I relate. My ex I was with for 5yrs cheated on me but I didn't let him know I knew because I had to make a plan out. I had no family or friends in the state we were living. It took me two months to get the plan in place and leave all the while acting normal. It was a hard thing to do. The day I left him he had given me $685 to pay 3 bills for him and I still did. That was real tough. This happened in 2018 and every so often he still reaches out begging for another chance. Never will I ever. Now when I look back on our relationship there was so so many red flags. I'm such a stronger woman now with strong Boundaries. I have no desire for a relationship yet. I've been on a self healing journey since 2021.
I will stay for free home, food as long as he won’t beat me up. He can sleep to every woman he wants. I will get rest every day. Who cares about how many women he slept with? I will just let out. Pretend like I don’t know anything as long as he gives me money.
I love this for you and I hope you’re doing well, I am going through something super similar right now too. It’s so heartbreaking to be betrayed this way.
It is crazy that when your in the relationship the red flags you dont really see..and you think you know that person. Doesnt matter if you love or hate lala i wish her and her daughter the best. ❤
Lala's blatantly lying about some things here. I watch Vanderpump Rules and she was told multiple times that he was married when the relationship first started so why is she saying she only found out after the breakup? It's ON CAMERA! She was so full of herself because she thought she landed a rich, well connected guy so she didn't care. She was a mistress who got played.
I wouldn't mess with a Married Man who was Separated either. I don't understand how women think that's OK, he's still married! Also she's not a single mother, the father is there & she has her mom. A Real single mother is no father & no Help. Figure that out
Am I missing something with this whole story I feel like I am? Lala left her married man with his child and she’s talking about how hard it is when you know damn well she gets quite a pretty penny for that baby but yet she’s a hero doing it on her own🤔🤦♀️
Lala has experienced a lifetime of trauma with that relationship! Thank God you got out. You have grown tremendously and sound so strong and centered!❤
Despite not really being a fan of Lala as thought she a bit to far out there for me personally. I do have to respect her for her strength of character and candidness in what she has shared. I just learnt a lot from her and has helped explain quite a few things I experienced from a past relationship I had. Lala will do well and is obviously a great Mama Bear.
You two do such fantastic podcast episodes honestly, but gd this took the cake. SO MUCH fantastic content and general topics that need to be spoken about more were spoken about here with such an amazing perspective. Loved it 🎉
LaLa got her baby girl out of it. Her job is to protect that baby. She knew to get out of it because of the baby. That’s what a mother is supposed do. If she didn’t have her baby, she may have still been there.
It’s not hard to protect your child. It’s harder to explain why you didn’t protect when they’re 20… proud of la la you did what was best for you and your daughter!
I came upon this from my recommended on TH-cam and I had to tell you that this was one of the most incitful, intelligent, inspiring conversations I have ever listened to. The three of you did an amazing job. I was deeply touched by both the questions and the answers. Raw. I wish only the best for all of you and your family “s. Frances (I am a retired, bed-ridden disabled nurse in her mid sixties. For demographics?)
When you are shown smoke and mirrors by a true manipulating narcissist it doesn't, after what "everyone " says ... you get sucked into the tornado, his money the traveling etc.
Wtf......who is this young woman. 😳 just discovered lala and I'm so impressed by her strength of character, her wit, and her beauty. So wise way beyond her years. What an inspiration she is. I'm in blown away.
What she said absolutely resonated with me, it's true you don't know it when you are in it but boy once you have you are totally like how TF did that happen and it leaves you re thinking everything and not knowing who you are she spoke volumes them red flags get so clear after but you pick yourself up and be stronger and never let that shidt happen again, it's harder when there's kids in the mix it's rough.
Your daughter comes first and your happiness i respect u for your boldness love u you will find someone to make u and your daughter happy i watched u become a grown woman great job i wish u the best
Only people who haven't watched old episodes don't know she was that man's mistress's. I remember and I've been rewatching from season 1. She knew. She's been telling a completely different story it's bullshit!!!! That's why she kept it secret
These pumprules cast member bottom feeders self-righteous (self hating) because they recognized their own relatable flaws.This is the best thing that has ever happened in reality TV. Let go. Enough hate for a man who was looking for a sexual relationship that he and Ariana did not have.
I don’t give a f what anyone says lala is honestly a real woman. That’s why people are so scared of her she is as real as they come. F this podcast is iconic for real this is going to help so many people 😢
LMAO you need to go back and rewatch the show from beginning. She WAS his mistress and was a bitch to other girls. Said that's there problem if they can't hold on to their man after stripping her top off in front of the guys. That's why she had to keep rand secret in beginning. He left his wife for her
❤l just recently broke up with an asshole he was like a present day vampire he was sucking the life out of me but I walked away so easy I didn't even miss him I was 🎉so relieved and happy I left him emotionally a year before I physically left you are my inspiration ❤love you lala
She knew but didnt care her friends said it very phoney person cheated first nite easy to google him she didnt care as long as he bought her stuff didnt marry so had a kid so she keeps income coming in he didnt manipulate her she knew red flags there were banners she will find another older rich man cause thats who she is now she can use her kid for money and attention any man with money and connections will do james nailed it
What I don’t understand Lala being a hypocrite about relationships is she’s been involved with people who has been in relationships I like to grow but she’s a real hypocrite
It's really scary what happened to Lala. Hard to believe there are men like that out in the world. Now I totally believe all the horror stories of what's going on in Hollywood.
Hollywood is full of fame whores and successful men who didn't get laid in high-school. When Trump said these women are OK with you (doing the extreme), like walking up to them and "grabbing their pussy", he was talking about most un-famous women in "show biz". I.e. fame whores.
You mean it’s scary to have women like Lala in Hollywood what are you talking about she takes your married man and snatches them away and then when she doesn’t get what she wants she blames it on everybody else
@@Wiseguy429 I don't think you understand what I was trying to say. I was talking about what he did. I don't condone what Lala did. I find it hard to believe that she didn't realize he was still with his wife. I was strictly talking about the things Rand did and what some of this high powered men in Hollywood are doing. Lala wouldn't be a friend of mine.
