The worst part about this whole thing is that the more remorse you feel and the more you love the person you hurt, the more days feel like weeks without being able to make amends because the wounds need a vast amount of time to heal...
Still be kind and caring, if you do the contrary you'll only prove that any problem and/or situation, however small, is reason enough for you to ditch a relationship because it has to be perfect. If after a while this other person keeps being toxic or negativity, then you can let go, because it now stands the other person doesn't want to fix problems and will drag conflicts further. You may leave that friendship behind, but you earn your valor for being the good person all along.
This really helps a lot. Thank you... I had lost the three closest friends I have ever had because I was selfish, made them feel disvalued and had deeply hurt them many times... I hadn't realized the damage I had done until I pushed it too far. I really want to win them back and change myself for the good and treat them how they really deserve... Thank you for this video, it was great insight! 🥺💞
@@schwiftynat yeah actually, after talking with multiple people around me and showing text message receipts,turns out I was not in the wrong and they were the ones who were bad freinds to me but I was too insecure to realize. I am no longer friends with either of those people
@Ивана Јокић auctually , we’re not friends anymore now. Our friendship was very toxic and she was a narcissist. I was a doormat , and when I would confront her about how she would treat me she would project her character flaws on me. It took awhile for me to see but when I made this comment I was auctually just sucking up to her and very naive. I had believed I was wrong when auctually she was. Ending that friendship was the overall best decision I could’ve made and I’m much happier. ❤️
Broken relationships are like broken pots, no matter how much glue is used to fix them, they will never be the same. Better to learn to let go, and more on.
I recently got dumped by my best friend. Although we were not from the same age group and family status (she has 2 kids while I recently got married) we were very close. She is my colleague and I see her in the office every day. It's very difficult for me to see her giggling with another colleague and I feel angry every time I see them She never told me why she decided to block me from her social accounts and everytime I would pass by her desk, she would not look or talk to me. I feel awful and don't know what to do. I sometimes feel like returning her the small gifts she has given me and a thank you card for being a great friend and tell her that her friendship was really the best thing I had. However i also want to tell her thank you for dumping me and hurting me. Can I do that?
Don't return the gifts, sounds silly but even if the friendship died, at the moment it was genuine and for that reason the gift has it's value. And positive, do write a letter to her, but don't deliver it, she doesn't deserve that attention no longer. Instead, burn it in a fire as a sign of moving on and trust me, there are still people that value you that do deserve your investment. Much luck :)
Haunted by the age old questions can exes be friends. My ex and I were friends years before we dated. It’s been over a year since the breakup. In a way I don’t care about the rel but I do miss my friend and care about how she’s doing. It was a split on good terms. I wish we could be friends again. I think if you still care about a person after all this time that they must be important.
Ouch it hurts how quickly friendships can be canceled these days. Recently I just had two friends cut me off out of the blue. They are already best friends and I was the third. When we talked after two months I was shocked by what they said. It felt like high school. No matter my saying I’m sorry they seemed committed to painting me as the villain. My takeaway is how I really need to be more discerning in who I open up to.. 🙏🏽
Ive been friends with this girl for 10 years and best friends for 3 years and are relationship seemed to be really good. All of a sudden she ditched me and our whole friend group because she wanted new friends. The worse part is she's leaving me for someone she promised she would never leave or replace me with. She got people involved that didn't need to be and made the situation worse. I never wanted to stop being friends but she did. I miss my best friend and want to fix things but I don't know if she is willing to do it. She really hurt me and my friends but she's means so much to me.
Maya Chetty I'm so sorry. I would say, don't force some one to be friends with you. A friendship takes 2. Try and make things right with her, and if she refuses, then u know that she doesn't value your friendship. U don't need people like her in your life. Mistakes only become mistakes when they are repeated. So learn from them. Be smarter than her, and be kind bc you will never regret being kind. 2 wrongs don't make a right!! Good Luck Maya ❤️ We Always here for you
I think apologies have to be selfless and without attachment to an outcome. A real apology can't be "begging for forgiveness", because your friend is not obligated to forgive or forget what happened
I don't even know how to approach mending my broken friendship. I apologized to everyone involved multiple times for the damage my needy, clingy, depressed, habits caused. I told them I was seeking counseling and I am starting some deep inner healing counseling. Not only was my apology rejected but I was belittled for my choice to seek counseling so I can heal enough to treat my friends better. This from the same beloved sister in the Lord that just a month before drove through tornado warning weather to meet me at the airport when met in person. The same person who had spoken praises over the blessing my friendship was on that visit. In the blink of an eye she lost all patience with me and responded with hate. I tried mailing her a card for her birthday and it came back refused, return to sender. At this point all I can do is work on the inner healing I need to be the person God meant for me to be instead of this fractured mess. Giving my buddy space is the hardest thing I have ever done. The loss of my dearest friend and sister, the hate she expressed to me, it's agonizing. It feels like I won't ever have anything to live for again. Every day is just coping with daily needs. There is nothing that gives me joy. Every memory, all the things that used to make me smile send me sobbing from loss. It feels like I lost not only my best friends but the best parts of who I was. I don't know who I am underneath the pain.
@@xymec0098 I am so sorry that you have been going through a similar loss. It's heartbreaking to have a friend you loved and trusted treat you with hate and rejection. In my case all I can do is leave my friend in God's hands and pray that he can heal the rift between us. It still hurts so much every day. Big hugs to you. May healing come in your friendship.
chabash- Journey of a Shattered Heart Made Whole some people don’t have the threshold to deal with stuff like our anxieties. I believe that’s what’s happened with me and my friend . I applogized for overreacting to him not answering my text and over the course of the conversation he said you’re a pain in the ass and I don’t want to be friends anymore. I want to try and fix it but I don’t know if he would want to...it’s been a few days, I don’t know when to bring it up again ornifninshould just give it time before I try
@@ando1135 I am so sorry to hear you are going through that. Experience has taught that when someone is past being able to handle my anxiety ridden self, it's best to give them some space. Any intereaction while they are still overwhelmed will be a negative experience for them. That is why I am trying to just focus on healing the anxiety while I give my friend space. It's so difficult when that friend was a huge part of your life but not everyone can handle the ups and downs of our moods. And while their friendship is positive for us it is draining for them. We just need to focus on healing ourselves and hope that as we get better maybe some of those special to our hearts can learn to trust our friendships again.
