A million dollar worth topic. No training at all for couples at the time of marriage or even after. It is clearly an example of "Those who fail to plan are planning to fail". These sessions need to be held in hundreds...
Exactly 👍 We need A thorough understanding regarding this topic to clear the misconceptions , developed by our elders under the influence of culture of Sub-continent which is totally the opposite of teachings of Islam & other Holy Religions as well, given to other prophets before Muhammad pbuh by Allah SWT.
Sir agar sas susar aur phir husband b ap k maa baap k bare me kuch aur phir jhota b bolen tu phir husband se hi nafrat hone lgti hy....us waqt kya karen
Simple and well educated person. Who dedicated so much time to understand Islam and human psychology and the relation between them. I wish I can attend his class personally. Thank you for loading these sessions. We need more counselors like him in every part of the muslim world. May Allah grant him more knowledge, health and blessed life.
This man has sorted everything out in this life. His videos make me wanna cry for how shallow my lofe has been. Be it at individual/ societal or economoc level. Kudos sir to you. Things are hard to change but these talks will work as the required seed hope so.
Behtareen sentence hai" jis ko samjh ziyada aya hai us ki zemadari bhi ziyada hai maaf krne ki bhi maafi mangny ki bhi "meri koshish yehi ho gi k main apni tamam life is principle k teht guzaron insha'Allah & Ameen
Masha'Allah ! I'm very amazed to know the real and depth meaning of the marriage in first lecture . Jazak'Allah ! Salman Asif Saddiqui Sir May Almighty Allah give us good health, wealth and give me a good life partner ! Ameen!
May Allah swt preserve our teacher... Almighty has given him more understanding of our religion Islam than any modern day scholar of Islam... Alhamdulillah for his knowledge...
Sir I saw your video today and I want to share my personal views that marriage is a basic necessity of life, I think the luckiest persons in this world are who got married and especially who have love marriage life. Who don't I understand them unfortunately they don't deserve it and I will also include married life is a best life ever
Our societies fail because we dont teach them what is needed before they start their Life long Journey of relationships. In yesteryears a family would be blessed if our nanni granny grandpa or uncle would teach day to day with such examples. That is where a family bond is created and Legacy of a Happy relationship is passed on. Thank you for such a wonderful presentation.
Was anxiously waiting for this this is the sad reality of our society that both men and women don't know how to treat each other after marriage also third party plays a very crucial role in this relationship if they are too much involved may ALLAH make our spouses a source of happiness ameen
Ma Allah ka bohat Shukar ada Karti hon ke usne mujey aap ki itni zabardast vidoe sunne ka, critically sochne ka and Inshallah life ma implement karne ka moka Mila. I must ye marriage topic pe bohat piyari or one of the best vidoe ha❤❤❤
Sir Allah Bless you in this world and hereafter, it makes me cry. Ab waqt aa gaya hai k hum ye batain gharon main shuru karain warna jis barbadi ki taraf hum jaaa rahay hain wahan se wapsi 400 saal main bhi mushkil hai Allah sari umat e muslima ko Amal ki tofique ata farmaiy. Ameen.
SubhanAllah MashaAllah,bht si chezain jo lailmi main ghalat hogaen Allah mujhey muaf krday,temprament pr kaam krna hoga,jo hay wo wohi behtreen hay accept krna hoga.p
U are doing great service to this Ummah by telling them what is expected of them...the heart bleeds to think what we have become...we dont know what we are...May Allah guide
Sir jis ne shadi ki phir apny bivi aur bachon ki iss tarah se zindagi ko khoobsurt aur aasan banaya tu uss ne bila shak iss zindagi aur next life mein success hasil kerny mein koi b rukawat nhi as sakti wo bila shak kamyab ho ga
Ye mauzu ka mai bade shiddat se intezar kar raha tha MashAllah sir🙌 Apke har jumle our alfaz me badi ilmi taufeeq hai.... Allah taala apki umar me barkat ataa farmaye...
