This Caught Me By Surprise

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  • @jessicalynam7356
    @jessicalynam7356 6 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    Asa and Cilla, you both keep it real. As your mother I am very proud of you and how you have turned something that is sooo hard into something beautiful, wonderful, and helpful to others. I don’t know what was said , but I know you handle things well. Love you guys. ❤️ Keep looking up

    • @bfunnygirl21934
      @bfunnygirl21934 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jessica Lynam Praying you stay safe through the storm.

    • @amandakimmich
      @amandakimmich 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too! Prayers Asa's mom ❤

    • @jamparker969
      @jamparker969 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hope all are safe!!!

    • @jacquicoder7160
      @jacquicoder7160 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Loved your video, you should get your own channel. You've raised a fine son and you should be proud of him. Hope you are staying safe in the midst of Florence, our prayers are with you.

    • @RabbitTeaPot
      @RabbitTeaPot 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh my gosh your vlogs of the incoming storm were awesome! Hope you and your chickens are safe and well 💕

  • @ashlen8614
    @ashlen8614 6 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Cilla tearing up looking at Asa crying ❤️ you can't think that these guys don't love each other endlessly seeing that

    • @eltwilli
      @eltwilli 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! That's what I was thinking. The look of concern and love on Priscilla's face made ME cry! Such a great family!

  • @Autmazing
    @Autmazing 6 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I don't understand how anyone can watch for more than two minutes and not see that the two of you have a sort of joking banter that is funny and playful and part of your relationship and that obviously you weren't serious (with the exception of possibly some viewers who might miss certain social cues and take things super literally... because I know I have at least one kid who sometimes misses things in that way). I'm sorry you guys are getting those sorts of comments. But I'm glad you're sticking up for yourselves and explaining things for people who are missing what's going on.
    And I loved the footage of your mom's place. She did great vlogging. Hoping they're staying safe right now and this coming weekend.

    • @Autmazing
      @Autmazing 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sarah Johnson Thank you for that explanation. I totally didn’t think of it that way at all. And I’m so sorry you experienced that. Thank you for the insight.

    • @christinap3077
      @christinap3077 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Seriously! This is just a normal part of a loving marriage.

    • @christinap3077
      @christinap3077 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SarahJohnson-ks9ye yes! My parents would never have passionate discussions. Instead, they would put on a happy face and then explode every month or so. So I understand how you're sensitive to tone and conflict in general. I was like you at first but then I learned to communicate with my husband instead of bottling things inside for fear of disagreeing. Sometimes it's easy and sometimes it's hard. But we are so much closer and we have grown together so much. Passionate discussions, even arguments are totally normal and part of growing together. Sometimes you have to weed the garden to enjoy it! 😂

  • @AutismFamilyChannel
    @AutismFamilyChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    There are creators and there are critics. You guys are the former and will be remembered, while critics will fade into the shadows.

    • @Songbird1977jk
      @Songbird1977jk 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think every great creator is made better by listening to constructive critics and understands that if critics are.coming from the right place, and have supported from the start...they should try to listen. By the way, I wasn't a critic on this issue but I don't agree that kissing someone's ass gets anyone anywhere.

    • @AutismFamilyChannel
      @AutismFamilyChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree, like you said it's where the critics are coming from. I'm using it in the negative context of critics...but yes, some people offer constructive help, but in the context of this video, the people making the comments were not being that helpful.

    • @notwhoyouthinkitis2428
      @notwhoyouthinkitis2428 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautifully said!!!

  • @Launica3418
    @Launica3418 6 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I am a rather new subscriber and I never comment on videos, but when I found your channel I instantly fell in love with your family. The appeal of your channel is that you are real. I even got some sunglasses just to support your message. I understood you were just messing around and i totally get your humor.

    • @elenagibbons4719
      @elenagibbons4719 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Miranda your comment just describes my experience with them completely. When I first saw the channel I feel in love as I remember lying in bed one night early on, wondering what Abbie was doing then. I wish I could still watch every vlog but school is making me so busy and I don’t have time to catch up on a weeks worth of vlogs on the weekends... I’ll still try to watch as many as I can though!

    • @Tracy-dq6mk
      @Tracy-dq6mk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too, Miranda!! I have been driven to comment....and I don't use youtube outside of the classroom setting. This family is so freakin' awesome!!

