Our Pregnancy Journey! Infertility + Heartbreak
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 เม.ย. 2022
- It's been a long 3 years but we have not lost hope. We know in the future our time will come to experience the greatest joy of having a baby. We cant thank you all enough for the love and support! We have had amazing family and close friends that have helped us through the past few years. We know many of you watching this video are also experiencing some of the same trials and heartbreak we are going through.. you are not alone. If we can help in any way... please reach out. We can go through this together.
We know we didn't share many details in this video but we plan on releasing another video in the next few days that explains a lot more.
We love all of you guys so much!!
If you want to reach out to Bella, send her a message on Instagram @bellagraceweems
We love you guys!!
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I hate seeing you guys go through this. We love you. I think there’s something really cool about opening up about your toughest battles because now you have a community of people that can you lift you up through this.
100% true! ❤ btw ilygsm too
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Couldnt be more true
Can you say happy birthday?
So true! ❤️
Ladies and Gentlemen, this is why we DO NOT ASK people “Are you pregnant?” “When are you going to have kids?”
I agree
Agree too
Just watched the adoption video and watching this now reminds me of how everything works out in the end. You're gonna be amazing parents.
This is the most authentic, genuine, raw, emotionally heartfelt and true-to-oneself video I have ever seen before on TH-cam. You truly are an angel Dell, I have full faith in you & Dallan’s abilities to flourish as the amazing parents you two are naturally destined to be in life. I see a bright future for you both and you should too girl. Hang in there!
Sending all the love from Melbourne, Australia. xx
4years and it's painful .... 🥺
You are so strong and doing such a beautiful thing being open about this for others going through this. You are amazing people and God has a plan for you. You will be in our prayers, and we will be here supporting you guys throughout your journey❤️
I agree 100% and hope that Bella and Dallin will have a baby with in the next year or sooner!!
BTW Love you guys so much
Love you!! ♥️
U guys are amazing for saying this they deserve what they wish for but god has a plan for everything❤️❤️❤️ also I whatch u guys all the time
It will come with the right time
That’s such a beautiful and true message! Also i’m a BIG fan of you two!
Sending our love & prayers to you both ❤️
I love watching your videos
My mom struggled with infertility for a while and then she had my sisters and I. My mom kept praying and going to doctors and it all worked out in the end. Sending lots of prayers. I love you and I know that you can do it. ❤️
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Bella and Dallin, you are some of the strongest people I know. I pray that God gives you your miracle. No matter what happens in this life, you are so loved and cherished. You two have so much happiness to put out in the world and we can’t wait to see how this journey plays out. We are cheering you on, crying with you, and we are here for all the support.
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Been following you all for about 6 months now. You guys are truly amazing and inspire me, as well as so many. This breaks my heart to watch, but I am praying for you all. I know God has a plan. You and Dallin both are going to be amazing parents someday.
“The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” Lamentations 3: 25-26
Thank you so much for this sweet comment. Means so much to us!
@Grxnt you have been subscribed for two years you are a true fan
@@DELLAVLOGS I'm so sorry guys ❤🥺 you guys are going to go through this ❤.
Stay strong 🙏🏻❤
@@DELLAVLOGS I'm so sorry guys ❤🥺 you guys are going to go through this ❤.
Stay strong 🙏🏻❤
I was a Miracle baby my mom didn’t think she could have kids and then there was me. Keep your head up Bella miracles happen I love you guys!!
I was too! There's hope.
God has his plan for Bella, right now is just now her time…but soon will be!
I was too! After my mom had a miscarriage with my heavenly brother, she had lost all hope, and his name was to be Matenia, the meaning of hope, my parents didn’t think they could have more kids, and then they had me.
No one ever talks about how devastating it is to see on the pregnancy tests, “Not Pregnant”. It’s such an emotional and intense feeling, especially when you are praying and wanting it so badly. I am so excited and hopeful for the day when I see the video of “WE ARE PREGNANT”! ♥️
Honestly, I don't see why any woman would want to get pregnant. Pregnancy puts a lot of strain on a woman's body, and it has risks, and a pregnancy lasts 9 months. Also, childbirth is very painful.