This is one of the best lectures I have ever listened...so logical. So funny, cus it's tooo relatable 😂❤ May Allah bless Sir Salman Asif and his family..aameen. JazakAllahu khair
Alhamdulillaah....this is the need of hour to understand these issues a little deeper. i have some points "As you have said that - Marriage is not Farz but according to Classical scholars, it is a matter which becomes FArz (about those who may have higher chances to act adultery), Sunnah (for common muslism) and Mustahab and recommended for others as well." and many scholar Imam like - IBNeTaymiyyah didn'nt marry.
شادی وہ واحد رشتہ جس سے تمام رشتوں کی ابتدا ہوتی ہے۔ اور شادی ہی وہ واحد رشتہ جسے چننے کے لیے اللہ نے انسان کو بہت حد تک اختیار دیا ہے۔ رشتہِ ازدواج میں منسلک ہونے کے بعد مرد و عورت کو جو اولاد عطا ہوتی ہے۔ وہ خالصتاً اللہ کی مرضی سے ہوتی ہے۔ اسی طرح اولاد بھی اپنے والدین کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہے۔ اور اسی طرح اولاد کو ملنے والے بہن بھائی بھی ایک دوسرے کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہیں۔ الغرض شادی کے علاوہ تمام رشتے اللہ تعالی اپنی مرضی سے بناتے ہیں۔ بس صرف شریک حیات کے انتخاب کے لئے اللہ تعالی نے انسان کو کچھ بہترین اصولوں کے ساتھ اختیار دیا ہے۔
What a beautiful and authentic analysis. ♥️♥️ There is hope until there are people like him exist. Shopping 😄😄😄Exactly, that’s all ......getting married about, unfortunately.
Aap ki zabardast analysis hai aurtoan ki security ke baare me. I have always thought about it and found exactly the same.Masha Allah Aap bahot khoob bayaan karte hain.Maza aa jata hai.I want to follow your order of relationships.
Salam Sir. If you do read comments please answer this for me. Is respecting and taking care of Saas Susar (who are like our parents and I totally agree with that) only for females? Are husbands never accountable or even told that his saas susar are like his parents too? Why do we only expect females to treat her saas susar like her parents and this is not expected of or even repeatedly told to the husbands?
محترمہ میں اپ سے متفق نہیں۔ بہت سے شوہر سمجھدار اور خدا خوفی کے تحت بالکل اسی طرح اس کے بھی چار ماں باپ ہیں جیسے بیوی کے چار ماں باپ بیوی کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم شوہر کرے گا شوہر کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم بیوی کرے گی
Maliha our society is dominated by Hindu culture. These traditions have no value in our religion. It’s hard to feel love for a person who doesn’t treat your parents with at least respect ( if not love). It goes both ways
@@zakirhusaindema2244 and if there is no sala, what then? Shouldn’t son in law at least visit his sas susr now and then? And encourage his wife to look after them
@@misbahhabib8866 of course son in law should take place of the son in fact it’s a very good opportunity for son in law to gain sawab by doing so. By the way if you really love a person you would love all connected lives and things. For instance majnoon used to kiss a dog belong to Laila’s maholla. Hope you got my point🌹🌷💐 love for all.
In Islam order of relationship comes after justice. Justice is the main Islamic rule to follow. In Surah Al Hadid, Ayah 25, its mentioned, “We sent Our Messengers with clear signs and sent down with them the Book and the balance in order to establish justice among the people…” (57:25)
Creating awareness about this precious knowledge of order of relationship.Your contribution is the essence of perfection and excellence.I would love to be an active part of your organisation.
In today era or journey a basic problem had distract the relationship of both .ln behind the scenes there is demotivate of people. There is a great need of motivation .sir you are great
Shaadi ki jaati hai ke imaan bachaya jae. It doesnt mean ke only legal husband wife relationship ho, balkay apna aap nd apnay aas paas ke logon ke saath is life ke challenges overcome kerna with the help of teachings of Allah nd Rasulullah Sallallahu Aayhi WaSsalaam taakay hereafter life attain ki jae.
