrulyOutrageous
    @TrulyOutrageous 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “i love my son...but i want my money”

    • @madmemadhouseme4885
      @madmemadhouseme4885 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, but she chose to bring him to Judge Mathis over holding him responsible.
      He walked out of the courtroom talking like a punk.

  • @jamesstewart522
    @jamesstewart522 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Seems like she’s bailed him out of a lot of situations. She put way too much on his books. Also she should have only paid half towards his attorney fees and make him pay the rest. He comes across as a little ungrateful.

  • @erickawashington287
    @erickawashington287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Strong Black Sista putting that parenting down.
    That's how you teach em' responsibility...

  • @mandiezie
    @mandiezie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This child IS the wrong crowd ma’am. Lol

  • @bigarie
    @bigarie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He seems so smart I really wish him the best in life ❤️

  • @sweet_tee_vibes
    @sweet_tee_vibes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Alternative school usually means a BAD thing 🤔🤫she already lying

    • @raqui174
      @raqui174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup

    • @t.c.5456
      @t.c.5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don’t think she purposely lied. I think she just doesn’t understand certain words🤦🏿‍♀️😩

    • @kayshawnsimmons6822
      @kayshawnsimmons6822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mental and Behavioral as I know it mean. When she was talking about his school I was 😳😳 what she say🤔🤔

    • @Spikey.D
      @Spikey.D 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not really some ppl go by choice.

  • @tatucorreia
    @tatucorreia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That boy is crazy. She needs to guide him to save for an apartment and tell him to bounce

    • @KellFrr
      @KellFrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How is he crazy? After watching how he turned his life around I bet he is living better than you! Just sayin

    • @tatucorreia
      @tatucorreia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KellFrr he is crazy if he thinks that his mum should not demand the fees she has spent on his lawyer just because she is his mum.
      What makes you assume he is living better than I ? LOL You must be another child.

    • @KellFrr
      @KellFrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tatucorreia no. I’m saying you are calling him crazy but he just explained his life story and he sound like he is a good spot in life🤨 not sure how that makes me a child? But he is on youtube getting views and you are leaving comments, which sound better

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He's not crazy
      He came from a troubled background, and that can affect anyone.
      But he's hardly crazy.
      A " Crazy" person is one who name calls.....

    • @tatucorreia
      @tatucorreia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @B.S. MBA thank you!

  • @Valencia5_11
    @Valencia5_11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doyle and the Defendant were acting like siblings at the end when they were laughing at what she was saying 😂😂😂

  • @patience8290
    @patience8290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He's young. Majority of kids don't realize how great their parents are until they're much older or the parent dies.

  • @esharenee4186
    @esharenee4186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You gone regret treating your mother like that.

  • @arthurfarr7656
    @arthurfarr7656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is the poster child for ungratefulness. Him and millions of others need a lesson in how to be a real man. The world will teach a hard lesson. Hope he survives. Let the lessons begin

  • @hawkblack7698
    @hawkblack7698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He better pay her back now, cause by his attitude he damn sure will need her later.

  • @angeldiannah8306
    @angeldiannah8306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He looks older then his mom

  • @uniquejenkins9014
    @uniquejenkins9014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Is he alright?

    • @darricksmith403
      @darricksmith403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Right something seems off like he’s going through a lot.

  • @jazzboneplaya
    @jazzboneplaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I sure hope he has learned how good his mother is to him since they taped this

  • @higher_pwr8178
    @higher_pwr8178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mother used tough love to hire an attorney to get his charge reduced to a misdemeanor now he must repay her.

  • @mallayadiggs5181
    @mallayadiggs5181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He woulda been left in that jail with nothing, you do the crime then he can do the crime! He is so ungrateful smh

  • @desireeshelley3705
    @desireeshelley3705 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Judge Mathis Mother didn’t play 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾That Beautiful Black Angel knew her son was more than the streets,she knew he would be somebody special Love You Judge Mathis and your story 💕💕

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Look like brother and sister.

