How To Get A Good Black Man (or any man) - 3 Easy Steps

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  • You wanna know how to get and keep a good man, well listen to The Doll. There are three things you must know in order to get a good man. Check em out
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  • @netflixanchill4294
    @netflixanchill4294 6 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Ladies listen.. always be with with a man that love you a lil more...then you love him...a man that love u more. will go the extra mile to keep you happy...

    • @daisymae3883
      @daisymae3883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      NETFLIX AN CHILL I definitely agree with that.

    • @Beautiiandlight
      @Beautiiandlight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep! I had to learn the hard way.

    • @ralphsbabygirl41
      @ralphsbabygirl41 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      NETFLIX AN CHILL I did BOTH TIMES 😂😂😂😂😂 & they married me! Yesssssss🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

    • @paigelovette8156
      @paigelovette8156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom has always told me this ever since I was little.

    • @tcjohnson5764
      @tcjohnson5764 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Beautiiandlight dont feel bad Nessa girl, same here I had to learn the hard way as well too

  • @SneikotheDiva
    @SneikotheDiva 6 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    I always say become what u want to attract
    May the church say AMEN

  • @Indiegirl007
    @Indiegirl007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    I need to show my momma this video. She's a BBW, almost 50, 4 kids by three different men, and is struggling a little bit, financially. She wants a younger man.....who has no kids.....has no divorces under his belt....good credit, fit, toned, loves Jesus, and is financially established. I told her she's going to be single for the rest of her life. She got offended. :-|

    • @NicoleReloaded
      @NicoleReloaded 6 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Indiegirl007 God bless Mommy's Heart. You can't have urealistic Expectations . I had 2 throw out my so call list . I had give it to God,I accepted that I might be single for the rest of my life . Jesus became enough for me. Right under my nose God had a Man just 4 me. This man is tailored made just for me. If I would kept that List ,I would have never had the opportunity to blessed with my future Husband. He's on plane as we speak relocating to Las Vegas to sweep me off my feet. GOD IS GOOD. TELL MOMMA 2DROP HER LIST & PICK UP HER BIBLE AMEN!!! 🙋🏾‍♀️👌🏾💆🏽‍♀️💅🏾💃🏽👏🏾🔥🔥🔥💋

    • @mahoganyjoy3502
      @mahoganyjoy3502 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Indiegirl007 😂😂😂 Why do mama like that. Ease her into it. Mama's gradually break our hearts like crediting Santa for our toys in the beginning of our childhood. Gotta eeeeeaaassseee mama into it. 😀😀😀

    • @Angbwillinspireu
      @Angbwillinspireu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Indiegirl007 your topic is real tea, giving love and true "READ" from the heart. You stay on momma, she just going through the 'midlife crisis'-hormones messing up the brain-I know. Try to help her find other life passions that won't waste for, or her, time-a younger man dating a woman with children his age or younger is looking for a "mother figure"-he got an Oedipus Rex Complex-Your momma just gone get hurt, and broke, messing with boys. As a grown momma myself, she may love dating herself for a "Come-to-Jesus" moment; getting to know her real inner self, then seeking a GROWN man on her rejuvenated "new attitude" level self worth will be a true way to lasting ADULT romance and lasting companionship. Good luck, but stay and pray with her, hopefully she will sees the light

    • @ItsACTION386
      @ItsACTION386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You didn’t tell any lies lol

    • @SneikotheDiva
      @SneikotheDiva 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indiegirl007 o

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 6 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Nessa running up my phone bill with all these calls. You gone have to start calling me after 9 and on weekends.

    • @TheEastCoastTalk
      @TheEastCoastTalk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Leggs lmfao

    • @charlita25
      @charlita25 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @florazul5240
      @florazul5240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Leggs yes! 😂

    • @NatasiaZebra2134
      @NatasiaZebra2134 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Look or text me or something 😂

    • @DKDAY26ALLDAY01
      @DKDAY26ALLDAY01 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are Nessa 😂😂😂 you meant Dineva or the Doll is running up your bill

  • @rolshelljohnson4938
    @rolshelljohnson4938 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Ladies, this is strictly entertainment. I have a good man & have kept him for years. I have had all men from all social classes & some way better looking then me. People are attracted to energy. Love yourself & people will be attracted to you. Expand your horizons so you can relate to others & meet others (i.e. travel, educate yourself, read, etc). I agree with lesson 3.

    • @quitiemac5505
      @quitiemac5505 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I Couldn't Have Said It Better Thank You!!!!

    • @UnpopularOpinion3000
      @UnpopularOpinion3000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *thank you!* ~ sounds like confidently living my best life!

