What is Narcissistic personality disorders? | Analysis by Siddhant Agnihotri
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sir video me aawaj nahi hai
kal waale video me bhi aisa hi tha. please check
sorry sir mere end pe hi dikkat thi . sorry sorry
Worst video ever from ur side Study Glows, No voice. At least check and reply on that ur able to resolve this voice issue or not
sir sound problem video mai
sir what happened if two extreme narciess are in relationship ??
Only a narc survivor knows how mentally, emotionally and even physically painful it is to be with a narcissist.
Your whole life will be destroyed already before you really know.😭😭😭
@@vaibhav826 exactly... And their manipulation and abuse is also something very hard to explain to others.
Exactly
Yeah... My father's one
Gone through this
My grandmother is a narcissist and made my mother's life hell. Same goes with my dad who has acquired a bit of narcissistic traits from her.But now as I fight back for my mother they don't dare to trouble my mom much.
You're doing well tc of your mother.
You are brave. More strength and courage to you.
You doing well
my grandmothers sister same like this
Proud of you😍
Mr. Siddhant I am a 50 year old man ,I watched your video crying like a child, I couldn't understand how you have come to know exactly the same characteristics of my wife with whom I lived for more than 25 years, when I got married to her I was a wealthy businessman, and when she died few months ago, I had only 1500/ Rs. In my pocket with no house and nothing of my own, she not only ruined me financially, mentally, and physically but killed the childhood of both of my children , and finally made every body believe that it was us who did not take care of her.
I have seen this same pattern in my ex and my family member, she has ruined everything... initially i thought ki shayad wo sudhar jaaye but they can't change....she has destroyed a happy family and my ex ruined my mental health
Same happened with me and my sister. My mother is a narcissist.
So bad...need help to the patient
If U want to understand narcissistic U must understand the pet
Oh sir, I cried while reading your comment 😢, hope you doing well right now
Aapki har ek baat universal truth hai sir ..
Kyuki ye experience mene bahut karib se face kiya hai ..par mene in sabse khud ko bahar nikala hai..
Mamta Banerjee ko vi hai ye problem. Hum Bengali ye jante hai
😂😂😂
Sach main 🤔
🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 sach mein
ঠিক কইছেন ।
I dealt with a narcissistic in my personal life. But i kicked out him from my life and living a happy life now. Thank you universe 🙏
Me too🙏
❣️❣️❣️
Me too ☺️
Me too
Me too
Ye video dekhane valo se nivedan hai ki is video ko dekhke kisi apne ko khudse dur mat kar Dena kyuki aj kal ye chij har kisi me dekhane ko milati hai to please guys kisi aise insan ko Jo apka apna use dur mat kar Dena Aisa bhi ho sakta hai ki vo insan ko koy bimari na ho par uska svabhav Aisa ho par vo insan Dil se acha ho to please aisi bate sunke kisi ko dur mat karna baki ap sab samjdar hai our kind hearted bhi hai
Right
Bilkul sahi hai bhai. Science k name pe insaniyat bhulte ja rahe hain log.
Mere Bhai apka kbi Kisi narcissist se pala nhi para..Meri mother in law and my own father dono narcissist hn...ye log aam logo se bht alg hoty hn...inko AP khush nhi kr skty chahiye kch b ho...jiski AP bt kr rhy hn wo mere hubby hn Dil k achy hn mizaj k Tez hn bht jaldi ghusaa hoty hn but Jo narcissist hota he wo apka dusro k Sath relation b khrab krta he jese Meri mother in law and my father wo dono hmary bich k relation ko khrab krny me koi Qasar nhi chorhi mjhe mere father k ghr me unki waja se severe anxiety or clinical depression ta but hubby k Sath rehny k bd wo bht km hua he albta Meri mother in law ne b bht depressed kia mjhe but shukr he abi me un se b tudi alg hu Mera portion alg he unky pas ziada jany ki zarurt nhi prti to ab lgta he life me peace aa gia
Aap k Ash pass sabhi soulmate aur pure soul he hai. Ishliye aapko narsss k bare mei knowledge nahi hai.. bhgwan na kare kbhi pala pade. But aap unse puche jinke life mei narsst insaan hote hai kitne toh suicide bhi kiya. Hai
@@musarratmomin aapke pala kisi narst insaan se nahi hua, please unse puchna jinse pala pada tha, unki life hell ho chuki hai.
You are absolutely right. It’s a hell of a life with these Narcissistic people. Living with one for the last 38 years.
Since last 38 years!?!?! My God.... Its really hats off for you then. Now I'm done... I was suffering since 5 years. But it'll be ok. Suffering comes only to those who have the strength to bear it. Life will change soon. Keep smiling. God bless you
@@SpecialSeed0909 Thank you 🙏
Mere bf ko bhi ye hi problem h bt I leave him after 7 years of relationship
I was victim but now by the blessings of lord Shiva and ma parvati my recovery was going on ,but actually I am completely recovered today ❤️ by knowing the problem that she was narcissistic personality 🙏
🙂🤗
Kon thi vo
Where is she now
Us 🤝
Did you referred any counsellor? Therapist? Seeking help
It's difficult to leave a narcissist , can tell through personal experience , they keep you in a confusing state that whether you want to leave them or not.
