a sense of humor, smiles alot, dresses in not athletic shirts and gross old t shirts, and understanding sarcasm. can't tell you how important last one is.
a guy that can sing is definitely a big turn on at least for me. also, guys that are funny are generally more attractive. dressing is also kinda big for me cause if you only wear basketball shorts and I t shirt to school everyday I'm not really gonna notice. but that's just me (and I play basketball so that's saying something)
1: Name Him sunglass Jim, Why? Their's not enough people in the world named sunglasses Jim. 2: I find humor very attractive, i love telling joke's and making people smile, and if you can not only take a joke but make a really good one. It's like the best thing ever
same a guy's sense of humor definitely attracts me. I mean yeah the first thing you see is their physical attractiveness but that's personally not the first thing that really draws me to someone. A good sense of humor and a really sweet guy (which is kinda hard to find so I just say a guy who at least isn't a complete asshole 😂)
All great points! Style is definitely a good one! I'm pretty much a walking icebreaker. Lol My style is pretty out there and I'll usually be sporting something 90s TV show related. People will approach me about it, so not only are you showing people who you are, but people interested in the same thing are approaching you! Clothing with pop culture references - always a plus!
Funny guys and also guys that are good with kids or really good to their mom because if he treats his family well he will treat you well. And that's hot.
I am aware this is something no one has control over, but for me specifically, I always notice of a guy is tall. This is definitely because I stand at 5'10" myself so when I see a guy that is taller than me, he's going to catch my eye for at least a second. Obviously there's things that are a lot more important than that though! That's just what I automatically notice first :)
+freak4jellybellys35 tell me about it! Especially the struggle of sitting in the back of a small car. My friend is 6'4" and he makes me sit up front most of the time, partially for my comfort and partially so my knees aren't driving into his back haha
1) make a part two! 2) I like when I'm in class and the guy I'm interested in (or ever not) answers a question correctly, just brains and smartness will attract me to a guy 100x more than someone who thinks 9+10=21 😂
I think that people that are overall caring and don't exclude everyone and can talk to anyone without changing their personality that really catches me eye
I always notice when someone is just nicer and more genuine then the people they hang out with, so just always be nice and be you! It's really attractive :)
my not friend anymore betrayed me a little while ago and ik she watches this channel so i hope she sees this lol (give me a thumbs up if you have been betrayed before and want my not friend anymore to see this) XD seriously guys my not friend anymore prob will see this and wonder if its rlly me XD
Today I noticed my crush take a picture of me during class. What's your opinion about this, should I be concerned or is it a common thing some guys do? I only have class with him once a week. +Really likes the idea of calling 😎 Jerry = (Tom&Jerry). 🐈🐀
For your next video you should talk about ways to approach someone you find attractive (whom you've never talked to before), how to introduce yourself, how many times its okay to approach them after & how many is too much, how to come across as subtle but then again drop hints that you find them attractive...? It'd be rlly helpful rn
I like someone that's easy to talk to. I mean, I'm quite a shy person, but there are those people who just know the exact things to say and all my awkwardness just disappears. There's nothing worse than awkward silences.
Years ago I met a guy on fb. He was a few years older than me. We had mutual friends and he had added me. We talked for a couple of months before we scheduled a meet up. Mind you, I looked at all his pics and asked our mutual friend about him so there weren't any red flags....until I saw him in person! Not only was he shorter than me (I'm 5'1) and his voice was weird...HE HAD TEETH MISSING AND THE TEETH HE HAD WERE ROTTEN!!!!! Since then I ALWAYS check a guy's teeth!!!
Guys with a great sense of humor, sarcasm is good too, also a nice sense of style, ambition is so attractive as well, fitness is also very liked, and someone with a nice smile
I love boys with a good sense of humour like you don't have to keep making jokes or laugh at every single thing but just bringing a good vibe into the conversation is great. Also, style is important. Cleanliness is too (bad breath is a turn off) And guys who don't play mind games. Like honestly, just be straight up honest in what you want. You just wanna flirt and not have a relationship? You want a relationship but you're not ready? TELL ME. IM TIRED OF MIND GAMES.
