Lmfaooo he says “I’m human, I make mistakes” like no what he did was most certainly not a mistake. It’s a choice and he’s reaping the consequences of his actions and his lack of accountability. Mistakes don’t account for you sleeping around on your girlfriend(s) and having an affair for months. But sure Jan. 🥴
Loved all your of this and especially loved hear you talking about the podcast business. Because even as a listener I'm confused about the behind the scenes business part of podcasts. So great insight! Thank you!
No, I will not be going to his and his band's performances. I agree with you, he needs to disappear for a little bit. Yes, his EGO is huge. No one learns a lesson while going through it, there can't be precise clarity while living a trauma, betrayal or lying, as he is still, clearly doing. In life, yes, we all make mistakes, we all fumble and fail, that's when taking time off and analyzing the lived situation, not only for yourself but others affected as well. I see no remorse, so far. Thank you.
Nobody has mentioned that it took Faith to years to accuse him I think it's because she didn't get on the show like she wanted. The people realize that Rachel not only broke up Tom and Ariana is relationship she broke up James's relationship with both of the times she's broken up Katie and Tom's friendship and she's trying to get in between James and his new girlfriend. She's not just a cheater she's a bad person all around. Wow she's really good actress. Except all those fake-ass crying faces she makes. I've only seen tears twice in the past seven or eight years. Remember Tom was James's best friend and invited him to everything then we have James's new girlfriend want him to keep his distance from his old girlfriend. Yeah she messed up a lot of things
Keep doing what your doing...."I believe luck is preparation meeting opportunity. If you hadn't been prepared when the opportunity came along, you wouldn't have been 'lucky. '"
@@sharonbackos4975 TY..Mt dude just needs to really really DIG much deeper & put the rolled up Bill Down..& clear your system out & get some lifelong THERAPY.... A mistake is making a left NOT a right. This Is a character flaw.. and even this OPTICS OF SOME REHAB SHIT..is even fucked up the way he's handling THAT TOO
It's kind of shocking to see Sandoval's appearance this season when, if you're a regular viewer, in the early VPR seasons, he was just so into skin care, appearance, and personal grooming. I don't think this is due to natural aging. In my opinion.
Westbury music fair holds 2400. It's a great space but it's peak was in the 70's or 80's for bands. Now it's known as a place where standup comics are born and one music groups go to die. I mean if he only sold 100 seats .. that place is huge and it might as well been empty. They prob gave seats away to fam members
He doesn't believe he did anything wrong. The whole concept of this tour was a schtick. He's not a singer nor good with musical instruments. He's hurt a lot of people over the years and glad he's finally being made to pay for something.
Oh & @sobaditsgoodwithryanbaoley Ryne, happy belated birthday !!! & im sending you r mom well wishes ..im sorry i didnt say it sooner, i just realized and my mom is also currantly fighting throat cancer for the 4th time in 4 years..so i understand the helpless feeling ..All i do is pray all day every day & im gonna add Mrs Bailey in my prayers all day when im praying for my mom❤..xo
The cast wont stay mad that long. 1) because they all are already talking about how they have all done it in the past 2) Tom just got them all raises for next season, they can ask for more money w high ratings 3) There is no other story line, Pump and SAH are for rent and closed down, Lisa needs ratings and money 4) Jax, brittney, kristin will all return along w everyone this season and next season will be insane!
@@spongemonkeysooz Nope. as soon as the reunion was done, the space went back up for rent. so obviously was only a plotline for katie/ariana. plus ariana is traveling around the country and world right now doing bunch of gigs, so shes obviously not working at the sandwich shop ya know
You got a point. What’s going to happen when this all blows over? And it will. They should all thank Tom and Raquel for all the money they are making! Ariana is making 600,000 bucks just on the show! And she’s dancing with the stars and she’s an actress now in a movie on Lifetime! Don’t get jealous girls!
about the rating- you can't even count the numbers from around the world- I'm from Israel for example. we don't have the show on TV here (!) and i need to talk about it!!
