How Dating life is like with cerebral palsy

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  • I thought I'd do a video on how dating life is like with cerebral palsy the ups and down sides
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  • @TinaBailey
    @TinaBailey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Grace... you’re brilliant! Your sense of humour is epic! There’s plenty of time yet to meet Mr Right xx
    As for date ideas not involving food... a comedy club Is always a good shout. Plenty to laugh at and talk about if there’s any awkward silences 😘😘 plus he will be sat down too, so you’ll be on eye level xx

  • @clintonmanning6433
    @clintonmanning6433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Grace you’re confident enough and funny enough to do stand up gigs. All you’ve got to do is describe your week with the same level of charisma you put into this video! You’ll have a career and a boost in subscribers in no time! 👍

  • @jordyvapeshow3584
    @jordyvapeshow3584 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    youre so pretty and are full of a really good sense of humour i hope you find someone hun x

    • @MikesUniverseYT
      @MikesUniverseYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I could not have put it any better

  • @CarolynLife
    @CarolynLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are hilarious 😆 love the Attitude and those boots are killing me I definitely will be back for more videos

  • @tudormiller8898
    @tudormiller8898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Grace! Love this video, really informative. Watching from London.

  • @bobharrison2641
    @bobharrison2641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video Grace...

  • @briantodd2693
    @briantodd2693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You rock those bad ass boots young lady you go girl!!!!

  • @TheCastilloChronicles
    @TheCastilloChronicles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Soooo beautiful! Thanks for sharing. Just to say you inspire us loads. You look so lovely.
    I thought for second that Mr. Right is just waiting so patiently at the corner and so still in his pose but it was a poster...😊 i love everything of it Grace! Continue inspiring a lot of people. God bless.

  • @avamaia6095
    @avamaia6095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love you grace! you are so so cool, and gorgeous and an absolute beautiful human❤️❤️❤️

  • @janemoss8295
    @janemoss8295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Grace you look fabulous , loving the new hair colour you rock xx

  • @FVvocals
    @FVvocals 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are beautiful inside and out hun. You will find the right chap soon enough….

  • @doriansmith398
    @doriansmith398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are Amazing!! LOVE you hair!!

  • @brettbennett98
    @brettbennett98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your experience, it was a great video :)

  • @TwESniPeR
    @TwESniPeR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm not going to try and defend males and I'm not even going to lie, there are some really shallow guys out there who cant look past disabilities to the person underneath, but we are not all like that. You're a beautiful young woman and any man would be lucky to be with you. Please dont let the few bad eggs get you done. Stay strong and keep happy 💜

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Essex Boy Rides thank you 💖

    • @altemirferreira4910
      @altemirferreira4910 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GraceWolstenholme ione k 💝🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌈💝😍😘💝💝🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹com🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @altemirferreira4910
      @altemirferreira4910 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GraceWolstenholme itens online

  • @BradleyChlopas
    @BradleyChlopas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I enjoyed watching this video, you look amazing and I love your energy! Best wishes to you Grace!

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

    • @emilypoole189
      @emilypoole189 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@GraceWolstenholme ❤ hi my names Emily and I also have Cerebral palsy. 🙂🙂🙂

  • @MikesUniverseYT
    @MikesUniverseYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    just found your channel , your beautiful just the way you are . its not about the chair its about how you are as a person have a good one x

  • @icecool2424ify
    @icecool2424ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well if I was younger I wouldn’t hesitate to be with you , sense of humour is great and your always happy, wouldn’t bother me in the slightest 😀🥰

  • @bethanymccarthy4132
    @bethanymccarthy4132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are amazing! 👏💛

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bethany McCarthy thank you

    • @kennethfletcher1157
      @kennethfletcher1157 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GraceWolstenholme could you contact me?

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kennethfletcher1157 I have a work email address which I’m more than for you to contact me on if you have any questions it is gracewolstenholme.info@gmail.com

  • @Sofwan786
    @Sofwan786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cool video

  • @annahopp
    @annahopp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so amazing, someday a boy will just not give a damn about the wheelchair and love you exactly the way you are.

  • @MyMax147
    @MyMax147 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    With a personality like that, there will be a man in your life at somepoint, you are amazing, there will be a man who won't see the wheel chair and see the shinning light that you are, your one stunning young woman x

  • @ITSnippets
    @ITSnippets 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I stumbled across this channel by accident.
    Keep your chin up darlin, you are gorgeous (I'm not going to comment on your T&A comments :P), but maybe this will make you think.
    My partner has CP :) We have been together 8 years.
    I'm going to binge watch a few of your videos, that way I can help the algorithm promote your content.

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ITSnippets thank you sooo much I hope you enjoy ❤️

  • @markfullersbackhoeprojects3583
    @markfullersbackhoeprojects3583 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I'm mark. I have Cp too.

  • @kumaran-et8gc
    @kumaran-et8gc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the truth.