Yoga is awesome too. I'm an intermediate yogi and have been practicing for the past5 years and I will tell you that it makes such a huge difference compared to just working out.
I always notice guys that are really good at something. it can be anything tbh, whether it's academics, sports, music or whatever, as long as he's really good at it
I think to get someone to notice you depends on your presence. Like how you assert yourself either being really outgoing or really reserved. My tip would be to make your self more noticeable by maybe noticing your posture and fixing that if you can. Another tip is to smile more if you can😊
Someone that isn't afraid to stand out. I personally like when guys aren't scared to speak up in class or to do something funny get my attention. I also just like people who have a sense of humor. Its nice when someone can not only make a joke, but take a joke as well. :)
1: snapchat sent me 2: name him Flynn cause he has "The Smolder" (Disney Geek) 3: Psych is not #1 on my list of fav subjects but definitely top 5 music and lit. have my heart 4: I love when I can sense confidence and it's for sure one of the first things I notice (To be clear though not someone with an ego the size of king kong) and When I'm able to hold a nice conversation with someone that's really something I take notice of and makes me want to hang out and talk to that person more! if you can't hold a decent conversation its a definite turn off
Brooooo I can so relate to to the sneezing and gum situation. No one gives a shit on a normal, sunny day then when I'm a smart ass and bring my umbrella on a wet day everyone is crowding me when we walk in the rain to assembly.
I also love psychology! Um... what gets me to notice someone attractive? Well, for starters, I'm more of the type the girl who falls for a guy's personality over their physical attractiveness; if I did this kind of thing, I would tell you to take a look at the profiles of my (2) exes on social media, and you would see what I'm talking about; but I don't do that. Take my word for it, the two guys I've been in relationships with and the two guys between those or after the second one are complete opposites. The first guy I dated: stereotypical nerd, kind personality... until he broke up with me over a stupid little rumor that had to do with me overreacting a tiny bit too much to a teacher's comment on something, and that teacher was laid off for a different reason, but all the students said that I got that teacher fired. If I got any of the teachers to not come back the next year, I was the straw that broke the camel's back with the "college professor in a high school of kids who should be dumb" teacher. The next guy, who I did not date: physically attractive *I thought at the time I liked him*, but was a complete jackass. He efed around a lot, and apparently already had a daughter. The next guy I dated: a nerd, but kind... until you pushed the wrong buttons. He had quite a few short fuses, which is why I am thankful the next guy, who I did not date either, came along and broke us up. This guy was also the jock type, but had a BAD personality. and he also happened to have a daughter. Contact was broken off three weeks after I met the last guy I mentioned. But I find a lot of guys, most of whom I will never meet, attractive. For the most part, they look like they take good care of themselves: take part in a sport, good hygiene, and the like. The next thing that I find attractive in guys I will never meet: genetics. I have heard that, if you're interested in guys, you will most likely marry a guy who looks like your father, and vice versa if you're interested in girls. My father is a brunet (well, he went gray a long time ago), he has blue eyes, and he is tall; 6'0.5". Most guys that I'm attracted to have dark hair, light eyes, and are tall. (Just take a look at Tom Hiddleston when in character as Loki, and you'll get my gist). The last thing only comes into play if I happen to see them a lot more often than most guys I find attractive and get to know them, is personality. The nicer, the more attractive.
I feel like he is the only youtuber who has dating advice that ACUALLY WORKS.
Yes! It's not just the "oh just be yourself" like of course I will be myself just want him to notice me for who I am...
Arianna Gussman look up ask Kimberly, she's amazing!
