5 years ago my husband was in a catastrophic accident at work and he was in the hospital for two months. You learn what the words “for better or worse, sickness or health, richer or poorer”, really mean. We actually meant those words when we said them to each other 42 years ago, and we still mean them now. We’re glad that the incident is in our rear view mirror, but we know that we can handle anything that life throws at us…TOGETHER
Not all women are like this. People have told me my mans a bum because i make more money than him. Hes not perfect but hes the closest thing to what i want aa far as a partner. He does things money cant buy and thats what i love about him ❤
Now that she has lost a good man, she’s going to start comparing every man she dates with the ex and more than likely they will not measure up. Her loss. She’s also going to envy any woman he ends up with. Hopefully she’ll grow up. Lesson learned.
You can see it in her face when she started to really get it. "You might not be able to make the sun shine but you can at least give him a lollipop..." Facts! The next man will probably make her understand what she HAD.....
"A Marriage Works Both Ways!! It's Not Just About The Bride!! It's About The Groom As Well And Vise Versa!! " It Is Also A Commitment From Both Parties!! " No One's PERFECT!!❤❤
“Nobody is ever gonna be perfect, and you most certainly are not perfect”. Well said. “For better or for worse” We should all remember those vows and “take it or leave it”. It is what it is, y’all. SAD. Words of wisdom, indeed. AMEN!!
Judge Lynn Toler is 21 years, 6 months, 19 days older than me. I always thought she was a good looking woman even though she's old enough to be my mother.
He married a taker. But men become in love and we give so much that you don’t realize she is smiling and happy BUT she ain’t returning the favor. A man must be in control of his emotions.. anger AND love. Because BOTH can blind you… speaking from experience.
Preach! As soon as happiness, which you have to constantly work on in a relations turns into “for better or worse”. Women are quick to dump their man. Meanwhile, our grandparents stayed during the tough seasons. Women today want the glamorous wedding not the marriage. Worst part is they not learning they think the grass is still greener on the other side. A real rude awakening is coming to western women and any other women, whose mentality is like that woman.
If mothers taught their daughters how to treat good men divorce would be less of a option in this country for sure! Modern day women often have no idea what a good man is because their mothers didn’t know or they learned too late that they chose guys who turned them on, you know, the bad boy type, yet he was not a good choice in the long run because he didn’t stick around after he got her pregnant or he left a bad impression on her! Not a father at all so now mothers become bitter and start blaming all men, daughters and even granddaughters take on this mindset! Now it’s all about being selfish because they were hurt in the past! Get over yourself ladies!
My wife understands life isn’t perfect but she knows my commitment is there for her including all of the kids including ones I didn’t father! Those kids are people too and I know they will respect what I did for them too and will look out for me as I get old too!
These are the women they look for, marry and this happen. Then they get bitter and ruin a good woman cause they didn't take the time out to heal, pray and be led by God. Same ish just a different day🤷🏾♀️
Some women are just impatient and disrespectful. Gotta stick through thick and thin if your partner is really trying support him anyway you can. Inspire him to be better, help him relax, if you are communicating with them and you know he is true he will have your back too! It’s a relationship/partnership for reason. Anyone abandoning a person when they are going through a trial aren’t worth it.
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The judge said it best. Foolish
The husband is like; finally someone understands.
Words of wisdom....is powerful when you accept it
She is the realest Judge I have ever seen… so full of wisdom and great advice.
I always say "THE GOOD MEN ARE WITH THE WRONG SET OF WOMEN" perfect example right here.
We need more mothers like her❤
5 years ago my husband was in a catastrophic accident at work and he was in the hospital for two months. You learn what the words “for better or worse, sickness or health, richer or poorer”, really mean. We actually meant those words when we said them to each other 42 years ago, and we still mean them now. We’re glad that the incident is in our rear view mirror, but we know that we can handle anything that life throws at us…TOGETHER
The sad part is that these are the women that get the good men the ones that use them play with him but don't really want them for keeps 🥺
She will be regretful, because the next man will not have all of his good qualities and he probably will have many flaws that she won't like.