  • @TYB26
    @TYB26 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A flagger??🤨 that's it?

    • @kathunter9816
      @kathunter9816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Flagger? Man please!!!! u going to school for a degree in Biology?

    • @moeshamitchell185
      @moeshamitchell185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He just needs career direction. It’s hard to choose a path when you have no clue what you’re doing.

  • @kimberlynoel5635
    @kimberlynoel5635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm taking this parenting tactic for if my son ever did anything stupid that he's gonna need financial help. I'll make him pay me back. Make him sign a note and pay me back

  • @Amar-zz7qs
    @Amar-zz7qs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an ungrateful son....

  • @bettym.3996
    @bettym.3996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonder if those girls' mom thought they were hanging out with the wrong crowd -- meaning her son.

  • @Belle2oo8
    @Belle2oo8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    He said “must be the cigarettes shes smoking” boy you better close your mouth against your mom smh

  • @paulettesalomon2520
    @paulettesalomon2520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I thought alternative school was the school you went to after board of Ed kicked you out....A magnet school was for the gifted aka really smart kids.

  • @gailfulson7384
    @gailfulson7384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's right mama some of the young people today amaze me there is absolutely no way that you would not pay your mother back when she had your back in such a way really

  • @bhdreamer
    @bhdreamer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Honestly. If she was expecting the money back, she shoulda just let him go with the court appointed lawyer... no commissary and no phone. But that’s just me..

    • @KellFrr
      @KellFrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Relax, why are you leaving so many comments😂

  • @pchelloo
    @pchelloo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There is a song by James Brown : "This Is A Man's World" ; therefore, (ladies) >>> the next time HE gets himself in trouble, tell HIM to get out of trouble on HIS own in HIS world.
    Keep your money to yourself, ladies!!!!!

  • @concentratedconversationsp1332
    @concentratedconversationsp1332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He still doesn't get it, his mother shouldve let him sit in jail with no commisary and a public defender

    • @ronica2623
      @ronica2623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope. Under 18 means a criminal record could be expunged depending on the charge.If he gets stuck with an inexperienced defender, it could make things worse...why take the chance. So he could be taught a lesson? That’s not what a good parent would do. Save the lesson teaching for another time.

  • @marskeins
    @marskeins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wrong path you going down dude. Any so called person you hanging out with doing wrong. Trying to get you in trouble isn't your friend. Listen to your mother she ain't gonna tell you nothing wrong.

  • @kaeshalae1
    @kaeshalae1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    LMAOOOO IT MUST BE THE CIGARETTES

  • @72RiviRyda
    @72RiviRyda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Defendant: I wanna do construction Mathis: What type of construction? Defendant: I wanna be a flagger. LMAO. Hope he strives for more.

  • @reneeowens3826
    @reneeowens3826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    WELL , I GUESS THAT $3,600.00 WILL HELP HER , AND LEAVE HIM IN THE HOLE. GREAT JOB MOM. THIS BUILDS GENERATIONAL WEALTH TO THE MAX.SMDH

    • @Chengetai
      @Chengetai 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can see both sides.... Black people should try more to position their children to have higher chances of success but there’s so much against some Black families already that limits that. Unfortunately she likely didn’t have anyone to help her build generational wealth and may not have the earning potential to part with $3600 permanently. Doesn’t sound like he had a male figure support. He also needs to pay for his mistakes so he hopefully won’t do it again. That money could have went into savings for him or a certificate program to advance his career but it went to the State. Total waste. Hopefully he will learn from this. When I moved into an apartment in my early 20s I borrowed my deposit from my mom. She had me sign a promissory note. I didn’t pay her back for years and she only mentioned it once. I eventually gave it back to her cause I never forgot cause it took everything in me to borrow that money. I also felt like well damn you can afford this $850 I’m your child why can’t you just give it to me but she’s done a LOT of other things for me so it is what it is. The mentality often is you have to struggle to appreciate but that’s not the case always.