They won’t add any new woman next season after #scandoval. My hope is they will bring back Kristen, Jax, and Brittany, and they’ll finally give Peter more screen time.
He berated Katie for years and has opinions on everyone with his superior attitude so it’s his turn to eat humble pie and not be so defensive. But, instead he’s still trying to defend his position & self pitying! He must feel some remorse, but show that. As for Raqual she just lied so much to Ariana and everyone with a smile on her face as they were building her up! she showed her social climbing ways she thought she was winning after James. With everyone siding with her but she knew exactly what she was doing she’s smarter than people give her credit for! Sorry she needs a time out…
But the thing is Tom does not grow and learn from his mistakes this is just a replica of his situation with Kristen and Ariana. Also not the first time he's cheated on Ariana regarding Howie Mandel he's getting a hell of a lot of free publicity.
I thought what he said was good. I think he was being careful so he didn't say anything wrong. You say he should go away but he owes a lot of money so he needs to work and I doubt McDonald's would cut it.
I started watching one of the VPR cast on Nick’s channel but I couldn’t finish it. He is so vain and self absorbed, he thinks he’s god’s gift to the universe and I just can’t watch him pontificating
Y did they make a statement about Rachel being hacked when her account went dark… just because of the Halloween 🎃 highlight. That doesn’t warrant an extreme response.
The Mars show sounds ridiculous. Unless Elon Musk is sponsoring the show, we should realize that they are not actually goring to Mars but to a studio that is a would-be represent what Mars would be like. Having said that, I think Ronda Rousey will win. I hope Rousey ambars Schwartz into submission.
Tom thinks we just "get over things" by move on/moving forward and keep going. I guess he doesn't understand there is inner work we can do of processing emotions, looking at thoughts, beliefs, actions, the repercussions of our actions, childhood trauma, etc. and gaining self awareness after something really difficult goes down so we don't repeat the same mistakes. ( Sandoval repeated the same pattern of cheating with Kristen with Ariana maybe he should look at that LOL). The problematic VPR folks talk about doing better, growing, just being human, etc. but don't really seem to do the hard work it takes to change. We think we are in control of how we act etc. via our conscious mind, but the truth is lots is directed by our unconscious mind so we often have to go deeper than "trying" consciously to do better. Think about addiction. How many people can just say ok now I will just stop drinking, substance abuse, etc.? Most people can't just do it with their conscious willpower and need to do deeper work on the stress, repressed emotions and trauma that caused the addiction in the first place.
ABSOLUTELY 100% But that requires ACCOUNTABILITY and this group greatly lacks. Beyond shallow and immature, character lacking for people of this age. Denial blame justification and self entitled.
Well I highly doubt that bracelet he gave Josh is worth more than a dollar! He should have made him the froot loop necklace, at least he could have eaten that one!! The TMZ guy Josh is probably one of the only guys that is still speaking to Tom right now. Tom's lonely, nobody wants to play with him anymore!! Schwartz is totally going to be out of his element with Stars on Mars??! Tom will be the one who gets too close to the edge of Mars and floats away! He's a doofus....... 😳😳😳
And i feel your weekly pain and aggravation with TOM..he really looks bad and I agree. Optics are really BAD...this is going to be a huge fall wake up call when he comes down from Cookyville Reality hes in . Imo, ny honest opinion. He is in pyschosis...like a year long drug induced psychosis ..hes doing all the opposite things a normal thinking business owner & self proclained goodest guy in the group TOM Sandoval.. And WHY IS SHE IN TREATMENT AGAIN...
Tom really thought he could make Ariana look crazy and like he’d made a real effort with the relationship. He wanted to sit at the reunion like the down trodden good guy who was trying to pick up the pieces and move on.
I LOVE the inside baseball of it all, especially when you break it down, Ryan! I love how you’re always so encouraging and inspiring, and I hope to one day have you as a guest on my podcast that I’ll release in the semi-distant future. 💛💚💙
I wanted to hear Howie's daughter as it sounded like she had some good questions prepped. Instead, I found Howie rude and dismissive to her and she would've been the perfect person to take the helm. His attitude was demeaning and frankly condescending and inappropriate.
