Filipina Single Moms Expectations when Dating a Foreigner.
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The worst message we can leave the next generation is that being a single mother is ok.
@Daveonarmodern woman, no kids, independence, and financial security is a lot better than these young teenage pregnancies. Some of these traditional women have three kids and looking for a daddy.
Never date a single mom unless you are a single dad and can demand the same things from her. If you are not single dad then you are 10th on her list of importance.
@@davidk6668 good advice, I'm a single dad who married a Filipina who does not have children jackpot 😁
Unless he's incredibly rare like a good friend of mine, he physically can't make any kids of his own due to an accident from his child hood but he always wanted to be a dad
He has 3 kids now
Filipinas are looking for the best option, and so should you. If one is available with no child vs the other. Go for the best option.
What drives me crazy is that if a broke Philippines man rejects them and you believe that they are the prize. Lord help me!
Preach! Women are not exempt from scrutiny.
Desperate losers
Dating a single mom, unless she is a widow, is a very very bad idea. Her kids will always be before anything or anyone else. It's just not worth the trouble.
Come here and see the single mom I married you can’t get a girl half as pretty as this and you failed in life
@@ThatWasThenThisIsNow-yn1eq lol what kinda dude are you when you view a child as competition for your wife's attention
I will not take responsibility if i don't have authority. Guess im different.
Simps gone simp.
she date to marry and she had kid before marriage... hmmm thats why u guyes look what they do and not what they say
In the Philippines, a "foreigner" is never considered anything more than "a foreigner". So, inside your home you might have a good balance but, you have to remember that no one outside your home is ever going to accept that you are the father because, you are just a foreigner.
had to thumbs down for the bad take..... I can't wait for the follow up video.... "Why you can trust a bargirl with your wallet" and the upcoming video "Overweight filipina's need love too"
The raising of the kid is the biggest thing I think for a foreigner. The fact that you girls said you would not change your discipline style & will do it the way you were shown only indicates a red flag to me. Saying telling & threatening with a stick is a good thing is beyond me. A kid doesn’t have to be “spoilt” by actually giving them choices & doing it differently. Maybe it would be good for you to learn & open up to other styles than be stubborn with your own?
Also if a kid is sleeping in the bed with me, then hell no. No guy wants to share the most intimate place with another kid. Maybe the first year is understandable but you are creating separation from your husband & it’s a huge red flag.
Enjoyed the video & glad you showed us your mindsets as single mothers
oh yeah there's plenty of 55 year old men willing to take up that project. 30 year olds will never pick up the pieces left by another man. we want to start our own family not join one. it's a matter of dignity
N o
Why are the guys not responsible for their children in the Philippines
Dude That's all over the world , especially in the states ..Child support out matches marriage
Single mom = 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
See, single Filipina moma drama is the same as the west. You are privileged to accept them with their children. Stop raising other mens children.
I just met a foreigner here in the PH who is specifically looking for a Filipina with a child, because he has always wanted a child but he is sterile. He's hoping to find one whose biological father ran off and has NOT been in touch since she told him she was pregnant. So he shouldn't date/marry a Filipina who already has a child?
@@pleaseactright1 Good point. Your friend knows Filipinas with children are bountiful. He can have his pick. It is rare to find single with no kids who are mid 20's and up.
@@pleaseactright1 The exception does NOT make the rule. One person out of BILLIONS, with a special circumstance, doesn't appeal to the masses. It's nothing more than trying to deflect the focus away from the main topic, should the MASSES do it or not.
@@Paul-McB It's not really a good point, it's an exceptional circumstance that most won't find themselves in and does not apply.
@@ejtaylor73 Who said I was trying to make the exception the RULE? You clearly came up with that assumption all on your own. The end of his comment completely excluded the exception, “stop raising other men’s children”. I merely pointed out there are exceptions. My point has nothing to do with the MASSES.
