I am am 72 year old Deadhead since 1972. This song came out right after my wife left me and our 4 children. I listened to and sang along with this song almost every night . We did survive. And thrive. I miss Jerry so much.
My dad left my mom with four young kids in 1971-72. She took off for a few days and came back with a car load of hippies and a dog and we were instantly, then and throughout our childhood, hippies. I always wondered where she went. When I went to my first Dead show I thought “Ah, this must be where my mom went!”. Years later while spending a day with Dead & Co. I told Bob Weir that story (and he told me some). His response was slowly spoken “Did it expand her minnnd?”. The whole day was full of the most priceless conversation. You and your kids were as fortunate as we were that your minds were expanded.❤
I was raised in Ayrshire Scotland, saw my first Dead show on the Europe '72 tour🤘🏴💀. Moved to Seattle with my parents and saw them 3-4 more times. Let myself get talked out of going to the closing of Winterland. That would've been epic 💯
My mum left my dad and us 4 kids late 70s my dad did a brilliant job and we wanted for nothing and holidays too it was hard as my dad worked hard as a carpenter and did side hustles too, r.i.p dad miss you loads
From Songfacts: The song is about the band aging gracefully. The phrase "Touch Of Grey" is a reference to getting older, as for most people, their hair starts getting grey as they age. Aging gracefully is a challenge, especially in the music industry. According to Dead drummer Mickey Hart, Robert Hunter wrote the lyric as a pick-me-up. "When he wrote 'Touch Of Grey,' we were struggling," Hart said. "But it became an anthem to us. It perked us up."
For sure. If I remember right, Jerry had fallen into a diabetic coma. When he came out of it and got back to work with the band, they wrote this tune reassuring the faithful Deadheads that they'd, (and we'd) get by. And they did until we lost Jerry for good. Growing up in the Bay Area I got watch The Dead and the Airplane. Sometimes they'd set up in Golden Gate Park and give a free concert. There were so many exciting bands back then - Country Joe & The Fish, Moby Grape, Jefferson Airplane, The Grateful Dead, Taj Mahal, Quicksilver Messenger Service, Big Brother & The Holding Company, then later Santana. We had such wide variety, with Sly & The Family Stone, War, The Electric Flag.
Here you go, my Dead-Head experience... 1984, my wife and i flew to NY, for her father's funeral. Trying to get on a flight after was almost impossible, we were standing at the ticket counter and were desperate for tickets. Both of us in tears afraid of losing our jobs, a young fellow was listening in on the circumstance, after the sales people repeatedly told us there was nothing they could do, the young man tapped my wife onthe shoulder and asked her, "Y'all need to get to Texas, I have a charter going to Houston and we can get ya there tonight." We were completely shocked. They were traveling DEADHEADS and let us have a free ride home, God Bless the band and fans that saved my wife and me. What very cool people 😎.
This is to me, a song written by Hunter to Jerry, If you watch Jerry at some shows he is in a bad mood, and looks like the last thing he wants to do is be a Guitarist in the Grateful Dead But by the time he hits "WE" will survive he is laughing his head off, as the song perfectly reminds him why he and they all are where they are "light a candle curse the glare" perfect
I think you guys complement each other so well because of the different way you each approach music. Jay is all about the music itself: the instruments, the vocals. Whereas I think Amber feels the emotional impact of the music a lot more: not only the lyrics, but how the overall combination of everything makes her feel.
I totally love throwing stones that is a very very good song. Back in 87 I was listening to this stuff while we were camping in Bryson City very good music. You also need to check out the rest of this album with Touch of Gray.
This was their first #1 hit and it was a long time coming. The Dead 's appeal had always been rather select, and this album brought in a lot of new fans. Some of the older deadheads weren't too happy about their little scene blowing up big, but the band earned it. My first show was in 87, right after my senior year.
The Dead definitely had a...unique sound to them that was off-putting to more casual music-listeners. I think with this album they kept their unique song style while making it more accessible, which is why it was so successful.
The problem wasn't new fans. The problem was that some young fans were causing problems on tour and not respecting the scene/culture. The scene got out of control for awhile, led to crackdowns in Shakedown and with stadiums.
@@scottfrench4139 yeah I was at the Pittsburgh show in spring 90. I was at ground zero when it went off. One drunken fraternity types started smashing windows on the outside office ring of the venue. Cops moved in on horseback and did their thing... Then a door opened from the inside and a rush of people, caught between it and rampaging cops, made a mad dash to get through, myself included (tripping mind you). In that crush of humanity my mind flashed back to 10 years earlier at a Who concert in Cincinnati where several people where crushed to death by the crowd. I just pushed people in front of me through the door, making sure they or I didn't go to the ground. Eventually I made it through, safe on the other side where I danced my way into the concourse as security sealed the breach. It was a bad situation. One repeated in coming years. Worst I've seen though.
I followed the grateful dead across the country for 6 years..was in the parking lot when we heard Jerry passed...got a long white beard now and all grey hair (what there is left of it)..this band it s literally the sound track of my life...my mom says I used to sing Ripple to her when I was four...I wouldn't be who I am without them...forever grateful..
I wish I got the chance to follow them like you, however I was fortunate enough to meet Jerry at bills memorial in Frisco. I was the cookie kid, if you were there, ya knew 😂 I can't agree more that this band sculpted my life, and I wouldn't be who I am today, without them. Thanks for sharing!!!!! ✌️ I miss Jerry too. 💜
I remember that day like it was yesterday. I had been out and stopped by my friends’ house. They just heard and came out to the car when I I arrived. We all just cried and cried. They said they were scared to tell me. That night there was a vigil in the park at my small town. Everyone felt so lost. There was instantly a giant hole in all of our lives.
Of all the years and all the shows, this is the only song that ever charted. I was blessed to receive tickets back in 1988 and it's an experience that will live with me forever. I have since gone to a dead show (post Jerry) , seen rat dog, and Phish. My dad passed away 2 months before Jerry Garcia did and there was a song on this album black muddy water that I played for my dad while he was in his last hours along with all his favorite music. I now have a playlist for my eventual funeral the one on top is Ripple by the Grateful Dead.