See I need advise and help. I said something and removed her from Facebook. Now she won't let me talk to her. But she said she's not at all bothered about what I said to her. But she's confused about what I did. What should I do guys?
If you have hurt someone acknowledging where you hurt them creates a space for positivity. When you move into positivity, lets have fun but dont acknowledge your part it leaves them wondering and anxious if your just going to play off where you hurt someone
I have two best friends and one of them recently moved away. At first my other best friends and I tried to move on from her, but then I started ditching her, because I didn't want her to know I'm sad. But then, I realized, we're becoming strangers. How do I fix this?
I need advise or help getting over this>, a couple months ago I got in a big argument with my bestfriend and we stopped becoming friends. And so she started talking bad about to people, the whole school hated me, she and her friends would bully me, until she hit me one day and we fought physically. And ever since I’ve been really sad about everything I miss her and I wish I could talk to her but she’s the type of person who doesn’t care n won’t hear from you ever. N I’ve been miserable n I can’t move past it.but she did. And I’ve tried to put it behind me but I cant
I dont know what advice to give you because Im here for help too. But I just want you to know you are loved. Give yourself a big hug. God will send you a good friend. And this pain will go away. 😘😘😘😘
Yogirlcamillo this is going to be harsh my friend, but throw away that human garbage. You are loved and have no room for anyone to be making you feel different. She sounds like the classic narcissist, after your argument she was extremely worried on how others would react so she made you the villain. Look up the symptoms of a narcissist and I bet you she'll match up. Trust me you don't need that toxicity in your life no manner the good memories you have together. Remember the good but also the bad, make new friends and report her to the police because that's called physical asult and harassment. If that doesn't work, join a taekwando class and learn to defend yourself? I don't know lol, it worked for me. Good luck ♥
I've done all. I don't know what she wants because she isn't that open about it. We don't talk in real life though but we do chat alot. How can I know what she feels?
What do I do if she betrays my trust but I still want to be friends but she wamts to be friends with someone who hates you and you also so whenever your best friend is hanging out with the girl that hates you (which is a lot) you hsve to avoid them and you end up all alone without anyone to help you. Even after you were basically your best friends therapist. Also, what do you do if the girl that hates you also used to be your friend but now ignores you and no matter how hard you try to say sorry and fix things she just pulls away and calls you a non-existant rat. Mind you I have no other friends to go to and the girl that hates you is making everyone else hate you because she popular and im the nice outcast that everyone used to like but now hates.... Please I need help 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
My friend ended our friendship because she met another friend of mine and they had a horrible fight. When she got home she sent me a message saying she no longer wants us to be friends and then blocked me. My best friend (not the one she met) sent her a very mean message as a reply to the things she said. Now it’s been months I got over her although we see each other at uni but I now see her everyday and it’s so heartbreaking especially because it’s our last year at uni. I feel bad because I miss her, the feeling of not seeing her again is awful. Instead of focusing on my exams I keep thinking about the times we had at that same time of the year last year and cry. I know I can’t contact her or talk to her because she told me to avoid doing that and made it clear that she doesn’t want me in her life, also the message my friend sent her was so harsh. I’m so heartbroken, what should I do ?
What if we are both hurt and each of us thinks that we did nothing wrong? I’m experiencing this with my 8-year best friend and i didn’t tell anyone about it because i don’t know how to describe the situation… it’s been over a month now since we talked and that’s when we ended the conversation with literally nothing good. Idk how to solve this im so hurt but she’s too… :( i feel like i don’t want to apologize for something i didn’t doo but apparently she feels the same….. ugh
What if your friend is the one who ended it...saying we are not meant to be friends and she got tired because of our ignorings in the past...What can i do to fix it..i really need her and love her..she is my closest friend
Guys I have a three group friendship and I went away for a week like a break and I guess they talked constantly so I’m guessing they started to get annoyed by each other and they have little fights calling each other names like they don’t even talk to each other for a while. Pls help🙁 Idk what to do without them
The worst part is that I don’t know where I went wrong, which leads me to conclude I probably have a boring personality or that I’m not normal in some way. I’m in the middle of a grieving process.
I hope you're doing better now! I'm sorry that happened to you, but you need to know you did nothing wrong. I hope time is being good to you and that you accept what life is trying to offer you!
I honestly do to. I didn’t even do a terrible thing I cared about her I knew she was sad about her rejections with these 2 guys and I wanted to be there for her. I was really excited to be with her next year. She doesn’t dislike me and still wants to be friendly but she doesn’t want to be friends anymore.
I need some advice. So I ruined a really good friendship about a year and a half ago and I apologized immediately and she accepted my apology but then asked for space. Well after that happened I got upset because she wasn’t talking to me even though she asked for space and so I kept trying to apologize to her because I couldn’t stand having this silence between us and that just pushed her away even more. She ended up blocking my number and unfollowing me on social media. What do I do? Is there ever a right time to reach out to her again? I really love her a lot and miss her
I haven’t spoken to my best friend From my program in a while . I don’t know if it’s out of sight out of mind . It kinda hurts but I’m trying to move on with my life succsssfully . I also have a bsst friend from High school that I lost contact with years ago . 9 years ago to be exact . No argurments nothing like that . But we just grew apart I guess . I thihk it hurts because we grew up together . I’ve known him since I was 16 Which I thihk why it’s so hard to move on cause we have history
What do you do if you feel like a friend hurt you (unintentionally) but you know they there are not going to apologize. They can tell that the energy is off.
i did a mistake of agreeing with people instead of defending them and suddenly i turned somewhat toxic. i don't know what to do anymore i only have 2 left and their the ones i know i real life at the same time im kind of happy cause i get to focus on my exams i deleted all my social medias with them i dont know what to do
Thank you for that videoWhat about if the other person is the one who betrayed and disappointed me. Or at least we BOTH did it. Is is right for me to apologize alone?
we are having the gap for almost 3 months already.. we had a petty argument which lead her not talking to me anymore.. before we are having a daily conversation until to the point that she was not responding to me anymore.. it’s so painful.. feel so empty as i dong know what ive done wrong.. til i learnt that she is doubting my gender preference.. but inspite of that, i still want to retrieve the friendship we have..
What about repairing a friendship when you are the one considering 'breaking it off'? And when do you think it is appropriate to 'break up?' If you are going forward with breaking up, what is the best way to do that?