Personally, I think being childfree would be a lot better than having children.
No, when you have the baby in your hands you don't care about nothing😊
I become a mother this year, insieme the best feeling
9 months and a hard birth are worth it when you get to love the person you've made for the rest of your life. It's not about being uncomfortable or in pain. It's about your child. Love is sacrifice, and that's how you know that love is real.
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Sitting here, crying along with you, because I know the exact feeling you're describing. One thing that helped me through 4 years of infertility was knowing that the Savior is the master healer. He healed a leper, a blind man, a dead man --- He knows how to heal you and He will heal you too. And I can confidently say he will also mend your heart when that baby comes along. Today, I sit here at 34 weeks with our miracle baby, and it is all worth the pain, tears, procedures, money-- everything. Take heart, and know He is mindful of you and your little ones.
God has perfect timing! Im so happy for you!! God bless you and your healthy baby
He does amazing things no one has seen and never wil understand, WOW this is absolutely amazing!!!
Amen!
I’m so sorry you guys are going through this. Sending lots of love & prayers!❤️
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I tried for 3 years with 2 miscarriages and finally got my sweet baby boy. Those 3 years really were the hardest in my life.
The only thing harder than going through pregnancy and labor is not being able to go through pregnancy and labor. It really leaves an empty hole in your heart that can't be filled with anything else
Probably, except an adoption.
My husband and I are almost 6 years into our infertility journey. I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I feel like my heart is literally breaking. Such a roller coaster of emotions that it takes you on. Prayers for you. God cares!!
I have the same time of struggling with infertility, 6 years, it's so devastating.
@@anamariacaraman . I hope you will have your baby.
I pray that you will have your miracle.
Lehet majd most, hogy el engeded és lett egy örökbe fogadott kislányod aki titeket választott szüleinek, ilyenkor szokott sikerülni mert el engedi az ember
*As someone who has struggled with infertility for 7 years, it’s a heartbreak no one will understand unless they go through it. I have PCOS + endometriosis- by the grace of God I was blessed with two beautiful boys in 2012, but ever since we haven’t been able to conceive except once + lost the baby at 14 weeks. It’s truly a hell on earth. My heart goes out to you. You are not alone. Thank you for this* 💜
Good job mama I hope you are doing well, and your family is doing great 👍🏼 it amazing to hear you were able to accomplish your dream twice 😊
i love this💜 congratulations on your baby’s boys!
Thank you for being so honest, open and vulnerable. You’re bringing awareness to infertility which effects thousands of women daily. Thank you for sharing this personal information with us, especially so we can be supportive. You’re absolutely NOT alone, please remember that! Please never yourself feel guilty about the situation as you have NO control over this. Please know your fighting with SO much support being the two of you. Sending all the love your way!😭❤️
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Vulnerable? She’s getting paid for you to pity her lol
@@randomdude189 That's not nice at all. This is a real problem women without TH-cam channels face everyday. This took a lot of courage to share with the world and this is what you have to say. That's disgusting.
@@jilliantruax2137 THIS comment 👆🏻👏🏻
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Read the comment below yours. I pray your loved ones never struggle with infertility. Have the day you deserve babes. 😉
To that part she says “ I can’t wait until I look back at this video holding my baby” I felt this so much!!!!!! Don’t ever loose that hope everything will fall in place.💙❤️
And then some moms willingly "terminate" their pregnancies.
