Trust Your Feelings
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ธ.ค. 2024
- Why it’s wise to learn to trust your feelings, intuition and curiosity when it comes to dating, friends, business and following your passions in life.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who is fifty-four years old. She has always been interested in fitness and personal training since she was in high school. This past year she retired from a career in school administration. She shares how my work has made a difference in her life. She is training to compete in fitness competitions, works as a personal trainer and a holistic nutritionist. She often goes out with guys and does not feel any kind of spark, but often feels guilty about giving guys she does not feel chemistry with a second date. She says that when she has gone out on a second date when it does not feel right on the first date, nothing changes and she does not go on a third date. She studies spirituality, the laws of attraction and the mysteries of the universe. She has a hard time finding like-minded people and a guy who thinks like she does. She asks my opinion on whether or not if giving a guy a second or third date when she does not feel chemistry on the first date is a good idea, or if it’s ever going to lead to her initial gut reaction or intuition to change and therefore, lead to sexual attraction.
“Learning to trust your heart, curiosity and intuition is not something that is usually encouraged or valued in western societies. Our soul speaks to us through our feelings. Feelings are the language of our souls. Our feelings are our truth and should not be ignored. For centuries, battlefield soldiers have learned to pay attention to and trust their sudden feelings of danger right before they are attacked to help them escape harm. However, while you should learn to trust your intuition and feelings, you should also make sure you use your logical mind to remain objective so you can see people and situations for what they really are, instead of the way you wish them to be, especially when it comes to romantic love.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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"Love is like a fart, if you have to force it it's probably shit"
+Andrew M lol, that's a good one!
Come On Man! lol
Jo Im I would disagree. All the best relationships I've had were great from the start! The worst ones I've had are the ones that I knew we weren't right for eachother and I hung onto it too long.
Jo Im the more people I've dated the quicker I'm able to tell whether or not I will be compatible with that person based on the first date. me personally I'm happy alone and a relationship isn't worth it to me unless the woman knocks my socks off as Corey says. Also I'm not sure what you're suggesting, go on second dates with women you didn't enjoy the first date with? That seems like a bad idea. You're giving up your valuable time.
F*** Me im dead :)
Hell yea to the quote “ I love the person I am because I fought to become him”
Everyone wants to be happy ... but we grow the most through hardships of life .
We grow if we learn
I agree wholeheartedly with what you say in this video. We are not encouraged enough to trust our own voice. As the saying goes ,'advice is what you ask when you know the answer, but don't like it.'
The problem is if you come from a traumatic upbringing the last thing you want to listen to is your inner voice , because it results in grotesquely distorted cognition.
This for me, is Corey's best video. Hits you straight in the heart, leaves you applauding. Ways to get out of the maze...understand you shouldn't have been there in first place...excellent.
Agree. I’ve watched it multiple times
Yup same here. It's helping me stay strong through a breakup.
I was in this exact situation! I went on a date with a guy and on paper everything was what I was looking for but on the date something just felt off. So many of my friends said "just give him a chance" or "you're being too fussy" , but I decided that it's my happiness that is important, not theirs, and surprisingly all these people saying this were the ones who settled for their mediocre lifestyles. Spot on as usual , Corey.
I'm reading the book 40 to 50 times. I've already read it 15times
+osaru degozaru You should be able to teach it then. good job!
Thanks coach. That's my plan. From now onwards I'm not only going to read it but also write down every word I read from the book. I want to be able to recite the book from beginning to end!
@orsaru how many times did u read the book?
Excellent class! I'm a single woman and really appreciate your videos so much. I have a really fun and happy single dating life and hearing what you say about 99 5% of the time is how I see things. It's great hearing it from a smart successful guy. Thanks for what you do.
I learned that if I have to ask other people what they think of something I know that I already dont really like it myself and am tryring to convince myself otherwise based on what other people think. If I genuinely like something and it feels right then I couldnt care fuck less what others think because I know it's what I want. If I'm asking what others think then I already know I personally feel iffy about it at best
Great talk Coach. I had this exact same experience, but a bit worse. Realized internally/intuition that it wouldn't work - then the break-up, then get back together because of missing great sex and lonely. Tough to break that cycle but finally following my feelings in this regard is what finally gave me peace.