HEY JESS CHAMBERS yes! I have some blog posts that might help? Here’s one: www.google.com/amp/s/www.girlfriendcircles.com/blog/index.php/2013/06/five-questions-to-ask-before-ending-a-friendship%3fformat=amp and feel free to search “break up” on my blog to find more! Hugs to you as you decide!
I'm right here now too- I don't want the friendship to end, but I also don't want it to be the way it was. In my case- it began to feel very one sided- with me doing for her X, Y, Z - and while I love to do things for friends, there comes a point where there still needs to be a balance. I had a very difficult summer- and really reached out - trying to be explicit that I could really use some friendship time with her- to help me through this rocky point. She was unable to be there for me -- and when I finally brought it up as to why I began to pull away- she did "apologize," but as the video said- she "defended" herself too. She said she was having her own "demons" and therefore, couldn't find even 1 day or a few hours to be there for me. (I wish I could show her this video - without it coming off wrong).
@@ShastaMNelson my best friend break up with me we not talking but i want talk to her what i tell and do ? i have boyfriend is transgender she feels i dont want her in my life but i do .
I just want some clarity so I'm writing this here RECENTLY I BROKEUP GROM A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP AND WE WERE BEST FRIENDS FOR LONG BUT THEN WHEN HE SUDDENLY LEFT WE DECIEDED TO BECOME FRIENDS WE BOTH AGREED BUT THEN IT STARTED HURTING WHEN HE STARTED GETTING NEAR TO THIS GIRL HE CALLS SISTER AND EVEN THO I KNOW HE HAD PURE INTENTIONS I BLAMED HIM OF BEING WRONG FOR BEING SO CLOSE TO THE GIRL AND LEFT I EXPECTED HIM TO COME FOR ME SINCE I DID SO MUCH IN PAST. SO NOW IM THINKING IF IM WRONG AND SHOULD I MAKEUP WITH HIM SINCE HE MEANS ALOT TO ME. IS THERE ANYONRS FAULT
Thanks for posting this I had a former colleague/ friend that was giving me mixed signals/ mind games pretending that he wanted to get a divorce but he didn't. I take responsibility for allowing myself to become emotionally attached to a married guy ( we were NEVER intimate). But at the same token real friends don't play games with your feelings or mind games. In retrospect he was never really a friend & I stopped interacting with him over 2 years ago.
Ayyy so hard to live and .You should have felt like you could neither move forward nor stop .did you feel some kind of guilt after you stopped talking to him?
@@kahinaaitdjoudioufella64 No I didn't feel guilty after I stopped speaking to him, in retrospect I don't think he was a real friend because friends don't play mind games or give mixed signals. Maybe if he gave me a genuine apology I would have felt differently but he didn't do that 😔
5 years ago I made a huge mistake and ended a friendship with a friend who I was friends with for 17 years. 5 years ago I apologised to her and she said she’s moved on with her life. I have recently ran into her in a supermarket and she looked at me for a second and then walked away and avoided me totally. I didn’t try chasing her or talking to her. I think she’s still not forgiven me.
What do I do if let's say I said something and theres rumors about her and she doesn't want to be my friend and I said I understand but I'm sad cause some of my other friends aren't my friend cause of what I did what should I do
Of u know that they did it to hurt u, or knew u woult get very upset, u should still talk to them. If they don’t show an intrest or u know they are just talking bullshit. Cut them out. But maybe they only made a mistakes. That’s something all people do
What if you don’t know what you did wrong? My best friend of 2 years cut me off for as far as I can tell no reason but I’m sure there’s probably a good reason. Also I’ve reached out before but she just hasn’t responded
I have a story. So me and this girl work together for 2 years. Shes 37 and im 30. I had a good friendship with her and it was good but what happened was she blocked me because i was being obsessive and texting her too much always wanting to hang out. My number was blocked. And i want to apologise to her but i said it in a disgraceful rude way that hurt her feelings. She told me we are only work friends and cant be close anymore, not even friendly hugs or hang out at lunch. Only work friendship. I need some answers if its worth it. I really want to be friends with her even if she has someone for 15 years. Shes a lesbian no hating on them but I fell for her as a straight guy. I just dont want my friendship to end with her because of what ive done to her.
I have a situation at work that is sort of complicated. I have someone I use to work with working in the same building I do but for a different company .We went through a lot together all together I have known him about 8 years when the place closed he said he didn't want to stay in touch. So for the last 4 years it has been I would hear from him birthdays , holidays and a few other times a year. When we run into each other at work we both stop and stare for a moment and then keep going. He spoke to me once it was just a hi how are you but that's it. Now it's back to stop and stare. I don't know what to think I would have loved to stay friends but he didn't want to do that. I only run into him a couple times a week. It has made me want to stay clear of that side of the building. and that is impossible. I would love to just be able to do hi how are you or good morning or have a good evening. It would just be less awkward for both of us I suspect. Anyway, that's my story.
I’m sorry I am VERY late but this just happened so my friend got a boyfriend ant was with him for about a year and a half. She told me and another person she wasn’t happy with him and that she wanted to break up with him. She said she didn’t want to tell him she wanted to break up because she didn’t want to hurt him. She came up to me and told me she wanted me to talk with her boyfriend and convince him to break up with her. Her only exception was she didn’t want to be dragged into it, ex. She didn’t want me to say she wanted to break up with him. I followed her command and did as I was told. He broke up with her and I texted her I did it. She then says “I’m crying rn, I gtg I’m done.” I don’t know what I did wrong but can someone please help me???