@@hrw1936 I don’t think it’s fair to use that as an argument. So many women go through so many different things but I wouldn’t bring someone else who makes a choice that’s better suited for them just to bring someone who wants a child up. Either way, I pray that Della are blessed with a beautiful baby soon. I still have faith for them and I’m sure they still have faith that they’ll get through this.
crying so many tears while watching this video. You guys are so strong. I’ve personally never experienced infertility, but I lost my daughter and I know how much pain and darkness that brought to my life, so I can’t even imagine just wanting those 2 lines or to see a baby on an ultrasound. I’m speaking so many prayers of you guys, and sending so much baby dust your way!! In my eyes people like y’all are already parents, when you go through the lengths you guys have just to have a baby. This is so heartbreaking. Praying for a miracle for you guys. You putting this out to the world was probably the hardest thing you had to do, but in the end will be the best. You will receive so many prayers now, even more than before- and you’ll help others along the way. My heart and prayers are with you guys❤️❤️❤️
I can't say I understand what you're going through, but I'm so sorry. Things will get better stay strong :)
Couldn't agree more
GIRL I FEEL YOU, infertility is so hard especially when we feel that we are called to do it and should be able to do it naturally. My husband and I had been trying for a year, went to a fertility doctor and was told we had unexplained infertility. One year later after two medicated cycles and three IUIs I had enough. I took a break after hearing God tell me I needed 6 months to heal emotionally, I got pregnant the next month naturally. Truly a blessing!
When I heard these stories I felt hopeful but it was a lot hard to hear. Keep your head up and even though we don’t understand his timing it truly is perfect in the end ❣️
I love how after they look at the negative pregnancy tests Dallin says that they're going to get through this together and encourages Della to stay positive yet also validates her emotions by saying it's okay to be sad. I just found this channel and am sincerely heartbroken for them. You can see how incredibly strong they are and have such a fantastic foundation of love in their marriage. They can get through anything together ❤
Seeing dallin hold Bella in the bathroom really shows the love that he has for bella!! Stay strong bella!! God has a plan for you.❤
I had a relative who went through the same thing. I didn’t know of her struggles until she was five months pregnant with her son. They ended up using egg donation, and it worked for them. This is why we have to be so sensitive about the whole topic of having children. Sending you positive thoughts. One way or another you will get the family you crave so much. ❤️
I'm proud of you for staying in faith! We got married July of 2006. I wanted to be a mom So bad, but in March 2009, I had a miscarriage 😢 That was the hardest time of my life and our marriage. My husband really struggled in his faith so I tried to stay strong for both of us, but I still worried about how long it would take. But God 🙏 gave us a daughter July 2011🌷. It took about 9 months of trying before I was pregnant with our son,who was born Feb 2015💙 I say he brought fertilizer because our next was 2016🌷,2018💙, and 2021💙. Yes,God has blessed us with 5! Don't give up, He's the God of more than enough❤
Congrats.
Thank you for sharing this. I am so happy for you! And your story is a message of hope for us still struggling with infertility.
Hang in there you two! God has his plan for you and it is so encouraging to see your faith through this journey. My sister and her husband struggled with infertility for 7 years- they now have a 4 year old daughter. My sister went in for a routine appointment and found out she was pregnant (and quite far along too). She had no idea. Their outcome was nothing short of perfect (God's timing). He sees you!❤️
I just balled my eyes out for you Bella. You are such a wonderful woman and inspiration for me to live my life to the fullest. I haven’t struggled in that area (yet), but when I reached my darkest point and thankfully got some help your motto of “it’s a great day to have a great day” got me through. Thank you for all you do. I love you and I will be praying for you each and every day!!
Infertility is so hard. I suffered for years and was eventually blessed with two wonderful boys (Now wonderful men)! Please know that we are all sending prayers, good vibes, positive energy, and everything else that shows support. Love you guys and thank you for your vulnerability and honesty.
Seeing this video after stumbling upon your video of you guys adopting your baby girl… so so happy for you, you deserve the happiness you’re experiencing with your baby girl. May this chapter of your life be the most amazing 🤍🤍 god bless you both.
