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A message to all Muslim parents yall shouldn’t force anything on your kids especially in the west instead make them fall in love with islam teach them why we do certain things with love dont be too extra or youll simply make them feel like they’re in prison which is the complete opposite of islam ❤ cause as we know الدين يسر و ليس عسر
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
i left my family, not for religious purposes but because of severe abuse i was put through, it’s been a year now and yes the night i left my mom started throwing my stuff away but my little brother hid everything important for me, he’s the only person i still speak to. just thought that part was relatable lol
I don't know if it's appropriate to say this because I am Southern African, but I relate to her story so much and seeing how she's made it out of her prison motivates to keep on working towards escaping mine. Being dependent on my mom is literally detrimental to my future. She won't let me study but prioritises me doing chores over my schoolwork. She has never sent me to school since I was 4. I've been home schooled my entire life basically, with no teachers. I have always had to teach myself, raise myself, and take care of myself since I was just five. She's perfectly comfortable seeing me make no academic progress whatsoever, and I feel like she's always been sabotaging me because every time I want to do something academic, she holds me back e.g. not buying textbooks for me at all. She does not let me out of the house except for once or twice a month for grocery shopping. I just want to be free from her already. When I leave, I'm never coming back.
Omg that Sounds so awful!!I hope you find freedom some day, i know sometimes everything is too much but always remember that in the future there is a way for you to escape,you just have to be patient. Also idk how it is in your country, every child has to go to school and cant be lock up in mine
Hey hun I hope u r ok. I’m sorry to say ur story is so different to all those girls commenting l. You are being mentally abused and locked up, I hope things work out for you please take care of ur self and find a way out of this abusive household. You deserve a good education and to simply live life.
Hi rue I hope you're still doing well. Thank goodness you atleast can teach yourself through youtube and your drive to get where you want will get your there ♡
That's not even islam though.. islam prioritieses education and self empowerment. I think your lazy mother just feels you're a extension of her and is just controlling you, and that's very toxic. God created us a free beings. I pray your situation improves insha'Allah
I am so sorry your parents treated you that way. In Islam, there is no compulsion in religion(2:256). I know our cultures can be so abus1ve. I pray Allah heals and makes you more successful. My parents are super abus1ve but I learned it was culture and not the faith. I left Islam and came back. Stay strong 💗
@@H..908 My parents were really misogynstic and abusive. I thought Islam allowed this because I was a woman but it was from culture.Islam NEVER allows oppression towards animal or human. It is a major sin to oppress a person. It took me a long time to find my faith back. Alhamdullilah Allah guided me.
You know, I wasted my time replying to the comment who replied to you when I should have been replying to you… honestly girl live your life, do what makes YOU happy. And don’t let anyone force religion or anything down your throat. What you choose to believe is YOUR choice! ❤️
Im also an afghan girl, and i had the same situation growing up but maybe a little less strict. Looking back im actually glad that my parents were sometimes strict but just wish they would give me more guidance instead of simply restrict something. Im not for the promiscuous life and will never root for a girl or boy to ever live a life like that. I do feel for families that end up being torn apart bc some boys and girls do wanne live like that, which is so sad bc a mentally healthy person would never go down that path. I hope and wish that there will be more understanding between afghan parents and their children, so they can make them conscious individuals. Wish you the best Mina🙏🏻🌹
Honestly, I can relate to this but cannot either. My sister had done the same many years ago, she ran away from home and stopped communicating with us for like like 5 years. My parents wanted to force her into marrying one of my cousins, and she obviously didn't want that to happen. Even when she was 15, they wanted to push her into child marriage and luckily again they didn't. For all those years she was scared that at any moment they would marry her off and that's why she mainly left. She also felt remorse towards my parents for always being so strict and just pushing Islam onto her (we are 4 girls including me). She was never allowed to go out and always felt left out, while everyone out there had fun going out and whatever else. She wanted that freedom as well but my parents just never understood and would say, "It's for your own protection". However, she would ask to go to our neighbour (it was a single mum and her 2 daughters) and my parents would say no. They only ever wanted her to study and nothing more, as they would always compare us (still do) and make us feel like we're nothing compared to other kids. Now she's 26, living much better (still got trauma but living off better), she sometimes comes and sees us and she doesn't mind but she hates coming back because my mum always tries to make her feel guilty. I'm 16, and nothing has really changed since and I've been thinking of leaving for so long because of them. They're just really toxic, all they want is for you to study and do nothing else. I've literally attempted so many times to kms but I've still held back. This really isn't about religion, because when I do leave my parents I'm still planning on wearing the hijab and praying daily. It's about being treated in a very unethical way. I want to have some freedom and power over my life and I don't want them to have any say in this. Islam is a very beautiful religion but being brought up in a toxic environment makes you want to leave it. No parents should push you into anything, they should teach you to love Islam in a soft way, without forcing it onto you. Like not allowing your children to go out, isn't part of islam. I understand that they want to protect us etc... And I most definetely undestand not them wanting to let us go out at night. Which, I understand but there's no where it says you cannot go out in the day to just have some fun. I literally feel bad because whenever my friends ask me to go out, I just say "no" because I know my parents won't allow me either way. It's sad for myself to say I'm going to leave my family, but it's for the best. I don't encourage it, but sometimes this environment will really push you to death. If this is your last resort do whatever you can to take it. It's for your own good, yes you may feel selfish but if it's the only way to save yourself you have to do what you can. You're important as well!
Omg, she's so strong.I hope you can be safe too.Keep up your strength girl!And if you ever need, just know a stranger on the internet is here for you :)
I don't know from which country you belongs but can you help me in a matter my daughter is 14 years old she don't want to go school every morning its a hard task to wake her up and help her to get ready and send her to school she mostly wants to skip school and last year she had so many leaves from school i got a letter from school to send her everyday and she doesn't wear scarf i didn't force her i left this up to her choice she doesn't do study at all at home she have her own cell phone and she plays games all day i don't force her for study just say her to plz do your home work on time but she doesn't do that even know from morning she is in her room she isn't coming downstairs i call her but she ignored and after dinner she will use her ph again and then she will sleep she doesn't even clean her room everything i do for her and family and i want to tell you that she says i am strict mom she became very rude to me am i still a strict mom plz help what more i should do to be a good mom i always be worried about her behaviour i always feel worried about her future when she will grow up what she will do how she will manage her life her expenses everything because we will not alive to support her you know sometimes i couldn't sleep because of these thoughts but i can't ask anybody
@@user-xw4fu6lt7v Very sorry to hear that, I'm sure as a mum you are trying your hardest for your family and providing your daughter with the best. I think you should genuinely sit her down and have a conversation with her. I know for sure during this time teenagers are usually just very rebellious and do not want to listen to anyone. Might take her a bit of time to get out of that habit, it's a bit like a phase. However, I do think there needs to be a balance, as much as parents shouldn't be too strict with their children. I do think you should put reasonable boundaries, to make her understand that she cannot just do what she wants. If she doesn't want to speak with you, maybe try to consult her school to know how she is doing and if everything ok. Sometimes behaviours like this may just be derivred from school and the environment. Just when you speak to her, listen to her problems and then maybe think of a solution and ask her what how she'd like you to support her. Just be very supportive and I'm sure you already are! I know parenting is very hard, I try not to give my parents a hard time even though, I'm not treated right most of the time. Maybe also consider introducing her to like activities and hobbies; to get her off phone. Decreasing her screen time that way too. Homework, maybe try to take her phone away for that matter (sit her down for like 1-2hr with breaks in between) and then at the end when she has completed all of it you give it back to her.
@user-xw4fu6lt7v Things must be hard for you. I say talk to her make sure everything is fine. Ask her what wrong and why what she is going through sit down with her be there for her because that's when she needs someone the most. And if its school the problem ask her if someone is treating her bad or bullying her at school. Maybe also consider the option of changing school maybe the current school she attends is a very toxic environment for her. Ask her what are her hobbies and sports or activities she likes to get her to be social and stop being constantly on her phone. And make sure u give her liberty to go out with her friends and hang out with her friends being strict is to protect but sometimes it may stop the child from experience that may benefit them. Let her know that u are there for her and u love her and u she can talk to u with no judgement.