My friend and I went to different high schools and after a while she just drifted apart one day I talked and told her about it so she decided to leave so i let her and after a month i messaged her apologizing but she never replied and until this day i have hope that she will still reply I'm so sad and depressed over it i don't know what to do i really love her as a sister
I keep trying to stay positive with her but she keeps… Idek. She’s begging to be rude to everyone, I don’t like a single one of her new group of friends. Even though I’ve tried to get them on my good side but I just can’t. We’ve been best friends since elementary school…
I ignored my friends for more than 6 months. Messaged them a couple they did a couple of times but not like earlier. I ignored them during my depressed times and was in a shell. After coming out Im unable to reconcile and with work and all we went away. Now I'm having huge void and want to speak with them. Anyone could help me in this
Look. What I did... It was wrong. I Pulled you in to far and stressed you out. I was needy. I expected you to do way to much I didn't show any trust I let the past control me and in trying to Keep us together,.. I am the one who ripped us apart I Lied. I never saw you as my best friend, but as my older sister. I wanted to keep you happy and be by your side both when you were excited and sad, to be someone you could count on. I took things to literal, and I am stupid for doing so. I Apologize for smothering you and putting all my gametime to you. I wanted to show you mattered to me and I did that wrong. I know that now. So I Decided to give you space to allow you to breath. to think. to remember. to know whether or not giving me..no. giving us another chance is worth it. and so I can work on becoming the Best friend that you deserve, rather than the horrible friend I have been. If you need help then let me prove..no, show you I'm better now! I have gone through therapy (Online, and have worked on my self.. truth is I still am and look (Name).. you changed my life for the better. I want to return the favor. I want to be the light you were to myself. someone you can count on, and Care for, but not the only person. That was a flaw in my thinking back then: wanting to be THE one you would come to in times of need, rather than just being there with open arms whenever needed. that is not me anymore. I am a better person now, but don't just listen, Let me show show you I am Different! I don't want us to hide and forget about what happened. I want to learn to be better to and for you. but I cannot do this on my own. a newly Hatched bird needs encouragement to learn how to fly. I need you to guide me in the unlikely case I derail. I need you to want us again as well. how can I Make amends? Love: ye old Pal, (My Name) I Just want us to both be happy together again
I was moments away from apologizing just because I didn’t want our friendship to end and it was her fault. (She basically left 1,000$ worth of my stuff on a table and left ( I’ve known her for years and I trusted her a lot)) Then SHE MADE A TON OF EXCUSES FOR IT. Then has the audacity while I was moments away from apologizing to tell me I need to take accountability for my actions.
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My special best friend ignore me up until now because my wife mad at her for caring so much... How to repair that?.... Now i am grieving and scared for losing her.. Huhhhh...
hey uhm thx for the advice but it didn't work me and friend or bffs freinship is still broken Idk why my friends are changing but martee she would never change cuz she's my bff but my other friends well still broken freind ship the for trying I guess and I tried everything it didn't work
How to maintain friendships and relationships when your unable to function? I am having trouble with my social life. I didn't even have much of a social life to begin with, and recently i dumped all my old friends and tossed my old life away to build a new one, but now i am falling apart at the seams and unable to maintain my potential friends. Please help me. I can't manage everything at once. I feel stressed, drained, and my day to day life is getting so bad, i can't function anymore. I need serious help. I want to keep my friends. They need me. I don't want to lose new friendships. I don't want any of my old ones at all and live in the past. My childhood friends really don't mean anything to me since they really weren't my friends at all. But building a new life is what i really want. I need real friendships in my life, and i want a fresh start on making new bonds with people but i am struggling mentally to do so. What can i do to maintain relationships and also take care of myself too?
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What if i was good friends with a friend from middle school and we texted every day and supported each other emotionally. We always professed to always be there with us. She got exceedingly depressed due to a troubled marriage and then had protracted withdrawals from taking Klonopin and then she said she was too depressed to talk any more and now she never talks to me ever! Like poof! She’s gone! She claims it is her mood but how can you just do away with a close friend without a reason?
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The worst part about this whole thing is that the more remorse you feel and the more you love the person you hurt, the more days feel like weeks without being able to make amends because the wounds need a vast amount of time to heal...
So true it hurts everyday
So true it hurts everyday
What if you were not the one who did it all wrong?
Still be kind and caring, if you do the contrary you'll only prove that any problem and/or situation, however small, is reason enough for you to ditch a relationship because it has to be perfect.
If after a while this other person keeps being toxic or negativity, then you can let go, because it now stands the other person doesn't want to fix problems and will drag conflicts further. You may leave that friendship behind, but you earn your valor for being the good person all along.
Gabriel Negrón Rodríguez that kinda makes me feel worse I just want to fix it
@@boonch9103 same
What if you’re always the one reaching out to them and apologizing
Idk I'm struggling with that one
this is my problem
It sucks when you have a cold friend
Fell very sorry for myself and others with this problem 😔😔😔
2 of my freinds ditched me and it was very recently
i need to save this friendship.
Me two
Same
Update?
Μe too! Have you managed to save it eventually?
@@taralightsey3286 p
This really helps a lot. Thank you... I had lost the three closest friends I have ever had because I was selfish, made them feel disvalued and had deeply hurt them many times... I hadn't realized the damage I had done until I pushed it too far. I really want to win them back and change myself for the good and treat them how they really deserve... Thank you for this video, it was great insight! 🥺💞
did it work?
same, I was not a good friend to them and they let me know recently and said they needed space.
I hope my best friend would realize the same as this
@@expirednilk has anything changed?
@@schwiftynat yeah actually, after talking with multiple people around me and showing text message receipts,turns out I was not in the wrong and they were the ones who were bad freinds to me but I was too insecure to realize. I am no longer friends with either of those people
I just want my sister back. But I think I need to give her space then we can work on rebuilding our relationship in the future.
@Ивана Јокић auctually , we’re not friends anymore now. Our friendship was very toxic and she was a narcissist. I was a doormat , and when I would confront her about how she would treat me she would project her character flaws on me. It took awhile for me to see but when I made this comment I was auctually just sucking up to her and very naive. I had believed I was wrong when auctually she was. Ending that friendship was the overall best decision I could’ve made and I’m much happier. ❤️
What if you’re the one that got hurt and the other is avoiding you and doesn’t seem to want to repair or discuss anything?
Broken relationships are like broken pots, no matter how much glue is used to fix them, they will never be the same. Better to learn to let go, and more on.
what if someone is trying to break the the friendship further and you are trying to fix it?
Exactly same thing is happening to me
let it go. That's a sign they try to break away from you. :')
@@xJannah637 but how I love them so much the just won't listen to me
I lashed out to my bestfriend through text... Though fucking text.. :(
It was such a stupid argument and it was all my fault :(
I'm currently going through that too :(
Me too 🤨🥺
I’m going thru the exact same thing. I can’t stop blaming myself :(
I recently got dumped by my best friend. Although we were not from the same age group and family status (she has 2 kids while I recently got married) we were very close. She is my colleague and I see her in the office every day. It's very difficult for me to see her giggling with another colleague and I feel angry every time I see them
She never told me why she decided to block me from her social accounts and everytime I would pass by her desk, she would not look or talk to me. I feel awful and don't know what to do. I sometimes feel like returning her the small gifts she has given me and a thank you card for being a great friend and tell her that her friendship was really the best thing I had. However i also want to tell her thank you for dumping me and hurting me. Can I do that?
