She was playing games, when he said he didn't think he could make her happy he didn't mean it in the way she understood it, marriage is a give and take deal, the woman has to make the man happy as well...But what he meant there is that he felt a high maintenance energy from her and therefore she would never be happy no matter how he treated her, smart man..He dodged a bullet and a divorce.
She expected two ego boosts: one from her initial rejection of him, and a second from him trying to change her mind. She is annoyed at being denied the second ego boost because he was not as into her as she had thought.
Edit - I am just making a comment about the kind of logic the woman may be using and how she is probably thinking. I don't support that or anyone here. Neither the man or the woman as we truly don't know what happened. She wanted him to keep pursuing her, with lies and even manipulation. The thing is when he accepted her rejection with no words, she felt unwanted. If he really wanted her, he would have tried to persuade her and win her over, the chase. Since he just accepted whatever she said, it means that she didn't matter much to him either and that hurts her. Her thinking is "that's it, you just accepted my explanation, you won't try to win me over, ask for a second chance and what you did wrong"
I think anyone is husband/wife material. It just really depends on what person is right for you. Some people genuinely will fight for the girl they want and some won’t. There isn’t any “way” to define it you know, it just is. I’m not condoning any of her statements; I think something is wrong deep inside of her and she doesn’t even realize it, but everyone’s out of their mind, especially the more you get to know them.
I’m glad she demonstrated that you can be a nice man, a good man, and still have standards and not be walked all over. She’s chasing the butterflies that only drama can create. She’s broken and doesn’t even realize it.
Forreal, that man is a straight G. He realized she had unrealistic standards and wanted to change him, said "Yeah, I don't think I can make you happy either", very polite, no finger pointing, and kept it pushing. This girl is STILL in her feelings about it making videos talking about, proving that she's delusional. Meanwhile this guy is probably out there finding his future wife. Big respect to that dude, whoever it was.
I have known many women like this. One of them just turned 30 and still searching for a husband despite being the most beautiful woman I've probably ever met. It's really sad.
So that's what she wanted: a man that would "change for her" while she would never have to change for him. She has yet to learn it's about compromise. Until she does, she may be alone a long time.
@@ViolentMLGThe guy is not out there looking for nothing cause men are lazy mostly. She is the one taking initiative and putting herself out there. She is pretty, she is dating, she is collecting info, what is the matter? Never heard a mate with stories before? War on women and misogyny just gets rebranded everytime.
This man could beat animals for all we know Our only source of information we have for how good of a person he is comes from this insane woman So hardly reliable info
By that he actually meant she comes across too high maintenance for him to make her happy, so he wants no part of it. It was just a polite way of saying it. Most decent guys try not to be too blunt with girls so as not to hurt their feelings.
I cannot believe i start to actually gasp when she said "he didn't even try". I gasp in shock and terrified of how can some woman being this toxic and horrible as a person.
Well. It used to be “protect me, feed me, help me and my babies survive in the wild.” But now society does all that and they make thier own money. So what’s left other than “make me happy?” They don’t need men for anything else now.
So many girls I know only dated men that can't take no for an answer and later complained all men were horrible. Ladies, you choose to date horrible men.
I think the man knew exactly what he was saying when he said "I can never make you happy" and it wasn't what she thought. She's too narcissistic and self-righteous to understand how smart and truly good of a man she just let go of.
Those words are legendary and prophetic because it admits a much greater depth of her character than she would ever be willing to truly reflect on, while still posing it in a nice and cordial manner.
Women by nature are narcissists, though there are many exceptions. Why do you think they constantly work on their appearance and hate anyone who dares insult their looks?
@@protorhinocerator142 Einstein was an extremely brilliant scientist which means he was very logical. Does logic apply to relationship with women? It's rather emotional thing than logical. No wonder he wasn't good with women.
She didn't want him to manipulate her, she wanted him to beg for her to stay so she could leave anyway except with an inflated ego. Good on him for having enough self respect, and being aware enough to know he would never make this girl happy no matter what he did.
She didn't want to be manipulated. She just wanted to be the one who had the last laugh and reaffirm the relationship is over. She deserves as much respect as any garden tool
Reminds me if the bird who came into the shop yesterday. She kept on looking at me. I ignored her. Then she did an aggressive look to force me to look. Then she was satisfied that I fancied her. Then she ignored me 😅
Unfortunately, most women nowadays seem to want "players" instead of real men who want a life-mate, and that's why so many "players" get "in on the action" just to use her while "the fun" lasts and then dump her because no one wants to keep dancing on needles around a single person. Then those women go on to complain how men are selfish cheating liars while that's the type they were looking for and gladly going for while dissing the good, honest men. And once they hit their 30s, 40s or 50s (if ever), they realize they wasted their youth on scumbags, but instead of admitting their own mistakes they blame men for everything and call them perverts for not wanting to waste time with them.
"He didn't even try", i.e. he didn't beg, grovel, plead, panic. "Husband energy", fellows, is servitude energy. Where she is the princess or queen in an untouchable spherical field of her own self-assumed holiness and can-do-no-wrongness. Toxicity at it's most glaring.
If a good man respected her decision to end the relationship, yet she's mad because he didn't respect the boundaries and choices she made and wanted him to ignore them, I'm 99% positive that this "husband energy" she's looking for is actually "toxic energy".
Uh, no, she over complimented the man in this scenario by misidentifying him as a good man, when in reality he was only looking to use her for sex, but was not willing to earn it through giving off any signs he was a capable potential husband aka long term partner, if you think somehow this woman is toxic you're a lazy entitled man who doesn't understand rejection.