Girl I rarely ever comment on TH-cam but you girl are a GRINDER. I am so proud of you and how you took everything you went through head on and came out the other end. I really believe you're going to be a huge star... just a gut feeling :)
Girlyyy we all make mistakes but it’s good you stayed strong and realised your parents emotions, just wanted to say your makeup is absolutely gorgeous oh myyyy 🫶🏼
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
Man this brings me back to my story about 6 years ago, where literally the same thing of strict parents in terms of going out/friends/boys… so many story times… I convinced them that Ottawa is the school I NEED to go to even though the closer ones in the GTA were fine. I ended up moving to Ottawa and still had to deal with some things but I’m so glad I forced my move. I’ve reconnected with my parents after I moved back to the GTA and got married. I wouldn’t change anything as it really pushed me to be independent, live on my own and on my own terms and now I’m a successful person striving and happy. Covid was a dark time as well because I moved back in with my parents for a short while but man it’s crazy to see how I went from hating them to 6 years later, we have a decent relationship and actually make plans to hang out!! Thanks for sharing this! So much of this is buried for me cuz it’s so much to unpack, but seeing you talk about it makes me feel like I wasn’t going crazy. Wishing you more success and happiness and you got this!! ❤
Mina I have a lot of love for you because you’re intelligent, so brave and beautiful. . I see it wasn’t just about being western or fitting in it was about taking ownership of your own life which I can relate to, us ethnic girls born to immigrant families deal fight for that our whole life and you’re still in the process of finding yourself and growing. I would advice you as woman to woman please seek out therapy / counselling particularly somatic counselling. That will be the ultimate investment you make for yourself along with everything else you’re doing. Once you’re ready seek out coaching from women who are spiritual (I’m not saying religious) who are few steps ahead of where you want to be in terms of your healing. My intuition tells me you’ll be very successful and achieve your dreams. . But you can’t do it all alone, that’s why seek a mentor / therapist / coach when you’re ready. ❤
I'm literally rooting for you! I'm so happy for you, I can't wait for you to grow and see where the journey takes you. Stay safe and have fun bby girl!
That was so heavy. You are brilliant,an inspiration,amazing and a success story. Even as a stranger, I am so proud of you and I wish you all the very best in life.💗
You will literally succeed! Sometimes time away from a toxic situation is much needed. Your cat is super cute by the way with the little angry face aweeeeee 🤗🤗
This is too relatable 😭 like my parents aren’t abusive but they never let me go anywhere and do anything with friends (I wasn’t even allowed to go to bday parties as a kid) but it’s so hard to leave them
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
@@mahaa3581bruh worst advice ever. You do realise your trying to ruin a kids bond with their family? Whats wrong with being strict, not letting her go outside if because they care abt her. The outside world has become crazy with all the monsters in it. Maybe there a little overprotective but no way thats a reason to cut your own parents off.
Hey I’m new to your channel. Sending you all the love from the uk queen. No matter what’s happened I still love you watching your vlogs for the past couple of days girl you have confidence keep up the amazing work you got this ❤❤❤❤🥹🫶🙏👊
im thankful as a muslim, that my parents didn't force islam on me, yes i was born into it and taught that way, but not in a super strict way. I was taught Islam in such a beautiful way that i genuinely accepted the religion and followed it with my own free will. My parents told me that their job as parents was to teach me about god/Allah and Islam principles, not Force it. And they told me that it's HARAM, to force someone into a religion or the hijab, and stuff like that, even with your own kids. All parents should teach their way of life to their kids and stuff, but at the end of the day its their decision how they live their life.
im 18 and ive been thinking of leaving so much recently, my parents and sisters have been restricting me so much like i can never go out and do anything. my dad has always said if i ever leave then im no longer his daughter and i wont ever be allowed back into their lives, but its so restricting and suffocating living here when they literally track every single thing i do. still dont know if im gonna leave i think the guilt and the religious pov is whats really making me stay otherwise id feel so much guilt and fear once i go.
Salam alaikom sister😊. If you don’t mind I’ll advise you. Be your own reason to stay, do your research on Islam and the subjects that interest you as a person and get into the narrations and perspectives. This way when your family tries to force you (which is very much haram and the wrong way to go about it) your soul and heart will know what you’re doing it for. Not because they say so, but because of your own love and faith. May Allah bless and guide you❤
@@H..908ty for ur advice i appreciate having someone taking the time to reply😭 honestly ive grown up with religion and i do believe in islam, but growing up it always felt shoved onto me by my parents. inshallah i take the time to grow and learn more about my religion at my own pace. ill still consider leaving cause living here feels suffocating and extremely sheltered but i will definitely take ur advice so thank you habibti🤍
@@azu8022 you’re so welcome love🥰 I feel you. I’ve felt some of those feelings as well but it’s gone better alhamdulillah. It will for you too InshaAllah. Know Allah and the ummah and the profet loves you🥰 and I hopenthings get better and you get to see the difference between culture and Islam❤️
i wasnt going to reply but i relate to this and wanted to reach out due to your response to the other comment replying to you ik u need some feedback. i went thru the double life thing and now im 16 and j stuck at home all day, got moved to online school and over all just feel trapped but what i learned from the past 2 years for me is to just stay in your own lane, keep things to yourself more, talk to ur family but keep ur distance as well, avoid thinking of them and their ways, feed ur faith let it grow quietly, become more independent, trust yourself and god only and dont let the built up anger and hate towards your family be the reason you leave and force your life to become harder because the world is a hateful and dangerous place. ik im young and dont know much but ik enough to try to help you. ik it can be irritating when u talk or try to reach out for help and the only response u hear is "pray this, pray that" you are allowed to feel a certain way and praying is something that will find its way to u and will heal u once u come to terms with it. anger is a strong emotion that leads to outcomes that arent fixable, dont let it get it your way. muslim parents tend to say some of the hardest thing that are so hard to forget but remember at the end of the day, they are hurting themselves. you will grow to become the greatest version of yourself, inshallah you find ur inner peace and ur true happiness.
Your amazing and so brave for standing up for ur parents And Ik u will achieve amazing things one day because Ik the ur brave and strong energy u will be AMAZING LOVE U GIRLY ❤️
Wow Im like so inspired by your positivity. I think abt what I would do with no money and tuition due etc but like how u handled that shit and managed to get thru covid as dark as that was its insane what you hve been through and still handled it? 🥺🥺 also u DEFFF need to do more makeup videos btw 😍
Love ur account can totally relate girl , live your best life don’t let anyone stop your happiness what is for you will find you . Sometimes family ain’t shit ! I’m right in your position and was able to get my own place too starting an Airbnb business. Life is so short don’t let anyone bring your self esteem down ! Subscribed ! You’re a great story teller 💗
omg im literally planning on starting an air bnb business too! currently tryna work as much as possible to save up and hopefully my business is successful so i can force my move😭😭
My father is not a bad person. He is controlling too but gives me a lot of space and privacy. I'd say I'm the one who has always put boundaries and eventually became distant from him. Whenever I had a problem at school, I kept it to myself cause dad at the time had 2 jobs and was barely home. Whenever I did something wrong, he used to hit me because that's how he was raised and that's how he wanted to raise us. Even that didn't annoy me as much as the fact that he called mum names and yelled at her a lot over the years. I've always felt stuck between them, she'd always say horrible things about him and he'd always treat her in a bad manner. All of it affects me a lot, I have that gut feeling you spoke about. I believe that if I get a chance to move out, I'd discover many things about myself and heal many wounds my life with my parents left me with. I wish I can find my own freedom and peace of mind one day...
