Great thanks for sharing the video at right time, I was expecting this only, if they targeted to corner they do continously, you made a wise decision.. They using our fear as weapon n treating and putting down us emotionally, all s passed now you have the wings to fly.. For sure u will earn more than this and also you stay with happiness, its no need to prove with any bossy sadist, our own n life and happiness is important.. They will get the pay for it from God or not, we need not to think about these idiots, you enjoy dear, very soon i will also take decision wisely..... All. The best to you both, i keep follow n support you
காசு இல்லாமல் பட்டினிகிடந்து சாவேனே ஒழிய யாருக்கும் அடிமையாக வேலை செய்யமாட்டேன் பல கோடி குடுத்தாலும் என்னை விலைக்கு வாங்கமுடியாது நான் சுயதொழில் செய்கிறேன் எனக்கு அடிப்படை தேவைகள் தவிர வேறு எதையும் விரும்புவதில்லை தனிஒருவனாக கஷ்டப்பட்டாலும் சந்தோசமாக மனநிறைவுடன் நிம்மதியாக வாழ்கிறேன்
I am NOT able to relate any of this office politics and that too so many things is happenig In IT. The IT job i know is all about delivering to client satisfaction and with lot of pressure no one will be able to even think about doing all these petty politics. After looking at all the comments i feel there is so much happening around me in other people career. Now i am able to realize I think i am really lucky to have a good career under multipleanagers who were treating me really really good and i have always stood for the people who were trusting me be it a junior most or the senior most employee. I am in my 23rd year of service in IT.
Hi.. you are very lucky... happy to know it... I too worked with a real good boss but all of a sudden i was moved to different team... FYI : i worked in client location (indian client) onsite for an year that was one most terrible experience.. i think ur clients are from western and europian countries. I will share video tomorrow..
Hi ma. I am an ex bank Manager. Its a public sector bank. There too the situation is similar now. Even after 28 years of service i faced the same situation. So i resigned. As you said our mental and physical health is more important. All the best ❤🎉
That's why i switch companies every 2 years with 30 to 50% hike. Whatever she mentioned is 100% true. Never believe manager's and HRs. Learn skills and move out simple.
This is my personal experience, I have worked both in Chennai and Bangalore but due to limited roles in the IT market Chennai IT crowd are more conservative and don't share their knowledge with their colleagues due to their job insecurity. But whereas I see little freedom and knowledge sharing with Bangalore crowd may be because of people coming there from different cultural background. Remember in any job the more you share your knowledge with others, the more you exchange ideas it will come back to you and you will be beneficiary. But many understand this in their late part of their career.
Is this true? Chennai work politics is worst. Never been in banglore... Planning to move there for job opportunities just for a change... Could you please share in detail
இரண்டு வருடங்களுக்கு முன்பு என் மனைவிக்கும் இதேபோல் அனுபவம் ஏற்பட்டது அவரும் வேலையை தூக்கி வீசி விட்டு வந்துவிட்டார் அப்போதும் கூட ராஜினாமா கடிதத்தில் அந்த டீம்லீட் பெண் தன்னை பற்றி ஏதாவது தவறாக எழுதி விட்டீர்களா என்று என் மனைவியிடம் பயத்துடன் கேட்டிருக்கிறார் எதேச்சையாக உங்கள் வீடியோவை பார்க்க நேர்ந்தது பலருக்கும் இது நன்மையாக இருக்கும் என்று நம்புகிறேன் இன்றும் இதைப்போல் எதிர்கொண்டு இருப்பவர்கள் இதுபோல இம்சை கொடுக்கும் ஈன பிறவிகளை துவம்சம் செய்து விட்டுத்தான் வேலையை விட்டு நிற்க வேண்டும் என்பதே என் எண்ணம்
1.Pidikalai na yosikaama vera company switch agidanum. Pressure laye work panna koodathu. Work ah vida Family and health romba mukkiyam. 2.long travel en pannanum. Near by yethavathu veedu eduthu stay panlame 3. Ivlo kasta pattu 1L+ salary vara vanthutu business ah complete ah build pannama en job quit pannanum. Ipavm neenga vera job try panlam. 4. Double salary illama chennai and Bangalore la kids ah vechutu survey panna mudiyathu. 5. Kids ku ipove fees 1L na, think pannikonga future la evlo namma earn/save/invest pannanum nu.
This problem not only in IT in all works the same issue will be there if go to other job definitely you know that.... Anyways all the best for your future
எனக்கு தெரிந்ததை மற்றவருக்கு சொல்லி அவங்க பாதையை முன்னேற்ற வேண்டும் sister. வன்மத்தோடு இருந்தால் அவங்க நல்ல இருக்கமாட்டாங்க. இந்த விடீயோ பார்த்து நிறைய IT company high postla இருக்கறவங்க திருந்தட்டும். உங்கள் புதிய பாதையில் நீங்கள் முன்னேற இறைவன் துணை நிற்பார். உங்களுக்காக இறைவனை வேண்டுகிறேன் சகோதரி. வாழ்க வளமுடன் வளர்க நலமுடன்.
Why not you start a company of your own since you both have a very good experience? People who are broken by the office politics may find it safe to work in your company?? It's not always about the salary, most of the employees wish to work in an environment which inherits a standard work ethics.
All of the issues are related to our mind only. Both working and self employed will have respective problems, not that one is better than the other. So, we need to change our perspective to have a strong mind and to have enough clarity in handling issues like these. Quitting is never the answer. We need to work on our minds only. If we say that we don't have time for anything, then we should do only self analysis for a period of time, probably write it down as a journal for say a month. This will create lot of self awareness within you and that will guide you correctly.
