This episode definitely caught me by surprise with how personal it felt, but I am grateful for the recommendation :) Violet episode 2 drops next Saturday, in the meantime, look forward to Frieren: Beyond Journey’s End episode 6 on Wednesday✌🏼 Rotating Frieren and Violet with 2 videos each week until I finish them both! Benoit 💙
I suggest listening to the opening and closing theme songs (with accompanying lyrics) after watching the second or third episode. They are of infinite delicacy in their lyrics. For other anime that I can suggest, of which it would be interesting to have a psychological insight, could definitely be “Oshi no ko” (already mentioned by me and others, as you have already told me), “the apothecary diaries,” and maybe rewatch cults (“death note,” the “code geass” anime or “psycho-pass” too). Insights like these are really rare, so it wouldn't hurt to have more of them over time! Edit: "Your lie in april" too!
What a start to a wonderful series about healing and reintegration as you said. Glad you're enjoying it. Both Frieren and VE are my favourite anime too :D
As rough as this show can be, I truly don't think I've ever seen a more beautiful anime. The pain of loss. The joy of life. I don't believe I've seen another like it, and I'm not sure we ever will again. A masterpiece.
The emotional prose is astounding in Violet Evergarden. It takes a lot of experience and skill to create literature that focuses on the internal, psychological aspects. Furthermore, to create something that can be resonated with the audience despite them not having any familiar experience is a whole other ballgame on its own.
Whoever recommended you Violet Evergarden series deserves a medal. I really like this anime and i know there's a lot of good anime with great psychological case to analyze, and Violet is the best of them!
Hi! I'm one of the people who recommended Violet Evergarden. When I posted, I didn't even think about your status as an Army veteran, but I did think it would be great for a psychotherapist's perspective. It's very emotional, but I couldn't stop cheering for her growth as a person. With that in mind, I hope you enjoy this anime as much as I did when I watched it for the first time.
Important thing, a watch order (copied from reddit): Violet Evergarden (Series) Episodes 1-4 -> Violet Evergarden OVA (called special or w/e)-> Violet Evergarden (Series) Episodes 5-13 -> Violet Evergarden: Gaiden (Optional Movie/ Sidestory) -> Violet Evergarden Movie (Finale of Main Story)
100% watch them in this order. Not a spoiler, but there’s some stuff in the OVA that’s important for understanding a particular step in Violet’s growth that’s needed for the next episode.
Quick correction: The reason why Violet bit the dog plushie was because, as was revealed later, she doesn't have the sense of touch in her hands and so used her cheek and mouth to feel the softness of the plushie. Doesn't make it much better, but there you have it 😅. Great reaction and a lot of useful information.
As a recommendation, I think the anime film “A Silent Voice” would be perfect for you to watch. The plot focuses on bullying, being an outcast and dealing with feelings of guilt and working through them.
@@PsychotherapistReacts Silent Voice is great choice, grounded in reality, showing us how hard its to function in society when you heve depression or some kind of physical disability. Love you commentary and insight from medical point of view. Have a nice day all!
I 100% support that recommendation. That would be a prime anime movie to react to if you got the time for it. Especially considering the nature of your channel.
OMG i'm really looking forward for these reactions. Violent Evergarden gave me the ugliest crying session of my life. And I hope to relive it together with a bit of more analysis. Great video
This isn't even the heaviest episode ❤❤ it's completely fascinating seeing a psychologist therapist analyze such afflicted characters like violet and freiren ❤❤
This series will break your heart and fill it at the same time. I very much recommend taking a break after each episode. The full extent of her trauma is brutal and her journey to heal herself is absolutely beautiful.
While I can't say it was the right choice, I do very much understand where Hodgins comes from. Violet was raised as a weapon her whole life and dedicates her whole self to following Gilbert. Since she pretty much has nothing else to act as a crutch, the news of him passing/mia might leave her too broken (even suicide is not out of the realm of what she might attempt), so I think withholding the information while she adapts to a civilian life might not be the wrong call. But I also agree with your point of how it takes away her closure. I don't think there is a right answer, but I do think Hodgins lie is out of genuine care for her and not just to avoid a hard conversation. Also, sinci you mentioned looking for another show: I mentioned it in posts but I think To Your Eternity would be great. Its from the author of A Silent Voice which is has a movie adaptation that I think would also make an incredible piece for your analysis
For recommendations: 86 might be interesting since it also tackles war and exploitation of child soldiers. Apothecary Diaries: The power dynamics of a superior and subordinate as well as the social hierarchy impacting relations might be interesting angles to tackle. also the mysteries and fictional imperial china! Dangers in my Heart: a completely different show but could be interesting hearing you talk about the struggles of self esteem and self worth from kids going through adolescence and them navigating through their first experience with love. Your Name: one of the most popular anime movies out there. Just because. A Silent Voice: childhood trauma stemming from getting bullied because of a disability and also seeing the perspective of the bully.
Not the editor putting in "Trauma from Frieren" when he asked "How much time has passed?" Im still laughing my ass off. But jokes aside i'm looking forward to seeing next analysis Also happy to see u responding to most comments 😂 even though this will not last, since i believe u'll soon grow too big to catch up with all of em
I would recommend 86 (yes the number is the name of the show) it’s not nearly as heavy as violate evergarden but also has a focus on battle and loss so should be fun for you. Other than that Bakemonogatari is an insane story with so much going on there psychologically I couldn’t even begin to describe it. Check out a description of the show at least and decide for yourself whether you’d like to watch it or not. No matter how many times I watch a reaction to this show it will always evoke emotions in me that no other show could, it’s truly a masterpiece. Great reaction btw, hang in there man. We all cried watching this show.
I second "86: Eighty-Six". It is hugely underrated. Lena is absolutely my favourite character of the last decade. She shows such maturity and resilience in the face of trauma. It's very inspiring.
This is one of my all time favorites and it leaves me extremely emotional from varying angles... The narrative, the characters, the masterful animation and the staff behind it and the staff who are no longer with us. Kyoto Animation is regarded as one of the best production studios for anime, due to their work ethic, training of internal staff, treatment of their staff and they maintained one of the highest standard of quality in the industry. One of the reason they were capable of this was due to their own production pipeline and means of acquiring funding for said production. Anime usually are produced by a production studio which is funded by the production committee of said production, and the production committee usually takes the majority of the revenue said production makes, leaving little for the studios. Kyoto Animation tried to break away from this industry standard and fund their work inhouse and create their own IP's in house. Violet Evergarden is one of such series that Kyo Ani fostered from the ground up as a light novel published through their own publication. Four and a half years ago on July Ninth of 2019... There was an arson incident that was directed at one of the production building of Kyoto Animation. This arson attack has killed 36 people and injured many others.. The very staff that Kyo Ani painstakingly trained throughout the years. Some of these staff worked on Violet Evergarden and many other beloved pieces. The reason for this attack? The arsonist was disillusioned that his work was plagiarized after he sent in his manuscript into one of Kyoto Animation's literary contest for their inhouse publication. We now know that the work he did send in was full of cliches and tropes you can find in vast amount of stories... Just because of some cliches story ideas... This man robbed the lives of countless talented individuals... Many fans of Kyoto Animation around the globe was shocked and devastated when this incident occurred, glued to any and all forms of media that can provide any ounce of info and news. We all were worried to the bone that this incident might end Kyoto Animation as a whole. But as the months passed by, Kyoto Animation slowly and gradually picked themselves up, with support from industry peers and their fans. We are finally reached a point where we are seeing their works again, not in the frequency like before but still with the love and care they pour into each production... Everytime I watch anything of KyoAni, this incident flashes through my psyche. Stil raw... and painful.. But healing...