Oh and i didnt get a chance to do poll..Im 50 / 50 on Rachael & Ross coming back And please dont bring back jackoff & Brattney.. nobody hangs out with them..no stassi...just bring kristen back. And fck katie bt as usual shes just backround noise & shes latched on to Ariana to save her job after leaving Tom , another user poor ariana. .anyway i love Shee Shee ,lala, ally, james, ariana & Daniel...& shee shees sister AND I LOVE THAT GIRL SOFIA with an F... she is good friends with lala & has a podcast..she would be amazing!!! We need Sofia Franklin on the show!!
Ryan… I am going (I think?). Tom Sandoval and the Most Extras are playing a Free Venue in Downtown Houston on the 12th! I live near downtown… So I may check it out?!!! I just wish DJ James Kennedy was opening… ha! Ok, I’m not a fan of Tom… but it’s free. Why not?
Can we stop negging this guy already? The men on that show have problems, and so do the women. First of all who knows if this scandal is even real. Second, when people are together in a stable relationship for 8 years they are usually at the same level of emotional maturity, it's not usually a sinner with a saint.
@@kal2487 you do realise that your original comment was contradictory yeah? "Stop *negging* this guy..." followed by you *negging* said guys victim through guilt by association 🙄. We actually know he did a bunch of awful things yet you're trying to justify them by supposing she must be extremely similar despite the lack of evidence. The cognitive dissonance of that victim blaming mentality is quite something indeed. 😬 *You also used the term "negging" incorrectly - negging is a backhanded compliment used to diminish someone's self esteem for nefarious purposes.
I guess i don't understand podcasters. Tom stsrted a restaurant ,a band drink book, This guy cheated on his girlfriend He didn't rape a child, murder someone Everyone else is boring !!!!! Tot and Tom are the show.. There is more to Arianna there is more story to Arianna she's Not Innocent Ariana it's been known if you go look back far enough has some mental issues yes time life for so long cuz he didn't know how to tell her!!! Its not right but my god you people sre trying to destroy this man !!! This is so wrong
Ariana has rejected Tom's kindness. Isn't that why Tom navigated towards Raquel. Raquel excepted his kindness by being kind herself to him. I am not saying Ariana isn't kind. She is kind but wasn't receptive to Tom's kindness? Tom got busy with his bar and music and maybe that interfered and competed with the attention he used to give to Ariana. Did Rachel make herself available to fit in to his new interests and one thing led to another. Kindness has to be able to be recieved. I am not making excuses for any ones behavior just pointed out the origin of where things started to go side ways possibly.
There is such delicious irony in the statement "Tom Sandoval is the only VPR member is not profiting from Scandoval" Karma baby karma.
Clean shaven Sandoval is giving Christian Bale America psycho vibes
Lmfaooo he says “I’m human, I make mistakes” like no what he did was most certainly not a mistake. It’s a choice and he’s reaping the consequences of his actions and his lack of accountability. Mistakes don’t account for you sleeping around on your girlfriend(s) and having an affair for months. But sure Jan. 🥴
I love the start where you explain that you're talking quietly because it's late and your parents are trying to sleep. Very considerate.
You live with your parents??
Always enjoy you just talking to us. Your such a natural on carry on a conversation!😊
Not only has he not profited from Scandoval, but now he's singing to empty seats 😬
Loved all your of this and especially loved hear you talking about the podcast business. Because even as a listener I'm confused about the behind the scenes business part of podcasts. So great insight! Thank you!
Ryan you cracked me up 😂 I hope Schwartz got his arm pits shaved
No, I will not be going to his and his band's performances.
I agree with you, he needs to disappear for a little bit. Yes, his EGO is huge.
No one learns a lesson while going through it, there can't be precise clarity while living a trauma, betrayal or lying, as he is still, clearly doing.