21:51 Sis, you are a great leader. Thats why people around are suppressing you. Dont let anybody stop your growth. If You are a threat to senior folks, trust me you are a GEM. Not every company deserves you. You are a hidden GEM. Only a true great leader can hire you and enjoy your growth. Seek that great leader in your next job.
Sister, I also finished PG WITH BEd also Mphil in physics worked in a reputed school faced lot of politics leads to stress . So i quitted. Now i am a homaker struggling for the next step ,...if possible help me sister... We will work together....Nice soul priya sister❤
Neenga IT ku suitable person ila kudukara work a delay pani finish pananum entry level la irunthengaana jolly a irukalam but neenga nermayaa iruka patheenga atha ungaluku set agala so best next company la jump agi associate mari level la work panunga peaceful a irukalam
Akka take care of your health.. Karma is boomerang,, avangala god pathukuvar.. Very good decision ka,, ella edathulayum epdi nadakuthu,, avangaluku work mukiyam illa😢 kooja adikanum sombu thookanum athan mukiyam,, athu namalala mudiyathu❤
My sister suffereing from severe neck pain and had operation since 3 months working in an IT job 😊❤ After operation too , she s severely suffering from neck pain . Even doctors told to quit the job . One of my cousins she s suffering from severe back spine pain . doctor told she can't undergo any operation because spinal issues can happen . She s daily having severe back spinal pain and she cant even continuously walk for half an hour 😊❤ IT job s ok but not appreciatable 🎉 Health is wealth 🤑 it spoils the health then whats the purpose of earning money ?
@@vigneshviswanathan7443 adhu ku earn panamale irukalam 😂😂 survival ku earn pandra profession choose pana podhum 😂 no need to dream of luxury lifestyle 😊 definitely not health sucking IT industry 😂❤
@@vv2262 exactly unfortunately Today everyone in the IT sector wants to live a luxurious life rather than healthy life!! Settling within the 40's ! Give up the money and insurance for the treatments! Am not accusing but this is the fact
Hi Priya, We worked together at “P****n” about 5 years ago. So, I believe, you remember me well. I always admired you as a great HR professional. You were friendly, supportive, and brought such a positive energy to the office. It’s clear a lot has changed over the years, but stay strong. Remember, your health is most important, so take good care of yourself. Start focusing on a healthy diet, and I’m confident you’ll come back even stronger. Seeing you again in the video is great; keep sharing more! Wishing you all the best for the future. Take care!
Yes I'm also facing same problem 😢😢😢 theirs stopped me interact with client and they intentionally moved bench because I'm not studied convent school they point my english level low not stylish and they not gave only one chance to me for proved myself but i knew it who i am😊
It's not that you are having different different issues that you are facing. If you can observe, there's a pattern in all of the issues you have faced. Which means, the same pattern is going to continue wherever you go, whatever you do. Bz, you are carrying your mind everywhere. So, unless you learn how to let go of your pent-up emotions, the same thing will definitely continue, but in a different scenario. Identify the way to work on your mind 1st. Then, even if you go to work again, you will know how to deal with everything.
I too faced a lot of problem while working. Daily pressure work, daily status checking , micro management , all the full stack development work,. if a reporting manager is rude then the subordinate would have slavery work. apart from that politics with colleagues and ego , salary increment is a big issue. Even though a person work hard, the superior would down that subordinate. always. usually , the worst politics job is software job
Iam also HR guy, My opinion u did change role fast. So u got good pack and also politics pressure. U can compare Dhanush puthupettai movie, he developed fast and problem, stress and survival issue. Currently most of girls and boys hesitate to take promotion, transfer, job role change. Bcoz of pressure of work, politics, type of collegue, some psycho Managers. Take a break and live for your life
Seeing this, I feel working abroad is much better. Very good work environment compared to what you say and also good salary. Better to move out if possible, work for a few years then settle back in India
Wish you all the best...it is also in all departments.after 39 years of govt servicemy 20 years to 59 years my VR before a year of my actual retirement it is for my daughter delivery in abroad..i was remarked in last inspection not satisfactory....but i felt very glad with my grand child in abroad.. Now also leading my days ver very happily....so as per my consious and saved a lot so iam doing to charity a lot and very very happy......iduvum kadanthu pogum and all is well...god will surely give a better chance .
Health is very important, so we need to concentrate first on our health and family..... You might be facing some financial problems for the next 3 to 5 months........ Then you will manage it... Most of the office superiors act like this only.... Anyway, all the best for a bright future....
You are a warrior akka.Thanks for sharing such cheap office politics with us. Avangalalam ennanu soldradhu. Health checkup panni nutrient deficient problem irundha sari panunga. Neenga unga bakery business nalla develop panunga kandipa successfulla varum. Take it slow and steady. All the best akka.
All the best👍💯.. I wish you to get success in your new role and in your business.. Thanks for the information. I am also an IT Employee.. I can feel your pain..