Hey umm your dad calling your mom NAMES is definitely unacceptable and he is bad for doing that. Dont excuse that even if you have empathy for him. Husbands should RESPECT their wives and treat them well, like a treasure! Depends on how the voice is raised and how he talks to her and which things are said, and whether she can raise her voice back at him?
i swear we are like sisters in a different cultures. cause i have a grudge with the my older brother- we just don’t get along, even if i act nice, he still a bitch to me. and i always try to support him and then he would never support me, so we didn’t have a good relationship. i also have 3 brothers. my little brother was the one who actually believed in me. but like both my parents were guilt tripping everything i do. i also have no idea what i want to do with my life, but just to escape home. turns out my dads a narcissist and my mom I don’t even know. It’s a living hell for me to live w my parents. currently 17 yrs old. so happy that u are sharing this story, so proud of you tho! 💕
Love you girll, I could similarly understand what you been and this also gaved me courage to prepare for my future and hardships but I’m just 16 and we kinda have a similar experience and what you said help me view life differently especially for giving your parents or even being grateful for having your parents despite of what did you eat amazed me and I’m glad you did too cause The Bible says that we should forgive others just like God have forgive us and if God for gave us dummies we should forgive others and forgive our selves
Heyy girl, I’m go glad you able to change and grow from all what you went through your childhood. I’m glad you were able to be grateful for your parents despite what they have done to you that’s a big heart change, not everyone can do that, And you were able to do it and forgive and be grateful for that
crazy how this is similar to my family story minus the religion factor . i’m so proud of you girl !!!!! you abundant on your own that’s beautiful and your ability to stand up for your independence is inspiring 🤍🤍🙏🏽🧘🏽♀️✨
From another culture and hearing how these men terrorize women in your culture is just beyond. I have nonwords. Like an adult woman having to hide from an uncle in a closet is not acceptable. I am so proud of you for leaving and i am so glad you are alive. Just know so many people are rooting for you. Cruelty, control, coercion, and threats of adults is never ok anywhere.
js to point out, culture and islam are two different things. the way the men terrorise women in her culture isnt islamic. islam is beautiful and i rlly dont understand why ppl would wanna fail this worldly life and go to hell on the day of judgement. all i can say if may allah guide us all ameen. may allah remove the pain from her parents. all they wanted was her to be on the right path but as u can tell , she is very rebellious. jannah is way better than this world.islam makes u feel peace in the heart which is why many ppl are reverting to islam. especially women .
@@lululululullu most people leave after converting and this is not ok. Everyone has a right to autonomy and consent to choose their own path. It legally codified in laws.
im bengali and have extremely strict muslim parents, and i relate to this video sm bc i feel like my parents are weighing me down so much and i cant freely say whats on my mind or else ill feel bad when they start crying or think im not gonna be like them. im trying my best but they expect so much more from me because i'm the first child that was born in the us from family back home, and they keep telling me not to go astray from islam, etc. but i wont leave islam and im confident in that since im trying really hard, but they restrict me from many other things just because of the religion and everything, such as simple makeup bc i just wanna feel a bit prettier, but they dont understand and my mom immediately gets sad and it makes me so so so guilty that it eats me alive when i cant say something that i wanna do about anything and they react in such a way. im really happy that i can relate to u, mina! yr js like a big sister! may allah bless u 💗
do you say to a thief “steal if that’s what makes you happy?” Animals don’t wear clothes. Humans need clothes. It’s good to dress modestly. It’s for our own good. الحَمدُ لله . Do read the Qur’an 🌹 . ALLAH CREATED us. ALLAH KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR us. ALLAH DOESN’T NEED us. We need to obey ALLAH. Do you know what is THE TRUE PURPOSE OF LIFE? We didn’t create ourselves. ALLAH ALONE CREATED us. We should be GRATEFUL TO ALLAH. We should OBEY ALLAH. A person who disobeys ALLAH, is MISERABLE. A PERSON WHO OBEYS ALLAH FEELS HAPPY. الحَمدُ لله .
u got my respect , at many points from last part too i was able to relate and yes i dont know maybe thats why i m kinda feeling connected to you . thankyou
Just let me tell u.. U r on the right I swear God wants us to be free & happy All those deformed believes about religion r actually from the devil himself, any form of obligation or restriction to personal freedom joy & expression r devilish in nature.. But at the same time u have to understand that ur parents mindset or even traumas are what’s controlling them.. even if dealing with them is not an option right now, but understanding that is really important for ur own peace.. I know nomatter what u love them at ❤ Keep loving’em from afar it will make u a lot happier & more grounded & surefooted..
I feel like sometimes we forget that it is also our parents first time going through life , I am sure you all have your regrets . I am glad you guys reunited., You were young and they might have gone hard on you . I am sure their intentions were pure , I hope you guys have a good relationship after parting ways for years ❤
Hope all those people who disrespect their parents understand how much hard work it is for a mother just in the delivery phase(not even mentioning so much of the good efforts most parents put in taking care of their children ), إن شآء الله
i live the same story but the thing is i can't move away cuz I'm in an Arabic Muslim country. i just hope that next year i go to another country for college. I'm so proud of you that video was Inspiring
The struggle you went through financially and jumping from couch to couch literally just happened to me last month especially with my parents disowning me for religious reasons (Christian cult sect) and it was so hard I was so mad I would cry from anger and cry from missing them so much. I know how you were feeling I’m so sorry you experienced this too 😢 no child deserves this
Im not muslim, but my situation is like the exact same. My parents are super strict christians, i grew up in a cult, i wasnt allowed to do anything, ive done online/homeschool my entire life, i was not allowed to wear pants or shorts growing up. Only long skirts and long sleeves. And when i reached middle school thats when they loosened up finally and i could wear pants and short sleeves. It wasnt till highschool where i wore like my first somewhat croptop and shorts. I got a phone only when i turned 14 and when they found out i had like a situationship with a guy they took that away like immediately. I dont have any friends right now, because they all got sick of my situationship and just went against me, and my mental health is like at an all time low, i have no clue what to do. Im almost 16, i cant get my license, i dont have a phone or friends,. I do have a job yes, and i could buy my own phone but im scared they will get really mad.
@@EvangelineBirke i have laptop for school reasons, but thank you so much. :) i really appreciate that, i hope youre having a wonderful holiday season💗
i went through the same thing except i wasnt strong enough to leave. i was so scared back then i wish i got help before. the only reason i stayed was because my parents had a lot of money and i didnt want to risk being sent to a poor family where id have to struggle for a job... looking back i wish i was strong enough to leave. (im a brown girl too and had no freedom)
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
Finna watched this instead of studying for my exam cuz I needed to hear this shit. Seeing u thrive makes me wanna move out too, especially since I’m livin the life u was livin. The sneaky, double life. Can’t do it no more, it’s takin a toll on my mental health.
@@thatgorl24 no ofc not! I know what’s right and what’s wrong. I’m talking about escaping the constant pressure that ur parents bring when holding u back to even do the simplest of things. Like going to ur friends house to study, or go to an amusement park with ur cousins. That restriction is what we r escaping. Not Allah’s mercy, never. I hope that helps explain, cuz no where in the Quran says I cannot do that. It’s the cultural aspects our parents carry. U dig?
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x@@sky-wq7th
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
As a Muslim gworl myself. Let me make some things clear from my perspective. There’s a lot going on here. So I wanna begin with we are all humans who make mistakes, Allah knows us and our souls, and nobody can judge because everybody has their own path, story and struggles. This poor girl has obviously struggled a lot, with faith, culture and family. I can say from experience that this Can be very hard varying from the situation. What (Muslim) parents don’t realize is that when you force faith without love for Islam, or god, then (a lot of) kids push with a bigger force the other way. When raising a child with faith you should do it (in my opinion) with love and affection, showing all the good things, so that the sacrifices like dressing a certain way or talking a certain way will seem less of a chore and more of a routine that calms your soul. So even though this girl has from an Islamic standpoint not made the best of decisions, and it’s def her own responsibility, her parents are also at fault, so don’t try to defend them. Our profet told us to be love ing and caring and if u just tell someone “don’t do xyz because I say so” instead of “Allah told us xyz because of xyz reason and xyz reward, and it benefits us in xyz, wanna try getting to that point together?” Btw the western environment doesn’t help either. Us girls are being told to look and act a certain way, then told to be our own person, but also follow trends, but also looking sexy, but not slutty, but not modest. Not a very great environment for Muslimahs. And no most ‘Muslim’ countries aren’t the greatest either but that’s because culture is being mixed in there which is very damaging. Anyways I’m trynna say don’t judge her, don’t make the mistakes of her parents and don’t mix Islam with culture or force. If anybody has questions about this unnecessary essay or Islam ask away😅 also may Allah bless and guide you all
i have rlly strict black parents and recently i have been "rebelling" in the eyes of my parents. I spent a few hours to go to a cinema w my friends for freedom w/o my parents knowledge and ended up getting in alot of trouble being told i completely lost their trust and my mum calling me all sorts nd telling me i wasnt her daughter. I tried speaking to my dad nd he just didnt talk to me. I have been thinking of going uni as a way to escape but it feels like i might not even get to that point bc of how fast things r going downhill. Previously it was just me and my mum bc when my biological dad was w my mum he was very promiscuous and was only after money and sex etc. So obviously my mum is very protective of me falling into a bad pathway and talking to guys who arent good for me. but i know in my heart that i wouldnt dare be so reckless and just slut around like she thinks bc i rlly do care about my future as much as she does. However its gotten to a point where me nd my mum are dislike eachother sm that we live in the same house but barely even speak to eachother nd im dying to just leave even if it costs me the contact i have w my parents. What should i do?