Zabardast, The speaker is ahl e zubaan Excellent try, however with all humbleness I want to add that the way speaker chose is the way of story telling... Sir please throw some light on how to internalise them concepts From feelings point of view, how to classify different feelings at different stages of process of marriage Because it's interrelation of thought and emotions that creates or can create idiosyncratic behaviour in different agents in a relationship be it marriage or something else.... Jzakullah ho khair Please forgive me if it is too harsh
Jazaak Allah alkhair. Such an education should be a must for the marrying people, before their marriage. And should be attached with the marriage registrar. Marriage registry will be done only when this education is taken.
I must say if we observe...we will find that marriages can be classified..1.Situations or cirumstances....... 2.persons like each other. 3.parents . 4.society.......................Now how we explain it..... as if two persons like each others and all parents r too..marriage happen. Second liking is here but parents doesn't like.... marriage not happened.. in some cases persons took courage to make parents agree. Third. Role play of society ....peoples around can influence..may be jealousy.......fourth.... peoples who become religous and say they do marriage for the sake of GOD..... so such religous persons( Mostly depend on liking of parents )want to live in their home and society.... again this is circumstances......the most important thing is patience works a lot and persons capbility having that vision (compromise).one true thing is if two persons marriage happened in young age...(mostly cousin) responsibility fall on man.in young age..focus now is to carry on like make money for a family. Now one important thing is how all peoples know before happening. What is a role play of dua, support, courage, a good conversation............... u can right ur fate..... so dua and prayers work here truly.In all cases,, ... don't forget ...thankfulness, obedience to AllahaSwt, loyalty to Mohammed Pbuh.in way of life matters,as not only in this world and here after too.
Thank you for some very valid and beautiful points. However, just one question.. wives have been told to not discuss issues with anyone else, how does it affect her mental health when she keeps everything inside and does not vent it out with anyone over a period of time, just curious.. Thanks
A million dollar worth topic. No training at all for couples at the time of marriage or even after. It is clearly an example of "Those who fail to plan are planning to fail".
These sessions need to be held in hundreds...
Exactly 👍
We need A thorough understanding regarding this topic to clear the misconceptions , developed by our elders under the influence of culture of Sub-continent which is totally the opposite of teachings of Islam & other Holy Religions as well, given to other prophets before Muhammad pbuh by Allah SWT.
Sir agar sas susar aur phir husband b ap k maa baap k bare me kuch aur phir jhota b bolen tu phir husband se hi nafrat hone lgti hy....us waqt kya karen
@@MK-gs8jz sabr aur darguzar Karen muaf krden spouse ko iss ka bhtt ajr hay agar nahi kr sakte tou alehda ho jayn
Exactly, a million dollar worth. ♥️
@Muhammad Tayyab are you a professional writer? 🧐
I am so amazed about his well respectful way of speaking. He uses muhazzub urdu and clean example.
Amazing ideas and in depth practical experiences Mashaa'Allah
Simple and well educated person. Who dedicated so much time to understand Islam and human psychology and the relation between them. I wish I can attend his class personally. Thank you for loading these sessions. We need more counselors like him in every part of the muslim world. May Allah grant him more knowledge, health and blessed life.
This man has sorted everything out in this life. His videos make me wanna cry for how shallow my lofe has been. Be it at individual/ societal or economoc level. Kudos sir to you. Things are hard to change but these talks will work as the required seed hope so.
Assalamu alaikum aap shadi karogi muje se
@@sikandarrinwala3121 Aapko yhi Jagah mila haii reeshta maangne ka...Thora lihaaj krein apna 🙄🙄🙂🙂
@@AnweR-AmmaR lol
Behtareen sentence hai" jis ko samjh ziyada aya hai us ki zemadari bhi ziyada hai maaf krne ki bhi maafi mangny ki bhi "meri koshish yehi ho gi k main apni tamam life is principle k teht guzaron insha'Allah & Ameen
THANKX FOR THE ANECDOTE.