In life, yes, we all make mistakes, we all fumble and fail, that's when taking time off and analyzing the lived situation, not only for yourself but others affected as well.
I see no remorse, so far.
Thank you.
Yay a Ryan triple treat. This video was great. A bit of everything!
Ryan, I'm going to one up Sandavol and send you an Apple Jack's Cereal bracelet 🥰
Thank u!
Love your work Ryan❣️ Hope your Lovely Mum is doing ok. Please pass on my Love to her. Kerri from Western Australia 💞💞
I predict Porsha lasts longer than Schwartz
🎶Ground Control to Major Tom. Take your protein pills and put you helmet on...🎶
Little Tom and pudgy Tom is little toms puppet.
Nobody has mentioned that it took Faith to years to accuse him I think it's because she didn't get on the show like she wanted. The people realize that Rachel not only broke up Tom and Ariana is relationship she broke up James's relationship with both of the times she's broken up Katie and Tom's friendship and she's trying to get in between James and his new girlfriend. She's not just a cheater she's a bad person all around. Wow she's really good actress. Except all those fake-ass crying faces she makes. I've only seen tears twice in the past seven or eight years. Remember Tom was James's best friend and invited him to everything then we have James's new girlfriend want him to keep his distance from his old girlfriend. Yeah she messed up a lot of things
You saying that Sandoval thinks all restaurants get bad yelp reviews 🤣
This is hilarious. Thank you. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Manager peter deserved his own so loyal and worked hard and the attracting of so many more than Tom or Jax
Great house James let toms be the screwups take care!
Keep doing what your doing...."I believe luck is preparation meeting opportunity. If you hadn't been prepared when the opportunity came along, you wouldn't have been 'lucky. '"
Ryan, why has Sandoval’s appearance changed so dramatically?
He’s on drugs
Are we seriously still beating around the BRAVO BUSH..
Dudes in rehab...
hes at least trying to APPEAR that's his new Deal.....
He's not WELL
@@sharonbackos4975 TY..Mt dude just needs to really really DIG much deeper & put the rolled up Bill Down..& clear your system out & get some lifelong THERAPY....
A mistake is making a left NOT a right.
This Is a character flaw.. and even this OPTICS OF SOME REHAB SHIT..is even fucked up the way he's handling THAT TOO
& STARS ON MARS??? HUH
It's kind of shocking to see Sandoval's appearance this season when, if you're a regular viewer, in the early VPR seasons, he was just so into skin care, appearance, and personal grooming. I don't think this is due to natural aging. In my opinion.
i can't believe Jill Zarin tanked the RHONY Legacy show and then goes and gets another show. She will never learn to read the room.
Westbury music fair holds 2400. It's a great space but it's peak was in the 70's or 80's for bands. Now it's known as a place where standup comics are born and one music groups go to die.
I mean if he only sold 100 seats .. that place is huge and it might as well been empty. They prob gave seats away to fam members
He doesn't believe he did anything wrong. The whole concept of this tour was a schtick. He's not a singer nor good with musical instruments. He's hurt a lot of people over the years and glad he's finally being made to pay for something.
When will the podcast be uploaded pls ❤
Fruitloop bracelets 😂😂😂
Oh & @sobaditsgoodwithryanbaoley
Ryne, happy belated birthday !!! & im sending you r mom well wishes ..im sorry i didnt say it sooner, i just realized and my mom is also currantly fighting throat cancer for the 4th time in 4 years..so i understand the helpless feeling ..All i do is pray all day every day & im gonna add Mrs Bailey in my prayers all day when im praying for my mom❤..xo
The cast wont stay mad that long. 1) because they all are already talking about how they have all done it in the past 2) Tom just got them all raises for next season, they can ask for more money w high ratings 3) There is no other story line, Pump and SAH are for rent and closed down, Lisa needs ratings and money 4) Jax, brittney, kristin will all return along w everyone this season and next season will be insane!
What is SAH?
