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That's when you KNOW you're done with someone. When you can be real calm and pack their ish with no words being said. That's when dude should worry. Ha ha! Glad you're in a better place!
+Random Renee Thanks for watching
Yes!!!
Girl, Bob was a complete POS and I'm so glad you left him! You are so much better than him, it made me so mad hearing all the shit he put you and your children thru. So happy you found love again and have two wonderful boys. Do tell how many kids Bob has now! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thats how you know when its over.... when the calmness come I swear.
Truest shit ever.
esugababy girl I swear thats how u know
So true. When you calm you are done.
Can stand by this.
Your pops was right. Sneaky men know other men who are real men can see through them. We live we learn. You were too good for that. You handled that perfectly.
+Nisa Love Thanks so much for watching
So true hence why i posted how some people we are with will not go to our parents much or hang out with them because they will see the truth about the person.
My grandma used to say "you get tired of being tired" and it sounds like that's what happened with Bob. It's good that you are able to be cordial with him for the sake of the kids, I know it's easier said than done sometimes 😂
+Alexis Adams You're grandma is right thanks for watching
My dad would've broken his neck. Literally. In pieces.
Trust me he wanted too
Gurlll my dad as well BUT my dad would have paid for the job in person. My dad did not play games.. Too bad you can't trust people.
TheNaomiChristina GIRL RIGHT! I’m mad now.
TheNaomiChristina GIRL RIGHT! I’m mad now.
My Bob's final , just disrespectful act, he left me while my mother was dying in the hospital. Didn't care that we just move to a new state, I was the only one working and didn't have child care for our daughter. He just left. But you know what? I did what I needed to do and without the distraction of a problematic person, I was able to focus on my mothers final days. So in the end it was the best thing that he could do for me and my family.
S. Holmes so sorry. Stay strong
I’m so sorry you went through that S. Holmes. you’re strong and you got this and you deserve better! ❤️
Do a storytime about finding your new love and y'alls chemistry and him accepting your daughters.We wanna hear about your happiness too
yessss
Please, Ms. Bas. 😁😊🤣
I know your daddy was PISSED!
+Aaliyah Locklear Yep
That lip color is so cute !!!
my ex boyfriend was a Bob
so basically Bob is a peter gunz from LHHNY
😭😭😭😭 nobody's that horrible.
Patricia Agboro 😂😂😂😂
I feel like I'm listening to my story, nothing is more beautiful than knowing your worth.
+Shay Fields thank you
I wasnt asking no questions. I was taking ALL that stuff back where it came from! WITHOUT BOB'S KNOWLEDGE.
IKR!
I know I would have
Hell yeah.
So he stole 900 dollars and didn't get anything for his children...all of the stuff was for him? smh just sad. I mean he shouldn't have stolen the money in the first place but....either way its triffling! I'm glad you found better. Maybe you can do a new storytime on how you and your new man met and how well he took to your kids because I am a single mom of one and I am afraid to get back out there and date so I'm curious how you started...and how u found love.
+lovejefrea I plan on doing that story time soon love
I feel u
First and Far Most, your make up is always On Point. Beautiful as ever. TFS this story. There are times in one's life when you have to say "Enough is Enough."
So true
Your so strong.. you went through so much with him. Im happy you found better, you deserve it.
From all you've shared about this dudes character I would have never let him go get that money. I liked how u handled it though, because I would have been featured on Snapped if I had a Bob in my life. I truly hope he grows up bc he might not meet another Bas....He might meet Ms. Bobbit! Lol
lol Ms. Bobbit
😂😂😂😂
I am in a relationship with a man similar to Bob. not quite as bad but he's on that path. listening to your story just bring up so many emotions that I'm feeling all the time. I wish I had the courage to be like you.
Aww babe you can don't ever doubt your abilities to do anything. if someone isn't treating you right it's okay to leave don't ever settle for less you are as strong as you believe you are x
You will have the courage, and you will be free.
How dare he steal your life from your family and loved ones? How dare he steal your self-esteem and health? That. Is. NOT. Love.
That is a zombie eating your brains.
