I am so glad you discovered the rot before something collapsed. I know it was an awful surprise. (Imho, your home inspector needs to be held accountable.) Hang in there, sending hope and good wishes. The door is lovely.
The rot at the soffit-front edge-of the garage, is something the inspector should have caught. The deck above and the garage horizontal support beam being rotted out is a serious structural issue and has nothing to do with the bathroom, or the insides of interior walls. @@UntetheredBanshee
@@lovingmayberry307Could you give a time stamp? Austin says they discovered the rot when taking off plywood so I'm curious where it was visible prior. In the shots of the garage in the terrace vid you couldn’t see it. He also noted he only suspected rot and they’re both quite surprised by it even though they live in the space so it’s interesting to see that mere subscribers saw the rot prior
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with all that rotted wood. At least once it is taken care of you will be confident it was done right. That may not be much comfort currently but hopefully in the future it will make you feel more secure.
My parents did cork for the floors of one of their houses. It was beautiful. It was warm (both in tone and in temperature), soft underfoot, and dampened sound. It was easy to clean and was very forgiving. I think you’ll love it. I can well imagine how disheartening and overwhelming it is to suddenly be faced with a much bigger project, but it is absolutely for the best in the long term to have discovered all that rot and to deal with it now. You’ll feel so much better about the integrity of your home when it’s done.
I grew up with cork flooring and I miss it dearly! As it has been said: it's so forgiving und gives a warm feeling. If I were to renovate, it'd choose cork floors again
Really love how real Becky is. Doesn’t gloss over it, instead faces it head on with real emotion while also trying to stay positive. It’s so refreshing.
Yeah, this is home ownership. I don't know many people (myself included) who haven't purchased a home (including new builds) that have not encountered challenges when renovating. It's the nature of the beast. Deep breaths and feel grateful you were able to find and deal with them before the renovation and not after. Sending Big Hugs. It does get better.
I would actually like a video of the process because some homeowners that bought a house could use some insight/inspiration if they ever come across a similar problem. Plus it’s just very interesting!
As much as it totally sucks to have to put your bathroom plans on hold, getting the nonsexy structural repairs done first is definitely where you should be prioritizing your time. BUT I think most of us following this series and Kelsey’s reno would love to see that part too. Unexpected repairs are a part of home ownership and usually not something you see until you’re in the thick of it yourself. It’s nice to see how someone else handles the same issues you might have to face yourself. I too have a bathroom that is crying out for a reno but I’ve been afraid of what I might find in the walls. Your experience has me more firmly decided to install a second bathroom before I rip out the first just in case the main bathroom turns into something bigger than planned.
Honestly, this is THE MOST relatable content I have seen from The Sorry Girls, from the homeowner side of things. I feel so much for you, Becky but it'll all be ok. I remind myself of that everyday when starting new projects in my old, old house. Here for this journey with you! It's totally ok to feel overwhelmed when something becomes more daunting and scary (and expensive). But give yourselves grace and take some deep breaths. Asking for help is not a defeat. You got this!
I inherited my mothers house when she passed last fall and finding bad surprises like wood rot has been my life lately lol so I feel for you! That deck getting water on both sides (humidity through bathroom ceiling plus exterior rain pooling) seems like a recipe for disaster; definitely glad you're finding the rot sooner than later. Regarding tiles, I had a matte black kitchen counter at one point in my life and it showed EVERY spill/stain so honestly I think in a bathroom that will have lots of moisture and probably some water splashes, glossy is the way to go tbh. I think the darker brown w/ faded edge would look stellar. Really love those amber honey tiles omg 😍 Also you say you'll tackle it offline because it's not exciting - as a new homeowner like you I actually would be very excited to see what happens and how you solve the potential for wood rot!
And i agree- id love to see the whole process. Im sure so many people get surprised by this stuff and id love to see how you and your contractor tackle it.
Watching Becky fight back tears is breaking my heart. It will work out and thank good ness you found out before you were sitting on your deck and fell through the roof!!🥰🥰
I feel for the both of you. Homes of a certain age sometimes don't let you choose what to do next, sometimes they choose for you. I've lived in houses over 250 years old and each day held a new surprise and opportunity to expand my skill set. The good news is you will learn and grow. Thanks for sharing your odyssey :)
I really appreciate your dedication to sourcing mostly second-hand! Thank you for being kind to the environment, and giving all of these things a new life to shine and be appreciated. Makes me so happy!
ahh i really feel for you Becky! we bought our 100 + year old home a few years back thinking it will be a quick update job since it didnt look so bad - paint some walls, put in some new floors we thought. But the house had other plans and we ended up needing to do a total gut job (new electrical, new plumbing, new foundations) that took us 1.5 years with zero experience in the pandemic - So i understand how you feel! i really do, but believe me, you will get through it, and even though these seem like such setbacks, its actually good you're discovering and addressing these issues - you will have a safe and wonderful home at the end of this (and whether you want it or not you will learn a lot too :P). Good luck! just take it one step at a time and you'll get there.
I really appreciate how candid you are about your struggles with this project. The builder for my loft renovation went bust, stealing my life savings and leaving us with a completely unliveable home - I've pretty much stopped watching DIY TH-camrs because it hurts so much to see other people succeed in making their houses nicer when mine is going so terribly, so it's oddly comforting to hear someone else be a bit overwhelmed with their project ❤️
Oh, the joys of home ownership. You rocked the door project, Becky! Your new plan also seems solid. If you can take more room from the garage, do it. You won’t be sorry. Remember laundry hamper space is nice to have in a bathroom, and HEATED FLOORS.
First things first - safety! You and Austin are lucky you found the rotting before investing too far and having to start from scratch all over again, and that you know to consult field experts in a very scary situation. All that said, you should still vlog this adventure. It's a hands-on account of home-ownership that isn't taught well enough for those of us who prefer to DIY but need to see real-life cases of when to step aside and further educate ourselves!
Not me watching this with a cold and crying when Becky kept it real at the end. Then I got SO excited to see your marketplace finds--I can't imagine the rollercoaster of emotions you must be feeling Becky and Austin! Thanks for being honest with the process. You are amazing and I can't wait for part 3!