Angela
Angela ikr
Same but with Josh Tryhane too
"heavy breathing turns me on"
well youre in luck ladies because i have asthma
I'm crying XD
Rengae Hend 😂😂😂😂
:'p :'p
Rengae Hend AHAHAHAH
I can't stop laughing 😂😂😂
I'm always attracted to a guy when he has a really good sense of humor and it like considerate towards other. Also if he has nice eyes and a smile m
100% I love guys who are actually considerate towards others' feelings which is hard to find
+Little Legends so true👍👍👌💔💔
Some guys feel as if it's bad if they r nice or thoughtful but it definitely isn't
Yup I hate it 😖😔
Me except he doesn't give a f about me.
Name him Maurice I just get that vibe from him
omg yes
😂😂😂 I love it!
Yes love it! 😂❤
That's my middle name!
legofireproductions for real
When a guy looks at you and then smirks that's attractive to me.
Britt Homier and raises one eye brow 💦💦💦💦💦 yesssss
Britt Homier yesss
Brittleee Homier it so hot
XD
I like guys who don't show off or try to impress me too much but instead are just sweet and kind and considerate, cause to be honest most guys aren't.
The part about the fashion sense with guys is honestly so relevant. If you're a guy and you dress nice, I will IMMEDIATELY notice.
+Jordan M This isn't just true for guys either, even girls who dress nice, I'll notice.
I love when a guy dresses like very sporty 😍😂
how can i dress nice
depends on the girl youre trying to appeal to i think
Is this just me, but when a guy wears a necklace though! Like not a big extravagant one, but like a chill cross necklace or something, just like yes
OMG YESSSSS!!! Love guys with necklaces!!!!
SAMEEEEE
Yaaaaaaaas....meee toooooo😍
his name shall be squishy and he shall be your squishy
Yes!!!!
Yassss
omg yass
i love that.
Anna Bulletz XD
Humor is the top priority for me. I can't stand it if ppl don't laugh at everything. Because I laugh at basically everything.
OMG! Me
Your name is perfect!
this is a bit late but SAME
im late asl
BUT
SAME
same xD
intelligence and even having hobbies like music like playing guitar or piano can and will attract you to others.
completely agree
+TJ Malana then I would be attractive... wow
I have played piano in 8 years, and I'm absolutely not attractive.xD
+Carla Mia Cano-Hede i agree i play flute and am not attractive
+Megan Shaw hey I play the flute 2 :D
Just shout :"Notice me, Senpei"
Haha yes
"Guys don't have the luxury of makeup" bitch I love makeup XD
It should be called Jerry.:) Like, "Tom and Jerry".xD
xCarlax OMG HAAA YAS
Yes all the way
a sense of humor, smiles alot, dresses in not athletic shirts and gross old t shirts, and understanding sarcasm. can't tell you how important last one is.
a guy that can sing is definitely a big turn on at least for me. also, guys that are funny are generally more attractive. dressing is also kinda big for me cause if you only wear basketball shorts and I t shirt to school everyday I'm not really gonna notice. but that's just me (and I play basketball so that's saying something)
Aliyatopia same guys that sing are just amazing
Aliyatopia. I have to wear uniform to school so the hair plays a MASSIVE part for me in england
My crush is just too good looking for me
Is it me
love isn't about good looks your personality matters the most im sure your a beautiful soul
lol same 😂
Amanda Ramirez same. This is difficult 😨😔
Amanda Ramirez I agree my crush is too cute that I can't even talk to him I am to nervous to
you should name him "pillow talk"
Yaaasss
+bri pfoutz lmao
yassss
yeah
Yassss
Band shirts make me notice people more
that's all I wear 😂
same!
Ash Rose Yeah same. I always wear a ptv shirt or mcr and the amount of dirty looks 😂 Although i have made friends w all the emos.
equine sophie too bad I only have one band shirt. .I'm broke
ash rose same
me and my crush just stare at each other for ten seconds and he smiles what does that maen
He might like you... why don't you try and talk to him more! I wish you luck and that everything works out for you in the future!