Ironically, I am listening to these women date to marry yet have children before they get married wow, they are also not submissive more of an entitlement to a foreigner unfortunately their demand could not be met by local men, now is it because those men's days are numbered and they have no choice but to settle for the end game quite interesting
For me it's not the raising a child that's the problem. It's the fact that the women I love has had a baby with another man and she experienced that for the first time with another man. When I personally feel that is a huge thing for me, it's a certain bond between perents the first born child. And I don't want for her to have had that moment with another man. If I had children it would be completely different because the moment has gone. It's nothing personal or vindictive against single mums, my sister was a single mum now she's happily married to a man with two kids. It's just a normal feeling childless men have and it's not personal.. God bless
No one deserves anything in this life. We all have to work hard to achieve our dreams. No one is entitled to get something just like that. You desire something then go for it. Work hard to get it! Women always think that they deserve or are entitled to something without making some effort.
I feel sorry for any woman left in a lurch to bring up a child but also it’s not worth it for a man to raise another man’s child. Plenty do but it’s most often a path that leads to upset and unhappiness. Find a lady with no children and if you want any have them yourself
How are there so many single moms in a devout Catholic country that forbids premarital sex?
For the same reason it's ok for catholic priests to diddle kids.
lol they always avoid this question. I’ve never heard any of these vloggers ever address this. It seems to me most Filipinas are catholic or Christian in name but don’t really hold to the teachings or values a lot
Because most girls at 21 have had s3x with at least two guys and nobody uses condoms so there's a high chance of pregnancy
Because they only CLAIM to be Christian because that's what society expects.
Don't.
I don’t mind if she has a child, but I expect the father to be providing financial support for that child. That’s not my responsibility. I’ll pay for the housing and daily things but their father had better be providing support or the mother should agree to file for child support. I myself pay child support monthly that’s a little more than 71,000 pesos. So my kids support are my priority as her child’s is hers.
LOL you'll never find that, 95% of mothers here are single moms wth ZERO financial help from the father
I agree the father should be paying support, but from what I’ve seen that normally not the case. From what I understand there is no court ordered child support over there. So single moms get stuck footing the bill.
What I'm hearing is dont date single moms in the ph. There are many many single women with no kids. Why pay extra for a used car?
Seriously, Filipinas are used cars? Good luck on your dating prospects, LOL
I’m talking to a single mom now. As I said in a reply to another comment, it would be nice if the dad was paying child support, but I don’t see that happening.
So if you are going to date a single mom, it is a package deal. To me, I had expected to have kids, but it didn’t work out that way, so to me I get another chance at something I missed.
So the girl I’m talking to does want more kids. To me all the kids have to be treated the same, if you love the mom you got to love the kid also. Fortunately for me, the girl I’m talking to her son is still relatively young (6), and dad has never been in the picture, so hopefully no conflicts. But if it was an older child and they blame you for the parents separation, one still has to try and not write off the kid
NEVER EVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER EVER.
Meet my ldr the first of this month..we have been dating for 2 years ..
She has 2 children and she is the most loving girl in the world..
Your odds are much better finding a fillipina that has children..they seem to be much more mature..
If you truly love your fillipina..you will accept there past..and what they bring to the relationship
I was a single dad , my filipina has 3 kids . we plan to have 2 of our own together..it works perfectly
It would be wise to find one of the few unicorns out there. What are the requirements to be considered a unicorn? A woman who is unmarried, over the age of 30 with no children, few if any siblings and an orphan. Additionally she does not live on the same island where she was born and where the bulk of her extended family still live. Those types of women are out there, they are rare and they are already working to support themselves and are not in the adult entertainment industry.
There are TONS of girls like that in every major city
@@TC-yx1qt So when's the wedding?
@@UP-2-U Why the F would any man wanna get married 🤣
@@TC-yx1qt Beyond me. Been single for20+ years.
I absolutely LOVE the pigtales ❤ hairstyle on you, Leah
All 3 of you are very lucky, and have great men who adore you, and your children, and will love you forever.
