The daughter doesn't owe anyone an apology. No professional therapist would ever date a client. No only should she have been fired; she should have her license taken away.
@@jessicaatkins3173no, that’s an entirely different set of flaws at work there, it doesn’t make them sex addicts too. That’s also a major abuse of power anyway, but ESPECIALLY if you’re engaging with a patient in a way that feeds into WHY the patient is there in the first place.
That is unethical. It’s that called Transference . A lot of psychologists advise against that because it doesn’t help either party and statistically it’s not going to last whatever this relationship is. So the daughter was in the right.
Dad sounds like a pos. He has an affair with the therapist, the therapist engages in unethical behavior with a client, and yet the daughter is the villain? It shows Dad has a history of putting his mistress and new wife over his family.
I just HOPE that he DIDN'T GET HER PREGNANT while he was SLEEPING with HER during their secret love AFFAIR & before he MARRIED HER after he DIVORCED HIS DAUGHTER'S MOTHER too as well okay @justintaylor3081.
There have been old words of wisdom that if you end up with the person you were cheating with because they left their spouse or significant other, don’t be surprised if a pattern is repeated and the cheater does it to you, or vice versa
Absolutely not. The therapist should not be having any relations with a client. It was right that she was fired and she should not be allowed to practice because she clearly doesn't appear to be capable of having boundaries.
I agree, the daughter doesn't owe anyone a apology. The father needs to grow up & understand that his new wife lost her job because she was having a affair with him and that was an ethics violation for ANY therapy practice. He may regret cutting the daughter out of his life, because he might not be able to reconcile with her once he does get some sense...I know that's questionable given his actions so far.
She should have been fired. Therapists have ethics they need to file. Patients are vulnerable, which is why she should never work as a therapist again.
As with teaching, this is a primarily female field. It won't change much, the onus/stigma is more on men in those fields than the actual perpetrating women.
Good for the daughter she needed a win, her dad putting this woman in her life regardless of what the daughter wants, it’s her life too and the space she lives a good part of her life. People don’t like change unless they’re orchestrating it, feeling forced and having no choice in the matter.
This is why I never want to have a hot doctor. I can't deal with it. I remember going for a checkup two years ago, and walking into the room this was this young, blond, muscular doctor. Imagine a blond mixture of Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. OMG. The thoughts that were going through my mind during the check-up, LOL. It was a good thing that he was rotated to a different hospital a few months later.
Whoopi’s moving it along is the way I would usually say, but this is serious. The therapist was unethical, kudos to the angry daughter, and the father was not thinking with his ‘brain’
I highly doubt it was his idea to go to therapy. Most therapists are women, and women will 'take/steal' a man if they like them. Given it was therapy, she likely learned all the ways to manipulate him.
If the therapist had a boss she would have had a clinical supervisor who may also have failed in their legal responsibilities if there was any hint this was going on. It’s serious stuff for anyone in the line of authority.
Actually this happens quite a bit. This is not the first time a therapist has had an inappropriate relationship with a client. Therapists also know that you are not supposed to even be romantically involved with a client until after the person is no longer a client. Even then the therapist has to wait years to be romantically involved.
🙄I’m sure you’re expecting the ex wife to be a “raging B,” right?? Doesn’t matter, Mikey. The husband and therapist lost the moral high ground with their affair.
I love having Alyssa on the panel. She’s so thoughtful with her comments. Yes, absolutely the man bears the most responsibility. Thank you for pointing that out and reminding us not to get caught up in the catfight and overlook HIS actions!
I actually think the therapist bears more responsibility because he is her patient in the most vulnerable context and she has violated those professional boundaries. Patients can sometimes fall for their therapists but she should have shut that down as a professional who is committed to HELPING people. It is harmful to do otherwise!! He was seeking help for a reason!! She has the ability to emotionally influence a patient. Now him seeking help has changed into something awful.
It’s not the daughter’s marriage to confront the mistress. She doesn’t know everything about her parent’s marriage. If she felt the need to confront anyone it should have been the father. Nothing could have happened without him!!