  • @ToyaHolly
    @ToyaHolly 6 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Professor Ross!!!! Is definitely in "charge of the GIRLS!!" Thanks for the today's lesson..lol 😘

  • @anorton1165
    @anorton1165 6 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Lyfe Jennings said it best.." Don't be a nickel out here looking for a dime".

  • @DuchessFatima
    @DuchessFatima 6 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    “He’s a good man, Savannah. A GOOD man. He’s just in a bad situation right now and he’s trying to get out of it!”
    Mama, then I’ll tell you what - WHY DON’T YOU F**KIN’ MARRY HIM, THEN?!?“ 😂😂😂

    • @kerrajohnson3203
      @kerrajohnson3203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Girl he stole your hair!!

    • @jasminee1357
      @jasminee1357 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂😂😂😂 when she called her back tho

    • @DuchessFatima
      @DuchessFatima 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kerra Johnson Lol! Sho did!

    • @DuchessFatima
      @DuchessFatima 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      crazii_creole 3 😂😂😂

    • @ccjammy5270
      @ccjammy5270 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @aprilmasontv
    @aprilmasontv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Ha, thank you so much for the shout out! Yes, GO BY YOSELF!!!

    • @lwhite474
      @lwhite474 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      April Mason I guess imma had to try this and I’m an introvert so going out by myself will take me out of my comfort zone

    • @mywaye5529
      @mywaye5529 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      April Mason

    • @kodaboy75
      @kodaboy75 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Always go by yo damn self... ur girlfriends will fuck up the whole game

  • @jontrellfuller1386
    @jontrellfuller1386 6 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    You can't be a 5 and looking for a 10 your lane is 5-7 😂😂😂😂

    • @browneyesblackdragon7999
      @browneyesblackdragon7999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I've seen woman that are 5 or so and with 7-10 😂

    • @k1reinvented39
      @k1reinvented39 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @vixenuk2609
      @vixenuk2609 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@browneyesblackdragon7999 I've always said this. People use 2 try shout me down. This is life.

  • @Indiegirl007
    @Indiegirl007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    This is the truth. I'm not no dog. But neither am I a Victoria Secret model. I date accordingly. I'm not going to go after Thor and Black Panther because A. I'm not attracted to the Thors and Black Panthers, and B. I know what I look like, I know WTF I have to offer, and I date accordingly! You gotta be honest with yourself. And stop it with the delusions. Be YOU. Honest, and authentic. And you'll find someone.

    • @shaysongtress8247
      @shaysongtress8247 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Indiegirl007 same but sometimes I find myself feeling like damn is he dating me because he can't get anything else. Idk.

    • @Indiegirl007
      @Indiegirl007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shay Sonstress - I sometimes think that too. Or he's just trying to get some easy sex, so keep it pushing.

    • @Indiegirl007
      @Indiegirl007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Samantha Derrick - Why do you say that? Its just being honest.

    • @Indiegirl007
      @Indiegirl007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Termite Exterminator - Your comment is 5 kinds of unnecessary.

    • @g-vahstyles9609
      @g-vahstyles9609 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      .....you are WISE beyond your years, and a pretty young woman. You will meet a man that will appreciate that-PLEASE don't ever settle for less love.....there will be enough people in the world trying to hurt you-don't ever include yourself in that bunch. #BeenThereDoneThat #BEbetterThanME

  • @DivaDen
    @DivaDen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I need the elective class. Sign me up Nessa!!

    • @prettynthick24
      @prettynthick24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Diva Dinett * Dealz & More Me too 😂😂

  • @ohheybih
    @ohheybih 6 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Nessa phone ranging off the damn hook!!! Come through Dineva

  • @LainaPineapples
    @LainaPineapples 6 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I know this was supposed to be a funny video... but I needed every bit of this advice. LOL

  • @darinj2033
    @darinj2033 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Get healthy, Get that body right, and play your position, smile and be confident. If you don't think your🔥nobody else will. Always Remember...Confidence is Sexy!!

    • @mistikalnawe
      @mistikalnawe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LadyT 103 snap snap! Yes

    • @nickelwindow53
      @nickelwindow53 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m slowly learning that lesson. I used to be so low on self esteem 😕

    • @UnpopularOpinion3000
      @UnpopularOpinion3000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *end thread*

    • @life.with.teetee
      @life.with.teetee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m slowly learning that lesson but I’m getting there

  • @msvance
    @msvance 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Its like Cranes in the Sky.. Dineva giving us Solange Knowles with a hint of Beyonce.. Come through Dineva.. Class is back in session!!