Exactly..so true! 😐
Just leave
My father is a narcissist and my childhood was awful, i am a narcissist too
So being a narcissist and a narcissist victim, i can say just run away
You might feel guilty abandoning someone who is in need
But trust me , we narcissists are parasites, you wont get what you are wishing fo, JUST RUN AWAY
@@VENOM-tx6gp no you are good narcissist 😊🤗 just try to change your self and dont call yourself narcissist
Agree 😢
Janet winny karke channel hai ..usmai Narsstic ka pura detail bataya hai...ap Jake dekho ..kafi guidence milegi.janet se
I have the same symptom in me, but i have started changing my life past 2 months. Thank God for showing me my personality now I will change with yours blessings.
No narc kbi b nhi badalta nhi h
@@deepadhania5921pagal aurat ..ek to vo koshish krra hai person .. usko MOTIVATION ki jagah demotivate kre ho .. CHANGE IS THE ONLY CONSTANT. I hope jo bhi is stithi se guzar rahe hai ... Vo khud ko change kar paye ..
@@omgtube6916 bewakoof mna use bola h ki wo narc nhi h qki narc kbi b manta nhi ki vo glt h na sudhar Lata h toxic hone ar narcissist hone m frk hota h smghe narcissist kbi nhi mante ki vo narc h smghe isme kha mna demotivate kr diya koi glt smghe to use btana glt h k
@deepadhania5921 You are right. Those who have never been with a narcissist will not understand this.
AP shaid co dependent ho...qk apka Jo ye khyal Aya he ye b is bt ki alamat he k AP narcissist nhi ho puri trha se...
Allah apko sahi Rasta dikhaye ameen ❤
He is 100 percent right…connection with a narcissistic person kills you from inside…although we have other people who love us….but narcissistic people have ‘naagpaash’ you cannot leave their grip. You fake happiness but deep down you are sad.
It’s difficult when you have narcissistic mother….you cannot leave her and you cannot ignore her. U crave for her love and admiration….my mom is very old now (80 years) ….whenever I say mom you did this ….she say you are this …you are that ….you are too emotional….stop being needy…. She doesn’t understand what I mean….I am married have loving husband and kids….but still feel how to get loved by my mom….but overall I have accepted the situation and I am there whenever she needs me….
I had a narcissist friend, she completely destroyed my social circle just to prove herself better than me. I even never knew this, she acted so humble and cared for me.... She used to defame me to gain sympathy and attention from people.... Actually I was fooled and devastated more than 14 years of my life.... Now I am scared in making new friends...
I too had a friend like that. Horrible experience of my life. Now when I think about it it was a lesson you need to learn for your self growth.
Even I was trappped in the narcissist friends in my life they behave nicely but infront of others they degrade or make fun of me or taunt me....like behaving good then bad..... confuse i am still having their momories in my mind....
Yes me tooo
Yes me to ,, my best friend, she give me mental trauma
Same thing happened with me, she was my best friend, I hope you'll be able to heal yourself
They totally destroy your life 💔
Okay then. I am an extreme narcissist then. I possess all the symptoms.
And may be that's why my earlier relations didn't work out. And my current relation With my parents, friends and my mate is suffering a lot.
But i didn't do any of that with intention it just happened.
Yesterday after watching this video i shared it with my mate and told her everything abt it but she refused to leave, stayed and said "don't worry we'll fix it out"....how lucky i am to have her.
I promise myself I'll be a changed person in few months.
*Thanks sidhhant sir this video is turned out to be a life changing for me.*
God bless you sir! Keep going.
True
Hope u get well soon 😔😔 I was also being so supportive to my ex bf throughout 10 yrs of relationship but I give up, I feel I never gonna fix his problem, I faced so much toxicity through my long past years but anyhow I make myself out from that relationship
But still I also feel that scenario if he will marry to someone then that lady will get a bad man for her whole life. After 4 months of my breakup in 2020 , he requested me to come to his life, he did everything in a panic situation but I & few people related to me saw the truth that he planned and executed so much things, I told him the last thing that you already destroyed 1 father's daughter but don't destroy again another father's daughter in your life again
Aap please ye sab mat krna or jaldi se thik hone ki kosis krna
@@Khushi-my2in you are a true and honest girl. God bless you dear 🙏
Mujhe pata chala hai aapke bolne k baav sey k aap bhi iske shikaar huye han
( but aapne bahut sahi kiya h sabko iss k bare Mai batakar thanks bro)
mai 22 saal se ise bardasht kar rahi hu ,, par aap bohut achha kam kar rahe ho ,, bohut sare log is jahanm se bach jayenge aap ki vajhah se sir 👍👍👍
My ex was narcissist
She literally mentally murdered me..
She was the same as sir explained
But Thank god now I am almost recovered..