It breaks my heart knowing you and so many others go through this. Wrapping my arms around all of you and sending you love, prayers and positive vibes. My sister struggled with infertility for years and was finally able to conceive. My niece will be 25 in July. You will look back at this video one day with your children and it will all be worth it. ❤️
You’re so strong, you will get through this
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You got me over here crying too. I hate seeing you guys sad and broken. I’ll be keeping you guys In my prayers. God has a plan for you I promise and I can’t wait to see this plan. We all love you guys so much and we’re all going to be here on this journey with you both. You guys got this ❤️
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I’ve just come across your video and I just wanted to say stay strong and don’t lose hope! I totally understand what you are going through as I am also having difficulties falling pregnant. Unless you go through it you will never know how painful it is. I hope hope you get your miracle baby soon. Don’t give up and don’t lose hope. 💕
My parents tried to have me for over 3 years, and then they finally got pregnant, so don't worry, the time will come.
Girl I feel you 100% on everything you’re going through. I don’t know if you’ll read this comment or not, but I figured out that we have the same wedding anniversary as y’all and the same thing happened to us. We actively tried for two years. I had all the emotions you’re going through, and wondering what was God’s plan for me because I just felt so called to be a mother. He always has his perfect timing though because we were blessed with the most beautiful baby girl last year in December and she came when we needed her most. I don’t know you at all, but in a sense I feel like I do. I’ll be praying that God gives you strength, peace, and patience through this process, and that one day you will also be able to hold your precious miracle in your arms.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you for sharing your story! that is beyond beautiful
Your amazing. You just made the entire internet cry. I'm so happy that you got your miracle. I hope you get to experience all your passion with your little one.
Watching this after she had Story!!! It was all worth it ❤
My mom had troubles with infertility as well. She always calls me and my twin brother her miracle babies. You have to keep praying and having faith. I just want you to know that even when you DO get pregnant it may still be difficult, but you are strong!!! My mom was able to able to get through it and she was in bed rest the majority of the time, but here I am almost 13 years old and have good grades and am extremely athletic. Just know that there IS hope, and that I will be praying for you. YOU CAN DO THIS!!!💖💗💕❤️❤️
I've followed u guys for about 2 to 3 years and every single moment when one of your videos pop up I rush to watch it. The love you guys have for each other are clearly seen something that not many people have. A journey through infertility is not easy and the people that have gone through it will say the exact same thing, but through this journey you and Dallin will grow closer to each other the support and comfort you give each other that is so needed. And one day, I believe no matter how, you guys will be raising a child being the best and loving parents anyone could ever be. And every day I will continue to pray that you guys will be blessed with a child to raise as loving parents
Right at the moment when Bella hugged Dallin at 6:14, my tears began to fall down. T’was around 2021 when DELLA VLOGS showed up to my Facebook feed and I couldn’t stop following you both not only because of sharing how FUN LIFE could be but also making the most meaningful moments you guys can show as a married couple. It took 14 years before my sister and her husband finally had their twins born last 2020, and YOU ARE NOT ALONE Bella. God is with both of you. 🙌🏻 We will all keep praying as God knows what’s BEST for your marriage. Someday, it’ll all be WORTH IT. 🤎 Love lots, a fan from Philippines 🇵🇭
It took two years to get pregnant with my first baby. I remember that awful feeling of not knowing when the positive test would finally come and how crushing it was every time it was negative 😢 . I took clomid with monthly blood tests for a full year and then had a diagnostic laparoscopy surgery with no success. Switching medications to Letrozole is what finally did the trick for me. Sending you guys prayers. 💜
At 3:32 you said "I wish i had a time machine so that I would know that evrything would be okay". Well im watcing this video after you adopted Story so everything was okay! See in life it doesnt matter how many obsticals you go though, thos obsticals will help you reach the finish line! And now you have a beautiful baby girl! You and Story deserve the world and you are gonna be amazing parent.
xoxo,
Your time machine
I can’t imagine what you guys are going through. Watching this, I felt all the emotions you two were feeling. The nervousness, the excitement, and most of all the heartbreak… all I can say, is I’ll be keeping you guys in my thoughts. I have faith your time will come, and I hope you guys hold on to that faith as well. DON’T GIVE UP!! No matter how hard, I truly believe you guys will have a miracle!! Keeping you in my thoughts and wishing you guys all the best. Stay strong and keep your heads up! ❤️❤️
Sending you extra love. We tried for almost 3 years. 3 failed IUI cycles and the second IVF with a frozen transfer ended up working and I’m about 18 weeks along. You may feel like a science project but once you get that positive test, truly every needle and doctors appointment will be worth it ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️❤️ and God bless you in your journey and always!