You are the MAN Corey. I just turned 22 and read the book 11 times after a break up about 4 months ago. I have been working out, eating healthier, and trying to focus on me to attract what I want in a woman. Every video I been watching, I share it on my Facebook to spread the word of your work. I got you bro 😎
+Cameron McCullough Thanks dude, glad to hear you are taking care of you
+Coach Corey Wayne Definitely no problem. I am just glad I found a role model finally in you man. So no, thank you dude!
Corey, this a great Video. Trusting your feelings, so important to living good life. A lot of advice that makes good sense.
I listen this fall audiobook in one day I complete your book every four hours at this time I hear your book probably 40 times sound crazy but it’s true
What am I compelled emotionally to do is learn about relationships, spirtual matters and teach them to others, I am studying how to explore this now and have begun with business writing, I believe I have been led to you as your style of teaching is keeping it real and this had until now been a problem for balancing money, the real me and spiritual evolvement of myself and others, thank you Shanti Om.
Reading your book through for the 2nd time. I have a date lined up tomorrow, looking forward to implementing some of your tips.
+skatingandgaming good job
I have read the book I’m on the 5th time, and I have now been able to follow my intuition and “Walk and never look back.” I was in this relationship for 8 years, really 7!years because she “Ghosted” me for a year. This was a long distance relationship, she lives 2 hours away which was fine up until recently. She started being weird again, distant, not including me in her family functions or on trips which is how I found your information. After trying everything I could think of to try to get her back to the way she was, I finally got tired of it so I freakin walked away. I feel amazing not because I did anything to her, I stuck up for myself. I deserve better and I know this. She has sent me a few meaningless messages in which I maybe replied with a one liner or not at all. There is such freedom by doing this. We shall see what happens next. Thank you Corey Wayne! 😃
Lady A. says, I'd rather hurt than feel nothing at all is spot on. Corey thanks for this video, made my morning.. you rock, wish I could jump in the screen and kiss you...
Not everyone has the same process to get from one point to another. And where the culture now is to just throw away everything(relationships)it’s a valuable trait to be able to sit with an uncomfortable situation or develop skills to move through things. That’s how growth occurs. Feelings are fleeting. You have to take a more dynamic approach to making decisions oftentimes.
Proud of you corey.. about to hit 100,000 subscribers.. keep it up Mentor. Thanks for your book and vids.
Good words to live by is always considering the source of the person giving the advice.
I know she's cheating. I feel it deep down my guts. Something about her is just not right. I keep fooling myself into believing that's just my fear of losing her which is making me delusional.
If you think she’s cheating most likely she is bro. We just have that feeling bro. Please trust it
@@businessmeetings5807 3 years too late lmao
Love your Videos Coach Corey Thank You!
Always listen to your intuition. If you think there are red flags or something is off dating a chick, run!
I'm so glad I ran into your video. You're awesome.
Very timely. Thank you, Corey!
I may be 3 years late but this video was right on time for my current life situations😁😁😁
This video really hit me like a truck me and my girlfriend we separate. I finish the relationship because I was not feeling myself there and see a future.
You are the voice of the people....... Thank You!
anyone get bad dreams when it comes to a woman you're seeing?
+ss15497 Define seeing. Committed? If not, slow down before you ruin it.
ss15497 yes, I got them toward the end of my last relationship and it was the craziest thing.
Yes and in my experience, they are prophetic every time.
@@odell4625 🥺🥺🥺💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯they are
so insightful Corey, Thank you,
I really agree on the ´´Glorified masturbation´´, I think media has a lot to do with creating an urge for people to be sexually active yet emotionally closed, specially guys!
The Lord gave us intuition and his word to help us make the best choices. He has a lot to say about it. I finally learned to do things his way , he is smarter than me lol.
I enjoyed the book and video's for years. I hope you write more books.
He wrote two more !
This point of view of yours is very refreshing, thanks.
Coach, do a 2023 revised edition of this video good sir!