@2layIa I'm 16 (turning 17) nd I've never gone out with friends, I told my dad a lil bit about me going out with friends b4 I did so they already had an idea about it but they didn't expect me to actually go out. All I wanted was a little bit of freedom. And It feels like the more I get restricted, the more curious I get to want to do things.
I have been in your shoes and I’m 21 now. Don’t worry just try be apologetic and get through this tough part of your life and then go to university and be independent. Of course you will be able to go. Try to stay at home and work as hard as you can go get into a good university and everything will be okay you will be free ❤️
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
You all guys must put in mind that all this life is gonna end and all of us will die one day, but the hereafter and heaven is gonna be forever. So don’t scarify heaven for temporary joy, men, dressing in Haram way do not follow devil way. When you die nothing will help you but god that why you supposed to worship and obey him in this life so you can win heaven. Since Allah SWT asked us women to cover and wear hijab that because Allah knows what’s better for us because he created us in first place. Maybe your parents were strict with you but believe me no one would wish you the best but them don’t let silly things pull you away from them, as I said earlier all this life joy will end and you will die and the day of Judgment will come no one can escape from it every single thing we do good or bad we will be asked about, so rethink again sister because the real happiness, wealth and freedom is in (Jannah) heaven, may Allah SWT guid you back to practice Islam and to your family ❤❤❤
I am indian my parents are also Muslim I am happy to be Muslim but my parents are extremely strict they really control me so bad I really don't know what to do.
Continue being a Muslim and don't let your parents warp your perspective of Islam. Often people end up thinking that Islam is what tells them to act like this, but trust me, it comes from culture. I'll be making Dua that Allah helps you and gives you more freedom and that you stay on your Deen. Respect your parents, and try to stay safe ❤ (btw keep learning about Islam from authentic sources & the Quran. Reminders & education is very important)
I am sorry you had to go through all this. I think what most parents do wrong while raising kids is that they tend to enforce the external legalities of Islam before connecting them to Allah. If love for Allah is developed as child by connecting them with nature and making them see the signs and blessings of Allah with an akhirahcentric perspective, the external change manifests itself. You seem like a nice girl , I pray you get to connect with Allah and get to experience the peace and beauty of Islam without feeling imprisoned.
You are so brave and driven. It takes a strong will to be able to just live your life on your own aftwr being raised in a conservative house regardless of religion. I'm pretty sure you are younger than me and I admire you!
surprisingly a more nuanced and positive perspective than i expected. im glad your in better terms now and that you know that islam isn't the problem and didn't leave it
i am afghan and have really strict and toxic parents. my mom is really narcissistic and i have come to the realization that this toxic bond is going to eat me up eventually if i let them cross my borders any longer. i’ve decided i am going to no contact.
I'm a 16yo North African girl (morrocan) from my father but I was born n raised in France, and for my case your story reminds me of mine. First of all bc my name is Mina too lmao, and also because I was the little "princess" of my strict Muslim dad but one day it goes wrong. I've always been raised in the idea that love and relationships with boys in general are taboo, but I was also raised in a more open-minded way thanks to my mom bc she's White n atheist, so I've always been 50/50 but my dad never "met" this part of me. When I turned 14-15 I started to be more curious abt "intimacy" things in a relationship. Then I had my first official boyfriend (north african too) during my 15, but our relationship made people talking a lot, such as friends of friends and all this stuff, and we're living in a little city where everybody knows each other. So, one year n half after this, (2 months ago from now) I had an argument with 2 of my close friends, and then some days after my dad learned everything abt me and my life outside of the house, and especially he leaned abt the boyfriend, and some pictures and videos abt me and him doing private things would have been send to him. I knew it was my "friends". Hopefully my parents are divorced since 6 years now so I was at my mom's house the day he discovered everything, I can't even write all the things that happened after, he tried to get inside my mom's house to have an expelanation, but he was sooooo upset and extremely angry that he became violent and hited me, he went crazy called all my family, and they tried to call me as well, he told me that I wasn't his daughter anymore etc... The days after my mom kept me home bc my dad went so crazy that God knows what he could have done to me, then he tried to search my ex to beat him, he cancelled my phone subscription, my bank account transfers, and all that was making a link between him and I. Finally he never spoke to me again
I also come from a strict family, and I always worry how things will pan out. Im 21, almost finished my first degree. But in australia you dont need to pay it off till later, so I have to pay for it myself anyways.... I worry that my "double life" will be revealed and the worst part is i think my sister will have the worst reaction (shes brainwashed) and then my dad. Not sure about how my mum would react tho
A message to all Muslim parents yall shouldn’t force anything on your kids especially in the west instead make them fall in love with islam teach them why we do certain things with love dont be too extra or youll simply make them feel like they’re in prison which is the complete opposite of islam ❤ cause as we know الدين يسر و ليس عسر
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Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
LITERALLY! cannot emphasize this enough
Sometimes, for some of us, we need to experience mistakes in order to learn.
brainwashing 101
i left my family, not for religious purposes but because of severe abuse i was put through, it’s been a year now and yes the night i left my mom started throwing my stuff away but my little brother hid everything important for me, he’s the only person i still speak to. just thought that part was relatable lol
im glad u still kept that relationship w ur brother and still talk to him, but im so sorry about all the other parts
I feel a knot in my throat everytime I try to express myself in front of them, this is so scary but so empowering!!
These types of stories make me appreciate my cool mom even more.
I don't know if it's appropriate to say this because I am Southern African, but I relate to her story so much and seeing how she's made it out of her prison motivates to keep on working towards escaping mine. Being dependent on my mom is literally detrimental to my future. She won't let me study but prioritises me doing chores over my schoolwork. She has never sent me to school since I was 4. I've been home schooled my entire life basically, with no teachers. I have always had to teach myself, raise myself, and take care of myself since I was just five. She's perfectly comfortable seeing me make no academic progress whatsoever, and I feel like she's always been sabotaging me because every time I want to do something academic, she holds me back e.g. not buying textbooks for me at all. She does not let me out of the house except for once or twice a month for grocery shopping. I just want to be free from her already. When I leave, I'm never coming back.
So so sorry to hear that. Sending you so much strength. You will make it out and your future is so bright. Hang in there.
Omg that Sounds so awful!!I hope you find freedom some day, i know sometimes everything is too much but always remember that in the future there is a way for you to escape,you just have to be patient.
Also idk how it is in your country, every child has to go to school and cant be lock up in mine
Hey hun I hope u r ok. I’m sorry to say ur story is so different to all those girls commenting l. You are being mentally abused and locked up, I hope things work out for you please take care of ur self and find a way out of this abusive household. You deserve a good education and to simply live life.
Hi rue I hope you're still doing well. Thank goodness you atleast can teach yourself through youtube and your drive to get where you want will get your there ♡
That's not even islam though.. islam prioritieses education and self empowerment. I think your lazy mother just feels you're a extension of her and is just controlling you, and that's very toxic. God created us a free beings.
I pray your situation improves insha'Allah
Girl, I'm in my 30's and this story was inspiring! I loved it, thank you for sharing!
