How to be More Attractive
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- Thank you for watching! Please add any tips that make you feel more attractive OR that you notice in others! ❤️ Lisa
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I went to Starbucks the other day and the guy in the drive thru was so exceptionally nice that when I got up there I actually told him that I appreciated how nice he was.. he lit up! I think its important to tell people when they make an impact on you because that In turn makes their day too to be recognized for it 💜
Carie Lynn yes! I always try to do this too!
I compliment people as well ( looks ,style, attitude,etc..) A sincere compliment can make someone’s day.
I agree with every single word Lisa I make it my business to talk to people every day and their whole face lights up
Smiling is infectious,
you catch it like the flu,
When someone smiled at me today,
I started smiling too.
I passed around the corner
and someone saw my grin.
When he smiled I realized
I'd passed it on to him.
I thought about that smile,
then I realized its worth.
A single smile, just like mine
could travel round the earth.
So, if you feel a smile begin,
don't leave it undetected.
Let's start an epidemic quick,
and get the world infected!
PEACEATLAST I love it!!! A smile is usually the very first thing I notice about someone.
PEACEATLAST love this!!! ❤️ thanks for sharing xo
Beauty comes from within. What you put out into the universe will come back to you. It's all about positivity.
Totally agree!
It’s about being kind and treating people like you want to be treated...makes anybody look more attraction! I agree with everything you said Lisa!
Hi Lisa! My Mama was a single school teacher with three small children that went to church every Sunday. She is the sweetest, happiest most genuine person I have ever known. The school secretary was so rude and mean to her, and my Mom was always so nice to her, even complimenting her outfits, etc. I asked her one time, how can you be so nice to her when she treats you so badly? She said because that is who she is, not who I am. And besides, it probably eats her up that I am nice to her.lol. I never forgot that. She was also a special education teacher, so taught me to treat every ‘special’ kid as my equal...and if I thought I was better or more popular and would treat them as if they were below me and she found out...boy would I get in trouble. To this day people tell me what a special person my Mom was (still is!) She would drive and wave at people she did not even know. It embarrassed me when I was younger, but I know that she is just genuinely that nice. I...like you, have learned unfortunately you can’t be TOO kind to everyone, but always try to make someone’s day with a smile! There are a few of you I watch just for the ‘peace’ that you give me in my heart...you are def my top!
I love it when you talk about things like this, Lisa. I agree with you so much! Smiling and complimenting people has really gone downhill these days. It’s so sad. I always make it a point. Sometimes I have to be careful, though. I’ve attracted some crazies that way in the past. Haha!
One of the most attractive thing to me, is a sense of humor. If I get stressed, my husband makes me laugh and that makes him so attractive to me! We celebrate our 26th wedding anniversary on the 19th.
I'm the same and my husband always makes me laugh ❤
Lisa , I so agree with you. Social graces were taught when I grew up. I notice that so many people these days seem so stressed and often rude. Being pleasant takes little effort and has great pay off in life enhancing joy of living. Love your videos always. You’re are a wonderful example of all you describe. You are my favorite on You Tube.
I was just about to go to sleep lol but couldn’t because I got a notification 🤗 loved this!! Lisa you do not know how you’ve made an impact in my life! I’ve gotten so much confident in myself ever since finding you. Thank you so much, I appreciate it!!! bless you hope you never stop making videos ❤️🙏🤗
melissa pintone Thank you, M!! 🥰😘
Great comment ❤️
You are such a beautiful soul inside and out. Your sweetness and light makes the world a more beautiful place ❤
Beautiful manners leave such an awesome fragrance behind ! Agree it’s very attractive & respectful the way we speak & portray ourselves ! Thank y 🌸
Totally agree about smiling.. Makes a HUGE difference.
This is a great video and you are sooooooo right!!! Some of the men that I have dated and been very attracted to were not considered good looking as far as society standards (Robert Redford, Gary Grant type) but because of their sparkling personality, confidence, humor and sexiness they were very very attractive to me...this is why online dating sucks, you are just looking at a face and making a decision whether to even talk and then meet up
I agree with you on all items. So many children aren’t being raised to be nice or respectful these days which makes them unattractive as well. It’s sad when you don’t want to be around some children. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. ❤️
People just need to have good manners. Makes all the difference in the world!