🤣🤣
Bro same things happened with me also
Also my ex was Narcissist bt after breking up with her my life becomes So Beautiful❤️
Tumhare paas ex toh thii....mere paas present bhi nahi h 🤣
@@backbencher4781 ye dukh kahe khatam nahi hota 😂😂😭😭
It is so funny that, when you watch the trail, amber Heard lawyer said that jhoney depp is narcissistic because he eats candy middle in the trail, sudden after that jhoney deep lawyer pick a candy , and said now I am also a narcissist,
🤣
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I think all the lawyers and team of Amber Heard are dealing with narcissistic personalities.
Trail nahi voh trial hota hai gawar 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In current situation all younger generation should be informed about these kind of personality traits.. this will really help a lot of people.. unfortunately our family system is failing to do that..
Omg can't have the words to say for making this video. You don't have idea how much this video solved my problem. This video can change My whole life. I am into 7years marriage relationship and from struggling to take decision from last few months. I was crying a lot which decision I should choose. Finally this video become God advice suddenly this video come now my believe going sooo strong on God now ❤
My father is a Narcissistic person, made my life living hell, I was six he brought me to work in his factory to work , he did not allowed to play with my friends whole life he control my actions, Untill college for 1st year I decided to go work of my choice he tried to keep under his control in factory but he failed, so he started doing silent torture to mother me and my sisters till 7 yrs because of that's I changed multiple jobs, I wasted my peak age of young bcoz of him, my mother and me decided to leave him we are living separately. Now he is living somewhere. We are somehow feeling peacefull
Ha bhai sahi kiya 🔥 all the best for your life
After seen this video finally I realised that my hard decision to leave her was right. Thanks to my family and friends who give me right advise and move on in life. I'm living a happy life finally 😘
Bo kya krti thi bhai
Tumari baat bhot pati bhay muje , bhot time se bas ye sab bate Mera sirf andaza tha , pn tumara video dekke confirm hogaya bhay Aisa hota or hai bhi , bhot se public hai bi touch me bhar se leke Ghar tk me , pn hamesha Dil se koshish hoti ke vo bi taklif me hai bhay to unko bi hak hai Sahi zindagi jine ka ,to bhot bura bi lagta pn apna nuksan hota isliye thoda dur rehta , but hamesha Pray or Koshish jarur karunga ye ek Virus hi bol sakte Ho Public me felra Jisko Kam Karu jitta mere se ho sake , Thank U Bhay🖖👽💖🙌
10:15 Correct they don't want to be sociable.
My life became a disaster with a narcissist. I am thankful to God that I am alive and peaceful now. Only a survivor knows what mental toll it is to deal with a narcissist. They push you to an identity loss and Stockholm syndrome. And the irony is they are really good actors. No one would know it easily that you are being mercilessly abused.
Yes they are really good actors.. Aapko stories bana bana kar sunayenge like imagination stories fake aur fraud personality hote ye bahut bade jhoote makkar
@@abhi0763 yes Sir nash Nash me inke revenge bhara hota
@@abhi0763 maine massive level par ek narc ko jhela hai.... Fully loaded psycho, suicide karne Ko mazbur kar diya tha mujhe, imagination stories sunayi jaati thi mujhe, ye saare traits The uske ander jinhe maine realize kar liya thaa Maine, bataya bhi maine magar khud ko superior samajte ye log cheat bhi kiyaa one year baad aagya... Aur one year se ek baar milo yahi lga rakha... But me aware hu usse ab criminal minded
@@abhi0763 haan ye bhi hai
Yes,,,, .
This line is so true...
No one would know it easily that you are being mercilessly abused.
Can't walk away.. She's my mother.
No one can make such people satisfied.. So don't try. Or else, see Jonny Depp.
But I lost so much and so many people.. And there was a time, I started behaving like her.
now I'll use your technique.
and due my spiritual Guru, I started talking less and that too without any anger and affection. Feeling better.
Thanks a lot 🙏
Same here, My Father is 🤷, i just tolerating everyday and stay attentive every time in my house for keeping peace, god am just constantly trying live stable. 😔
@@MoonLight0466 did u find any solution?
the deadliest part is, just to hurt u, they'll do what's worst for u. I'm lactose intolerant..then guess what ?
@@rajvisingh7640 narcissistic will never change their behavior, so u should change urself. (Trying to Keep calm ur mind) less or stop talking to them specifically when they hurt you, if they trying over you then try to be like small child don't be like manly- if u be angry they will got extra courage for narcissisting , mother have soft heart-outside maybe rigid. Give her ladies type gifts, take her outside with u to new place, praise her on good food, nice look etc., Be friendly. It may be takes time keep patience.
In our history Ramayan, Mahabharat, Rajputana etc their have also narcissistic women but they became soft only them who are friendly & praise to her 👍 try it
Same with me.. Meri maa bhi aisi hai she made my life hell.
