“I feel like I have to apologise” | Dealing With The Loss Of A Friend | Roman Kemp

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    Roman Kemp is contacted on a daily basis by young people who are struggling with their mental health. Still dealing with PTSD and his own feelings of loss and guilt after the death of his close friend Joe, Roman visits his dad for support and guidance.
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ความคิดเห็น • 31

  • @christina-clairegeorges3661
    @christina-clairegeorges3661 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    It is okay to set boundaries. You are not the 'Suicide guy' you are a man who cares about ensuring people know about the facts and issues surrounding suicide. ❤ As a survivor I thank you for your compassion, empathy and vocalisation of this.

  • @lwaliz
    @lwaliz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Heartbreaking to see you struggle, but there is no question you are doing a good thing and it's also good to stop whenever the burden of sharing your grief publicly would harm you. ❤

  • @paxtonloquist2383
    @paxtonloquist2383 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I absolutely adore the raw emotion and love that you can feel in this. Thank you for sharing and doing what you do! ❤

  • @sharonclarke9928
    @sharonclarke9928 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are a lovely caring man and will reach lots of young and old people you will never ever know about. Carry on with what you do. I lost my daughter 47 in 2022 and my son 43 in march this year 2024, not through suicide but through mental health. Take care Roman what you are doing will hepl more than you will ever know xxx❤

  • @sangeetawesley6683
    @sangeetawesley6683 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    A friend can't be replaced
    I lost my besty .and I'll never get over it ..
    He was someone who knew without words ,and he was Mr.depandable 😢

  • @bobbyball1057
    @bobbyball1057 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are brilliant Roman and loved by so many and have such amazing loving parents. Please stay strong and know that you are helping so many people, even though things must feel like hell at times X

  • @janvillars7172
    @janvillars7172 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I lost a dear friend over 20 years ago, you never forget xx

  • @elgun6125
    @elgun6125 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Some people are put on this earth for a reason. You can’t change what happened, but highlighting the dangers and showing people that there is help, and the fact that though it’s a struggle you’re getting through it, is the best thing you can do for Joe. Because there are thousands of people out there like Joe, who are desperate.

  • @stephanieoconnell2343
    @stephanieoconnell2343 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I can empathize. It’s almost like you’re living for two now. 😢

  • @hollymatton474
    @hollymatton474 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Raising awareness of the importance of mental health is such an important thing and the more that can be done to help people, the better. Mental health problems are something that so many people experience during their lives and so many people go unnoticed and before you know it, it's too late. We should all have someone to talk to or to show us what to do if we are struggling, it's OK to not be OK. ❤️

  • @littlewillowlinda
    @littlewillowlinda 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I lost my partner at 20 and was an absolute mess throughout my 20s bc I was already low before that. No one wanted to deal with my emotions and it was hard to see people move on even though I wanted to too. I’m getting better now that it’s been ten years. seeing the support he has and the raw emotions he feels makes me feel less alone.

  • @sangeetawesley6683
    @sangeetawesley6683 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😢

  • @daniellenichols9757
    @daniellenichols9757 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My best friend drank himself to death and I just KNOW he did it on purpose. It's still so damn fresh (Oct 11th) and I am so heartbroken and angry.

    • @davelewis6256
      @davelewis6256 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My best mate too, deliberately drank daily bottles of gin then died was 34

    • @soapflavour7547
      @soapflavour7547 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Skill issue

  • @ultraconservative
    @ultraconservative 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't live without meds. It's better this way.

  • @lauras884
    @lauras884 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Where can I watch the documentary outside of the UK?

  • @supadayv9922
    @supadayv9922 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First thing my therapist told me after the initial "why are you here" phase was this:
    There is nothing wrong, or defective, or missing, with you. You are human and to be human is knowing yourself.

  • @scottedkins1185
    @scottedkins1185 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I loss my best friend on my birthday he killed his self and u never forgot that day and people say it get better it does u just learn how to cope

  • @lynpip3097
    @lynpip3097 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Young men killing themselves isn't knew. I was working my arse off with a new baby and I walked in to hung partner. I got zero support and I worked in mental health care
    w

  • @sawdonhiphop
    @sawdonhiphop 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, feel for you! It's shit! Can see the burden you are carrying. try and flip everything around... Joe obviously like you and what you stood for so put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself would you be ok with what you are doing? If that answer is yes... then you have your answer and need to accept that he would trust and support your judgement. 💪. (Ex Singer struggling from depression and apathy- taking fluxotine).

  • @SarahBogue-je4ky
    @SarahBogue-je4ky 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Roman I love you❤.
    My friend die form hit on by the bus xx

  • @boombababool1993
    @boombababool1993 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't knews fore ,what's that?

  • @kayenne221
    @kayenne221 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When it becomes a TV show, it is no longer about the person/people who lost their lives!

  • @talvezvocemeentenda
    @talvezvocemeentenda 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    sorry if I'm being insensitive, but apologize for what?

    • @charlotted1321
      @charlotted1321 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think he feels guilty that Joe's story is not as private and he feels he's doing it for fame. Complete untrue though, he's saving a lot of lives, just proves how selfless he is

  • @DrumNbassSets
    @DrumNbassSets 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This might sound raw, but I'm the complete opposite of this guy , I feel letting it out causes more drama and a bad aura for everyone. Most people feeling down are usually hooked on pharma or hard drugs, we need to look harder at the root of the problems

    • @melaniewingar7520
      @melaniewingar7520 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm not hooked on hard drugs or pharma. Ain't sharing my problems with no one though. That's what society does.

  • @lucystephanieproperties
    @lucystephanieproperties 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Get closer to Jesus or God and you won't have this problem anymore. God is love. Men who are followers of Christ are quite admirable. Let's pray for each other that we may all get through our hardships in life. 🙏