I am so sorry your parents treated you that way. In Islam, there is no compulsion in religion(2:256). I know our cultures can be so abus1ve. I pray Allah heals and makes you more successful. My parents are super abus1ve but I learned it was culture and not the faith. I left Islam and came back. Stay strong 💗
We are on good terms now! Thankyou for the support ❤
Genuine question, what made you wanna leave Islam when you say you know it’s culture. No hate😊
ive never said i left@@H..908
@@minaamouse2337 noooo it was meant for the other girl but after rereading her comment I see she came back sorry😭😭
@@H..908 My parents were really misogynstic and abusive. I thought Islam allowed this because I was a woman but it was from culture.Islam NEVER allows oppression towards animal or human. It is a major sin to oppress a person. It took me a long time to find my faith back. Alhamdullilah Allah guided me.
from a bengali girl who’s parents are Muslim and strict, this video felt like a big hug from an older sister.
leaving islam is not the answer. it is not cool. islam humbles u. may allah guide u habibti
You know, I wasted my time replying to the comment who replied to you when I should have been replying to you… honestly girl live your life, do what makes YOU happy. And don’t let anyone force religion or anything down your throat. What you choose to believe is YOUR choice! ❤️
Don’t forget your akhirah sister, this world is just an illusion
@@janemarie8589 cringe
true @@n.k.7596
Im also an afghan girl, and i had the same situation growing up but maybe a little less strict. Looking back im actually glad that my parents were sometimes strict but just wish they would give me more guidance instead of simply restrict something. Im not for the promiscuous life and will never root for a girl or boy to ever live a life like that. I do feel for families that end up being torn apart bc some boys and girls do wanne live like that, which is so sad bc a mentally healthy person would never go down that path. I hope and wish that there will be more understanding between afghan parents and their children, so they can make them conscious individuals. Wish you the best Mina🙏🏻🌹
Same here 💯
Agreed!
I feel bad for her.. Insh'Allah she will find her way back to Allah because he's forgiving every sin
I felt this whole story time coming from a strict Hindu household with 2 brothers who played “dad” everywhere I went. 😤 But keep shining bright girl!
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Honestly, I can relate to this but cannot either. My sister had done the same many years ago, she ran away from home and stopped communicating with us for like like 5 years. My parents wanted to force her into marrying one of my cousins, and she obviously didn't want that to happen. Even when she was 15, they wanted to push her into child marriage and luckily again they didn't. For all those years she was scared that at any moment they would marry her off and that's why she mainly left. She also felt remorse towards my parents for always being so strict and just pushing Islam onto her (we are 4 girls including me). She was never allowed to go out and always felt left out, while everyone out there had fun going out and whatever else. She wanted that freedom as well but my parents just never understood and would say, "It's for your own protection". However, she would ask to go to our neighbour (it was a single mum and her 2 daughters) and my parents would say no. They only ever wanted her to study and nothing more, as they would always compare us (still do) and make us feel like we're nothing compared to other kids. Now she's 26, living much better (still got trauma but living off better), she sometimes comes and sees us and she doesn't mind but she hates coming back because my mum always tries to make her feel guilty. I'm 16, and nothing has really changed since and I've been thinking of leaving for so long because of them. They're just really toxic, all they want is for you to study and do nothing else. I've literally attempted so many times to kms but I've still held back.
This really isn't about religion, because when I do leave my parents I'm still planning on wearing the hijab and praying daily. It's about being treated in a very unethical way. I want to have some freedom and power over my life and I don't want them to have any say in this. Islam is a very beautiful religion but being brought up in a toxic environment makes you want to leave it. No parents should push you into anything, they should teach you to love Islam in a soft way, without forcing it onto you. Like not allowing your children to go out, isn't part of islam. I understand that they want to protect us etc... And I most definetely undestand not them wanting to let us go out at night. Which, I understand but there's no where it says you cannot go out in the day to just have some fun. I literally feel bad because whenever my friends ask me to go out, I just say "no" because I know my parents won't allow me either way. It's sad for myself to say I'm going to leave my family, but it's for the best. I don't encourage it, but sometimes this environment will really push you to death. If this is your last resort do whatever you can to take it. It's for your own good, yes you may feel selfish but if it's the only way to save yourself you have to do what you can. You're important as well!
Omg, she's so strong.I hope you can be safe too.Keep up your strength girl!And if you ever need, just know a stranger on the internet is here for you :)
im so sorry you went through this, keep pushing through it. It will get better
I don't know from which country you belongs but can you help me in a matter my daughter is 14 years old she don't want to go school every morning its a hard task to wake her up and help her to get ready and send her to school she mostly wants to skip school and last year she had so many leaves from school i got a letter from school to send her everyday and she doesn't wear scarf i didn't force her i left this up to her choice she doesn't do study at all at home she have her own cell phone and she plays games all day i don't force her for study just say her to plz do your home work on time but she doesn't do that even know from morning she is in her room she isn't coming downstairs i call her but she ignored and after dinner she will use her ph again and then she will sleep she doesn't even clean her room everything i do for her and family and i want to tell you that she says i am strict mom she became very rude to me am i still a strict mom plz help what more i should do to be a good mom i always be worried about her behaviour i always feel worried about her future when she will grow up what she will do how she will manage her life her expenses everything because we will not alive to support her you know sometimes i couldn't sleep because of these thoughts but i can't ask anybody
@@user-xw4fu6lt7v Very sorry to hear that, I'm sure as a mum you are trying your hardest for your family and providing your daughter with the best. I think you should genuinely sit her down and have a conversation with her. I know for sure during this time teenagers are usually just very rebellious and do not want to listen to anyone. Might take her a bit of time to get out of that habit, it's a bit like a phase. However, I do think there needs to be a balance, as much as parents shouldn't be too strict with their children. I do think you should put reasonable boundaries, to make her understand that she cannot just do what she wants. If she doesn't want to speak with you, maybe try to consult her school to know how she is doing and if everything ok. Sometimes behaviours like this may just be derivred from school and the environment. Just when you speak to her, listen to her problems and then maybe think of a solution and ask her what how she'd like you to support her. Just be very supportive and I'm sure you already are! I know parenting is very hard, I try not to give my parents a hard time even though, I'm not treated right most of the time. Maybe also consider introducing her to like activities and hobbies; to get her off phone. Decreasing her screen time that way too. Homework, maybe try to take her phone away for that matter (sit her down for like 1-2hr with breaks in between) and then at the end when she has completed all of it you give it back to her.
@user-xw4fu6lt7v Things must be hard for you. I say talk to her make sure everything is fine. Ask her what wrong and why what she is going through sit down with her be there for her because that's when she needs someone the most. And if its school the problem ask her if someone is treating her bad or bullying her at school. Maybe also consider the option of changing school maybe the current school she attends is a very toxic environment for her. Ask her what are her hobbies and sports or activities she likes to get her to be social and stop being constantly on her phone. And make sure u give her liberty to go out with her friends and hang out with her friends being strict is to protect but sometimes it may stop the child from experience that may benefit them. Let her know that u are there for her and u love her and u she can talk to u with no judgement.
i feel you. my parents are so strict and i needed this form someone.
Girl I rarely ever comment on TH-cam but you girl are a GRINDER. I am so proud of you and how you took everything you went through head on and came out the other end. I really believe you're going to be a huge star... just a gut feeling :)
Girlyyy we all make mistakes but it’s good you stayed strong and realised your parents emotions, just wanted to say your makeup is absolutely gorgeous oh myyyy 🫶🏼
Wow this story was incredible.
You have it in you to make it big.
this story was hitting home for me with the way my parents and family are. Thank you for telling your story.
Please do a story time on how you reconciled with your parents
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
I am proud of you. What you did was amazing, keep on going.
Man this brings me back to my story about 6 years ago, where literally the same thing of strict parents in terms of going out/friends/boys… so many story times… I convinced them that Ottawa is the school I NEED to go to even though the closer ones in the GTA were fine. I ended up moving to Ottawa and still had to deal with some things but I’m so glad I forced my move. I’ve reconnected with my parents after I moved back to the GTA and got married. I wouldn’t change anything as it really pushed me to be independent, live on my own and on my own terms and now I’m a successful person striving and happy. Covid was a dark time as well because I moved back in with my parents for a short while but man it’s crazy to see how I went from hating them to 6 years later, we have a decent relationship and actually make plans to hang out!!
Thanks for sharing this! So much of this is buried for me cuz it’s so much to unpack, but seeing you talk about it makes me feel like I wasn’t going crazy. Wishing you more success and happiness and you got this!! ❤
Mina I have a lot of love for you because you’re intelligent, so brave and beautiful. . I see it wasn’t just about being western or fitting in it was about taking ownership of your own life which I can relate to, us ethnic girls born to immigrant families deal fight for that our whole life and you’re still in the process of finding yourself and growing.
I would advice you as woman to woman please seek out therapy / counselling particularly somatic counselling. That will be the ultimate investment you make for yourself along with everything else you’re doing. Once you’re ready seek out coaching from women who are spiritual (I’m not saying religious) who are few steps ahead of where you want to be in terms of your healing.