@@poonamruth1049 bihar or UP
My girlfriend called me a narcissist and never talked🤣🤣🤣🤣
I consulted a psychologist and she said I have some traits of a narcissist but not all of them
But she was a narcissist too
Very much
Both of us were narcissists🤣🤣
😂
Very well put. Each and everything spot on. I've been a victim of each and everything mentioned in the video. But different kind of abuses were given by different kinds of people and gender who had specific roles in my life. Parents, elder sister,best friend, a girl I liked/attracted to. The worst one was the girl I liked. She was pure evil! Although, depending upon the level of their IQ, they can manipulate you in different way,but this girl due to her IQ made my life living hell. Since she had gained the mastery in all this and was shrewd, she had a unique ability to challenge every opinion/belief I had and present her opinion to me in such a way that she would look always correct, and me dumb, everytime. I started living in fear, anxiety. I began losing my self identity. Not just this, insulting you, using camouflaged abuse in the arguments which you know is meant to hurt you, but your brain would be fogged because in the end, she deceived all the argument to make them look right and you cant say anything because they said it right, but it's not, it's a deception. Also played many mind control techniques on me. Finally I got rid of her, but she wanted me to stay. These people will suck the life blood out you, steal all the light from you. Even the slightest criticism will be met with severe insults and reprimands. They hate your very being, they only care about themselves. Psycopaths generally. Your life is much better without them. Demons have devoured their soul. Toxic af!
The life of victims of Narcissism is long and traumatic one! I have been there since childhood, Its only now that I have knowledge of personality disorders and Narcissistic patterns, I am slowly freeing myself from the tight clutches of my Narcissistic mother.
My humble prayers are with all those who are still in ignorance about their own self and in relationship with Narcissist. May God help them realise and release them from trauma 🙏
Same here😭💔 I don’t know how to deal with her..
Same here..my mother does the same. She likes my brothers over me at first place..most of the months I don't talk to her..and when ever I do, she suddenly changes and become the most happiest and coolest mother.then when she sees that she has won my confidence, she changes her behaviour, she starts taunting me, I endure till a limit but her words pinches me like an arrow..then I stop talking to her.. when I do this, she gets mad becoz I don't give attention to her, she starts screaming, conplaining, cursing me...amidst all this....I work hard in making my career but seeing her behaviour towards me,, I feel that I am nothing!
@@nehamishra8685 yes i too faced such serious things in life, that she made my life hell ,in all ways,that tm i thought somebody must hv done black magic on her.i tried many ways to help her,now i emotionally keep distance frm her
@@archanajoglekar1362sometimes am feeling same for my brother now😢. Or maybe it is just life and its impact.
I am dealing with a narcissist , and he gives me a brutal silent treatment. Has sky high ego, always wants attention, always wants me to pamper him, picks up my words and then picks me apart, gaslights me, tortures me mentally. I don't like him at all for all this, but I cant leave him too. I feel stuck sometimes. I love him too, we got into relationship super early once we met because he was in a hurry for same, but since then things never remained same as if he caged me with baits and now its just a struggle , with love here and there but no peace of mind and heart.
Dark and light cannot exist together, so you have to choose one day
Leave as early as possible before he damage you permanently. Its not worth it. He will never change. Your whole life will be ruined.
Same here. My husband is same. Agar awaz oothayi toh nanga kar deta hai chilla chilla kar society ke samane. Bahut late pata chala ki he is controlling me. Can't leave him beta as half of life is gone with him now plus m financially dependent on him. But now I keep to myself . Girls be financially independent.
Love is not enough
Yeh yaad rakhna
Leave him and make zero contact with him..otherwise he will come back and manipulate you and will never let you leave. Narcissist kabi b aapko jaane nhi dega.
My both of The Parents are narcissist 😥
Anyways Good for them only Narcissit can handle Narcissit . And It was A Arranged marriage
Sir m ise jhel rha hu khas bat ki mujhe pta nhi tha k koi problem hai mere sath,,, but apne kitna ache se clear kiya , ,, m yakinan khud pe kam karunga ❤️
Apne jo kaha uska ek ek shabd sach hai, main jhel rahi hu ye sab, bahut jyada painful hai bilkul narak jaisa😢😢
Yes i also deal the same sare traits match karte h😢😢
I was with a narcissist for 3 yrs. That silent treatment pattern is the most terrifying thing you get trapped and don't even know how to free yourself.
Exactly
@@prashantakolkar1210 😈😈😈
@@prashantakolkar1210 i m
@Sandeep mo😈
Humm Interesting the way deal with is tit for tat If they are a** ho*e u be bigger than them ignore them don't appreciate them, they look for validation keep criticizing them let them taste their own medicine
Narcissistic personalities can destroy life. By the time you realise this your 80% of the personality is destroyed. Only a divine intervention can bring you out of this. Else one is ruined. Even if you luckily get out the aftermath effects you . God bless all those dealing with this!
Amazing lecture. Females specially in western countries, not in Eastern country are like this. But large population both males and females are this way. Even countries treat each other this way and not just individuals.