@@l.n3187 There’s absolutely no evidence to support that claim from the original video; only evidence that she put up boundaries, he acknowledged them, and she’s mad about him not pushing those boundaries.
"Husband energy" means someone they can totally emasculate, shield away from their friends, go through a pricey divorce a decade later because he's "boring" - take all of his assets and then go on podcasts to say how they escaped a "toxic relationship"
My theory: “husband energy” makes a very vague and arbitrary reference to a very specific thing. She told him she wanted to end things because he doesn’t have it, in hopes that he would try to convince her that he does have it so that he could keep her. But because it’s so vague, he’d have to supplicate himself to her in order to “learn” what it means, but of course her definition of it would change with her mood 😂 she was trying to get him into puppet mode, and she’s mad that he didn’t fall for it.
She doesn't explicitly state that, he doesnt/didn't have husband energy. All she said was, she sent him a text, saying she doesn't see it going anywhere. I HIGHLY DOUBT she told him some stupid shit like "you don't have husband energy"
@@KingGogh Either way she still expected him to be on his knees begging her to stay and wondering what he should change about himself for her to stay with him. That way her ego will be inflated and as a plus tell her friends about it or post it on her socials so she will be praised for her "queen behavior".
Men talking about "wife material" and women talking about "husband energy", I'm wondering when all these secret physicists suddenly started applying their complex science to dating.
It's worth considering the serious stakes for women in finding a partner, and doing some real reading about what they have to do to vet a man and suss out his potential weaknesses. Men often have resources and physical strength at their disposal, while women sometimes have nothing but their good looks, femininity that might be damaged, & their cunning. Basically, the goals & strategies necessary for social-sexual marketplace success are arguably much simpler for men, albeit we must disregard the ubiquitous nice-guy social programming & embrace the benevolent masculinity of being both a provider AND a strong protector/leader (who finds his place as a contributor within the hierarchy of other men, even if he's at the bottom rung of solid contributors but higher than 2 to 3 rungs of non-solid men.)
Personally I like games , all my relationships were games with very smart and attractive women, that is what makes relationship healthy and interesting, .,
The part where she says "he didn't say he would change" made me so furious. You women think we men need to dance around you. NO MAN SHOULD CHANGE FOR A WOMAN! A MAN SHOULD CHANGE ONLY FOR HIS OWN WELLBEING!!!
@@tarico4436 hell yeah, you see that. Men, get away from these kinds. She is cute and she is using this maximally, but she is spoiled, drama queen, princess which takes a lot and gives nothing emotionally or financially speaking. THIS IS THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU DO NOT WANT BESIDE YOU!
"He didn't even try" He did. You rejected him. And now you expect him to what? Beg? "Oh I'll change..." Change what? I'm a good man with a good income who can pull dates with attractive women & who treats them well... what exactly in that package am I supposed to change? What I don't want is a manipulative asshole who says no when she means yes. I don't want to try to read minds. Looking for a partner not a puzzle. Play games on someone else's time & dime honey. Buhbye.
Or he might have just been honest and peace'd out. If I went on a date and the woman told me she didn't think it will work out, I won't argue the point, I'd wish her a great day and keep it moving. Recall that to try and argue the fact will get you accused of being clingy by some women. Seeing as you can never win that game you might as well not play it.
exactly, if he had fought she would have made a video saying, that shes a first impression gal, and that changing is weak, and he should have came correct the first time lol. But there is a part of these girls, that is so fun... Its rediculous when you get on the program, and are in that top echelon of dudes they are looking at, they want you to pretend to be upset at the prospect of asking to be changed this is a way to maintain frame, where she can still say to get lost, or like she said, she basically wants manipulated and fucked like his personal whore, and she will do what daddy says and thinks, but he has to approach it from the perspective, of, obviously I and this bitch both know she is crazy, and she just wants to be slapped around and made into a girlfriend, she isn't a good match as a partner, and could even lead you into all sorts of drama, but... if a man is keen to these games and, i have to admit, sometimes i am attracted to this, because they all do it, you cant be mad a female psychology or ill fuck your girlfriend while you cry about her being how she is lmaooo. Find a woman who isn't so upfront about needing to be lead toxically, thats the balance, every woman wants it, not all will say it, if you find a "good girl" and treat her with a little edge, she will never find that again, she will be addicted to you, because everyone else will treat her how it appears she should be treated, but females crave the mystery and the edge, they want to know you care a lot, but that you can send them on the way anytime, I don't think this means you should pretend to care or that you should always be looking for ways to end a relationship. its just that this is happening and you can try to date a whale and pretend hypergamy isn't also happening for her, but its a denial of reality...@@thathandsomedevil0828
Lolololol, hold on HOLD OONNN! She dumped him, and he was cool about it and she went: Oh I'm not worth begging for? She deserves to be dumped by every next guy ever! Never get married!
She didn't want to be manipulated, she wanted to manipulate him. She was looking for him to jump theough all her "husband energy" hoos for her and he didn't play the game. Good for him.
@@bobbyjohnson5637 Agreed. This is nonsense. Why the fuck would I just marry someone who loves me but I have no feelings for them. That's not fair to the other person. Marry someone you love and they love you back!
@@ayarikiyo2178 That is what they meant. The point was don't marry someone just because you love them. Marry someone who also loves you back. It's just not as catchy when you break it down.
@@ayarikiyo2178 Would you marry someone you love that DOES NOT love you back. Or, would you marry someone you love who ALSO loves you back? That's what the comment means. It is not nonsense as you misinterpreted it.
That’s how fucked up the minds are of so many of these chicks. No matter what you do, no matter what you tell them, literally _anything_ or even _nothing_ you do will be used against you. It’s an unwinnable fight. So the only way to win is to not engage with it.