I’m so gad I’ve came across this podcast, this was a great interview I’ve absolutely ;loved & this couple are great they bounce off eachother so we;ll & will look for their other shows they've done
I normally don't watch "Lala" to the end, because she's a bully at times and has no filter, however I watched this episode to the end because she showed class in explaining why she is how she is, but did it with respect, if this is a new version of her "evolving" I like it already!
@@joycedominguez8997how disgusting to make such an accusation. We ALL saw her struggle with alcohol and how it affected her life. You’re a nasty person.
I LOVED THIS. I’m brand new to your channel and could not imagine a better interview to watch. I look up to Lala so much as a fellow survivor and mental health advocate. I wish I’d seen this video when I was in the weeds trying to survive, not knowing where I’d be sleeping after having the WORST things that can happen to a woman happen to me. My only reason to live is my fur baby. Obrigada e спасибо большое 🇧🇷🇵🇹🇷🇺🇺🇦🩰
How you got them is how you lose them, stop playing a victim and learn from your poor choices or else guaranteed you will choose materialistic men again!
It seems Randall took advantage of LaLa's drinking, trauma, isolating her away from the people that would challenge his lies... there was a reason he didnt want to be on the show, the rumors of having people sign NDA's...
I was violently raped when I was only 14 and a virgin and I recall it but it’s been almost 40 years and I’ve never been able to connect to it. It’s caused issues for me in my adult life and relationships. Get therapy when you feel ready is my advice. It can be years later and it’ll still help you.
Layla can explain away everything about her missteps. She will say “when you’re in it, or age”, or situational, or it’s different situation, or something. She then takes a dump on who ever she doesn’t like for the same crap she pulled or her friends pull.
LALA is her name, and SHE didn’t *do* anything. Stop blaming women for the shitty things bad, manipulative men do. She is literally like family with Randall’s ex, Ambyr, and they are raising their daughters as siblings. Because Ambyr *knows* that they were BOTH lied to, manipulated, and cheated on. And she’s a mature adult human being, unlike you childish, nasty mean girls who have been lying about & harassing Lala every day of her life for 6+ YEARS over something that never happened. Disgusting. You know what ABSOLUTELY DID happen, though? Rachel absolutely *intentionally & aggressively* went after & had a 7-month+ long affair with one of her best friends partners of nearly a decade. So, no, nothing about these 2 situations is the same. One person is a cheater, and the other isn’t, she’s just on the receiving end of a bunch of women with severe unchecked internalized misogyny. You should really see somebody about that; it’s extremely ugly to treat other women like this.
@@michellesassouni2863 Not really. And on S6 she and James were the ones goofing around at Rob’s in Big Bear. Under a blanket together etc. They were making Raquel uncomfortable and she told James that. Also Lala never saw these girls that were around Rand when he was out of town so it’s ridiculous for her to say that R reminds her of them to Scheana in Mexico. When R came on the show S5 Lala was already dating Rand secretly. And she was with James the entire time until they broke up. And this is not a pro Raquel comment.
LaLa is full of it. She knew he was married the whole time. Tell her to take a lie detector. I think it's honestly embarrassing that the people she comes on with to talk that they act like she didn't know. She seemed to know everyone's else's bussiness. I looked it up online when he was the mystery man and found a picture of him & his wife. I'm sure a lot of you all looked it up too. Saw the marriage license was still active. Plus you never went to his house. Ridiculous.
Lol at her every time she mentions being "safe" or "safety" = money. Just call it for what it is then I would respect that but why beat around the bush and say he made you feel safe? Lmfao pathetic.
❤LOVE YOU LALA 💘 YOU'RE A BOSS HE CAN'T FUCK WITH A BOSS you have you're beautiful bby THAT'S A CELEBRATION SHE'S LOVE 💘 💕 💗 HE TRIED TO STEAL YOUR SHINE 🎉YOU'RE SOO BEAUTIFUL
Lala I said the exact same thing to a man I was seeing before. It was so good, I'd never and never have since experienced something like it that I told him, it's too good to be for just me. More women need this kind of D
Hearing Lala say she literally knew nothing about him except “he makes a lot of movies, he likes to fly private, and he’s friends with Mark Wahlberg” like that’s called being blinded by materialism. Happy she’s in a better place though
Can't stop laughing at her bullshit. Honey you lose them the way you get them lol first red flag you knew he was married. Her whole story is different than the first season with her. So weird her talking about being bullied when I've watched her be a bully for years.
First off Just found you because I love Lala, and your AMAZING HONEST GREAT CHANNEL, I'm hooked... now for young guns Lala, she rocks, and I always related to her even though I'm old enough to be her mommas BFF, but I saw myself in her. Her fight, her roar, and her pain, and then how she has risen from hell, and called her a hole narcissistic ex out. She reminds me of the terminator gal momma. What a refreshing Podcaster, creator channel hustler you are..love it.. and how you 2 have been able to see through the Hollywood-land world too many in our world see.. love your stuff
I love Lala BUT to say she only knew he was married AFTER they broke up is a lie. Everyone on the show plus more knew that he was married when they first got together. So either she chose to ignore it or genuinely is so gullible for believing him and now look where she is.
He brought Lala to his therapist to prove he was separated from his wife! I think she should have known better but come on! He went through extra steps to convince her that his lies were the "truth"
Lala can’t act like she doesn’t know about the industry just bc she’s from Utah. Utah has tv. He isn’t attractive, just seemed powerful. Now he’s nothing and has no money so Lala ran.