28:11 The parallel between Violet biting the stuffed puppy after describing being characterized as a dog is interesting, not one I made on my first or second watch through (but I’m not very psych literate) The writer in me really liked it a more foreshadowing about her injuries, how Violet would have an easier time feeling the softness of the toy with her mouth than her metallic hands. And as a way to interact with something without going through the medium of her prosthetic, something that is ‘other’ to her still (though I suppose that is both physical and psychological from a recovery perspective). The motif of Violet trying to feel closer to things by using part of her other than her hands will crop up a few more times throughout the show.
this is my first time watching violet evergarden too, i know this show is beautiful it's just that im not ready for what to come, watching it with you makes this more bearable and also more easier to understand all the small details also i would recommend "a silent voice" as your first anime movie reaction, i just know it will be a great reaction video with you analysis
Expressing my thoughts in writing has always been a challenge for me. I’ve tried several times, but my mind just goes blank every time I try to start. Instead of writing, I started recording myself, usually when I was venting or sharing my "2 a.m. thoughts." When I listened to those recordings later, I was often surprised by what I heard and couldn’t believe they came from me. It helped me see a side of myself I hadn’t noticed before. I still do it today. Every now and then, I even record messages of encouragement for my future self, telling him he’s doing a great job and that I’m proud of him.
i think a good tip for writing is to avoid using the same words in a paragraph or page even, it would force you to get creative and prevent sentences from sounding "samey"
i'm not fluent in english and i struggle to understand a lot of words, but even i can tell that you were born for your profession as a psychotherapist. Your assumptions, explanations and your sensitive reactions are quite satisfying to see being an anime fan and also a very curious person myself. I hope you enjoy the show! Thank You very much!
I'm so glad I happened to be looking at Frieren content again just on a whim and found your channel, I don't think I've been so interested to see a newly uploaded video in a long time. Really enjoy your reactions and explanations as someone that studied psych in undergrad and came from a military family, and really loves this sort of content when it's in depth like this. Hits all the marks I'm looking for.
86 and Violet Evergarden are two of the most relatable shows for anyone prior service. Violet is also one that no matter your background or history, there's at least one episode that you will connect with and it will absolutely gut you.
I think he should have told her the truth. I agree with you, it's about trusting that the other person can handle it and about not undermining your relationship with the other person. If he's going to be able to help her, then she needs to be able to trust him and nothing kills trust faster than lying.
First off, thank you for your service. No surprise you identify with this story on a gut level with all you (and your fellow vets) have gone through. You've got an amazing story ahead of you, but as others have said it can be difficult to watch through the tears, of both pain and joy.
I was surprised by just how much of an emotional impact this first episode had on you and I'm glad you shared that and your insight with us. Violet Evergarden is one of my favorite shows ever, not just anime. It is beautifully crafted in every way and there is lots to love, be sad and be happy about all at the same time.
I'm grateful for the content you are making. I feel like a lot of meaning is lost when normal people like me watch it and a lot of the hidden meanings, feelings and thoughts put in by the author, animators and directors that casual people would miss. This really helps connecting and understanding intricate and well told stories like Violet Evergarden or Frieren. Thanks for the video!
YES YES YES i love violet evergarden so much! I can't wait for more! In addition: the show does get even heavier after ep 1 and if you think you can't watch it more than once a week then the wait will be worth it!
@navdev414 a lot of them after episode 6 will be heavy with the topic of loss in various situations. The heaviest in my opinion are episode 8-9 as they will center more on Violet's own trauma and mental state. Ep 9 out of the two will be the hardest one as it touches on the topic of suicide attempt/ self harm.
I feel the same way. Most people reacting to this video (at least on Reddit) seem to be hit the hardest with episode 10, but for me, episode 10 is almost a kind of a catharsis-since episodes eight and nine devastate me every time.
Violet used to be my favorite anime for a long time, until Frieren took its place, so so glad you started. There has been no other anime that can make me cry more than these two, Violet is tough becuase unlike Frieren wich is 1 part Pain and 2 parts happines, thi anime hits with 2 parts pain and 1 part happines. Violet Evergarden is painfully beautiful.
Oh boi Cant wait for Episode 10, always one of the best episode to watch reactions. And considering how well you go in depth into the psychology of things *I will be there no matter what*
Well, as Benoit keeps telling us every other reaction video, do not feel ashamed of crying ugly tears with this series. I watched this one with my 60yo mother, and I don't think there is a single episode (between the series, OVAs, and films) that we didn't end up crying to some degree or another
I literally just started this anime because you posted this video and I wanted to know everything before watching you! You are doing something really amazing and beautiful! Can't wait for the next episode and Frieren and any other anime in the future that you may cover! Thank you ♥
I got Diagnosed with C-PTSD a few weeks before i started to watch Violet Evergarden when it premiered, and when i tell you cried in almost in every damn episode. I related so much with her, and Avatar Korra 🥲. Good luck to you!
I have seen this already and rewatched it already. But hearing you speak and unravel the lines, the context and the subtleties really… it hit me like an effin truck on a totally different level. Thank you for your content. You contribute so much and enrich my life, Dr. Kim. Again, thank you.
This show is amazing, I'm so glad you're watching it. This and Frieren are my favorite animes. I'm really happy that you as a psychotherapist are giving us your insight on it. As others have said it's going to be a hard watch but so worth it. I am looking forward to your next videos!
At first i only want to know what the experts think about this show because i love violet so much, but now i learned so much about psychotherapy and it help me understand myself a little bit.
what a tremendously thoughtful analysis. thank you for your hard work, but i also hope that you take care and don’t push yourself too hard emotionally because even though the messages are filled with hope, a lot of moments in this show cut deep, and i can only imagine the extent for you given your military background. still selfishly hoping that you will react to march comes in like a lion someday, but no pressure!
Agreeing with one of the comments here, I think 86 would be a great choice for the next anime. About the video, I really like how insightful you are (Props to you editor btw with the explanations about the terms!) and how compassionate you feel about the characters. I really like how invested you are with them! BTW, do you have a patreon with the full reactions? (English is not my first language, so im sorry if I made a mistake writing this haha)
No Patreon yet but I am planning on creating one :) not enough time right now since I have my clinical practice as a priority as well but will start one once I get into more flow!
Since this came out, it's one of my go-to recommendations to anyone that is a newbie to anime. It really breaks all the stereotypes about anime being "just cartoons for kids." It's heavy themes, realistic portrayals of real problems people face, and the relatability presented by many characters (not just the mc). It also has AMAZING visuals and music. The ost is something i still listen to on occasion. Don't take this the wrong way, but I look forward to seeing to re-experience and psychoanalyze your own traumas with this show being the amazing catalyst that it is.
You got a sub from me! And honestly as someone whos brother is a Vet from the Afghanistan war this show in particular hit home for certain parts. Im excited for your journey through this and will be eatching every video you drop from now on!
I really, really hope that we'll be able to see you go over the rest of the series as all of the episodes are genuine masterpieces that will definitely go well with your great commentary and insight. I really enjoyed this!
I'm really hooked on watching this. All the explanation got me watched this until the end. Really hoping you continue to react to Violet Evergarden because it's really emotional, and I want to know all about psychological things in this anime.
This is quite literally my favorite piece of media ever created, and the second movie is my favorite among it. I hope you stick with it, as it’s literally my favorite thing ever. I can’t wait for more of your reactions!
Just arrived to the channel, greetings from Uruguay 🇺🇾. Excellent video and analysis. What surprises me the most is how anime scriptwriters manage to make such profound wonders and Hollywood does so many ridiculous things. 😣
Este anime junto con Frieren, Full Metal Alchemist y Mushishi son mi Top. Uno mejor que el otro, te dejan pensando y te hacen soltar una que otra lágrima 😢 😊😢
Seriously amazing reaction and love your analysis of this show. reminds me I never quite finished watching it, and should go back. It's one of the most beautiful and emotionally engaging shows ever, said from the perspective of someone who hasn't even gotten to the end. Can see why it was recommended. Also understand spacing out the reactions as it does have a lot of impact. I wasn't sure at first if I'd watch this, being most focused on your freiren episodes, but I'm very glad I did. I was never in the military but my brother was, and a lot of what you described hits home with his difficulties after his service. (Which was many years ago, but it did leave a lasting impact on him, physically and mentally.)