Masha'Allah !
I'm very amazed to know the real and depth meaning of the marriage in first lecture .
Jazak'Allah ! Salman Asif Saddiqui Sir
May Almighty Allah give us good health, wealth and give me a good life partner !
Ameen!
Bhagwaan apko salamat rakhe glad to watch before marriage love from India 🇮🇳
😊
الحمدللہ چند جوڑوں میں صلح کرانے کی اللہ نے توفیق دی ہے اور آپ کی ویڈیو بھی ان کے آگے پیش کریں گے تو مزید بہتری آئے گی انشاءاللہ
itni detail shayad hi kisi ne bayan ki ho or wo bhi itni khubsurti se... Sir Allah apko kamyab kary
love from india
i am going to be a parenting trainer inshallah
every sentence is a treasure.
Wish we would listened it 20 yrs back....Truly depicts the women nature ....wish our sons now grow in your way.
Ameen
چھوٹی چوٹی باتوں پہ جن کا دل دکھتا ہے۔وہ زندگی میں بڑےکام کےقابل نہی ہوسکے۔1:23:50
True
Bilkul sahih
Theak
لگتا یہ ڈسلائک روبوٹ نے کیا ہوگا کیوں کہ ایک انسان کی کیا حیوان بھی ایسی حرکت نہیں کرے گا ! سر اللہ آپ کو طویل عمر دے !
May Allah swt preserve our teacher... Almighty has given him more understanding of our religion Islam than any modern day scholar of Islam... Alhamdulillah for his knowledge...
ap soch b ni sakte k how much its helpfull to listen to you.. beautifull SIR ❤
Ap soch bhi nahin sakte???
A Crystal clear person.. Very authentic and absolutely beneficial❤
Sir I saw your video today and I want to share my personal views that marriage is a basic necessity of life, I think the luckiest persons in this world are who got married and especially who have love marriage life. Who don't I understand them unfortunately they don't deserve it and I will also include married life is a best life ever
Just so soothing to hear ke farz ni ha khana bana kr dena phir bi 80 to 90 percent us ne bnaya! How can people not know this..
Acha topic hai buhaat kuch seekhney ko mile ga Insha'Allah Thank you ERDC❤
Our societies fail because we dont teach them what is needed before they start their Life long Journey of relationships.
In yesteryears a family would be blessed if our nanni granny grandpa or uncle would teach day to day with such examples.
That is where a family bond is created and Legacy of a Happy relationship is passed on.
Thank you for such a wonderful presentation.
It looks so nice to hold your daughter,MashaAllah Allah always keep your family happy.Ameen.
Was anxiously waiting for this this is the sad reality of our society that both men and women don't know how to treat each other after marriage also third party plays a very crucial role in this relationship if they are too much involved may ALLAH make our spouses a source of happiness ameen
Deep thinking...
So loving comments from his Wife! May your family stay blessed.
Alhumdulilah Apki qeemti batain hein❤️❤️ bht meaning full talk..
"Badkar Aurtein"
"Badkar Mardon" k Liye Hain......
"Badkar Mard"
"Badkar Aurton" k
Liye Hain......
"Pak Aurtein"
"Pak Mardon" k
Liye Hain.......
"Pak Mard"
"Pak Aurton" k
Liye Hain......
(Surah-e-Noor, Aayat#26)
Ma Allah ka bohat Shukar ada Karti hon ke usne mujey aap ki itni zabardast vidoe sunne ka, critically sochne ka and Inshallah life ma implement karne ka moka Mila. I must ye marriage topic pe bohat piyari or one of the best vidoe ha❤❤❤
Order of relation is the key parameter. It deservs full lecture with many practical examples where spouses forget to remember order of relation.