I love Judge Tolers honesty and wisdom. I miss her on television. I know she is dealing with her own personal issues.
I know those words touched her. She will be replaying them in her head for the rest of her life
Judge Lynn Tolar is such a beautiful woman. 🙌🏽👑🤩
When she said I’m glad you’re getting a divorce you know she fucked up
And thats from a lady who still appreciate her husband even though he is passed away
many good men end up with bad women, and many good women end up with bad men. why can't the good folk find each other?! 🥺
She will regret this and become bitter
Choose wisely, healthy relationships are possible but they require effort from both parties no matter who you are.
That wife was a mess. She gave her husband so much disrespect and he was doing all he could.
If only the good women could meet up with the good men from the get go. Lord help
Not all women are like this. People have told me my mans a bum because i make more money than him. Hes not perfect but hes the closest thing to what i want aa far as a partner. He does things money cant buy and thats what i love about him ❤
I’m convinced sometime that women are so deeply soul broken that they project there hurt on quality men that just wants to love you
KNOWLEDGE KNOWLEDGE KNOWLEDGE....I LOOOOVE HER SOOOOO MUCH
Now that she has lost a good man, she’s going to start comparing every man she dates with the ex and more than likely they will not measure up. Her loss. She’s also going to envy any woman he ends up with. Hopefully she’ll grow up. Lesson learned.
Judge you are so true.
Teach!!!!
PREACH!!
All women should hear this 💯
Bring it out judge❤❤
I'm really glad that she listened and that tear in her eye makes me feel like she took it in at least I hope so.
The part when she said the marriage was about you. People are like that selfish dont care about what their partner is going through.
You can see it in her face when she started to really get it. "You might not be able to make the sun shine but you can at least give him a lollipop..." Facts! The next man will probably make her understand what she HAD.....
Judge Toler, thank you for the Words of Wisdom. I 🙏🏾 that someone else will listen.
"A Marriage Works Both Ways!! It's Not Just About The Bride!! It's About The Groom As Well And Vise Versa!! " It Is Also A Commitment From Both Parties!! " No One's PERFECT!!❤❤
She will never be satisfied because she. Seeks perfection. The only perfect one on earth rose again on the third day.
A lot of women need to hear this. BLACK MEN HAVE FEELINGS TOO!
Straight up love her no sides taken when it comes to the truth
She is so wise, love listening to her
“Nobody is ever gonna be perfect, and you most certainly are not perfect”. Well said. “For better or for worse” We should all remember those vows and “take it or leave it”. It is what it is, y’all. SAD. Words of wisdom, indeed. AMEN!!
Some really don't care. They actually just get bored.. kinda like kids.
I went thru the same thing with my marriage the judge is obsolutley right..
Ms Rivera singing”Baby can i chaaannngggeee my mind”
You take the "bitter w/the sweet"! Break it down ---Tell her Judge Toler......
She didn't expect to hear foolish
Well said
If you can't hug him at his worst
He shouldn't ever hug you at his best 🤷🏾♂️.
Truthful judge
Judge Lynn Toler is 21 years, 6 months, 19 days older than me. I always thought she was a good looking woman even though she's old enough to be my mother.
That beautiful woman is dropping so much wisdom!!!
Send the man my way😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
Truth hurts!
She just described the vast majority of modern women in a nutshell
Hopefully he will get the peace he deserves……
This is the greatest woman i ve ever seen on the internet God bless you Mom ❤️
I’m not even with this dude, and I feel at fault and need to apologize. 😂😊Love Judge T. ❤
This judge is awesome!
He married a taker. But men become in love and we give so much that you don’t realize she is smiling and happy BUT she ain’t returning the favor. A man must be in control of his emotions.. anger AND love. Because BOTH can blind you… speaking from experience.
Her husband is FINE. I would treat him very well with reciprocation.