    • @Teebee407
      @Teebee407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I DIED! BECAUSE THIS IS DEFINITELY SOLANGE'S ALBUM COVER WIG HAHAHA

  • @cakebaker2011
    @cakebaker2011 6 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Basically Dineva is saying date on your level people. #RealTalk

    • @alphacharm
      @alphacharm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      cakebaker2011 I'm Confused. How would you know your level though? Lol

    • @DKDAY26ALLDAY01
      @DKDAY26ALLDAY01 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @bayareacutiepie
      @bayareacutiepie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      cakebaker2011 These men need to hear that. I see so many that think their 15.00 an hour, living with their momma ass deserves a perfect Victoria's Secret model. 😂😂😂😂

    • @cakebaker2011
      @cakebaker2011 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alpha Charm Scroll down and read Indiegirl007 post about her mom.

  • @abriaangel9986
    @abriaangel9986 6 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    I'm definitely not an ig model type, I'm pretty in the face, at least I've been told so all my life, but admittedly overweight, although I'm working on it (started Cross-fit a few months ago), but I know how to dress, I'm smart, funny, and creative. I know what I look like so I'm not trying to get a male model type lol! He just needs to be clean and decent looking as far as physical attributes go and I still can't find a man. The only men who come onto me are middle-aged, probably married men and that's a hell no for me!

    • @jisforjae
      @jisforjae 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      this is me exactly except i'm gay and skinny with an unhealthy diet LMAO.

  • @essencenomore
    @essencenomore 6 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    This is my FAVORITE look from you ever! Yes God , Yes Gahd, yes Gawd honey!!!!

    • @florazul5240
      @florazul5240 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      essencenomore agree

    • @DKDAY26ALLDAY01
      @DKDAY26ALLDAY01 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      This and the Mama Joyce bob 😍😍😍😍

  • @tasya6738
    @tasya6738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Now what is your definition of a good man? Cause all I heard was how to get an educated and/or wealthy man which does not say anything about their character being "good"

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      tasya6 exactly

    • @kellegeez
      @kellegeez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      tasya6 I'm glad I wasn't the only one who thought the same thing. Although the "list" had some truth it was definitely for the shallow and superficial.

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      One who can pass a background check, not a felon, got a job, his OWN car, his OWN place, good credit, doesn't smoke, drink, or do drugs, no "baby mama drama", no kids, and haven't been to jail.

  • @princesstiaraable
    @princesstiaraable 6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Yes Dineva, I have a big girlfriend that only likes fit men. Yes, she did find 2 fit men to marry her, but she was supporting them. They had nothing to offer her, but a body 💪🏾

  • @Naja0423
    @Naja0423 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    If you don’t play in your league, chances are you’ll go thru life thinking you’re not good enough

  • @plutostarr8605
    @plutostarr8605 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Friend “What we gon do eat together”
    Dineva “yea” 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @funkydineva
    @funkydineva  6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

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    • @thickaliciousqtpie6741
      @thickaliciousqtpie6741 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Funky Dineva Ooh! Dinevaaaaa! 😔 I'm 😔, but Enlighten... 👌 I'll be Baaaaccckk!

    • @EBlack-my8mu
      @EBlack-my8mu 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Funky Dineva d thats shade what about us fellas who Looking hell i gotta be a damn trans or drag to get a Good man.hell i wanna get and keep a man hell im a grown ass man and looking.ill be waiting bye

    • @darkstar_57
      @darkstar_57 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Funky Dineva Yaaas...living for these wigs....!!!!

    • @thickaliciousqtpie6741
      @thickaliciousqtpie6741 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      A lá Yandy Bundles! Get! It! Bookie!

  • @JaiyeBradwell
    @JaiyeBradwell 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Second Fiiiiiiiish!!!! Lookin' all fresh off da mannequin not out da pack!!!!

  • @konnectionswithkc4750
    @konnectionswithkc4750 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Dineva you are so right about staying in ya league. Heavier people KILL me talking about other heavy people!!

    • @konnectionswithkc4750
      @konnectionswithkc4750 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      MissAmbition1291 See! He ought to just get it together cuz thats just wrong!! Somebody gonna hurt his feelings one day.

    • @cookie0183
      @cookie0183 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Weirdest thing I'm a big girl and I've only been with tall skinny men. I'm not and I've never been against being with a big man, it's just they never wanted me and skinny men alway do.

    • @samantasammy6415
      @samantasammy6415 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +cookie0183 this is true, i meet my husband when i was 350lbs and now am 200lb. and he's 6ft 5" and am 5ft 4"; i think beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    • @asktheglutenfreechef3072
      @asktheglutenfreechef3072 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MissAmbition1291 ooop

    • @jazizam
      @jazizam 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think the more insecure you are about your weight, the more you love to talk about people bigger than you.