Anyone doing this, if you love them, you must walk away. That is the most loving thing you can do.
BTDTBT.
if someone doesn't treat you right. never settle for that that person. what you had with him who is like Bob isn't love at all
+Elaine Marie 7 thr c z eevc dr ,v
Hey hun, I hope you are doing better..
He stole from your dad...I'm beyond pissed 😡 and it wasn't even me. Please tell me he grew up
Thanks for watching
Some men don't know how to treat a good woman.
+Gregory Givens Thanks for watching
It's weird how some of the people in the comments like this story more than the fact that you're happy and split from Bob.. I don't think they realize that this is your LIFE that you're telling us about... smh. Anyway.. Thank-you for not only sharing your story but for motivating the rest of us young women out here to know our worth when it comes to relationships and etc. thank you for sharing your journey
+Oma Nessence Thank you so much for supporting my channel love
Its not like that with me. I am happy she moved on. I have been there.
Lol you said "ALL of his children" I love your shade it's very subtle. Thanks for the video.
thanks
LOL...I know that as of now the Bob saga is over, but I want to know how many children he has all together that he claims or that you know of. Btw, I love your story times and I've been binge watching them. This story time gets another thumbs up from me too.
+patricewilcox I hate that the saga is over don't say it hopefully she will bring them back because when ppl get a hold of her storytimes she's gonna blow up !!!!! I watch TH-cam over watching television and I HAVE NEVER seen better stories that can top hers like omg I even put my own mother onto her videos 🙌❤️ On top of that I believe allll Her storytimes ALOT OF "wild, crazy" stories on TH-cam are made up ☕️ #BringBackBob
DoseOfAliyah 101 I know, girl! I watch TH-cam over TV too. I enjoy Bob stories as well, but understand if she just needs to tell these events that happened in her life to vent, heal and move on and not keep talking about him too. We love your videos, Basie!
Girl, i just fell in love with you. I had a bob for 3 years. I almost married him but Thank God didnt have any children. Like you, i dont play when it comes to my Dad. He has gone to pick up money from him for us before when we were together. He never stole my dads money but did steal mine before. That ended quickly! I've been subbed for a while but now im going back to hear all the bob stories.
Your dad sounds just like mine! From the always checking on me, to saying how a man is hiding something if he isn't willing to approach him & speak face to face, to the receipt thing. Literally, completed the entire checklist. 😁
+Courtney Tamara Great dads think alike
Honey most of us had a Bob. Smdh
Yes and it's sad too
Jackie O Yes! Me too unfortunately but Bob's are a good learning experience to let you know what NOT to do EVER again!!
Jackie O mine is Tom!!!!
As soon as you mentioned your dad gave him $900 I knew Bob spent it on himself. It's just like a hood dude to buy some Jordans and white t's. So you don't think to use the $ to hook up your own kids or pay some bills, even though yes, he stole the $?!?! So sad, but so glad you've moved on to a man who appreciates you.
+Stephanie Cole girl my entire situation was a mess, that's what happens when your young and silly messing with these no good boys.
I thought he spent it on some woman.
im glad it worked out for you hun, take care of you my dear, date sensible men not trashbags.. so your kids grow up to be confident, beautiful girls who do not settle for trash :) God bless
Girl your story times are my favorite to watch!!
+Snjezana Milicevic (snjezaam) thanks!
I would of got the receipt from all the things he brought and took it back and still would of made him pay my dad $900 foh smh
+Mrs. Travis That's what happen everything that he purchased legally we took back and he had to pay the total $900.00 back
+JusBasNBeauty good I'm so happy you found someone who makes you happy
PRECISELY!!! SAME HERE! THAT WAS MY FIRST THOUGHT, TOO!!!
Your relationship is not boring when there's no drama, it's called being in a mature, loving and stable relationship lol ain't nothing boring about that! You are blessed girl! Praise the Lord for the end of Bob lol Won't He do it! Am sure your other stories will be just as juicy :)
+WaxPlax Thank you so much for the kind words love
@@JusBas Good thing most of us don't know what he looks like, lol.