@@hiqayathGo back to the first video he uploaded and check the year in which that was uploaded. Most people would be lucky if their career in comedy lasted a few years. He may not be uploading consistently, but I still see the old magic shine. Guy is talented as hell. Let's appreciate that.
Very obvious daddy issues, that one! You can't say you're not interested and then get all offended that he doesn't enforce his will over your boundaries.
The tainted are always superficial, I have yet to be proven wrong. „These are my tats get a grip!!1“ well I rest my case, if you truly weren’t superficial you would shrug about my opinion and not give a shit.
@@singleproppilot bs. Are u gonna reject someone just bc of a star on their arm or something? Who r u to judge someone bc of what they put on their skin?
@@henry.-.2183 If I’m considering that person as a potential mate, I can judge them on absolutely any criteria I please. Being discriminatory is literally the whole point of dating.
She doesn't see it going anywhere, that's fine that's how she feels. The man respectfully accepted her decision. Mutual understanding, excellent, but she wanted him to try and manipulate her??? That's the kind of husband she wants? My head hurts. Literally, I started to get a headache
Girls/women prefer a guy who is ready to lie to them and manipulate them, apparently because to them it means he is ready to make things up or invest time and effort to keep her happy about her self-illusions.
She doesn't realize husband energy isn't a thing until marriage, and if she doesn't want him now, then that 'husband energy' will get real old quick after marriage
That is the number one reason why I don't date anymore. "He didn't even try." Because you said you didn't see things going any further and he had the same outlook, now that he realizes there's no point in even trying with you he's moving on just like I would🤙
I don’t appreciate this either-then some guys think we ALL mean “yes” when we say “no.” Can’t she just say what she means? Anyway. That guy sounds like an emotionally healthy guy, good for him🤷♀️
I recently watched a video of a dumb young woman complaining about men asking for consent to kiss her after a date. She literally said that men need to take a risk and just kiss her without asking beforehand. Yeah, so they can being accused for sexual assault. Risk getting arrested and canceled because she likes a bold man who takes risks. It’s like she doesn’t realize that’s exactly what feminists/women have been complaining about.
She really didn't understand that he wasn't being nice- he was telling her off, telling her that he was actually too good for her, that he saw through her and was just getting some easy play, that she was selfish, narcissistic, not long-term material, and that he had no intention of taking her seriously. And the fact that she is making this video about how he didn't grovel proves that she isn't in his league or even girlfriend material.
If I went out on a few dates with someone, and they said "I don't see husband energy" or "You're not my husband" I would run. I could see that conversation happening months, or ever years later, but it sounds like this was just after a few dates. He was right to say "Cool, there's not chemistry--hope you find what you seek." What she seeks she'll hopefully figure out. Wanting to be manipulated is a sign of some other deep issues.
Great. This saves me the trouble of dumping you. It would have never worked out, due the obvious. Due to what obvious? Nice try. Have a nice life. Bye.
What she means is her biological clock is trying to break down her door & she's looking for someone to propose before getting to know each other so she can have kids then divorce him & have him on the hook for support & alimony for next 18yrs.
She will someday refer to the guy she rejected and who decided to not "fight for her" as the "one who got away", especially when she finds out that he married a better woman and now has a family.
That man didn't just dodge a bullet with her but an entire lifetime of frustration, grief, and regret!
Amen to that, learn to thank God for closed doors indeed. She wanted husband energy after the first few dates 😂
AMEN BRO AMEN
400 🎉
It wasn't a bullet, it was Schwarzenegger's squad from Predator when they mowed down the jungle.
So true.
She felt rejected when he agreed!!😂😂
I hope she sees this comment
She felt rejected by the rejected, how strange and ironic. she definitely has to see this comment.
She was playing games, when he said he didn't think he could make her happy he didn't mean it in the way she understood it, marriage is a give and take deal, the woman has to make the man happy as well...But what he meant there is that he felt a high maintenance energy from her and therefore she would never be happy no matter how he treated her, smart man..He dodged a bullet and a divorce.
Backfire Bigtime! 😂
Grow up lil girl.
He was never rejected it was a shit test
If a good man tells you he can't make you happy it's because you don't want to be happy. AKA nothing is good enough, including yourself.
That's why I love that line! Works SO well on entitled women. So that when she tells her story, other bros know to dodge her too! 😂💙👑🔥
Amen
@@Lrd.Osiris It's pretty brilliant. Send her back to the dating market unknowingly warning men about herself. Bravo good sir.
Nobody should depend on someone else for most of their happiness
@@Astral_Dusk That is exactly it. I hate the term red flag but if anything is a red flag its someone who struggles to maintains their own happiness.
"Make me happy" is such a massive red flag - it's literally an impossible task to "make" someone happy when they are deeply unhappy within themselves.
Yep I agree. If you yourself aren't happy, no one else on the planet can fill that void.
Well said my man. I couldn't agree more. 💯
You can make someone unhappy but you can’t make them happy. I think she’s the manipulative one.
“Make me happy” is the bridge to codependency land. He made the right choice not to walk across it. 👍
all I did was try to keep my exgf happy, but she'd come up with something new every single day to be pissed off about.
He didn’t grovel and humiliate himself over her. Apparently she ain’t got the “wife energy” going on! Well played, my dude!
nailed it
She looks like she falls into the hit it and quit it category every Friday night.
Dude power bruh. 😂
Apparently this thing called the internet updated men to do differently from the 90s.
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Girl: "You're not the one for me."
Guy: "I agree."
Girl: "How dare you."
Yup, that's par for the course.