Cork flooring is awesome! I have loved the warmth, durability and softness of our cork floors over the years. Word of caution, water. Standing water will warp the cork, especially along the seams, so just dry the floor if any water lands there. Love your door fix and sleek sliding hanger! I feel for you and Austin. 🫶🏼
Love the new bathroom plan, looks much more efficient. Would recommend to shift the vanity a little closer to the window so you can maximise the natural light AND avoid the infinite reflection of the two mirrors! I wouldn't go with the dark tiles in the shower, I think it will make your bathroom smaller and the shower area very dark. Best of luck with the renovations of the garage and the deck ❤
This gives you more time to really figure out what you want in the bathroom (and time to source everything)and possibly upgrade the patio/ garage area.
14:30 Oh, Becky this is heartbreaking and terrifying 😢 Austin is a wonderful man; his expertise, calm and total commitment to your shared dreams are goals. Your approach to this setback is inspiring - and that is one of main reasons The Sorry Girls is a favourite, and successful. Big hugs from a longtime fan on Vancouver Island ❤🤗
Aw, I know you're disappointed about putting the bathroom on hold, and that's ok! I, personally, am invested in seeing the fixes to your garage as well as the Great Bathroom Comeback. You got this!!
I think a lot of people would want to get rid of the 70’s look and renovate into the more modern farm house style, but I love how you guys are almost kind of reverse renovating and taking it back! So cool! Can’t wait to see the finished product!
Wow! Becky, I'm so sorry for you and Austin having to go through this. You show great resilience and woman, are you strong! It was sooo nice to see Austin backing you, too! Your finds are gorgeous and your bathroom is going to look amazing! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Good luck with the issues you've discovered and here's hoping that it's a very limited issue. Sending a big hug to both of you.
You're videos are aways inspiring. A few notes here: First it's not as overwhelming as it may seem. All mountains can be climbed and you will make it over this one. Sure it's tough but it's reward is higher and the experience greater...but it is absolutely doable. Second you are a conqueror with a successful business and multiple finished projects to prove it. Asking for help IS breaking down the barrier in front of you. Which is smart!! The genius is knowing when to use a compass or map to conqueror the mountain. You now know the layout of the forrest in front of you so there is no fear or worry because you have an answer. It's not IF you get it all done but WHEN you get it all done. The how will take care of itself as you move forward. Third there is the Thomas Edison effect. The "Let's find out" attitude he had toward making the light bulb. I've watched you use this same attitude time and time again in projects and succeed. Remember: The mystery is the magic. The not knowing whats on the other side of the mountain is why we climb it. YOU WILL, IN THE TOO FAR DISTANT FUTURE LOOK IN THAT NEW BATHROOM MIRROR, SMILE AND SAY, "WOW WE DID IT." Hope this helps and finds you happy, healthy, and smiling.
absolutely eating this design UP! The layers of texture/pattern/color are so delicious; and I completely agree that finding these elements second-hand really allows for a more unique and creative overall design - so much more room for random inspiration, blending of styles, and creativity. This space is going to be so cozy and luxe. You guys are killing it, in spite of all the unexpected surprises
Oh, Becky I really feel for you! I own a 100 year old farmhouse that was built by farmers (ie NOT skilled tradesmen) and has been added to and extended numerous times over the years. My first 3 years were spent solely on fixups; a total restump, rewire and replumb. I didn't have a proper kitchen for 10 years, at times I had no walls to the outside (imagine waking up with a cow looking at you) and part of the roof in my makeshift kitchen just wasn't there for many years (I live in a warm climate). I'm just in the process of rebuilding the only remaining original part of the old verandah and this old building is still throwing problems at me. You will get through this. At times you just want to cry, but if you take solace in the really nice bits you've made already and keep your vision clear in your head you'll be OK. I'm cheering you on from the other side of the world!
I’m loving the cork tile and other elements you have sourced for the bathroom. Cork is a great product, sustainable, warm, and soft underfoot (perfect for bare feet in a bathroom!). All the best for resolving the rot - the effort will be worth it!
I also bought a older home and went from remodeling a bathroom to rebuilding it. It's so disheartening at first but 6 years later it was SO WORTH IT to have it be exactly what we want and need.
love the honey colored tile you found secondhand, so cool!!! although dealing with the rot will be a pain, it's great that you found it now and can deal with it properly once and for all!
Im so glad you found the water damage before you finished the bathroom. It’s devastating that you can’t make progress on the fun renovation bits but it’s so good that you’re doing it right and not quick.
I am so sorry that you're running into all those (expensive!) problems, but I love your attitude and I love the bathroom mood board and the choices you're making. It is going to be absolutely gorgeous when finished. Brava! Brava!
Oh Becky! That's so hard when an exciting project turns much bigger, harder and not so fun. You'll get there. It sounds like you've got some really great pieces! Looking forward to seeing the next part of this renovation!
So sorry that this turned into such a huge project--but am glad you found it out now rather than later! The bathroom aesthic is really interesting. It reminds me of the African savannas and the Australian outback--conglomerants of unique textures and dusty tones. I wonder what some sage/pale green accents might add to the space. Of course, you could keep the warm tones and add more amber and honey shades and go for that 70's color scheme. Excited to see how it turns out!
I love how you’re showing the whole tedious process of renovating/building, which feels validating tbh. Living through a reno is a true test of patience & endurance 🤗
So sorry to hear it 🥺I loved how Becky gets the spark back from talking about new amazing finds! When the time comes we will be here for the epic bathroom comeback! 🔥
I love seeing how you use second-hand items and try to avoid buying things new. Love the door and love the ikea options! Personally, I would use this extra time to reconsider the toilet next to the shower. Or install a wall that provides a sense of privacy. Go you! I hope you show where it goes from here. I really enjoy watching!
I love that you don’t shy away from sharing challenges and how you resolve them. There is a saying… “Smooth waters do not make better sailors” and the Sorry Girls are pretty wicked “sailors” at this point. ❤
If its not too late to redesign I would suggest putting the shower along the back wall and then putting the toilet either next to the vanity on whichever side. Having the shower coming into the middle of the space like make it feel like it takes up a lot of space visually. Good luck with all of the renos!