I just love it when a WOMAN puts a girl in her place
well said judge. That woman is foolish. I agree with her words
Snapple fact's WOW the truth 😂😂😂
A raise for this Judge RIGHT NOW !! 😂❤ BLESS YOU JUDGE
It's terrible when anyone gets with someone and want the person to be perfect
Modern American women, nothing else to say. Judge knows she old school
My fears of marriage are all based in the fact that I wasn't equipped to pre-judge these type of women in my adolescent years😯😔😞🥺👏🏿
She said that to 1 women but I think that a whole generation of women needs to hear this!
Preach! As soon as happiness, which you have to constantly work on in a relations turns into “for better or worse”. Women are quick to dump their man. Meanwhile, our grandparents stayed during the tough seasons. Women today want the glamorous wedding not the marriage. Worst part is they not learning they think the grass is still greener on the other side. A real rude awakening is coming to western women and any other women, whose mentality is like that woman.
I went through the same thing in my marriage guess what I did✌🏾
Amen Judge....Amen !!👍👍👍👍👍😏😏
True and real talk, she is definitely right, go tell it on the mountain 🌄, great wisdom of the judge...I congaselate her...
Judge lynn just told me why I shouldn't get married. If people self reflect they will be happier. Know yourself and you can live your best life.
Yaaaaaaaass this is much needed
For the first 3 seconds the jezebel thought the judge was on her side. 😂😂
These jezebels are a thorn in a man's peace.
To quote the Late Great Bobby Womack "If you think you're lonely NOW, wait until TONIGHT......GIRL!!" 🎼🎵🎶
If mothers taught their daughters how to treat good men divorce would be less of a option in this country for sure! Modern day women often have no idea what a good man is because their mothers didn’t know or they learned too late that they chose guys who turned them on, you know, the bad boy type, yet he was not a good choice in the long run because he didn’t stick around after he got her pregnant or he left a bad impression on her! Not a father at all so now mothers become bitter and start blaming all men, daughters and even granddaughters take on this mindset! Now it’s all about being selfish because they were hurt in the past! Get over yourself ladies!
People need to learn about the 80-20 rules
Preach 👌💯
We need more women out here speaking like this to other women. Men saying this won’t cut it.
My wife understands life isn’t perfect but she knows my commitment is there for her including all of the kids including ones I didn’t father! Those kids are people too and I know they will respect what I did for them too and will look out for me as I get old too!
CHECKMATE!!!
That’s the truth ❤
most. black. women. need. to. hear. this. !!!!
LET HER KNOW JUDGE 🔥🎯
Preach it sister. Very true.
All i can say is... men need ti CHOOSE BETTER as well!
She's not the only one
THE MOST INTELLIGENT AND EMOTIONAL STATEMENT I HAVE EVER HEARD !! GIVE HIM A LOLLIPOP !! WOW
These are the women they look for, marry and this happen. Then they get bitter and ruin a good woman cause they didn't take the time out to heal, pray and be led by God. Same ish just a different day🤷🏾♀️
i love that she puts both men and women in their place without favouring anyone with feminist nonsense..
She couldn't believe the words being thrown at her.
These women now are something else smh, its so hard to find a good woman these days
I love this woman!!!!!!!!! Her words of wisdom are greatly needed. I appreciate her sooooo.
Checked and checkmate!!!
Some women are just impatient and disrespectful. Gotta stick through thick and thin if your partner is really trying support him anyway you can. Inspire him to be better, help him relax, if you are communicating with them and you know he is true he will have your back too! It’s a relationship/partnership for reason. Anyone abandoning a person when they are going through a trial aren’t worth it.
They’ll keep hopping and hoping but it will NEVER be perfect! Wake up!!!
Truth Hurts 🔥🔥But We Must Love ❤️ People 🙏🏾 Who and Where They Are At And Grow ❤️❤️Together 👑👑
A whole lot of women need to hear advice like this!
Truth ❤
I love judge Lynn she always gives great advice and a verbal lashing when it's called for.
Amen Judge💯🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I swear I've experienced this. I felt this and working on recognizing my worth.