I'm moved with your analysis/reaction of the beginning of this beautiful story. I strongly recomend "To Your Eternity” anime, I believe that show deserves a psychotherapist point of view. Greetings from Argentina
I know more about the series so maybe that's affecting my judgement about Violet at this point but I'm also not a doctor of any sort lmao, but personally I believe immediatly wouldn't have been a good time to reveal that truth and would have caused Violet to completely spiral for reasons you may see in the future, or maybe you won't see what I'm seeing and have better reasons and continue to disagree with me. Looking forward to more episodes for sure as I adore this show.
Ah, I've watched through Violet Evergarden some couple or more years ago, it's great and got me emotional throughout. ) I agree that it's very important to give people the truth, because it's much harder to land on the more fitting ways towards healing if you have an imperfect impression of the situation and act on faulty assumptions. I think that in this situation it can leave Violet with desperate hope, focusing on upholding a picture she wishes for despite possible counter-evidence and expending a lot of effort on that instead of on the process of healing. In the same time I think that it's important for Violet to have an anchor to life and normalcy, how ever she known it, something to keep her going - so I hope that there is an ideal world where she knows he's at least MIA, but still leans on the routine habit of writing out reports to him that'll stick and become a more general journaling, but I wonder how soon that might start feeling meaningless. Hopefully after finding some other anchors. The assumption of her commander being alive that the doctor creates here kinda lets for a "he's given you a mission - to rest and to get well", which I'm on the fence whether it's healthy, but it seems to potentially be useful.
As the comments said 86 is also a good series to watch. Another is "To your eternity" Would also love your reaction to the protagonist as he learns about humans
a moment of silence to remember all the great people who have passed away who have contributed to the realization of this great anime🥀 July 18th 2019, we never forget
Ive struggled with abandonment and a lot of trauma from a young age having no father figure (biological dad cheated and divorced my mom) and even an abusive step-dad, 4 different highschools leaving friends behind, and a 9 year relationship ending with my girlfriend cheating on me in 2018. I watched this show in 2019 and I felt such a vast emotion from this show just wrecking me to my core. I binged it in one night and felt like i cried out 12 years years of pain and sadness in a couple hours. The next day I told my mom (who is a huge blessing: raised 4 kids practically on her own) that i wanted to get therapy and see a doctor for my health and she just hugged me and cried saying "im always worried about you and ill always help you" and 6 years later with more ups than downs ive pieced myself to a state i can talk about my past with a healthy outlook and try to help others with similar issues. I have loads of scars and i would rather show them so people can see how well they can heal if you never stop moving forward and seek help from others. This show quite literally pushed me to get help and not be alone or give up on life. Absolute Cinema.
I loved this review and reacted to Violet evergarden. New subscriber here :) This is one of my favorite anime, it has it all, a beautiful soundtrack, animation and story, a masterpiece. I will definitely wait every week for more reactions from Violet evergarden. Greetings from Mexico.😊
Wow - what a wonderful deep dive into this. I so look forward to the rest of your journey with this fantastic anime (which I have watched more often than I want to admit!)
You're quickly becoming one of my favorite react channels. Not only do I enjoy watching and listening to your insights, but I also learn so much. Thank you for sharing your experiences from the army. It added a unique depth and nuance to the show that I hadn't fully appreciated before. When I saw Violet Evergarden, it was from a civilian's perspective and much of my initial criticism was aimed at the world and its logic that could sometimes be confusing. Your explanation of Violet's trauma and experiences showed me how this show could impact and connect to other people. I'm looking forward to the upcoming episodes, especially the more emotional ones. I also hope your channel continues to grow and reach even more people. PS: I also ended up crying at the end there. I thought I was safe after watching the show years ago. Guess I was wrong. lol
I can't believe that I'm watching fully without a skip, Violet Evergarden are my favorite anime since it's first comes out, I'm rewatching it every week for the past few years and cried everytime. Your reaction and analysis are so interesting, I love it!!
28:30 yes because you are actually have the perfect professional background to properly analyze this show in particular. You are actually the perfect guy for this.
I have been loving this channel since I found it, I come from a background in coaching and therapy too. Thank you for being so vulnerable giving us your raw and unfiltered reaction to this. I can tell I’ll enjoy watching your content for a long time. (Frieren and violet evergarden are some of my favorite anime of all time, and also are musically composed by the same composer, Evan call) As for another good show to pick apart from the perspective of psychotherapy, I recommend Arcane, which is currently on Netflix.
I've just watched episode 1 of Violet Evergarden to see your reaction... and even though it's been on my viewing list for a while, having seen your well-detailed and in-depth analysis of Frieren convinced me to start this journey with Violet and what a journey it is! PS: pls stop bringing back those FMA flashback.... my PTSD can't 😭 (joke)
Regarding her arms... personally I think they're a symbol for a second chance at life. Her original arms were used exclusively for war, and were tainted with blood, while the new ones can be used for something new, a clean slate from the horrors of the past. They're silver, beautiful, symbolizing the potential good that can come for her new life, but they're artificial and hard to adapt to, showing that this new peaceful life doesn't feel natural to Violet, and that she will need to change a lot before being comfortable with it. This story really is a masterpiece, I'm glad you're watching it. It heals the soul.
Yesssss, my no.1 anime till this date by my favorite studio ever Kyoto Animation! I love how deep this and many other KyoAni shows and movies are so emotional, heck even the comedy ones are amazing - they do some of THE best show of body language and subtle hints. They really took the "show dont tell" up into a new standard, and i respect them for that. But man this is prpbably the 16th or so time ive rewatched this ever since it dropped and it still makes me cry at points. Pain never goes away, it just gets easier to deal with.