Unga story kegum pothu Apafiye ennaiye pargura mathiri iruku sister . Sathiyama solluren Neenha nampurathum nampathathu unga istam I'm a private school teacher 2017 la marriage 2018 1st baby born (normal)but second baby ku romba struggle sister, school work pressure nu Neenga sonna mathiri tha 1st baby delivery ku 1 1/2 year back same school la again work panna poren, Athu tha nan panna very big mistake neenga solla ella issues nanum face pannen. I m from village, oor la ponnu pethuta en maganuku varisu venum talk nu poitte iruthu Nanum 1st baby c section nu 2 yr break la 2nd baby ku try pannen but no result Nearly romba stress ah irunth iruken, my husband ethuvum sonnurathu illa, oru child ah pothum vidu feel pannatha tha support pannuvar. But surrounding people not bad Oru stage la Dr kida poiten. Romba kastam patten sis, Oru vali ah nanum conceive aanen 2023 la apo parunga Evalo 1st baby ku age gap Neenga oru oru problem sollum pothum apadiye ennanaiye pargura mathiri iruku sister . Ur very great 👍🏻. Nanum ungala mathiri tha TH-cam channel run pannuren own business pannanum ideas iruku start panna kandipa share pannuren. Thank you so much 😊 🙏🏻
Hi Mam.. Thank u very much for sharing.. Manasu kashtama than iruku sometimes.. all will be normal.. neenga own business pannunga.. i am planning to post all my steps to run a successful home business .. i will share lot of tips
No gender bias. Men also facing same situation. It's all about characters and handling people. I have never received KT but I will teach my exp to all the teammates. This is how I respond. All the best
Kids, overall health of our family is the most important for every woman. At some point we need a break from job and move towards our passion. All the best 👍
Hi, Good Morning!! I think you are choosing a best option because may be you find your IKIGAI.. Naanum govt school tha so communication lam perusa irukathu.. Same i am also 13 years of exp in IT sector.. Currently working in TCS.. Work from home pannitu irukea.. Housing loan EMI irukara naala yelathayum poruthutu sari sari nu work panna vendiyatha iruku.. But oru nalla visayam yennana part payment la 70% of loans complete pannitea.. 2025 july la intha loan complete pannitu naanum yennoda IKIGAI nokki step yeaduthu vaika start pannuvean... ALL THE BEST.. 👍
True, Sir. Companies should change the way they treat employees from lowcost region. People will realize that they are being used and its not worth the struggle. They Will get the mentality of Western countries in no time.
@@itsyuvin Hi sir / mam, No i am yet to find my ikigai.. I started looking opportunities and i want to do some services so the money will come as biproduct..
I have faced more politics than this. I couldn't do anything. I just quit my job. If we do anything against this, I think we only face more loss when compared to this big corporate s. Companies are responsible for this, and we can't do anything about this.
Hi.....My sister same issue in Hospital...He started to work after 10 years due to his marriage and childrens...Now noone is ready share knowledge and from both end same nurses are telling why you coming to job without knowing all things...She have only 3 months experience in job after 10 years of studies.but i dont people are not understanding and no one is supportive in any organization for freshers and juniors...they are thinking paying from their pockets...HR is ready to hire and organization ready to pay....but their employees doing this politics...Now she left the job due to this politics....In Aravind Eye hospital,Coimbatore.
You are absolutely right.. i missed to share the same thing .. they all feel they are paying from their pocket.. full of ego and dont want anyone to learn and grow.. its because they are insecured about their job...
Hi sis , I am feeling same pain now, i have one year kid and she is with my mom c section and feeling depressed as not able to give my 100%kid and to do my desk activities in same ofc for almost 5.5years as there is no increment from almost 2years and struggling with my thoughts as one side emis one side kid and not able to share my feelings
Hi .. dont feel.. when my mom was alive she took care of my son very well.. you be happy that ur baby is in safe hands.. dont put yourself in inferior mode.. its very hard to come out of it.. Pls do some new course and move to new company.. or fight back and set boundary
Hi Priya, Randomly saw ur video and its just a normal work culture now a days. What ever u have faced, have been facing. Just wanted to say , you have made a good decision. Health is priority and not money. All the best to both of you :)
Great sharing, Akka! We people forget ourselves and our family, just to be honest to the salary we get and for our own contentment that we leave no stones unturned in our work. But what we secure finally is a bad name! Bitter truth of work life! But, I like your confidence and am sure you'll go a long way!!!
Good decision sister. But I have one point power la erukavanga they'll do. We have to adjust or quit. How this is right for ourself. Defend Panama vandhuta regret adhigama erukum
Office politics::2013 passed out...same time IT field downfall la irundha time....na oru B school la join pannen ... student uh illa staff uh join pannen.. pachayapa colg la job fair nu sillitu Andha B school student uh serka pathanga.
The way you explaining with your signature smile was great...we may succeed or not what we focus to achieve but attitude matters in the whole journey.. good decision Keep going with good thoughts all the best ❤
This is called harassment, you should have complained. Companies take this kind of acts very strictly. This is very common problem in Indian IT industry.
Even I faced some struggles in IT.i spent more time on work thus I didn’t even had time to spend with my baby.still I did not get promotion after doing lot of work. I quit 2years before.
Honestly speaking its not just in work.. Currently I'm in final year of engineering and as mine is an autonomous college the entire pass or fail control is there in the hands of my department HOD.. She is literally the crap I have ever seen in my life.. Being a girl who studied from the top schools of the city and I had even the class topper in my school days... But after getting into this cheap clg I have met all sorts of toxic snakes everwhere I see.. Uff! My cls advisor always used to corner me if I get to the cls a minute late.. My HOD had made so many arrears on me for no reason really... Oh god! Such a crap she is.. And the ranting will go on If I start to say mine... Women in all walks of life are facing so much due to the cheap mentality of such seniors.. In your case they are cornering you for not knowing english.. In my case he is cornering me as I speak better english than my class advisor...