I’m always impressed with you and the whole Sorry Girls team focus on reuse and second hand. I agree that it’s not only better for the environment and budget, it can be a creative boon. I also appreciate you showing the reality of home ownership. I think it’s easy for people to gloss over the realities of what taking care of a house involves. As for the flooring, that looked like cork plank flooring on a HDF backer. While I’d personally be ok with installing that in a kitchen or ensuite, I’d be very cautious of a full bathroom. The cork itself is not the concern but if any moisture gets in between the planks where they join and starts to get absorbed by that backer board, it will swell and pop the tiles, ruining your floor. The biggest concern would be the shower flooring to cork transition. So definitely look into this more. The burled cork is *chefs kiss so I wouldn’t want to see it ruined.
you got this Becky! Things like this just happen on older homes. Think about the positives..like that you can get this fixed and build it back exactly the way you wanted. You are blessed! The decor and pieces are awesome, I know it will be amazing.
Becky!! I feel your pain completely. My husband and I started to plan our dream kitchen late last year and once we started removing the old kitchen we realised we had a huge rot problem… which neither of us saw coming. This rot issue had also spread to our dining room and meant for a good portion of this year we had our kitchen in our spare bedroom 😵 I can so relate to the pain of feeling overwhelmed and when you feel you can’t fix it yourself. A year on and we have just received our new kitchen, we’re busy fitting all the new cabinets and we are on to the fun decorating and styling bits. Make sure you get some great professional outside help, get multiple quotes and opinions and take your time….. it will all come good in the end. Your beautiful home is worth all the love and attention ❤ Much love
Oh Becky! I’m so sorry that you’re finding all of these problems. But it is better they are found and resolved now rather than later. I love all the choices! That door is gorgeous! Great idea with the two vanities and that cork flooring! That is going to be a warm on your feet! I love cork flooring. The tiles! Oh my goodness! They are beautiful. You are doing the right thing by pausing and when you’re ready to begin your project again, you will be ready to go! Donna
I felt this one. I am so excited to see the reveal (mostly because I just want all the bad stuff done for you), but LOVE the decor direction so much! Sending you all the good reno-vibes in the world that it'll work out. Also, good thing you found it all and not when you got a heavy snow or someone was hurt.
You just solved my vanity issue because of plumbing! I never thought of splitting them up that way, THANKS SO MUCH!!!! Good luck with your bigger than planned renovation. Peace friend. ❤
thank you for sharing your renovation experience, even the parts that are hard. What you are doing right now is not the fun, pretty or exciting side of renovations, but this is the real honest stuff. I’m so glad you found the damage now and not later. I would still love to see the garage repair and getting to the good stuff, maybe a series of shorts if you don’t want a whole video dedicated to it? On a lighter note, that cork floor!!! My sister rented a home built in the 60’s and the dining room had cork floors! Very mid-century modern. They were amazing on bare feet! So warm and soft.
I feel your pain, with the renovations etc. Having been there/done that I know how frustrating it can all be. It will get better and be beautiful when it is all finished. Keep the Faith!!!
awesome vidéo like usual and I would be very interested to follow up on the garage /deck rescue (I don't own a house but it could be useful to those who do)
Great video! I know it’s frustrating and even scary to have to fix serious issues, but it means those are GONE after they’re addressed. One thing you might want to do (budget willing) is put in either an electric heated floor, or a floor warmed by a boiler (depending on budget and other infrastructure). I’m so excited for your expanded bath potential and the direction you’re taking it to. Yay for all of you!!!🌺
I completely understand how you’re feeling right now. I’m a first time home owner and ooooh my gosh, the amount of frustration that I’ve gotten myself into is overwhelming. My husband and I knew it would need a bit of renovating, we just didn’t know how much it would be. We’re new to all of this and we’ve accidentally bought a huge fixer upper. A lot of money needs to go into it and we just can’t afford it. But hey, we’ve got a roof over our heads and we know this home will be worth it. ❤ sending you much love and positivity ❤️
Thankful that you found out the problem so you can fix it. Rot is major... when you're done with the major fixes, the bathroom that you're planning is gonna be beautiful!!!
Gosh. I feel your overwhelm. Thank you for showing us the downs as well as the ups. I hope the problems end and you’re able to fix the structural beams/rotting … and you don’t have to sell ur place ❤
It's a really good thing that you found out about the big support beam. It's important to replace that. It's a good news/bad news situation. The joy's of home ownership.😣
20:55 The cork floor is gorgeous, and the onyx tile is lovely! I also love the dark tile, and in a matte version it would be really amazing. Everything you have found is perfect. I can’t wait to see how it comes together. You know, the big project having to be done first has given you time to keep hunting for the dark second hand tile that is perfect?
This happens to us all, BUT you will be so happy when the foundation of your future bathroom is sound. I am rooting for Austin and you. I can tell you are trying so hard not to be discouraged....but the stuff you showed for the future bathroom looks amazing. Can't wait to see the final product.
I am currently renovating my house, for a while I had an overwhelm meltdown at least once a month as each project took longer than I wanted or the trade I hired did a job I had to have redone… but I now cook in a kitchen made entirely of my own hands …. It’s the greatest feeling in the world … keep going you got this … the overwhelm moments are part of what makes it worth it ❤❤❤
I'm sorry for you both but seeing you both have the ability to joke and smile through this trying time speaks volumes about yours and Austins character. It's also incredibly brave to know when you've reached your limit and ask for help. I hope this is a fast process, can't wait to see the result.