Also, I wanted to answer your questions but it'd spoil pretty much everything Edit: i cant give any unbiased opinions either because ive watched it so many times that somethings that wouldnt make sense on first watch, makes sense now
28:25 I think right there she was holding the dog with her mouth so that she could readjust the bandages on her arms. Obviously since she had lost her arms and gotten them replaced, I think either Hodgins didn't know of her injuries, or how it was now settling in of her true condition. Since at 26:49 when he grabbed her arm, it focused on his grip on it, then moved to a shocked/concerned look on his face. Probably feeling the metal of the fake arms. Then if she was readjusting the bandages while holding the dog with her mouth, he would have seen the arms without the bandages for the first time, explaining his facial expressions again. Of course it could just be something like you said, as it is kind of hard to tell, but it looked like she was moving her arms once she put the dog in her mouth. Just my interpretation since they were hiding the arms for a reveal later in the episode. 32:10 that edit was mean man lol 33:20 I do think you're very spot on with the symbolism with the arms showing her being detached from normal life and emotions. Saying she's a robot or machine, like Hodgins said prior, or like a doll even. When Hodgins was first arriving to see Violet, it did a close up of a doll, then zoomed in to blood rolling down the arm, before transitioning to Violet injured on the battlefield. I really do like that the job she joined was to be a Doll. From a killing machine, to a doll to learn about emotions, then to finally understanding human emotions. A great concept. 34:23 not again lmao 37:20 it is manipulative technically, though it was actually Gilbert's wish to have her live there and live a life of peace from now on. So I can't blame Hodgins too much, as it really was what Gilbert wanted. Although Violet obviously is so used to being in the military, and to being around to help Gilbert, that without him around (and without orders to carry out) she is lost and has no idea what to do. As you said, it is hard to decondition people from something like that, and even moreso if it's an orphan like Violet that has been trained and used from a young child as a military weapon. She has no idea what a normal life is. Trying to help someone like that when you aren't trained to, or someone you don't have a strong connection or background with, means I can't blame Hodgins for trying anything to get her to leave that life behind. Though of course, he does eventually take up that task for Gilbert, trying to give her some sort of purpose back into her life with his company. 37:40 I think that while the white lie is hurting her in the short term, it is kind of necessary right now for her. She knows nothing other than Gilbert's orders and war, so if she finds out he's gone, who knows what might happen to hurt. She might just self implode, and lose any will to live, since her reason to live is now gone. She might consider suicide, she might lose her mind and go on some sort of rampage, knowing nothing other than being a weapon. There are a lot of possibilities, and I'm sure you know how badly people can crumble from something like that. So the white lie, plus her naivete in not realizing what is going on with Gilbert (or maybe subconsciously trying to ignore it), helps to keep her hope alive. This was she can learn and grow, and integrate into society, before she learns about him. It might still cause problems, but I think for now it is better, not knowing what might happen to her otherwise. Then at 40:20 we see her saying she should be thrown away if she isn't needed anymore. Who knows exactly what she means by throw away for sure. I can only imagine a direct confirmation of death at this point would be catastrophic. You're going to love how in depth this show goes into emotions, and how Violet learns about them through her experience as a Doll. The guy asking for the love letter helped pique her interest in love and what it means, different people she experiences while working this job (and their own emotions), the way all these will influence her makes for a beautiful story. The studio giving the proper love to art, animation, sound design, music and everything else just accentuates the story even more so. This first episode had me teary eyed when I first watched it, but man will you get even more into your emotions later. Crying from even more sad stuff, crying from happiness, crying from the whole range of emotions this show makes you feel (and not even all from just Violet's perspective). This truly is one of the best stories made, and the author did it in the short amount of episodes that make up this anime. A masterpiece. Can't wait for next Saturday. OH! If you want another deep story to watch, I have got to recommend Vinland Saga. It is a story set in the viking age, so there is a lot of battle and death, but it also at its base a story of one kids struggle and development over his life. It goes very deep into death, how to live with it, how some people CAN'T live with it, etc. Learning about war from a young age, and how to be a better person afterwards. The main character Thorfinn I think actually does bare a lot of similarities to Violet, and how they have to grow as a person. It is seriously a masterpiece of character writing, and the second season of the anime is when it truly starts. The first season will get you good with the emotions, then season 2 goes "Oh you think you know anything yet? Well take this" then smacks you across the face with even better writing.
Bro when i see the preview at the beginning of this video...I just thought this is gonna be different...and oh boy your analyzing in this video is more than before... Especially because you are a veteran
This series is animated by the amazing studio, KyoAni (Kyoto Animation), well known for their masterful command of motion, and of their tendancy to showcase the beauty of the normal moments in life. Their employees are also Salaried, as opposed to Freelance, like most other anime studios. They only make a few shows a year, but they're nearly always worth a watch. They unfortunately suffered a major tragedy themselves in 2019, when one of their buildings was set on fire in an Arson attack. This ended up delaying the Violet Evergarden Movie, which was in production at the time.
I totally recommend 86 (name of the anime). It is so good and relating to the military, but also psychologically stimulating. You should have plenty to talk about on it.
I see other people are recommending 86 and I cannot recommend it enough!! The characters have such psychological depth that I would love to hear your thoughts on, especially since you’re a veteran too and it’s about war and the mentality of child soldiers.
I think you will fall in love and have a deep appreciation for this anime. Don't do what I did, which was binge all 12 episodes in one day. Really give yourself some time after each episode. The amount of crying I did in one day was unreal and my body hated me for it. But, this series is always worth a watch even if it hurts my heart. Such a beautiful series.
I love this Anime even though it was one of the most hurt i ever felt seeing/feeling a story. Love the healing to scar perspective, but also means confronting and feeling where the pain is, which can feel even worse in the intermediat.
This episode definitely caught me by surprise with how personal it felt, but I am grateful for the recommendation :)
Violet episode 2 drops next Saturday, in the meantime, look forward to Frieren: Beyond Journey’s End episode 6 on Wednesday✌🏼
Rotating Frieren and Violet with 2 videos each week until I finish them both!
Benoit 💙
I suggest listening to the opening and closing theme songs (with accompanying lyrics) after watching the second or third episode. They are of infinite delicacy in their lyrics.
For other anime that I can suggest, of which it would be interesting to have a psychological insight, could definitely be “Oshi no ko” (already mentioned by me and others, as you have already told me), “the apothecary diaries,” and maybe rewatch cults (“death note,” the “code geass” anime or “psycho-pass” too).
Insights like these are really rare, so it wouldn't hurt to have more of them over time!
Edit: "Your lie in april" too!
Aww.. i thought you gonna finish Frieren first,but it's fine tho,i enjoy both.
@@EndlessCandle.switching it up due to popular request :)
@@danieleimola7517the copyright is tough with the lyrics and song but I do some of it in episode 3!
What a start to a wonderful series about healing and reintegration as you said. Glad you're enjoying it. Both Frieren and VE are my favourite anime too :D
As rough as this show can be, I truly don't think I've ever seen a more beautiful anime. The pain of loss. The joy of life. I don't believe I've seen another like it, and I'm not sure we ever will again. A masterpiece.
Tune in :) I go crazy with knowledge bombs and symbolic interpretations
the animation and art direction are great, too.
I think Frieren comes close in a lot of ways.
The emotional prose is astounding in Violet Evergarden. It takes a lot of experience and skill to create literature that focuses on the internal, psychological aspects. Furthermore, to create something that can be resonated with the audience despite them not having any familiar experience is a whole other ballgame on its own.
Visually, probably not. But subject matter, we've got Frieren and Plastic Memories. Both are in different subgenres, but largely similar.
I believe one of the reasons Frieren fans recommended Violet evergarden is because of Evan Call. Evan wrote the beautiful OST for both animes.
Beautiful music for sure
Exactly. The catalyst for me watching Frieren was that Evan Call composed its music.
I didn’t know that.. but I’ll keep an eye out for that name on music credits in the future because they do amazing work.
Whoever recommended you Violet Evergarden series deserves a medal. I really like this anime and i know there's a lot of good anime with great psychological case to analyze, and Violet is the best of them!
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If u don't cry to the point od dehydration by the end of the series you aren't human
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I really recommend "Ancient Magus Bride" the journey of coping with abandonment and depression is beautifully done.
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I'll second that
Yes! Very good series.
Hi! I'm one of the people who recommended Violet Evergarden. When I posted, I didn't even think about your status as an Army veteran, but I did think it would be great for a psychotherapist's perspective. It's very emotional, but I couldn't stop cheering for her growth as a person. With that in mind, I hope you enjoy this anime as much as I did when I watched it for the first time.
Glad you recommended it :)
Important thing, a watch order (copied from reddit):
Violet Evergarden (Series) Episodes 1-4 ->
Violet Evergarden OVA (called special or w/e)->
Violet Evergarden (Series) Episodes 5-13 ->
Violet Evergarden: Gaiden (Optional Movie/ Sidestory) ->
Violet Evergarden Movie (Finale of Main Story)
Oooh will consider this!
Yes!
This is a very helpful comment
100% watch them in this order. Not a spoiler, but there’s some stuff in the OVA that’s important for understanding a particular step in Violet’s growth that’s needed for the next episode.
@@Levanah10 100% second this notion, I watched it outside of this order and was perplexed at times.
Quick correction: The reason why Violet bit the dog plushie was because, as was revealed later, she doesn't have the sense of touch in her hands and so used her cheek and mouth to feel the softness of the plushie. Doesn't make it much better, but there you have it 😅. Great reaction and a lot of useful information.
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As a recommendation, I think the anime film “A Silent Voice” would be perfect for you to watch. The plot focuses on bullying, being an outcast and dealing with feelings of guilt and working through them.
I am considering doing A Silent Voice for a special premiere for 10k celebration :)
@@PsychotherapistReacts Silent Voice is great choice, grounded in reality, showing us how hard its to function in society when you heve depression or some kind of physical disability. Love you commentary and insight from medical point of view. Have a nice day all!