One of my favourites from The Dead. They played this for 5 years in concert before they finally recorded it on their 1987 album "In the Dark". It deals with aging gracefully, specifically how it affects musicians and the music industry. Not just the fear of gray hair. Just a great tune, with some great guitar work and fun lyrics. Great reaction.Enjoy each day, time flies. Buckets of Maple Syrup love from Canada ❤️❤️ 🇨🇦 🇨🇦
Was never a 'Dead-Head', but did always like the songs I heard over the air. This is one of their most well-known songs, and I DO Like It! Have to include Grateful Dead in any discussion of the Music In the Day. Nice Reaction, You Guys! :)
I've seen the Dead many times in concert - some of the best times of my life. Truly. Here are some fun/upbeat Dead songs for you guys: Sugar Magnolia Bertha US Blues Not Fade Away/Goin Down the Road Uncle John's Band Throwing Stones Every Dead fan has their favorites attached to vague memories. Lol
WELL ROB SQUAD IF YOUR GOAL IS TO MAKE SOMEBODY SMILE THEN YOU HAVE DEFINITELY ACCOMPLISHED IT AS FAR AS I'M CONCERNED TODAY WITH THIS CHOICE!! I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL FROM 1971 UNTIL 1975!! AND AMONGST THE FRIENDS THAT I HAD THERE WERE TWO IN PARTICULAR THAT I ALWAYS THINK OF WHENEVER I HEAR THE GRATEFUL DEAD OR THE ALLMAN BROTHERS!! THESE TWO GUYS WOULD DEBATE NON-STOP AS TO WHO WAS THE BETTER BAND!! THEIR PASSION FOR EACH'S CHOICE GOT ME TO EXPLORE BOTH BANDS MYSELF AND ACTUALLY LOVE THEM BOTH!! I SAW THE GRATEFUL DEAD IN CONCERT SEVERAL TIMES IN THE SEVENTIES AND EARLY '80S!! THE GRATEFUL DEAD WERE KNOWN FOR CONCERTS THAT WENT ON FOR HOURS AND HOURS SOMETIMES ALL NIGHT!! CAN YOU IMAGINE ANY ARTIST TODAY DOING A CONCERT 2 TO 3 HOURS LET ALONE 8 TO 10 HOURS?? THOSE WERE THE DAYS!! 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍
I love the Dead! They have a very extensive catalog, but a few good ones are Franklin's Tower, Casey Jones, New Speedway Boogie, One More Saturday Night, Uncle John's Band and the Orchard Park, NY, 1989 live version of Man Smart, Woman Smarter!
My husband worked for them 2 summers touring through the Pacific Northwest in the early 70s, while going to school. He was a Deadhead until he passed away in 2017. Some of his favorite memories was being Grateful Dead Roadie!
*My home and family for years* I absolutely love the Dead. They were my home away from home from age 18-22, following them from state to state then returning home to Rhode Island and waiting for the next tour to start. So many amazing moments in my life happened with them. I learned more in those 3-4 years than I had up till that point, thanks to enough love, sex, acid, mushrooms, and weed to kill the entire Bolivian army lol. Just the most free and exhilarating experience I've ever had, life has been rather boring ever since. I miss them and my segregate family so much. Here's to all you old Deadheads out there, I wish we could do a family reunion someday, I miss you all. Just think of them as a Psychedelic Country band :) There's so many good ones to hit, here's a starter pack of their most popular songs you haven't done yet..... *Uncle John's Band*: th-cam.com/video/TSIajKGHZRk/w-d-xo.html *Friend Of The Devil*: th-cam.com/video/HHaTRMs_FZA/w-d-xo.html *Sugar Magnolia*: th-cam.com/video/XKx3W-1XVM4/w-d-xo.html *Casey Jones*: th-cam.com/video/d160GSGtPxY/w-d-xo.html *Hell In A Bucket* th-cam.com/video/a9Bs4xhDyxw/w-d-xo.html Peace
Guys you have to imagine 45000 people singing the end of that song. I highly recommend Box of Rain (album version) and the lyrics will change your life.
This song is indeed appreciating life when it throws you curveballs. It was written around 1983 but wasn't recorded in the studio until after Jerry had slipped into a diabetic coma. He came out of it OK but it took a while. After that, when they performed this song live, the I Will Survive chorus took on additional meaning. On top of that, when it switched to We Will Survive, the house would turn the lights onto the audience and everyone would go absolutely bonkers. Their live album, Europe '72 has a treasure trove of top quality live songs which is what they were best at. China Cat Sunflower/I Know You Rider, Cumberland Blues, One More Saturday Night are among the best tracks there but everything is terrific.
Living in Michigan I get seasonal depression, The long, cold winters, everything is white & gray, sucks. Fun YT channels like this one & vitamin D definitely help
I totally agree. In the top ten if not five songwriters I know of. As long as I do not have to hear him sing. When he would open for the Dead nobody came in early so they moved his set to their break🤷♂️
To me, this is about living with a chronic low to medium-grade depression you've been carrying around for so long it seems normal. Meanwhile, things are falling apart around you because you don't have the energy. Of course, now that I'm getting old I can relate to that aspect as well. Sometimes you look back on your life, and it doesn't make much sense. But the switch to "We will get by" gives the song a sense of solidarity, a feeling that you are not going through it alone.
As a kid growing up in the 70's and 80's - the Dead never really appealed to me. Until THE CONCERT. I had scored tickets to a concert at Madison Square Garden in Manhattan.. '87 I'm thinking. And omg, I was blown away - but the music, by the experience it was just so much better live. The audience feeding off the band, and the band feeding off the audience. People dancing in the aisles, nobody could sit down... and I was hooked. I made sure to get to every concert possible after that. I love that you're listening to them - but unfortunately, that's really only part of it. They were an absolute experience live.
this is 100% a band you wanted to see live- you will never feel more a part of something bigger than yourself than at a GD show. I was lucky enough to see them live in the 90s, it was the most amazing sense of belonging I have ever felt Give yourself the time to listen to the entire American Beauty album it's a masterpiece IMO
Grateful Dead were not so much an album group. This was their only song that actually charted. They really needed to be experienced in concert so much so they allowed the audience to record the concert for fan bootlegs. Since you like harmonies you must do Uncle John's Band by them. Great mellow vibes from this band. Thanks for the reaction!
Look into some live stuff, the Dead were primarily a live improvisational jam band. Keep listening you guys like good music, you'll get it. They are a tight original band.