I would have called the cops. I'm sorry this happened to you, but I am glad you had your light bulb moment.
Thanks for watching
I know your Daddy was glad, when you finally was done with "Bob". lol
I bet he sure was!
WOW! And people want to talk shit about black women?? smh
Dear bob,
Roses are red violets are blue,
I have five fingers the
Middle one for you.
lol
😭
Ha ha love that 🤣
😂😂😂
Brilliant 🤣
Your hair is slayeddddd girl , love it ! love it ! love it !
+Jordan Walker Thank you gorgeous
Sad because the bob stories are put to rest but happy that you have been in a good space for the past 8 years I believe you said....
+khakestar1 Thanks so much for watching
I'm telling you, I live for your storytimes, Basie! lol you never disappoint! love you!! 😊
+renay brown Thanks so much love
Giiiiiirl!!! All I have to say is thank God for self growth! I'm happy you aren't dealing with this anymore.
Thanks
This story is better then a movie lol 😂 luv u jusBasNBeauty ❤️😘😍
+Maram Alzokari Thanks so much love
I just found your channel and I can’t get enough of your stories and your attitude! I love your personality! Get it girl!!! Lol I love how real you are in each storytime I’ve watched!
I enjoyed it glad he paid your dad back!!!
Thanks for watching
+JusBasNBeauty your so welcome
did anyone else catch that Bob may have been a CRIP?
lol how'd you figure that out
Right, I was like ohhhhh
@@JusBas He always wears blue lol
@@mspalene, my ex was a Crip. I dated 2 of them.
Thankyou for putting up this story, sort of had a bob for 3 years and this is inspiring and relatable
Thanks for watching
Been watching your stories for two days and I love you because there are slot of people to go through these things and glad you spoke on it and you left him behind
thanks
I swear this is the best storytime video ever! Your so good at telling stories.
Lol why did I feel like I've gotten to know "Bob". Well bye Bob
+1noahsmum lol thanks for watching I may bring in back from time to time
I try to explain to ladies what it feels like when you're really done..really really done. It's like a type of clarity, and you finally SEE! Any you fell free, more free than ever!
Gratitude! I've just found you and you're my new fav!
I had a similar situation my
Bd was holding money I was going I use to by our son stuff since I was 8 months pregnant he spent it all on an ex gf trying to get her back and didn't tell me for two weeks after I constantly asked him where it was and I got kicked out of the place I was staying because of it
omfg!
o wow that's messed up. I would of made him go back to his x and get all that shit back and take it back to the damn store and get my money back!
Oh hell no… I woulda pressed charges or taken his ass to court 🤬🤬🤬
Im a new subscriber n i absolutely love ur bob stories.. iv been there n it feel good to know that im not the only one. this one gave me chills.. iv been listening to ur stories all day! THANK YOU!!
I’m so glad you found your breaking point and stuck to it. Look how happy you are now! Glad you shared and glad you moved upward and onward. 👏🏾
I swear ALL of your “Bob” stories relate to me and my daughters father on such a level it’s so crazy. Definite similarities that’s for sure. Glad we’ve both moved on from all the BS girl 😘😘
Girl you had me sipping tea listening to your story time like it was a movie, thanks for sharing. I've been there myself and as woman we all have our breaking points. I think it's wonderful that you share your experiences you never know who your helping in similar situations. I'm happy you are doing well and found love😘
+Kya May thanks so much love
I would of went to jail messing with that man.
+Lilly S lol
The only Bob video I liked because it's the end! Growth. Loved the intro, yass, let that wack dude go!!
Amen to that! There's nothing like finding the strength to leave a toxic relationship.
❤️ I think leaving is the hardest part! Idk I guess women get too comfortable and accept so much that we honestly believe we couldn't make it without the person. I was with a guy for 6 whole years and nothing to show for it 😎🙄😳 Being young and ignorant, but thank God for growth!🙌🏾. I just have 2 questions about Bob, how many kids do he have!?!!!?? And how's your relationship with his sister now? Thank you for your storytime!