Thanks for your guidelines for all of us.I am eagerly awaiting for part 2.May Allah bless you
Aap muje se shaadi karlo
1.Afzaishe insaniyat 2.Social life formation. 3. Good , noble concepts and aamaale saleh forwarding to coming generations.
May Allah SWT reward you @Salman sb n @ERDC for bringing up this much needed topic.
True hero of our society..
Sir Allah Bless you in this world and hereafter, it makes me cry.
Ab waqt aa gaya hai k hum ye batain gharon main shuru karain warna jis barbadi ki taraf hum jaaa rahay hain wahan se wapsi 400 saal main bhi mushkil hai
Allah sari umat e muslima ko Amal ki tofique ata farmaiy.
Ameen.
Thank you sir your way of speaking is very impressive and no one tell this topic as such polite manners.
SubhanAllah MashaAllah,bht si chezain jo lailmi main ghalat hogaen Allah mujhey muaf krday,temprament pr kaam krna hoga,jo hay wo wohi behtreen hay accept krna hoga.p
U are doing great service to this Ummah by telling them what is expected of them...the heart bleeds to think what we have become...we dont know what we are...May Allah guide
Sir jis ne shadi ki phir apny bivi aur bachon ki iss tarah se zindagi ko khoobsurt aur aasan banaya tu uss ne bila shak iss zindagi aur next life mein success hasil kerny mein koi b rukawat nhi as sakti wo bila shak kamyab ho ga
This lecture is exceptional and very intellectual... experience and wisdom both are so evident Masha Allah
Ye mauzu ka mai bade shiddat se intezar kar raha tha
MashAllah sir🙌
Apke har jumle our alfaz me badi ilmi taufeeq hai....
Allah taala apki umar me barkat ataa farmaye...
Ameen
شادی کا مقصد ، صاف اور بہتر معاشرہ کی تشکیل اور بے حیائی سے محفوظ رہنے کے لئے۔
This is one of the best lectures I have ever listened...so logical. So funny, cus it's tooo relatable 😂❤ May Allah bless Sir Salman Asif and his family..aameen. JazakAllahu khair
Masha'Allah sir
You are my murabbi..May Allah paak bless you with Afiyat prosperity Jannat goodness Peace
This program is the Gem of my life.
Aap ki shadi ho gai he?
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Sir, Giving us a deep discussion for married and unmarried(those who nearer to perform Nikah)--
these points absolutely helpful--💐
Jazak'Allah Khair😊
ماشاء اللہ میرے استاد محترم نے بہت ہی بہترین انداز میں بات سمجھائی ہے
This is really informative and argumentative sir. ALLAH bless you.
MashaAllah sheer khwar bachay bhi sun rahe hain Salman asif saab ko JzakAllah
جزاک اللہ خیرا۔
اللہ تعالی ہم سب کے دل میں یہ باتیں اتار دیں
Ameen
Superb and very useful talk!
May Allah bless you!
Thank you brother ji for your teaching
God Bless you
ماشاء اللّٰہ بہت خوب تعلیم دی مضمون کا انتخاب بہت اعلیٰ
Amazing information and knowledge I received!! Alhamdulliah:)
Alhamdulillaah....this is the need of hour to understand these issues a little deeper. i have some points "As you have said that - Marriage is not Farz but according to Classical scholars, it is a matter which becomes FArz (about those who may have higher chances to act adultery), Sunnah (for common muslism) and Mustahab and recommended for others as well." and many scholar Imam like - IBNeTaymiyyah didn'nt marry.