Thank you sir. Because mujhe lagta h ki mujhe bhi is tarha ka disorders h aapne jitana bhi bataya usame se 70% lekin ab main khud se isko Kam se kam karne ki puri tarah se koshish karungi
Thank you so much sir. I am literally in tears. I suffered a lot bcoz of my teacher who has a narcissistic personality. I suffered due to him more then 15years of my life. My confidence lost. I become so negative about life, zero self esteem . Recently I become free from all this due to guided meditation. Thank you almighty
Full story please
,15 years same teacher.... ? How is it possible....?
I laugh so hard 🤣🤣 when you said Khoobsurati gayi tel lene
😂😂😂😂😂
One of my best frnd was a narcissist... After walking in the spiritual path now became an empathetic person... Yes these traits comes from a dark childhood
Narc mother s ksa bche
I have narcissistic personality disorder . Totally Relatable ❤😢.
"Khoobsurtii gyi tail lene" That was epic. 😂😂😂
Thank you so much sir for explaining this topic 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Till now I didn’t know that the person I tolerated has this personality, I literally gone in depression at that time and cried because of her.
I dealt with such a person, I kicked her out from my life, sometimes I think that whether I did good or bad but still I know one thing that I am extremely happy without her, I tolerate her because of family relationships but at one time I had enough of her. Still she spread rumours about me that I did bad with her this and that but now everybody knows about her 😊
This personally destroys your mental health and physical health, they defame you in society, they wanted to be number one choice of everyone, they can’t do good so they destroy whatever respect you have gained through your life, I literally know everything 😢
I have same experience 🙁
Absolutely correct....hats off to you ....only victim can appreciate this..thanks for sharing
My father is narcissist Iam in 12th class I can't walk away from him because iam not independent
Par koi na bholenath is with me 🕉️
1 din sab bhot acha hoga or apni mummy ko bhi is hell se bhar nikalunga .
I love bhot my parents no hate to them ❤️
God bless you
May God give you strength.
I have spent four years with one narcissistic roommate, oh God what a living hell it was!
😂😂
Same here 😒 he was bald but still thinking like he will rule the world one day, person should be normal, calm one day we all are going to dye so be kind and respect everyone’s feelings
@@lov_is_life this type of people really exist Rashmi
@@Fear-Swag I know very well I have been faced it 😭
@@lov_is_life girls also face such things 🙂
Apne is topic ko explain kar k mere jaise jitane logo ne ye video dekha ho i hope un sabhi ko apni mistakes pata chala hoga or bhawan sab ko is tarha ke disorder se roke thank you bhaiya 🙂
My god thanku sir aj bhut se sawalo ke jwab mile hai mujhe aur thnks to god jinhone mujhe ek bhut bdi prblm se bhr nikal diya
I'm married to such lady, spent 8 years so far. We're blessed with 2 kids. Wife spends her most of the day yelling & beating my son. Every day I feel that I'm nothing and I don't have courage to make things right.
Try to convince her or beat her if she doesn't hears you
Leave her permanently and gather some video evidence to get the custody of children.
Log bacchon wale jawab denge ki chor do.. police ke ass jao.... but itna aasan nahi hai... bacchon ki life per jane kaya asar hoga.. or police or law to hamari country mein aisa hai ki .. males ko shadi hi nahi karni chahiye...
Give it back verbally....they can't take it ......saying it from experience!
They are cowards actually.
If she shouts ...shout back louder...but also warn your child about your reaction...keep your son in confidence and tell him why you are doing it.
So that you don't scar him... otherwise he'll end up thinking that you are both scary or crazy!
You must call their bluff each time.
They tend to take over and isolate you from friends and family.
Take control of the situation now!!
All the best
@@ruchikasharma4808 thanks, your words have a meaning.
Now after watching this video I am trying to find out does I'm a narcissist or not.......😂
Edit: I am just thinking what will happen if two narcissists meet? 🤣🥴☠☠☠
🤣🤣🤣
WWE😅
Same here, I'm also trying to look for the symptoms 😂😂
Same here 😂
Disaster will happen 😂😂😂
My mother is a NPD.. She killed my dad by giving him constant stress.. She even ruined my rship with him.. She made my life equally hell... NPD are monsters in human form
Had a friend like that, never understood about Nacarraisiam.. Now clearly understand this, each n every word is right sir .. Thank you sir!! Am sure this person's father has the same problem.. It's I me myself only.. Silent treatment, insults, jealous, no empathy, sympathy...
Same here. I too had a similar horrible problem with a narc friend. Same, I had no idea about Narcissism before. I did everything as a Friend for her. But she took advantage of my nice nature. Used me abused me exploited me for her own gain. And ran away like a coward without taking any responsibility.
It's true sir..I also bear this situation..it's really unbearable situation..too difficult to come out from this type of situation..don't think it's a true love,it's a emotional trap which is so dangerous..
Me too
Me too
Me too
They always claim their true love
Agree
Yes, Sigmund Freud has explained this in details....In his deep psychoanalytic work....
Aap bahut achha bolte he aur sahi bolte hai. Mai apki fan ho gayi hu.