  • @unicornmommy1496
    @unicornmommy1496 6 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    I NEED this wig 😍😍😍

    • @user-sh2nr2gd7y
      @user-sh2nr2gd7y 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Shawnda Davison yessss it's giving me natural hair two strain twist tutorial realness

    • @annettejenkins383
      @annettejenkins383 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shawnda Davison It is beautiful.

    • @dominicanprincess7511
      @dominicanprincess7511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shawnda Davison HELL ME TOO

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dineva listed the information at the top on how to order.

    • @ronijay5533
      @ronijay5533 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello!!!

  • @chvsdee
    @chvsdee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This wig is youthful on you girl serving me tia and tamera sister sister teas

  • @shawneegirl1980
    @shawneegirl1980 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "whatever kinda color man you lookin foe, you got to go to that color man convention" LMAO...why is that hilarious to me??? this whole video gave me LIFE

  • @sadenoya2906
    @sadenoya2906 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You are soo right Dineva...years ago I was dating a scientist who was fine ass good ol wine...But he made me very insecure I had to be real with myself and let him go...Im now married to the love of my life who is on my level who treats me like a 👑...I am happy I realized early to STAY IN MY LANE....P.S. LOVE THE HAIR....GET INTO IT...

    • @thi-thi48
      @thi-thi48 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sade Brown how did he make you fell insecure?

    • @sadenoya2906
      @sadenoya2906 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      thi thi48 well for starters he had just gotten out of a relationship and he also help this women with her salon...and at the time I had just moved to ATL single parent of 2 in school and a manager at a retail store. Which is where I met him... He was a vegan...I loved meat so when we went on dates it was weired im eating meat and him a salad..I felt I needed to change for him. I wasnt ready or willing to do that. He was a gentleman however I felt he was hiding something...a little to perfect if you get my drift... My husband isnt perfect...but he is perfect for me...😎 he is someone that I have built a firm foundation with and we are adding to it.... Together❤

    • @taylorharris1796
      @taylorharris1796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wait a minute Scientist in Atlanta. I was sleeping with a scientist in Atlanta that had a girlfriend, he also mentioned an ex who did hair. Girl I think we slept with the same man.

    • @sadenoya2906
      @sadenoya2906 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Taylor Harris well here in ATL...anything is possible😂😂😂 thats why I cut it quickly...My spirit never lies...I couldn't shake that he was hiding something...it didn't last long so I wasn't to invested....😎 p.s. I never mentioned I slept with him😳

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh snap!!! This reminds me of Usher & R. Kelly song: "Same girl" (Only this is "same man"). It's a small world after all. Do Jesus!

  • @dawrightleo13
    @dawrightleo13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I 10000000000% AGREE!!!! Honey this is reality

  • @TheDanielleDenise
    @TheDanielleDenise 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I NEED THIS HAIR, like I need this UNIT!

  • @DivaDen
    @DivaDen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    YEEEEAAAASSSSS come through for the single ladies and moms LOL. pen in hand!!

  • @frugaliciouslyfabulous2865
    @frugaliciouslyfabulous2865 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    New hair...who dis??? Yassss Dineva😉 so pretty!! Now back to the video....

  • @jebriseinfo
    @jebriseinfo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm 53 married with 2 grown kids who are on their own. My first marriage lasted 2 years. I've been in the second marriage for 22 years. Guess what? I have not been making myself a priority. For the last 3 years I've been through breast cancer and also have lupus. My current husband is a drunk who has been this way from the beginning. I made excuse after excuse. Oh he works every day he doesn't cheat. Well what about me? Time to move on. I'm looking for a 1 bedroom apartment in the morning.

    • @lilah337
      @lilah337 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have Lupus too. I'm sorry you're in such a stressful situation, as I'm sure you know how terrible that is for this illness. My dad was a drunk. Best thing my mother did, after 18 years of marriage, was put herself first and leave. He quit drinking shortly after. They still divorced but I'm sure he'd be dead if it wasn't for her leaving. You deserve better!

    • @jebriseinfo
      @jebriseinfo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lilah337 thank you so much for sharing your story. It helps to reach out and not keep things inside. I have always done my very best in dealing with people. I'm at a point in my life where I must put myself first. Thanks again. God bless.

    • @Anas-rx1he
      @Anas-rx1he 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey I’ve just seen this comment and wanted to check in to see how you are doing. Hope you are well!

  • @DivaDen
    @DivaDen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Nessa girl you be giving me all type of lyfe! I needed it today...a bish was feeling mighty down.