Hi priya, i just randomly got your video in my feed then i realised it's you. hope you know me ( Imran - BCT ) i wish all the best for your channal and future and your goal... keep going and rock 👍🏻
It is not worth sister. Rendu per work panna kuda difficult to manage na i think something wrong with our work environment. Nalla adichuttu ivan romba nallavan nu sonnuthum (award kuduthathum) off agiduvom. Better do what you like even if it providing low income also it is fine. Finally it all boils down to individual and what one feels right
Bro and sister my experiences are very bitter . I have many . But I tell you one That was my first company. In a week time there was a team huddle in the floor. The below was the comment manager: hey new guy Me: hello sir Manager: are you from tuticorin Me: no sir Manager : you look so dark and skin looks very hard like bulluck. In tuticorin people looks dark like you so that asked. Is it your father is fisherman. You eat chicken right . Eat eat. Told this and smiled. After that people who were around me loughed like anything. The manager and most of the employees and leadership all are belongs to brahmin. I have bitter experiences in my career like this in 20 years. All in chennai only. Few of them are can not write because those words are abusive and worst. Hope you understand
I can relate.. its a typical racism .. i too noticed fair skin people receive good treatment.. their character , education and moral values are not considered As i said always remeber "cheap people = cheap thoughts" You please ignore them.. they are menatlly ill
While it's true that such knowledge is valuable, the tone might inadvertently overlook the fact that people learn different things at different times and may not prioritize shortcuts until they realize their value
There are few psychopaths in the name of a manager or team leader who think they know everything in technology. They try to showcase their knowledge to a weaker section of people.
Mam i am working in small IT company never tried for mnc.... working in home town only and preparing govt job by side what would suggest mam ,? Shall i try for mnc or govt job ? Which is better for girls ?
Great thanks for sharing the video at right time, I was expecting this only, if they targeted to corner they do continously, you made a wise decision.. They using our fear as weapon n treating and putting down us emotionally, all s passed now you have the wings to fly.. For sure u will earn more than this and also you stay with happiness, its no need to prove with any bossy sadist, our own n life and happiness is important.. They will get the pay for it from God or not, we need not to think about these idiots, you enjoy dear, very soon i will also take decision wisely..... All. The best to you both, i keep follow n support you
Now I am looking for job..if you wish I can join with you....for your future assignment......
Yes I accept your point
காசு இல்லாமல் பட்டினிகிடந்து சாவேனே ஒழிய யாருக்கும் அடிமையாக வேலை செய்யமாட்டேன் பல கோடி குடுத்தாலும் என்னை விலைக்கு வாங்கமுடியாது நான் சுயதொழில் செய்கிறேன் எனக்கு அடிப்படை தேவைகள் தவிர வேறு எதையும் விரும்புவதில்லை தனிஒருவனாக கஷ்டப்பட்டாலும் சந்தோசமாக மனநிறைவுடன் நிம்மதியாக வாழ்கிறேன்
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ellarukum appadi illa, inga service sectors IT, KPO, BPO mattum illana padichi mudichitu veliya vara ella enna pannuvanga?....
yaarum intha velai ellam rombo pudichi ellam seiyala, edho kaasu varuthu plus konjam benefits varuthunu than seiranga.
Enna thozhil sir
Ungalukku samabalam kodupangale adhu eppadi adimai aagum.
@@MCSPrakashV sambalam mattum than vidhyasam adimaithanathukum it kum, adharkaga vevveru agiduma?
I am NOT able to relate any of this office politics and that too so many things is happenig In IT. The IT job i know is all about delivering to client satisfaction and with lot of pressure no one will be able to even think about doing all these petty politics. After looking at all the comments i feel there is so much happening around me in other people career.
Now i am able to realize I think i am really lucky to have a good career under multipleanagers who were treating me really really good and i have always stood for the people who were trusting me be it a junior most or the senior most employee.
I am in my 23rd year of service in IT.
You are a saint 😅😅😅😅
Hi.. you are very lucky... happy to know it...
I too worked with a real good boss but all of a sudden i was moved to different team...
FYI : i worked in client location (indian client) onsite for an year that was one most terrible experience.. i think ur clients are from western and europian countries. I will share video tomorrow..
Hi ma. I am an ex bank Manager. Its a public sector bank. There too the situation is similar now. Even after 28 years of service i faced the same situation. So i resigned. As you said our mental and physical health is more important. All the best ❤🎉
Can u share your experience mam? i am preparing for that only it will be uselful for many of us
Hi mam.. thank you for your comment.. all these are personality issues.. we cant deal with mentally sick people.. we both took a good decision
I am also facing the same issue... 20 years service i have completed... Planning to get VRS
That's why i switch companies every 2 years with 30 to 50% hike. Whatever she mentioned is 100% true. Never believe manager's and HRs. Learn skills and move out simple.
100% correct
This is my personal experience, I have worked both in Chennai and Bangalore but due to limited roles in the IT market Chennai IT crowd are more conservative and don't share their knowledge with their colleagues due to their job insecurity. But whereas I see little freedom and knowledge sharing with Bangalore crowd may be because of people coming there from different cultural background. Remember in any job the more you share your knowledge with others, the more you exchange ideas it will come back to you and you will be beneficiary. But many understand this in their late part of their career.