Don't return the gifts, sounds silly but even if the friendship died, at the moment it was genuine and for that reason the gift has it's value. And positive, do write a letter to her, but don't deliver it, she doesn't deserve that attention no longer. Instead, burn it in a fire as a sign of moving on and trust me, there are still people that value you that do deserve your investment. Much luck :)
Sounds she was not a true friend. True friends dont "dump" you.
Sometimes it hurts when the illusion bursts. Be thankful for being shown the truth.
Haunted by the age old questions can exes be friends. My ex and I were friends years before we dated. It’s been over a year since the breakup. In a way I don’t care about the rel but I do miss my friend and care about how she’s doing. It was a split on good terms. I wish we could be friends again. I think if you still care about a person after all this time that they must be important.
Ouch it hurts how quickly friendships can be canceled these days. Recently I just had two friends cut me off out of the blue. They are already best friends and I was the third. When we talked after two months I was shocked by what they said. It felt like high school. No matter my saying I’m sorry they seemed committed to painting me as the villain. My takeaway is how I really need to be more discerning in who I open up to.. 🙏🏽
What if apparently you make someone anxious when your around?
We can't 'make' someone feel something. It's a choice.
Your advice helped me so much. Using your advice, my friend responded very well to my apology letter! 💜
Ive been friends with this girl for 10 years and best friends for 3 years and are relationship seemed to be really good. All of a sudden she ditched me and our whole friend group because she wanted new friends. The worse part is she's leaving me for someone she promised she would never leave or replace me with. She got people involved that didn't need to be and made the situation worse. I never wanted to stop being friends but she did. I miss my best friend and want to fix things but I don't know if she is willing to do it. She really hurt me and my friends but she's means so much to me.
Maya Chetty I'm so sorry. I would say, don't force some one to be friends with you. A friendship takes 2. Try and make things right with her, and if she refuses, then u know that she doesn't value your friendship. U don't need people like her in your life. Mistakes only become mistakes when they are repeated. So learn from them. Be smarter than her, and be kind bc you will never regret being kind. 2 wrongs don't make a right!! Good Luck Maya ❤️
We Always here for you
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Maya Chetty No problem!
Maya Chetty no problem!!
Maya chetty exactly the same thing that is happening to me but I'm in your best friend in your situation
Unfortunately, the other person isn’t willing to fix it with me but I appreciate the videos
What if you called to apologize and that’s when things went from bad to worse and is when they didn’t feel like continuing the friendship?
Happened with me.. I don't know what to do now.
I think apologies have to be selfless and without attachment to an outcome. A real apology can't be "begging for forgiveness", because your friend is not obligated to forgive or forget what happened
I was falsely accused for being “racist” by all of my friends when I didn’t say anything racist and now they all wanna fight
@@man-xt2ey Perhaps you were unintentionally racist
I don't even know how to approach mending my broken friendship. I apologized to everyone involved multiple times for the damage my needy, clingy, depressed, habits caused. I told them I was seeking counseling and I am starting some deep inner healing counseling. Not only was my apology rejected but I was belittled for my choice to seek counseling so I can heal enough to treat my friends better.
This from the same beloved sister in the Lord that just a month before drove through tornado warning weather to meet me at the airport when met in person. The same person who had spoken praises over the blessing my friendship was on that visit. In the blink of an eye she lost all patience with me and responded with hate. I tried mailing her a card for her birthday and it came back refused, return to sender.
At this point all I can do is work on the inner healing I need to be the person God meant for me to be instead of this fractured mess. Giving my buddy space is the hardest thing I have ever done. The loss of my dearest friend and sister, the hate she expressed to me, it's agonizing. It feels like I won't ever have anything to live for again.
Every day is just coping with daily needs. There is nothing that gives me joy. Every memory, all the things that used to make me smile send me sobbing from loss. It feels like I lost not only my best friends but the best parts of who I was. I don't know who I am underneath the pain.
this just happened to me and there is someone actively trying to make it worse..
i hope you can fix your friendship
@@xymec0098 I am so sorry that you have been going through a similar loss. It's heartbreaking to have a friend you loved and trusted treat you with hate and rejection. In my case all I can do is leave my friend in God's hands and pray that he can heal the rift between us. It still hurts so much every day. Big hugs to you. May healing come in your friendship.
chabash- Journey of a Shattered Heart Made Whole some people don’t have the threshold to deal with stuff like our anxieties. I believe that’s what’s happened with me and my friend . I applogized for overreacting to him not answering my text and over the course of the conversation he said you’re a pain in the ass and I don’t want to be friends anymore. I want to try and fix it but I don’t know if he would want to...it’s been a few days, I don’t know when to bring it up again ornifninshould just give it time before I try
@@ando1135 I am so sorry to hear you are going through that. Experience has taught that when someone is past being able to handle my anxiety ridden self, it's best to give them some space. Any intereaction while they are still overwhelmed will be a negative experience for them. That is why I am trying to just focus on healing the anxiety while I give my friend space. It's so difficult when that friend was a huge part of your life but not everyone can handle the ups and downs of our moods. And while their friendship is positive for us it is draining for them. We just need to focus on healing ourselves and hope that as we get better maybe some of those special to our hearts can learn to trust our friendships again.
See I need advise and help. I said something and removed her from Facebook. Now she won't let me talk to her. But she said she's not at all bothered about what I said to her. But she's confused about what I did. What should I do guys?
I realize that people hearts get waxed cold and no matter what people just refuse to forgive you no matter what.
I still have hope to repair friendship with my bff, I can't keep going with out her
how was it
@@judgementkazzy4781 I moved on, we still talk but a very little I was wrong when I said that I can't keep going without her
@@mohammedsalloum1140 i should probably move on too, we still have alot ahead of us, lets keep fighting brother, take care.
@@judgementkazzy4781 Take care man, always try to put yourself first, cuz your mental health is the most important thing
Wht happend now
I have lost a good friend during quarantine and I felt heartbroken
I lost a friend also during the first quarantine but i send an apology message and she forgave me and we are fine now. Try to reach out to her/him
If you have hurt someone acknowledging where you hurt them creates a space for positivity. When you move into positivity, lets have fun but dont acknowledge your part it leaves them wondering and anxious if your just going to play off where you hurt someone
Thank you so much without your help we would of never been friends again. Big thank you to you
I have two best friends and one of them recently moved away. At first my other best friends and I tried to move on from her, but then I started ditching her, because I didn't want her to know I'm sad. But then, I realized, we're becoming strangers. How do I fix this?