  • @RespectTheConglomerate
    @RespectTheConglomerate 6 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Okay with the consistent videos!

    • @sjont
      @sjont 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TheBiggerBag plus I know those google checks looking good honey! Yaaaaaaas!

    • @adam.muzzik
      @adam.muzzik 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ikr!

  • @jojosaylor8996
    @jojosaylor8996 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Im chubby but my man is basketball tall 6'5 athletic built 220 he told me when saw me he feel in love my curves and 🍫 chocolate skin color..

    • @BeGood4Eva
      @BeGood4Eva 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      exactly. I don't know where folks getting this info.

    • @Lincolnberries
      @Lincolnberries 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How many people you know that that happened? You two are the exception.

    • @life.with.teetee
      @life.with.teetee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Period

  • @amack4120
    @amack4120 6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Bitch I cant even finish watching this shit! You said I haven't quite figured out how to keep them 😭😭😭

    • @nakrwa
      @nakrwa 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL.....okay! I can't ....lol

    • @rhondabrown4923
      @rhondabrown4923 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

  • @thebaddestblossom449
    @thebaddestblossom449 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This message also extends to finances. My section 8 girlfriends want to go to the upscale bars and the upscale events and do not have upscale budgets but will treat men in their financial class like they aren't at the standard, are you?

  • @TheCarnivoreSoprano
    @TheCarnivoreSoprano 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You hit the nail on the head about biology. people like to ignore that fact.

  • @Didilady82
    @Didilady82 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    That hair is on POINT!!!!!!

  • @florazul5240
    @florazul5240 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "You know what you look like" that line had me on the floor 😂

  • @keishabellamy6615
    @keishabellamy6615 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m a big girl, and you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!!

  • @theprintress7649
    @theprintress7649 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Now I am not a big girl per se', but I have been in the past and the ONLY chunky man I ever dated was my Husband. I think the key is to not go out looking for a certain type, but to choose from those that are attracted to you. I would never sit and tell myself, 'well, I ain't a fitness nut, so that man won't want me.' That is crazy. Understand your worth and your beauty and let that lead for you. Trust me, confidence and TRUE love for self goes a LONG way, and people see it. Look in that mirror and find SOMETHING about yourself that you like and big yourself up for it. Everytime I walk past something I can see my reflection in, I tell myself how beautiful and sexy I am. Men see that and they take notice. You ever see a not so attractive person that you are attracted to for some odd reason? Guarantee you it's their confidence.

  • @SheGotsStyle1
    @SheGotsStyle1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Sister that is not an old lady wig that hair is hot mama ....im loving that ...im so in love with your hair i was not into with the hell you was talking about at first

  • @edenpagani1243
    @edenpagani1243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are 100!. I too was a senior accountant for a reit and they had box seats to the falcons. The experience is 2nd to none. On two occasions we took our sons and to this day they still remember the game and the feeling of entitlement.

  • @CourtneyA.
    @CourtneyA. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This video had me dying. I know so many women who try to get men out of their league. This video was informative. I gotta check out those country clubs.

  • @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert
    @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Chile I can't completely agree with this video. I get it, but you can't speak for everybody. Everyone is not as superficial as you or others. There are guys who hit the gym everyday that will still date a big girl. Just because you haven't personally seen it for yourself doesn't mean it doesn't happen. There are some people who will date a person despite their height, size, shape, build, skin complexion, hair texture etc...Yes people like that actually exist, me being one of them. You can talk about the pretty girl or fine man all day, but how many of them have been able to sustain a good relationship off looks alone? Halle, J. Lo, Mariah, Nicki, Kim K just to name a few have been through how many men or had how many failed relationships? How many of these CEOs have a happy marriage? I personally DGAF how you look if you're gonna treat me like shit. Y'all gotta get off this bullshit thinking that if a person finds someone attractive, they automatically wanna date them or that attractive person is datable. Everyone is not in denial about how they look or what size they are. Some of y'all wanna have shit both ways. Some of y'all expect a person to be down for you when you're going through some shit, but you don't wanna do the same for others. The minute you're in a good position in life, you wanna look down on folks as if you don't know what struggle looks like. It's okay to have standards, but they need to be realistic. When I say realistic, not some superficial bullshit. Some of you are saying Dineva is right and that folks say certain things to make themselves feel better when it's the other way around. Some of you want to justify being superficial or "dating on your level". If you want a person's looks and financial status to define who they are, then that's on you. When dating accordingly, you should date someone who matches the type of person you are. Honey it's a lot easier to change your physical than it is to change your mental and character. The pretty on the outside doesn't take away the ugliness on the inside.