What a great Rabbit hole! The Grateful Dead! With the legendary Jerry Garcia Lead Singer and Guitar Master, Phil Lesh, Bob Weir and too many others to name! Formed out of the Bay area in the 60s. They knew everyone who was anyone. They played all the shows in Golden Gate Park and toured the World for years. Their shows were epic with the Deadheads following them to every show even quitting their jobs to do so. They all kept the hippie flame burning up until Jerry Garcia's unexpected passing in the early 90s. They are fun band that would play a ton of covers in their own unique style plus their own hits. They Had Great support acts from Bob Dylan, to Steve Winwood, to Bruce Hornsby. They would play hours and days - I remember the all night concert at Alpine Valley in Wisconsin. Some other fun hits are Uncle John's Band, Truckin, Scarlet Begonia, Casey Jones, St. Stephen and so many others. Touch of Grey was their highest chart topper in their long career. Their message is don't death - go live your life. Treat each other right and have a great attitude. We don't need riches and fancy shit in life. Simplicity is good. Embrace getting older. Enjoy!
My first concert was the dead at Alpine Valley in 88 I was 13. Really different times. First time I discovered the green leafy substance. Was an awesome experience
At a time when most 60's/70's bands had lost their way musically, along comes The Grateful Dead with this catchy, poignient, radio friendly masterpiece. Written by the great songwriting team of Jerry Garcia and Robert Hunter. You might like "Fire on The Mountain," "Uncle John's Band," and "Sugar Magnolia." So many great songs to choose from.
Loved this! I think Jay would dig "Scarlet Begonias"..one of my favorite Grateful Dead songs. Has a bit of a groove to it. Sublime covered it in the 90s. They did a great job with it.
AMBER HAD TO PAUSE JUST TO SAY THAT I THINK YOU REALLY NAILED IT THAT IS PRETTY MUCH WHAT THIS SONG IS IS AN OLDER GUY KIND OF UNDERSTANDING THAT THAT'S WHAT HIS LIFE IS ABOUT AND HE'S JUST GOING WITH THE FLOW!! WHEN THIS SONG WAS RELEASED THE GRATEFUL DEAD AND JERRY GARCIA MORE SPECIFICALLY HAD BEEN MAKING MUSIC FOR CLOSE TO 40 YEARS!! JERRY WAS DEFINITELY GETTING GRAY AT THIS POINT IN TIME!! I THINK IT WAS PRETTY MUCH HIS WAY OF SAYING YOU KNOW WHAT I'M OLD AND I'VE BEEN AROUND FOR A LONG TIME BUT I'M STILL HERE I'M STILL ON MY FEET AND I CAN STILL MAKE GOOD MUSIC!!!
I'm a long haired, tie dye wearing Deadhead. Like most I followed them on tour for several years. The one song that I will recommend, and it is my personal favorite. Box of Rain. It will forever change how you see the world around you.
This song came out in the late '80s when the band was aging and literally growing gray, 20 years after their heyday in the 1960s. My brother was in jail when it came out and it gave him hope every time he heard it as he awaited the day of his release.
I usually hate music videos, but this song has a great music vid. This song was a huge late hit for the Grateful Dead, 20 or so years after they started. It also propelled Jerry Garcia into an iconic status in the music world (although he didn't care about those things, a really down to earth guy). Sadly he passed away 8 years later. When you went to see the Dead in concert, it was like seeing family. Jay, it's not the Dead that's on trial here (it's you). 😉
The Dead were always considered one of the best bands, since their inception. Each decade brought new sounds and a stronger love of the music. Tough of Grey, and the entire In The Dark album, put the boys on a different stratosphere, with fans - bringing in a new group to enjoy the music and the scenes. They were always considered a live band, first - as their performances were never the same at each of the band's 2,000 plus concerts - around the world. Several ITD songs became mainstays in Dead shows before the album came out. When it did, and the Dead finally had commercial success ... Oh, my goodness.
Wife here.., My Husband Absolutely Loves this band!!..Wow.., you know this was one of their biggest mainstream hits..,( You know they were all about going against the mainstream!!!
Make America Grate Again! The band had been together for around 23 years when this came out. They really shined in their live concerts more than on their studio albums. They let fans record their live concerts and many of those recordings are available on the internet.
I was very glad "The Grateful Dead" came out with this song. It allowed me to see what all the "fuss was about" regarding this band. Jerry Garcia was a special talent and although I was never able to appreciate the 'special vibe" they accessed with millions of their fans I always thought one day I would "get it". And this was the song that did it. RIP Jerry.
This is one of there best songs and albums. A close Friend of mine produced and engineered this album and had me come over to listen to it as he was working on it…. Good times for sure !
I’m with Jay, the jury was always out with them for years, until I saw a live video; they are a true jam band and the live performances were pretty creative and eclectic.
Amber for an old hippie like you I wish you could have seen them play live one time. I saw them live in 1989 or 90 at the old Silver Bowl in Las Vegas with Santana opening. It was an amazing show but the experience was really what I’ve always remembered. We spend all day and evening out there and the parking lot and surrounding area filled with VW mini buses and tents trucks whatever people selling beads or other crafts smoking a lot of weed and listening to music sharing some food and drink and everyone dancing. All through the show all into the evening just a music and culture experience. I was born late 60s and grew up in the 70s but this was easily the most hippie experience I remember (this and visiting the Haight Ashbury section of San Francisco which is still pretty hippie vibe). A great experience though not a Deadhead myself very glad to have had the experience.
The Dead were a live band more than anything. In fact, this album was recorded "In The Dark" (on stage without an audience). I recommend checking out Cornell 05/08/77 & Europe '72.
I have to admit, hearing Jay complaining about Oklahoma winters made me smile. I'm speaking as a Minnesota boy who enlisted, and wound up stationed at Tinker (3rd Herd, "War is our business, everything else is bullshit", sadly defunct now). Married an Okie gal there, and we left about 5 years after I arrived, and I can say that the winter season in OKC is basically late MN October, with actual Winter dropping by to briefly visit on rare occasions. I'm not sneering, just smiling, because I now live up on the Mesabi Iron Range, the current temp is 8F, and the forecast for tomorrow's high is 11F. Y'all will still gripe, of course, but you have is easy down there - and the Tulsa area's even softer! (ask me how I know)
I taught with a man whose wife had SAD. He bought some fluorescent fixtures and put full spectrum tubes in a room that she would use to knit. You guys have a perfect place to get a lot of light. Get some full spectrum tubes and use them for show light. Video can take a LOT of light, so get them to where you guys need your ray-bans. You can take some sun AND do you reactions with a much deeper depth of field. Check with a local lighting specialist to see what's out there now. Love the show.