Be truthful. Say why you are sad to her. If you're not truthful, nothing will grow out of hiding why you are pushing yourself away from her.
I need advise or help getting over this>, a couple months ago I got in a big argument with my bestfriend and we stopped becoming friends. And so she started talking bad about to people, the whole school hated me, she and her friends would bully me, until she hit me one day and we fought physically. And ever since I’ve been really sad about everything I miss her and I wish I could talk to her but she’s the type of person who doesn’t care n won’t hear from you ever. N I’ve been miserable n I can’t move past it.but she did. And I’ve tried to put it behind me but I cant
I dont know what advice to give you because Im here for help too. But I just want you to know you are loved. Give yourself a big hug. God will send you a good friend. And this pain will go away. 😘😘😘😘
Yogirlcamillo this is going to be harsh my friend, but throw away that human garbage. You are loved and have no room for anyone to be making you feel different. She sounds like the classic narcissist, after your argument she was extremely worried on how others would react so she made you the villain. Look up the symptoms of a narcissist and I bet you she'll match up. Trust me you don't need that toxicity in your life no manner the good memories you have together. Remember the good but also the bad, make new friends and report her to the police because that's called physical asult and harassment. If that doesn't work, join a taekwando class and learn to defend yourself? I don't know lol, it worked for me. Good luck ♥
I totally feel u honey! My friend moved on and i can't and it's been 2 years since we broke up. I miss her!
I've done all. I don't know what she wants because she isn't that open about it. We don't talk in real life though but we do chat alot. How can I know what she feels?
Ask her
What do I do if she betrays my trust but I still want to be friends but she wamts to be friends with someone who hates you and you also so whenever your best friend is hanging out with the girl that hates you (which is a lot) you hsve to avoid them and you end up all alone without anyone to help you. Even after you were basically your best friends therapist. Also, what do you do if the girl that hates you also used to be your friend but now ignores you and no matter how hard you try to say sorry and fix things she just pulls away and calls you a non-existant rat. Mind you I have no other friends to go to and the girl that hates you is making everyone else hate you because she popular and im the nice outcast that everyone used to like but now hates.... Please I need help 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
We have a scarily similar situation.
Thank you SO VERY MUCH! Blessings to you too for giving such good help!!!
My friend ended our friendship because she met another friend of mine and they had a horrible fight. When she got home she sent me a message saying she no longer wants us to be friends and then blocked me. My best friend (not the one she met) sent her a very mean message as a reply to the things she said. Now it’s been months I got over her although we see each other at uni but I now see her everyday and it’s so heartbreaking especially because it’s our last year at uni. I feel bad because I miss her, the feeling of not seeing her again is awful. Instead of focusing on my exams I keep thinking about the times we had at that same time of the year last year and cry. I know I can’t contact her or talk to her because she told me to avoid doing that and made it clear that she doesn’t want me in her life, also the message my friend sent her was so harsh. I’m so heartbroken, what should I do ?
What if we are both hurt and each of us thinks that we did nothing wrong? I’m experiencing this with my 8-year best friend and i didn’t tell anyone about it because i don’t know how to describe the situation… it’s been over a month now since we talked and that’s when we ended the conversation with literally nothing good. Idk how to solve this im so hurt but she’s too… :( i feel like i don’t want to apologize for something i didn’t doo but apparently she feels the same….. ugh
What if your friend is the one who ended it...saying we are not meant to be friends and she got tired because of our ignorings in the past...What can i do to fix it..i really need her and love her..she is my closest friend
Guys I have a three group friendship and I went away for a week like a break and I guess they talked constantly so I’m guessing they started to get annoyed by each other and they have little fights calling each other names like they don’t even talk to each other for a while. Pls help🙁 Idk what to do without them
Sometimes times it's good to take a break maybe not forever but for a while
I am going to fix my friendship.
The worst part is that I don’t know where I went wrong, which leads me to conclude I probably have a boring personality or that I’m not normal in some way. I’m in the middle of a grieving process.
I hope you're doing better now! I'm sorry that happened to you, but you need to know you did nothing wrong. I hope time is being good to you and that you accept what life is trying to offer you!
My soulmate has endet our friendship i canr believe she could do this to me. I love her so much and i‘‘m scared she doesnt love me anymore
I honestly do to. I didn’t even do a terrible thing I cared about her I knew she was sad about her rejections with these 2 guys and I wanted to be there for her. I was really excited to be with her next year. She doesn’t dislike me and still wants to be friendly but she doesn’t want to be friends anymore.
I need some advice. So I ruined a really good friendship about a year and a half ago and I apologized immediately and she accepted my apology but then asked for space. Well after that happened I got upset because she wasn’t talking to me even though she asked for space and so I kept trying to apologize to her because I couldn’t stand having this silence between us and that just pushed her away even more. She ended up blocking my number and unfollowing me on social media. What do I do? Is there ever a right time to reach out to her again? I really love her a lot and miss her
I haven’t spoken to my best friend From my program in a while . I don’t know if it’s out of sight out of mind . It kinda hurts but I’m trying to move on with my life succsssfully . I also have a bsst friend from High school that I lost contact with years ago . 9 years ago to be exact . No argurments nothing like that . But we just grew apart I guess . I thihk it hurts because we grew up together . I’ve known him since I was 16 Which I thihk why it’s so hard to move on cause we have history
What do you do if you feel like a friend hurt you (unintentionally) but you know they there are not going to apologize. They can tell that the energy is off.
i did a mistake of agreeing with people instead of defending them and suddenly i turned somewhat toxic. i don't know what to do anymore i only have 2 left and their the ones i know i real life
at the same time im kind of happy cause i get to focus on my exams
i deleted all my social medias with them
i dont know what to do
Thank you for that videoWhat about if the other person is the one who betrayed and disappointed me. Or at least we BOTH did it. Is is right for me to apologize alone?
Dope Video! Sending blessing your way, Keep inspiring!🎒🙌🏻
we are having the gap for almost 3 months already.. we had a petty argument which lead her not talking to me anymore.. before we are having a daily conversation until to the point that she was not responding to me anymore.. it’s so painful.. feel so empty as i dong know what ive done wrong.. til i learnt that she is doubting my gender preference.. but inspite of that, i still want to retrieve the friendship we have..