    • @christiandior9470
      @christiandior9470 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Shawty Dangerous I was scrambling through the comments trying to find sense. Here it is..... YOU BETTA SAY IT HONEY😙😙

    • @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert
      @TheeAntisocialXxtrovert 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Christian Dior More people are gonna agree with Dineva though because that's the world we live in unfortunately. People are more worried about abs, being snatched, phat asses and what can be done for them material wise. As long as they have eye candy and can be bought, they're good.

    • @UnpopularOpinion3000
      @UnpopularOpinion3000 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Say That!

    • @CurlyChemist
      @CurlyChemist 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      So much truth in this right here.

  • @ketacapers5698
    @ketacapers5698 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Whatever Miami is doing for you, STAY THERE! You've elevated since being down there and I love it

  • @smminima2100
    @smminima2100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The gag is that we do all this, get down to the event, and get passed up for a light bright, “other”, or even white woman.... go figure. 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @taylorharris1796
      @taylorharris1796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      More than likely in this day and age you will get passed up for another man.

    • @smminima2100
      @smminima2100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Taylor Harris welp, true 😂

    • @07celebrity
      @07celebrity 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No offense but it if that's you in your avi... You looking real bright or white yourself....

    • @pimpindymepiece
      @pimpindymepiece 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Girl you ain’t said nothin but a word!! Listen I know I’m fine lol, smart (lawyer), and have an ig model body NATURALLY (I’m west African), and these men in LA will vocally say they are only dating white now smh

    • @OriginalMaster16
      @OriginalMaster16 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Taylor Harris I hope so!!!!! im here taking pointers too!!!! Cuz i need to find me a GOOD MAN!!!!!!!!!

  • @naenaeboo5488
    @naenaeboo5488 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That's what I've been trying to say all this time, by me being a woman I always stay in my league because I'm not going to set myself up for rejection if I'm trying to holla at a cute football player. Personally, I think I'm a good 8 when it comes to good looks and I know that some men are not going to be attracted to me which is ok because everybody around me always told me "You got ugly taste in men", but they are judging based off his physical appreance even though the personality is what matters.

  • @1saxophone
    @1saxophone 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YESSS!! GO BY YOURSELF TO A LOT OF PLACES!!!!!! Best habit I've adopted in my 20s.

  • @specialk8927
    @specialk8927 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You can be and have anything you want!

  • @helgapataki4156
    @helgapataki4156 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Get yourself the "Kanye West Workout Plan." Get educated, take some make-up classes, find a new style, new hairdo, get some good bra's, get that hygiene right/tight, water, fruit, & veggies, get a business going, travel, network, be authentic & mysterious, speak well, get them teeth straight, EXUDE CONFIDENCE, PRAY a lot & GLOW TF UP!!!!! When you're fluffier you do have to do more just for your own benefit, but it'll be for your good. Be who you literally display on IG/FB.

  • @terranceturner8181
    @terranceturner8181 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YES for this Solange/Marsha Ambrosius hair! Yes GAWD, Dineva! This advice is good, too.

  • @Weekendwavves
    @Weekendwavves 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Where did you get this hair from?! That hair is so laid!!

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Read the info at the top. Dineva lists the contact information.

  • @kerrajohnson3203
    @kerrajohnson3203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    *Professor Ross🎓!*
    I am DONE😂😂😂

  • @chattkat1
    @chattkat1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love this type of segment! Come thru with the dating facts for 2018!

  • @s.e.harris296
    @s.e.harris296 6 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    where your man sis? "every man wants a woman''

    • @charlita25
      @charlita25 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @dydaniel6030
      @dydaniel6030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      S.E. Harris 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @HH-gv8mx
      @HH-gv8mx 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh thank Gawd you're back! I been watching your 2016 relationship videos!!

    • @adam.muzzik
      @adam.muzzik 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao

  • @qyxxone
    @qyxxone 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We may not always agree, but I love to hear you preach!!

  • @uniquejrny
    @uniquejrny 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a word whether people receive or not. 🙌🏽

  • @chocolatebunni
    @chocolatebunni 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Ok Professor Ross...I see a self-help and dating series in your future!!!

  • @beemocha
    @beemocha 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “He’s a good man Savanna”! 😂😂😂😂😂
    Yasss Professor Ross,class was in session hunty 🎓📓📝📚❤️❤️
    Thanks for the jewels of advice 😚

  • @queenie_the_virgo
    @queenie_the_virgo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This is true. I dated a doctor and all his friends were doctors and other high level professional men. They love playing golf and going to the horse races. They often meet at a nice restaurant for monthly business meetings-which is them just hanging out. And yes they do attend sporting events.