What did she think was going to happen dating somebody her parents age like come on he was married when she was dating him come on she isn't stupid I'm sure this isn't her first rodeo with a guy
My opinion as a published writer, as well years of PR experience. I feel Tom and Raquel we'll stay on the show. They may or may not work as a couple. That remains to be seen. Many are making a lot from this scandal. Between the reruns as well podcasts. Honestly money is being made every way possible. Is it a shame they cheated, of course. One door closes another opens for Ariana. Ariana has the TV show as well Dancing with the Stars. I heard it starts filming in September. So Ariana is making out! She will be fine, she is strong . Of course in time. Not to sound redundant because I said it before. Please show us the remaining episodes of Vanderpump Rules within a week's time so we can get to the reunion. I say this only due to the situation, we all know what happened. I have been doing a lot of research. People will start to get aggravated, if not already. Waiting two months is going to be difficult. What you don't want is to upset fans. Love your show! My thoughts on other shows, within the franchise. I think Lisa Rinna had a really tough year. She really needs to be given some grace here. But she went up against someone bigger than herself and she got push back, allegedly. But look at New Jersey, things were done to certain people that should have been fired! And they were not! I like Kathy but you have to admit Lisa brought a lot to that show! Like her or not! I can see them hiring her back in the future. I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose my mother. For me, she gets a pass. Her bubbly attitude, her husband is such a sweetheart. As well her girls. I predict she's coming back. She's getting a slap on the wrist now. Just a guess. It's easy for others to kick a person, when they are down. I am not that person. I loved her on Days of our lives! Did she go overboard? yes, but she spoke her truth. As I said above look what some of the other housewives did to their cast members! Throwing glasses, dishes you name it. They did not get fired!!!! It could have caused bodily injury. Just speaking the truth! Please don't fire Joe and Melissa! They paid their dues! They deserves their spot on that show! Bring back Kim D. Joe brings a lot Melissa is Classy and level headed. You need them on the show! I would go even further and say bring back the OG's now that was a show! I go by my gut instincts! I would love to be a consultant to my thoughts. Thank you
The minute she said she has a psychic I exited the convo I pray for Lala I think she is a wonderful mama to Ocean and I pray God blessed and continues to keep them safe and may she always flourish I think it would be so exciting and awesome if Lala had her brand around mommy daughter products or maybe a channel about navigating in a single mom household but on a level that others can relate not all Hollywood esque like maybe normal ish life type for Ocean or something like that because Lala has a side of her she’s shown us that is very infectious you wanna have her energy you wanna see what’s she’s into like she’s inspiring but without all the Hollywood side when she knows and is confident for just being Lala she’s awesome 😎 she doesn’t need to let the Randall cheating stuff always be the main thing Lala we r here to support whatever endeavor you may start in the future step away from VPR BEAUTIFUL it’s too toxic You’re more than that❤🙏
Yes Lala step away from Vanderpump rules and the media and stop doing the stupid merch! And don’t have relationships with married men it doesn’t get you anywhere make your own money
@@jjack5244 that’s good for u hun but I’m not into them n I’m good don’t be so simple minded everybody’s got their preferences so respect just like I did I STILL wished nothing but Gods blessing over Lala and her baby i never judged I just mentioned that that’s where I exited the convo very respectfully and in fact the majority of comment was just that BLESSINGS be a little more grown up sweetie 🙏♥️ in life you’re gonna come across people who don’t share your views but u make sure you’re always kind and respectful shows character 🙏♥️
@@pamelameadows9717 agree. People need to know the whole story. She wants to blame alcohol for her behavior. She's never been an alcoholic. I can't with her
@@joycedominguez8997 not only do I remember watching it when previous seasons have erred but I've gone back and watched it from season. This season I've seen her make her rounds trying to spend a whole different story about how her and Randall got together. Now she's come up with some bulshit story that she didn't know he was married and he even took her to go see his therapist LOL I loved how Lisa was calling her out and then while I would start crying and insisting she had no idea. Honey we all watch the show you knew he was married, you knew you were his mistress. I'm sure he probably told her he was going to leave his wife but the fact remains she knew he was married at the time. It was after their affair started that he finally separated from his wife. And if I remember correctly it was because his wife found out he was cheating on her and that's when they became separated. These reality stars really need to go back and watch their story from previous seasons. Lisa's got her number but she wasn't going to argue with lala about it. Everytime Lisa would point out something saying you had to know he was married darling shut her down and come up with some excuse. I'm not saying I hate lala but she is full of shit. It was almost funny as I watch her cry and is so angry that he would cheat on her. Really you were shocked that he would cheat on you LOL not only did he cheat on his wife and two kids but you literally quit having sex with a man that you said wanted sex all the time. So why are you so surprised he would cheat on you. This season has been the season of karma coming back to bite people in the ass. As me, Lisa and everyone else says you will lose them the way you got. Was she with him because of his money or because she loved him LOL let's break it down. She has now said how unattractive he is even calling him old and fat. Then we have he was horrible in bed and she hasn't had an orgasm since 2016. So now we know she wasn't in it for his looks and she wasn't with him for the sex so what's left LMAO a month or more ago I would have advised lala to just keep her mouth shut and quit trying to convince of this new story line you came up with. it's even funny that she wants everybody to feel sorry for her and have compassion for her that he cheated on her with a younger woman even.she was literally that younger woman at one time. I'm not hating on wall up but this is the facts. Come to think of it there's really not much to like about lala she's rude, she's mean she gets in front of people's faces going after them and if they open their mouths we're supposed to stop when she goes. I've had enough I'm done. I don't have it I know how to explain that last statement I made. She thinks it's okay for her to get in people's faces and tell him about themselves and they can't come back at her. She laughs and she says you know me I'm going to tell you like it is and trust me you don't want to mess with me lol except Ariana was able to hold her own.