Doesn't absolve the therapist for unethical behavior. Here's a thought. The daughter doesn't have to choose. She could confront both for the role they each played. 🤷🏾♀️
Him having an affair gave his Wife room to move on I would have been happy to know the truth When I got divorced I asked my Daughter's To leave what happened between me and their Father Between me and their Father I told them that they had a right to be angry If he had done anything that personally caused heartaches for them I told them what he did to me had nothing to do with them And that it should remain between me and their Father I don't believe in getting children involved what ever you and your Husband might be going through No matter what their age is If what his Therapist did wasn't ethical let the board handle that I believe that it would have come to light whether the Daughter made that call or not With the Therapist unethical behavior I wouldn't be surprised If her Father wasn't the only one she laid down on the couch with
Look, love is really hard to find. If you find it, take it with both hands. BUT, you have a responsibility to your wife and children, you have to acknowledge that you have hurt them, and still prioritise their needs above your own. You have to earn their forgiveness. Life is messy, give each other grace, but own up to harm you've done. If this father took the approach of "this is my right, it's your mother's fault, I've done nothing wrong, how dare you dislike my girlfriend, she is the most important person in my life" then he deserves everything he gets.
That father is a piece of crap! Not only choosing the “therapist” over his wife but now he throws away his own daughter?!?! I hope the therapist gets the same AH the ex wife married.
Not just because they can fall in love with them, but the therapists lived experience might influence their perspectives. For it is not about your sexuality, but to match your lived experience. But to your argument, a cheater will always be a cheater no matter their sexuality. @@shippendales8543
Doesn't absolve the therapist for unethical behavior. Getting fired is one thing, She should actually lose her license as a mental health professional.
This happened to Diane Kearon's character in "First Wives Club"...the couple's therapist rhat was supposed to be helping them get back together had an affair eith thr husband
HEY WAIT, the Father is the one who broke the marriage vows with the daughter's mother! Why do people blame the other party??? Did the daughter get father fired for hurting her mother?
In this case the other party broke codes of ethics and possibly laws in their state about sexual relationship with a patient. The underlying principle is that patients come to you because they are vulnerable so it is easy to exploit that vulnerability. Licensing laws and codes of ethics are supposed to prevent this exploitation.
So he moved on this is stupid stay out of grown folks business his daughter is grown she doesn't know if there was more to the situation this is y as parents u need to have boundaries but of course blame the dad for doing what he needed to do to be happy
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Whoopi Goldberg "okay moving on" 😂😂😂😂
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The daughter was in the right 👏👏👏
The daughter doesn't owe anyone an apology. No professional therapist would ever date a client. No only should she have been fired; she should have her license taken away.
And the stupid selfish husband needs to apologize too.
I have an old friend who slept with a number of his therapists. Sexual addiction was one of his flaws. Apparently, it was also theirs 😕
By the time she started pumping him she knew the consequences.
@@jessicaatkins3173no, that’s an entirely different set of flaws at work there, it doesn’t make them sex addicts too. That’s also a major abuse of power anyway, but ESPECIALLY if you’re engaging with a patient in a way that feeds into WHY the patient is there in the first place.
Joy: Only one person on the couch at a time 🤣
I love the "no" from the audience 😂
A man that would cut his daughter out of his life because of his indiscretions is a coward!!!!!
That is unethical. It’s that called Transference . A lot of psychologists advise against that because it doesn’t help either party and statistically it’s not going to last whatever this relationship is. So the daughter was in the right.
Cry baby. Let the husband live. Thanks
@@kennethwilson13 Wow. Your comment says a lot about your ethics or, rather, your lack of them.
It's unethical plus the practice now has legal issues as well. Depending on local laws the practice could be sued for alienation by the ex-wife.
@@MrJpaynebb True.
@@MrJpaynebbhow is that alienation?
Dad sounds like a pos. He has an affair with the therapist, the therapist engages in unethical behavior with a client, and yet the daughter is the villain? It shows Dad has a history of putting his mistress and new wife over his family.
I just HOPE that he DIDN'T GET HER PREGNANT while he was SLEEPING with HER during their secret love AFFAIR & before he MARRIED HER after he DIVORCED HIS DAUGHTER'S MOTHER too as well okay @justintaylor3081.
Joy was so precious today
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I have a lot of respect for the daughter
There have been old words of wisdom that if you end up with the person you were cheating with because they left their spouse or significant other, don’t be surprised if a pattern is repeated and the cheater does it to you, or vice versa
Simpler version: When a person marries their mister/mistress, it creates a vacancy to be filled. 💛
Or “if they’ll do it with you, they’ll do it to you”
@@mackenzie98 yes indeed, same line of thinking
You can lose your license for this. Daughter is NTA
Ah, transference. I remember those days!
Whoopi made me LOL! 🤣
Absolutely not. The therapist should not be having any relations with a client. It was right that she was fired and she should not be allowed to practice because she clearly doesn't appear to be capable of having boundaries.
Sounds like a tv pilot
More like something out of The Sopranos itself too as well okay @justincastillogayray.
Too right.
Good for her. She knew he was married.