Great reaction, Jay and Amber! You really have to see the video that goes with this song. You will be blow away! The effects in this video are amazing!
Reminder guys, I'm 74 so I lived through it all. I hitchhiked over 25,000 MI in the late 60s and 70s visited 15 states attended three major Rock festivals Jimi Hendrix spoke to me for real at one. I lived through the experience. the grateful Dead are kind of a niche group very successful and very talented but you had to really like them to like them they had a few commercial successes but that wasn't their gig so I can sympathize with Jay they never were my favorite band but their album American beauty is to die for the whole album is fantastic!
I live in San Francisco so the day Jerry died we of course headed right to Haight and Ashbury and it was a scene, then several years ago we did a shoot with Dead & Co. and the conversations were BRILLIANT. Great memories at the shows and as a local.
Deadheads Unite I know the Grateful Dead very well seen them three times in concert at Autsen Stadium. Met Jerry Garcia my senior party back in 83. It's good to live in Oregon
Toward the end of my teaching career this was my theme song. So many things had changed in education it was hard to cope and old age was getting to me. And everyday as I drove out of the school parking lot I would crank this up and and sing it the whole way home "I will get by, I will get by, I will get by, I will survive!" 😄😄
This is the greatest American rock and roll band, in my opinion. If you want to hear how many genres they encompass, listen to the live versions of "Dancing in the Streets" 5-8-1977 "Eyes of the World" 3-20-90 "Me and My Uncle" 8-27-72 "Morning Dew" 5-8-1977 In that order. All can be found on the TH-cam. Thanks for the great reactions gang. Without a doubt my two favorite reactors. I could hang with both of you, for totally different reasons. 😏
Famous for long jams and dedicated followers. The Grateful Dead was never concerned with record sales or “chart toppers.” Touch of Gray was the first song that was embraced by the main stream, and was on the top 100 chart. To this day, now Dead and Company continue to tour (Bob, Micky, Bill) with friends.
This was my daddy’s song…. He was a dj and went by the voice but his favorite dead song was definitely this song ❤❤❤❤❤ and definitely go watch the video!!!!!!!
I saw the dead back in the late 80s I think the indigo girls opened, and Huey Lewis cam out and played harmonica on a couple songs as a guest. Really fun show.
Appreciate you continuing with this band. Been to about 15 Dead shows. Can't say I'm a Dead Head but it was all about the experience. Peace and love and some great jamming. Thanks for all you do ✌
i had a friend in school, and he would tell you that best part of the show was the party out in the parking lot. but the real die-hards would reference individual live shows(and always had the soundboard tapes to play for you). in the live shows they had a thing called "space" it was open fiddling on their instruments occasionally playing a riff from a song they want to play. if enough of the band wanted to play the same song, they would steer the "space" so it resembles the song until they were ready as a single unit to begin that song. they never had a concrete songlist.
Such a catchy tune with great lyrics. Somewhere in a house I once built, behind the fireplace, these lyrics are written. Twas the mood I was in that day I guess
I remember I used to play this song every time before I had A college presentation because I suffered from "stage fright". This song always reminded me that things keep going and they'll end and be all right :)
I was lucky enough to see The Dead on their 1973 UK Tour, first time I ever saw anybody play over 3 hours, they just kept going. I ended up in the stage scaffolding for a very memorable upfront view. ✌️
I just get this feeling that if you two were around in the 70's and went to a dead show, we'd never see you again or we'd find you 3 months later at another show 1000 miles away "We need tickets!!" 🤣
I am am 72 year old Deadhead since 1972. This song came out right after my wife left me and our 4 children. I listened to and sang along with this song almost every night . We did survive. And thrive. I miss Jerry so much.
Awww sorry that happened to you!
My dad left my mom with four young kids in 1971-72. She took off for a few days and came back with a car load of hippies and a dog and we were instantly, then and throughout our childhood, hippies. I always wondered where she went. When I went to my first Dead show I thought “Ah, this must be where my mom went!”. Years later while spending a day with Dead & Co. I told Bob Weir that story (and he told me some). His response was slowly spoken “Did it expand her minnnd?”. The whole day was full of the most priceless conversation. You and your kids were as fortunate as we were that your minds were expanded.❤
I was raised in Ayrshire Scotland, saw my first Dead show on the Europe '72 tour🤘🏴💀. Moved to Seattle with my parents and saw them 3-4 more times. Let myself get talked out of going to the closing of Winterland. That would've been epic 💯
I cannot think of a better song to forget a bad woman.
My mum left my dad and us 4 kids late 70s my dad did a brilliant job and we wanted for nothing and holidays too it was hard as my dad worked hard as a carpenter and did side hustles too, r.i.p dad miss you loads
From Songfacts:
The song is about the band aging gracefully. The phrase "Touch Of Grey" is a reference to getting older, as for most people, their hair starts getting grey as they age.
Aging gracefully is a challenge, especially in the music industry. According to Dead drummer Mickey Hart, Robert Hunter wrote the lyric as a pick-me-up. "When he wrote 'Touch Of Grey,' we were struggling," Hart said. "But it became an anthem to us. It perked us up."
I thought Uncle John’s Band got up there but not sure. They are in the Pantheon of Music History!
aging gracefully isn't a problem if you're like Cher and have a squadron of Beverly Hills plastic surgeons!
For sure. If I remember right, Jerry had fallen into a diabetic coma. When he came out of it and got back to work with the band, they wrote this tune reassuring the faithful Deadheads that they'd, (and we'd) get by. And they did until we lost Jerry for good. Growing up in the Bay Area I got watch The Dead and the Airplane. Sometimes they'd set up in Golden Gate Park and give a free concert. There were so many exciting bands back then - Country Joe & The Fish, Moby Grape, Jefferson Airplane, The Grateful Dead, Taj Mahal, Quicksilver Messenger Service, Big Brother & The Holding Company, then later Santana. We had such wide variety, with Sly & The Family Stone, War, The Electric Flag.
@@Dragonsinger71 my realtor grew up not far from Grace. Said there were a couple fires there while she was growing up.
Actually he wrote this after he lost his finger. It's about learning to play guitar again.
My favorite Dead song is Uncle John's Band. It's got some great harmonies for you.
"Friend of the Devil" is one of their greatest songs - I recommend it!