Thank you for sharing all these vulnerable moments in your life. Struggling with infertility is one of the hardest things I have ever had to go through. Feeling so alone in it is one of the worst parts. Thank you for making me feel less alone.
To the Bella in this video.. you’re 2 years in the future living your dream with your baby girl that just turned 1 and you are happier than you’ve ever been ❤
I went through the same thing before I finally got pregnant after 8 years of trying. My husband and I now have a beautiful daughter, Beatrice, who is starting pre-school this year. It was all worth it in the end. I wish you guys the best of luck through this journey. Love and admire you two so much. After 2 whole years of watching you guys, I've realized what strong and kind people you guys are. Thank you for such inspiration!!❤❤❤
I am so sorry to see you going through this pain and suffering. I know that everything will be ok. You guys are so strong and inspiring. You opening up about your story will encourage others to do the same. I can’t believe how much you have grown both as a wife and as a human. I have learned so much from you guys. I’ve learned to have a better relationship with my brother, i’ve learned to always stay positive and so much more, that is all because you have taught me that. You are in my prayer’s. I love you guys!
I felt every bit of this video to my core and it pains me to see you guys going through this. My wife and I lived each and every moment of this. The doctors visits, the IUI attempts with failed results time after time.. The injections.. Three years of heartbreak but I can say that we did get our miracle baby who will be 4 this year. I see this video is a year old now and I pray so much that you guys have received that incredible news! Thank you for sharing this. You are absolutely NOT alone! We are with you!
*ur not a failure! ur so amazing and beautiful and god does have a plan for u guys! ur going to be blessed with such a beautiful family! I was diagnosed with PCOS since I was 13 (I’m 18 now turning 19 in November) and I want a family in the future with the person I’m in love with! I know it’s not the same as being infertile but the chance of me not being able to conceive and have a baby tears me apart and at such a young age too. I’m scared that when I’m older I’ll be told I’m infertile though…I’m praying for nourishment and rich health for all of us who wish to have a family in the future (or near future!)❤️🙏🏼*
We too struggled for 3 years then finally welcomed a baby girl last year. I believe in the power of prayer, now that you shared this struggle with us you have thousands of prayer warriors praying for the both of you!
Your honesty is unbelievable! Oh my gosh, one day Dallin & Bella this hard period of time will just be a story. It will be a small part of y’all’s lives. The day that you are blessed with your dreams you’ll look back on this video & feel so proud. You’re so strong. God is on your side, we are on your side!! You now have Hundreds of thousands of people praying for your success! We love you Dallin & Bella! Stay strong for that miracle baby!
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Bella you are one of the strongest people I know. What your going through is one of the hardest challenges life can through at you. Seeing you fight it is amazing, I will pray for you and a miracle baby! You two truly deserve a baby!
My mom went through the same thing. All the doctors said she couldn't get pregnant. But she's here today with my and my younger twin siblings. You'll get through this! I believe in you guys. I know this comment probably doesn't mean much but you'll be in my prayers, and I can't wait for you to finally have your little baby. And I promise you are NOT a failure. You're such a beautiful person inside and out, and though it's unfair, it'll get better. You can't control it, therefore it's not you're fault in the slightest. Sending love❤
Same. My mom and dad tried for 7 years and now they have me and my bro and my sis
i’m crying at work watching this during my lunch break😭 you are so strong bella, and you and dallin are going to be the best parents someday! gods timing is hard bc it’s not always what we want, but i know you’ll get your baby someday soon. keep up the good work. love you guys!