  • @BellaBoosLunches
    @BellaBoosLunches 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm also a real subscriber and friend and I don't think any of you are bad people. I love how real you are. Stay real, stay strong, stay the way you are. 💕👍

  • @ashleighhunt2150
    @ashleighhunt2150 6 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Some people just dont have the same sense of humour. I thought it was funny because I know Priscilla would get her own way anyway 😂
    On another note, your mum needs her own TH-cam channel. She is super cute!!

    • @jessicalynam7356
      @jessicalynam7356 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ashleigh Hunt How precious are you!!

  • @chararagon8785
    @chararagon8785 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing family and amazing people. Your children are really sweet and caring. Great job!

  • @neckdeepjohn7374
    @neckdeepjohn7374 6 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I subbed to you last night and I’ve been binge watching your videos

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Glad you found us!

    • @lilliantrevino6940
      @lilliantrevino6940 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I Been Watching And Watching

    • @geminitwice2
      @geminitwice2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love watching you each and every night

    • @hm6134
      @hm6134 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes their videos are amazing.

  • @ItsJoeysworld
    @ItsJoeysworld 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Asa, so sorry about the frustration . We get it! .But in the big picture, there's so much more important things than Abbie's hairstyle, or the music she listens to.I think folks just like to be "judgy-judgy", and don't realize how petty some things really are. And we LOVE the dry, sarcastic sense of humor that you guys all have, just keep being you and the rest will fall into place! You guys are the best!

  • @cheridampier2524
    @cheridampier2524 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Thanks for allowing me to be part of the Maassquad family! Like ALL FAMILIES EVERYWHERE , there will be misunderstandings and miscommunication, but love can get us through it all. Y'all may share your lives with us but you aren't scripted actors in a series, and real people get hurt by harsh comments. C'mon Maassquad, let's think about who we are talking about and everything I have ever seen about Asa and Priscilla tell me that he would NEVER speak to his love that way. Sorry y'all for MY rant, got frustrated with a couple of my "brothers and sisters " lol

  • @craftyoldlady
    @craftyoldlady 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Awww! Asa, your tears and Pricilla's look of love and concern. You guys are so sweet!

  • @kimbak7178
    @kimbak7178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Couples are allowed to disagree. I've never seen you treat Priscilla with anything but respect in your videos. I can't believe that was even an issue for people. Also my autistic son sometimes listens to music thst would be deemed inappropriate by other people. Certain songs make him happier then others. It's not the words, it's the beat. Thanks for being real with us.

    • @becomeblackbelt
      @becomeblackbelt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Karen D'Amour I so agree. I have ASD lvl 2 and it’s definitely the music. The words are not there at all. I totally understand Abbie and your son.

  • @pamelarentschler8289
    @pamelarentschler8289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    WOW! Married couples are NOT to disagree.....ever? Thats called LIFE........you all are perfect in my eyes

  • @kaitlini.7972
    @kaitlini.7972 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I knew you were joking; you are a really good husband and father 💙

  • @juliadickenson178
    @juliadickenson178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so upset that you’re upset. You give us all so much pleasure and fun and insight. Always stay JUST as you are. Thank you.

  • @morgan_c
    @morgan_c 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You all are *AWESOME* . Keep being great!!💜

  • @irenegill4573
    @irenegill4573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww... almost 8 months later I am watching this & I want to jump through the screen & give you all hugs! I know...words hurt, & when things get twisted around to seem like or be like something different, doesn't make it any better. Sending LATE healing hugs!!!

  • @mindyvanhorn3199
    @mindyvanhorn3199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Asa, I totally got that you were joking, I thought it was funny! There are definitely people out there who think it's their job to criticize and trample people down. They seem to be out in force because I noticed this within the last week with a other Vlogger. This saddens me, there is far too much hate and negativity out there lately!

  • @vickiep1234
    @vickiep1234 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys banter so what !!! that’s fun ........you guys are awesome !!! 💕Don’t worry about what people say .......you guys don’t need to explain yourself to anyone ........ if some people are having a problem they can get steppin !!!!!! Ugh people !!!!