Here you go, my Dead-Head experience...
1984, my wife and i flew to NY, for her father's funeral. Trying to get on a flight after was almost impossible, we were standing at the ticket counter and were desperate for tickets.
Both of us in tears afraid of losing our jobs, a young fellow was listening in on the circumstance, after the sales people repeatedly told us there was nothing they could do, the young man tapped my wife onthe shoulder and asked her, "Y'all need to get to Texas, I have a charter going to Houston and we can get ya there tonight."
We were completely shocked. They were traveling DEADHEADS and let us have a free ride home, God Bless the band and fans that saved my wife and me.
What very cool people 😎.
This is one of my favorite songs by The Grateful Dead, because the lyrics still have meaning today
This is to me, a song written by Hunter to Jerry,
If you watch Jerry at some shows he is in a bad mood, and looks like the last thing he wants to do is be a Guitarist in the Grateful Dead
But by the time he hits "WE" will survive he is laughing his head off, as the song perfectly reminds him why he and they all are where they are
"light a candle curse the glare" perfect
I think you guys complement each other so well because of the different way you each approach music. Jay is all about the music itself: the instruments, the vocals. Whereas I think Amber feels the emotional impact of the music a lot more: not only the lyrics, but how the overall combination of everything makes her feel.
They were the kind of band you had to see in person to really appreciate. I believe you would like "Throwing Stones."
I totally love throwing stones that is a very very good song. Back in 87 I was listening to this stuff while we were camping in Bryson City very good music. You also need to check out the rest of this album with Touch of Gray.
The wistful smile that crossed Amber's face as the lyric "oh well a touch of grey kind of suits you any way" is why I watch these reactions.
They are the ultimate chill band. Outdoor concerts amazing as well.
This was their first #1 hit and it was a long time coming. The Dead 's appeal had always been rather select, and this album brought in a lot of new fans. Some of the older deadheads weren't too happy about their little scene blowing up big, but the band earned it. My first show was in 87, right after my senior year.
By the way Amber, one of my favorite lines from a Dead song is "Even a blind man knows when the sun is shining."
The Dead definitely had a...unique sound to them that was off-putting to more casual music-listeners. I think with this album they kept their unique song style while making it more accessible, which is why it was so successful.
The problem wasn't new fans. The problem was that some young fans were causing problems on tour and not respecting the scene/culture. The scene got out of control for awhile, led to crackdowns in Shakedown and with stadiums.
@@scottfrench4139 yeah I was at the Pittsburgh show in spring 90. I was at ground zero when it went off. One drunken fraternity types started smashing windows on the outside office ring of the venue. Cops moved in on horseback and did their thing... Then a door opened from the inside and a rush of people, caught between it and rampaging cops, made a mad dash to get through, myself included (tripping mind you). In that crush of humanity my mind flashed back to 10 years earlier at a Who concert in Cincinnati where several people where crushed to death by the crowd. I just pushed people in front of me through the door, making sure they or I didn't go to the ground. Eventually I made it through, safe on the other side where I danced my way into the concourse as security sealed the breach.
It was a bad situation. One repeated in coming years. Worst I've seen though.
Thank you Amber. Deadheads are alive and well. 66 yr old retired librarian/ Proud Nana who still plays the Dead every single day.
I followed the grateful dead across the country for 6 years..was in the parking lot when we heard Jerry passed...got a long white beard now and all grey hair (what there is left of it)..this band it s literally the sound track of my life...my mom says I used to sing Ripple to her when I was four...I wouldn't be who I am without them...forever grateful..
I wish I got the chance to follow them like you, however I was fortunate enough to meet Jerry at bills memorial in Frisco.
I was the cookie kid, if you were there, ya knew 😂
I can't agree more that this band sculpted my life, and I wouldn't be who I am today, without them. Thanks for sharing!!!!! ✌️
I miss Jerry too. 💜
I remember that day like it was yesterday. I had been out and stopped by my friends’ house. They just heard and came out to the car when I I arrived. We all just cried and cried. They said they were scared to tell me. That night there was a vigil in the park at my small town. Everyone felt so lost. There was instantly a giant hole in all of our lives.
The ultimate trippy hippy band. Last time I seen them in concert around ‘92 they play for almost 4 hours & everyone was dancing in the aisles
Of all the years and all the shows, this is the only song that ever charted. I was blessed to receive tickets back in 1988 and it's an experience that will live with me forever. I have since gone to a dead show (post Jerry) , seen rat dog, and Phish. My dad passed away 2 months before Jerry Garcia did and there was a song on this album black muddy water that I played for my dad while he was in his last hours along with all his favorite music.
I now have a playlist for my eventual funeral the one on top is Ripple by the Grateful Dead.
That's why this is the only Greatful Dead song I am familiar with. It also has a cool music video with skeletons.
@@billebrooks Check out Ripple, you'll be hooked.
The MTV effect.
That video was fire
6:54 whistle through your teeth and spit was for some odd reason my personal favorite line in this great song
One of my favourites from The Dead. They played this for 5 years in concert before they finally recorded it on their 1987 album "In the Dark".
It deals with aging gracefully, specifically how it affects musicians and the music industry. Not just the fear of gray hair.
Just a great tune, with some great guitar work and fun lyrics. Great reaction.Enjoy each day, time flies. Buckets of Maple Syrup love from Canada ❤️❤️ 🇨🇦 🇨🇦
Of all of their great songs...This is my favorite one by this iconic band.
Was never a 'Dead-Head', but did always like the songs I heard over the air. This is one of their most well-known songs, and I DO Like It! Have to include Grateful Dead in any discussion of the Music In the Day. Nice Reaction, You Guys! :)
I've seen the Dead many times in concert - some of the best times of my life. Truly.
Here are some fun/upbeat Dead songs for you guys:
Sugar Magnolia
Bertha
US Blues
Not Fade Away/Goin Down the Road
Uncle John's Band
Throwing Stones
Every Dead fan has their favorites attached to vague memories. Lol
WELL ROB SQUAD IF YOUR GOAL IS TO MAKE SOMEBODY SMILE THEN YOU HAVE DEFINITELY ACCOMPLISHED IT AS FAR AS I'M CONCERNED TODAY WITH THIS CHOICE!!