LOVE THIS VIDEO, BEST ONE SO FAR
This gut feeling is worth listening to!
awesome coach corey.
im in my 3rd read of the book, and watch the videos when i feel that im going back to be needy or overpursue, i had a breakup with the girl i thought was the one, at first i didnt knew why, i got mad when i saw he was dating another guy that is a piece of shit im better than that in all aspects, did the wrong thing first and discussed it with her, it enden in apologies from her and me.
but then like from heaven i found your work, and now i know how my attitude fcked up the relation, and how to become better, if she comes back GREAT if not GREAT too.
i just want to say if you have doubts, and want to contact your ex, dont DO IT, be strong, back away and mean it, be a MAN!.
thank you coach. thank you. not just dating advice, dont want to go into it. just, thank you. thats all.
Great advice coach!
Great video Corey. But I think what many men fail to understand is that you as a "male" need to lead. In my personal experiences you make chemistry happen, lead the interaction, put yourself in an ALPHA MALE mindset..
Great video indeed, thank you so very much.
Happy to be an oddball with you all
Only your mother loves you unconditionally...
Your father too, don’t forget about the fathers…
Sometimes not even that.
@@benfurtado101 sucks bro
Lol most people dont kmow how to love even mothers and we excuse them with lame prefab sentences like “they did what they could with that they have” and thats being a carpet its pityful. Most parents still hit their kids to a different degree and make them believe that equals love 😂
Not my mother. Some people don’t have anybody to give them unconditional love.
beautiful! listening your book for the 5th time , while listening i start to feel i can see trough your eyes. 👉😂
you can't trust some people they tell you one thing but it never sits right inside your heart so you do a little digging, and bam her secret life comes out.
LOL...I'm a rare oddball! Great video Corey!!!
Fourth. Great video Corey!
Loved the content xxx
I really want to find my purpose
thank you coach...
since 24.20 min is one of your best moments, dear Corey, nice! Maybe you write it down?
Very good content, I do like that 👍❤️
1100 more to go Coach!
+The Real Deal inch by inch, millimeter by millimeter
Do impression and feeling corrolate?
done with 11 by the end of the week then on to 12 I'm reading to at least 15
+Major Coleman any results yet?
yep
Andrew Howell I will when the real success comes it's just a test of time
I have the opposite experience. I met a girl and kinda felt "damn, I found my wife" . Kinda odd feeling still present even though I rationally know she is a chronic complainer
that's "oneitis", it's common and treatable.
My gut tells me this girl I've been spending so much time is for me, but she is now unavailable. Like if she breaks up with that dude, we will have a chance. My gut says someone else can be better than her but it would be so fcking hard to find unless the girl and I can be together. What a big mess!!
That's always time..... 🤔
I've always had a knack for easily sniffing out bullshit artists. It's come in really handy over the years.
I have bought the kindle and the paperback on Amazon. I don't know if I bought the right version of the paperback, it has about 257 pages and Corey with hair, published in 2013. Is that the right one?is there one with 270 pages?
+Californiagovernor thank you for your response. I bought it on Amazon prime so I can return it and get the tight one. Can you please direct me to the right link for the new one, or where I can get that revised version? Thank you.
+Californiagovernor thank you very much!
+ksfs09 2006 was 1st edition publication date. 2013 is the 2nd edition and the current version. You have the right one.
+Coach Corey Wayne thanks Corey. Amazon makes it confusing with one having 257 pages and the other one saying 270
+ksfs09 kindle vs paperback. since it's a smaller digital product, there are usually more pages for the iBook and Kindle versions to keep the text readable instead of too small
How can women be able to tell if a man is into her and isn’t just using her when he wants to just “hang out, have fun and hook up”??
I trusted my gut feeling, went to her house, found the 2 scum bags together.
How do I get the book ? much needed
❤️❤️
Do you have a topic on masturbation/law of atraction?
4:40
"Do not ask a man who flips burgers how to cook a sufle" (PS there's nothing wrong with burger flippers)
18:57 Yeah, needed that look of shame
You can try too much for someone to fit your life. Likewise, some people don't try enough. They're too busy finding reasons person X or Y won't work and they should stay solo. This chick just sounds obsessed with herself.
Cory your an Aquarius u want to be free anyway not locked down i.e married
Married 25 years too long
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Not logic use common sense,logic wont go with gut feeling
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Not a good idea
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