  • @koreanchick1417
    @koreanchick1417 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm pretty sure I realized in the very first video I watched that yall were a funny and sarcastic family and that's probably a big reason I subbed bc I love it! It boggles my mind that people really and truly thought you were serious yesterday! And it's pretty obvious Priscilla is a strong woman...pretty sure if you spoke to her like that she would "knock you into next week" as we say in the south..lol!

  • @nataliekirhen42
    @nataliekirhen42 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "If her first words were Tupac lyrics, I'd be so freakin' happy!" Best line ever. You guys are fantastic!

    • @mariaespinoza6358
      @mariaespinoza6358 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or ... When I say snacks, I mean SNACKS!!! Teenager here! Let me EAT! I'm HunGry!!! 😝😛🥛🍪🍩🍟🍨🍫

  • @Bigj9070
    @Bigj9070 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    People that say those hurtful things obviously don’t understand who you are or your sense of humor. Lauren and I love you guys. Y’all have been a second family to us. I feel lucky to have your family in our lives and to watch everyday.

  • @thefinalpam_
    @thefinalpam_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for always being so transparent and vulnerable with us!

  • @Prematurenostalgia
    @Prematurenostalgia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    "the grapes you rescued before the storm took em'"
    aww i love your mom hahahaahaa.

  • @carriebowlen3785
    @carriebowlen3785 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE BEING YOUR FRIEND! I love you so much!! Thanks for sharing your lifes with all of us. How is everyone? Thanks for always spreading kindness and love to all of us in our communities!!

  • @debbiejordan5154
    @debbiejordan5154 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I'm so sorry that people had to be so rude! Yall are Amazing people and so very real!! Asa your an Amazing Husband and Dad!! Priscilla is so Amazing!! She is so beautiful and a wonderful mom and wife!! Keep on being yall!!

  • @jessichristensen7355
    @jessichristensen7355 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Life is so much easier to tackle with humors and laughter! Be proud of that you dare to be real ❤

  • @dinkytink9726
    @dinkytink9726 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I see nothing but pure devotion between you both and pure devotion to your children. Anyone with a brain cell can see that. I've watched you since last summer and you have no idea how much you help so many people in the autism family! Keep being you!!

  • @mariearmstrong3489
    @mariearmstrong3489 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    All of you are amazing. For you to open your doors to all of us is so appreciated. I have a grandson who has autism. Your blog is so helpful to my daughter who struggle's to know what to do. You have help us so much.

  • @spirit12317
    @spirit12317 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You guys are amazing! I’m always looking forward to your videos every day! Some people in this world are rude and jerks. Never let them bring you down. You’re all strong! Love you all

    • @leahleeG
      @leahleeG 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      So do I

  • @faitheepoo
    @faitheepoo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I would totes watch your mom's vlogs❤❤❤ praying for them and those in this storm

  • @jennifernelson2702
    @jennifernelson2702 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Asa, I didn’t think you were being anything but a loving and comical father and husband. Haha you shared your opinion even though you knew you weren’t going to win. You are right that those rings are ridiculously expensive and hardly worn. I can also see Priscilla’s side being a sentimental mom. The conversation yesterday sounded like one that would happen in families all over. Just a small disagreement with some humor mixed in. I love your family and haven’t ever thought anything negative about you or your family. Lots of love to you all! ❤️

  • @primarymedworks
    @primarymedworks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am constantly telling other parents and school staff in Broward County, South Florida, about your channel. This week I told them about your idea to help put our children to work for the school district in appropriate positions, if possible. Keep it up please!!
    After watching your mom’s videos I can tell where you get your skills from, great job Mom!!

  • @tracymcmullen5161
    @tracymcmullen5161 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wish there was a "LOVE" button...... I totally appreciate the realness!

  • @christinepartington312
    @christinepartington312 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm newish to this channel and it Really broke my heart too see how upset you were! Just wanted to reach through the screen and hug you and cilla. You're an amazing family with a big heart and a kind spirit. Nobody should judge you nobody is perfect whatever that actually means. Keep being the amazing people you are! much love to you all and your beautiful dog maverick. (BTW I love your mums chickens) xx

  • @amandablake3883
    @amandablake3883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Asa you are an amazing father and husband! I know its hard but try not to worry about others opinions. Priscilla you look gorgeous!, always do, but especially so today!