That's actually really fucking cute XD I ship it
Sara Marquez So do me and my crush. Like tf is going on man
Sara Marquez im gonna try that
honestly same that's literally why I'm watching this video
1: Name Him sunglass Jim, Why? Their's not enough people in the world named sunglasses Jim.
2: I find humor very attractive, i love telling joke's and making people smile, and if you can not only take a joke but make a really good one. It's like the best thing ever
same a guy's sense of humor definitely attracts me. I mean yeah the first thing you see is their physical attractiveness but that's personally not the first thing that really draws me to someone. A good sense of humor and a really sweet guy (which is kinda hard to find so I just say a guy who at least isn't a complete asshole 😂)
That wasn't even good.
THE PILLOW AW HAHA
Yasssssss Christina
Name him Harold the ladies man
I'm all for this one! :)
yusssss
Haha yes just yes😏😎
yess
yes lol my names kylee
All great points! Style is definitely a good one! I'm pretty much a walking icebreaker. Lol My style is pretty out there and I'll usually be sporting something 90s TV show related. People will approach me about it, so not only are you showing people who you are, but people interested in the same thing are approaching you! Clothing with pop culture references - always a plus!
Funny guys and also guys that are good with kids or really good to their mom because if he treats his family well he will treat you well. And that's hot.
The way he makes his videos makes me feel like I'm his friend.
I love a guy who loves his family
confidence and the way you carry yourself is really attractive. like not caring what other people think.
The smell one is so true! Boy, if you smell good I'm dying on the inside 👌
I like people who are bright and cheerful and are just easy to hang around and I know I can trust them
I am aware this is something no one has control over, but for me specifically, I always notice of a guy is tall. This is definitely because I stand at 5'10" myself so when I see a guy that is taller than me, he's going to catch my eye for at least a second. Obviously there's things that are a lot more important than that though! That's just what I automatically notice first :)
Yeeess! I'm 6' and if I see a guy around the same height I feel connected to them cause I'm like hey you feel my struggles!
+freak4jellybellys35 tell me about it! Especially the struggle of sitting in the back of a small car. My friend is 6'4" and he makes me sit up front most of the time, partially for my comfort and partially so my knees aren't driving into his back haha
yeah same im around 5'8 so I always notice notice a guy who's taller than me
I've dated shorter guys but the ones I've dated are pretty uncomfortable with me being taller than them
I'm 5'2 and I always look for shorter guys so I can actually see their face when I'm talking to them
I always notice people who are polite and/or funny. Jokes are the way to my heart!
you should name him tom junior! lol and i notice guys who have a nice personality towords girls and gentlemen!!
"a girl who dresses nice is sexy"
Me: goes shopping
shit...the first time i watched this video i heard you say bring a gun to class... i definitely had her attention.
being able to have a coherent conversation with someone! also when guys smile and actually laugh (and not care what people think)
U should name him Gilbert😂
Being intelligent, nice smile, humour, having hobbies, being hygienic and just being a kind person
Things I notice about a guy: style, hair, laugh. Those are just the first things that I alwys notice
1) make a part two!
2) I like when I'm in class and the guy I'm interested in (or ever not) answers a question correctly, just brains and smartness will attract me to a guy 100x more than someone who thinks 9+10=21 😂
I LOVE PSYCOLOGYYYYY!!
First thing that catches my attention is how one acts. If you're mysteriously quiet or audaciously confident, then that'll set good vibes.
You should name your lil friend Damien ;) #snapchatfam
+MAC Lippy hahaha I SECOND THAT!
+MAC Lippy YESSS
Or Sarah 😂
I think that people that are overall caring and don't exclude everyone and can talk to anyone without changing their personality that really catches me eye
I LOVZ PSYCHOLOGY!!!!!