I agree, the daughter doesn't owe anyone a apology.
The father needs to grow up & understand that his new wife lost her job because she was having a affair with him and that was an ethics violation for ANY therapy practice.
He may regret cutting the daughter out of his life, because he might not be able to reconcile with her once he does get some sense...I know that's questionable given his actions so far.
She should have been fired. Therapists have ethics they need to file. Patients are vulnerable, which is why she should never work as a therapist again.
The daughter should sue the therapist
The daughter should also file a complaint with the licensing board. The therapist could possibly lose her license to practice.
Daughter out of line talking to someone who wasn’t the woman she was calling to confront.
As with teaching, this is a primarily female field. It won't change much, the onus/stigma is more on men in those fields than the actual perpetrating women.
@@khloe-nicolestevenson1851Nope. She was right to complain.
Good for the daughter she needed a win, her dad putting this woman in her life regardless of what the daughter wants, it’s her life too and the space she lives a good part of her life. People don’t like change unless they’re orchestrating it, feeling forced and having no choice in the matter.
This is why I never want to have a hot doctor. I can't deal with it. I remember going for a checkup two years ago, and walking into the room this was this young, blond, muscular doctor. Imagine a blond mixture of Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt. OMG. The thoughts that were going through my mind during the check-up, LOL. It was a good thing that he was rotated to a different hospital a few months later.
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Off topic, I love Joy’s outfit on this show today. ❤
Extremely unethical therapist should loose license
I'm petty enough that I would have gone a step more and reported her to the state medical board.
Not petty. She's unethical and a danger to the profession.
NOT petty at all.
Ditto!
NEVER APOLOGIZE. Its illegal and she did ruin the family. Good for the daughter
It’s NOT the daughters fault she got fired.
Woman should lose her license. End of discussion. Never to be a therapist again.
Whoopi’s moving it along is the way I would usually say, but this is serious. The therapist was unethical, kudos to the angry daughter, and the father was not thinking with his ‘brain’
Of course when Whoopi believes the topic is about cheating, Whoopi wants to move it along.
I highly doubt it was his idea to go to therapy.
Most therapists are women, and women will 'take/steal' a man if they like them.
Given it was therapy, she likely learned all the ways to manipulate him.
That happened to someone I know. The therapist is still working unfortunately.
Nobody breaks a happy family
Google: manipulation. Educate yourself.
Yes. That is completely an ethical violation! I would be pissed if my husband went to a therapist to get help and he left me for that therapist.
The daughter performed a public service if she also reported the therapist to the licensing board.
If the therapist had a boss she would have had a clinical supervisor who may also have failed in their legal responsibilities if there was any hint this was going on. It’s serious stuff for anyone in the line of authority.
Something tells me we're not getting the full story
Actually this happens quite a bit. This is not the first time a therapist has had an inappropriate relationship with a client. Therapists also know that you are not supposed to even be romantically involved with a client until after the person is no longer a client. Even then the therapist has to wait years to be romantically involved.
🙄I’m sure you’re expecting the ex wife to be a “raging B,” right??
Doesn’t matter, Mikey. The husband and therapist lost the moral high ground with their affair.
You're a man of course you're going to side w the loser of a "father", if you can even call him that.
Control your emotions. No reaction. No regret.
I love having Alyssa on the panel. She’s so thoughtful with her comments. Yes, absolutely the man bears the most responsibility. Thank you for pointing that out and reminding us not to get caught up in the catfight and overlook HIS actions!
I actually think the therapist bears more responsibility because he is her patient in the most vulnerable context and she has violated those professional boundaries. Patients can sometimes fall for their therapists but she should have shut that down as a professional who is committed to HELPING people. It is harmful to do otherwise!! He was seeking help for a reason!! She has the ability to emotionally influence a patient. Now him seeking help has changed into something awful.
It’s not the daughter’s marriage to confront the mistress. She doesn’t know everything about her parent’s marriage.
If she felt the need to confront anyone it should have been the father. Nothing could have happened without him!!
Do you think it was his idea to go to therapy which is almost an entirely female field?
Doesn't absolve the therapist for unethical behavior. Here's a thought. The daughter doesn't have to choose. She could confront both for the role they each played. 🤷🏾♀️
Oh Lord! An Adulteress sympathizer! I suspect the reason why.
@@amksmith1914 I totally agree. The therapist obviously could care less about the daughter so why should the daughter care about her?
I'm so confused lol - can someone explain this situation to me?? People are so messy these days... 😪
Go for the medical license next!
The dad is a tool. The daughter doesn't owe anyone an apology. The Therapist is unprofessional.