With an open heart and accepting nature, you will find a great life ahead for yourself
The ideas in this video are horrible. First off biological fathers should be having to say and if their children leave the country..... That these brothers take the children whenever they want to go that's not how it works the children have a right to have a relationship with their father... If this is how you think this is not the type of women that these men are looking for. They'll be the same thing with your children take them and then run off
But how can they(she) give the biological father a say in whether the child goes to another country or not, if he ran off and can't be found? Which is what is happening. The mother of the child shouldn't have to stop moving forward if she can't find the father or get his cooperation is raising the child. Your theory only works if the biological father is staying in contact with the mother.
@@pleaseactright1 that's easy, in my world no fathers intentionally leave their children behind. The only issues occur as if the mother is trying to keep the father away. If I was the father in this situation I would never let my children leave and if mom wants to leave mom can give up custody...
@@mervinsecure1cambricsecure957 with all due respect, the world you live in in your mind is not the world this women are living in. It’s great that YOU wouldn’t abandon your child, I wouldn’t either, but that’s not the reality these women are facing. Now don’t get me wrong, these women knew the consequences of getting pregnant and the man running off. They’ve seen it happen to countless women before them. But the bottom line is, this is THEIR reality.
@@pleaseactright1 just take a minute and ask yourself do you know people like this. If you don't how do you know these type of people exist? I highly doubt all these men run off because I don't know any men that actually do that. I'm not here to overthink it. I'm just here to say what I see is most likely. You can ask yourself, do you know men that run off or is it that the men you know what to be with their kids but for one reason or another the mother was able to take full custody?
If the mother can't find the biological father, how is he going to have a say in whether the kids go or not? Some of these guys run off and intentionally don't want to be found. So she's suppose to just put her life on hold? Absolutely NOT. If he doesn't want to respond to her, then she has to move on with her life.
My uncle married a woman with two children from a previous relationship. They've been married for 17 years now and the kids adore him. The kids are grown now. They are at every family function we've had and we love her and her kids.
My 44yo old cousin lost her husband to a heart attack 10 years ago, who she had two girls with. She remarried to a wonderful man and they've been happily married for 5 years now.
Shaquille O'Nealwas (Shack) was raised by a step dad. He said in an interview he would have gone down the wrong path if it wasn't for his step father.
This is why I say there are exceptions.........
Great Video! ❤🎉
Thank you Che hope to catch up with you soon. 🙂
Sounds like John loves Jessel and her Son you are a lucky woman❤
I found the best in the Philippines. A smoking hot single mom from N Cotabato. Getting married Nov 2024. She is model gorgeous
No such thing as a smoking hot single mom lol
Nice discussion Leah keep up the good work 😎💪One thing that I have definitely learn about the Philippines 🇵🇭 is that it definitely common to seeing single moms there. I have dated single moms in my past. it can definitely be a gamble in my opinion it can comes with responsibllity if a man chooses to commit to a single mom with kids. im glad that I have experience with it. Single moms with kids are a package deal. my advice for mens if they choose to date a single mom be ready for everything that comes with it.
No responsibility without authority. If you have no authority over someone else's child, then you have no responsibility for it.
One plus about dating a single mom, I don’t need to worry about her being a lady boy. 👍
LMAO 🤣😂
Many thanks for this video!
Why make it sound complicated ? The expectation is Anyone that's a ATM ( Filipino or Foreigner)
Omg. 😂
LEAH , 6:15am here in coronado California. Thanks for this video, so informative
@@B4-puq enjoy your day sir, Thanks for watching! 👍🫡
17 minute mark interesting how you bring up he is not the real father , my response to this would be ,,, it takes more to be a real father than forgetting to pull it out in time .i have an adopted daughter , we adopted her at only 5 days old ,still in the hospital at the time after birth , i have only ever seen her one way and that is as my child ,love her and raised her as my own true flesh and blood , now she is twenty years old and our relationship is as father and daughter , bond set in concrete , even though im white western man and she is asian , you could never telll my daughter im not her real father without her giving you a long scolding rant on what it takes to be a real father in the real world ... sorry about the rant but i have been listening to this ,your not the real father crap for 20 years 🤣 i mite not be the bio-logical father , but i sure am the real father . ✅😷
You truly are the real Father man. Kudos to you!