Austin is so cute and positive. I'm glad you guys have each other for this process, house renos of older homes is always such drama and extra money. You're doing good!!! KEEP GOING SQUAD
I'm so sorry about all the challenges you're facing. but consider it a blessing that you discovered it now before doing all that other work and then risking having the structure collapse. You will get there! As for the bathroom ideas themselves ... the door is brilliant! I've been looking at a similar door slide system for my furnace room (which I eventually want to make the laundry room as well), and it was so neat to see it in action. Plus, the door you found is beautiful! The cork flooring is super funky and totally works with your aesthetic. My sister and BIL did their basement in cork and it's beautiful. It looks fantastic with all their wood trim, so I'm sure it will be gorgeous when you get your wood ceiling in there, too. I love those IKEA vanities. Never though of having two - that's brilliant! I hope you're managing to focus on the positive aspects of this project and all the design work you can do working up to the project. But take your time. Get yourself emotionally and mentally in a place where you feel okay about getting that garage dealt with. Sadly, this is home ownership, especially with older homes. My house was built in 1976 and believe me, I've found some strange things that I still need to address. Imagine how much more you'll love the house when you have that solid new garage in place.
Cork is super nice and wam, but it is a porous material and I'm not sure it's suitale for a bathrom, especially since you have already had problems with leaking water. Additionaly, it takes a lot of care to keep it looking good and prevent chipping/scratches because its very soft.
Becky, I know what y'all are going through it so overwhelming. The blessing is you have Austin to walk with you while you both figure it out. Sending you positive vibes that the rot is behind you and it doesn't go too far! LOVE THE DOOR!!!😍
While I would have loved to see a grand reveal, I truly appreciate that you are showing the reality of homeownership…I am a new homeowner in my late twenties and have had a handful of my own issues pop up over the past few years. It’s reassuring to know that EVERYONE faces their own issues and has to power through them. Wishing you luck and light on your journey!
love this idea and the textures! I recently visited a home with a lovely cork floor in the bathroom - it was gorgeous but I'd caution that even leaving a bath mat on the floor gave the homeowners a heart attack - they were so worried about moisture since cork is easily damaged. maybe consider a tiled option for the shower exit or a non-absorbent bath mat in your decor! good luck with the rot situation - been there and it's both daunting and expensive. I hope it goes well and that you can get the work done quickly!
Brilliant fix for the bottom of the door! You're so smart. Hang in there on the garage fix! It's all gonna get better!! I know what you're going through...our house was built in 1926, and we have had "surprises" too... grit your teeth. I love your choices of tile, vanity etc, It's gonna be beautiful!❤❤❤
Ceiling should be cedar wood tongue and groove!!! Resists rot. MEGA importanto And your beautiful rural property deserves every bit of this TLC. In future you will know, it was just time well spent. I’m old, been there, done that! Love yous and your energies ❤❤
My first thought: oh yeah now you can make the bathroom larger!! I love the two vanities idea! It makes perfect sense for usage and for decor! Yes, it is over-whelming and also be thankful that you found all of this now and not later when it got worse. Sending hugs.
I am so grateful that we bought my husband's grandparent's house and they were the ones who built the house. My mother in law and my husband both grew up in the house, so there haven't been any surprises. Like, all the crazy stuff that comes with renovations is still there, but we know about it already. Just knowing about it ahead of time has made it sooo much less stressful than finding surprises as we go
Omg 🤩🤩 everything you found on marketplace, never knew cork floors existed and that it was something that I wanted, now I do! 😅 It will be so beautiful with the DIY tile vanity area 🤩 Love that you showed us the hardship of discovering the rot and I know you will do an amazing job with making your home well again, and we will all be here watching, supporting and getting inspired ❣️❣️❣️
You take your time, I just moved and our apartment needed more fixings than we expected. They're all cosmetic but still out of our norm. So this really put things back into perspective. All of these things just lead us to learning and this reminded me of that. Thank you
Oh man this is always such a risk when buying an old house (and honestly some new houses these days) but it’s a blessing in disguise when you discover this and now everything will be new and safe. Hang in there!
The wood siding of my house was rotting too and while it was a pain and expensive to fix, when it's fixed I guarantee you'll feel so much better. A wood moisture meter helped give me confidence in what wood should stay and what should go.
I’d love to see the process of the repairs even if it not diy. Also what great second hand finds! I’m so glad you found the rot BEFORE renovating the bathroom instead of finding later down the road and having to undo everything after the fact. Sending love!
I love the onyx and the cork. I think it will look spectacular. Your frustration with facing the rotted wood is so much the way projects can go. It is the hard part and it would make me cry, too. You are going to get through this and be so proud of the result - and yourselves - it will be grand. (This really should have shown up in your pre-purchase home inspection. And, though they are not happy to admit it, inspectors have insurance for this reason. Best of luck.)
I am so glad you discovered the rot before something collapsed. I know it was an awful surprise. (Imho, your home inspector needs to be held accountable.) Hang in there, sending hope and good wishes. The door is lovely.
They don't open walls, they aren't responsible unless I missed where they said the rot was visible without ripping out the bathroom?
The rot at the soffit-front edge-of the garage, is something the inspector should have caught. The deck above and the garage horizontal support beam being rotted out is a serious structural issue and has nothing to do with the bathroom, or the insides of interior walls. @@UntetheredBanshee
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Some of what Austin found (not in the bathroom) was definitely visible.
@@lovingmayberry307Could you give a time stamp? Austin says they discovered the rot when taking off plywood so I'm curious where it was visible prior. In the shots of the garage in the terrace vid you couldn’t see it. He also noted he only suspected rot and they’re both quite surprised by it even though they live in the space so it’s interesting to see that mere subscribers saw the rot prior
The rot is years old and the inspector should be held accountable. They did not do their job.
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with all that rotted wood. At least once it is taken care of you will be confident it was done right. That may not be much comfort currently but hopefully in the future it will make you feel more secure.
I’m so sorry for all the problems with the house! Hope this will be the end and the rest will be smooth sailing 🙏🏻
We'd still love to see the process of the garage getting fixed maybe make that into series 🙂
i agree!
My parents did cork for the floors of one of their houses. It was beautiful. It was warm (both in tone and in temperature), soft underfoot, and dampened sound. It was easy to clean and was very forgiving. I think you’ll love it. I can well imagine how disheartening and overwhelming it is to suddenly be faced with a much bigger project, but it is absolutely for the best in the long term to have discovered all that rot and to deal with it now. You’ll feel so much better about the integrity of your home when it’s done.