One thing I always am attracted to is people who laugh easily and have a sparkle in their eyes.
I try to always have positive encounters with others because you never know what they are going through in their life- kindness is free. Also, Since i live in California, I’m sure I’m in the minority, but I use yes sir and yes ma’am on a daily basis so I should’ve been born in the south ...lol
xoxo Melody
You are as beautiful on the inside as you are outwardly!
You got me thinking...you said you say “Yes Ma’am” and “No Ma’am” as a sweet and polite thing. I tend to get bummed when someone says “Ma’am “ to me as if I’m old! I guess that’s Southern CA? Going forward, I’ll be thankful for the politeness :)
Evidently my resting face is sad or mad. My grandson and I were just talking about this the other day. I'm working on trying to keep my mouth turned up on the ends 🙂
Politeness means so, so much.. Holding door for someone, saying thank you and please, etc. That definitely is so attractive to me.
That’s hilarious about the ankle bracelet. 😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️
Wonderful insights Lisa! A good character, poise and being well groomed (for me) far outshine any physical attributes one may have. tfs ...
I just love how nice and genuine you are. I love your videos and I so look forward to them, thank you.
With the use of so much technology-cell phones, gaming, internet... I think we have lost so much of the beauty of human interaction. It is sad. I am a big "smiler" myself and sometimes it takes people off guard. It is almost like they are shocked to see a stranger looking at them and smiling. I enjoyed listening to your video, Lisa. A nice positive video. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
I've noticed this, too! When I went shopping at Walmart the other day, there were so many employees walking around filling up baskets, which I thought was odd. Then I realized that it was for all of the online shoppers. It made me kind of sad.
Judy Howell I agree too! I’ve smiled at people and said hello and they look at me like I’m the odd one. It’s a very sad world when technology and cell phones have consumed most ppl, they’re losing how to talk to ppl. 😔
Wonderful Video!! I agree with all you said. I always let people know how pleasant they are. Or pick out something about them that is special!💕🤗
Smiling is a form of charity ❤️
I don’t really care about how people look but when someone has no manners I immediately don’t like them. When looking for friends or boyfriends in the past I always make sure they open doors for people, say please and thank you. Especially when someone drops something and they help to pick it up is everything to me because I would do that and I expect the same off others.
Great video! Lovely reminder of what’s truly important. True beauty has very little to do with glamour, and the kindness it generates can rock the world!!
I love this Lisa, you are such a delight 💕💕💕💕
Hello Lisa, this was a wonderful, wonderful idea for a video!!!! I think you really hit the nail on the head with the smiling thing, and just having a pleasant expression on your face. It’s amazing how it changes one’s appearance!!!
Smile and be pleasant. It works all the time 😍
I try to be nice at the store but I feel like people around me are very impatient and act bothered if I’m standing in the aisle for 2 seconds too long (Costco), it’s hard to stay positive. I will smile, say sorry, move my cart out of their way and they will look down and make a face and won’t look me in the eyes. Can you do a video on how not to let negative energy rub off on someone? It’s my challenge and my mood can switch because I feel like I absorb their energy.
Such a great video. I totally agree with everything that you said. I sometimes think how much nicer the world would be if we could all be a little kinder to each other. Just a little smile makes such a difference. Thank you for all your wonderful videos.❤️
Couldn't agree more! 😊
This is my all time favorite video from you I think 😃 I totally agree with everything you said... If I might add I think generosity, people who refrain from gossip, and just people who choose to take the high road are very special & attractive 💖 You are one of the most beautiful people I know on youtube !!! You still take the time to respond & like comments, & you respond to negativity so gracefully 💕
A kind soul is a beautiful soul and it costs nothing! Love this, Lisa. I think a lot of your subscribers can relate to this as well.
Such a great video. You have such a sweet soul♥️
Great video. Love these type of videos and as always you never disappoint. Youare the sweetest soul Lisa. Beautiful inside and out. Hope you have a wonderful week. Hugs
Wonderful video Lisa! I agree with freely giving out compliments to people who I meet when I'm out and about, because 99% of the time it makes the person smile and brightens their moment and best of all is that it also makes me feel good too! :)
I love this Lisa ‘ being pleasant is so pretty
Thank you, Anna! 🥰 Lisa
Nothing is more beautiful than a child. Their innocence is profound. I also love to see an older couple who are holding hands in public, kissing and laughing and really are enjoying each other. This gives me hope that maybe I might meet my “person”....even if it’s in my Golden Years.
chic filet is catholic and our right Lisa they are super kind to all. It makes me want to be kind to others. I love being catholic. Also people that work in fast food probably have a very hard life. Great ideas Lisa, bottom line treat people like you want to be treated.