I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL FROM 1971 UNTIL 1975!! AND AMONGST THE FRIENDS THAT I HAD THERE WERE TWO IN PARTICULAR THAT I ALWAYS THINK OF WHENEVER I HEAR THE GRATEFUL DEAD OR THE ALLMAN BROTHERS!! THESE TWO GUYS WOULD DEBATE NON-STOP AS TO WHO WAS THE BETTER BAND!! THEIR PASSION FOR EACH'S CHOICE GOT ME TO EXPLORE BOTH BANDS MYSELF AND ACTUALLY LOVE THEM BOTH!! I SAW THE GRATEFUL DEAD IN CONCERT SEVERAL TIMES IN THE SEVENTIES AND EARLY '80S!! THE GRATEFUL DEAD WERE KNOWN FOR CONCERTS THAT WENT ON FOR HOURS AND HOURS SOMETIMES ALL NIGHT!! CAN YOU IMAGINE ANY ARTIST TODAY DOING A CONCERT 2 TO 3 HOURS LET ALONE 8 TO 10 HOURS?? THOSE WERE THE DAYS!!
😁😁😁😁😁😁😁❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍
I love the Dead! They have a very extensive catalog, but a few good ones are Franklin's Tower, Casey Jones, New Speedway Boogie, One More Saturday Night, Uncle John's Band and the Orchard Park, NY, 1989 live version of Man Smart, Woman Smarter!
My husband worked for them 2 summers touring through the Pacific Northwest in the early 70s, while going to school. He was a Deadhead until he passed away in 2017. Some of his favorite memories was being Grateful Dead Roadie!
*My home and family for years*
I absolutely love the Dead. They were my home away from home from age 18-22, following them from state to state then returning home to Rhode Island and waiting for the next tour to start. So many amazing moments in my life happened with them. I learned more in those 3-4 years than I had up till that point, thanks to enough love, sex, acid, mushrooms, and weed to kill the entire Bolivian army lol. Just the most free and exhilarating experience I've ever had, life has been rather boring ever since. I miss them and my segregate family so much. Here's to all you old Deadheads out there, I wish we could do a family reunion someday, I miss you all. Just think of them as a Psychedelic Country band :)
There's so many good ones to hit, here's a starter pack of their most popular songs you haven't done yet.....
*Uncle John's Band*: th-cam.com/video/TSIajKGHZRk/w-d-xo.html
*Friend Of The Devil*: th-cam.com/video/HHaTRMs_FZA/w-d-xo.html
*Sugar Magnolia*: th-cam.com/video/XKx3W-1XVM4/w-d-xo.html
*Casey Jones*: th-cam.com/video/d160GSGtPxY/w-d-xo.html
*Hell In A Bucket* th-cam.com/video/a9Bs4xhDyxw/w-d-xo.html
Peace
Guys you have to imagine 45000 people singing the end of that song. I highly recommend Box of Rain (album version) and the lyrics will change your life.
Ditto.
I had "Box of Rain" accompany a collection of pictures and home movies at my late wife's funeral.
I love “Uncle John’s Band”!
This song is indeed appreciating life when it throws you curveballs. It was written around 1983 but wasn't recorded in the studio until after Jerry had slipped into a diabetic coma. He came out of it OK but it took a while. After that, when they performed this song live, the I Will Survive chorus took on additional meaning. On top of that, when it switched to We Will Survive, the house would turn the lights onto the audience and everyone would go absolutely bonkers. Their live album, Europe '72 has a treasure trove of top quality live songs which is what they were best at. China Cat Sunflower/I Know You Rider, Cumberland Blues, One More Saturday Night are among the best tracks there but everything is terrific.
Harmony? Uncle John's Band is a must!
Every cloud has a silver lining - I love how they flip that saying to "every silver lining has a touch of grey." The good always comes with the bad.
9:52 Same here! In concert, when the “I” turns to “we,” it was punctuated by lights that illuminated the audience
I'm 62, you guys always make me happy to have been there, seen it!
I love your excellent reactions.
Living in Michigan I get seasonal depression, The long, cold winters, everything is white & gray, sucks. Fun YT channels like this one & vitamin D definitely help
Robert Hunter was their primary lyricist. A true American treasure.
Bob Dylan
Paul Simon
Neil Diamond
John Prime
Robert Hunter
My American Mt. Rushmore (+1)
I totally agree. In the top ten if not five songwriters I know of. As long as I do not have to hear him sing. When he would open for the Dead nobody came in early so they moved his set to their break🤷♂️
@@ajschroetlin2196 No Joni Mitchell? List needs revision;)
@@johngriswold2213Stills, Young, Robbie Kreiger, Brian Wilson too.
To me, this is about living with a chronic low to medium-grade depression you've been carrying around for so long it seems normal. Meanwhile, things are falling apart around you because you don't have the energy. Of course, now that I'm getting old I can relate to that aspect as well. Sometimes you look back on your life, and it doesn't make much sense. But the switch to "We will get by" gives the song a sense of solidarity, a feeling that you are not going through it alone.
More Ture than true ,. this song is all about the "WE" moment , at a gig, WE explode with love :)
you’re spot on. always felt that way
As a kid growing up in the 70's and 80's - the Dead never really appealed to me. Until THE CONCERT. I had scored tickets to a concert at Madison Square Garden in Manhattan.. '87 I'm thinking. And omg, I was blown away - but the music, by the experience it was just so much better live. The audience feeding off the band, and the band feeding off the audience. People dancing in the aisles, nobody could sit down... and I was hooked. I made sure to get to every concert possible after that. I love that you're listening to them - but unfortunately, that's really only part of it. They were an absolute experience live.
The official video is fantastic, definitely worth watching!
this is 100% a band you wanted to see live- you will never feel more a part of something bigger than yourself than at a GD show. I was lucky enough to see them live in the 90s, it was the most amazing sense of belonging I have ever felt Give yourself the time to listen to the entire American Beauty album it's a masterpiece IMO
Grateful Dead were not so much an album group. This was their only song that actually charted. They really needed to be experienced in concert so much so they allowed the audience to record the concert for fan bootlegs. Since you like harmonies you must do Uncle John's Band by them. Great mellow vibes from this band. Thanks for the reaction!
Look into some live stuff, the Dead were primarily a live improvisational jam band. Keep listening you guys like good music, you'll get it. They are a tight original band.
Did I just hear “These Oklahoma winters are rough,”…??? I am so flummoxed, from Flint, Michigan.