Is it okay in a bathroom though? I feel like cork might show stains when there is a lot of moisture.
I've seen cork floors in a bathroom after years. Doesn't age well unfortunately...
i have cork floors and love them but they don't work great in the bathroom
We have cork floors in much of our house. We were able to get waterproof ones and we love them!
I grew up with cork flooring and I miss it dearly! As it has been said: it's so forgiving und gives a warm feeling. If I were to renovate, it'd choose cork floors again
Really love how real Becky is. Doesn’t gloss over it, instead faces it head on with real emotion while also trying to stay positive. It’s so refreshing.
Why does Austin has such a fantastic KEN energy ? Love it! You guys are real stars! You’ll get there ⭐️
Yeah, this is home ownership. I don't know many people (myself included) who haven't purchased a home (including new builds) that have not encountered challenges when renovating. It's the nature of the beast. Deep breaths and feel grateful you were able to find and deal with them before the renovation and not after. Sending Big Hugs. It does get better.
I would actually like a video of the process because some homeowners that bought a house could use some insight/inspiration if they ever come across a similar problem. Plus it’s just very interesting!
As much as it totally sucks to have to put your bathroom plans on hold, getting the nonsexy structural repairs done first is definitely where you should be prioritizing your time. BUT I think most of us following this series and Kelsey’s reno would love to see that part too. Unexpected repairs are a part of home ownership and usually not something you see until you’re in the thick of it yourself. It’s nice to see how someone else handles the same issues you might have to face yourself. I too have a bathroom that is crying out for a reno but I’ve been afraid of what I might find in the walls. Your experience has me more firmly decided to install a second bathroom before I rip out the first just in case the main bathroom turns into something bigger than planned.
Honestly, this is THE MOST relatable content I have seen from The Sorry Girls, from the homeowner side of things. I feel so much for you, Becky but it'll all be ok. I remind myself of that everyday when starting new projects in my old, old house. Here for this journey with you! It's totally ok to feel overwhelmed when something becomes more daunting and scary (and expensive). But give yourselves grace and take some deep breaths. Asking for help is not a defeat. You got this!
Becky's such a ray of sunshine, I will always appreciate the positivity this channel brings to my life
That door is soooo perfect! It looks like it was built with the house!
Between you and Austin, you guys got this! That rot won't know what hit it.
I inherited my mothers house when she passed last fall and finding bad surprises like wood rot has been my life lately lol so I feel for you! That deck getting water on both sides (humidity through bathroom ceiling plus exterior rain pooling) seems like a recipe for disaster; definitely glad you're finding the rot sooner than later.
Regarding tiles, I had a matte black kitchen counter at one point in my life and it showed EVERY spill/stain so honestly I think in a bathroom that will have lots of moisture and probably some water splashes, glossy is the way to go tbh. I think the darker brown w/ faded edge would look stellar. Really love those amber honey tiles omg 😍
Also you say you'll tackle it offline because it's not exciting - as a new homeowner like you I actually would be very excited to see what happens and how you solve the potential for wood rot!
Agree- the matte tiles in a bathroom will be imposs to clean. Like if youve ever painted a bathroom w matte paint u know the struggs.
And i agree- id love to see the whole process. Im sure so many people get surprised by this stuff and id love to see how you and your contractor tackle it.
Watching Becky fight back tears is breaking my heart. It will work out and thank good ness you found out before you were sitting on your deck and fell through the roof!!🥰🥰
I feel for the both of you. Homes of a certain age sometimes don't let you choose what to do next, sometimes they choose for you. I've lived in houses over 250 years old and each day held a new surprise and opportunity to expand my skill set. The good news is you will learn and grow. Thanks for sharing your odyssey :)
I really appreciate your dedication to sourcing mostly second-hand! Thank you for being kind to the environment, and giving all of these things a new life to shine and be appreciated. Makes me so happy!
ahh i really feel for you Becky! we bought our 100 + year old home a few years back thinking it will be a quick update job since it didnt look so bad - paint some walls, put in some new floors we thought. But the house had other plans and we ended up needing to do a total gut job (new electrical, new plumbing, new foundations) that took us 1.5 years with zero experience in the pandemic - So i understand how you feel! i really do, but believe me, you will get through it, and even though these seem like such setbacks, its actually good you're discovering and addressing these issues - you will have a safe and wonderful home at the end of this (and whether you want it or not you will learn a lot too :P). Good luck! just take it one step at a time and you'll get there.
I really appreciate how candid you are about your struggles with this project. The builder for my loft renovation went bust, stealing my life savings and leaving us with a completely unliveable home - I've pretty much stopped watching DIY TH-camrs because it hurts so much to see other people succeed in making their houses nicer when mine is going so terribly, so it's oddly comforting to hear someone else be a bit overwhelmed with their project ❤️
What you did with the sliding door was absolutely genius 👏🏽
Oh, the joys of home ownership. You rocked the door project, Becky! Your new plan also seems solid. If you can take more room from the garage, do it. You won’t be sorry. Remember laundry hamper space is nice to have in a bathroom, and HEATED FLOORS.
First things first - safety! You and Austin are lucky you found the rotting before investing too far and having to start from scratch all over again, and that you know to consult field experts in a very scary situation. All that said, you should still vlog this adventure. It's a hands-on account of home-ownership that isn't taught well enough for those of us who prefer to DIY but need to see real-life cases of when to step aside and further educate ourselves!
Seeing Becky and Austin tackle this difficult project together warmed my heart. Sending good luck and good vibes!
Not me watching this with a cold and crying when Becky kept it real at the end. Then I got SO excited to see your marketplace finds--I can't imagine the rollercoaster of emotions you must be feeling Becky and Austin! Thanks for being honest with the process. You are amazing and I can't wait for part 3!
Cork flooring is awesome! I have loved the warmth, durability and softness of our cork floors over the years. Word of caution, water. Standing water will warp the cork, especially along the seams, so just dry the floor if any water lands there. Love your door fix and sleek sliding hanger!