My intuition tells me you’ll be very successful and achieve your dreams. . But you can’t do it all alone, that’s why seek a mentor / therapist / coach when you’re ready. ❤
I respect you and your decisions - you go girl !! ❤
I'm literally rooting for you! I'm so happy for you, I can't wait for you to grow and see where the journey takes you. Stay safe and have fun bby girl!
This is so inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story with us and I hope you continue to thrive and grow!
I cannot believe they would throw out your personal belongings. You are a strong woman.
That was so heavy. You are brilliant,an inspiration,amazing and a success story. Even as a stranger, I am so proud of you and I wish you all the very best in life.💗
damn feeling so seen and valid from your videos and so proud of you for where you are rn bc ik that was in no way easy ur stronggg girlie
You will literally succeed! Sometimes time away from a toxic situation is much needed. Your cat is super cute by the way with the little angry face aweeeeee 🤗🤗
Shoutout to that little brother! I'm glad you had someone there for you :)
This is too relatable 😭 like my parents aren’t abusive but they never let me go anywhere and do anything with friends (I wasn’t even allowed to go to bday parties as a kid) but it’s so hard to leave them
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
Same I’m currently almost 20 and still live with my parents. I basically have 0 social life outside of college. It’s so depressing idk what to do
go get closer to ur lord thick girl @@Candycloud_19
Please leave. :)) you’ll feel soo much better! As soon as you get the chance to move out, please move!
@@mahaa3581bruh worst advice ever. You do realise your trying to ruin a kids bond with their family? Whats wrong with being strict, not letting her go outside if because they care abt her. The outside world has become crazy with all the monsters in it. Maybe there a little overprotective but no way thats a reason to cut your own parents off.
The definition of throw anything at me & I’ll rise like a Phoenix. Truly motivating. 👏
Im so proud of u 🫶 so inspiring
Omg mina, wow. I love how you are just your own individual and fight for your rights, i wish to be you someday!
I am hijabi and everything but I want you to know that I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself! I love you so much Mina ❤
what????? Are you dumb???
Hey I’m new to your channel. Sending you all the love from the uk queen. No matter what’s happened I still love you watching your vlogs for the past couple of days girl you have confidence keep up the amazing work you got this ❤❤❤❤🥹🫶🙏👊
im thankful as a muslim, that my parents didn't force islam on me, yes i was born into it and taught that way, but not in a super strict way. I was taught Islam in such a beautiful way that i genuinely accepted the religion and followed it with my own free will.
My parents told me that their job as parents was to teach me about god/Allah and Islam principles, not Force it.
And they told me that it's HARAM, to force someone into a religion or the hijab, and stuff like that, even with your own kids.
All parents should teach their way of life to their kids and stuff, but at the end of the day its their decision how they live their life.
Such a strong woman ❤so proud of her
im 18 and ive been thinking of leaving so much recently, my parents and sisters have been restricting me so much like i can never go out and do anything. my dad has always said if i ever leave then im no longer his daughter and i wont ever be allowed back into their lives, but its so restricting and suffocating living here when they literally track every single thing i do. still dont know if im gonna leave i think the guilt and the religious pov is whats really making me stay otherwise id feel so much guilt and fear once i go.
Salam alaikom sister😊. If you don’t mind I’ll advise you. Be your own reason to stay, do your research on Islam and the subjects that interest you as a person and get into the narrations and perspectives. This way when your family tries to force you (which is very much haram and the wrong way to go about it) your soul and heart will know what you’re doing it for. Not because they say so, but because of your own love and faith. May Allah bless and guide you❤
@@H..908ty for ur advice i appreciate having someone taking the time to reply😭 honestly ive grown up with religion and i do believe in islam, but growing up it always felt shoved onto me by my parents. inshallah i take the time to grow and learn more about my religion at my own pace. ill still consider leaving cause living here feels suffocating and extremely sheltered but i will definitely take ur advice so thank you habibti🤍
@@azu8022 you’re so welcome love🥰 I feel you. I’ve felt some of those feelings as well but it’s gone better alhamdulillah. It will for you too InshaAllah. Know Allah and the ummah and the profet loves you🥰 and I hopenthings get better and you get to see the difference between culture and Islam❤️
i wasnt going to reply but i relate to this and wanted to reach out due to your response to the other comment replying to you ik u need some feedback. i went thru the double life thing and now im 16 and j stuck at home all day, got moved to online school and over all just feel trapped but what i learned from the past 2 years for me is to just stay in your own lane, keep things to yourself more, talk to ur family but keep ur distance as well, avoid thinking of them and their ways, feed ur faith let it grow quietly, become more independent, trust yourself and god only and dont let the built up anger and hate towards your family be the reason you leave and force your life to become harder because the world is a hateful and dangerous place. ik im young and dont know much but ik enough to try to help you. ik it can be irritating when u talk or try to reach out for help and the only response u hear is "pray this, pray that" you are allowed to feel a certain way and praying is something that will find its way to u and will heal u once u come to terms with it. anger is a strong emotion that leads to outcomes that arent fixable, dont let it get it your way. muslim parents tend to say some of the hardest thing that are so hard to forget but remember at the end of the day, they are hurting themselves. you will grow to become the greatest version of yourself, inshallah you find ur inner peace and ur true happiness.
You are making the right decision don't leave your family, they love you and are working hard for you and doing all that for your benefit 💜
Your amazing and so brave for standing up for ur parents
And Ik u will achieve amazing things one day because Ik the ur brave and strong energy u will be AMAZING LOVE U GIRLY ❤️
Your story is absolutely amazing. ❤
Watching Mina is like FaceTime with bestie 🤍
it's just amazing how casually you're talking about this.
So happy that you talk about this important topic
Wow Im like so inspired by your positivity. I think abt what I would do with no money and tuition due etc but like how u handled that shit and managed to get thru covid as dark as that was its insane what you hve been through and still handled it? 🥺🥺 also u DEFFF need to do more makeup videos btw 😍
But seriously, you are so beautiful mashallah ❤ relate to everything ❤️
Love ur account can totally relate girl , live your best life don’t let anyone stop your happiness what is for you will find you . Sometimes family ain’t shit ! I’m right in your position and was able to get my own place too starting an Airbnb business. Life is so short don’t let anyone bring your self esteem down ! Subscribed ! You’re a great story teller 💗
omg im literally planning on starting an air bnb business too! currently tryna work as much as possible to save up and hopefully my business is successful so i can force my move😭😭
growing up with strict parents, i can relate so much
My father is not a bad person. He is controlling too but gives me a lot of space and privacy. I'd say I'm the one who has always put boundaries and eventually became distant from him.
Whenever I had a problem at school, I kept it to myself cause dad at the time had 2 jobs and was barely home. Whenever I did something wrong, he used to hit me because that's how he was raised and that's how he wanted to raise us. Even that didn't annoy me as much as the fact that he called mum names and yelled at her a lot over the years. I've always felt stuck between them, she'd always say horrible things about him and he'd always treat her in a bad manner.
All of it affects me a lot, I have that gut feeling you spoke about. I believe that if I get a chance to move out, I'd discover many things about myself and heal many wounds my life with my parents left me with. I wish I can find my own freedom and peace of mind one day...
Hey umm your dad calling your mom NAMES is definitely unacceptable and he is bad for doing that. Dont excuse that even if you have empathy for him. Husbands should RESPECT their wives and treat them well, like a treasure! Depends on how the voice is raised and how he talks to her and which things are said, and whether she can raise her voice back at him?