What about repairing a friendship when you are the one considering 'breaking it off'?
And when do you think it is appropriate to 'break up?'
If you are going forward with breaking up, what is the best way to do that?
HEY JESS CHAMBERS yes! I have some blog posts that might help? Here’s one: www.google.com/amp/s/www.girlfriendcircles.com/blog/index.php/2013/06/five-questions-to-ask-before-ending-a-friendship%3fformat=amp and feel free to search “break up” on my blog to find more! Hugs to you as you decide!
I'm right here now too- I don't want the friendship to end, but I also don't want it to be the way it was. In my case- it began to feel very one sided- with me doing for her X, Y, Z - and while I love to do things for friends, there comes a point where there still needs to be a balance. I had a very difficult summer- and really reached out - trying to be explicit that I could really use some friendship time with her- to help me through this rocky point. She was unable to be there for me -- and when I finally brought it up as to why I began to pull away- she did "apologize," but as the video said- she "defended" herself too. She said she was having her own "demons" and therefore, couldn't find even 1 day or a few hours to be there for me. (I wish I could show her this video - without it coming off wrong).
@@ShastaMNelson my best friend break up with me we not talking but i want talk to her what i tell and do ? i have boyfriend is transgender she feels i dont want her in my life but i do .
Just accidentally called my friend a slur, we argued, they hate me now....I feel so bad but this video may help...thanks
i did all this, but my friend who is in the wrong a lot too, has taken no responsibility, was mean and just didnt apologies,
My friend doesn't want an apology.
How do I help my friends who stopped being friends but I’m still friends with both of them
What if it's because they got a boyfriend?
ugh relatable
i hear u
Yeah btw what can you do
ify, wtd
I just want some clarity so I'm writing this here
RECENTLY I BROKEUP GROM A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP AND WE WERE BEST FRIENDS FOR LONG BUT THEN WHEN HE SUDDENLY LEFT WE DECIEDED TO BECOME FRIENDS WE BOTH AGREED BUT THEN IT STARTED HURTING WHEN HE STARTED GETTING NEAR TO THIS GIRL HE CALLS SISTER AND EVEN THO I KNOW HE HAD PURE INTENTIONS I BLAMED HIM OF BEING WRONG FOR BEING SO CLOSE TO THE GIRL AND LEFT I EXPECTED HIM TO COME FOR ME SINCE I DID SO MUCH IN PAST. SO NOW IM THINKING IF IM WRONG AND SHOULD I MAKEUP WITH HIM SINCE HE MEANS ALOT TO ME. IS THERE ANYONRS FAULT
Thanks for posting this I had a former colleague/ friend that was giving me mixed signals/ mind games pretending that he wanted to get a divorce but he didn't. I take responsibility for allowing myself to become emotionally attached to a married guy ( we were NEVER intimate). But at the same token real friends don't play games with your feelings or mind games. In retrospect he was never really a friend & I stopped interacting with him over 2 years ago.
This happened to me too.
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Wow do you still interact with that person?
They who lie and deceive as a lifestyle are not worth pursuing.
Ayyy so hard to live and .You should have felt like you could neither move forward nor stop .did you feel some kind of guilt after you stopped talking to him?
@@kahinaaitdjoudioufella64
No I didn't feel guilty after I stopped speaking to him, in retrospect I don't think he was a real friend because friends don't play mind games or give mixed signals. Maybe if he gave me a genuine apology I would have felt differently but he didn't do that 😔
5 years ago I made a huge mistake and ended a friendship with a friend who I was friends with for 17 years. 5 years ago I apologised to her and she said she’s moved on with her life. I have recently ran into her in a supermarket and she looked at me for a second and then walked away and avoided me totally. I didn’t try chasing her or talking to her. I think she’s still not forgiven me.
That blows so badly...... 😭
Sometimes u gotta let people go and let that be a learning lesson.
What do I do if let's say I said something and theres rumors about her and she doesn't want to be my friend and I said I understand but I'm sad cause some of my other friends aren't my friend cause of what I did what should I do
Is it worth it to apologize and catch up after 2 years?
yeah , u got nothing to lose ! better try than never , there is always a possibility , u can do this ! goodluck
This helped so much, thank you!
how do you fix a friendship with someone who doesn't give out second chances?
Give it some time, try again. If they still don't want to reconcile, move on. It takes two people to make a friendship work.
What if they betrayed you? Should you break up with them? Or should you confront them and talk about it?
Of u know that they did it to hurt u, or knew u woult get very upset, u should still talk to them. If they don’t show an intrest or u know they are just talking bullshit. Cut them out. But maybe they only made a mistakes. That’s something all people do
Talk about it of course
But she is not talking to me at all... leave alone meeting with me.. I don't know what to do...no replies to texts. What can I do?
I just texted my best friend and wish that this friendship could be fixed well if not at least I did my best
it worked I dont know how to thank you , that was my misunderstanding 🥺🥺🥺💓💓💓
Best. Friend's are. The. World to. U. How. Can. Some. One. Dislike. This. Video
What if you don’t know what you did wrong? My best friend of 2 years cut me off for as far as I can tell no reason but I’m sure there’s probably a good reason.
Also I’ve reached out before but she just hasn’t responded
My best friend is now hanging out with the popular girls and won’t care about me😔
Red flag dude , move onn as soon as possible
I have a story. So me and this girl work together for 2 years. Shes 37 and im 30. I had a good friendship with her and it was good but what happened was she blocked me because i was being obsessive and texting her too much always wanting to hang out. My number was blocked. And i want to apologise to her but i said it in a disgraceful rude way that hurt her feelings. She told me we are only work friends and cant be close anymore, not even friendly hugs or hang out at lunch. Only work friendship. I need some answers if its worth it. I really want to be friends with her even if she has someone for 15 years. Shes a lesbian no hating on them but I fell for her as a straight guy. I just dont want my friendship to end with her because of what ive done to her.
How do you apologize for being a toxic person to multiple people (4 people)
what if someone needs to do these things for me?
I have a situation at work that is sort of complicated. I have someone I use to work with working in the same building I do but for a different company .We went through a lot together all together I have known him about 8 years when the place closed he said he didn't want to stay in touch. So for the last 4 years it has been I would hear from him birthdays , holidays and a few other times a year. When we run into each other at work we both stop and stare for a moment and then keep going. He spoke to me once it was just a hi how are you but that's it. Now it's back to stop and stare. I don't know what to think I would have loved to stay friends but he didn't want to do that. I only run into him a couple times a week. It has made me want to stay clear of that side of the building. and that is impossible. I would love to just be able to do hi how are you or good morning or have a good evening. It would just be less awkward for both of us I suspect. Anyway, that's my story.