I 100% support that recommendation. That would be a prime anime movie to react to if you got the time for it. Especially considering the nature of your channel.
@@PsychotherapistReacts Oh a 10k celebration? THEN ALL OF YOU WATCHERS SHALL SUBSCRIBE ASAP!!!
@@PsychotherapistReacts also if you can why not try watching silent voice in english dub cuz an actual deaf girl voice the female protag
This show is amazing and emotionally so painful, but there's also cathartic moments that make it worth it. Good luck and hope you enjoy it!
Let’s cry tougher lol
OMG i'm really looking forward for these reactions. Violent Evergarden gave me the ugliest crying session of my life. And I hope to relive it together with a bit of more analysis. Great video
Haha you and I both!!
This anime is going to be hard watch but so worth it
Tune in :)
This isn't even the heaviest episode ❤❤ it's completely fascinating seeing a psychologist therapist analyze such afflicted characters like violet and freiren ❤❤
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This series will break your heart and fill it at the same time. I very much recommend taking a break after each episode. The full extent of her trauma is brutal and her journey to heal herself is absolutely beautiful.
painfully beautiful :)
While I can't say it was the right choice, I do very much understand where Hodgins comes from. Violet was raised as a weapon her whole life and dedicates her whole self to following Gilbert. Since she pretty much has nothing else to act as a crutch, the news of him passing/mia might leave her too broken (even suicide is not out of the realm of what she might attempt), so I think withholding the information while she adapts to a civilian life might not be the wrong call. But I also agree with your point of how it takes away her closure. I don't think there is a right answer, but I do think Hodgins lie is out of genuine care for her and not just to avoid a hard conversation.
Also, sinci you mentioned looking for another show: I mentioned it in posts but I think To Your Eternity would be great. Its from the author of A Silent Voice which is has a movie adaptation that I think would also make an incredible piece for your analysis
Will look into that I totally agree, Hodgens was in an impossible position
To your eternity left me broken 😭
To Your Eternity is a GREAT suggestion
For recommendations:
86 might be interesting since it also tackles war and exploitation of child soldiers.
Apothecary Diaries: The power dynamics of a superior and subordinate as well as the social hierarchy impacting relations might be interesting angles to tackle. also the mysteries and fictional imperial china!
Dangers in my Heart: a completely different show but could be interesting hearing you talk about the struggles of self esteem and self worth from kids going through adolescence and them navigating through their first experience with love.
Your Name: one of the most popular anime movies out there. Just because.
A Silent Voice: childhood trauma stemming from getting bullied because of a disability and also seeing the perspective of the bully.
Considering A Silent Voice for a 10k special premiere episode :)
@PsychotherapistReacts Excited for this one! 10k is not too far away.
Don't forget the Ancient Magus Bride.
Not the editor putting in "Trauma from Frieren" when he asked "How much time has passed?" Im still laughing my ass off.
But jokes aside i'm looking forward to seeing next analysis
Also happy to see u responding to most comments 😂 even though this will not last, since i believe u'll soon grow too big to catch up with all of em
Ahh appreciate the praise and I’ll try to read all comments even if it gets big :) maybe shorter responses lol
Eighty-six (86) would be an excellent choice for a next anime !
Will look into it!
Perfect choice really, he's gonna have a wonderful time reacting to Shin
@@rhianemanuel4419 I think the same
Agreed
I second this. "86: Eight-Six" is an amazing anime, and with a lot of material for a psychotherapist to work with.
I would recommend 86 (yes the number is the name of the show) it’s not nearly as heavy as violate evergarden but also has a focus on battle and loss so should be fun for you.
Other than that Bakemonogatari is an insane story with so much going on there psychologically I couldn’t even begin to describe it. Check out a description of the show at least and decide for yourself whether you’d like to watch it or not.
No matter how many times I watch a reaction to this show it will always evoke emotions in me that no other show could, it’s truly a masterpiece.
Great reaction btw, hang in there man. We all cried watching this show.
I second "86: Eighty-Six". It is hugely underrated. Lena is absolutely my favourite character of the last decade. She shows such maturity and resilience in the face of trauma. It's very inspiring.
I third "86"...... But do you think he will be able to handle the show..... It's Heavy!
i 4th 86. Maybe monogatari after that but yeah 86 on priority.
Sounds like 86 is a winner!!
@@jamesln5392 it’s not as heavy as violet evergarden. If he can get through violet then 86 should be no problem.
This is one of my all time favorites and it leaves me extremely emotional from varying angles... The narrative, the characters, the masterful animation and the staff behind it and the staff who are no longer with us.
Kyoto Animation is regarded as one of the best production studios for anime, due to their work ethic, training of internal staff, treatment of their staff and they maintained one of the highest standard of quality in the industry. One of the reason they were capable of this was due to their own production pipeline and means of acquiring funding for said production. Anime usually are produced by a production studio which is funded by the production committee of said production, and the production committee usually takes the majority of the revenue said production makes, leaving little for the studios. Kyoto Animation tried to break away from this industry standard and fund their work inhouse and create their own IP's in house. Violet Evergarden is one of such series that Kyo Ani fostered from the ground up as a light novel published through their own publication.
Four and a half years ago on July Ninth of 2019... There was an arson incident that was directed at one of the production building of Kyoto Animation. This arson attack has killed 36 people and injured many others.. The very staff that Kyo Ani painstakingly trained throughout the years. Some of these staff worked on Violet Evergarden and many other beloved pieces. The reason for this attack? The arsonist was disillusioned that his work was plagiarized after he sent in his manuscript into one of Kyoto Animation's literary contest for their inhouse publication. We now know that the work he did send in was full of cliches and tropes you can find in vast amount of stories... Just because of some cliches story ideas... This man robbed the lives of countless talented individuals... Many fans of Kyoto Animation around the globe was shocked and devastated when this incident occurred, glued to any and all forms of media that can provide any ounce of info and news.
We all were worried to the bone that this incident might end Kyoto Animation as a whole. But as the months passed by, Kyoto Animation slowly and gradually picked themselves up, with support from industry peers and their fans. We are finally reached a point where we are seeing their works again, not in the frequency like before but still with the love and care they pour into each production...
Everytime I watch anything of KyoAni, this incident flashes through my psyche.
Stil raw...
and painful..
But healing...
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28:11 The parallel between Violet biting the stuffed puppy after describing being characterized as a dog is interesting, not one I made on my first or second watch through (but I’m not very psych literate)
The writer in me really liked it a more foreshadowing about her injuries, how Violet would have an easier time feeling the softness of the toy with her mouth than her metallic hands. And as a way to interact with something without going through the medium of her prosthetic, something that is ‘other’ to her still (though I suppose that is both physical and psychological from a recovery perspective).
The motif of Violet trying to feel closer to things by using part of her other than her hands will crop up a few more times throughout the show.
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this is my first time watching violet evergarden too, i know this show is beautiful it's just that im not ready for what to come, watching it with you makes this more bearable and also more easier to understand all the small details
also i would recommend "a silent voice" as your first anime movie reaction, i just know it will be a great reaction video with you analysis
Glad you’re enjoying it, and thanks for the recommendation!
Expressing my thoughts in writing has always been a challenge for me. I’ve tried several times, but my mind just goes blank every time I try to start.
Instead of writing, I started recording myself, usually when I was venting or sharing my "2 a.m. thoughts."
When I listened to those recordings later, I was often surprised by what I heard and couldn’t believe they came from me. It helped me see a side of myself I hadn’t noticed before.
I still do it today. Every now and then, I even record messages of encouragement for my future self, telling him he’s doing a great job and that I’m proud of him.