@@spongemonkeysooz something about her
@@MarkJamesGolf It never opened? 🤔
@@spongemonkeysooz Nope. as soon as the reunion was done, the space went back up for rent. so obviously was only a plotline for katie/ariana. plus ariana is traveling around the country and world right now doing bunch of gigs, so shes obviously not working at the sandwich shop ya know
You got a point. What’s going to happen when this all blows over? And it will. They should all thank Tom and Raquel for all the money they are making! Ariana is making 600,000 bucks just on the show! And she’s dancing with the stars and she’s an actress now in a movie on Lifetime! Don’t get jealous girls!
Lovely🌹 Raquel should have her own show with Tom Sandoval.
about the rating- you can't even count the numbers from around the world- I'm from Israel for example. we don't have the show on TV here (!) and i need to talk about it!!
They won’t add any new woman next season after #scandoval. My hope is they will bring back Kristen, Jax, and Brittany, and they’ll finally give Peter more screen time.
Why are we whispering?
@K A. His parents are asleep in the next room and he is trying not to wake them.😊
He got rid of the peso-stache so he can blend in better with sunglasses on and not be recognized. AH.
Ryan someone did a deep search and can’t find any pageant that Rachel won like she said.
I'm laughing haven't seen episode
He berated Katie for years and has opinions on everyone with his superior attitude so it’s his turn to eat humble pie and not be so defensive. But, instead he’s still trying to defend his position & self pitying! He must feel some remorse, but show that. As for Raqual she just lied so much to Ariana and everyone with a smile on her face as they were building her up! she showed her social climbing ways she thought she was winning after James. With everyone siding with her but she knew exactly what she was doing she’s smarter than people give her credit for! Sorry she needs a time out…
I can’t wait to see Davonne vs. Jill Zarin 😂
Jill Zarin really thinks she's the GOAT 🙄
My parents are asleep than u realize u said tgat lol .. Hope u take care of them lol
But the thing is Tom does not grow and learn from his mistakes this is just a replica of his situation with Kristen and Ariana. Also not the first time he's cheated on Ariana regarding Howie Mandel he's getting a hell of a lot of free publicity.
Don’t blame it on his scandal -Tom just doesn’t not have talent to bring in a crowd.
You're so kind "with the level that they lied, it leaves room for doubt"... I'm thinking "those lying liars just lie some more" haha
Agreed!!
Ryan “ set ur alarms” , Me “ no “ . But I def watch u recap it!
Jamie…. The name that Rachel Train used in disguise on Tom’s phone.
Sandoval wishes he was rock star, the cringe gives me second hand embarrassment..
Concentrate on the people with babies... and bring Stassi and Beau back. She's having Baby #2 soon.
Yes!!! It is much more interesting than watching Sandoval drink and sweat
Vpr at sur maybe a couple of years and then new vegas show for vpr. Imo lisa is unconditionally going to love AND defend wee Tom to the end.
One of the Tom's will admit to being bisexual in the next few seasons. You heard it here first! 😉 #vanderpumprules
#RyanBailey
Howie's daughter was on Sarah Galli's pod and I liked her and what she said.
um a season without Tom? what would be the point. i hope they all come back. including stassi. she was a reality show legend
Let Tom hang out with new cast sorry the great peter who his a geat guy
I thought what he said was good. I think he was being careful so he didn't say anything wrong. You say he should go away but he owes a lot of money so he needs to work and I doubt McDonald's would cut it.
I started watching one of the VPR cast on Nick’s channel but I couldn’t finish it. He is so vain and self absorbed, he thinks he’s god’s gift to the universe and I just can’t watch him pontificating
Y did they make a statement about Rachel being hacked when her account went dark… just because of the Halloween 🎃 highlight. That doesn’t warrant an extreme response.
The Mars show sounds ridiculous. Unless Elon Musk is sponsoring the show, we should realize that they are not actually goring to Mars but to a studio that is a would-be represent what Mars would be like. Having said that, I think Ronda Rousey will win. I hope Rousey ambars Schwartz into submission.