Cried through this. You are such an incredible woman and we are all so proud of you for sharing this. You are not alone, there are so many of us watching this who relate so much to you and sharing this helps us to feel less alone, so thank you x
Bella you can do this you are so strong and as long as you have a positive mindset everything will work out.❤️ Dallan I can tell In the videos that I watch Bella loves you so much. The fact that you stick by her side with all of this happening is amazing and shows are you guys have a great marriage. Praying for you guys and everything will work out❤️❤️
I can’t imagine the hurt and heartbreak you are feeling. This is one of my biggest fears when I want to start a family. Your definitely not the only one going through this. As an RN I seen infertility has been on the rise over the last 5 years. But like you said god has a plan and your time will come! Keep the faith!
I'm over here sobbing because I know this pain so well. We've been trying for years, ive been following you for ages. I'm in a church group for women struggling with infertility we read a devotion called In Due Time by Caroline harries. I highly recommend getting this devotional and sharing it with anyone around you with the same struggles. It helps beyond words to have a group of women that are going through the same thing. It's been my saving grace throughout all of this. Thank you for sharing your journey and I'm sending you baby dust. I pray we both get our miracle babies and everyone reading this with the same struggle I pray you do to!
I just wanted to give you guys a hug throughout this whole video❤️ thank you for being so open and vulnerable about a topic that is so personal and sensitive. I’ll support you guys no matter what, you deserve all the love and happiness coming your way :)
Literally I’m crying right now, I’m truly sorry for you guys. I really hope that one day you get to have those children and I also know that you guys are gonna be great parents.
Big love ❤️
My heart goes out to the two of you. I give you so much credit for the courage it took to make these videos and tell all of us. KEEP THE FAITH & GOD BLESS!!!
Awww Bella, you’re such a strong individual!! It takes a lot to share such a personal heartbreak with the world. Your videos always make me smile. Thank you for sharing your story. You’re amazing!! I’m honored to watch your journey. You are both in my prayers.
This goes to show that you NEVER know what’s going on behind closed doors!! We are Praying for you both!! Gods got you and he will use your story!! His timing is perfect!💗
My husband and I have been trying for a little over 3 years and I feel the same way you do Bella. I feel like a failure sometimes, like this is the one thing I should be able to give to him. Just know that no matter what happens, we are enough. You are enough. Be blessed, we can do this!❤
This is going to make me cry 😥 Whatever happened I will always support you guys! ❤ and btw you are no where near a failure just know that! Stay Strong🙏
I just know God will hear your prayers! And with all of us praying along with you, he’s really going to hear it! You will be amazing parents, stay strong and believe you will have your baby soon❤️
My heart goes out to you both. I can only imagine how hard this is for you. I worked in Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility for 8 1/2 years and saw lots of little miracles come from the procedures performed. I believe you too, will have your miracle baby. Stay strong Bella and Dallin!! I love you both! ❤
I don’t know the words to say to comfort you, but I appreciate you both sharing this hard time. I suffered 2 miscarriages and I struggled with telling anyone. Everything felt dark but sharing with people who love me really helped make it feel like we weren’t in it alone. It’s so hard to see movies where people get pregnant “on accident” and have unplanned pregnancies. God sees you and He’s preparing a miracle for you. He’s using you to help others right now.
I hope you will have your baby.
bella!! this video made me sob!! now you have your beautiful babygirl. all the trials and tribulations were worth it.
I went two years of trying and I was diagnosed with PCOS and doctors told me I had a 20% chance it was one of the hardest times. But I’m now pregnant with my miracle baby and due on Sunday! Have faith your sweet baby will come! I’m praying for y’all! ❤️
Congrats for the Baby, I‘m so so happy for you!!