  • @debbiewilson8863
    @debbiewilson8863 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m from Scotland I’ve just started watching u guys u r amazing at making people aware of what autism is for people who don’t understand it thank u

  • @alicebiggs9230
    @alicebiggs9230 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    People are so quick to judge when it really isn't needed. If you don't know the people making the comments and rude remarks then there opinion shouldn't matter to you. As long as in your heart you know what your doing is right for you and your family then that's what's matters.

  • @tankgirllovesroos
    @tankgirllovesroos 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in Charleston SC and bumped into these videos. Really try not to be bothered by that stuff. Thank you for the insight and your family and son(yes I felt like I needed to separate that to give him kudos) is amazing!

  • @joanneierovante7277
    @joanneierovante7277 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Priscilla, you look beautiful. Congrats on your weight loss journey!

  • @staceymullins495
    @staceymullins495 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how real you all are. Most of us understand your humour and those that don't will soon realise. You both have nothing but love and respect. Have a great day love you guys xx

  • @t.peoples3339
    @t.peoples3339 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Mr. Mass continue to be real but to know you are that touched means a lot. Love from a new fan.

    • @HL-bz9lv
      @HL-bz9lv 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      .❤ Maass Family ❤.

  • @saramchugh4618
    @saramchugh4618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your openness and honesty, I absolutely love your family, you are so obviously a loving, joking , sarcastic family which is what makes you such a joy to watch. Sometimes people are dealing with their own junk and it transfers on to something else. Folks who on any other day would have seen that and thought it was funny, but yesterday they were having a lousy day, so they relayed that through comments.
    I have to say, I look forward everyday to my little notification popping up that your video has uploaded, Now if I could only remember to go over to You Now, before 11p 💖😊

  • @kmw0185
    @kmw0185 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve said it before but I’ll say it again! Your moms laugh is almost as great as Cillas. Contagious even in the chaos of the storm.

  • @emilykyle9601
    @emilykyle9601 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I’ve been on a binge on your channel recently. Re watching all the old videos that pulled me in the first time. This broke my heart. I’m so sorry anyone has any bad things to say about y’all. ESPECIALLY when it comes to Abby and the terrible things people say about your parenting. She is SO happy, so well cared for, literally couldn’t ask for better. Just showing I support and am great full through all this you still share ♥️ it really does bring me joy, entertainment, education and awareness.

  • @leahleeG
    @leahleeG 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So having a rough day not feeling good and been laying on the couch or sitting on the couch rocking. 🤕😷 I have autism but high functioning

    • @betrix3000
      @betrix3000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope you feel better. Sorry to hear that you're having a rough day.

  • @limitlessintuition
    @limitlessintuition 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Since I found this channel I've been watching non stop..abby is such a beautiful young lady and she is so smart..you guys work extra hard everyday to teach her and guide her it's really beautiful to watch. You have such a kind son and he really loves his sister and that shows too...you guys, your family deserves the best well wishes and love sent your way from NC 🙂❤

  • @melissadeveau-crowell4733
    @melissadeveau-crowell4733 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Seriously people if you watch this channel at all you should know that Asa and Priscilla have a great relationship! I found it clearly obvious that they were joking around. You guys have relationship very much like my husband and I do. Hats off to you Asa and Priscilla for letting us into your lives and home daily. Don't worry about the haters you can't make everyone in life happy all the time .Just continue being you .

  • @natalieveilleux1305
    @natalieveilleux1305 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are awesome, and you guys are real. Please keep posting your videos, they are so inspiring to me and my newly diagnosed 8 year old autistic daughter. I subscribed only about a week ago and I’m completely hooked to your channel! And i totally get your jokes and sarcasm ;). Looking forward to your next vlog!! Oh and Abi rocks! So beautiful, looks so much like her mother :)

  • @hearsthewater
    @hearsthewater 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You sound like me Asa. It bothers me more that someone could think that I am capable of being horrible, than that I did something horrible.

  • @TheTwinklegal3
    @TheTwinklegal3 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! You guys are great!!! I have only been watching for a few weeks, and watching off and on all - more ON than OFF - and I would even already know that your relationship as a family is sooo genuine and supportive and encouraging and positive ..... wow!!! Yes, you hav made yourself vulnerable by making yourself accessible .... but thank you!!! Praying for you guys right now!