@@joycedominguez8997 on a couple of TH-cam channels I've mentioned lala is not sober she may not be drinking but she's doing something else. It takes one to know one. As I watched her behavior there's been times I said that girl has taken something. Now I've had a few others who have told me they thought the same thing. The third time I went to AAA I finally quit drinking that was twenty-five years ago. I even worked at an AA club that had a snack bar where they held meetings. It's like getting a crash course on alcoholics. Half of them smoked a joint before they came to the meeting. Since it was a clubhouse where meetings were held a lot of guys would hang out around there during the daytime. Anyway lawless behavior sometimes is so different than other times. And it's the way she acts during those other times that make me think she's taking something. Whether it's prescription or not. I myself wound up on Xanax and pain medicine a few years after I got sober. She gets too angry especially if you're not stroking her ego and telling her how great she is for not drinking when people bring up her sobriety. Really angry you don't mess with my sobriety blah blah blah Ami's season it seems those that are the angriest at people are the ones that have done it in the past. Tom yelled and gave Jack's a hard time for screwing somebody in the friend circle and then he was yelling and angry at Kristen for hooking up with his friend James who was moving in and that they even did it in his apartment that sounds so familiar
@@pamelameadows9717 wow you certainly do know the whole Lala saga. I hope the folks that say they "love" her will read everything you wrote here. Lala is a big bully, she's gone on countless podcasts to bad mouth the father of her child. One day that child will listen to all these podcasts and it could destroy her. I hope it doesn't but Lala needs to get a grip and stop now. I've always been a firm believer in " you lose them how you found them too". I hate that she claims to have been an alcoholic, an alcoholic gets up drinking and drinks all day, every day. She only drank socially so her whole sobriety story pisses me off. She wants to blame her behavior on the alcohol, No that's just who she is. There is still a TH-cam clip of her being interviewed when she first got with Randall and she literally brags how she screwed him the first night and he gave her a range Rover. She literally says how she loves that he gives her presents. So in other words she was a prostitute. Ugh I could go on and on but between the both of us we got her figured out. I just hope these gullible people read our comments, I mean they can adore her all they want, that's what Lala does best, she's a narcissist after all, she plays the victim. By the way, I have a strong feeling she's going to go after Brock. She moved in next door to schena and him and she's already been in the pool alone with him. I would never trust her, she's looking for a new storyline as well. Thank you for your comment.
I just listened to Bethany with Raquel. It’s refreshing to hear something without sex. Yall listen to it, it’s excellent info regarding the affair and dealing with it.
I find it disrespectful when you haven't been in the same situation to say ' me & you are so similar, I would've done the same thing'. While it can be true, it just sounded distasteful.
❤I love LaLa so much & I think you're Dad crossed over& was like oh hell no I'm rescuing my daughter he's guiding you and Ocean&❤ prayers 🙏. I lost my father @9&I believe he guides a lot bc you're father was so kind and amazing you're going to end up w a man of his caliber
Omg lala. Dramatic. You're making it sound like you had to escape from Saudi Arabia. It was just a breakup w a kid involved. No doubt traumatic but I don't think you needed to escape like a 007 mission. You could've left your house w your own free will!
❤Mmmmmm , Could it be , he was punching above his weight ?Hence Arm Candy , Had he not being so cashed up would she really be attracted to him? had he been poor ?? To me it seems that they both where using each other 😮But I could be mistaken 🤷🏼♀️ 16:25
I think this was planned to keep the show goinggg..obviously this was planned 200% it was gonna be off and canceled so the affair was planned and especially her and Schwartz that was so fake and hes a nasty girlie dude..yuck and that Raquel shoulders look like she could be a linebacker
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When I think of what Randall looks like my brain just goes to big ed
Word!
100% my first thought
I relate. My ex I was with for 5yrs cheated on me but I didn't let him know I knew because I had to make a plan out. I had no family or friends in the state we were living. It took me two months to get the plan in place and leave all the while acting normal. It was a hard thing to do. The day I left him he had given me $685 to pay 3 bills for him and I still did. That was real tough. This happened in 2018 and every so often he still reaches out begging for another chance. Never will I ever. Now when I look back on our relationship there was so so many red flags. I'm such a stronger woman now with strong Boundaries. I have no desire for a relationship yet. I've been on a self healing journey since 2021.
sending you so much love ❣
We went through very similar situations ♥️
I will stay for free home, food as long as he won’t beat me up. He can sleep to every woman he wants. I will get rest every day. Who cares about how many women he slept with? I will just let out. Pretend like I don’t know anything as long as he gives me money.
I love this for you and I hope you’re doing well, I am going through something super similar right now too. It’s so heartbreaking to be betrayed this way.
It is crazy that when your in the relationship the red flags you dont really see..and you think you know that person. Doesnt matter if you love or hate lala i wish her and her daughter the best. ❤
I agree! I never thought my ex was cheating or that I ever had to worry about it. After leaving I found so much out!
Lala's blatantly lying about some things here. I watch Vanderpump Rules and she was told multiple times that he was married when the relationship first started so why is she saying she only found out after the breakup? It's ON CAMERA! She was so full of herself because she thought she landed a rich, well connected guy so she didn't care. She was a mistress who got played.
She thought they were legally separated when she was on the show. She knew he was legally married, but she thought the relationship was over.
Agree. It baffles me that she is using this "I didn't know" narrative. She's playing dumb to remove herself from any accountability.
I wouldn't mess with a Married Man who was Separated either. I don't understand how women think that's OK, he's still married! Also she's not a single mother, the father is there & she has her mom. A Real single mother is no father & no Help. Figure that out
@A J yep, I also said that in my comment.
She really was. The way she bragged about his private jet and her landing movie "roles" on her own
"Best friends with Mark Wahlberg" stopped me dead in my tracks
I’m glad Lala got away from her man, but she was nasty to a lot of people when she was with Randall and literally thought her shit didn’t stink.
Am I missing something with this whole story I feel like I am? Lala left her married man with his child and she’s talking about how hard it is when you know damn well she gets quite a pretty penny for that baby but yet she’s a hero doing it on her own🤔🤦♀️
She is still in court over custody. I am not sure she is getting paid yet.
Randall is Ed from 90 day fiance 😅
Lala has experienced a lifetime of trauma with that relationship! Thank God you got out. You have grown tremendously and sound so strong and centered!❤
Despite not really being a fan of Lala as thought she a bit to far out there for me personally. I do have to respect her for her strength of character and candidness in what she has shared. I just learnt a lot from her and has helped explain quite a few things I experienced from a past relationship I had. Lala will do well and is obviously a great Mama Bear.
That's all you cared to know, because you were enjoying the perks of being with him.