Started watching because of Matt and Abby, and I love to see the real, everyday, good and hard things you are going through. Thank you for being so vulnerable and trusting us with this part of your life, we are lifting you up and want nothing but the best for your family. Much love and baby dust 🙏🏻 (and prayers too)
This made me sob so much. you both deserve the beautiful family you've been trying for for YEARS. I just look at my parents and think about how more deserving you two are than them. I wish they loved me the way I KNOW you both will love your kids. I love you both so much I can't wait to meet and watch your family grow❤ you're both so so strong for never giving up.
L&D nurse and you are definitely not alone!! There are SO MANY women that are going through this! So many people struggle with infertility but don’t want to talk about it! Don’t give up hope!
As a person who deals with the same thing your going through, I know how hard this is! Love you two so much!
Infertility is the hardest! My husband and I have been trying for a year and a half now. It’s hard because we want this so bad.
So my heart goes out to you guys during this tough season. This too shall pass. Praying that you get your miracle soon 💕
my parents tried for 19 years, went through all the procedures that were available at that point in time, but in the end, at 40yo they finally succeeded, after they told themselves they're never gonna try other methods 🥺
never lose hope, darling ❤
Man this was hard to watch. Thank you so much for sharing. I am immensely proud of you for handling it how you are. You are not alone. I’m praying you guys have good luck going forward! Be gentle with yourself, this to shall pass. Sending you and your husband so much love and support through this journey. ❤️
I was in tears watching this Bella. I’m so happy you have Dallin to hold and support you throughout this. All my prayers are to you and your future . I love you guys ! I hope everything works out !
You are NOT a failure Bella! You're so so strong! Your time will come❤️❤️❤️ sending lots of love!!!
We were struggling with infertility for 9 years. Now my baby is 7 months. It was very hard on me during that time of infertility and it felt like it was all my fault as well but we shouldn't think these things because they aren't true. I was honestly very amazing how we did end up finally getting pregnant. We didn't go to a doctor or anyting but one day sincerely prayed to God that if we should have children that we would and if it wasn't for his will then that we would accept it and be okay with that. And then after that prayer we believe that it happened almost immediately ❤ Stay strong, God will lead you. God bless you both❤
I am so sorry that you guys have to go through this, just know that god has perfect path for you guys. Know that we will keep you in our prayers and hope for your happiness. Don't forget to tell yourself that one day you will be an amazing mom with amazing children you will love and cherish for the rest of time. Love you through and through ❤
My husband and I have been struggling as well, and I got the news this week that I have PCOS. God made no mistakes when making our bodies 💗 I will be praying relentlessly for y’all!
The feelings your feeling are so real and valid. We went through infertility for 5 years until we were blessed by adopting our baby boy!! I promise promise promise it is worth every tear and depressing day!! I feel you so deeply, it is dark, it feels SO lonely. Something that was validating to me was a research study that showed people who go through infertility go through the same amount of stress as people who have cancer, it made my pain feel validated when I heard that. It truly is one of the hardest things. Lots of love to you and your husband. Praying for your miracle to happen soon!
I just wanted to say, y’all are in my thoughts and prayers.
I remember those days. The constant worry, even when you tried not to be. The feeling of failure for not only me but I felt like I was failing my husband. The thousands of pregnancy test, not being able to breathe waiting for it to tell us, then crying for days when they came back negative. Getting to the point when I would get angry with God.
You will never know how much you are helping other woman by sharing this journey. When we were going through this we felt like we had nobody. By sharing this, you’re letting others know, they are not alone.
You’re so right, when you’re holding your baby - it WILL all be worth it. Praying for you guys!!
Thank you so much for sharing this. Your testimony is so beautiful! It's really clear how these tough experiences are bringing you and Dallin closer. My mom told me that she was told her whole life that she would never be able to get pregnant, but after 5 years of trying, she was able to bring my brother into the world. There is hope, and everything will work out the way it's supposed to. Love you both so so much!
You guys are the strongest people! Thank you for always being unapologetically yourselves. Opening up and being vulnerable is hard, but when you have a community around you filled with love and positivity helps so much. You guys have been such a positive influence since I started watching you guys. I pray for your journey and wherever the road takes you guys! Always know that you’re never alone ❤️ I love you guys!