I always notice when someone is just nicer and more genuine then the people they hang out with, so just always be nice and be you! It's really attractive :)
my not friend anymore betrayed me a little while ago and ik she watches this channel so i hope she sees this lol (give me a thumbs up if you have been betrayed before and want my not friend anymore to see this) XD seriously guys my not friend anymore prob will see this and wonder if its rlly me XD
cas sounds petty
Psychology is awesome. Right on. I'm obsessed with mbti personality types and it honestly never gets old
Today I noticed my crush take a picture of me during class. What's your opinion about this, should I be concerned or is it a common thing some guys do? I only have class with him once a week. +Really likes the idea of calling 😎 Jerry = (Tom&Jerry). 🐈🐀
hanna wadman idk
hanna wadman if you looked good he probably likes you
For your next video you should talk about ways to approach someone you find attractive (whom you've never talked to before), how to introduce yourself, how many times its okay to approach them after & how many is too much, how to come across as subtle but then again drop hints that you find them attractive...? It'd be rlly helpful rn
“There’s probably at least one person on TH-cam who teaches makeup” ............. dude you don’t even know.
If while he is talking to his friends he is laughing. That is so attractive to see and I can also tell if he has a good laugh at the same time. :)
if a guy has a nice smile
I like guys who are polite and aren't afraid to start a conversation xx
maybe J.T get it Just Tom eh eh
+Gaby Cordova thats actually a good one lol.
Ya!!!!!!
Dude, I love Psychology. I'm majoring in it haha and I agree, it is the coolest subject ever.
Humour and memes attract me to guy
GemiBear same i talk to my crush about memes we both love them
I like someone that's easy to talk to. I mean, I'm quite a shy person, but there are those people who just know the exact things to say and all my awkwardness just disappears. There's nothing worse than awkward silences.
NAME HIM SUNNY!
true
UGH!!!! I can't even look my crush in the eyes!!!!!!!
I agree, psychology is a very cool subject!
Nice teeth. Omggg nice [clean] teeth can do so much for you
Honestly the first thing i look at is the guy's teeth😂
Nice smiles can change everything :D
+Jenna Choukr I feel you!
Years ago I met a guy on fb. He was a few years older than me. We had mutual friends and he had added me. We talked for a couple of months before we scheduled a meet up. Mind you, I looked at all his pics and asked our mutual friend about him so there weren't any red flags....until I saw him in person! Not only was he shorter than me (I'm 5'1) and his voice was weird...HE HAD TEETH MISSING AND THE TEETH HE HAD WERE ROTTEN!!!!! Since then I ALWAYS check a guy's teeth!!!
and clean ears. I know its totally weird and q-tips are dangerous and blah blah blah. But clean ears yes
Being smiley and friendly around people, makes me want to meet him!
nextflix n chill
😂
Guys with a great sense of humor, sarcasm is good too, also a nice sense of style, ambition is so attractive as well, fitness is also very liked, and someone with a nice smile
Notice mah senpai :-;
Anopax Fang ahh same
Kindness to others around him is attractive.
is it only me but the taller the guy the more of turn on he is
I love boys with a good sense of humour like you don't have to keep making jokes or laugh at every single thing but just bringing a good vibe into the conversation is great. Also, style is important. Cleanliness is too (bad breath is a turn off)
And guys who don't play mind games. Like honestly, just be straight up honest in what you want. You just wanna flirt and not have a relationship? You want a relationship but you're not ready? TELL ME. IM TIRED OF MIND GAMES.
A good sense of humor and a beautiful smile is most noticeable to me, also voice. Personally voice and humor is the biggest one for me
Yoga is awesome too. I'm an intermediate yogi and have been practicing for the past5 years and I will tell you that it makes such a huge difference compared to just working out.
Sense of humor is such a huge deal
I always notice guys that are really good at something. it can be anything tbh, whether it's academics, sports, music or whatever, as long as he's really good at it
Rico the Flow
A guy with a really awesome smile, a good sense of humor, a friendly attitude, and good eye contact will really attract me. Intelligence is a plus
A confident and considerate guy gets my attention
I think to get someone to notice you depends on your presence. Like how you assert yourself either being really outgoing or really reserved. My tip would be to make your self more noticeable by maybe noticing your posture and fixing that if you can. Another tip is to smile more if you can😊
Someone that isn't afraid to stand out. I personally like when guys aren't scared to speak up in class or to do something funny get my attention. I also just like people who have a sense of humor. Its nice when someone can not only make a joke, but take a joke as well. :)
Haha. I entirely agree with the food thing.