  • @t.c.5456
    @t.c.5456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I knew the mom didn’t know what the judge was asking. She said alternative school as if it were a good school 🤦🏿‍♀️🙄

  • @mermaidtingzzz
    @mermaidtingzzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She needs to stop wasting her money on him. She's making him complacent and entitled.

  • @briizyfbaby16
    @briizyfbaby16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If entitled was a person!! She could’ve let him suffer in that jail! N ppl love to take advantage of they family talking about “that’s what mothers are for”…boy bye! U need to humble yourself cause she didn’t HAVE to do nothing. She did it out of love, not obligation. Make me sick!

  • @raqui174
    @raqui174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn right pay that money back!!! I applaud her 👏👏👏you play stupid games you win stupid prices!

  • @caroletaylor894
    @caroletaylor894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Young man you should be happy to pay your mother back for what she did for you. She did not have to do it at all. Don't bite the hand the feeds you.

  • @Concertswithkeisha
    @Concertswithkeisha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    he spoiled as hell …pay her

  • @lexwrld999
    @lexwrld999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I went to high school with him 🤣 I’m 23 & he’s younger than me looking 40

  • @melvinmiller4876
    @melvinmiller4876 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have one question if his mother didn't get him a lawyer where would he be I'll answer this myself "STILL IN JAIL"!!!!!!! he better get a grip because the next time she might let him sit there i hope he has learned his lesson

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish we would stop giving single parents credit for doing a bad job.
    He is a product of her child rearing. Amd if he's bad then that's a reflection of her.

  • @amandabarrett2472
    @amandabarrett2472 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I knew the mom was a little slow when she thought the alternative school meant excellence 😅

  • @mhmm3041
    @mhmm3041 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you don’t get yourself together you’ll have to pay your mother and that’s how it is

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate when parents say, "He got with the wrong crowd"...Um ma'am, your kid IS the wrong crowd. Y'all don't realize all your bad azz kids make up this crowd, so stop disassociating your kid like they're innocent and it's just everyone else that's the problem.

  • @jcovent
    @jcovent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Don't make excuses for a 16 year old.

  • @Q.Michael
    @Q.Michael 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have to pay Moms back sir... She put money on your books, love her why she is here because time waits for no man

  • @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596
    @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Guess Some People are Likely To Take Their Mothers For Granted, I Wish I Had Mine, She Passed When I Was 2 and I Will Never Know That Love That His Mother Shows Him.

    • @antonybrown432
      @antonybrown432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Say it again my mom been gone for 12 years I am 58 years old I wish I had my mother back

    • @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596
      @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@antonybrown432 My Condolences and My Real Name is Anthony. 😁

    • @antonybrown432
      @antonybrown432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 thank you for the reply Anthony St Louis in the house

    • @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596
      @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@antonybrown432 No Problem, My Brother. Harlem, N.Y.

  • @boujeebee7592
    @boujeebee7592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This child is ungrateful and he thinks he is entitled to his mothers money smh Lord help him

  • @chardiepooh1
    @chardiepooh1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A flagger?!?!?! I hope he finds someone that can help him see he needs to aim higher.
    Why his mom think the alternative school he attended was for the academically gifted children???

    • @lyndiablack9098
      @lyndiablack9098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because she lies for him, which is the reason he is so irresponsible.

    • @kayangvue30
      @kayangvue30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My exact thought! Heard her bs about his school then ik why he's full of it himself. A flagger, even my toddler can do that with her eyes closed.

    • @chaniramiranda8020
      @chaniramiranda8020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He’s locked up again btw 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @lyndiablack9098
      @lyndiablack9098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chaniramiranda8020 WHAT!!! If it is the same person, I shouldn't be surprised. His mama spoiled him.

  • @tom11zz884
    @tom11zz884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Seems like a good guy and hopefully he stays out of trouble.
    just a product of a bad environment and probably a fatherless home.
    I wish him well in life

    • @lyndiablack9098
      @lyndiablack9098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Having a man in the house, is not a cure all. I have seen homes where the father was there, and the place was in turmoil.