  • @cajunbyblood
    @cajunbyblood 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    In yesterday's vlog when u said "im putting my foot down" then u stomped your foot was the funniest part. You are not a bad person. Ur goofy and funny.

  • @melissaporter3805
    @melissaporter3805 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope your family in NC is doing ok, we are in the Raleigh area and luckily have had no issues. I stumbled upon you guys a few days and have been binging ever-since. I have so much respect for what you are doing to show the world the very real and human side of autism. Keep up all the great work!

  • @CherrySoda9-9
    @CherrySoda9-9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It makes me sad that YOU feel sad. Stuff like this is actually why I tend to avoid reading the comment section on every vlog channel I'm subscribed to because there always seems to be drama that could be avoided if people would take a few minutes to actually READ when vloggers give extra explanations and not just spout off a comment without thinking about the fact that you're real people. I understand that not everything comes across as intended sometimes and it's okay for people to ask questions for clarification, but honestly, just take a few minutes to scroll through and see if the comment or question you want to leave has already been addressed! Also so important what you said, Asa; the people you're watching on TH-cam are REAL people with REAL feelings, and even though you may feel entitled to give your opinion however you want, treat the comment section as if you were talking to the person face-to-face. Would you say what you wrote to their face? I love you guys and I hope you don't feel as though this incident reflects how the majority of us feel about you and your family.

  • @garfield5788
    @garfield5788 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey guys, do not change a thing with how you are expressing yourselves please ! You are all awesome the way you are, which is a normal, happy, caring and yes, frustrated family. I have been a subscriber from day one, love all your individual personalities - just watching your daily volgs puts a smile on my face. Acer, you are the best dad, husband person ever, keep on smiling and just being YOU - my husband could learn from you how to be a true gentleman xx

  • @rosdoll
    @rosdoll 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Huge virtual hug Asa...keep on being yo'self k?

  • @daintydollies7694
    @daintydollies7694 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a home care nurse for chronically ill pediatrics, most of which are atypical. It’s funny because when they love music rap, and hip hop music is the one that they are most drawn to. I think it’s the best. They aren’t paying attention to the words so who cares as long as they are enjoying themselves! It’s hard for people who don’t work with these kind of children to understand sometimes. I love what your family is doing. You’ve even taught me patience with my patients when I already thought I had plenty!

  • @kris2671
    @kris2671 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your Mom HAS got to start vlogging, love her😁💙. Perfect southern charm.😁

  • @lyndi9249
    @lyndi9249 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You both are amazing I’ve been watching you guys for months now and I’m hooked I just love everything about your family I’m from Florida till the Jaguars fan I’ll have breaks my heart that people are commenting but I’m so happy you do you know defended yourself and apologize or you don’t just try to make it right you guys are so real and such an amazing family love you guys so much

  • @joanneierovante7277
    @joanneierovante7277 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm learning so much from your family. You all are awesome. Keep up the great work. It's obvious how much you love and respect one another :)

  • @emma66676
    @emma66676 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    just found your channel ... hi im in the uk i love your channel already more channels like yours are needed to educate familys and people ... i personally do not have a child with autism but my son walked in and sat down while i was watching hes 14 he has been asking questions which you have given him the answers and now has some understanding on autism so thank you so much for sharing your daily lifes xx

  • @deecates7715
    @deecates7715 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am kinda new here but I have watched some of your older vlogs and I never thought you were being serious. You guys remind me quite a bit of my ex-husband and myself and how we were before things got bad between us. Lol. The people who really know us used to say we were a lot like Dan and Roseanne lol.
    And I can only speak for myself but I love watching your vlogs because you are real in them and your not like so many other vloggers. Anyway that's all I wanted to say.

    • @oldcna
      @oldcna 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I fell in love with your family and Abby is precious!

  • @lynncinnamonasmr
    @lynncinnamonasmr 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I relate to this struggle with comments and stuff so much.

  • @adrianasala2780
    @adrianasala2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    When you did the whole stomp the foot down I mean come on people if that's you angry then I want more of that lol was hilarious 💞
    Edit : please don't cry again ! You cleared it up now for everyone , everyone can just move on 💞

  • @hye-seonkim1115
    @hye-seonkim1115 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Guys, I've not long started watching your videos. I've come to love watching your family because you are who you are and for that I credit you. I felt your emotion through the camera. I feel sad though you feel you have to explain yourself all the time. Keep up your fabulous work. 🤗👍❤❤

  • @jenniferhill1882
    @jenniferhill1882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m watching this late but Asa your breaking my heart.