Omg, Raquel would be great for this show…make sure to forget her there
Tom thinks we just "get over things" by move on/moving forward and keep going. I guess he doesn't understand there is inner work we can do of processing emotions, looking at thoughts, beliefs, actions, the repercussions of our actions, childhood trauma, etc. and gaining self awareness after something really difficult goes down so we don't repeat the same mistakes. ( Sandoval repeated the same pattern of cheating with Kristen with Ariana maybe he should look at that LOL). The problematic VPR folks talk about doing better, growing, just being human, etc. but don't really seem to do the hard work it takes to change. We think we are in control of how we act etc. via our conscious mind, but the truth is lots is directed by our unconscious mind so we often have to go deeper than "trying" consciously to do better. Think about addiction. How many people can just say ok now I will just stop drinking, substance abuse, etc.? Most people can't just do it with their conscious willpower and need to do deeper work on the stress, repressed emotions and trauma that caused the addiction in the first place.
ABSOLUTELY 100% But that requires ACCOUNTABILITY and this group greatly lacks. Beyond shallow and immature, character lacking for people of this age. Denial blame justification and self entitled.
Leave it to FOX to do something embarrassing. 😂😂😂
Well I highly doubt that bracelet he gave Josh is worth more than a dollar! He should have made him the froot loop necklace, at least he could have eaten that one!! The TMZ guy Josh is probably one of the only guys that is still speaking to Tom right now. Tom's lonely, nobody wants to play with him anymore!! Schwartz is totally going to be out of his element with Stars on Mars??! Tom will be the one who gets too close to the edge of Mars and floats away! He's a doofus.......
😳😳😳
If he is worried about audience, he needs to be!!!! If they do not; the show will cancel. They may film but not talk to them!
Thinking 40 ish cast offerred a spinoff and new cast of 8 21+
Does this mean we're going to prom?🤣🤣
And i feel your weekly pain and aggravation with TOM..he really looks bad and I agree.
Optics are really BAD...this is going to be a huge fall wake up call when he comes down from Cookyville Reality hes in . Imo, ny honest opinion. He is in pyschosis...like a year long drug induced psychosis ..hes doing all the opposite things a normal thinking business owner & self proclained goodest guy in the group TOM Sandoval..
And WHY IS SHE IN TREATMENT AGAIN...
Lol me too fking kidding
Poor Shatner
Its all about the Bravo paycheck.
Billy imo they fd
He’s a worm with a mustache according to James.
Celebrities in space 😂? I will watch if only for Porsha.
I don't want to see Tom or Rachel. Give me more Peter, Dayna, Logan, Jaime, actual friends of the group.
Tom really thought he could make Ariana look crazy and like he’d made a real effort with the relationship. He wanted to sit at the reunion like the down trodden good guy who was trying to pick up the pieces and move on.
I hope Porsche and Rhonda kick Schwartz’s ass on his new Fail UP!
Maybe
Was his chin always so large or did he get an implant?
No I think he's lost so much weight ..& lost the porn stache..it's either Ozempic face or cookybird face
I dont hear the lisp in Sandoval but if I did, I wouldn't make fun of it.
I LOVE the inside baseball of it all, especially when you break it down, Ryan!
I love how you’re always so encouraging and inspiring, and I hope to one day have you as a guest on my podcast that I’ll release in the semi-distant future. 💛💚💙
❤
I think people need to quit giving Howe shit. He gave Tom all the room to contradict himself.
The band is talented, Tomnis not
He needs to focus on the restaurant and not losing his moms money, all he cares about is that shitty band
Schwartz needs money for the restaurant.
@@BettyR-qd2zr no way what’s he’s doin is making me obey. He travels like he’s a rock star, nine people in his band. It’s his ego!!
I have zero interest in Tom Sandoval's band.
No mustache!! Yuck. He's freaky enough but the stash made him look nefarious
Howie yuk❤
I wanted to hear Howie's daughter as it sounded like she had some good questions prepped. Instead, I found Howie rude and dismissive to her and she would've been the perfect person to take the helm. His attitude was demeaning and frankly condescending and inappropriate.