Is this true? Chennai work politics is worst. Never been in banglore... Planning to move there for job opportunities just for a change... Could you please share in detail
இரண்டு வருடங்களுக்கு முன்பு என் மனைவிக்கும் இதேபோல் அனுபவம் ஏற்பட்டது அவரும் வேலையை தூக்கி வீசி விட்டு வந்துவிட்டார் அப்போதும் கூட ராஜினாமா கடிதத்தில் அந்த டீம்லீட் பெண் தன்னை பற்றி ஏதாவது தவறாக எழுதி விட்டீர்களா என்று என் மனைவியிடம் பயத்துடன் கேட்டிருக்கிறார் எதேச்சையாக உங்கள் வீடியோவை பார்க்க நேர்ந்தது பலருக்கும் இது நன்மையாக இருக்கும் என்று நம்புகிறேன் இன்றும் இதைப்போல் எதிர்கொண்டு இருப்பவர்கள் இதுபோல இம்சை கொடுக்கும் ஈன பிறவிகளை துவம்சம் செய்து விட்டுத்தான் வேலையை விட்டு நிற்க வேண்டும் என்பதே என் எண்ணம்
Exactly explained 👌 true 100 percent
1.Pidikalai na yosikaama vera company switch agidanum. Pressure laye work panna koodathu. Work ah vida Family and health romba mukkiyam.
2.long travel en pannanum. Near by yethavathu veedu eduthu stay panlame
3. Ivlo kasta pattu 1L+ salary vara vanthutu business ah complete ah build pannama en job quit pannanum. Ipavm neenga vera job try panlam.
4. Double salary illama chennai and Bangalore la kids ah vechutu survey panna mudiyathu.
5. Kids ku ipove fees 1L na, think pannikonga future la evlo namma earn/save/invest pannanum nu.
Super you are sharing your experience,then only other all have same difficulty then they also know how to come out
This problem not only in IT in all works the same issue will be there if go to other job definitely you know that.... Anyways all the best for your future
Thank u very much
Yes all field I am also do same thing, more work less talk be careful in any field because sometime can be created problem in any field....
You are right
எனக்கு தெரிந்ததை மற்றவருக்கு சொல்லி அவங்க பாதையை முன்னேற்ற வேண்டும் sister. வன்மத்தோடு இருந்தால் அவங்க நல்ல இருக்கமாட்டாங்க. இந்த விடீயோ பார்த்து நிறைய IT company high postla இருக்கறவங்க திருந்தட்டும். உங்கள் புதிய பாதையில் நீங்கள் முன்னேற இறைவன் துணை நிற்பார். உங்களுக்காக இறைவனை வேண்டுகிறேன் சகோதரி. வாழ்க வளமுடன் வளர்க நலமுடன்.
Hi mam.. thank u very much.. help pana manasu varala avangaluku.. ena anupanum nu than ellam panitu irundhanga
Super sister, I am also do same thing, Nan yarrukum adimai illai, than kaiyei thanaku udavi. More politics in my office.
Why not you start a company of your own since you both have a very good experience? People who are broken by the office politics may find it safe to work in your company?? It's not always about the salary, most of the employees wish to work in an environment which inherits a standard work ethics.
Hi mam.. we are planning the same..
You arw cent percent right
All of the issues are related to our mind only. Both working and self employed will have respective problems, not that one is better than the other. So, we need to change our perspective to have a strong mind and to have enough clarity in handling issues like these. Quitting is never the answer. We need to work on our minds only. If we say that we don't have time for anything, then we should do only self analysis for a period of time, probably write it down as a journal for say a month. This will create lot of self awareness within you and that will guide you correctly.
❤yes all field .i work private school.this same issue i face it so many times. But i am not worry about that. I take that issue is my experience.
More power to u
21:51 Sis, you are a great leader. Thats why people around are suppressing you. Dont let anybody stop your growth. If You are a threat to senior folks, trust me you are a GEM. Not every company deserves you. You are a hidden GEM. Only a true great leader can hire you and enjoy your growth. Seek that great leader in your next job.
Sister, I also finished PG WITH BEd also Mphil in physics worked in a reputed school faced lot of politics leads to stress . So i quitted. Now i am a homaker struggling for the next step ,...if possible help me sister... We will work together....Nice soul priya sister❤
Neenga IT ku suitable person ila kudukara work a delay pani finish pananum entry level la irunthengaana jolly a irukalam but neenga nermayaa iruka patheenga atha ungaluku set agala so best next company la jump agi associate mari level la work panunga peaceful a irukalam
Rombha rombha correct
Akka take care of your health.. Karma is boomerang,, avangala god pathukuvar.. Very good decision ka,, ella edathulayum epdi nadakuthu,, avangaluku work mukiyam illa😢 kooja adikanum sombu thookanum athan mukiyam,, athu namalala mudiyathu❤
My sister suffereing from severe neck pain and had operation since 3 months working in an IT job 😊❤ After operation too , she s severely suffering from neck pain . Even doctors told to quit the job . One of my cousins she s suffering from severe back spine pain . doctor told she can't undergo any operation because spinal issues can happen . She s daily having severe back spinal pain and she cant even continuously walk for half an hour 😊❤
IT job s ok but not appreciatable 🎉 Health is wealth 🤑 it spoils the health then whats the purpose of earning money ?
It is very simple ,earn money and give it to the hospital!
@@vigneshviswanathan7443 adhu ku earn panamale irukalam 😂😂 survival ku earn pandra profession choose pana podhum 😂 no need to dream of luxury lifestyle 😊 definitely not health sucking IT industry 😂❤
@@vv2262 exactly unfortunately Today everyone in the IT sector wants to live a luxurious life rather than healthy life!! Settling within the 40's ! Give up the money and insurance for the treatments! Am not accusing but this is the fact
That confident at the end of video was 🔥🔥
Thank u dear
U guys look so cute together ❤, spend time with ur family, thats the real happiness
Hi.. thank u very much.. sure
Hi Priya, We worked together at “P****n” about 5 years ago. So, I believe, you remember me well. I always admired you as a great HR professional. You were friendly, supportive, and brought such a positive energy to the office. It’s clear a lot has changed over the years, but stay strong. Remember, your health is most important, so take good care of yourself. Start focusing on a healthy diet, and I’m confident you’ll come back even stronger. Seeing you again in the video is great; keep sharing more!