How dare you not chase me, and beg on ur knees so that i could boost my ego
@@baazinews1027 well said
She expected two ego boosts: one from her initial rejection of him, and a second from him trying to change her mind. She is annoyed at being denied the second ego boost because he was not as into her as she had thought.
women are hard
Her: "I dont think you're husband energy."
Him: "Understandable, have a nice day!"
Her: "Ugh why won't men just abuse me like they normally do.." 😮💨🤣
To listen to someone does not mean you are being manipulated.
@@protorhinocerator142😂😂😂😂 da fuq does that mean. That's so hilarious. 😂
Edit - I am just making a comment about the kind of logic the woman may be using and how she is probably thinking. I don't support that or anyone here. Neither the man or the woman as we truly don't know what happened.
She wanted him to keep pursuing her, with lies and even manipulation. The thing is when he accepted her rejection with no words, she felt unwanted. If he really wanted her, he would have tried to persuade her and win her over, the chase. Since he just accepted whatever she said, it means that she didn't matter much to him either and that hurts her. Her thinking is "that's it, you just accepted my explanation, you won't try to win me over, ask for a second chance and what you did wrong"
Do you want to become crazy? Just live with those kinds of women. The guy was smart, though. =)
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She was wrong. He is husband material. But she isn't wife material.
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Spot on!
I think anyone is husband/wife material. It just really depends on what person is right for you.
Some people genuinely will fight for the girl they want and some won’t. There isn’t any “way” to define it you know, it just is.
I’m not condoning any of her statements; I think something is wrong deep inside of her and she doesn’t even realize it, but everyone’s out of their mind, especially the more you get to know them.
Idk if I'll go that far. But she's DEFINITELY NOT wifey material.
She doesn't need a boyfriend or a husband, she needs a good therapist.
A Black man is what she needs, every night at least.
A great solulu to her delulu
Correction - she needs a father.
@@Atreus21 Not a daddy, tho 👀
Agreed, delulu it is
I’m glad she demonstrated that you can be a nice man, a good man, and still have standards and not be walked all over. She’s chasing the butterflies that only drama can create. She’s broken and doesn’t even realize it.
Forreal, that man is a straight G.
He realized she had unrealistic standards and wanted to change him, said "Yeah, I don't think I can make you happy either", very polite, no finger pointing, and kept it pushing.
This girl is STILL in her feelings about it making videos talking about, proving that she's delusional.
Meanwhile this guy is probably out there finding his future wife.
Big respect to that dude, whoever it was.
I have known many women like this. One of them just turned 30 and still searching for a husband despite being the most beautiful woman I've probably ever met. It's really sad.
So that's what she wanted: a man that would "change for her" while she would never have to change for him. She has yet to learn it's about compromise. Until she does, she may be alone a long time.
@@mikeoxlong3676 Sad? Don’t bother. Many men are single and miserable as ugly as their are. They deserve your pity.
@@ViolentMLGThe guy is not out there looking for nothing cause men are lazy mostly. She is the one taking initiative and putting herself out there. She is pretty, she is dating, she is collecting info, what is the matter? Never heard a mate with stories before? War on women and misogyny just gets rebranded everytime.
she is so full of red flags, that you can already see most of them in that short video
yup the personality, and the tattoo's self harming is a big red flag.
Yep she has some issues
More red flags than a CPP parade...
@@abelfaber4457 Tattoos is a red flag? Wild.
@@martinroncetti4134ussr parade )
"Husband energy at the moment" says it all
Thanks for the likes
She was a bit tired of being run through. 304 phase pays its toll.
She's looking for "husband energy, for the moment" let that sink in
Nah, better to not dwell too long with these people. Never a good outcome.
😂😂😂😂 yeah til she got that bag
LOL can't believe I missed the biggest flag here!
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Yeah caught that straight away ‘at the moment’. This 304 thinks husbands are just for Christmas
I’ll never understand why people expose their behaviour on social media, what a time to be alive.
@davidtrojanowski1861 Its because people are dumb and have no self awareness.
They think they are right. That’s why.
@@nickcarroll8565 mental illness is powerful
This is the ‘look at me!’ generation. Literally anything for clout..
We truly live in dark times
He didn't even say "You're not good enough for me," he said "I don't think I could make you happy."
She just lost a real gem.
He know he can't make her orgasm. But hey atleast he still got an ejaculation 😂
This man could beat animals for all we know
Our only source of information we have for how good of a person he is comes from this insane woman
So hardly reliable info
@@ohrightok9750 I'm pretty sure she would have said so if he beat animals
By that he actually meant she comes across too high maintenance for him to make her happy, so he wants no part of it. It was just a polite way of saying it. Most decent guys try not to be too blunt with girls so as not to hurt their feelings.
@@RachelDeRosier010894 how can you be pretty sure of what she would or wouldnt say.
You dont know this woman.
I cannot believe i start to actually gasp when she said "he didn't even try". I gasp in shock and terrified of how can some woman being this toxic and horrible as a person.
Max is back!! You sir are hilarious. Your fans missed you.
yayyy
Facts! I been waiting for the next MaximBady vid for sooo long. Glad he's still around ^_^
I missed you guys here too but I’m all over instagram facebook and TikTok, you should follow me there too❤❤
@@MaximBady
Many people don't use those social medias.
Please stay in TH-cam
@@MaximBadytik tok is banned in many countries, Facebook is run by a twisted democrat funding Alien. Most people don't use these.
"Make ME happy" is such a deranged, mega-egomaniacal request.
Haha mega-egomaniacal
That's such a perfect word for the times we live in at the moment haha
Facts
Well it isn't, and you're just some TH-cam weirdo.