@@darrenrogers5735 cheers mate
@@darrenrogers5735 I disagree, there is ONLY 1 true father, the biological. He may be a father FIGURE and dad, but the biological is the true father, even if he shirks his duties and responsibilities as one, he shares the bloodline.
Sorry, totally off topic, but I caught your interview with Chad, then looked up your channel. Really enjoyed flicking through and have subscribed. I met my pinoy wife in HK, she was a single mum working as a domestic helper to support her son and family in Isabela. We met in 1998 and married in 2005. I adopted her son and he came to live with us in HK in 2005 and he's now with his partner and we now have a grandson. I look forward to catching up on all your videos and the future ones to come. FYI, I'm 67 and my wife is now 58, but looks 21 in my eyes.
I grew up in a religious family, and I have my own thoughts and beliefs in the Bible.
If you believe, then yes, when you marry a single mother and you consummate the marriage, then you become one.
And her children, become yours, and your children become hers also.
( Read the book of leviticus)
So there is a responsibility to the children to raise them as your own.
I raised my stepson as my own from the time he was two months old to an adult.
He has grown up to be a responsible man and a great father himself.
His mother was a alcoholic and had drug addictions.
When we divorced, I was given custody of stepson and my biological daughter.
Their mother eventually died from alcoholic psoriasis of the liver.
The reason I am telling this is raising a child wasn't your biological child can be a very rewarding experience.
My son didn't meet his biological father until he was 18, and even his biological father said to him (my son) that even though he was the biological father that the man who raised him (me) is his dad.
But if the single mother wants the man to love and treat her children as his own, then she will have to realize that he will have to have equal say in how the children are raised.
Not just her way but equal for both.
God bless you all.
(I have say bringing a child out of the Philippines can be very difficult.
A good friend of mine got married in the Philippines and they had a little boy together, this is back in the late 1980s.
My friend had come back to the USA because of work, and it took over two and half years of legal processes to bring his wife and biological son back to the USA.
It all has to do with the laws in the Philippines and getting permission from the Philippine government.
I'm going to imagine that getting to bring your Filipino wife and her children out of the country would be very, very difficult until the children became adults.)
So if the foreigner wants to have a relationship with a single Filipino mother, then he should plan on staying in the Philippines.
I don't know if the laws for children leaving the country have changed, but I doubt it.
that's a great lesson, thank you for the knowledge
Opposed to verses like:
- 1 Corinthians 7:9 "But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion."
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you ABSTAIN from sexual immorality."
- Hebrews 13:41 "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be UNDEFILED, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous."
- Deuteronomy 23:2 “No one born of a forbidden union may enter the assembly of the Lord. Even to the tenth generation, none of his descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord." (This includes a child born out of wedlock).
- Jude 1:7 "Just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged in gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example in undergoing the punishment of eternal fire."
I would not have a problem dating a single mom.
I heard a saying years ago. If your dating a single mom, don’t think of her kid as another man’s kid. Think of her kid as a extension of the woman herself.
Indeed ❤
Three Philippine ladies laughing is so sweet.
God, the Filipino accent is so hot! 😅
Native American Catholic Husband to my Wives ... but never a "Partner." The term "Partner" in my world is either for a Gay Gentleman's Significant Other, or a Modern Masculine Feminist's soft hands Beta Simp. Wealthy High Value Western Alpha Men don't raise another Man's Off-spring, unless the Mother's Husband had past away and was a Honored Member of our Tribe. When I visit Cebu next winter I would only "Date For Fun" a Filipina Single Mother, but I would absolutely never ever Marry. After all, the Catholic Church is not a Lunch Buffet where People get to pick and choose what they think is Acceptable or Not.