The TTC journey and those 2 week waits are just brutal. I had a missed miscarriage in Dec 2022 and trying to get pregnant afterwards was so painful. I just watched your video about you two adopting your baby. I'm so happy for you both! You were right, everything does work out in the end 💗
Watching this broke my heart. I love y'all. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I'm praying for you and for a miracle. It's really awesome that you could bring this to social media and share your story. ❤️
I'm going to pray for you everyday, you deserve to be a momma and Dallin a dad. 💛 sending so much love and good vibes to you and your family !!
Bella, I truly want to just say thank you. I truly understand what you’re going through. My husband and I have been trying for 3 years. I went in for a normal girl checkup and the doctor asked if we are trying. I was sent to a fertility dr. I was told 8 months ago that my fertility hormone is basically not there. I understand the feeling of failure. The feeling of wanting to see the time machine of the future. My husband has been so great but I feel like something is missing, like I’m not enough. Iui and ivf won’t work for us (doctors words, surrogacy is the only thing that we can do, we don’t have the money for that. This is sooo but I just wanted to say I understand and thank you for this
Thank you for being honest and open about your journey. Your story just makes me like y'all even more. My husband and I have been struggling for a year and it is so heart breaking when you see that negative test. God has his plan and don't forget that he loves you!
Been apart of this journey since day one. 💙 So thankful for y’all being in my life and I am thankful for getting to know you guys. I am praying for you guys. I know this is hard but God has a plan and you will get through this! I love you guys and we are here to support you and hold your hand. Thank you for sharing with us. We love you. God only gives battles to those who are strong! Love ya!! 💕
Thank you for sharing your story. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you to go through this every month, especially knowing how many comments you get from people asking if you're pregnant. I hope this helps people realize that those types of questions are insensitive. You never what is going on behind closed doors - trust that people will tell you if they are pregnant at the time they are willing to share! Sending you both so much love.
Oml. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I have no clue what's it's like going through this cause I'm 15, but I have been watching y'all for 2 years and y'all are amazing people. God has a plan for you and ik it will be worth it. I love y'all please know y'all are very very loved and in my prayers. ❤️🙏
Nothing but LOVE for you. This is one of the most difficult journeys. Wrapping you in prayer.
I can’t even try to comprehend what y’all are going through right now. And any kid would be lucky to have you both as parents. Your such kind and humble people. I Love you guys no matter what , I’ll keep you in my prayers ❤️
Seeing this video broke me into pieces. My heart breaks for you. I’m here to tell you that you aren’t alone there are other people that are suffering with the same thing; therefore, I recommend you reach out to those that can relate. It helps to relate to people who are or have gone through the same thing as you. It may seem like you are lost, confused, asking yourselves the question, “why me?” I’m here to tell you that God works everything for his good. god is with us through the good and the bad. Know that he works what may seem bad and he works it out!!! I know it’s hard and it sounds cliche but everything happens for a reason. Gods timing is the best timing!!! It’ll happen when you least expect if!! God is a miracle worker. Lean to your support system: Dallin, your family., his family, your friends. Props to Dallin giving you so much support. I’ll keep you guys in my prayers. God is with you through everything. God is good all the time!!! ❤
I found y’all through Matt and Abby, but I want to say thank you for being open and honest about your struggle and your journey.
you've got this Bella. keep fighting you are so strong!!! you'll get through this, you have Dallin who ill always be there for you. You are NOT a failure, stopping downing yourself and keep your head held high. The one day that you get that pregnancy's test it will be amazing. God choses his timing for a reason. Love you guys! You got this Bella!!!
Thank you for being honest and open. There something comforting, not about your struggle at all, but for someone like myself to know that I am not alone. It’s so easy for things to seem perfect, especially while watching influencers, but I take comfort in knowing that you struggle too. I love you & Gods perfect plan for you is so unbelievably beautiful! We are here for you. 💕