Men are meant to make their woman happy.
The problem is that many women just try their hardest to stay miserable. We avoid those women.
Well. It used to be “protect me, feed me, help me and my babies survive in the wild.” But now society does all that and they make thier own money. So what’s left other than “make me happy?” They don’t need men for anything else now.
Translation: I wanted to be able to change him to fit my needs, but I wanted to gaslight him into doing it himself.
This. Then she gets upset when he pulls out the reverse uno card. That dude is my hero.
How dare he agree with what she said!! Haha
Exactly, she also might be trolling too
@@joet7136The funny part is he didn’t pull the reverse uno, he agreed with her that he’s not the one for her
So many girls I know only dated men that can't take no for an answer and later complained all men were horrible.
Ladies, you choose to date horrible men.
That snake tattoo says it all. Modern Eve. Run. 🏃
"he didn't think he could make her happy" - he was correct.
No one can.
When that sentence says more about her than it does him… lol
I think the man knew exactly what he was saying when he said "I can never make you happy" and it wasn't what she thought. She's too narcissistic and self-righteous to understand how smart and truly good of a man she just let go of.
Those words are legendary and prophetic because it admits a much greater depth of her character than she would ever be willing to truly reflect on, while still posing it in a nice and cordial manner.
Yeah, it was a very insightful and spot on reply that went right over her head.
100%
Nobody can make her happy.
And why would you want to try.
@@BWater-yq3jxsome people just like the challenge
Women by nature are narcissists, though there are many exceptions.
Why do you think they constantly work on their appearance and hate anyone who dares insult their looks?
Even Einstein couldn't find the formula for the energy she wants
Einstein was crap with women.
He really was a smart man.
@@protorhinocerator142
Einstein was an extremely brilliant scientist which means he was very logical. Does logic apply to relationship with women? It's rather emotional thing than logical. No wonder he wasn't good with women.
@@pasjonatpl I'm sorry, but women and logic are like water and oil, they just don't mix. That said, I don't think most women know what logic is.
Here's her formula. $=♥️
Husband E = mc2
where mc = more cash.
"He didn't even try to change".
I wonder who is the real manipulator here...
She didn't want him to manipulate her, she wanted him to beg for her to stay so she could leave anyway except with an inflated ego.
Good on him for having enough self respect, and being aware enough to know he would never make this girl happy no matter what he did.
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Nah, my take is she wanted him to take charge of her needs and not have to deal with them herself
@@allthe1 😂😂😂, you are still a kid
@@babitapandhare1889 aren't we all
Facts
She didn't want to be manipulated. She just wanted to be the one who had the last laugh and reaffirm the relationship is over. She deserves as much respect as any garden tool
When on her back she becomes a construction machine
is this calling a spade a spade?
This
@@Quantris more like calling a hoe a hoe
Reminds me if the bird who came into the shop yesterday.
She kept on looking at me. I ignored her. Then she did an aggressive look to force me to look. Then she was satisfied that I fancied her. Then she ignored me 😅
She wants a handler, not a husband. Real men don't have time for games. A marriage doesn't either.
Unfortunately, most women nowadays seem to want "players" instead of real men who want a life-mate, and that's why so many "players" get "in on the action" just to use her while "the fun" lasts and then dump her because no one wants to keep dancing on needles around a single person.
Then those women go on to complain how men are selfish cheating liars while that's the type they were looking for and gladly going for while dissing the good, honest men.
And once they hit their 30s, 40s or 50s (if ever), they realize they wasted their youth on scumbags, but instead of admitting their own mistakes they blame men for everything and call them perverts for not wanting to waste time with them.
Raising kids is hard. Could you imagine raising kids with someone who is more like your opponent in a game, rather than a teammate?
You mean wife
She wasn’t feeling “Husband energy”, because he didn’t propose. From his response, he was equally ready to end the relationship.
@@alphagt62And who can blame him? He would have been in for a lifetime of head games with that woman.
"He didn't even try", i.e. he didn't beg, grovel, plead, panic. "Husband energy", fellows, is servitude energy. Where she is the princess or queen in an untouchable spherical field of her own self-assumed holiness and can-do-no-wrongness. Toxicity at it's most glaring.
If a good man respected her decision to end the relationship, yet she's mad because he didn't respect the boundaries and choices she made and wanted him to ignore them, I'm 99% positive that this "husband energy" she's looking for is actually "toxic energy".
those girls just need to say i like badboy
@@allenmare6179 Then said women will complain that their men are terrible, sigh
Daddy issues
Uh, no, she over complimented the man in this scenario by misidentifying him as a good man, when in reality he was only looking to use her for sex, but was not willing to earn it through giving off any signs he was a capable potential husband aka long term partner, if you think somehow this woman is toxic you're a lazy entitled man who doesn't understand rejection.
@@l.n3187 There’s absolutely no evidence to support that claim from the original video; only evidence that she put up boundaries, he acknowledged them, and she’s mad about him not pushing those boundaries.
the man dodged a missile, not a bullet a freaking missile.
Good call sir, good call.
A nuclear missile
"Husband energy" means someone they can totally emasculate, shield away from their friends, go through a pricey divorce a decade later because he's "boring" - take all of his assets and then go on podcasts to say how they escaped a "toxic relationship"
Don’t forget he’s a “narcissist”. They’re favorite line
@@Lorenzo3Kand “controlling”
You left out that after the divorce she will claim she is a "self made Strong Independent woman".
Don’t forget the buzz words. Regressive, misogynistic, male ego, don’t know how to read a woman etc
Ah yes how to spot a narcissist: call other people a narcissist @@Lorenzo3K
Kids, that’s what we call “dodging a bullet”.