  • @sweetflower8
    @sweetflower8 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s tough. I have given up on dating because it is exhausting how most men treat us

  • @dean8793
    @dean8793 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anyone would be lucky to have a girl a charming and beautiful as you ❤️

  • @jezzermeii
    @jezzermeii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the video, I have met a girl with Generalised Dystonia. There's not anything on TH-cam about it other than medical videos, so I hope you don't mind that I searched for Cerebral Palsy instead. My reasoning is that her dystonia is such that the symptoms are similar. However, instead of a lot of movement, she has a lot of rigidity. Could you maybe make a video for able-bodied people and how they can adjust to the idea of being with someone with a neurological disability? I really like her so much and her personality is brilliant, we really click. We've met up over this weekend and it was great. What wasn't great was how everyone around me treated me differently because I was around her. This sounds harsh (it isn't meant to), but she has had 15 years to get used to it (she developed her condition aged 7), but I have had no time at all. How do I let go of caring what other people think of me? I really want things to work out between me and her, but other people (the public mainly) are making me feel uncomfortable. I know that sounds selfish, but it is how it is for me. Also, how do I adjust to the reality that she has a lot of personal care needs and also just practical care needs (like helping her move around the home, doing most of the chores myself, needing to get things for her constantly, etc)? I don't have a problem with it in theory but I am intimidated because I don't want to hurt her/do something wrong and also I am worried about becoming her carer instead of her partner? She does have carers but she still would need a lot help throughout our life as she cannot walk and has very little strength in her arms too. This is just a lot for me to adjust to because we met online and I wasn't really aware of the severity of things before she stayed over this weekend. We get on so super well though and I want to do my best because I see the person she is inside and love what I see. I just am struggling with accepting how life changing being with her would be and am worried about not being able to sufficiently care for her. I do suppose I am also concerned that it could affect my social life negatively, which I am only starting to get back. So sorry for the long message but I don't know where else to turn or who to ask for help. If you have any resources, other than yourself, or forums you can recommend, that would be great. I wish you every success in life and thank you for sharing your experiences so far :)

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for your comment I’m looking forward to reading it as I’m just about to go to sleep but I’ll definitely read it tomorrow asp 💖💖💖

    • @jezzermeii
      @jezzermeii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Grace Wolstenholme Thank your Grace, that would be super kind of you! Like I said I really want things to work with her. She even talked to her neurologist about whether the conditions she has are hereditary and if she can have kids, and we got good news on that front! So, it is quite serious. I suppose I am just scared that my life will be really different from what I've been used to up until now. :)

  • @Bossmark123
    @Bossmark123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is beautiful woman

  • @kurtisschnepp8605
    @kurtisschnepp8605 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    amem

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would treat you like a queen . I have cerebral palsy in my both my legs .and I walk funny .

  • @masonkrauter6440
    @masonkrauter6440 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so beautiful

  • @scotholmes
    @scotholmes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG.. Thanks Grace
    You see I totally understand 💯.. im alil bit older.. and I have CP also.
    It dont get any easier when u get older..Dating is tough at my age too.
    At lease ur pretty..big smile 😃.. I hope your ok with me mentioning u in my new video tomorrow..u see I jus started doing it a few days ago ..please check them out
    I inspire me.. hugs 🫂

  • @abdokalhed7412
    @abdokalhed7412 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can help you ❤️

  • @user-zf1lm9wb7g
    @user-zf1lm9wb7g 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You need subtitle for your videos. I am new who understand that cp people are also people and maybe much better than "healthy"people. It's very difficult to understand but I want to understand you.
    P.S. I feel shame that I didn't notice cp and didn't know anything about such guys and girls. So no I am looking for info. I am glad to see you here on TH-cam

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Иван Васильев Isn’t there a way people can turn subtitles on

    • @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage
      @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      there’s no captions available

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Erika Montes lol even bloody TH-cam can’t understand me 🙄🙄😂😂

    • @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage
      @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Grace Wolstenholme lol that’s okay

    • @kennethfletcher1157
      @kennethfletcher1157 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Grace Wolstenholme I can understand what you're saying you're very clear on how are you talk

  • @carlogrunwald8977
    @carlogrunwald8977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wie geht es dir

  • @CKeutmann
    @CKeutmann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are fantastic. Dam shame.. I'm probably old enough to be your dad and on the wrong side of the pond to boot! Subbing. Happy hunting!

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol thank you

    • @MikesUniverseYT
      @MikesUniverseYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GraceWolstenholme life with a disability is hard but we are just as good as anyone else

  • @jamespartington5
    @jamespartington5 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I find it hard two i have autism can I just say though your stunningly beautiful and Really pretty I'm in my 20s and haven't dated any girl

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jamespartington5 thank you that’s sweet

    • @jamespartington5
      @jamespartington5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No problem it’s hard peopl only see disability and not the person inside

    • @MikesUniverseYT
      @MikesUniverseYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamespartington5 one of my closest friends is autistic and has given up on dating , as for me I will not give up. hope your doing well last year has been tough

    • @jamespartington5
      @jamespartington5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2020 been ok just can't wait to go out for a meal

    • @MikesUniverseYT
      @MikesUniverseYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamespartington5 sounds great I'd love to do the same thing .I'm a wheelchair user myself

  • @carlogrunwald8977
    @carlogrunwald8977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    HALLO

  • @bman_2024
    @bman_2024 ปีที่แล้ว

    cute

  • @aben8955
    @aben8955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You look smashing - where are those boots from? Cute af

    • @GraceWolstenholme
      @GraceWolstenholme  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aben thank you there from peacocks when they were on sale

    • @aben8955
      @aben8955 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GraceWolstenholme Star, thank you! x

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are pretty.

  • @robburcham6289
    @robburcham6289 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't understand everything you say, must be the British accent.

  • @aschris87
    @aschris87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd date this Woman in a heartbeat she's so Beautiful 😍 x