What a great Rabbit hole! The Grateful Dead! With the legendary Jerry Garcia Lead Singer and Guitar Master, Phil Lesh, Bob Weir and too many others to name! Formed out of the Bay area in the 60s. They knew everyone who was anyone. They played all the shows in Golden Gate Park and toured the World for years. Their shows were epic with the Deadheads following them to every show even quitting their jobs to do so. They all kept the hippie flame burning up until Jerry Garcia's unexpected passing in the early 90s. They are fun band that would play a ton of covers in their own unique style plus their own hits. They Had Great support acts from Bob Dylan, to Steve Winwood, to Bruce Hornsby. They would play hours and days - I remember the all night concert at Alpine Valley in Wisconsin. Some other fun hits are Uncle John's Band, Truckin, Scarlet Begonia, Casey Jones, St. Stephen and so many others. Touch of Grey was their highest chart topper in their long career. Their message is don't death - go live your life. Treat each other right and have a great attitude. We don't need riches and fancy shit in life. Simplicity is good. Embrace getting older. Enjoy!
My first concert was the dead at Alpine Valley in 88 I was 13. Really different times. First time I discovered the green leafy substance. Was an awesome experience
At a time when most 60's/70's bands had lost their way musically, along comes The Grateful Dead with this catchy, poignient, radio friendly masterpiece. Written by the great songwriting team of Jerry Garcia and Robert Hunter. You might like "Fire on The Mountain," "Uncle John's Band," and "Sugar Magnolia." So many great songs to choose from.
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Loved this! I think Jay would dig "Scarlet Begonias"..one of my favorite Grateful Dead songs. Has a bit of a groove to it. Sublime covered it in the 90s. They did a great job with it.
Yessss
Sublime’s version is one of those rare covers that’s better than the original.
It's one of my favorites too. Maybe they can do a version with the jam to Fire On the Mountain.
A studio version would just be sad knowing they could enjoy the mind blowing Live Scarlett/Fire at Cornell 5/8/77. 🤷
AMBER HAD TO PAUSE JUST TO SAY THAT I THINK YOU REALLY NAILED IT THAT IS PRETTY MUCH WHAT THIS SONG IS IS AN OLDER GUY KIND OF UNDERSTANDING THAT THAT'S WHAT HIS LIFE IS ABOUT AND HE'S JUST GOING WITH THE FLOW!! WHEN THIS SONG WAS RELEASED THE GRATEFUL DEAD AND JERRY GARCIA MORE SPECIFICALLY HAD BEEN MAKING MUSIC FOR CLOSE TO 40 YEARS!! JERRY WAS DEFINITELY GETTING GRAY AT THIS POINT IN TIME!! I THINK IT WAS PRETTY MUCH HIS WAY OF SAYING YOU KNOW WHAT I'M OLD AND I'VE BEEN AROUND FOR A LONG TIME BUT I'M STILL HERE I'M STILL ON MY FEET AND I CAN STILL MAKE GOOD MUSIC!!!
I'm a long haired, tie dye wearing Deadhead. Like most I followed them on tour for several years. The one song that I will recommend, and it is my personal favorite. Box of Rain. It will forever change how you see the world around you.
the guitar solo in this song takes me somewhere..one of my favorite solo's ever
People loved this band and followed them around the country. This is first band I ever heard of that had such dedicated fans.
I knew Jay would like "Touch of Gray" since it's an 80s song
All love to y’all okies from Texas. I love her face listening to this song. She definitely gets it!
This song came out in the late '80s when the band was aging and literally growing gray, 20 years after their heyday in the 1960s. My brother was in jail when it came out and it gave him hope every time he heard it as he awaited the day of his release.
I usually hate music videos, but this song has a great music vid. This song was a huge late hit for the Grateful Dead, 20 or so years after they started. It also propelled Jerry Garcia into an iconic status in the music world (although he didn't care about those things, a really down to earth guy). Sadly he passed away 8 years later. When you went to see the Dead in concert, it was like seeing family. Jay, it's not the Dead that's on trial here (it's you). 😉
The Dead were always considered one of the best bands, since their inception. Each decade brought new sounds and a stronger love of the music. Tough of Grey, and the entire In The Dark album, put the boys on a different stratosphere, with fans - bringing in a new group to enjoy the music and the scenes. They were always considered a live band, first - as their performances were never the same at each of the band's 2,000 plus concerts - around the world. Several ITD songs became mainstays in Dead shows before the album came out. When it did, and the Dead finally had commercial success ... Oh, my goodness.
Wife here.., My Husband Absolutely Loves this band!!..Wow.., you know this was one of their biggest mainstream hits..,( You know they were all about going against the mainstream!!!
Uncle John's Band--good one!! I think you'd love the harmony in that one!
Make America Grate Again! The band had been together for around 23 years when this came out. They really shined in their live concerts more than on their studio albums. They let fans record their live concerts and many of those recordings are available on the internet.
I was very glad "The Grateful Dead" came out with this song. It allowed me to see what all the "fuss was about" regarding this band. Jerry Garcia was a special talent and although I was never able to appreciate the 'special vibe" they accessed with millions of their fans I always thought one day I would "get it". And this was the song that did it. RIP Jerry.
This is one of there best songs and albums. A close Friend of mine produced and engineered this album and had me come over to listen to it as he was working on it…. Good times for sure !
I’m with Jay, the jury was always out with them for years, until I saw a live video; they are a true jam band and the live performances were pretty creative and eclectic.
watching these videos makes me think of the feeling i had when i first heard these tunes. thank yall so much
Amber for an old hippie like you I wish you could have seen them play live one time. I saw them live in 1989 or 90 at the old Silver Bowl in Las Vegas with Santana opening. It was an amazing show but the experience was really what I’ve always remembered. We spend all day and evening out there and the parking lot and surrounding area filled with VW mini buses and tents trucks whatever people selling beads or other crafts smoking a lot of weed and listening to music sharing some food and drink and everyone dancing. All through the show all into the evening just a music and culture experience. I was born late 60s and grew up in the 70s but this was easily the most hippie experience I remember (this and visiting the Haight Ashbury section of San Francisco which is still pretty hippie vibe). A great experience though not a Deadhead myself very glad to have had the experience.
The Dead were a live band more than anything. In fact, this album was recorded "In The Dark" (on stage without an audience).
I recommend checking out Cornell 05/08/77 & Europe '72.
You two are going to love the wisdom that comes with age and experience.