My theory: “husband energy” makes a very vague and arbitrary reference to a very specific thing. She told him she wanted to end things because he doesn’t have it, in hopes that he would try to convince her that he does have it so that he could keep her. But because it’s so vague, he’d have to supplicate himself to her in order to “learn” what it means, but of course her definition of it would change with her mood 😂 she was trying to get him into puppet mode, and she’s mad that he didn’t fall for it.
Nailed it. She tried to sell him on her shit-test subscription service and he hung up the phone.
she tried to manipulate him and got frustrated when he stood up for himself
She doesn't explicitly state that, he doesnt/didn't have husband energy. All she said was, she sent him a text, saying she doesn't see it going anywhere. I HIGHLY DOUBT she told him some stupid shit like "you don't have husband energy"
@@KingGogh Either way she still expected him to be on his knees begging her to stay and wondering what he should change about himself for her to stay with him. That way her ego will be inflated and as a plus tell her friends about it or post it on her socials so she will be praised for her "queen behavior".
❤🗣️🤦🏾♂️ My head hurts 🤣😂😅
1:24 "Go and download candy crush and leave these good men alone"😂😂😂
He's right!!
Bro just roasted and seasoned his food
The man was mature enough to notice the red flags early. What a wise guy
he got the test drive already😂😂😂😂
Men talking about "wife material" and women talking about "husband energy", I'm wondering when all these secret physicists suddenly started applying their complex science to dating.
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"i'm only looking for husband-energy AT THE MOMENT"
All said
Sugar daddy; she wants a sugar daddy.
Former Street dweller?
She'll be looking for cat energy before the decade ends . . .😽
Good catch
@@guysky3873 savage
Yeah, that was a smooth line. I don't think I can make you happy. And he was right. He couldn't even make her happy agreeing with her.
SHE can be manipulated? This is LITERALLY her complaining that he agreed with her, the actual definition of manipulative behavior. Insane.
It's worth considering the serious stakes for women in finding a partner, and doing some real reading about what they have to do to vet a man and suss out his potential weaknesses. Men often have resources and physical strength at their disposal, while women sometimes have nothing but their good looks, femininity that might be damaged, & their cunning. Basically, the goals & strategies necessary for social-sexual marketplace success are arguably much simpler for men, albeit we must disregard the ubiquitous nice-guy social programming & embrace the benevolent masculinity of being both a provider AND a strong protector/leader (who finds his place as a contributor within the hierarchy of other men, even if he's at the bottom rung of solid contributors but higher than 2 to 3 rungs of non-solid men.)
This is just insane behavior.
I think it's also called gaslighting
@@FancyNoisesI can understand what you say, but your words are confusing o_O
@@FancyNoises So stop playing to their tune and take the lead? Didn't work out.
Any woman who sends a text to break up rather than meeting them like an adult and having that talk face to face, is not worth trying for.
"If you want to play games, go and download Candy crush" - that is the best quote ever! Brilliant! 😂
Personally I like games , all my relationships were games with very smart and attractive women, that is what makes relationship healthy and interesting, .,
"He didn't even offer to change himself to my liking- it's like he didn't even try"
LOL
After "multiple dates" and "Treating her well." 😅
The part where she says "he didn't say he would change" made me so furious. You women think we men need to dance around you. NO MAN SHOULD CHANGE FOR A WOMAN! A MAN SHOULD CHANGE ONLY FOR HIS OWN WELLBEING!!!
You can see from a mile away how much of a manipulator con artist she is. He dodged a bullet.
@@tarico4436 hell yeah, you see that. Men, get away from these kinds. She is cute and she is using this maximally, but she is spoiled, drama queen, princess which takes a lot and gives nothing emotionally or financially speaking. THIS IS THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU DO NOT WANT BESIDE YOU!
"He didn't even try" He did. You rejected him. And now you expect him to what? Beg? "Oh I'll change..." Change what? I'm a good man with a good income who can pull dates with attractive women & who treats them well... what exactly in that package am I supposed to change?
What I don't want is a manipulative asshole who says no when she means yes. I don't want to try to read minds. Looking for a partner not a puzzle. Play games on someone else's time & dime honey.
Buhbye.
@thebarkingmouse
_"I'm looking for a partner, not a puzzle."_
Comment of the century. 👏👏👏
Someone give this man a raise!
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"he didn't think he could make her happy" soo true! Nobody can make that crazy girl happy
👏 😂Some people are just ungrateful. He had a lucky escape from those games. (We have missed you!!)❤
He dodged a canon
He dodged a naval barrage
He dodged an ICBM.
He dodged a Messerschmitt 262
If she's for real, I'm guessing the man just thought, 'this girl is crazy, I'm out. I dodged a bullet there'.
Or he might have just been honest and peace'd out. If I went on a date and the woman told me she didn't think it will work out, I won't argue the point, I'd wish her a great day and keep it moving. Recall that to try and argue the fact will get you accused of being clingy by some women. Seeing as you can never win that game you might as well not play it.