    • @taylorharris1796
      @taylorharris1796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Many of those Doctors like to have mistresses on the side, and also sleep with men as well.

    • @queenie_the_virgo
      @queenie_the_virgo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Taylor Harris I don't know what they do as a whole-only the one I dated. But what you are saying can be said about men in general-they can be garbage men for that matter. Having a mistress or a "mister" is a video of another topic and day.

    • @taylorharris1796
      @taylorharris1796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      imani jacobs More like I am replying to comments. Being that there is a reply button and this is a public forum.

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Taylor Harris speak!

  • @calilee3575
    @calilee3575 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is universal. I’m a lesbian, and to be honest, I think I’m a solid 8 or 9. Lol I’ve been told. I have no league because I’m a league of my own and I mingle with anybody long as the respect is still there. But I can’t keep no one. Lol good people do bad things. And bad people just up front about it. You need to make more video classes of topics like this. Although it’s for laughs and gags there is truth to it. Basic observation in ones habits. And that wig hunnyyyyy... speaks modern day professor in charge of the girls

  • @chocolatenbeautiful
    @chocolatenbeautiful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a great topic. I’m single, no kids, great job, masters degree and my own everything. I’m a big girl but I’m cute and stay dressed down. I’ve been online dating just haven’t met the right one. I needed to hear this. Thanks Dineva girl.

  • @Mspeaches1982
    @Mspeaches1982 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    These days- you might be able to lay up behind closed doors with that prized man out of your league but they probably won't be in a relationship with you. Stop laying up with men out of your league then be hurt when a relationship don't happen.

    • @mistikalnawe
      @mistikalnawe 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mspeaches1982 preach on

  • @M321oni
    @M321oni 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think you just got me my ring GIRL!!! That was a dissertation, TED TALK LOL

  • @justcallmebetty7717
    @justcallmebetty7717 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That Donna Summer hair is giving me MCARTHUR PARK DISCO DIVA GREATNESS! !

  • @07celebrity
    @07celebrity 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really can't focus on nothing but this WIG!!! This hair is EVERYTHING!

  • @uniqwiab8679
    @uniqwiab8679 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Serving Diana Ross!

  • @ericad.3263
    @ericad.3263 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Dineva True story ... the HS jock of my HS married the nerd girl in our class. He decided he wanted a smart, successful type and not an air head. It was a beautiful wedding too.

  • @Jesuschrist.bigtop3
    @Jesuschrist.bigtop3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mama! You are giving it to the girls today!! I had this conversation with a friend the other day. It's true, if you want discipline, you have to be disciplined. And that can always be adjusted!

  • @missg4real36
    @missg4real36 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Come thru with these videos Dineva

  • @chippertheheir3013
    @chippertheheir3013 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That WAS THE REALIST CONVERSATION you give since I've viewed you . Excellent and hopefully the women will start and end with happiness of a good man & life !!!!!

  • @Lovely-sk6qm
    @Lovely-sk6qm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That's not true most men like big women. I never dated guys who are big.

    • @ccjammy5270
      @ccjammy5270 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lovely 43 Apparently ppl don't know. I have always kept a fine man. Bbw

    • @Lovely-sk6qm
      @Lovely-sk6qm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      cc jammy exactly

    • @Lovely-sk6qm
      @Lovely-sk6qm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      cc jammy girl your hair laid to the God's 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯💯💯💯

    • @sisid2289
      @sisid2289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lovely 43 it’s only 10% of men who like fat women
      The others want even look at your direction

    • @JESSKISS19
      @JESSKISS19 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not the ones that look like mama June

  • @dontbelieveeverythingyouhe5599
    @dontbelieveeverythingyouhe5599 6 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    LMAO - Why do fat mama's say " they gotta love me for the real me" hell girl - you are showing the real you - you are showing the result of how you live everyday.

    • @charlita25
      @charlita25 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They could go lose weight together

  • @tcakes5439
    @tcakes5439 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm glad I came across this gem...definitely taking stock in your 3 steps....Thhhaannnkkkssss!!

  • @OooohThatAshley
    @OooohThatAshley 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Don't say I ain't never did nothing for ya!😘
    Looking for my country club outfit right nah!
    🏌🏽‍♂️ in my future 😍💕💕

  • @sabrinadoctor9653
    @sabrinadoctor9653 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Learning My Man While Earning My Man 😂😂🤣😂
    Preach 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 You Kept It 💯

  • @smondaycook
    @smondaycook 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speak the truth and shame the devil! This is exactly a conversation I tried to have with my female cousins. Do not expect greatness when you give out the bare minimum. I do believe that full figured women are just as beautiful and thin women; however, we need to be more healthy. Point blank period. I have love for you because you make really good points. Everyone may not agree, hell I do. I ain't no size 8, but I stay in the gym and do my best to eat healthy.