First of All, Very very thanks.... It opened my eyes. I was so shocked by accusations of mistakes I had not made in life that I had suicidal thoughts. I was cut off from every person, thing, and friend close to me by conspiracy. Moreover, my parents were also instigated against me. This information lit up my head. Thank you very much
One more thing if you are living with a Narcissist....never ever , ever ever argue them when they are driving a car.... beleive me.
They are also scared of being in a car which is in high speed. Am I right ? They are unnecessary scared of diseases and new viruses too .
@@monurajput5608 yes same my hubby he is scared from my fever and divorce me
@@laveenagill2182 Aapko kya fever hai? Aisa aadmi shaadi karne ke layak nahi hai. Aap uske baare mein sochna Abhi band kar do. Mam
Tera experience bolta hai bhai 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Stay Single, Stay Safe'"
-Lord Yogi Adityanaath ❤🚩
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“There is wisdom in staying single"
-Lord N Modi.
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@@knight4633 agreed👍
Reltion with these kind of girls r more harmful then the cancer ,
Thankyou sir mai bhi aisey ek do k sath fasa hua tha par ab nikal chuka hoo aur aaj apney achey sey explain bhi kar diye sara confusion dur hogaya
Awere kro Mai bhi nikla hu
@@mohdtalimkhan8340 samaj sakta hoo bro zindagi jahanum sey kam nai lagti aur aware tho kar sakta hoo lekin aisey log apney cheherey pe mukkhota lagaye raktey hai
My ex was Narcissistic woman . i was in relationship for 4yrs and after end of that relationship i went into depression for 3years . i did everything for her still cud not keep her happy. But finally i am happy after leaving her got my mental peace back , now she is ruining her own life due to such personality.
My father is a narcissist (diagnosed) and yeah he has destroyed my life so far
But it also made me stoical and made learn good things, and now I know how to deal with him and get ahead in my life
Tbh all the pain made me a good person
If anyone in need, I'm always here ❤️
Same here bro 😑
How he ruined your life?
@@mayankpanwar5851 stay strong bro, don't fight back, narcs won't listen no matter what
Just make yourself strong
@@yasminejane1308 well if you were with a narcissist you would know
I'm in chronic depression cause of him
@@yasminejane1308 lack of confidence , emotional blackmail, financial blackmail etc. and for more watch the above video carefully everything is explained
You told 100%truth about that type of people sir 👍 I have passed through
Ohh apne bahot sahen kiya
God bless you
It's always good to open up to someone gradually n keep analyzing their behavior on every sharing you do. Always believe in actions not just flowery words n praise.
You are right, silence treatment is killing, when you are innocent. Before jumping into any relationship, know that person properly & give relationship time. Write their good & bad points, ignoring little things as nobody is perfect. Time will tell you their true colors.
This was happened to me.before month .it's very painful 🥺silent treatment was very horrible 😢.but thank God i decided to leave that person...
It is important for non Psychology students and people to know that u can not diagnos a person just on the basis of these traits. You might see some of these traits in people generally as well but doesn't mean they have a narcissistic personality disorder. If they are your close friends maybe talk to them or refer to a psychologist.
They lack empathy...this is the biggest trait
If we recommend a narcissist to get a therapy implying "there is sth wrong with them and they are not perfect and greatest " they would attack and not accept.. In my opinion and sadly a personal experience
It is unimportant whether non psychologist diagnoses them or not as they don't intend to treat them even if they know. These kind of videos are meant for people who are dealing with a narc personality and are absolutely confused with what's happening to them. They need to know there are more people like them who are suffering and they find community support for themselves. You need to see this not from psychologist pov who intends treat but from pov of a person who is being abused.
If you are a psychology student you need to know this very well these personalities NEVER go for therapy it's the people around them who need therapy and access it. Precaution is always better.
Thank you for explaining things and the lifel lessons. I enjoyed every minute of ur lecture as well as ur marvelous sense of humour.🙏
Aapne to mere muh ki baat chin li... Ekdum sahi.. Kaha
Hello sir,
Actually i had relationship with my Exgf
While i was in relationship
I studied her behaviour soo well
In the end i found that she is a narcissicst
And at that time
I studied a lot about this behaviour
And trust me this is really dangerous for
Our society
@@jhalak831 jab tak logo ko parenting krna nai aayega jab tk narcissist personality disorder rhega logo me...log sirf bache paida krdete hai...unko sahi galat ki pehchan nai karvate.. empathy emotions aakal logo me hai hi nai...boundary kahan par hai logo ko pta hi nai.
Me to
Every narcissist isnot dangerous for society.....I was a narcissist but I recovered from this after entering into Spirituality
@@jhalak831 No, parenting is also a factor including genetic, I suffered a lot currently I am in the process of no contact after ending of 3 yr relationship. I am trying my best to handle this situation but can't succeed she simply move on by shifting all blames on me.