exactly, if he had fought she would have made a video saying, that shes a first impression gal, and that changing is weak, and he should have came correct the first time lol. But there is a part of these girls, that is so fun... Its rediculous when you get on the program, and are in that top echelon of dudes they are looking at, they want you to pretend to be upset at the prospect of asking to be changed this is a way to maintain frame, where she can still say to get lost, or like she said, she basically wants manipulated and fucked like his personal whore, and she will do what daddy says and thinks, but he has to approach it from the perspective, of, obviously I and this bitch both know she is crazy, and she just wants to be slapped around and made into a girlfriend, she isn't a good match as a partner, and could even lead you into all sorts of drama, but... if a man is keen to these games and, i have to admit, sometimes i am attracted to this, because they all do it, you cant be mad a female psychology or ill fuck your girlfriend while you cry about her being how she is lmaooo. Find a woman who isn't so upfront about needing to be lead toxically, thats the balance, every woman wants it, not all will say it, if you find a "good girl" and treat her with a little edge, she will never find that again, she will be addicted to you, because everyone else will treat her how it appears she should be treated, but females crave the mystery and the edge, they want to know you care a lot, but that you can send them on the way anytime, I don't think this means you should pretend to care or that you should always be looking for ways to end a relationship. its just that this is happening and you can try to date a whale and pretend hypergamy isn't also happening for her, but its a denial of reality...@@thathandsomedevil0828
2023: Men now have Keanu Reaves ability to dodge bullets.
Many women are bullets.
@@protorhinocerator142 From that comment, I'm guessing you're doing fine with repelling women.
@@Michelle_Schu-blacka Correct.
I kick them away very efficiently.
And I'm helping to teach other men to do likewise. Actually fairly easy these days.
1:16 “She think dating is PlayStation 5” Maxim never misses🤣🤣🤣🤣
bro needs to run roblox to date that girl
We're at a point in history where a woman being angry that she got what she asked for makes perfect sense.
Don't know, Looking at old proverbs from across the world and I think they were always like this
@@CoranceLChandler LOL!
As they say - "The more things change, the more they stay the same!"
@@CoranceLChandler Yes lol. That was a simple shit test
Duracell and Playstation 5 jokes was gold 😂
So was the The Candy Crush one 😅
She saved that man from a horrible marriage, what a nice girl!
Now if only they'd find a way of sparing these men from bothering hitting on them.
I absolutely love your videos! The mix of humor and observation and genius is perfect.
"she thinks dating is playstation 5" this man is a global treasure
Lolololol, hold on HOLD OONNN!
She dumped him, and he was cool about it and she went: Oh I'm not worth begging for?
She deserves to be dumped by every next guy ever! Never get married!
If you act this immature, you're not ready for marriage.
People like you who think TH-cam comments mean anything in the real world are immature
@@l.n3187 Is that you from the video ?! Get out more often and see the real world 😂😂😂
Most of them don't want to be wifes, they just want to be brides. They need to marry to show of on their social media.^-^
@@l.n3187you should take your own advice because it certainly applies to your comment.
This is beyond "immature" this is plain stupid.
Bro dodged a bullet. 😂
“Jesus Christ on a motorbike” had me rolling 😂
@@kingston163That's not what it means to use the Lord's name in vain.
@@vexhenry Maybe for your "Lord" it is different!
deafult pfp gang
@@vexhenry You misunderstood, it's "Don't use the Lord's name in a van" on a motor bike is perfectly fine.
"You have to be Duracell battery too and bring energy"
I
AM
LAUGHING!!!!
Even if you are a Duracell battery and bring energy, it is still not enough.
They expect the next guy to be beter then the last guy yet constantly choose worser guys 🤦♂️
Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates: two multibillionaires, both recently got divorced. Clearly, woman don't care about money.
She's not exactly emanating "wife energy," I'm picking up more of a trailer parkish vibe.
Then what about an 33 kV transformer? 😂
They would ask for a car battery at that point.
„At the moment“ is all I needed to hear
She didn't want to be manipulated, she wanted to manipulate him. She was looking for him to jump theough all her "husband energy" hoos for her and he didn't play the game. Good for him.
And when he actually tries, she’d say he didn’t respect her decision.
Dude probably also would be jailed, if he lives anywhere in Canada. How dare he disrespect her decision.
Or treat him like a simp.
“Duracell battery”😂😂😂
She gives off zero wife energy 😮
That was the play of the century. All my respect to that guy. He’s going places
Trying to put someone in emotional debt from the get-go is the definition of a red flag!😅.
This guy is hilarious 😂
You don’t marry the one you love. You marry the one who loves YOU. This man was very wise.
Be original.. this is nonsense
@@bobbyjohnson5637 wtf? Could you elaborate please? Thank you!
@@bobbyjohnson5637 Agreed. This is nonsense. Why the fuck would I just marry someone who loves me but I have no feelings for them. That's not fair to the other person. Marry someone you love and they love you back!
@@ayarikiyo2178 That is what they meant. The point was don't marry someone just because you love them. Marry someone who also loves you back. It's just not as catchy when you break it down.
@@ayarikiyo2178 Would you marry someone you love that DOES NOT love you back. Or, would you marry someone you love who ALSO loves you back? That's what the comment means. It is not nonsense as you misinterpreted it.
50 guys later. “I’m really looking for a husband”😂
Whew! Nice guy dodged a whole machine gun full of bullets! I bet he realised she wasn't wife material way before she texted him. 😅
Maxim remembered his account password finally
Man didn't dodge a bullet, he teleported out of the way of a whole ass warhead.
"If you want to play games, go and play candy crush" 🤣🤣🤣
Shes the one who rejected him, but somehow she got rejected lmao
That’s how fucked up the minds are of so many of these chicks. No matter what you do, no matter what you tell them, literally _anything_ or even _nothing_ you do will be used against you. It’s an unwinnable fight. So the only way to win is to not engage with it.
She found a way to bitch about a dude who accepted she didnt want him. She needs meds
I think it was a shit test that blew up in her face. She probably liked the guy but wanted him to chase her. Joke is on her.
I think she genuinely has narcissistic personality disorder. She's so toxic she literally can't fathom normal, healthy behavior.