I’m sooooo proud of you!!
gurll u got guts !! ur so brave for doing something like this.
i swear we are like sisters in a different cultures. cause i have a grudge with the my older brother- we just don’t get along, even if i act nice, he still a bitch to me. and i always try to support him and then he would never support me, so we didn’t have a good relationship. i also have 3 brothers. my little brother was the one who actually believed in me. but like both my parents were guilt tripping everything i do. i also have no idea what i want to do with my life, but just to escape home. turns out my dads a narcissist and my mom I don’t even know. It’s a living hell for me to live w my parents. currently 17 yrs old. so happy that u are sharing this story, so proud of you tho! 💕
this is a story of you disowning you parents and not the other way around
Frr
Love you girll, I could similarly understand what you been and this also gaved me courage to prepare for my future and hardships but I’m just 16 and we kinda have a similar experience and what you said help me view life differently especially for giving your parents or even being grateful for having your parents despite of what did you eat amazed me and I’m glad you did too cause The Bible says that we should forgive others just like God have forgive us and if God for gave us dummies we should forgive others and forgive our selves
Heyy girl, I’m go glad you able to change and grow from all what you went through your childhood. I’m glad you were able to be grateful for your parents despite what they have done to you that’s a big heart change, not everyone can do that, And you were able to do it and forgive and be grateful for that
Thank you for telling your story
girl you're so witty and funny I was dying and multiple points in the video
crazy how this is similar to my family story minus the religion factor . i’m so proud of you girl !!!!! you abundant on your own that’s beautiful and your ability to stand up for your independence is inspiring 🤍🤍🙏🏽🧘🏽♀️✨
From another culture and hearing how these men terrorize women in your culture is just beyond. I have nonwords. Like an adult woman having to hide from an uncle in a closet is not acceptable. I am so proud of you for leaving and i am so glad you are alive. Just know so many people are rooting for you.
Cruelty, control, coercion, and threats of adults is never ok anywhere.
js to point out, culture and islam are two different things. the way the men terrorise women in her culture isnt islamic. islam is beautiful and i rlly dont understand why ppl would wanna fail this worldly life and go to hell on the day of judgement. all i can say if may allah guide us all ameen. may allah remove the pain from her parents. all they wanted was her to be on the right path but as u can tell , she is very rebellious. jannah is way better than this world.islam makes u feel peace in the heart which is why many ppl are reverting to islam. especially women .
@@lululululullu most people leave after converting and this is not ok. Everyone has a right to autonomy and consent to choose their own path. It legally codified in laws.
I’m so proud of you
for becoming a hoe ???
i'm so glad u guys are good now
im bengali and have extremely strict muslim parents, and i relate to this video sm bc i feel like my parents are weighing me down so much and i cant freely say whats on my mind or else ill feel bad when they start crying or think im not gonna be like them. im trying my best but they expect so much more from me because i'm the first child that was born in the us from family back home, and they keep telling me not to go astray from islam, etc. but i wont leave islam and im confident in that since im trying really hard, but they restrict me from many other things just because of the religion and everything, such as simple makeup bc i just wanna feel a bit prettier, but they dont understand and my mom immediately gets sad and it makes me so so so guilty that it eats me alive when i cant say something that i wanna do about anything and they react in such a way. im really happy that i can relate to u, mina! yr js like a big sister! may allah bless u 💗
do you say to a thief “steal if that’s what makes you happy?”
Animals don’t wear clothes. Humans need clothes. It’s good to dress modestly. It’s for our own good.
الحَمدُ لله
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Do read the Qur’an 🌹
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ALLAH CREATED us. ALLAH KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR us. ALLAH DOESN’T NEED us. We need to obey ALLAH.
Do you know what is THE TRUE PURPOSE OF LIFE?
We didn’t create ourselves. ALLAH ALONE CREATED us. We should be GRATEFUL TO ALLAH. We should OBEY ALLAH.
A person who disobeys ALLAH, is MISERABLE.
A PERSON WHO OBEYS ALLAH FEELS HAPPY.
الحَمدُ لله
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Thank you girll, this gaved me courage me courage🥰
u got my respect , at many points from last part too i was able to relate and yes i dont know maybe thats why i m kinda feeling connected to you . thankyou
Just let me tell u..
U r on the right I swear
God wants us to be free & happy
All those deformed believes about religion r actually from the devil himself, any form of obligation or restriction to personal freedom joy & expression r devilish in nature..
But at the same time u have to understand that ur parents mindset or even traumas are what’s controlling them.. even if dealing with them is not an option right now, but understanding that is really important for ur own peace.. I know nomatter what u love them at ❤
Keep loving’em from afar it will make u a lot happier & more grounded & surefooted..
I feel like sometimes we forget that it is also our parents first time going through life , I am sure you all have your regrets . I am glad you guys reunited., You were young and they might have gone hard on you . I am sure their intentions were pure , I hope you guys have a good relationship after parting ways for years ❤
Hmmm I disagree
It's not like we have 7 life's with same parents for them to not learn.
Your such an inspiration ❤
It’s crazy on how you hide your stuff from ur parents and very sad. I hope your good now!! ❤. Much love ❤️!!
gurl ur so beautiful im glad u got ur freedom i understand u sm bb
Hope all those people who disrespect their parents understand how much hard work it is for a mother just in the delivery phase(not even mentioning so much of the good efforts most parents put in taking care of their children ),
إن شآء الله
i live the same story but the thing is i can't move away cuz I'm in an Arabic Muslim country. i just hope that next year i go to another country for college. I'm so proud of you that video was Inspiring
You will be successful ❤keep on thriving Queen ❤wish u the best 🌟
soo soo sooooo proud of you
The struggle you went through financially and jumping from couch to couch literally just happened to me last month especially with my parents disowning me for religious reasons (Christian cult sect) and it was so hard I was so mad I would cry from anger and cry from missing them so much. I know how you were feeling I’m so sorry you experienced this too 😢 no child deserves this
Im not muslim, but my situation is like the exact same. My parents are super strict christians, i grew up in a cult, i wasnt allowed to do anything, ive done online/homeschool my entire life, i was not allowed to wear pants or shorts growing up. Only long skirts and long sleeves. And when i reached middle school thats when they loosened up finally and i could wear pants and short sleeves. It wasnt till highschool where i wore like my first somewhat croptop and shorts. I got a phone only when i turned 14 and when they found out i had like a situationship with a guy they took that away like immediately. I dont have any friends right now, because they all got sick of my situationship and just went against me, and my mental health is like at an all time low, i have no clue what to do. Im almost 16, i cant get my license, i dont have a phone or friends,. I do have a job yes, and i could buy my own phone but im scared they will get really mad.
i’m so sorry about your parents that sounds horrible. I have one question how did you write this comment. i hope everything gets better for you 🫶
@@EvangelineBirke i have laptop for school reasons, but thank you so much. :) i really appreciate that, i hope youre having a wonderful holiday season💗
omg we need a haircare routine tou have beautiful hair!
i went through the same thing except i wasnt strong enough to leave. i was so scared back then i wish i got help before. the only reason i stayed was because my parents had a lot of money and i didnt want to risk being sent to a poor family where id have to struggle for a job... looking back i wish i was strong enough to leave. (im a brown girl too and had no freedom)
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
@leyahali6314 may Allah reward you sis ameen. What a lovely response ❤
thank you hun ameen x@@duygukurban2931
Finna watched this instead of studying for my exam cuz I needed to hear this shit. Seeing u thrive makes me wanna move out too, especially since I’m livin the life u was livin. The sneaky, double life. Can’t do it no more, it’s takin a toll on my mental health.
That isn't "cool" bro. You're deceiving no one but yourself
@@sky-wq7th u call it deceiving, I call it escaping. And dw, I’m good at school💪🏽
@@thatgorl24 no ofc not! I know what’s right and what’s wrong. I’m talking about escaping the constant pressure that ur parents bring when holding u back to even do the simplest of things. Like going to ur friends house to study, or go to an amusement park with ur cousins. That restriction is what we r escaping. Not Allah’s mercy, never. I hope that helps explain, cuz no where in the Quran says I cannot do that. It’s the cultural aspects our parents carry. U dig?
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x@@sky-wq7th
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
As a Muslim gworl myself. Let me make some things clear from my perspective. There’s a lot going on here. So I wanna begin with we are all humans who make mistakes, Allah knows us and our souls, and nobody can judge because everybody has their own path, story and struggles. This poor girl has obviously struggled a lot, with faith, culture and family. I can say from experience that this Can be very hard varying from the situation.
What (Muslim) parents don’t realize is that when you force faith without love for Islam, or god, then (a lot of) kids push with a bigger force the other way. When raising a child with faith you should do it (in my opinion) with love and affection, showing all the good things, so that the sacrifices like dressing a certain way or talking a certain way will seem less of a chore and more of a routine that calms your soul. So even though this girl has from an Islamic standpoint not made the best of decisions, and it’s def her own responsibility, her parents are also at fault, so don’t try to defend them. Our profet told us to be love ing and caring and if u just tell someone “don’t do xyz because I say so” instead of “Allah told us xyz because of xyz reason and xyz reward, and it benefits us in xyz, wanna try getting to that point together?” Btw the western environment doesn’t help either. Us girls are being told to look and act a certain way, then told to be our own person, but also follow trends, but also looking sexy, but not slutty, but not modest. Not a very great environment for Muslimahs. And no most ‘Muslim’ countries aren’t the greatest either but that’s because culture is being mixed in there which is very damaging.