@@thedebateroom3410 😢
By my own Experience I can suggest solution , read a motivational book 📚 name " Don't Say YES , when You Want To Say NO " by writer Herbert , a Group Psychological Therapist . It worked for me personally and with my personal Experience , one change His Own Life , the book also suggests that One can change himself , not Others in surrounding. Thanks again for analysis .
Vande Matram , Bharat Mata Ki Jai , Jai Hind .
आत्म - मुग्धता बहुत खतरनाक बाबू भैया...
Great analysis,very accurate and very well explained 😊
I too faced 2 narcissist individuals .They used to interfere in my personal life and I used to feel uneasy and I felt as if slowly trying to control me.I mustered courage and I quarrelled with them.I taught both of them good lesson.Both are my cousins.Lateron I came in contact with a clinical psychology student who explained me about it.
I am narcissist
I admit
But now i am changed
But before 4 yrs
I was extremely narcisst
Even i have destroy a life
Because he bullied me for 2 yrs in 10th standard And 9th standard
Now I reshaped his life by helping him
And today he and me are good friends.
Hello plz tell me how
Narrsist don't change
You were bad person you did mistake in past
Could be Very bad mistake in lack of knowledge and sympathy now that you are change so you are making right choice .
People change from good to bad and good to bad .
Narcissist is evil being you not know it's not human thing
I was also a narcissist but after entering into Spirituality, I recovered from that illness....Now,I am a normal person,I can feel empathy for others and also I help others.....Doing Meditation,reading religious texts and praying to God helped me to recover this illness
After one month I came back to this channel and I am feeling I'm on right track ,this is one of the best channel I am subscriber of .
I really don't understand what they will get by ruining someone's life. How can they be so emotionless. Wherever they are that environment is cursed. And no one will be happy where there is presence of these people. Even today my father who is narcissist made my mother me and my sister fight. He turned my mom and sis against me. They really said very harsh words to me. And iam crying like anything from morning. I have told my mom like hundreds of times to not fall into the trap of my father. But she loses her cool evey time. And on other hand iam really exhausted and i don't have any energy left to explain or fight with people. Iam done. Oh god please help me
No relationship no problems😂🙏👍
good thought....
Phir ek din ayega jab tum bhi khudse shadi kr loge aur sologamy male ban jaoge
@@abhinavadvani3996 haha😂....but divorce ha na🙏
@@angryboy4305 Bhai ma to khudse divorce lena chahta hu.
Super Amoled display ka zamane me black and white zindgi jee rahe ha😕
@@abhinavadvani3996 bhai boss kar🙏 abb baska jan laga kiya😩😥😎
I am dealing with narcissist and trust me they will make your life hell. I have suffered so much since i met the guy i went to depression for the first time in my life.
I had such a friend,for 6 yrs,she tortured me mentally, destroyed my peace,made me unconfident, made me suicidal,made me feel inferior,we used to have a fight literally everyday..and we were bestfriends😂 how stupid i was.Constant comparison,body shamed me,gosh im still not outta that trauma... I didn't know she was narcissistic..thank god i decided to stay away from her
Whatever you have quoted in this video is 100 thousand % true.... 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Sir after watching your lecture I got flashes of my relationship...it was exactly the same like you said like every single thing. From a happy girl i became a girl with so much sadness and no one except him to talk , i lost about 7 kg of my weight at that time due to diff sort of abuse ....
But thr good part is that i ended that relationship two years ago and thigs are much better now in my life but i still get alot of flashes of those days
This is the same story of my life
Same here sis..I fell sick too.. he also made me aloof and tried to cut off my ties with my friends, I had only him to talk to. Luckily I ended that relationship too years back bit sometimes flashback comes too but thankfully I'm over him and now I'm with a very nice guy who treats me well.
Do daily yoga and consider your physical health
@Cylinders truck and let me correct you i used to give him the money because his fam condition wasn't good.
And lets not go to the physical apperarance as he was normal and i was completely okay with it.
@Cylinders truck no man its not always like that it can be with anyone with normal looks and who's your friend and known person..anyone can develop this personality trait, problem with narcissistic isn't looks but their fake charm that they entice other people with, you tend to believe that he or she is the most genuine and honest person until they show their true colors.
My x girlfriend is also same . Thank you sir . For such a beautiful lecture on physiology . We want more lecture form human psychology .
Bro same here🙂
same here bhai mai to pura flashback me chala gaya tha
My x gf was also same , she was 🧟
Mujhe dhokha bhi de gayi , mujhse acche khase paise bhi loot liye
Mine too bro
And a little tip." Stay Away From Beautiful Girls as They Have The Same Issues . EXTREME NARCISSIM...
Wow sir app sach mein bahut sahi batha rahe hon!!!! Maine apni husband ki isi nature se bohot harassment jheli hain.... And this absolutely matches with his disorder and nature. I'm a narcissist survivor. Not just my husband, my father is also a narcissist!!! And yes mardo main bahut zyada paayi jaathi hain! Very well explained!
Arey yaaaaaaaarr yeh attention wala problem ufff.... inke aur inke victim ke dimaag me bus yehi hon, aur kuch bhi nahin literally! Kuch bhi nahi bas yehi akele hon inke victim ke dimaag mein.