May Allah reward you for your work
God bless you with reward for your contribution 🤲🏻
Bht din se is topic per aap ke khyalat janna chahti thi...kai baar search bhi kiya....jazak allah
شادی وہ واحد رشتہ جس سے تمام رشتوں کی ابتدا ہوتی ہے۔
اور شادی ہی وہ واحد رشتہ جسے چننے کے لیے اللہ نے انسان کو بہت حد تک اختیار دیا ہے۔
رشتہِ ازدواج میں منسلک ہونے کے بعد مرد و عورت کو جو اولاد عطا ہوتی ہے۔ وہ خالصتاً اللہ کی مرضی سے ہوتی ہے۔
اسی طرح اولاد بھی اپنے والدین کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہے۔
اور اسی طرح اولاد کو ملنے والے بہن بھائی بھی ایک دوسرے کے انتخاب میں مکمل بے اختیار ہیں۔
الغرض شادی کے علاوہ تمام رشتے اللہ تعالی اپنی مرضی سے بناتے ہیں۔
بس صرف شریک حیات کے انتخاب کے لئے اللہ تعالی نے انسان کو کچھ بہترین اصولوں کے ساتھ اختیار دیا ہے۔
Well said
Exactly
Wah ZABARDAAST SACH BYAAAN KIA HAI APP NE ,LIKE SO MUCH
An excellent presentation. A very long time is required to absorb the main points of this talk.
I love to listen to you sir.
Love from kashmir
#MuneerSpeaks
What a beautiful and authentic analysis. ♥️♥️
There is hope until there are people like him exist.
Shopping 😄😄😄Exactly, that’s all ......getting married about, unfortunately.
Aap ki zabardast analysis hai aurtoan ki security ke baare me. I have always thought about it and found exactly the same.Masha Allah Aap bahot khoob bayaan karte hain.Maza aa jata hai.I want to follow your order of relationships.
Its a suggesstion plz make short clips that can be shared on whataap etc. It will be more easy to share.
Salam Sir. If you do read comments please answer this for me. Is respecting and taking care of Saas Susar (who are like our parents and I totally agree with that) only for females? Are husbands never accountable or even told that his saas susar are like his parents too? Why do we only expect females to treat her saas susar like her parents and this is not expected of or even repeatedly told to the husbands?
محترمہ میں اپ سے متفق نہیں۔ بہت سے شوہر سمجھدار اور خدا خوفی کے تحت بالکل اسی طرح اس کے بھی چار ماں باپ ہیں جیسے بیوی کے چار ماں باپ
بیوی کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم شوہر کرے گا
شوہر کے ماں باپ کی عزت اور تکریم بیوی کرے گی
Maliha our society is dominated by Hindu culture. These traditions have no value in our religion. It’s hard to feel love for a person who doesn’t treat your parents with at least respect ( if not love). It goes both ways
Saas, sasur are responsibilities of saala. Respect and love are always there but in the name of love and respect responsibilities are thrusts on.
@@zakirhusaindema2244 and if there is no sala, what then? Shouldn’t son in law at least visit his sas susr now and then? And encourage his wife to look after them
@@misbahhabib8866 of course son in law should take place of the son in fact it’s a very good opportunity for son in law to gain sawab by doing so. By the way if you really love a person you would love all connected lives and things. For instance majnoon used to kiss a dog belong to Laila’s maholla. Hope you got my point🌹🌷💐 love for all.
اس موضوع پر مولانا وحید الدین خان نے بھی بہت خوب لکھا ہے
MashaAllah..you r right mentor in this society...these days..Allah apko lambi omer d
In Islam order of relationship comes after justice. Justice is the main Islamic rule to follow.
In Surah Al Hadid, Ayah 25, its mentioned,
“We sent Our Messengers with clear signs and sent down with them the Book and the balance in order to establish justice among the people…”
(57:25)
Well chosen words , catered wd awl d ethics n a very imp topic , very well explained . nvr thought of awl ds interlinked behaviours wd ds topic 👍
Mere se shaadi karlo
Very nice, there are many assumptions at the end of your conversation but mostly very informative and useful. Thank you for your efforts.
Assalamu alaikum muje se shaadi karlo
Jazak Allah kahir Salman Sahib
Plz make your podcast too.Love to hear you again n again.
So True.Its all beyond rules and regulations.Beyond......
Jazak Allah for all these tips.
May Allah swt bless this man.