+Kay Lin thanks for watching and he have 8 or 9 kids . Is sister or cool I guess I don't talk to them like that either though
+JusBasNBeauty damn 9 kids
Im here for the TEA hahahahaha love uuuu man I subscribed gurlll
This makes me so mad! I'm so sorry you went through so much with that sorry excuse for a man! I'm a new subbie btw. It's sad but there are so many men out there that try to live off of women.
Girl good for you! Those epiphanies are so real. I'm glad you're doing better!
+MrsNattaly thanks for watching
This video had me heated with you! Im so glad you’re in a better place! 💗
Isn't it funny how when you finally have enough, a calmness comes over you and you can be over the situation?
Good for you for finally recognizing your own worth. You were always better than him. It just took you a minute to remember that.
Thanks for watching
When you're young and have been in a long term relationship, it has a hold on us. I went through something similar. Knowing that I should leave but keep staying. Thankfully, we get that breakthrough or that epiphany where we realize that we don't need this fool and why am I putting up with his foolishness? He's not even contributing ANYTHING positive to my life!
It feels amazing and so empowering once you get the strength to FINALLY let his ass GO! I never felt as free or as beautiful or as strong as I did when I got rid of the fool that I held on to for 10 years!
I know that you're happy, I finally found my happiness after closing that ugly chapter and freeing myself.
Great story sis! I hope that other women going through similar relationships take heed and get the empowering message! LET HIM GO!
I can honestly say I feel that a lot of people have experienced or had a Bob in their life and it's so sad because even though the story was about you it made me think about a lot of things that I went through with my Bob thanks for sharing the story!!!
Im feeling better about being single and now getting married a 2nd time listening to the BOB stories. Thanks love your family❤💕
my dad is the same way!!!! glad to see that I am not the only one with a dad like that
some men are so selfish. omg if i were you, I probably would've locked him in a closet, beat him, and the only thing he could eat was his clothes. BTW I just started watching your channel, I love your personality and videos :)
Thanks
Lmfao "looked like a spaceship to me" I'm dead!!
lol
I've binge watched all your story times.... And I enjoyed all all of them... New subbie 💗🙌🏽
Thank you and welcome
I Loveeeeeee your story time. I swear I can relate to your BOB stories so much, But!!!!! Now my king has finally found me and I am so happy now.
Thanks so much and glad you found someone new
Seriously, you're an inspiration. I love you girl!
Thank luv
just found your videos and all ready subscribed and have watch all you story times.... lol
Thank you so much
Amen 🙏 yessssssss! I’ve been watching your videos, relating with you based on my own experience and getting heated, but you said this was so long ago and you moved on in your life. So I didn’t comment much. This was the video I was waiting for when you came into your wisdom. And moved on and found a better amazing love. I also loved the video when you met Terrance 💕
Thanks for sharing.
I dont care how old this video gets. I watch it to remind myself to never settle and allow someone to continue to hurt you. I'm proud of this lady. She left that dog.🤗🤗🤷♀️
it's 4 am and i'm up with wisdom tooth pain and woke from a bad dream and i just came across your channel and you made me laugh and made me feel so much better ! ❤️ sub for sure .
Congratulations you was already making it without him you wake you and he couldn’t believe that you was strong enough to do something about. I’m so proud of you it one step at a time you are truly blessed.
Girl this my first time watching your story time videos. My mouth is still hanging open. Good video. I'm glad you were able to raise above the nonsense.
+Monique - CountYourBlessings712 Thank you for watching beautiful
Loooove all your story times, keep them up girly!! 😊
+Stephania Lozano thanks love
yaaaaaaaz storry time, love love love you girl, looking so damn gorgeous
+Melissa Padilla thank you love
We enjoyed the Bob stories while they lasted. So, glad that now you have a good man!!!
+Tre8183 Thanks love yes I'm so glad I found my guy
I have recently subscribed and I love your Bob stories. You went through it girl!