Wishing you all the best for the future. Take care!
So Priya you had been a fighter and continuing to be . Don't worry you will deserve good
Hi.. your comment is very encouraging.. thank u very much
Yes I'm also facing same problem 😢😢😢 theirs stopped me interact with client and they intentionally moved bench because I'm not studied convent school they point my english level low not stylish and they not gave only one chance to me for proved myself but i knew it who i am😊
Hi dear.. dont worry.. try to move out of that company
All d best sister❤ur husband is very supportive
He is good ma.. you are right
You are such a lovable friendly HR .
Thank u santhosh.. how is ur family
It's not that you are having different different issues that you are facing. If you can observe, there's a pattern in all of the issues you have faced. Which means, the same pattern is going to continue wherever you go, whatever you do. Bz, you are carrying your mind everywhere. So, unless you learn how to let go of your pent-up emotions, the same thing will definitely continue, but in a different scenario. Identify the way to work on your mind 1st. Then, even if you go to work again, you will know how to deal with everything.
Good job mam continue spread awareness about how corporate treat and system suck people life
Sure sir.. i will
I too faced a lot of problem while working. Daily pressure work, daily status checking , micro management , all the full stack development work,. if a reporting manager is rude then the subordinate would have slavery work. apart from that politics with colleagues and ego , salary increment is a big issue. Even though a person work hard, the superior would down that subordinate. always. usually , the worst politics job is software job
Iam also HR guy, My opinion u did change role fast. So u got good pack and also politics pressure. U can compare Dhanush puthupettai movie, he developed fast and problem, stress and survival issue. Currently most of girls and boys hesitate to take promotion, transfer, job role change. Bcoz of pressure of work, politics, type of collegue, some psycho Managers. Take a break and live for your life
Seeing this, I feel working abroad is much better. Very good work environment compared to what you say and also good salary. Better to move out if possible, work for a few years then settle back in India
Hi ya.. my husband works for europian boss.. I agree ur point ..
Can I have a chance @@itsyuvin
Hello no. American company here, product company thaan, it is not full of roses like you think. It really depend on how you handle it
Wish you all the best...it is also in all departments.after 39 years of govt servicemy 20 years to 59 years my VR before a year of my actual retirement it is for my daughter delivery in abroad..i was remarked in last inspection not satisfactory....but i felt very glad with my grand child in abroad..
Now also leading my days ver very happily....so as per my consious and saved a lot so iam doing to charity a lot and very very happy......iduvum kadanthu pogum and all is well...god will surely give a better chance .
Hi mam.. thank u very much.. end of the day our happiness matters..
Our morals should be valued..you are right .. idhuvum kadanthu pogum
Priya you r kind hearted person❤
Thank u very much
Health is very important, so we need to concentrate first on our health and family..... You might be facing some financial problems for the next 3 to 5 months........ Then you will manage it... Most of the office superiors act like this only.... Anyway, all the best for a bright future....
Hi thank u very much for encouraging me.. I am also worried about next 4 months.. but its ok all for good..
வாழ்க்கையே போர்க்களம் வாழ்ந்துதான் ஆகணும்.
வாழ்க வளமுடன்.
Thank u sir
You are a warrior akka.Thanks for sharing such cheap office politics with us. Avangalalam ennanu soldradhu. Health checkup panni nutrient deficient problem irundha sari panunga. Neenga unga bakery business nalla develop panunga kandipa successfulla varum. Take it slow and steady. All the best akka.
Thank u very much... your words are very much encouraging..
I also face same problem like u sis like cornering domination,partiality and no motivation😅.
Please leave that job.. vendam ma.. namaku than tensiom
Yes you are correct sister.
ya
Thanks for sharing this. I can completely relate as I also just resigned. What next
Super akka ungaloda experience share panatha romba useful ah iruku
All the best👍💯.. I wish you to get success in your new role and in your business.. Thanks for the information. I am also an IT Employee.. I can feel your pain..
Unga story kegum pothu
Apafiye ennaiye pargura mathiri iruku sister .
Sathiyama solluren
Neenha nampurathum nampathathu unga istam
I'm a private school teacher
2017 la marriage 2018 1st baby born (normal)but second baby ku romba struggle sister, school work pressure nu
Neenga sonna mathiri tha 1st baby delivery ku 1 1/2 year back same school la again work panna poren,
Athu tha nan panna very big mistake neenga solla ella issues nanum face pannen. I m from village, oor la ponnu pethuta en maganuku varisu venum talk nu poitte iruthu
Nanum 1st baby c section nu 2 yr break la 2nd baby ku
try pannen but no result
Nearly romba stress ah irunth iruken, my husband ethuvum sonnurathu illa, oru child ah pothum vidu feel pannatha tha support pannuvar. But surrounding people not bad
Oru stage la Dr kida poiten.
Romba kastam patten sis,
Oru vali ah nanum conceive aanen 2023 la apo parunga
Evalo 1st baby ku age gap
Neenga oru oru problem sollum pothum apadiye ennanaiye pargura mathiri iruku sister . Ur very great 👍🏻.
Nanum ungala mathiri tha TH-cam channel run pannuren own business pannanum ideas iruku start panna kandipa share pannuren.
Thank you so much 😊 🙏🏻
Hi Mam..
Thank u very much for sharing..