I have to admit, hearing Jay complaining about Oklahoma winters made me smile. I'm speaking as a Minnesota boy who enlisted, and wound up stationed at Tinker (3rd Herd, "War is our business, everything else is bullshit", sadly defunct now). Married an Okie gal there, and we left about 5 years after I arrived, and I can say that the winter season in OKC is basically late MN October, with actual Winter dropping by to briefly visit on rare occasions.
I'm not sneering, just smiling, because I now live up on the Mesabi Iron Range, the current temp is 8F, and the forecast for tomorrow's high is 11F. Y'all will still gripe, of course, but you have is easy down there - and the Tulsa area's even softer! (ask me how I know)
I taught with a man whose wife had SAD. He bought some fluorescent fixtures and put full spectrum tubes in a room that she would use to knit. You guys have a perfect place to get a lot of light. Get some full spectrum tubes and use them for show light. Video can take a LOT of light, so get them to where you guys need your ray-bans. You can take some sun AND do you reactions with a much deeper depth of field. Check with a local lighting specialist to see what's out there now. Love the show.
Great reaction, Jay and Amber! You really have to see the video that goes with this song. You will be blow away! The effects in this video are amazing!
If you haven't done it already, "Box Of Rain" is one of my favorites!
This song was one of their only mainstream songs...I remember seeing it on MTV when the video first came out. So grateful to have seen them live:))
"Paint-by-number morning sky" is such an evocative lyric!
Have a very Jerry Christmas everyone
One of my favorites..You need to see the video of this song..
I saw the Dead in California back in the 90's! Built To Last, Oh The Wind And Rain are my favs.
Reminder guys, I'm 74 so I lived through it all. I hitchhiked over 25,000 MI in the late 60s and 70s visited 15 states attended three major Rock festivals Jimi Hendrix spoke to me for real at one. I lived through the experience. the grateful Dead are kind of a niche group very successful and very talented but you had to really like them to like them they had a few commercial successes but that wasn't their gig so I can sympathize with Jay they never were my favorite band but their album American beauty is to die for the whole album is fantastic!
I live in San Francisco so the day Jerry died we of course headed right to Haight and Ashbury and it was a scene, then several years ago we did a shoot with Dead & Co. and the conversations were BRILLIANT. Great memories at the shows and as a local.
Deadheads Unite I know the Grateful Dead very well seen them three times in concert at Autsen Stadium. Met Jerry Garcia my senior party back in 83. It's good to live in Oregon
Yes this is a much later song of theirs. Their first hit was Morning Dew from 67, this was their last hit from 87
Saw Grateful Dead with Jerry Garcia. Great concert! "Casey Jones" is worth a listen...
"Eyes of the World" is a masterpiece by The Grateful Dead.
I miss Dead concerts. So much great vibes. Everyone dancing, happy. Never felt anything like it at other shows.
Toward the end of my teaching career this was my theme song. So many things had changed in education it was hard to cope and old age was getting to me. And everyday as I drove out of the school parking lot I would crank this up and and sing it the whole way home "I will get by, I will get by, I will get by, I will survive!" 😄😄
This is the greatest American rock and roll band, in my opinion.
If you want to hear how many genres they encompass, listen to the live versions of
"Dancing in the Streets" 5-8-1977
"Eyes of the World"
3-20-90
"Me and My Uncle"
8-27-72
"Morning Dew"
5-8-1977
In that order.
All can be found on the TH-cam.
Thanks for the great reactions gang. Without a doubt my two favorite reactors. I could hang with both of you, for totally different reasons. 😏
Famous for long jams and dedicated followers. The Grateful Dead was never concerned with record sales or “chart toppers.” Touch of Gray was the first song that was embraced by the main stream, and was on the top 100 chart. To this day, now Dead and Company continue to tour (Bob, Micky, Bill) with friends.
This was my daddy’s song…. He was a dj and went by the voice but his favorite dead song was definitely this song ❤❤❤❤❤ and definitely go watch the video!!!!!!!
I saw the dead back in the late 80s I think the indigo girls opened, and Huey Lewis cam out and played harmonica on a couple songs as a guest. Really fun show.
OMG, you guys simply must watch the concert video for this song with the skeletons. It's absolutely amazing.
The Dead do a very good version of an old song "The Race is On". Hell in a bucket and Uncle John's Band are a couple of favorite's from the Dead.
“Uncle John’s Band” is a great Grateful Dead song.
Appreciate you continuing with this band. Been to about 15 Dead shows. Can't say I'm a Dead Head but it was all about the experience. Peace and love and some great jamming. Thanks for all you do ✌
As a non-deadhead on whom the Dead have been growing over a few decades, I'd suggest Casey Jones, Sugar Magnolia, and Friend of the Devil.
My favourite song.....absolutely wonderful!!!..Great lyrics with such an understated groove.
i had a friend in school, and he would tell you that best part of the show was the party out in the parking lot. but the real die-hards would reference individual live shows(and always had the soundboard tapes to play for you).
in the live shows they had a thing called "space" it was open fiddling on their instruments occasionally playing a riff from a song they want to play. if enough of the band wanted to play the same song, they would steer the "space" so it resembles the song until they were ready as a single unit to begin that song. they never had a concrete songlist.
My favorite, especially for harmonies, from them, is "Uncle John's Band". Please, react to that one?
Such a catchy tune with great lyrics. Somewhere in a house I once built, behind the fireplace, these lyrics are written. Twas the mood I was in that day I guess
Amber looking at Jay when the song is first going, wondering if he is going to get into it '😄;funny and cute.
I remember I used to play this song every time before I had A college presentation because I suffered from "stage fright". This song always reminded me that things keep going and they'll end and be all right :)
I was lucky enough to see The Dead on their 1973 UK Tour, first time I ever saw anybody play over 3 hours, they just kept going. I ended up in the stage scaffolding for a very memorable upfront view. ✌️
Great songs from their Europe 72 live album include Jack Straw, One More Saturday Night, I Know You Rider, and Brown Eyed Women.
I just get this feeling that if you two were around in the 70's and went to a dead show, we'd never see you again or we'd find you 3 months later at another show 1000 miles away "We need tickets!!" 🤣
The song came out in 1987 but was adopted by the soldiers of Desert Shield/Desert Storm on 1990/91 as their theme.
"IT WAS LOVE," by, Chris Eaton, will TRULY hit you right in the HEART!!
TRUST ME!!