I enjoyed this!❤️ A big thing for me is manners. Politeness in men or women goes a long way in making someone “attractive”. I have encountered homeless people who may not the cleanest but who have amazing manners and it blows me away. Manners equals respect and if you can’t respect people I don’t care how much money you have or how great you look, it turns me right off.
I agree with everything!! Also when people smell good, that makes them attractive too, especially if it’s a “clean” scent!!!
Great video, xo Daria
Daria Isaksen yes!! Clean and fresh.
I’ve been loving these sort of “lifestyle” videos that you’ve been coming out with, Lisa. Between this one and the recent video of how to look more put together plus some of your older ones where you’d talk about marriage and relationships, I really value your advice and find myself agreeing with your points! I love listening to you sit and talk to us while I’m getting ready or doing my skincare routine, the way that I’d listen to a podcast ♥️
oh my gosh what a coincidence, literally about 2 hours ago I was just thinking how a women was so rude and so un-classy to me and I was so haw struck since she was in the wrong. I just walked away and did not engage in her insults. But yes I was thinking how unattractive this women was. Love this video, everything is on point :)
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TBH, I find the correct use of English, spelling and grammar in particular, an attractive attribute. A thoughtful demeanor and an intelligent, well informed opinion speaks loudest about the beauty of a person's thoughts and mind.
In my experience, this smile, sense of humour, wxude confidence, good laugh and bla bla bla is good... if you want to be friends with everyone. I've heard my whole life I was like this... and "you are such a great friend". I was friendzoned mu whole life while my beautiful friends and cousins got the attention. Attractive = being physically beautiful either by being born, by using makeup/dressing up or plastic surgery (in the drastic side). If you were born with a ugly face, nothing will make you attractive.
I just love all of your videos! Another great one! Thank you so much Lisa!!!
Love this 💓 you’re a class act. Enjoyed this video very refreshing
great video lisa. A smile is free but is worth so much 😊
Keanu Reaves and Matt Damon have that attractiveness thing down with their behavior and conversation. Same with Ashton Kutcher and Dax Shepherd. Now they are not necessarily put together nor smiley....but they do have the confidence that is universally appealing.
I agree with you about someone who has a sense of style or is just thoughtful about their look. It tends to put you at ease.
I forgot to let you know how I Love your Haus like this 🥰
Hair!!!!!🤦🏻♀️
Lisa: it’s about being kind to people. Smiling to someone or just holding the door for someone - it can really be something very positive to someone who might be having a difficult time. I’ve always told my boys that that might be the only smile that they see all day. It really can make a difference. A smile is free
Oh, Lisa, I am so glad you posted this. I’m a shy person but I always say please, thank you and I try my best to be kind to the people in service jobs as well as the people who are the big wigs. My mom did teach me good manners and I need to go thank her for that. I’m not a particularly confident woman but I am no worm either! I imagine most people will want to smile back at you when you smile at them because you are not only gorgeous on the outside but you have a sweet disposition and are willing to share that light inside of you with others.
YES! Pretty starts on the inside! Positive, loving, kind are the things that make us attractive!
Chix Filet does have the best customer service. We have a weagmans and although pricey, because of there customer service the store is packed every weekend. Its a pleasant experience. You are on it with this video. Totally agree
Great video, Lisa! I have been thinking about this very thing lately. I agree, nothing has the power of a pleasant smile and a kind word. I try to live by this! I can’t believe how much alike we are. Because we are both from NC?
Thank you so much for doing videos like this! I love your life advice videos even more than your beauty videos. I listen while I’m doing my makeup for the day and it always puts me in such a good mood ❤️
Hey Lisa! Enjoyed this video! Very different! I agree with you on all! We recently moved to a 55 and older community and I always say to my hubby...please don't ever become a grumpy old man! Very few wave or smile! I'm from New York and super friendly! I've been living in New Jersey for almost 25 yrs now....in my opinion New Yorkers are so much more friendlier! Nothing like a great smile and a warm greeting! Xo
Thanks you for this videos!
