Living in an abusive environment
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ส.ค. 2024
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and b) stopped beating myself up for being trans.
Your courage, self-awareness and by extension empathy are worthy of the highest respect. I agree with Wulfie about your calming voice and to that would add facial expressions. I do hope you're feeling better than you were when you made this vlog five months ago. Keep on keeping on!
i care about you endlessly. you are worthy of happiness and recovery. stay safe, beautiful💜😊
Thank you so much! Your kindness means a lot🙈🙌😘💜💜💜
Sending you lots of love. Keep going. 💛
Thank you lovely😘💜💜💜
Hi Kay!
It does pass, but it takes time and positive action. My brother made the mistake of trying to make our nightly warring parents accept and approve of him, and give him unconditional love. He failed, or rather they did, and he ended up passing the poison on to his own children. None of them have married, and he was divorced twice, lost various jobs and business ventures went awry. Seeing this happen, he was 12 years older, I waved two fingers, took myself off and in effect became a survivor. But I didn't find true happiness until I found my own identity, a) as an artist and b) when I stopped beating myself up for being trans. TH-cam only has my outer identity, but thanks for the 'like' on Twitter for my #kidsontheedge comment.
I agree with Wulf about your calming voice, and I'd add facial expressions. I do hope you're feeling better, your courage and understanding are beyond praise.
first, i want to say that you don't have to apologize for being a human being with emotions and that you cannot fake them. You are entitled to feel how you feel (it's totally normal in the conditions you are living in) and to make a video about this topic or any other that you chose and need to express.
It's part of your vlogging and healing process : you just have to feel that you have the right to share and if it's not happy today, one day it be :)
secondly, I want to tell you why I send you my support - I cannot attest to the reasons of anybody else.
I know how scary it is to live in constant fear in domestic violent environment as I have experienced it first hand.
I know how depressing it can be to feel misunderstood or plainly not understood at all, or worse, not even listened to.
As I also have ptsd, have had recurring depression and phobias, I also know how important it is to support one another in a community of people who suffer from various mental illnesses - especially since I heard your vlogs and I could gather that your family wasn't helping you, and now you confirm also that your mother decides what she wants to understand, when she thinks it's relevant to her... and she totally misses the point : she has to accept what you say because it's relevant to you ! you're the one who's best qualified to say how you are feeling and in which situations, and if she cannot understand or wishes to, that's another issue.
You may want to share with her articles to educate and make her understand how you feel, if she's not abusive towards you.
My goal in sending you my support, or that image earlier, was to show you that I care, and want to alleviate even if it's a little bit, and maybe brighten your day a bit :)
I have no other motives than to send some compassion and kindness :)
and to tell you that you ARE worthy of positive attention, you are such a caring person, Kay, and you have gotten plenty negative or ignorant ones before, now allow some positivity into your life and your heart :)
just be selective as to protect yourself from those who might be untrustworthy, be on your guard, but don't shut the world around off because a lot of us care about you :)
have you ever considered reading children's books on youtube? You have an awesome, soothing voice
Honestly, I've never ever considered that!😁😂
Kay Ska if you ever do, I'd love a link to them