Him having an affair gave his Wife room to move on
I would have been happy to know the truth
When I got divorced I asked my Daughter's
To leave what happened between me and their Father
Between me and their Father
I told them that they had a right to be angry
If he had done anything that personally caused
heartaches for them
I told them what he did to me had nothing to do with them
And that it should remain between me and their Father
I don't believe in getting children involved what ever you and your Husband might be going through
No matter what their age is
If what his Therapist did wasn't ethical let the board handle that
I believe that it would have come to light whether the Daughter made that call or not
With the Therapist unethical behavior I wouldn't be surprised
If her Father wasn't the only one she laid down on the couch with
I absolutely love you, Joy! You make some of these days much better! ❤
You're as mentally ill as Joy
Like Diane Keaton’s character in “First Wives Club.”
The selfish husband needs to apologize to everyone, he is a disgrace.
Look, love is really hard to find. If you find it, take it with both hands. BUT, you have a responsibility to your wife and children, you have to acknowledge that you have hurt them, and still prioritise their needs above your own. You have to earn their forgiveness. Life is messy, give each other grace, but own up to harm you've done. If this father took the approach of "this is my right, it's your mother's fault, I've done nothing wrong, how dare you dislike my girlfriend, she is the most important person in my life" then he deserves everything he gets.
No she does not.
No!
That father is a piece of crap! Not only choosing the “therapist” over his wife but now he throws away his own daughter?!?!
I hope the therapist gets the same AH the ex wife married.
I can’t believe he cut her out. It’s all bad but that he is choosing this new heifer over his kid? That really is appalling.
If Sunny wants avoid racists, then she should stay away from mirrors.
Stay away from watching Fox News…racist 😂
@@Tanesha835, thx, he/she
Lol Whoopi doesn’t do the advice column’s…. I don’t blame her, but sometimes she makes me feel unwanted…
Even Frasier show has this mssg. Both Frasier and Nikes, comedy shows teach the ethics.
Good
She’s better off without him
I believe that men should see male therapists and woman should see woman therapists.
And the same sex will never fall in love?
The same thing can happen with bisexual men and women
Not just because they can fall in love with them, but the therapists lived experience might influence their perspectives. For it is not about your sexuality, but to match your lived experience. But to your argument, a cheater will always be a cheater no matter their sexuality. @@shippendales8543
Please, they were probably having trouble in the marriage which probably lead to therapy. We're only getting half the story
Doesn't absolve the therapist for unethical behavior. Getting fired is one thing, She should actually lose her license as a mental health professional.
So the father should get a divorce before he goes off exposing himself to STD's and HPV's. No excuse for adultery period!
Daughter has no right
Haha I love Joy
If the man was seeking therapy then his marriage was already in trouble. It could be any other woman.
This happened to Diane Kearon's character in "First Wives Club"...the couple's therapist rhat was supposed to be helping them get back together had an affair eith thr husband
Yaps, with Whoopi let’s move on. Nothing to talk about. Therapists with patient? Come on now!
HEY WAIT, the Father is the one who broke the marriage vows with the daughter's mother! Why do people blame the other party??? Did the daughter get father fired for hurting her mother?
Both people in an affair are at fault!
In this case the other party broke codes of ethics and possibly laws in their state about sexual relationship with a patient. The underlying principle is that patients come to you because they are vulnerable so it is easy to exploit that vulnerability. Licensing laws and codes of ethics are supposed to prevent this exploitation.
So he moved on this is stupid stay out of grown folks business his daughter is grown she doesn't know if there was more to the situation this is y as parents u need to have boundaries but of course blame the dad for doing what he needed to do to be happy
first wives club anyone?
Sunny Smollet always at the game she knows best-race baiting The whole show is unwatchable
Yes the daughter was in the right , good for her🥹
Dad could have and should reconcile.
To bad. Like sucks and no one promise it would be fair!
Woopie says strange things lately. Just my opinion.
🤬💩👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 good for her
Noooooooo
Well that therapist who lost her job should make sure the husbands next therapist is man. Daughter not wrong, father and therapist wrong big time
But if it is a sexy male therapist, he might awaken something in the husband and end up with the same result.
He could be latently homosexual.
@@orangexylem only if the therapist swings that way. lol
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Stop telling us to go to therapy u get what u ask 4 men will be men when left to there on devices i dare somebody to debunk that!!!
What a bunch of jabooks
When Sunny wears the bright red 💄 lipstick. The brighter the lipstick makes her teeth look yellow. Just saying....
The Sonny chick wears more make-up than the Joker.
Who cares
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