  • @paigebuldo6616
    @paigebuldo6616 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Love that you spoke your mind at the end. I have a 3 year old, that is so much like your Abby. We have a long way to go with our little girl, Addy. Our journey is just beginning. If my daughter cussed me out....I would be thrilled. For no other reason than she spoke to me. Keep doing you guys! Proud of you!!

  • @riffraff7721
    @riffraff7721 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Grapes that I rescued" lol. Your mom's segment had me laughing so much.

  • @Dezail
    @Dezail 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me and my husband are the same way, I've had friends, co-workers and even a few strangers ask why I put up with that kind of person. It's just so hard to get it through some people's heads that it's joking banter and it's not serious at all. I do have to say I've enjoyed following your blog and I look forward to the content that you guys put out! #MaassSquad Y'all are amazing!

  • @hs489242
    @hs489242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love you guys!! I love that your real!! And you show real life, and that Asa you love to Joke. I love it

  • @crystalnicole1287
    @crystalnicole1287 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the best video I've watched! The way you addressed the people who are constantly telling you how to raise Abbie was spot on! Tupac lyrics ❤... People do need to realize y'all are real people ... You and Priscilla have a great relationship and you are both great parents. Ahhhh some people are just jerks! Stay true and please don't change anything

  • @kmbrooks96
    @kmbrooks96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m just watching 8 months later. I watched the class ring video the other day. It was so obvious that you were joking. And that you would lose. I wonder if people were projecting their stuff into the video.

  • @samanthamurphy2019
    @samanthamurphy2019 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have only just found your channel a few weeks ago..I’m totally addicted!!! You are awesome wonderful people!! You are never going to make everyone happy,please just remember it’s us watching you guys so ya must be doing something right hey??? Otherwise no one would watch! You are all awesome

  • @Cutshall080808
    @Cutshall080808 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Not sure how to phrase this and I really hope it comes across clearly. I almost find yesterday’s misunderstanding to be a positive thing. I’m so sorry that you are feeling so beat up about it but from my view on the sidelines over here I see people (aka the misunderstanding commenters) who saw something they feel is unkind and they made it known that that kind of treatment of others is not ok. Yes, I know you are joking and I really feel for you over all this but just think about how great the world would be if we all stood up when we saw someone who we truly felt needed our support. Just trying to make lemonade out of your lemons over here. Hope you have a wonderful weekend!!!

  • @G4RA
    @G4RA 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your mom vlogs is the cutest thing ever!! Omg she was very good please keep her posting us about the weather!

  • @RabbitTeaPot
    @RabbitTeaPot 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my days! I didn’t get a bad vibe from that video, to me that’s just how some couples are in their sense of humour. You guys are the ONLY family Volg I watch, I find the others insipid! It’s so obvious you all love one another very much & would do ANYTHING for one another. I do think your a positive role model for a lot of people, watching you & Priscilla working hard to make sure your kids want for nothing, materialistically and emotionally. It also shows in the way your kids behave,it’s impossible to have such caring siblings with out good role models . Don’t be sad :( we love your family very much. Viva la Mass squad!

  • @ciyerrahvillanueva304
    @ciyerrahvillanueva304 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My heart :,( cilla is so concerned about him being upset I love y’all

  • @AngieeTuSabez
    @AngieeTuSabez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It’s people who aren’t in a relationship they don’t understand how some people are when they are together, my husband and I talk to each other in a way that people would be really worried lol but we are joking we always are laughing at each other

    • @Juwlz
      @Juwlz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly, I almost wrote the exact same thing. My late husband and I were together 14 years before he died, since I was 14 years old and we went back and forth all the time, it was funny and I miss that comfortable bantering so much. My husband was always making jokes and I remember when we were like 18 he was jokingly calling me something, I think he called me a blasphemous wench because I said I hated something. I'm sure it sounded mean, but I knew he was joking, obviously he was joking but we were at a grocery store and this older couple gave him the dirtiest look, and kept staring him down . He found it hilarious

    • @559chicana4
      @559chicana4 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats me n my husband too

    • @tracie9769
      @tracie9769 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not all single people don't get things that are said I totally get married couples

  • @karidumboski3308
    @karidumboski3308 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE TOU GUYS!! Asa I’m sorry you were hurt! It breaks my heart!