Not sure what is so wonderful and such about LaLa, women leave all the time, frankly she acts like a know it ALL all the time
I love Lala, I wish her an abundance of success and blessings for her and baby Ocean. Excellent podcast, I really loved this episode.
You two do such fantastic podcast episodes honestly, but gd this took the cake. SO MUCH fantastic content and general topics that need to be spoken about more were spoken about here with such an amazing perspective. Loved it 🎉
I think the money helped turned the head concerning the red flags … she knew he was still married -separated
LaLa got her baby girl out of it. Her job is to protect that baby. She knew to get out of it because of the baby. That’s what a mother is supposed do. If she didn’t have her baby, she may have still been there.
The baby is spilt half half so she didn’t really save the baby. She saved her self
It’s not hard to protect your child. It’s harder to explain why you didn’t protect when they’re 20… proud of la la you did what was best for you and your daughter!
All of these Lala’s complaints are very easy to solve.
I came upon this from my recommended on TH-cam and I had to tell you that this was one of the most incitful, intelligent, inspiring conversations I have ever listened to. The three of you did an amazing job. I was deeply touched by both the questions and the answers. Raw. I wish only the best for all of you and your family “s. Frances
(I am a retired, bed-ridden disabled nurse in her mid sixties. For demographics?)
Lala is beautiful
Wait a minute everybody told you he was married. I don’t necessarily believe or understand your cover-up Lala
He was separated when they got together
@@Plxxew he said
When you are shown smoke and mirrors by a true manipulating narcissist it doesn't, after what "everyone " says ... you get sucked into the tornado, his money the traveling etc.
People were telling her he was married and he never took her to his house? Um…
He was selling her lied on being separated
Where does Lala set the record straight for Vanderpump Rules???????
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Lala is everything for this “he picked the playing field , he can’t be mad I’m winning the game!!!!” BOOM bitch get it !!!! Fucking mic drop
I love what he said about business. Schwartz should take note
Wtf......who is this young woman. 😳 just discovered lala and I'm so impressed by her strength of character, her wit, and her beauty. So wise way beyond her years. What an inspiration she is. I'm in blown away.
Same I first saw her when she started on vanderpump rules and was obsessed 🤩
Such a great podcast 🙌👏👏👏
What she said absolutely resonated with me, it's true you don't know it when you are in it but boy once you have you are totally like how TF did that happen and it leaves you re thinking everything and not knowing who you are she spoke volumes them red flags get so clear after but you pick yourself up and be stronger and never let that shidt happen again, it's harder when there's kids in the mix it's rough.
Good for you Lala, that is exactly what you do in this situation.
One huge part was the Range Rover alone. Like yeah he’s super rich but he’s not that rich where it’s like giving chocolates. That was the red flag.
Your daughter comes first and your happiness i respect u for your boldness love u you will find someone to make u and your daughter happy i watched u become a grown woman great job i wish u the best
Only people who haven't watched old episodes don't know she was that man's mistress's. I remember and I've been rewatching from season 1. She knew. She's been telling a completely different story it's bullshit!!!! That's why she kept it secret
%100. Now she is a victim. She will never admit that she was in the wrong. Bragging about getting a Rover for a bj first night they went out.
Yes she knew the whole time and so did the other cast members. That’s why she made everyone keep his name a secret. She Knew he was Married
These pumprules cast member bottom feeders self-righteous (self hating) because they recognized their own relatable flaws.This is the best thing that has ever happened in reality TV. Let go. Enough hate for a man who was looking for a sexual relationship that he and Ariana did not have.
I’m so fkn proud of Lala, I got to watch her growth in real time she is truly inspiring
Wow inspiring NOT
She used that man from the beginning. I do not feel bad for her.
Lala is probably so thankful about Scandavol …look at her tour of all the podcasts
I don’t give a f what anyone says lala is honestly a real woman. That’s why people are so scared of her she is as real as they come. F this podcast is iconic for real this is going to help so many people 😢
LMAO you need to go back and rewatch the show from beginning. She WAS his mistress and was a bitch to other girls. Said that's there problem if they can't hold on to their man after stripping her top off in front of the guys. That's why she had to keep rand secret in beginning. He left his wife for her
Who in hell is scared of this big mouth holier than thou witch
@@pamelameadows9717 Exactly!!
Exactly Lala is a narcissist girlfriend you need to watch the whole season back I cringe the way she talks to people sober or not sober
❤l just recently broke up with an asshole he was like a present day vampire he was sucking the life out of me but I walked away so easy I didn't even miss him I was 🎉so relieved and happy I left him emotionally a year before I physically left you are my inspiration ❤love you lala
She knew but didnt care her friends said it very phoney person cheated first nite easy to google him she didnt care as long as he bought her stuff didnt marry so had a kid so she keeps income coming in he didnt manipulate her she knew red flags there were banners she will find another older rich man cause thats who she is now she can use her kid for money and attention any man with money and connections will do james nailed it
What I don’t understand Lala being a hypocrite about relationships is she’s been involved with people who has been in relationships I like to grow but she’s a real hypocrite
It's really scary what happened to Lala. Hard to believe there are men like that out in the world. Now I totally believe all the horror stories of what's going on in Hollywood.
Hollywood is full of fame whores and successful men who didn't get laid in high-school. When Trump said these women are OK with you (doing the extreme), like walking up to them and "grabbing their pussy", he was talking about most un-famous women in "show biz". I.e. fame whores.
You mean it’s scary to have women like Lala in Hollywood what are you talking about she takes your married man and snatches them away and then when she doesn’t get what she wants she blames it on everybody else
@@Wiseguy429 I don't think you understand what I was trying to say. I was talking about what he did. I don't condone what Lala did. I find it hard to believe that she didn't realize he was still with his wife. I was strictly talking about the things Rand did and what some of this high powered men in Hollywood are doing. Lala wouldn't be a friend of mine.