Aur CHARMING?! 😲 Ooh god! SABKE SAAMNE ITHNE ACCHE OMG BHAGWAN KO BHI DOUBT AA JAYE , KI YEH KAUN HAIN? AUR GHAR MEIN JHO THA WOH KAUN THA? OH GOD! 😱 AISE BHAGWAN HI SOCH MEIN PADH JAAYE.... Uff.
Aur inke victim ko degrade karne ke, matlab confidence low karne ke liye ye narcissist kisi bhi hadh Tak gir jathe hain! Aur one must be very careful that narcissist ke another mind game GAS LIGHTING this is extremely dangerous for the victim because, it makes the victim believe the reality the narcissist has designed and forced them and all the world to believe which makes everyone believe (coz of their charm) staight away, what the narcissist says and not even perceive the reality straight that happens infront of their own eyes. This isolates the victim even from their dear ones and makes them alone to bear narcissist's torture! These psychopaths are that capable of make one to doubt their own self who has complete awareness on the reality and their own self. Victims have a great fight with their own mind that 'what they have to believe and what actually happened?!' God this could mentally disturbs a person!!!!! Main ne suicide attempt bhi ki hain mere husband ki torture ki wajah se.
Just get rid of such people. It's the only best way!
OMG, Aisa bhi hota hai kya???
Thank you for sharing it with us..
Aisa har dosre Ghar me hota he
One of the most dangerous things to ever happen to anyone. Your analysis is to the point sir.
That's what a great legend say " bulati hai magar Jane ka nhi"
Our PM is the best example of this Narsisism, he always try to be in spot light and self obsessed every time wants to be in news , always want to be on camera , always want attention and he doesn't tolerate the criticism that's why never had press conference in 9 yrs always eager to hear his appraise and in talks . Please like who agree with me.
Please like if you agree - what if someone don't agree with you
What rubbish!! Don’t use this word if you don’t know anyone personally.
You are totally right
Correct 💯
But Andhbhakts 🤡 (Blind Followers of Modi 🎃) are biggest Narcissistic people in the world 🙂🔪💀
Correct 💯
But Andhbhakts 🤡 (Blind Followers of Modi 🎃) are biggest Narcissistic people in the world 🙂🔪💀
I hope everyone who meets narcissistic people, manages to get away from them. Because every negative needs a positive energy to feed on. And there's just one life. Its hard to identify such people but just know the traits and learn to love yourself. I wish all good people
who are basically survivors from such hidden trauma cling on to their virtues and live the happy life they deserve!
Sir you discussed on very important lesson.. I feel like every single other person today is stuck with such a narcissistic & don't know how to get rid of these people.
Same here
Exactly
My ex did exactly the same thing whatever you told.. He was cheating on me too since 3 years... I broke up with him after 4 years of relationship few days back... If you have such person in your life.. Save yourself!
when you are saying all symptoms of Narcissitism i realise it to my girl friend , she is very aggresive and charming and she wants only her own happiness and her own attentions. i always disturbed mentally , physically , emotionally and many of things which i cant share with you. 😭😭😭
i think its time to leave her now 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
यह बात हमको समझ आ रही कि पति नार्मल नही लेकिन अब समझ आया कि उस बिमारी का एक नाम भी और यह जीन से भी संबंधित है क्योकि सेम वेटी भी ऐसी है और सबसे अच्छी और नजदीक रिश्ते के साथ ऐसे लोग ने पूरी जिन्दगी नर्क से भर दी, गंभीर मानसिक रोगी बना दिया और अब समय और परिस्थिति, नही रही कि इनसे दूर हो सके, ईश्वर ही शायद दया करे
Watching this lecture, I'm remembering my ex kbhi mili to kahunga treatment krwalaye
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Thank you so much sir, mujhe aaj smjh me aya apka video dekhne k bad mere saath v yahi hua tha meri partner v kuch aisa he karti thi mere saath finally mai ab dur hu toxic relationship se.
This is my ex!!! its literally all those high class society people(specially young boys and girls) in today's world....
Thank you so much for this lecture
This will help me a lot
It seems the creator has suffered it. May God make everyone strong to tackle such narcissists.
the facts mentioned here are exactly what i am experiencing in my family, one family member, female, is ruining the entire family and she is exactly like this..
ऐसे लोगो एकदम से नही बनते अगर साइकोलॉजी से देखे तो बचपन से इनको प्यार कि कमी और अकेलापन माता पिता अलगाव ये मेजर फैक्ट हो सकते है। जो जिद्दी होते है बचपन में उन्हे प्रेशराइज किया गिया तो यंग एज में लक्षण और behavoiur हो सकता है। इनसिक्योर इसे लोग बहुत होते है हर चीज़ के लिए उनके फ्यूचर के प्रति।
सर आपका video बहुत बढ़िया है
Excellent siddhanth, wonderful analysis ...
Society and life will do the treatment ...