I feel for you and Austin. 🫶🏼
Love the new bathroom plan, looks much more efficient. Would recommend to shift the vanity a little closer to the window so you can maximise the natural light AND avoid the infinite reflection of the two mirrors! I wouldn't go with the dark tiles in the shower, I think it will make your bathroom smaller and the shower area very dark.
Best of luck with the renovations of the garage and the deck ❤
This gives you more time to really figure out what you want in the bathroom (and time to source everything)and possibly upgrade the patio/ garage area.
Yes! Why NOT expand it a bit so she can get her tub at this point?? There are literally no walls and no plumbing lol. Now is the time!
14:30 Oh, Becky this is heartbreaking and terrifying 😢 Austin is a wonderful man; his expertise, calm and total commitment to your shared dreams are goals. Your approach to this setback is inspiring - and that is one of main reasons The Sorry Girls is a favourite, and successful. Big hugs from a longtime fan on Vancouver Island ❤🤗
Aw, I know you're disappointed about putting the bathroom on hold, and that's ok! I, personally, am invested in seeing the fixes to your garage as well as the Great Bathroom Comeback. You got this!!
I think a lot of people would want to get rid of the 70’s look and renovate into the more modern farm house style, but I love how you guys are almost kind of reverse renovating and taking it back! So cool! Can’t wait to see the finished product!
We want to see it all! 🤣🤣 Just watching you guys tackle these things even if it’s not you doing the build is cool! Plus we learn with you! ✨✨✨
Wow! Becky, I'm so sorry for you and Austin having to go through this. You show great resilience and woman, are you strong! It was sooo nice to see Austin backing you, too! Your finds are gorgeous and your bathroom is going to look amazing! Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Good luck with the issues you've discovered and here's hoping that it's a very limited issue. Sending a big hug to both of you.
You're videos are aways inspiring. A few notes here: First it's not as overwhelming as it may seem. All mountains can be climbed and you will make it over this one. Sure it's tough but it's reward is higher and the experience greater...but it is absolutely doable. Second you are a conqueror with a successful business and multiple finished projects to prove it. Asking for help IS breaking down the barrier in front of you. Which is smart!! The genius is knowing when to use a compass or map to conqueror the mountain. You now know the layout of the forrest in front of you so there is no fear or worry because you have an answer. It's not IF you get it all done but WHEN you get it all done. The how will take care of itself as you move forward. Third there is the Thomas Edison effect. The "Let's find out" attitude he had toward making the light bulb. I've watched you use this same attitude time and time again in projects and succeed. Remember: The mystery is the magic. The not knowing whats on the other side of the mountain is why we climb it. YOU WILL, IN THE TOO FAR DISTANT FUTURE LOOK IN THAT NEW BATHROOM MIRROR, SMILE AND SAY, "WOW WE DID IT." Hope this helps and finds you happy, healthy, and smiling.
That cork floor find is epic! I love the vibe for your 70's bathroom.
Austin’s accent is so cute haha! and he loves you so much. I’m so happy you have each other even though life is hard sometimes
absolutely eating this design UP! The layers of texture/pattern/color are so delicious; and I completely agree that finding these elements second-hand really allows for a more unique and creative overall design - so much more room for random inspiration, blending of styles, and creativity. This space is going to be so cozy and luxe. You guys are killing it, in spite of all the unexpected surprises
Oh, Becky I really feel for you! I own a 100 year old farmhouse that was built by farmers (ie NOT skilled tradesmen) and has been added to and extended numerous times over the years. My first 3 years were spent solely on fixups; a total restump, rewire and replumb. I didn't have a proper kitchen for 10 years, at times I had no walls to the outside (imagine waking up with a cow looking at you) and part of the roof in my makeshift kitchen just wasn't there for many years (I live in a warm climate). I'm just in the process of rebuilding the only remaining original part of the old verandah and this old building is still throwing problems at me. You will get through this. At times you just want to cry, but if you take solace in the really nice bits you've made already and keep your vision clear in your head you'll be OK. I'm cheering you on from the other side of the world!
I’m loving the cork tile and other elements you have sourced for the bathroom. Cork is a great product, sustainable, warm, and soft underfoot (perfect for bare feet in a bathroom!). All the best for resolving the rot - the effort will be worth it!
I also bought a older home and went from remodeling a bathroom to rebuilding it. It's so disheartening at first but 6 years later it was SO WORTH IT to have it be exactly what we want and need.
love the honey colored tile you found secondhand, so cool!!! although dealing with the rot will be a pain, it's great that you found it now and can deal with it properly once and for all!
Im so glad you found the water damage before you finished the bathroom. It’s devastating that you can’t make progress on the fun renovation bits but it’s so good that you’re doing it right and not quick.
I love that burled cork flooring!
I am so sorry that you're running into all those (expensive!) problems, but I love your attitude and I love the bathroom mood board and the choices you're making. It is going to be absolutely gorgeous when finished. Brava! Brava!
Oh Becky! That's so hard when an exciting project turns much bigger, harder and not so fun. You'll get there. It sounds like you've got some really great pieces! Looking forward to seeing the next part of this renovation!
I love when Austin is in videos :) it's great to see you two working so well together
The door is amazing and you are so smart with how you filled the gap.
Please film all the house renos. I could watch it all day everyday.
So sorry that this turned into such a huge project--but am glad you found it out now rather than later! The bathroom aesthic is really interesting. It reminds me of the African savannas and the Australian outback--conglomerants of unique textures and dusty tones. I wonder what some sage/pale green accents might add to the space. Of course, you could keep the warm tones and add more amber and honey shades and go for that 70's color scheme. Excited to see how it turns out!
Those cork tiles are amazing!!! And the honey onyx tiles so beautiful.
I love how you’re showing the whole tedious process of renovating/building, which feels validating tbh. Living through a reno is a true test of patience & endurance 🤗
The pieces you picked up are so good, it's going to come together so well
So sorry to hear it 🥺I loved how Becky gets the spark back from talking about new amazing finds! When the time comes we will be here for the epic bathroom comeback! 🔥
I love seeing how you use second-hand items and try to avoid buying things new. Love the door and love the ikea options! Personally, I would use this extra time to reconsider the toilet next to the shower. Or install a wall that provides a sense of privacy. Go you! I hope you show where it goes from here. I really enjoy watching!