    • @tom11zz884
      @tom11zz884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lyndiablack9098
      I'm talking about having a good man in the house.
      Stop getting so defensive whenever someone says something positive about Black men....geesh.

    • @lyndiablack9098
      @lyndiablack9098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tom11zz884 I am only going by what I have seen as an educator. I also, was a home bound educator. Many things go on in the homes, that are never discussed about a father. I have SEEN so many things in my 23 years as an educator. It appears to me, that YOU are the one that became defensive. However, it is, what it is.

    • @lyndiablack9098
      @lyndiablack9098 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @DJ QuanTeck Yes, I was a single mother, with a son that owns a successful business, who is the father of a daughter, that completed Law School this year, and is now studying for the bar. He also, has another daughter, that is 18 and in her second year of college. Yes, DJ, I was a single mother, that now has a Bachelors and Masters Degree, all PAID FOR, AND WITHOUT THE ASSISTANCE OF MY BIOLOGICAL FAMILY. Can YOU say the same?

    • @lyndiablack9098
      @lyndiablack9098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @DJ QuanTeck I don't put down Black men and I did not put you down, Quan. There are good Black men that are raising their children. There are good Black women that are raising their children. There are BOTH trifling women AND men, with kids. Every case is different. I am glad you are raising your son. Let me give you a word of advice: DON'T BECOME YOUR CHILD'S FRIEND. You are his father, not his buddy. Do the right things in front of your child, let him see you working and/or going to school to improve yourself. DON'T PUT ANY WOMAN BEFORE YOUR CHILD. If you get the SLIGHTEST inclination, that your mate don't like your child, GET RID OF THEM, FAST. Teach your son right from wrong, and MONITOR HIS FRIENDS, AT ALL TIMES. If possible, put your child in a private school and monitor his assignments. Get to know his teachers and give them your telephone number and make yourself available. Being a single parent, involves SACRIFICES, A LOT OF THEM, but it may be worth it in the end. I use the word "may" because you can give your child everything, and they will still let you down, but as long as you know you did your best, you will be able to sleep with a clear conscious.
      Good luck, Quan. I believe your son will be an asset to our community.

  • @kaylejanae6298
    @kaylejanae6298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She shouldn’t have paid for the lawyer in the first place

  • @moubear32
    @moubear32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You shouldn't smoke weed at all Judge. 😉👍

  • @Al-pe7le
    @Al-pe7le 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enough is enough! I have to it then. SHE IS GORGEOUS💯

  • @theexisting1197
    @theexisting1197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He's ungrateful,..

  • @mrshappilymarried1
    @mrshappilymarried1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He needs a mentor asap....

  • @jayjay24241
    @jayjay24241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mind state on lending money is im prepared to never see that money again.

  • @nenenord6320
    @nenenord6320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well next time no lawyers. Leave him in the jail then if he won't pay for his crimes! That's so ungrateful!!!! Stay in jail cause mom has no bail!! Enjoy!

  • @marionweeks5953
    @marionweeks5953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kids today are so spoiled

  • @homandevice
    @homandevice 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im from Chicago as well he lucky his moms was the type she is thats definitely not the normal he don't understand that if you wasn't get into trouble you wouldn't even been in court to reimburse her these kids gotta get it together str8 up

  • @naturalanimals8902
    @naturalanimals8902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He sounds like the product of a single mother.

    • @NettaYuup
      @NettaYuup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. Where is his dad? Shame on him for abandoning his child and leaving a woman to raise a man.

  • @FreeeJ
    @FreeeJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    was judge mathis talking about lil jojo?

  • @VirgoCali89
    @VirgoCali89 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank God he got his life together

  • @corporateraider77
    @corporateraider77 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Google him. He’s back in jail. I knew it. When he said his life goal is to be a construction road flagger that pretty much said it all. One bad decision after the next.