Manasu kashtama than iruku sometimes.. all will be normal.. neenga own business pannunga.. i am planning to post all my steps to run a successful home business .. i will share lot of tips
@itsyuvin
Ok sis.
Thank you 👍🏻
@Shravaniartstudio ok ma..
definitely you will grow high.
No gender bias. Men also facing same situation. It's all about characters and handling people.
I have never received KT but I will teach my exp to all the teammates. This is how I respond. All the best
எல்லாம் உன் கட்டத்தில் உள்ளது எதிரி ஸ்தானம் வலுவாக இருக்கும் அப்படி நினைத்தால் மனம் பிறரை குறை காணாது
Kids, overall health of our family is the most important for every woman. At some point we need a break from job and move towards our passion.
All the best 👍
Agree mam..
Hi,
Good Morning!!
I think you are choosing a best option because may be you find your IKIGAI.. Naanum govt school tha so communication lam perusa irukathu.. Same i am also 13 years of exp in IT sector.. Currently working in TCS.. Work from home pannitu irukea.. Housing loan EMI irukara naala yelathayum poruthutu sari sari nu work panna vendiyatha iruku.. But oru nalla visayam yennana part payment la 70% of loans complete pannitea.. 2025 july la intha loan complete pannitu naanum yennoda IKIGAI nokki step yeaduthu vaika start pannuvean... ALL THE BEST.. 👍
True, Sir. Companies should change the way they treat employees from lowcost region. People will realize that they are being used and its not worth the struggle. They Will get the mentality of Western countries in no time.
My heartist wishes .. i think u have already found ur ikigai
@@itsyuvin Hi sir / mam,
No i am yet to find my ikigai.. I started looking opportunities and i want to do some services so the money will come as biproduct..
I have faced more politics than this. I couldn't do anything. I just quit my job. If we do anything against this, I think we only face more loss when compared to this big corporate s. Companies are responsible for this, and we can't do anything about this.
Very true.. we are locked with financial commitments
Hi.....My sister same issue in Hospital...He started to work after 10 years due to his marriage and childrens...Now noone is ready share knowledge and from both end same nurses are telling why you coming to job without knowing all things...She have only 3 months experience in job after 10 years of studies.but i dont people are not understanding and no one is supportive in any organization for freshers and juniors...they are thinking paying from their pockets...HR is ready to hire and organization ready to pay....but their employees doing this politics...Now she left the job due to this politics....In Aravind Eye hospital,Coimbatore.
You are absolutely right.. i missed to share the same thing .. they all feel they are paying from their pocket.. full of ego and dont want anyone to learn and grow.. its because they are insecured about their job...
You both are worked as human resource
Best of luck for your new journey
Thank u sir
Hi sis , I am feeling same pain now, i have one year kid and she is with my mom c section and feeling depressed as not able to give my 100%kid and to do my desk activities in same ofc for almost 5.5years as there is no increment from almost 2years and struggling with my thoughts as one side emis one side kid and not able to share my feelings
Hi .. dont feel.. when my mom was alive she took care of my son very well.. you be happy that ur baby is in safe hands.. dont put yourself in inferior mode.. its very hard to come out of it..
Pls do some new course and move to new company.. or fight back and set boundary
This type of environment exist in every department
Correct
True sister, i am male newly married got layoff as Product Manager
My son is also working in Chennai One campus.
Hi mam,
I'm hari
I'm 2020 passed out, 26 year old
IT job possible
Na IT field polam slunga pls
Unga experience sonna crt iruku
Possible pa.. pls check my playlist for careeguidance and watch that video.. it will be very useful to u
@itsyuvin tq so much
Hi Priya,
Randomly saw ur video and its just a normal work culture now a days. What ever u have faced, have been facing. Just wanted to say , you have made a good decision. Health is priority and not money. All the best to both of you :)
Hi thank u very much.. pls switch to a new company..my personal advice
Not only in work place even relatives same type....
Great sharing, Akka!
We people forget ourselves and our family, just to be honest to the salary we get and for our own contentment that we leave no stones unturned in our work.
But what we secure finally is a bad name!
Bitter truth of work life!
But, I like your confidence and am sure you'll go a long way!!!
Yes.. i agree.. we put our entire energy and soul just to finish the work.. we are not valued..
We are accountable for the task without any crediblity
Good decision sister. But I have one point power la erukavanga they'll do. We have to adjust or quit. How this is right for ourself. Defend Panama vandhuta regret adhigama erukum
All the best akka ❤romba touching aaa eruku ungala pakkum bothu🥹 grow up 🎉🎉🎉
Best of luck for the new phase of you life mam
Thank u sir
Toxic work culture is high. Are Bengaluru salaries and work culture better than Chennai?
Ennama ethaleyam oru probs ethavida perusalam nanga annupavathukonduthaerulirpm, nanga veedukku asaipodala child education poradrum. Ella job erkurathan. Night 12 &1 meeting join panna soluvanga..
Office politics::2013 passed out...same time IT field downfall la irundha time....na oru B school la join pannen ... student uh illa staff uh join pannen..
pachayapa colg la job fair nu sillitu Andha B school student uh serka pathanga.
andha B school la think panna..nee nga soldrathu ellam onnum illa...😊😊😊
Unhuman Act, and I am very shocked to hear that people behave like that. God bless you!
I have faced even worse situation
I will share soon
Bangalore politics ellam peak la irukum. Bangalore not less in anyways.
Still same problem in all IT company. Iam also still facing same issues.