I love that you don’t shy away from sharing challenges and how you resolve them. There is a saying… “Smooth waters do not make better sailors” and the Sorry Girls are pretty wicked “sailors” at this point. ❤
If its not too late to redesign I would suggest putting the shower along the back wall and then putting the toilet either next to the vanity on whichever side. Having the shower coming into the middle of the space like make it feel like it takes up a lot of space visually. Good luck with all of the renos!
yes! I feel like the shower shoud either be turned or move to the sink side - if pluming is being touched anyways
I'm voting she expands the space so she can get her separate tub 😂
I’m always impressed with you and the whole Sorry Girls team focus on reuse and second hand. I agree that it’s not only better for the environment and budget, it can be a creative boon. I also appreciate you showing the reality of home ownership. I think it’s easy for people to gloss over the realities of what taking care of a house involves.
As for the flooring, that looked like cork plank flooring on a HDF backer. While I’d personally be ok with installing that in a kitchen or ensuite, I’d be very cautious of a full bathroom. The cork itself is not the concern but if any moisture gets in between the planks where they join and starts to get absorbed by that backer board, it will swell and pop the tiles, ruining your floor. The biggest concern would be the shower flooring to cork transition. So definitely look into this more. The burled cork is *chefs kiss so I wouldn’t want to see it ruined.
Wow, seriously impressed with the door! Great idea and executed perfectly!
you got this Becky! Things like this just happen on older homes. Think about the positives..like that you can get this fixed and build it back exactly the way you wanted. You are blessed! The decor and pieces are awesome, I know it will be amazing.
Becky!! I feel your pain completely. My husband and I started to plan our dream kitchen late last year and once we started removing the old kitchen we realised we had a huge rot problem… which neither of us saw coming. This rot issue had also spread to our dining room and meant for a good portion of this year we had our kitchen in our spare bedroom 😵 I can so relate to the pain of feeling overwhelmed and when you feel you can’t fix it yourself. A year on and we have just received our new kitchen, we’re busy fitting all the new cabinets and we are on to the fun decorating and styling bits. Make sure you get some great professional outside help, get multiple quotes and opinions and take your time….. it will all come good in the end. Your beautiful home is worth all the love and attention ❤ Much love
I'm in love with those cork floor tiles! The texture and tone is beautiful!
Oh Becky! I’m so sorry that you’re finding all of these problems. But it is better they are found and resolved now rather than later.
I love all the choices! That door is gorgeous!
Great idea with the two vanities and that cork flooring! That is going to be a warm on your feet! I love cork flooring.
The tiles! Oh my goodness! They are beautiful.
You are doing the right thing by pausing and when you’re ready to begin your project again, you will be ready to go!
Donna
I felt this one. I am so excited to see the reveal (mostly because I just want all the bad stuff done for you), but LOVE the decor direction so much! Sending you all the good reno-vibes in the world that it'll work out. Also, good thing you found it all and not when you got a heavy snow or someone was hurt.
You just solved my vanity issue because of plumbing! I never thought of splitting them up that way, THANKS SO MUCH!!!! Good luck with your bigger than planned renovation. Peace friend. ❤
thank you for sharing your renovation experience, even the parts that are hard. What you are doing right now is not the fun, pretty or exciting side of renovations, but this is the real honest stuff. I’m so glad you found the damage now and not later. I would still love to see the garage repair and getting to the good stuff, maybe a series of shorts if you don’t want a whole video dedicated to it? On a lighter note, that cork floor!!! My sister rented a home built in the 60’s and the dining room had cork floors! Very mid-century modern. They were amazing on bare feet! So warm and soft.
I feel your pain, with the renovations etc. Having been there/done that I know how frustrating it can all be. It will get better and be beautiful when it is all finished. Keep the Faith!!!
Love your mood board. Cork is a very good option. Soft on the feet and waterproof. Hang in there with the other stuff.
awesome vidéo like usual and I would be very interested to follow up on the garage /deck rescue (I don't own a house but it could be useful to those who do)
Great video!
I know it’s frustrating and even scary to have to fix serious issues, but it means those are GONE after they’re addressed.
One thing you might want to do (budget willing) is put in either an electric heated floor, or a floor warmed by a boiler (depending on budget and other infrastructure). I’m so excited for your expanded bath potential and the direction you’re taking it to. Yay for all of you!!!🌺
I completely understand how you’re feeling right now. I’m a first time home owner and ooooh my gosh, the amount of frustration that I’ve gotten myself into is overwhelming. My husband and I knew it would need a bit of renovating, we just didn’t know how much it would be. We’re new to all of this and we’ve accidentally bought a huge fixer upper. A lot of money needs to go into it and we just can’t afford it. But hey, we’ve got a roof over our heads and we know this home will be worth it. ❤ sending you much love and positivity ❤️
Thankful that you found out the problem so you can fix it. Rot is major... when you're done with the major fixes, the bathroom that you're planning is gonna be beautiful!!!
This video really shows the realities of homeownership so well. Hang in there!
Gosh. I feel your overwhelm. Thank you for showing us the downs as well as the ups. I hope the problems end and you’re able to fix the structural beams/rotting … and you don’t have to sell ur place ❤
Great that you discovered the rot now and can deal with it. Better than after the bathroom reno. Love the house vlogs, tfs!
It's a really good thing that you found out about the big support beam. It's important to replace that. It's a good news/bad news situation. The joy's of home ownership.😣
No matter how close you are in a relationship, it's always nice to be able to go to bathroom in private :'D So good idea with the door haha
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20:55 The cork floor is gorgeous, and the onyx tile is lovely! I also love the dark tile, and in a matte version it would be really amazing. Everything you have found is perfect. I can’t wait to see how it comes together. You know, the big project having to be done first has given you time to keep hunting for the dark second hand tile that is perfect?
Loved your clever hack for extending the length of your door! Also, the plan for your bathroom-to-be is beautiful.