  • @mrs.w8193
    @mrs.w8193 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great that explains why all slim attractive women are married...oh wait! They are not all married...in fact, a lot of those Instagram models are still single lol. Honey, you don’t have to look hot or even have a perfect healthy body to get married, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I don’t need to justify looks to anyone. I’ve never had a problem dating. Now, I’m married with three kids. Theres a secret but I ain’t telling. You either got it or you don’t. Sometimes it takes maturity and age to figure it out. That’s why some women and men never get married or find mates. It takes more than a great job, a healthy body and a pretty face to get a man. Anyone can get a fuck buddy but only a mature person can find a good husband or good wife.

    • @PettyLabelle
      @PettyLabelle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mrs. W this!!!!!!!!

    • @sisid2289
      @sisid2289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mrs. W you missed the point
      Men like attractive, slim, young women

    • @mrs.w8193
      @mrs.w8193 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      sisi d you are wrong! Men like ALL types of women. Men might be visual creatures but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Not all men like slim women.

    • @UnpopularOpinion3000
      @UnpopularOpinion3000 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...well, I just wanna know the secret...but maybe I am finding out during my own walk in life. hmmm.....

  • @yo_way
    @yo_way 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So when we going to get a matchmaking show, Dineva? “Dating with the Doll” get these people together!

  • @jeanghrey
    @jeanghrey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I like this backdrop the best

  • @TheMarilyndmiller2
    @TheMarilyndmiller2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where have u been all my life. Newly subscribed and binge watching.

  • @caramelredheadnurse
    @caramelredheadnurse 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dineva, fitness class😩😩😩. You know you right about the biology. Why does some of this makes sense. CHILE, DINEVA. YOU ARE RIGHT. I found my man in the VIP section of his event. 😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @tomika1003
    @tomika1003 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video was sooooo real!!! Stay in your league!! Thats why I love me a big boy with a beard...cause imma big gal 😂😂 I stay in my league.

  • @casandradarring4641
    @casandradarring4641 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel a person attracts what they are,so if you are a well out going person,you will attract a well out going person,simple as that. thank God i have been married for 17 years and we cont to do what it took to get each other. Another thang , I want to know why do todays men always want the female to bring what the have or more in other words men of today pretty much want a woman to be the provider,and I keep wondering why these men feel like they do not understand that God made them to be the provider,it just that simple. Please tell all men that they are designed to be the provider and the woman is the help mate not the provider.I'm so gld you did this video. I would love to see you have your own talk show!!!!!

  • @claireistotle
    @claireistotle 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes Neva girl!! The Doll has inspired a little Oakland girl like me, cuz with all this devastation to the nation, it's hard to keep hope alive. & just think-a year or two ago you were bringing me life and adding some laughter to my pain with the Why Don't I Have a Man video, here you are comin full circle! Live your truth and keep on doin it cuz it helps us all. ♥️♥️

  • @Touch_of_Tonja
    @Touch_of_Tonja 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    First off Dineva, I love the hair!
    Secondly, I agree with everything you said, made perfect sense
    Third, I'm getting my shit together so I can get on down to the country club
    Finally, how do I sign up for future courses, the Marlo Hampton school of hoeing was too much for me 😂😂😂

  • @ExcelAndBeExcellent
    @ExcelAndBeExcellent 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for the lesson Prof. Ross.

  • @arneishaparks6046
    @arneishaparks6046 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Know your role and play your position Amen

  • @malaysiandoll1096
    @malaysiandoll1096 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Doing this, all summer 2023 I’m speaking it into existence.

    • @eboni257
      @eboni257 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤🙌🏿❤

  • @WellsAnton
    @WellsAnton 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Quentin you know you just told these women the TRUTH #FloridaBoy

  • @minlat28
    @minlat28 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “You gotta go to that color man convention!!!!”lmao

  • @-Epiphany
    @-Epiphany 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who knew I needed this class?? Pen and paper in hand... Yes gawd honey

  • @ilan2endi
    @ilan2endi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Tell em!! Hate heffas drinking those ratchet fruity drinks coming in events in groups of 5 talking loud asf

  • @caramelredheadnurse
    @caramelredheadnurse 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dineva, when is the next class? I need the next class. You giving us the 🍵 TEA,

  • @caramelredheadnurse
    @caramelredheadnurse 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dineva when is the next class.