“Don’t show your teeth to every man you see.” That’s the saying I heard back in the day. Lol
Yep someone can be so pretty but if there rude or fake ..there a very ugly person to me.. And what you put out is what you will receive always be nice and kind and also do and give to others and always be humble!!! Great video!!
Love this video Lisa! You should do more of this type of content! What you put out there is what you get back!! You look so beautiful as always!
LOVED this! It's so, so true~~xoxo
19:37 "show must go on" 😄😆🤗😍
My mother always says to me “Pretty is as pretty does”❤️ Tim Gunn wrote a wonderful book l Gunn’s Golden rules. It goes along these lines, it’s an easy read , I highly recommend it.Eye contact ,and a nice smile can make someone’s day. I live in a friendlier area as well.Try to be kind to others, you don’t know where they’re coming from , or an older person may strike up a conversation because they don’t come in contact with a lot of people and want to to have a nice chat with someone.😊 It takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile ; thanks to my mamma I remember these things.
Hey Lisa! What generosity of Spirit you have.:) I believe we all could listen endlessly. Thank you. xo Diane
What a beautiful Message Lisa 🎯
I have to tell you that I am a Danish girl, and my best compliment I ever got was in a line at forever21, in Tampa, FL, in 2007.
You See, Danish people Can be very private and shy, so I was very surprised to learn, that people in Florida was sooo differently outgoing, kind and truly interested in other people.
Btw, the nice lady complimentet me on my skin, and asked who my dermatologist was.
I actually did not even have one and my only skincare was an affordable nivea moisturizer 😄
Ever since, now that I know the impact, I try to pass the feeling on!
Du er skøn! You are lovely! Love from DK 🌸🌻🌺🌷
Put together, pleasant and confident.
Really great video Lisa.♥
Oh Lisa this was such a good video...being Happy and sharing a smile with people is so important...I'm in transition of changing churches and I have been getting the most precious I miss you text, cards and phone calls from my old church family...the number one thing almost every single one of them has said is" I love and miss you but I so miss your happy self coming through the door always smiling" I have to say their sweet compliments has made me feel so good...being kind with a smile is the best gift you can give anyone...love to see someone male or female looking neat and in clean clothes especially their shoes....you are such a precious soul and always make me happy when I watch your videos 😀💟
Really enjoyed this!❤️
Haha! Vitacost! Me, too! I agree about actresses crossing boundaries as they essentially leap off the stage and cross over telling people how to live. I am so over them! Omg--such a pleasure to go to Chick-fil-A! They stand out above the rest and should serve as an example for public relations!
Another way to feel great inside and to be attractive is when you're shopping at a grocery and see an older lady arriving is to get her a cart! They appreciate it immensely. It helps them walk. So many have told me this and they are very grateful! Also, if you see an elderly lady searching the shelves for an item, just ask her if you can help her find something. They have greatly appreciated it! If you see one with a small magnifying glass, searching she probably has macular degeneration which makes it hard for her to see! Helping them---is a good thing to do! Keep these types of videos up, Lisa! I really enjoyed it and your bright attitude can benefit many! After all, that's what we are here for--each other!!💕🌸🌞🌸💕
Thanks so much for this video. I've learned lately that my appearance really improves how I'm treated by strangers. It really makes a difference! Its like they are pleased to see me and they return the favor by being kind. Which compels me to look nice more days than not.
When I was so injured after the roaccutane damage..that is what did when going to the city..just a bandaide for the little girl with the sore/cut on her leg that would have ruined her socks for the day in the city, and the olde Irishman on the tram that we talked about race horses, I left saying.:"hope I see you again" as I left the tram.."I hope so too." he replied..these ppl made my day..if I couldn't heal yet..at least I could make their day better..so true Lisa
Salome Elizabeth Excellent... a listening ear, a kind word or thought...keep it going strong ❤️👍
Your a beautiful lady 🥰 quick ??? Do you wear lashes everyday I’m thinking about doing it but not sure if it’s good for your own lashes is this true?