Thats the most correct opinion on this video 🎉@@polishpimp4233
He didn't want you & your flat chest energy, so he simply accepted the "Game Over".
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Flat chest energy 🤣
HAHAHAHHAHAHA
Flat chest + tattoos + narcisstic vibes = no thanks, bro.
😂😂😂
Dude saved himself!!!
Man, I love this channel!
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Greetings Maxim!!! Awesome content as always, you are one of the few youtubers who can make me laugh, and also consistently lol!
He's not consistent pls
I meant that he makes me laugh conaistently in his videos
@@hiqayathGo back to the first video he uploaded and check the year in which that was uploaded.
Most people would be lucky if their career in comedy lasted a few years. He may not be uploading consistently, but I still see the old magic shine.
Guy is talented as hell. Let's appreciate that.
All she admitted to him was the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
Very obvious daddy issues, that one!
You can't say you're not interested and then get all offended that he doesn't enforce his will over your boundaries.
Fatherless behaviour.
I see tatoos, I run away. Especially on the hands.
The tainted are always superficial, I have yet to be proven wrong.
„These are my tats get a grip!!1“ well I rest my case, if you truly weren’t superficial you would shrug about my opinion and not give a shit.
Same here. Tats are a deal breaker. A woman’s body is already a work of art.
@@singleproppilot bs. Are u gonna reject someone just bc of a star on their arm or something? Who r u to judge someone bc of what they put on their skin?
@@henry.-.2183 If I’m considering that person as a potential mate, I can judge them on absolutely any criteria I please. Being discriminatory is literally the whole point of dating.
What do tattoos have anything to do with the context of the video?
She doesn't see it going anywhere, that's fine that's how she feels. The man respectfully accepted her decision. Mutual understanding, excellent, but she wanted him to try and manipulate her??? That's the kind of husband she wants? My head hurts. Literally, I started to get a headache
Hopefully, she gets the husband she deserves.
@@captainunderpants200the only husband a woman like that deserves is J.O.B
Girls/women prefer a guy who is ready to lie to them and manipulate them, apparently because to them it means he is ready to make things up or invest time and effort to keep her happy about her self-illusions.
This is meta-level manipulation.
She wanted to manipulate him into thinking that he has a chance by changing himself the way that fits her demands. 😅
She can also be a manipulator instead of TRYING to be manipulated. The insanity and entitlement of the tik tokers will never be understood. 😂
These modern girls just want to play games!!!! WELL DONE DUDE
"He didnt think he could make HER happy"!
HER happiness.
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This women is making things complicated Like a blind women trying to put on Makeup 💄😂
For some reason, pretty people think they can play these games with others and never run out of options..... until they do.
Arm tatts give it away everyyy time 😂
she's right, not all man has 'husband energy' same for no all woman has 'mother energy' despite fertile enough to bear child.
She doesn't realize husband energy isn't a thing until marriage, and if she doesn't want him now, then that 'husband energy' will get real old quick after marriage
That is the number one reason why I don't date anymore. "He didn't even try." Because you said you didn't see things going any further and he had the same outlook, now that he realizes there's no point in even trying with you he's moving on just like I would🤙
The snake tattoo says it all.
I don’t appreciate this either-then some guys think we ALL mean “yes” when we say “no.” Can’t she just say what she means? Anyway. That guy sounds like an emotionally healthy guy, good for him🤷♀️
I recently watched a video of a dumb young woman complaining about men asking for consent to kiss her after a date. She literally said that men need to take a risk and just kiss her without asking beforehand. Yeah, so they can being accused for sexual assault. Risk getting arrested and canceled because she likes a bold man who takes risks. It’s like she doesn’t realize that’s exactly what feminists/women have been complaining about.
Women: No means no.
Also women: Why do they stop trying when I say no?
@@protorhinocerator142 Not the same women
@@SkySpiral8 You've never dated a woman I see.
@@protorhinocerator142 ok, but you can’t say all women are alike, that’s just bitter willful ignorance, same as women who say men are all the same.
She really didn't understand that he wasn't being nice- he was telling her off, telling her that he was actually too good for her, that he saw through her and was just getting some easy play, that she was selfish, narcissistic, not long-term material, and that he had no intention of taking her seriously. And the fact that she is making this video about how he didn't grovel proves that she isn't in his league or even girlfriend material.
If I went out on a few dates with someone, and they said "I don't see husband energy" or "You're not my husband" I would run. I could see that conversation happening months, or ever years later, but it sounds like this was just after a few dates. He was right to say "Cool, there's not chemistry--hope you find what you seek." What she seeks she'll hopefully figure out. Wanting to be manipulated is a sign of some other deep issues.
Great. This saves me the trouble of dumping you. It would have never worked out, due the obvious.
Due to what obvious?
Nice try. Have a nice life. Bye.
The thing is she will find what she is looking for, and it will end with her saying "where have all the good men gone".
Just the tatoos themself was a sign of deep issues
@@JonathanVachon777I really hate to say this cause I think tatoos are fine, but I completely agree 😂
What she means is her biological clock is trying to break down her door & she's looking for someone to propose before getting to know each other so she can have kids then divorce him & have him on the hook for support & alimony for next 18yrs.
Go and get yourself a candy crush and leave this good men alone!!!☝🏿️😂😂😂
"He said he didn't think that he could make me happy." Spot on, he dodged a bullet there.
Always nice to see a fellow man dodge a catastrophe.
She will someday refer to the guy she rejected and who decided to not "fight for her" as the "one who got away", especially when she finds out that he married a better woman and now has a family.
No self-respecting man is going to beg
Husband energy “at the moment”…..
That says it all