We actually call this verbal journaling :) same concept!!
i think a good tip for writing is to avoid using the same words in a paragraph or page even, it would force you to get creative and prevent sentences from sounding "samey"
i'm not fluent in english and i struggle to understand a lot of words, but even i can tell that you were born for your profession as a psychotherapist. Your assumptions, explanations and your sensitive reactions are quite satisfying to see being an anime fan and also a very curious person myself. I hope you enjoy the show! Thank You very much!
Thank you so much, that means a lot! 🙏🏼 and your English is great :)
I'm so glad I happened to be looking at Frieren content again just on a whim and found your channel, I don't think I've been so interested to see a newly uploaded video in a long time. Really enjoy your reactions and explanations as someone that studied psych in undergrad and came from a military family, and really loves this sort of content when it's in depth like this. Hits all the marks I'm looking for.
That means so much, thank you! 🙏🏼
SOOO HYPED TO LEARN AND CRY AT THE SAME TIME
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86 and Violet Evergarden are two of the most relatable shows for anyone prior service. Violet is also one that no matter your background or history, there's at least one episode that you will connect with and it will absolutely gut you.
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Cant get throygh this show without shedding tears every episode 😭
Don’t worry we in this together 🥹
I think he should have told her the truth. I agree with you, it's about trusting that the other person can handle it and about not undermining your relationship with the other person. If he's going to be able to help her, then she needs to be able to trust him and nothing kills trust faster than lying.
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First off, thank you for your service. No surprise you identify with this story on a gut level with all you (and your fellow vets) have gone through. You've got an amazing story ahead of you, but as others have said it can be difficult to watch through the tears, of both pain and joy.
Thank you for the kind words! 🙏🏼
I was surprised by just how much of an emotional impact this first episode had on you and I'm glad you shared that and your insight with us. Violet Evergarden is one of my favorite shows ever, not just anime. It is beautifully crafted in every way and there is lots to love, be sad and be happy about all at the same time.
I was shocked myself…beautiful show and a masterpiece
I'm grateful for the content you are making. I feel like a lot of meaning is lost when normal people like me watch it and a lot of the hidden meanings, feelings and thoughts put in by the author, animators and directors that casual people would miss. This really helps connecting and understanding intricate and well told stories like Violet Evergarden or Frieren.
Thanks for the video!
Thank you and welcome :)
YES YES YES i love violet evergarden so much! I can't wait for more!
In addition: the show does get even heavier after ep 1 and if you think you can't watch it more than once a week then the wait will be worth it!
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What episode do you think is the heaviest? I need to prepare myself!
@navdev414 a lot of them after episode 6 will be heavy with the topic of loss in various situations. The heaviest in my opinion are episode 8-9 as they will center more on Violet's own trauma and mental state. Ep 9 out of the two will be the hardest one as it touches on the topic of suicide attempt/ self harm.
I feel the same way. Most people reacting to this video (at least on Reddit) seem to be hit the hardest with episode 10, but for me, episode 10 is almost a kind of a catharsis-since episodes eight and nine devastate me every time.
Can't wait for you to react to "that" episode...
Oh boy
Violet used to be my favorite anime for a long time, until Frieren took its place, so so glad you started. There has been no other anime that can make me cry more than these two, Violet is tough becuase unlike Frieren wich is 1 part Pain and 2 parts happines, thi anime hits with 2 parts pain and 1 part happines. Violet Evergarden is painfully beautiful.
Painfully beautiful, well said
Oh boi
Cant wait for Episode 10, always one of the best episode to watch reactions.
And considering how well you go in depth into the psychology of things
*I will be there no matter what*
Welcome and make sure you follow along :)
I’ll be watching this for the first time with Benoit. I’m glad I’ll have someone else to lean on during my time in need!
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Well, as Benoit keeps telling us every other reaction video, do not feel ashamed of crying ugly tears with this series. I watched this one with my 60yo mother, and I don't think there is a single episode (between the series, OVAs, and films) that we didn't end up crying to some degree or another
@@yoshienverde we all crying together lol
Pretty much all the episodes in this show can bring me to tears. It is such a beautiful and heartwrenching story.
So beautiful
If you cry during movies, this show is going to be rough. It’s a beautiful series. Thank you for your service and helping other veterans.
I appreciate the support, thank you! Here’s to finishing the series :)
I literally just started this anime because you posted this video and I wanted to know everything before watching you! You are doing something really amazing and beautiful! Can't wait for the next episode and Frieren and any other anime in the future that you may cover! Thank you ♥
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 thank you!!
I got Diagnosed with C-PTSD a few weeks before i started to watch Violet Evergarden when it premiered, and when i tell you cried in almost in every damn episode. I related so much with her, and Avatar Korra 🥲. Good luck to you!
I have seen this already and rewatched it already. But hearing you speak and unravel the lines, the context and the subtleties really… it hit me like an effin truck on a totally different level. Thank you for your content. You contribute so much and enrich my life, Dr. Kim. Again, thank you.
Not a doctor, so you can just call me Benoit 👍🏼
This show is amazing, I'm so glad you're watching it. This and Frieren are my favorite animes. I'm really happy that you as a psychotherapist are giving us your insight on it. As others have said it's going to be a hard watch but so worth it. I am looking forward to your next videos!
I agree, it's a tough one, but definitely worth it!
At first i only want to know what the experts think about this show because i love violet so much, but now i learned so much about psychotherapy and it help me understand myself a little bit.
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what a tremendously thoughtful analysis. thank you for your hard work, but i also hope that you take care and don’t push yourself too hard emotionally because even though the messages are filled with hope, a lot of moments in this show cut deep, and i can only imagine the extent for you given your military background. still selfishly hoping that you will react to march comes in like a lion someday, but no pressure!
Thank you and I find my groove soon and will consider since that’s been recommended a few times!
Be careful, there be dragons here. If it is possible to get PTSD from an anime, this is the one.
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Agreeing with one of the comments here, I think 86 would be a great choice for the next anime.
About the video, I really like how insightful you are (Props to you editor btw with the explanations about the terms!) and how compassionate you feel about the characters. I really like how invested you are with them!
BTW, do you have a patreon with the full reactions?
(English is not my first language, so im sorry if I made a mistake writing this haha)
No Patreon yet but I am planning on creating one :) not enough time right now since I have my clinical practice as a priority as well but will start one once I get into more flow!
"86: Eighty-Six" would be an excellent next choice.
I love this channel so much. So glad I found the Frieren reactions.
Welcome aboard!
Oh my thank you for listening to my suggestion ❤
I read all of them :)
Jesus... Between the ongoing Frieren watch, and now this? You really got some good recommendations to get hit hard on the feelings...
Great viewers :)
Since this came out, it's one of my go-to recommendations to anyone that is a newbie to anime. It really breaks all the stereotypes about anime being "just cartoons for kids." It's heavy themes, realistic portrayals of real problems people face, and the relatability presented by many characters (not just the mc). It also has AMAZING visuals and music. The ost is something i still listen to on occasion. Don't take this the wrong way, but I look forward to seeing to re-experience and psychoanalyze your own traumas with this show being the amazing catalyst that it is.
Amazing show all around for sure!
You got a sub from me! And honestly as someone whos brother is a Vet from the Afghanistan war this show in particular hit home for certain parts. Im excited for your journey through this and will be eatching every video you drop from now on!
Appreciate you and your appreciate my episode 3 a lot since your brother :)
I really, really hope that we'll be able to see you go over the rest of the series as all of the episodes are genuine masterpieces that will definitely go well with your great commentary and insight. I really enjoyed this!
That's the plan!
I'm really hooked on watching this. All the explanation got me watched this until the end. Really hoping you continue to react to Violet Evergarden because it's really emotional, and I want to know all about psychological things in this anime.
I always finish what I started :) will finish the entire series! Sub and follow along
This is quite literally my favorite piece of media ever created, and the second movie is my favorite among it. I hope you stick with it, as it’s literally my favorite thing ever. I can’t wait for more of your reactions!