Oh and i didnt get a chance to do poll..Im 50 / 50 on Rachael & Ross coming back And please dont bring back jackoff & Brattney.. nobody hangs out with them..no stassi...just bring kristen back. And fck katie bt as usual shes just backround noise & shes latched on to Ariana to save her job after leaving Tom , another user poor ariana. .anyway i love Shee Shee ,lala, ally, james, ariana & Daniel...& shee shees sister AND I LOVE THAT GIRL SOFIA with an F... she is good friends with lala & has a podcast..she would be amazing!!! We need Sofia Franklin on the show!!
Ariana ❤take it with good people
Tom looks terrible. To much weight loss. Give the boy a sandwich or something.
Sandwiches probably trigger him 😂
You couldn’t pay me to go and support anything that he is associated with.
But it’s going to all go away. Shortly.
Ryan… I am going (I think?). Tom Sandoval and the Most Extras are playing a Free Venue in Downtown Houston on the 12th! I live near downtown… So I may check it out?!!! I just wish DJ James Kennedy was opening… ha! Ok, I’m not a fan of Tom… but it’s free. Why not?
Porsha and Teresa scrap swartz
Can we stop negging this guy already? The men on that show have problems, and so do the women. First of all who knows if this scandal is even real. Second, when people are together in a stable relationship for 8 years they are usually at the same level of emotional maturity, it's not usually a sinner with a saint.
Girl he fucked his girlfriend’s best friend sit down
There’s no one here to pick you
NO
No.
@@maryjanedodo Not the best past time IMHO, but to each his own.
@@kal2487 you do realise that your original comment was contradictory yeah? "Stop *negging* this guy..." followed by you *negging* said guys victim through guilt by association 🙄.
We actually know he did a bunch of awful things yet you're trying to justify them by supposing she must be extremely similar despite the lack of evidence. The cognitive dissonance of that victim blaming mentality is quite something indeed. 😬
*You also used the term "negging" incorrectly - negging is a backhanded compliment used to diminish someone's self esteem for nefarious purposes.
Howie should take off his tinted glasses--He looks 😳
I guess i don't understand podcasters. Tom stsrted a restaurant ,a band drink book, This guy cheated on his girlfriend He didn't rape a child, murder someone Everyone else is boring !!!!! Tot and Tom are the show..
There is more to Arianna there is more story to Arianna she's Not Innocent Ariana it's been known if you go look back far enough has some mental issues yes time life for so long cuz he didn't know how to tell her!!!
Its not right but my god you people sre trying to destroy this man !!! This is so wrong
Ariana wrote the book. He somehow got his name on it.
Why is it always the boomer lady names sticking up for Tom 😅
I agree. Too many judgy people who are also guilty of doing the same thing. For some reason Tom's cheating is magnified and taken to another level.
Poor poor Ariana isent poor anymore! Lol!
#SHUTUPTOMWEDONTCARELIAR
"NOT TODAY SATAN"
I would of watched it Tom wasn't on it, his sly sneaky personality isn't what I am intrested in
Ariana has rejected Tom's kindness. Isn't that why Tom navigated towards Raquel. Raquel excepted his kindness by being kind herself to him.
I am not saying Ariana isn't kind. She is kind but wasn't receptive to Tom's kindness? Tom got busy with his bar and music and maybe that interfered and competed with the attention he used to give to Ariana. Did Rachel make herself available to fit in to his new interests and one thing led to another. Kindness has to be able to be recieved. I am not making excuses for any ones behavior just pointed out the origin of where things started to go side ways possibly.
It’s hard to be accepting of kindness when it’s all bs. He was not kind to Ariana
And we believe his so called kindness because that’s what he said. Ariana said he was never around. I choose to believe her more than a known liar.
As much as I dislike Tom S. Hope he gets some help b/c he looks strung out/disheveled 😕 but I know it’s hard if they’re not ready to accept.
Sandoval and buff don't go together sorry