It’s a good thing you found the rot. But devastating too. Renovating is a roller coaster
This happens to us all, BUT you will be so happy when the foundation of your future bathroom is sound. I am rooting for Austin and you. I can tell you are trying so hard not to be discouraged....but the stuff you showed for the future bathroom looks amazing. Can't wait to see the final product.
I am currently renovating my house, for a while I had an overwhelm meltdown at least once a month as each project took longer than I wanted or the trade I hired did a job I had to have redone… but I now cook in a kitchen made entirely of my own hands …. It’s the greatest feeling in the world … keep going you got this … the overwhelm moments are part of what makes it worth it ❤❤❤
it’s so admirable how the two of you keep a smile during all the unexpected news
I'm sorry for you both but seeing you both have the ability to joke and smile through this trying time speaks volumes about yours and Austins character. It's also incredibly brave to know when you've reached your limit and ask for help. I hope this is a fast process, can't wait to see the result.
Austin is so cute and positive. I'm glad you guys have each other for this process, house renos of older homes is always such drama and extra money. You're doing good!!! KEEP GOING SQUAD
LOVE the cork floor tiles and how they'll come together with all the other second hand finds!
I'm so sorry about all the challenges you're facing. but consider it a blessing that you discovered it now before doing all that other work and then risking having the structure collapse. You will get there! As for the bathroom ideas themselves ... the door is brilliant! I've been looking at a similar door slide system for my furnace room (which I eventually want to make the laundry room as well), and it was so neat to see it in action. Plus, the door you found is beautiful! The cork flooring is super funky and totally works with your aesthetic. My sister and BIL did their basement in cork and it's beautiful. It looks fantastic with all their wood trim, so I'm sure it will be gorgeous when you get your wood ceiling in there, too. I love those IKEA vanities. Never though of having two - that's brilliant! I hope you're managing to focus on the positive aspects of this project and all the design work you can do working up to the project. But take your time. Get yourself emotionally and mentally in a place where you feel okay about getting that garage dealt with. Sadly, this is home ownership, especially with older homes. My house was built in 1976 and believe me, I've found some strange things that I still need to address. Imagine how much more you'll love the house when you have that solid new garage in place.
Cork is super nice and wam, but it is a porous material and I'm not sure it's suitale for a bathrom, especially since you have already had problems with leaking water. Additionaly, it takes a lot of care to keep it looking good and prevent chipping/scratches because its very soft.
Becky, I know what y'all are going through it so overwhelming. The blessing is you have Austin to walk with you while you both figure it out. Sending you positive vibes that the rot is behind you and it doesn't go too far! LOVE THE DOOR!!!😍
While I would have loved to see a grand reveal, I truly appreciate that you are showing the reality of homeownership…I am a new homeowner in my late twenties and have had a handful of my own issues pop up over the past few years. It’s reassuring to know that EVERYONE faces their own issues and has to power through them. Wishing you luck and light on your journey!
love this idea and the textures! I recently visited a home with a lovely cork floor in the bathroom - it was gorgeous but I'd caution that even leaving a bath mat on the floor gave the homeowners a heart attack - they were so worried about moisture since cork is easily damaged. maybe consider a tiled option for the shower exit or a non-absorbent bath mat in your decor!
good luck with the rot situation - been there and it's both daunting and expensive. I hope it goes well and that you can get the work done quickly!
Brilliant fix for the bottom of the door! You're so smart. Hang in there on the garage fix! It's all gonna get better!! I know what you're going through...our house was built in 1926, and we have had "surprises" too... grit your teeth. I love your choices of tile, vanity etc, It's gonna be beautiful!❤❤❤
Ceiling should be cedar wood tongue and groove!!! Resists rot. MEGA importanto And your beautiful rural property deserves every bit of this TLC. In future you will know, it was just time well spent. I’m old, been there, done that! Love yous and your energies ❤❤
My first thought: oh yeah now you can make the bathroom larger!! I love the two vanities idea! It makes perfect sense for usage and for decor! Yes, it is over-whelming and also be thankful that you found all of this now and not later when it got worse. Sending hugs.
I am so grateful that we bought my husband's grandparent's house and they were the ones who built the house. My mother in law and my husband both grew up in the house, so there haven't been any surprises. Like, all the crazy stuff that comes with renovations is still there, but we know about it already. Just knowing about it ahead of time has made it sooo much less stressful than finding surprises as we go
Omg 🤩🤩 everything you found on marketplace, never knew cork floors existed and that it was something that I wanted, now I do! 😅 It will be so beautiful with the DIY tile vanity area 🤩 Love that you showed us the hardship of discovering the rot and I know you will do an amazing job with making your home well again, and we will all be here watching, supporting and getting inspired ❣️❣️❣️
Hey, more content!! I'd love to see the Garage reno 😍😍
The cork tiles are gorgeous! You'll be so happy to have done all the fixes and work once it's all done!
You take your time, I just moved and our apartment needed more fixings than we expected. They're all cosmetic but still out of our norm. So this really put things back into perspective. All of these things just lead us to learning and this reminded me of that. Thank you
Oh man this is always such a risk when buying an old house (and honestly some new houses these days) but it’s a blessing in disguise when you discover this and now everything will be new and safe. Hang in there!
The wood siding of my house was rotting too and while it was a pain and expensive to fix, when it's fixed I guarantee you'll feel so much better. A wood moisture meter helped give me confidence in what wood should stay and what should go.
I’d love to see the process of the repairs even if it not diy. Also what great second hand finds!
I’m so glad you found the rot BEFORE renovating the bathroom instead of finding later down the road and having to undo everything after the fact. Sending love!
I love the onyx and the cork. I think it will look spectacular. Your frustration with facing the rotted wood is so much the way projects can go. It is the hard part and it would make me cry, too. You are going to get through this and be so proud of the result - and yourselves - it will be grand. (This really should have shown up in your pre-purchase home inspection. And, though they are not happy to admit it, inspectors have insurance for this reason. Best of luck.)
I would love to see a video on y'all fixing all the rot. I think it is just as interesting and important as the design and DIY.