I’m really looking forward to exploring this series with you! Sub and follow along :)
@ Oh trust me, I have! With all notifications on as well ! (:
@@RyantheGreat2005 you the real MVP!
Just arrived to the channel, greetings from Uruguay 🇺🇾. Excellent video and analysis. What surprises me the most is how anime scriptwriters manage to make such profound wonders and Hollywood does so many ridiculous things. 😣
Greetings right back from LA! That’s exactly what I’m saying…Hollywood is just recycling nostalgia at this rate
Este anime junto con Frieren, Full Metal Alchemist y Mushishi son mi Top. Uno mejor que el otro, te dejan pensando y te hacen soltar una que otra lágrima 😢 😊😢
Yes!!! Agreed
Your name and silent voice are a must watch. I know you'll love it
That’s the plan!
Seriously amazing reaction and love your analysis of this show. reminds me I never quite finished watching it, and should go back. It's one of the most beautiful and emotionally engaging shows ever, said from the perspective of someone who hasn't even gotten to the end. Can see why it was recommended. Also understand spacing out the reactions as it does have a lot of impact. I wasn't sure at first if I'd watch this, being most focused on your freiren episodes, but I'm very glad I did. I was never in the military but my brother was, and a lot of what you described hits home with his difficulties after his service. (Which was many years ago, but it did leave a lasting impact on him, physically and mentally.)
Glad to hear it resonated with you! Frieren will resume on Wed
Looking for the meaning of 'I Love You' is going to be a central theme here, and not just in romantic form.
Oh yeah I gathered that for sure
So happy to see your commentary and analysis of this gorgeous anime
Me too, I'm enjoying it so much!
I'm moved with your analysis/reaction of the beginning of this beautiful story.
I strongly recomend "To Your Eternity” anime, I believe that show deserves a psychotherapist point of view.
Greetings from Argentina
Hi 🇦🇷 and yes that’s been mentioned quite a few times!
I second this!
I know more about the series so maybe that's affecting my judgement about Violet at this point but I'm also not a doctor of any sort lmao, but personally I believe immediatly wouldn't have been a good time to reveal that truth and would have caused Violet to completely spiral for reasons you may see in the future, or maybe you won't see what I'm seeing and have better reasons and continue to disagree with me.
Looking forward to more episodes for sure as I adore this show.
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Having the breaks when you expand on what is going on really helps with the emotional pacing of watching this again.
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Ah, I've watched through Violet Evergarden some couple or more years ago, it's great and got me emotional throughout. )
I agree that it's very important to give people the truth, because it's much harder to land on the more fitting ways towards healing if you have an imperfect impression of the situation and act on faulty assumptions. I think that in this situation it can leave Violet with desperate hope, focusing on upholding a picture she wishes for despite possible counter-evidence and expending a lot of effort on that instead of on the process of healing. In the same time I think that it's important for Violet to have an anchor to life and normalcy, how ever she known it, something to keep her going - so I hope that there is an ideal world where she knows he's at least MIA, but still leans on the routine habit of writing out reports to him that'll stick and become a more general journaling, but I wonder how soon that might start feeling meaningless. Hopefully after finding some other anchors. The assumption of her commander being alive that the doctor creates here kinda lets for a "he's given you a mission - to rest and to get well", which I'm on the fence whether it's healthy, but it seems to potentially be useful.
As the comments said 86 is also a good series to watch.
Another is "To your eternity" Would also love your reaction to the protagonist as he learns about humans
Oh god, I wasn't even able to finish "To your eternity" it hurts too much 😭
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a moment of silence to remember all the great people who have passed away who have contributed to the realization of this great anime🥀
July 18th 2019, we never forget
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Ive struggled with abandonment and a lot of trauma from a young age having no father figure (biological dad cheated and divorced my mom) and even an abusive step-dad, 4 different highschools leaving friends behind, and a 9 year relationship ending with my girlfriend cheating on me in 2018. I watched this show in 2019 and I felt such a vast emotion from this show just wrecking me to my core. I binged it in one night and felt like i cried out 12 years years of pain and sadness in a couple hours. The next day I told my mom (who is a huge blessing: raised 4 kids practically on her own) that i wanted to get therapy and see a doctor for my health and she just hugged me and cried saying "im always worried about you and ill always help you" and 6 years later with more ups than downs ive pieced myself to a state i can talk about my past with a healthy outlook and try to help others with similar issues. I have loads of scars and i would rather show them so people can see how well they can heal if you never stop moving forward and seek help from others. This show quite literally pushed me to get help and not be alone or give up on life. Absolute Cinema.
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I loved this review and reacted to Violet evergarden. New subscriber here :)
This is one of my favorite anime, it has it all, a beautiful soundtrack, animation and story, a masterpiece. I will definitely wait every week for more reactions from Violet evergarden. Greetings from Mexico.😊
Thanks for subscribing and welcome! Glad you're enjoying the analysis.
Wow - what a wonderful deep dive into this. I so look forward to the rest of your journey with this fantastic anime (which I have watched more often than I want to admit!)
What a masterpiece and I'm so excited to be delving deeper while crying with you lol
You're quickly becoming one of my favorite react channels. Not only do I enjoy watching and listening to your insights, but I also learn so much. Thank you for sharing your experiences from the army. It added a unique depth and nuance to the show that I hadn't fully appreciated before. When I saw Violet Evergarden, it was from a civilian's perspective and much of my initial criticism was aimed at the world and its logic that could sometimes be confusing. Your explanation of Violet's trauma and experiences showed me how this show could impact and connect to other people.
I'm looking forward to the upcoming episodes, especially the more emotional ones. I also hope your channel continues to grow and reach even more people.
PS: I also ended up crying at the end there. I thought I was safe after watching the show years ago. Guess I was wrong. lol
Thank you for the kind words and I hope we all get to grow together :) and can’t blame you there, I haven’t cried watching a show in a long time
I can't believe that I'm watching fully without a skip, Violet Evergarden are my favorite anime since it's first comes out, I'm rewatching it every week for the past few years and cried everytime.
Your reaction and analysis are so interesting, I love it!!
It's so good!
After episode 9, I recommend coming back and watching this episode. The beginning scenes go from being exposition to absolutely devastating.
Will do
Great reaction and analysis really enjoyed seeing this show through a new perspective.
Thanks, I'm glad you enjoyed it!
Really looking forward to this series, you seem perfectly qualified to analyse it haha ❤
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Thank you for sharing 😢
Heavy show, probably a great one for you to cover with your background, education, and reaction style...
I agree, it's a tough watch, but it will be worth it in the end.
28:30 yes because you are actually have the perfect professional background to properly analyze this show in particular. You are actually the perfect guy for this.
Can’t disagree lol
It's amazing how accurate all your analysis are... It gave me goosebumps! Can't wait for you to finish this series and the other two movies🙏✨
Appreciate the kind words!! 🙏🏼
I am so happy that you decode this anime. 😊
Me too!
I believe your input going forward will be worth the wait. I remember crying so hard after watching this series.
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I have been loving this channel since I found it, I come from a background in coaching and therapy too. Thank you for being so vulnerable giving us your raw and unfiltered reaction to this. I can tell I’ll enjoy watching your content for a long time. (Frieren and violet evergarden are some of my favorite anime of all time, and also are musically composed by the same composer, Evan call)
As for another good show to pick apart from the perspective of psychotherapy, I recommend Arcane, which is currently on Netflix.
Appreciate that! It’s nice to know there are other coaches and therapists in the community :)
I've just watched episode 1 of Violet Evergarden to see your reaction... and even though it's been on my viewing list for a while, having seen your well-detailed and in-depth analysis of Frieren convinced me to start this journey with Violet and what a journey it is!
PS: pls stop bringing back those FMA flashback.... my PTSD can't 😭 (joke)
Going on the journey together!!
Awesome analysis by a real professional, learned a lot from watching.
Much appreciated!
Regarding her arms... personally I think they're a symbol for a second chance at life.