What about giving them space ? Isn't that necessary?
I’m sorry I am VERY late but this just happened so my friend got a boyfriend ant was with him for about a year and a half. She told me and another person she wasn’t happy with him and that she wanted to break up with him. She said she didn’t want to tell him she wanted to break up because she didn’t want to hurt him. She came up to me and told me she wanted me to talk with her boyfriend and convince him to break up with her. Her only exception was she didn’t want to be dragged into it, ex. She didn’t want me to say she wanted to break up with him. I followed her command and did as I was told. He broke up with her and I texted her I did it. She then says “I’m crying rn, I gtg I’m done.” I don’t know what I did wrong but can someone please help me???
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This helped me a lot thank you so much
can I still save a friendship where the other person rarely shows interest in talking to you? how?
My friend and I went to different high schools and after a while she just drifted apart one day I talked and told her about it so she decided to leave so i let her and after a month i messaged her apologizing but she never replied and until this day i have hope that she will still reply I'm so sad and depressed over it i don't know what to do i really love her as a sister
U didn't tell the solution to drift 😭
The only way to heal from a break friendship is to move on
what if you where hurt but the person who hurts you tells everyone you are a bad friend *cough Charli cough*
I keep trying to stay positive with her but she keeps… Idek. She’s begging to be rude to everyone, I don’t like a single one of her new group of friends. Even though I’ve tried to get them on my good side but I just can’t. We’ve been best friends since elementary school…
I ignored my friends for more than 6 months. Messaged them a couple they did a couple of times but not like earlier. I ignored them during my depressed times and was in a shell. After coming out Im unable to reconcile and with work and all we went away. Now I'm having huge void and want to speak with them. Anyone could help me in this
In my case, its 2 months!🙁
@@praveenbaskar12 it's a small period of time, talk to them
We both did things wrong and it’s been 5 months. I’m scared
I mean we’re still okay ig at school but it’s hard and we haven’t talked since march
I need some help in my social life
How many do u have?
Is this a Good Apology?
Is this a good way to let her know I don't want to give up on us?
Look.
What I did... It was wrong.
I Pulled you in to far and stressed you out.
I was needy.
I expected you to do way to much
I didn't show any trust
I let the past control me
and in trying to Keep us together,.. I am the one who ripped us apart
I Lied. I never saw you as my best friend, but as my older sister. I wanted to keep you happy and be by your side both when you were excited and sad, to be someone you could count on. I took things to literal, and I am stupid for doing so. I Apologize for smothering you and putting all my gametime to you. I wanted to show you mattered to me and I did that wrong. I know that now.
So I Decided to give you space to allow you to breath. to think. to remember. to know whether or not giving me..no. giving us another chance is worth it. and so I can work on becoming the Best friend that you deserve, rather than the horrible friend I have been.
If you need help then let me prove..no, show you I'm better now! I have gone through therapy (Online, and have worked on my self.. truth is I still am and look (Name).. you changed my life for the better. I want to return the favor. I want to be the light you were to myself. someone you can count on, and Care for, but not the only person.
That was a flaw in my thinking back then:
wanting to be THE one you would come to in times of need, rather than just being there with open arms whenever needed.
that is not me anymore. I am a better person now, but don't just listen, Let me show show you I am Different!
I don't want us to hide and forget about what happened. I want to learn to be better to and for you. but I cannot do this on my own. a newly Hatched bird needs encouragement to learn how to fly.
I need you to guide me in the unlikely case I derail. I need you to want us again as well.
how can I Make amends?
Love: ye old Pal, (My Name)
I Just want us to both be happy together again
@@bbqchipspls hey Man. This is a beautiful apology. Did it work ? I really hope it did.
I tried to say sorry
I was moments away from apologizing just because I didn’t want our friendship to end and it was her fault. (She basically left 1,000$ worth of my stuff on a table and left ( I’ve known her for years and I trusted her a lot)) Then SHE MADE A TON OF EXCUSES FOR IT. Then has the audacity while I was moments away from apologizing to tell me I need to take accountability for my actions.
But like i did apologise but she said that sorry is nothing it cant fix anything
What if they accidentally block all your social media accounts and ur number
demon spectrum this literally happened to me. Two of my best friends blocked me one day and we haven’t talk since
I genuinely messed up
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My special best friend ignore me up until now because my wife mad at her for caring so much... How to repair that?.... Now i am grieving and scared for losing her.. Huhhhh...
hey uhm thx for the advice but it didn't work me and friend or bffs freinship is still broken Idk why my friends are changing but martee she would never change cuz she's my bff but my other friends well still broken freind ship the for trying I guess and I tried everything it didn't work
How to maintain friendships and relationships when your unable to function? I am having trouble with my social life. I didn't even have much of a social life to begin with, and recently i dumped all my old friends and tossed my old life away to build a new one, but now i am falling apart at the seams and unable to maintain my potential friends. Please help me. I can't manage everything at once. I feel stressed, drained, and my day to day life is getting so bad, i can't function anymore. I need serious help. I want to keep my friends. They need me. I don't want to lose new friendships. I don't want any of my old ones at all and live in the past. My childhood friends really don't mean anything to me since they really weren't my friends at all. But building a new life is what i really want. I need real friendships in my life, and i want a fresh start on making new bonds with people but i am struggling mentally to do so. What can i do to maintain relationships and also take care of myself too?
The most important thing is to take care of yourself first because if you don´t then you won´t be able to be present for others.
I hope the saying I love you to a guys whose your best friend isn't viewed as gay by people
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Shasta Nelson; Friendship Expert How can you add the positivity fun aspect if you were in a long distance friendship?
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I ruined all my friendship on instagram
1 year and a bit ago i thought she really cared about me, now I'm here watching this video at 11pm. It escalated kinda quickly
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What if i was good friends with a friend from middle school and we texted every day and supported each other emotionally. We always professed to always be there with us. She got exceedingly depressed due to a troubled marriage and then had protracted withdrawals from taking Klonopin and then she said she was too depressed to talk any more and now she never talks to me ever! Like poof! She’s gone! She claims it is her mood but how can you just do away with a close friend without a reason?
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