Bob. You can never go wrong with Bob.
Name it the swag boy
I just started watching your videos today and I already think you're awesome :)
good sense of humor, can talk about anything, and omg yes smelling good!!!
I like when a guy smiles and you just wanna be around them cause their smile just brightens up your day
1: snapchat sent me
2: name him Flynn cause he has "The Smolder" (Disney Geek)
3: Psych is not #1 on my list of fav subjects but definitely top 5 music and lit. have my heart
4: I love when I can sense confidence and it's for sure one of the first things I notice (To be clear though not someone with an ego the size of king kong) and When I'm able to hold a nice conversation with someone that's really something I take notice of and makes me want to hang out and talk to that person more! if you can't hold a decent conversation its a definite turn off
Smell, doing something unusual, like out of character, like a random compliment or a smile or eye contact
just someone who is nice and kind and just wants to talk to you and be your friend
Awesome video! Your crush advice is the best
Psychology is the bomb diggidy
Jerry. Name him Jerry. You guys together would be "Tom and Jerry" 😂
YES PSYCHOLOGY!!!!
i am a girl and i dislike make up because being natural is beautiful enough, being yourself is the best
confidence is a big one I think, your attitude can make a huge difference in getting noticed
Brooooo I can so relate to to the sneezing and gum situation. No one gives a shit on a normal, sunny day then when I'm a smart ass and bring my umbrella on a wet day everyone is crowding me when we walk in the rain to assembly.
A person with a nice smile that catches my eyes
psychology is love man , way to go for loving it
I also love psychology!
Um... what gets me to notice someone attractive? Well, for starters, I'm more of the type the girl who falls for a guy's personality over their physical attractiveness; if I did this kind of thing, I would tell you to take a look at the profiles of my (2) exes on social media, and you would see what I'm talking about; but I don't do that. Take my word for it, the two guys I've been in relationships with and the two guys between those or after the second one are complete opposites. The first guy I dated: stereotypical nerd, kind personality... until he broke up with me over a stupid little rumor that had to do with me overreacting a tiny bit too much to a teacher's comment on something, and that teacher was laid off for a different reason, but all the students said that I got that teacher fired. If I got any of the teachers to not come back the next year, I was the straw that broke the camel's back with the "college professor in a high school of kids who should be dumb" teacher. The next guy, who I did not date: physically attractive *I thought at the time I liked him*, but was a complete jackass. He efed around a lot, and apparently already had a daughter. The next guy I dated: a nerd, but kind... until you pushed the wrong buttons. He had quite a few short fuses, which is why I am thankful the next guy, who I did not date either, came along and broke us up. This guy was also the jock type, but had a BAD personality. and he also happened to have a daughter. Contact was broken off three weeks after I met the last guy I mentioned.
But I find a lot of guys, most of whom I will never meet, attractive. For the most part, they look like they take good care of themselves: take part in a sport, good hygiene, and the like. The next thing that I find attractive in guys I will never meet: genetics. I have heard that, if you're interested in guys, you will most likely marry a guy who looks like your father, and vice versa if you're interested in girls. My father is a brunet (well, he went gray a long time ago), he has blue eyes, and he is tall; 6'0.5". Most guys that I'm attracted to have dark hair, light eyes, and are tall. (Just take a look at Tom Hiddleston when in character as Loki, and you'll get my gist). The last thing only comes into play if I happen to see them a lot more often than most guys I find attractive and get to know them, is personality. The nicer, the more attractive.
Shuishy yes
I LOVE PSYCHOLOGY!! Favorite class ever! 😂