Her original arms were used exclusively for war, and were tainted with blood, while the new ones can be used for something new, a clean slate from the horrors of the past. They're silver, beautiful, symbolizing the potential good that can come for her new life, but they're artificial and hard to adapt to, showing that this new peaceful life doesn't feel natural to Violet, and that she will need to change a lot before being comfortable with it.
This story really is a masterpiece, I'm glad you're watching it. It heals the soul.
It really is!
Yesssss, my no.1 anime till this date by my favorite studio ever Kyoto Animation!
I love how deep this and many other KyoAni shows and movies are so emotional, heck even the comedy ones are amazing - they do some of THE best show of body language and subtle hints. They really took the "show dont tell" up into a new standard, and i respect them for that.
But man this is prpbably the 16th or so time ive rewatched this ever since it dropped and it still makes me cry at points. Pain never goes away, it just gets easier to deal with.
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Also, I wanted to answer your questions but it'd spoil pretty much everything
Edit: i cant give any unbiased opinions either because ive watched it so many times that somethings that wouldnt make sense on first watch, makes sense now
28:25 I think right there she was holding the dog with her mouth so that she could readjust the bandages on her arms. Obviously since she had lost her arms and gotten them replaced, I think either Hodgins didn't know of her injuries, or how it was now settling in of her true condition. Since at 26:49 when he grabbed her arm, it focused on his grip on it, then moved to a shocked/concerned look on his face. Probably feeling the metal of the fake arms. Then if she was readjusting the bandages while holding the dog with her mouth, he would have seen the arms without the bandages for the first time, explaining his facial expressions again. Of course it could just be something like you said, as it is kind of hard to tell, but it looked like she was moving her arms once she put the dog in her mouth. Just my interpretation since they were hiding the arms for a reveal later in the episode.
32:10 that edit was mean man lol
33:20 I do think you're very spot on with the symbolism with the arms showing her being detached from normal life and emotions. Saying she's a robot or machine, like Hodgins said prior, or like a doll even. When Hodgins was first arriving to see Violet, it did a close up of a doll, then zoomed in to blood rolling down the arm, before transitioning to Violet injured on the battlefield. I really do like that the job she joined was to be a Doll. From a killing machine, to a doll to learn about emotions, then to finally understanding human emotions. A great concept.
34:23 not again lmao
37:20 it is manipulative technically, though it was actually Gilbert's wish to have her live there and live a life of peace from now on. So I can't blame Hodgins too much, as it really was what Gilbert wanted. Although Violet obviously is so used to being in the military, and to being around to help Gilbert, that without him around (and without orders to carry out) she is lost and has no idea what to do. As you said, it is hard to decondition people from something like that, and even moreso if it's an orphan like Violet that has been trained and used from a young child as a military weapon. She has no idea what a normal life is. Trying to help someone like that when you aren't trained to, or someone you don't have a strong connection or background with, means I can't blame Hodgins for trying anything to get her to leave that life behind. Though of course, he does eventually take up that task for Gilbert, trying to give her some sort of purpose back into her life with his company.
37:40 I think that while the white lie is hurting her in the short term, it is kind of necessary right now for her. She knows nothing other than Gilbert's orders and war, so if she finds out he's gone, who knows what might happen to hurt. She might just self implode, and lose any will to live, since her reason to live is now gone. She might consider suicide, she might lose her mind and go on some sort of rampage, knowing nothing other than being a weapon. There are a lot of possibilities, and I'm sure you know how badly people can crumble from something like that. So the white lie, plus her naivete in not realizing what is going on with Gilbert (or maybe subconsciously trying to ignore it), helps to keep her hope alive. This was she can learn and grow, and integrate into society, before she learns about him. It might still cause problems, but I think for now it is better, not knowing what might happen to her otherwise. Then at 40:20 we see her saying she should be thrown away if she isn't needed anymore. Who knows exactly what she means by throw away for sure. I can only imagine a direct confirmation of death at this point would be catastrophic.
You're going to love how in depth this show goes into emotions, and how Violet learns about them through her experience as a Doll. The guy asking for the love letter helped pique her interest in love and what it means, different people she experiences while working this job (and their own emotions), the way all these will influence her makes for a beautiful story. The studio giving the proper love to art, animation, sound design, music and everything else just accentuates the story even more so. This first episode had me teary eyed when I first watched it, but man will you get even more into your emotions later. Crying from even more sad stuff, crying from happiness, crying from the whole range of emotions this show makes you feel (and not even all from just Violet's perspective). This truly is one of the best stories made, and the author did it in the short amount of episodes that make up this anime. A masterpiece. Can't wait for next Saturday.
OH! If you want another deep story to watch, I have got to recommend Vinland Saga. It is a story set in the viking age, so there is a lot of battle and death, but it also at its base a story of one kids struggle and development over his life. It goes very deep into death, how to live with it, how some people CAN'T live with it, etc. Learning about war from a young age, and how to be a better person afterwards. The main character Thorfinn I think actually does bare a lot of similarities to Violet, and how they have to grow as a person. It is seriously a masterpiece of character writing, and the second season of the anime is when it truly starts. The first season will get you good with the emotions, then season 2 goes "Oh you think you know anything yet? Well take this" then smacks you across the face with even better writing.
Thanks Ryan, I recognize your name from a few videos already :) great breakdown and will consider Vinland Saga
man this anime get's me every time, to anyone who look animation as a lesser medium I always recommend this series
That’s so true, what a great SHOW generally even beyond the category of anime
The Fullmetal Alchemist bit had me choking on my coffee lmao I did not need to be reminded of Nina and the dog today
Lmaoo
Bro when i see the preview at the beginning of this video...I just thought this is gonna be different...and oh boy your analyzing in this video is more than before... Especially because you are a veteran
Frieren was my first anime reaction analysis so now I have more experiences :) my videos will only get better and more detailed 🙏🏼
I enjoyed this review, analysis, whatever you call it thoroughly. Looking forward to more :D
Thanks! I'm really enjoying this series so far, hope you are too!
This series is animated by the amazing studio, KyoAni (Kyoto Animation), well known for their masterful command of motion, and of their tendancy to showcase the beauty of the normal moments in life. Their employees are also Salaried, as opposed to Freelance, like most other anime studios. They only make a few shows a year, but they're nearly always worth a watch.
They unfortunately suffered a major tragedy themselves in 2019, when one of their buildings was set on fire in an Arson attack.
This ended up delaying the Violet Evergarden Movie, which was in production at the time.
Yeah RIP
As a teenager this show made me cry a lot of times, even now years later, it makes my heart skipp some beats.
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Man u giving all these symbolism which actually makes sense while i miss all this cause i cant see w all these tears
Lmao
I totally recommend 86 (name of the anime). It is so good and relating to the military, but also psychologically stimulating.
You should have plenty to talk about on it.
I see other people are recommending 86 and I cannot recommend it enough!! The characters have such psychological depth that I would love to hear your thoughts on, especially since you’re a veteran too and it’s about war and the mentality of child soldiers.
Many have recommended it and sounds interesting!
I think you will fall in love and have a deep appreciation for this anime. Don't do what I did, which was binge all 12 episodes in one day. Really give yourself some time after each episode. The amount of crying I did in one day was unreal and my body hated me for it. But, this series is always worth a watch even if it hurts my heart. Such a beautiful series.
Oh yeah I can’t do more than 2 a week
Violet Evergarden is my favorite series. Glad to see you analyze it.
🙏🏼🙏🏼 follow along friend :)
@@PsychotherapistReactsget ready for some of the best episodes ever in animation
I think episode 9 will break you
This is one of the best reaction I've seen so far.
Means a lot :)
I think I cried almost every episode while watching violet for the first time.
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I love this Anime even though it was one of the most hurt i ever felt seeing/feeling a story.
Love the healing to scar perspective, but also means confronting and feeling where the pain is, which can feel even worse in the intermediat.
YES!