  • @bluebird4805
    @bluebird4805 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Whoa! So sorry this happened to you! In no way were you ever abusive or even rude! Now I’m rethinking my husband’s reaction to my wanting a 🐶, almost a year after losing one. I need the 12 dislikers here to write a puppy petition for me. Haha. ☺️ I am horrified that anyone made you defend your relationship!

  • @dnv1225
    @dnv1225 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like your channel. I'm worked with autistic children for two years. Abby is so sweet. You guys are great parents

  • @G4RA
    @G4RA 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m very literal but I always give the benefit of the doubt... cause I know it’s me most of the time... maybe a winky eye to us it make it easier to understand Priscila is so precious I know you care about her and love her... about Tupac is music just let her be don’t worry about people jugging your parenting is Your life and Your daughter... she is free with the music... let her be.

  • @sabbagecabbage5743
    @sabbagecabbage5743 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this made me cry i love you guys i have a 13year old daughter with autism as well and its true my daughter listens to music i wouldnt let my other children hear but it makes her happy so you carry on as you are because your amazing x

  • @christinabonnell7953
    @christinabonnell7953 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guy's are a awesome family 🤗

  • @j.r.9631
    @j.r.9631 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been subscribed for a while now and I can say that I love this family channel. Normally I’m not into family channels but this is something different. I just love the realness that you show😌

  • @kathrynburrowes3102
    @kathrynburrowes3102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Asa rockin' the TIHWB swag!!😊

  • @janettereynolds3372
    @janettereynolds3372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwww the empathy of Cilla crying when Asa does🥲🥲🥲😥😥😥

  • @donnal3904
    @donnal3904 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People always have something to say, unfortunately, the negative comments always stand out. Your relationship with your wife and your family is beautiful, don't ever let someone else bring you down. Pisses me off, so sorry this happened to you.

  • @janek7618
    @janek7618 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I guess I missed that video or part of it. I love your realness and your love and respect for each other.

  • @jenneab2308
    @jenneab2308 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    All soda is gross 🤢 If I saw you guys in public I would def say hi but I would be like a little star struck 🤩 I almost fell out of my chair when P responded to me on Fb but I had to play it cool 😁😆

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Glad you played it cool lol.

    • @jenneab2308
      @jenneab2308 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      FatheringAutism 🤩🤩

  • @alyssa-ds9fu
    @alyssa-ds9fu 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Realist channel on TH-cam the fact that you still try and explain yourself when you don't have to shows a lot you are appreciated!

  • @debbiejordan5154
    @debbiejordan5154 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    #MaassSquad
    AMAZING FAMILY

  • @queenjray
    @queenjray 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video broke my heart!!! You guys are AMAZING people!!! Please don't for one second think that you guys are doing ANYTHING wrong. I truly look forward to your daily vlogs, they brighten my day and let's me know that I am not alone out here in the non-verbal autism world of parenting. Your love for each other is so evident and true!! Just by the way you guys look at each other. Keep up the great work Maas Family, WE LOVE YOU!!

  • @nenav8493
    @nenav8493 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Come on Abbie say Tupaccc🙏🏻😂❤️

  • @janeenharroun6281
    @janeenharroun6281 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I started watching your vlog quite accidentally and I have learned so much. Thank for opening up your home and life to us.

  • @wendylawton8274
    @wendylawton8274 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm guessing that viewers' reaction is more tied to their own experiences and triggers than to you. I like it that you are sensitive to them-- no telling what is in our backgrounds that makes us react to things.

  • @hinanajeeb391
    @hinanajeeb391 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have been a subscriber for quite a few months now... im so glad i stumbled upon your channel! Love it!! Its me *go to* thing every morning while i hv my breakfast! You guys are awesome! And real! And thats what makes u stand out! Keep doing what u do... love from the other side of the world! (From Pakistan)

  • @CCBear-jc6lz
    @CCBear-jc6lz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re wearing a This is how we Bingham hat!!!

  • @kieralynch9320
    @kieralynch9320 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your family and your children are so perfect and support. So helpful