I’m so gad I’ve came across this podcast, this was a great interview I’ve absolutely ;loved & this couple are great they bounce off eachother so we;ll & will look for their other shows they've done
I normally don't watch "Lala" to the end, because she's a bully at times and has no filter, however I watched this episode to the end because she showed class in explaining why she is how she is, but did it with respect, if this is a new version of her "evolving" I like it already!
She's fake fake fake. She was never an alcoholic. She does the blame game.
Exactly she does the blame game She wanted his money and the Travel and Randall’s wife can’t stand Lala so she makes it sound like they were buddies
@@joycedominguez8997how disgusting to make such an accusation. We ALL saw her struggle with alcohol and how it affected her life. You’re a nasty person.
I LOVED THIS. I’m brand new to your channel and could not imagine a better interview to watch. I look up to Lala so much as a fellow survivor and mental health advocate. I wish I’d seen this video when I was in the weeds trying to survive, not knowing where I’d be sleeping after having the WORST things that can happen to a woman happen to me. My only reason to live is my fur baby. Obrigada e спасибо большое 🇧🇷🇵🇹🇷🇺🇺🇦🩰
How you got them is how you lose them, stop playing a victim and learn from your poor choices or else guaranteed you will choose materialistic men again!
Lauren and Lala (which is funny cause she’s also Lauren) have such similar voices
Aside from her daughter she also got clothes bags and acting gigs/credits too tho?
Chris Medina is da💣❤️🔥 no wonder Lala gives high priestess vibes 💖✨
It seems Randall took advantage of LaLa's drinking, trauma, isolating her away from the people that would challenge his lies... there was a reason he didnt want to be on the show, the rumors of having people sign NDA's...
I was violently raped when I was only 14 and a virgin and I recall it but it’s been almost 40 years and I’ve never been able to connect to it. It’s caused issues for me in my adult life and relationships. Get therapy when you feel ready is my advice. It can be years later and it’ll still help you.
thats a little different, she was not a victim
Layla can explain away everything about her missteps. She will say “when you’re in it, or age”, or situational, or it’s different situation, or something. She then takes a dump on who ever she doesn’t like for the same crap she pulled or her friends pull.
LALA is her name, and SHE didn’t *do* anything. Stop blaming women for the shitty things bad, manipulative men do. She is literally like family with Randall’s ex, Ambyr, and they are raising their daughters as siblings. Because Ambyr *knows* that they were BOTH lied to, manipulated, and cheated on. And she’s a mature adult human being, unlike you childish, nasty mean girls who have been lying about & harassing Lala every day of her life for 6+ YEARS over something that never happened. Disgusting.
You know what ABSOLUTELY DID happen, though? Rachel absolutely *intentionally & aggressively* went after & had a 7-month+ long affair with one of her best friends partners of nearly a decade. So, no, nothing about these 2 situations is the same. One person is a cheater, and the other isn’t, she’s just on the receiving end of a bunch of women with severe unchecked internalized misogyny. You should really see somebody about that; it’s extremely ugly to treat other women like this.
I never really liked Raquel but something tells me this season will be no change..
I did the same .. he left on a trip and I moved out
Lauren and lala have the same exact voice!
She’s been triggered by Raquel for yrs? What a joke! She’s been with James for her entire time on the show. Nice try everyone.
Well that aged poorly
@@michellesassouni2863 Not really. And on S6 she and James were the ones goofing around at Rob’s in Big Bear. Under a blanket together etc. They were making Raquel uncomfortable and she told James that. Also Lala never saw these girls that were around Rand when he was out of town so it’s ridiculous for her to say that R reminds her of them to Scheana in Mexico. When R came on the show S5 Lala was already dating Rand secretly. And she was with James the entire time until they broke up. And this is not a pro Raquel comment.
LaLa is full of it. She knew he was married the whole time. Tell her to take a lie detector. I think it's honestly embarrassing that the people she comes on with to talk that they act like she didn't know. She seemed to know everyone's else's bussiness. I looked it up online when he was the mystery man and found a picture of him & his wife. I'm sure a lot of you all looked it up too. Saw the marriage license was still active. Plus you never went to his house. Ridiculous.
Lol at her every time she mentions being "safe" or "safety" = money. Just call it for what it is then I would respect that but why beat around the bush and say he made you feel safe? Lmfao pathetic.
❤LOVE YOU LALA 💘 YOU'RE A BOSS HE CAN'T FUCK WITH A BOSS you have you're beautiful bby THAT'S A CELEBRATION SHE'S LOVE 💘 💕 💗 HE TRIED TO STEAL YOUR SHINE 🎉YOU'RE SOO BEAUTIFUL
I love love lala..I wish she finds a man so Worthy of her and treats her like a absolute queen she is..love from 🇬🇧 xxxx
Lala I said the exact same thing to a man I was seeing before. It was so good, I'd never and never have since experienced something like it that I told him, it's too good to be for just me. More women need this kind of D
I LOOOOOOVED THIS EPISODE!!! Lala is so real & I love how alike Lauren and her are!
Hearing Lala say she literally knew nothing about him except “he makes a lot of movies, he likes to fly private, and he’s friends with Mark Wahlberg” like that’s called being blinded by materialism. Happy she’s in a better place though
So proud of you La La!
I guess Lala had that energy they spoke of????? Huhhhhhh!!!!!!
Can't stop laughing at her bullshit. Honey you lose them the way you get them lol first red flag you knew he was married. Her whole story is different than the first season with her. So weird her talking about being bullied when I've watched her be a bully for years.
Agree!!!
Lala babes you’re experiencing betrayal trauma. I hope you find an amazing trauma informed therapist that you can trust. I’m so sorry ❤
Lala pretending she pulled a Katie Holmes is hilarious 😂
First off Just found you because I love Lala, and your AMAZING HONEST GREAT CHANNEL, I'm hooked... now for young guns Lala, she rocks, and I always related to her even though I'm old enough to be her mommas BFF, but I saw myself in her. Her fight, her roar, and her pain, and then how she has risen from hell, and called her a hole narcissistic ex out. She reminds me of the terminator gal momma. What a refreshing Podcaster, creator channel hustler you are..love it.. and how you 2 have been able to see through the Hollywood-land world too many in our world see.. love your stuff
She's a pathetic person
I love Lala BUT to say she only knew he was married AFTER they broke up is a lie. Everyone on the show plus more knew that he was married when they first got together. So either she chose to ignore it or genuinely is so gullible for believing him and now look where she is.