Anyways I’m trynna say don’t judge her, don’t make the mistakes of her parents and don’t mix Islam with culture or force.
If anybody has questions about this unnecessary essay or Islam ask away😅 also may Allah bless and guide you all
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@@SincerelyCoquette girl I know I just like it that way….
gworl 💀
@@SincerelyCoquette u hating like a man💀
what is xyz sorry idk math
I stop talking to my family 6 years ago had a strict parent too n it's been the best decision I've ever made being on my own
can you please do a story about when you lived in your cousins wardrobe?
tysm!
REALLY WANNA KNOW HOW YOU MADE IT FINANCIALLY ,COZ THATS A BIG ASPECT OF BEING INDEPENDENT!!! n also imma luk I AM VERY PROUD of you
i have rlly strict black parents and recently i have been "rebelling" in the eyes of my parents. I spent a few hours to go to a cinema w my friends for freedom w/o my parents knowledge and ended up getting in alot of trouble being told i completely lost their trust and my mum calling me all sorts nd telling me i wasnt her daughter. I tried speaking to my dad nd he just didnt talk to me. I have been thinking of going uni as a way to escape but it feels like i might not even get to that point bc of how fast things r going downhill. Previously it was just me and my mum bc when my biological dad was w my mum he was very promiscuous and was only after money and sex etc. So obviously my mum is very protective of me falling into a bad pathway and talking to guys who arent good for me. but i know in my heart that i wouldnt dare be so reckless and just slut around like she thinks bc i rlly do care about my future as much as she does. However its gotten to a point where me nd my mum are dislike eachother sm that we live in the same house but barely even speak to eachother nd im dying to just leave even if it costs me the contact i have w my parents. What should i do?
whyd u even go without their knowledge obvi theyre gonna worry
@2layIa I'm 16 (turning 17) nd I've never gone out with friends, I told my dad a lil bit about me going out with friends b4 I did so they already had an idea about it but they didn't expect me to actually go out. All I wanted was a little bit of freedom. And It feels like the more I get restricted, the more curious I get to want to do things.
I have been in your shoes and I’m 21 now. Don’t worry just try be apologetic and get through this tough part of your life and then go to university and be independent. Of course you will be able to go. Try to stay at home and work as hard as you can go get into a good university and everything will be okay you will be free ❤️
@samirash2910 Thanks so much, that really encouraged me alot ❤️
I got really emotional watching this I actually feel like crying 💔
Consider the plight of the Palestinian people, who are facing extreme suffering and trauma. Let us not take our lives for granted, for we never know when our last day will be. Allah emphasizes the importance of mothers by mentioning them three times. This should remind us of their significant role in our lives. It deeply saddens me to witness the heartbreaking scenes in Palestine, such as a mother crying over her lifeless and helpless child, apologizing for the situation. However, we hope to reunite with our loved ones in paradise. If such tragedies fail to move or upset you, then may Allah guide you, for if you hide anything from your parents, rest assured that Allah sees everything and you will be held accountable in the hereafter. When your parents pass away, refrain from shedding insincere tears or creating a dramatic TH-cam video, as you have treated them poorly despite their best intentions for you. Having caring and overprotective parents is a blessing, as their love and guidance are driven by their faith in Allah. They raised you and endured the pain of bearing you for nine months, so do not disregard their efforts. May Allah lead you to the right path and grant you forgiveness, ameen. Even one step closer to Allah will be amazing, read the Quran translation in English and books on how to better yourself as i think you really need to wake up x
You all guys must put in mind that all this life is gonna end and all of us will die one day, but the hereafter and heaven is gonna be forever. So don’t scarify heaven for temporary joy, men, dressing in Haram way do not follow devil way. When you die nothing will help you but god that why you supposed to worship and obey him in this life so you can win heaven. Since Allah SWT asked us women to cover and wear hijab that because Allah knows what’s better for us because he created us in first place. Maybe your parents were strict with you but believe me no one would wish you the best but them don’t let silly things pull you away from them, as I said earlier all this life joy will end and you will die and the day of Judgment will come no one can escape from it every single thing we do good or bad we will be asked about, so rethink again sister because the real happiness, wealth and freedom is in (Jannah) heaven, may Allah SWT guid you back to practice Islam and to your family ❤❤❤
ur so right
I am indian my parents are also Muslim I am happy to be Muslim but my parents are extremely strict they really control me so bad I really don't know what to do.
Continue being a Muslim and don't let your parents warp your perspective of Islam. Often people end up thinking that Islam is what tells them to act like this, but trust me, it comes from culture. I'll be making Dua that Allah helps you and gives you more freedom and that you stay on your Deen. Respect your parents, and try to stay safe ❤ (btw keep learning about Islam from authentic sources & the Quran. Reminders & education is very important)
Dignity, Integrity and Self- Respect. You don’t need to believe or not believe in God to have those things.
I am sorry you had to go through all this. I think what most parents do wrong while raising kids is that they tend to enforce the external legalities of Islam before connecting them to Allah. If love for Allah is developed as child by connecting them with nature and making them see the signs and blessings of Allah with an akhirahcentric perspective, the external change manifests itself. You seem like a nice girl , I pray you get to connect with Allah and get to experience the peace and beauty of Islam without feeling imprisoned.
girl you are insanely strong
Thank youuu, I needed to here this.. love your videos, I live in Ottawa..your an inspiration, bless you ❤🙏🫂♾️ XO
You are so brave and driven. It takes a strong will to be able to just live your life on your own aftwr being raised in a conservative house regardless of religion. I'm pretty sure you are younger than me and I admire you!
proud of u mina
surprisingly a more nuanced and positive perspective than i expected. im glad your in better terms now and that you know that islam isn't the problem and didn't leave it
off topic but how’d u do ur hair omg it looks amazing❤ also hair care vid tut pls
i love you u inspire me
i am afghan and have really strict and toxic parents. my mom is really narcissistic and i have come to the realization that this toxic bond is going to eat me up eventually if i let them cross my borders any longer. i’ve decided i am going to no contact.
great video!{ your story so empowering!
I Grow up the same way its been very hard my heart ❤️ goes out to you girl keep going....😢
I'm a 16yo North African girl (morrocan) from my father but I was born n raised in France, and for my case your story reminds me of mine. First of all bc my name is Mina too lmao, and also because I was the little "princess" of my strict Muslim dad but one day it goes wrong. I've always been raised in the idea that love and relationships with boys in general are taboo, but I was also raised in a more open-minded way thanks to my mom bc she's White n atheist, so I've always been 50/50 but my dad never "met" this part of me. When I turned 14-15 I started to be more curious abt "intimacy" things in a relationship. Then I had my first official boyfriend (north african too) during my 15, but our relationship made people talking a lot, such as friends of friends and all this stuff, and we're living in a little city where everybody knows each other. So, one year n half after this, (2 months ago from now) I had an argument with 2 of my close friends, and then some days after my dad learned everything abt me and my life outside of the house, and especially he leaned abt the boyfriend, and some pictures and videos abt me and him doing private things would have been send to him. I knew it was my "friends". Hopefully my parents are divorced since 6 years now so I was at my mom's house the day he discovered everything, I can't even write all the things that happened after, he tried to get inside my mom's house to have an expelanation, but he was sooooo upset and extremely angry that he became violent and hited me, he went crazy called all my family, and they tried to call me as well, he told me that I wasn't his daughter anymore etc... The days after my mom kept me home bc my dad went so crazy that God knows what he could have done to me, then he tried to search my ex to beat him, he cancelled my phone subscription, my bank account transfers, and all that was making a link between him and I. Finally he never spoke to me again
im a moroccan too living in spain and im literally going throught that shit too, i hope things get better for us
I feel sorry for every child that had to live/still lives with parents like hers
I also come from a strict family, and I always worry how things will pan out. Im 21, almost finished my first degree. But in australia you dont need to pay it off till later, so I have to pay for it myself anyways.... I worry that my "double life" will be revealed and the worst part is i think my sister will have the worst reaction (shes brainwashed) and then my dad. Not sure about how my mum would react tho