Hi Priya Varun, iam ur great fan, so open & very informative videos, so helpful & useful for all,
All ur wishes will come true very soon
thank you for being honest, unfortunately this is how it works every where. better to quit and start your own business. Good luck!
Priya. Nanu uningaloda periya fan. Uingaluku nariya talent irruku. Enga neenga avanga position ha aduthupingalo nu avainga ippadi officela politics pandranga,simple. Nanum edey madiri face panni dhan discontinue panniten. ❤
Hi Swa.. happy to see your comment
This type of problem every IT ians, why not interfere concerned Govt. Department
Yes.. im thinking the same
Great words take care yr health & family i am also working in job stress tension many
People have become so mean now a days… basic humanity ye maranthutanga
I experienced these cheap behaviours from degree holders only.. their education went meaning less
Thank u for sharing🤝 ur experience madam. Don't worry. First focus on ur health. Kandipa assura valarchi adaivingaa vazhthukall 🫡 madam.
This is very common in all Indian IT service industry, but comparatively less in product based company.
Illa pa. Product also same. All depends on your leaders and managers.
Mam ungakita husband ai mock pandra habit iruku 😊🎉 its not a good habit for the healthy relationship mam 😊❤
Husband mock pannanma pakathu veetu karana mock pannuvan?
Ena MOCK panala nu nenaikuren brother.. 😂🤣 (you found it bro)
Thanks for sharing. This will give a idea for new joiners..
The way you explaining with your signature smile was great...we may succeed or not what we focus to achieve but attitude matters in the whole journey.. good decision
Keep going with good thoughts all the best ❤
This is called harassment, you should have complained. Companies take this kind of acts very strictly.
This is very common problem in Indian IT industry.
Even I faced some struggles in IT.i spent more time on work thus I didn’t even had time to spend with my baby.still I did not get promotion after doing lot of work.
I quit 2years before.
Honestly speaking its not just in work.. Currently I'm in final year of engineering and as mine is an autonomous college the entire pass or fail control is there in the hands of my department HOD.. She is literally the crap I have ever seen in my life.. Being a girl who studied from the top schools of the city and I had even the class topper in my school days... But after getting into this cheap clg I have met all sorts of toxic snakes everwhere I see.. Uff! My cls advisor always used to corner me if I get to the cls a minute late.. My HOD had made so many arrears on me for no reason really... Oh god! Such a crap she is.. And the ranting will go on If I start to say mine... Women in all walks of life are facing so much due to the cheap mentality of such seniors.. In your case they are cornering you for not knowing english.. In my case he is cornering me as I speak better english than my class advisor...
Hi dear its due to mental illness ..they never letting anyone live peacefull life.. these people need mental treatment
Hi priya, i just randomly got your video in my feed then i realised it's you. hope you know me ( Imran - BCT ) i wish all the best for your channal and future and your goal... keep going and rock 👍🏻
Hi Imran.. thank you very much.. happy to see your comment
All the best for your new beginning ❤keep going sis
Thank u very much mam
positive vibes created... wish you all the best..... give more...
Mam super . Video quality and sound quality kandipa increase pannuga apo tha successfullah views and subscribers gain panna mudiyum
Sure mam.. feb month i will buy new phone
It is not worth sister. Rendu per work panna kuda difficult to manage na i think something wrong with our work environment. Nalla adichuttu ivan romba nallavan nu sonnuthum (award kuduthathum) off agiduvom. Better do what you like even if it providing low income also it is fine. Finally it all boils down to individual and what one feels right
Super sis🎉
Thank u very much
Good luck Priya👏
Hi .. thank u..
Never to work in Indian software company
Bro and sister my experiences are very bitter . I have many . But I tell you one
That was my first company. In a week time there was a team huddle in the floor. The below was the comment
manager: hey new guy
Me: hello sir
Manager: are you from tuticorin
Me: no sir
Manager : you look so dark and skin looks very hard like bulluck. In tuticorin people looks dark like you so that asked. Is it your father is fisherman. You eat chicken right . Eat eat. Told this and smiled. After that people who were around me loughed like anything. The manager and most of the employees and leadership all are belongs to brahmin.
I have bitter experiences in my career like this in 20 years. All in chennai only. Few of them are can not write because those words are abusive and worst. Hope you understand
I can relate.. its a typical racism .. i too noticed fair skin people receive good treatment.. their character , education and moral values are not considered
As i said always remeber "cheap people = cheap thoughts"
You please ignore them.. they are menatlly ill
@@itsyuvin👌
ctr+h- find and replace. how does it matter not to know?
While it's true that such knowledge is valuable, the tone might inadvertently overlook the fact that people learn different things at different times and may not prioritize shortcuts until they realize their value
There are few psychopaths in the name of a manager or team leader who think they know everything in technology. They try to showcase their knowledge to a weaker section of people.
Same i also quit my job with ax*** bank toxic work environment 😢
Same ninga , enna job role la erunthuinga sis
Same to me madam....en inam neenga.....
Haha.. ya.. Dont worry.. move from that company .. i escaped
Mam i am working in small
IT company never tried for mnc.... working in home town only and preparing govt job by side what would suggest mam ,? Shall i try for mnc or govt job ? Which is better for girls ?
If you are very confident in clearing exam.. pls try govt job ma
@itsyuvin ok mam :)
Neenga pana thappu work panirukenga atha ivalo trouble work panama irunthuruntha avanga ivalo yosichuruka matanga atha IT
Very True, sir. All these years I never got bad rating or faced issue with performance. I Got client appreciations and even won deals!
Women's have more power ❤ Try to balance both ❤work and family 💗 let god's grace be with you 💝
Thank u very much.. means a lot