He brought Lala to his therapist to prove he was separated from his wife! I think she should have known better but come on! He went through extra steps to convince her that his lies were the "truth"
Lala can’t act like she doesn’t know about the industry just bc she’s from Utah. Utah has tv. He isn’t attractive, just seemed powerful. Now he’s nothing and has no money so Lala ran.
Does anyone know by any chance where Lala’s jacket is from? I’m in love!
What did she think was going to happen dating somebody her parents age like come on he was married when she was dating him come on she isn't stupid I'm sure this isn't her first rodeo with a guy
I live lalas cardigan. Who designed it?
Who was she talking about when she said "And I know who you're talking about!"
Once she knew that he was owing out the money of course it was easy to leave.
Is Emmett Turtle from Entourage????
My opinion as a published writer, as well years of PR experience.
I feel Tom and Raquel we'll stay on the show. They may or may not work as a couple. That remains to be seen. Many are making a lot from this scandal. Between the reruns as well podcasts. Honestly money is being made every way possible.
Is it a shame they cheated, of course. One door closes another opens for Ariana.
Ariana has the TV show as well Dancing with the Stars. I heard it starts filming in September. So Ariana is making out! She will be fine, she is strong . Of course in time. Not to sound redundant because I said it before. Please show us the remaining episodes of Vanderpump Rules within a week's time so we can get to the reunion. I say this only due to the situation, we all know what happened.
I have been doing a lot of research. People will start to get aggravated, if not already.
Waiting two months is going to be difficult. What you don't want is to upset fans. Love your show!
My thoughts on other shows, within the franchise.
I think Lisa Rinna had a really tough year. She really needs to be given some grace here.
But she went up against someone bigger than herself and she got push back, allegedly. But look at New Jersey, things were done to certain people that should have been fired! And they were not! I like Kathy but you have to admit Lisa brought a lot to that show!
Like her or not! I can see them hiring her back in the future.
I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose my mother.
For me, she gets a pass. Her bubbly attitude, her husband is such a sweetheart. As well her girls.
I predict she's coming back. She's getting a slap on the wrist now. Just a guess.
It's easy for others to kick a person, when they are down. I am not that person. I loved her on Days of our lives!
Did she go overboard? yes, but she spoke her truth.
As I said above look what some of the other housewives did to their cast members! Throwing glasses, dishes you name it.
They did not get fired!!!! It could have caused bodily injury.
Just speaking the truth!
Please don't fire Joe and Melissa! They paid their dues! They deserves their spot on that show!
Bring back Kim D.
Joe brings a lot Melissa is Classy and level headed. You need them on the show! I would go even further and say bring back the OG's now that was a show!
I go by my gut instincts!
I would love to be a consultant to my thoughts. Thank you
Did the season start??
The minute she said she has a psychic
I exited the convo
I pray for Lala I think she is a wonderful mama to Ocean and I pray God blessed and continues to keep them safe and may she always flourish I think it would be so exciting and awesome if Lala had her brand around mommy daughter products or maybe a channel about navigating in a single mom household but on a level that others can relate not all Hollywood esque like maybe normal ish life type for Ocean or something like that because Lala has a side of her she’s shown us that is very infectious you wanna have her energy you wanna see what’s she’s into like she’s inspiring but without all the Hollywood side when she knows and is confident for just being Lala she’s awesome 😎 she doesn’t need to let the Randall cheating stuff always be the main thing Lala we r here to support whatever endeavor you may start in the future step away from VPR BEAUTIFUL it’s too toxic
You’re more than that❤🙏
Hey the psychic she has is amazing and is lovely
I used to judge like to you being a Christian. It's very simple minded and sad
Yes Lala step away from Vanderpump rules and the media and stop doing the stupid merch! And don’t have relationships with married men it doesn’t get you anywhere make your own money
@@jjack5244 that’s good for u hun but I’m not into them n I’m good don’t be so simple minded everybody’s got their preferences so respect just like I did I STILL wished nothing but Gods blessing over Lala and her baby i never judged I just mentioned that that’s where I exited the convo very respectfully and in fact the majority of comment was just that BLESSINGS be a little more grown up sweetie 🙏♥️ in life you’re gonna come across people who don’t share your views but u make sure you’re always kind and respectful shows character 🙏♥️
And the minute u start mentioning invisible sky daddy we stop listening 😅 your god allows kids to get raped and beat so please explain that
@@Wiseguy429wtf r u talking about? We fans love the merch she is making her own money. Stfu
I absolutely love Lala❤️
You don't know true storiy
@@pamelameadows9717 agree. People need to know the whole story. She wants to blame alcohol for her behavior. She's never been an alcoholic. I can't with her
@@joycedominguez8997 not only do I remember watching it when previous seasons have erred but I've gone back and watched it from season. This season I've seen her make her rounds trying to spend a whole different story about how her and Randall got together. Now she's come up with some bulshit story that she didn't know he was married and he even took her to go see his therapist LOL I loved how Lisa was calling her out and then while I would start crying and insisting she had no idea. Honey we all watch the show you knew he was married, you knew you were his mistress. I'm sure he probably told her he was going to leave his wife but the fact remains she knew he was married at the time. It was after their affair started that he finally separated from his wife. And if I remember correctly it was because his wife found out he was cheating on her and that's when they became separated. These reality stars really need to go back and watch their story from previous seasons. Lisa's got her number but she wasn't going to argue with lala about it. Everytime Lisa would point out something saying you had to know he was married darling shut her down and come up with some excuse. I'm not saying I hate lala but she is full of shit. It was almost funny as I watch her cry and is so angry that he would cheat on her. Really you were shocked that he would cheat on you LOL not only did he cheat on his wife and two kids but you literally quit having sex with a man that you said wanted sex all the time. So why are you so surprised he would cheat on you. This season has been the season of karma coming back to bite people in the ass. As me, Lisa and everyone else says you will lose them the way you got. Was she with him because of his money or because she loved him LOL let's break it down. She has now said how unattractive he is even calling him old and fat. Then we have he was horrible in bed and she hasn't had an orgasm since 2016. So now we know she wasn't in it for his looks and she wasn't with him for the sex so what's left LMAO a month or more ago I would have advised lala to just keep her mouth shut and quit trying to convince of this new story line you came up with. it's even funny that she wants everybody to feel sorry for her and have compassion for her that he cheated on her with a younger woman even.she was literally that younger woman at one time. I'm not hating on wall up but this is the facts. Come to think of it there's really not much to like about lala she's rude, she's mean she gets in front of people's faces going after them and if they open their mouths we're supposed to stop when she goes. I've had enough I'm done. I don't have it I know how to explain that last statement I made. She thinks it's okay for her to get in people's faces and tell him about themselves and they can't come back at her. She laughs and she says you know me I'm going to tell you like it is and trust me you don't want to mess with me lol except Ariana was able to hold her own.