Welcome to my channel
your story helped me I love you omg😭😭😭😘
Thanks for watching
Yasssss! I been lurking your channel waiting to see this vlog title! I just came across your channel maybe a week or two ago. I subscribed right away. Not only do I love and enjoy your storytimes, I just really think you have one of the most coolest and down-to-earth personality. Your absolutely someone that I can really see being a best friend to, we ever were to cross path in life. Your storytimes are always just so entertaining! I always end up experiencing a range of emotions while watching, I'd go from laughing, to anger, to sadness, to disbelief, and back to smiling LOL. I'm so glad you found your strength and acknowledged your worth.Though I honestly can relate and understand just how hard walking away from a situation you wanted do badly to work. Thanks for being you, not too many people out here like you.....#NowBackToThisJuicyVlog
+Kim Hoover Aww thank you so much love I'm so glad you enjoy my channel and thank you so much for subscribing
I applaud you. This is my first time here. You had me shaking me head. I don't understand why men don't understand when they have a good thing, a good WOMAN. And then to not consider how it affects his kids. I know you were young, and thank goodness for growth. Thank God for sufficiency and independence. It would have been over for me (I think) when he slept with your friend, but definitely stealing from my father. I am glad I came across this page.
Loved this video. Im a new subscriber and I am obsessed with all your story times.
+My Pygmy Hedgehog thank you love
I'm a new subscriber, Love your chanel! your so strong and real! LOVE YOU GIRL! (UK fan!)
+Natalie Morris Thank you luv
I love your Bob stories 😫 they are sort of relatable to my old ex but your stories actually inspire me to know my worth and stop messing with these no good guys. 😊😊
+Charline Johnson thank you
my respect to you girl, god bless you and your girls, I hope other women will be strong like you if they end up in such a situations too,
Thanks for watching
Omg I’m so happy you got rid of his ass. You deserve so much better beautiful. It’s crazy how the most random things tell us exactly when we need to be done. More power to you boo!!!! ♥️♥️♥️😘
lord the end of Bob 😭😭😂
+meambee lol
Yasss I been waiting for this video!
+Denisha Cook lol I hope it was worth the wait love
Lol it was.
i love your videos so much, i laugh all the time i love how u can do something and back it up
thanks
Can't wait to see what your next storytime will be I enjoy your channel happy I came across you
+Inika Jo Thanks so much love
I'm so happy you're capitalizing off that busta! Show em how it's done! "Always stay gracious best revenge is yo paper"- Beyonce 💜
My son father is a “Bob”. Not your Bob but a Bob I’ve been watching your vlogs for a few days. I’m a new subscriber. We went through similar things. When I went through my drama with my bd I didn’t realize how dumb I was even though my family was telling me to leave him. I was young when I got with my “Bob”. I was 16 and he was 32. He lied to me about his age when we first met. I’m in a better place. It’s been years since I left him. I’m glad you vlog about things like this. Maybe it will save a young girl from going through the heart ache. I’m glad you didn’t give up on love and your happy with Terrence ❤️
omg your hair and makeup is gorgeous like yaaaassss boo
+Thick_BrowedBeaut Thank you
I had one of those moments when I finally left my ex of ten years, about 14-15 years ago. For me, there was no cheating that I’m aware of, but there was emotion and physical abuse. I was also extremely stubborn and lost. I didn’t have anybody close to me that was able to help me through the process and help me to understand that that relationship was so unhealthy. I realized it once I finally saw how selfish he was not only with me but also with our one year old daughter and three year old son. I peaced out just as fast as I could. Best decision I made that day, but it was also long over due.
we love your storytime videos about bob though!!!! BEST storyteller on youtube!!!
+lauren holling aww thanks so much
I'm so happy for this story. when us women find that courage in us its SO EMPOWERING. I'm so sorry all of this happened. congratulations.
Thank you
Bob is still suffering because he know he will never meet anybody that was down for him the way you were.... I'm not mad at all about this being the last Bob story I'm just glad your in a better position in life and chiiiiile you can read us old McDonald and make it sound good lol many blessings to you and your family Basi!!!
+mizzmama79 lol thank you so much for watching love and not old mcdonald..lol
I dont know how i came across your channel but im so glad i did!
I wish she still posted videos on this channel. I really enjoyed her content.❤❤