Oh you brought space cowboy back out, love that one. I bought a new blush duo by Coverfx. I got the mauve one very pretty. Thanks for this video. I am a southerner and my Mom from a much earlier generation, she was 83 when I lost her. She always taught me to be charming. A smile is so important. I find if I approach someone with a smile they usually smile back and more approachable. It sometimes makes the other persons day in this crazy busy world these days.
Politness, manners and a smile!
Lisa you have put into words what I wish people would be like to one another, I guess this is why I subscribed to your channel from when you began and follow your vids and always like your gentle attitude. Thank you 🌺
As a teacher for many decades, I can tell you it is everything to have a pleasant demeanor---even when dispensing discipline. Doing it with a caring voice will make the difference.
Also, I SO agree with you about celebs these days.... many of them are not in the real world with us regular people and they are so out of touch.... I get so annoyed when they get political.... they have no freaking idea what they are talking about!
enjoyinglittlethings Money doesn’t always exempt you from the ills of society. Especially if you are a minority.
Agreed
Hi Enjoyinglittlethings....I think you should think about Celebs" not knowing what they are talking about" they often bring to public attention certain injustices that are under the radar...Just ask the 911 first responders that are trying to get medical and financial aid ...I think Jon Stewart has been fighting Congress and Mitch McConnell for the last 18 years....believe me the first responders LOVE him...for his help and endless fighting for them....Americans who are also" Celebs "are just as much entitled to freedom of speech as well as you and I...and I think most of them will fight for the underdogs and help bring attention to issues that get swept under the rug. I dont think they are out of touch with the real world(maybe some are)....I think it is too much to assume that they all are less aware than the typical American. (Many of them have struggled to get to the top of their professions and most of them didnt get things handed to them on a silver platter)
Loved this Lisa! Yes! There are so many people that are attractive but not classically beautiful! Lol on the guy in the ankle bracelet!!😂😂😂Confidence IS the headliner. Such a great topic!
This is a very good video Lisa. I am back.❤️❤️😘😘
I am so with you about actors who are downright ugly in their real lives. I won’t even watch awards shows because I don’t want yo hear the sarcastic, rude, off-color remarks they constantly make.
My dr tells me all the time I look radiant and it’s because I’m a happy person. So it’s true. It’s what makes people attractive when we feel good on the inside and the whole aura and presence becomes luminous! 😘😘😘
I know a girl that works at ChickFilA and she says there is NO WAY to say “it’s my pleasure”and not smile! So it affects the employee too! Great video!
loved the video with B doing your makeup...reminded me of my mom and me. Curious, do you like B with dark or lighter hair? My mom is a natural blonde and I've always wanted her hair lol
I love it when you do these kinds of videos!!! I’m an introvert, and these are such great reminders! There was a girl in college that always complimented me and asked personal questions. I’ve always thought she was beautiful and humble. 💕
Great tips Lisa and love the Chanel bag.
I think we are kindred spirits! I practice the same philosophy! Beautiful video! Thank you! 💗
Love this video!! 💖
I think a big happy smile is attractive! Have you ever known or seen someone who can even smile with their eyes? One of my Aunts, I have always thought to be so beautiful, she has those "smiling eyes"! Lisa, one of the reasons that I continued watching your videos is because of you seem to know people by first name where you shop etc. My Mom always knew people by first name everywhere she frequently went! She would talk to me about them and mention a name and I would ask, "who are you talking about?" and she would be like, "uh! Susie at the grocery store! as if I should know too. 😊 I do talk to people but I don't usually know the names. All the things you mentioned here, I agree! 💕
I’m not being rude or anything, but what does it mean to have an ankle bracelet on? Like a security tag?? X
He was on house arrest or parole
Such a lovely video!😊
Yes. U are so rigth. Today everyone seems to cheep in their souls. Smh 🤦♀️ everyone cursing 🤬......
I love this topic Lisa!!! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Have a nice week, hope to see more of you soon.
Mrs Lisa. Once again you hit the nail on the head. Thank you for being you. What a blessing you are. Agreed with everything.
Hi gorgeous. I agree with you 100%. I also like to see older people smile and older couples holding hands. I love the fact that you think deep. I think people in your area smile more and are more friendly because they live in paradise. 😀 A smile is the passport to a million place and its the cheapest facelift.
Hugs, Sylvia 💋
I think it is very attractive if someone is positive about her life her husband and friends No gossiping just be nice 👍❤️