Masha Allah Cover the topic beautifully💞
Creating awareness about this precious knowledge of order of relationship.Your contribution is the essence of perfection and excellence.I would love to be an active part of your organisation.
My teacher 🎉
My mentor❤
Exactly.Mark Twain was right.Forgiveness is the best arrangement.Why carry extra baggage.
Sir JazakAllah you are such a good teacher in my life ..
The best thing is to educate continuously with holding baby .
ALLAH bless you Sir
Allah hifazat farmaye aapki or apki family ki
@1:02
@1:24
BenchMarks/ relationship Goals: 1:24
Excellent lecture thanks
Sir, aapka Quraan ka low of shuker wali baat heart touching
Words of Wisdom.
Ma shaa ALLAH
Ap bare batreen insan hain MashaAllah bhuat Achi batain kahin ap ne Allah Salamat rakhay
In today era or journey a basic problem had distract the relationship of both .ln behind the scenes there is demotivate of people. There is a great need of motivation .sir you are great
Usney Chauda nahi, mager Chudgaya..is so Painfull
Well Explained specifically "Degree of Relationship" JazakAllah Khair.
Shaadi ki jaati hai ke imaan bachaya jae. It doesnt mean ke only legal husband wife relationship ho, balkay apna aap nd apnay aas paas ke logon ke saath is life ke challenges overcome kerna with the help of teachings of Allah nd Rasulullah Sallallahu Aayhi WaSsalaam taakay hereafter life attain ki jae.
Zabardast,
The speaker is ahl e zubaan
Excellent try, however with all humbleness I want to add that the way speaker chose is the way of story telling...
Sir please throw some light on how to internalise them concepts
From feelings point of view, how to classify different feelings at different stages of process of marriage
Because it's interrelation of thought and emotions that creates or can create idiosyncratic behaviour in different agents in a relationship be it marriage or something else....
Jzakullah ho khair
Please forgive me if it is too harsh
Jazaak Allah alkhair.
Such an education should be a must for the marrying people, before their marriage. And should be attached with the marriage registrar. Marriage registry will be done only when this education is taken.
MA SHA ALLAH SALMAN Sahib,,salamat Rahiey
It's realization of responsibilities of ours beloved
MashaAllah.subhanAllah v beautiful conversation
Masha allah bht accha...
His wife is very lucky to have like him husband
Masha Allah Baruk Allah fee amen.
Sir it's amazing really you just elaborate in deep level
Assalamu alaikum muje se shaadi karlo
Deep people understand deep words
I must say if we observe...we will find that marriages can be classified..1.Situations or cirumstances....... 2.persons like each other. 3.parents . 4.society.......................Now how we explain it..... as if two persons like each others and all parents r too..marriage happen.
Second liking is here but parents doesn't like.... marriage not happened.. in some cases persons took courage to make parents agree. Third. Role play of society ....peoples around can influence..may be jealousy.......fourth.... peoples who become religous and say they do marriage for the sake of GOD..... so such religous persons( Mostly depend on liking of parents )want to live in their home and society.... again this is circumstances......the most important thing is patience works a lot and persons capbility having that vision (compromise).one true thing is if two persons marriage happened in young age...(mostly cousin) responsibility fall on man.in young age..focus now is to carry on like make money for a family. Now one important thing is how all peoples know before happening. What is a role play of dua, support, courage, a good conversation............... u can right ur fate..... so dua and prayers work here truly.In all cases,, ... don't forget ...thankfulness, obedience to AllahaSwt, loyalty to Mohammed Pbuh.in way of life matters,as not only in this world and here after too.
That's a wonderful tpix
Thank you for some very valid and beautiful points. However, just one question.. wives have been told to not discuss issues with anyone else, how does it affect her mental health when she keeps everything inside and does not vent it out with anyone over a period of time, just curious.. Thanks
Shuker hai k kisi ko to hayal aya is topic pe bat kerne ka
Achievement of Sakina to both , man and woman