@@joycedominguez8997 on a couple of TH-cam channels I've mentioned lala is not sober she may not be drinking but she's doing something else. It takes one to know one. As I watched her behavior there's been times I said that girl has taken something. Now I've had a few others who have told me they thought the same thing. The third time I went to AAA I finally quit drinking that was twenty-five years ago. I even worked at an AA club that had a snack bar where they held meetings. It's like getting a crash course on alcoholics. Half of them smoked a joint before they came to the meeting. Since it was a clubhouse where meetings were held a lot of guys would hang out around there during the daytime. Anyway lawless behavior sometimes is so different than other times. And it's the way she acts during those other times that make me think she's taking something. Whether it's prescription or not. I myself wound up on Xanax and pain medicine a few years after I got sober. She gets too angry especially if you're not stroking her ego and telling her how great she is for not drinking when people bring up her sobriety. Really angry you don't mess with my sobriety blah blah blah Ami's season it seems those that are the angriest at people are the ones that have done it in the past. Tom yelled and gave Jack's a hard time for screwing somebody in the friend circle and then he was yelling and angry at Kristen for hooking up with his friend James who was moving in and that they even did it in his apartment that sounds so familiar
@@pamelameadows9717 wow you certainly do know the whole Lala saga. I hope the folks that say they "love" her will read everything you wrote here. Lala is a big bully, she's gone on countless podcasts to bad mouth the father of her child. One day that child will listen to all these podcasts and it could destroy her. I hope it doesn't but Lala needs to get a grip and stop now. I've always been a firm believer in " you lose them how you found them too". I hate that she claims to have been an alcoholic, an alcoholic gets up drinking and drinks all day, every day. She only drank socially so her whole sobriety story pisses me off. She wants to blame her behavior on the alcohol, No that's just who she is. There is still a TH-cam clip of her being interviewed when she first got with Randall and she literally brags how she screwed him the first night and he gave her a range Rover. She literally says how she loves that he gives her presents. So in other words she was a prostitute. Ugh I could go on and on but between the both of us we got her figured out. I just hope these gullible people read our comments, I mean they can adore her all they want, that's what Lala does best, she's a narcissist after all, she plays the victim. By the way, I have a strong feeling she's going to go after Brock. She moved in next door to schena and him and she's already been in the pool alone with him. I would never trust her, she's looking for a new storyline as well. Thank you for your comment.
Listening to this podcast after Scandoval just cements the fact that Scandoval was a ratings boost set up.
I just listened to Bethany with Raquel. It’s refreshing to hear something without sex.
Yall listen to it, it’s excellent info regarding the affair and dealing with it.
Omg not Lauryn knowing exactly what Raquel did 😊
I fucking LOVE Lala 🙌
I relate to Lala so much. Put some respect on her fucking name!
Come on LaLa just admit it you fell for the money and fame of it 🙄. If you cannot admit that you will repeat it
We only want to know about the fake affair
I find it disrespectful when you haven't been in the same situation to say ' me & you are so similar, I would've done the same thing'. While it can be true, it just sounded distasteful.
Lala makes me want to go back to AA again.
go!!
What's with the gloves?????
She knew he was married?? Lmao
❤I love LaLa so much & I think you're Dad crossed over& was like oh hell no I'm rescuing my daughter he's guiding you and Ocean&❤ prayers 🙏.
I lost my father @9&I believe he guides a lot bc you're father was so kind and amazing you're going to end up w a man of his caliber
OMG WHENS LALA’s EPISODE WITH YALL ON COMING OUT😍
inspirational love this
Lala what happens when his daughters watch this? What did you actually see in him?
I love all the give them Layla products and I’m 60
8:00 ding ding ding
Omg lala. Dramatic. You're making it sound like you had to escape from Saudi Arabia. It was just a breakup w a kid involved. No doubt traumatic but I don't think you needed to escape like a 007 mission. You could've left your house w your own free will!
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@Z I really feel she's taking the piss sometimes. Oh God forbid, you have to be an independent woman and support yourself! Umm yep, most of us do!
So true… she is Joan of Arc! Lol
He checked on you bc you have a history of cheating and lying… and bc he feared you were going to steal his child😊
Sounds like you're lucky enough to never have been in a relationship with a narcissist. There are people who make things a battle
❤Mmmmmm , Could it be , he was punching above his weight ?Hence Arm Candy , Had he not being so cashed up would she really be attracted to him? had he been poor ?? To me it seems that they both where using each other 😮But I could be mistaken 🤷🏼♀️ 16:25
Wrong new study says it is urine . Eek 😱
Lala might be single for a long time. Who would date her seriously? Foul
I think this was planned to keep the show goinggg..obviously this was planned 200% it was gonna be off and canceled so the affair was planned and especially her and Schwartz that was so fake and hes a nasty girlie dude..yuck and that Raquel shoulders look like she could be a linebacker
No change... gee, Sandoval, hmmm. LOL
Luv her